(06-16-2014 08:17 PM)Borealis Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 07:34 PM)Blue Streak Wrote:  Seems like a perfect opportunity for some innuendo to sexualise the conversation if you ask me.

Something simple like "you should try it sometime " or "I'll show you how it's done sometime ". Then, when she accuses you of being sexual or "dirty", play innocent and accuse her of having a dirty mind.

Okay I just texted" "I'll show you how it's done sometime how flexible are you?" Hope she eats it up.

I would decrease your texting ratio (most specifically, I'm always monitoring to see if I'm contributing more than she is). Also, I try pretty hard to follow Heartiste's advice to never text a question mark.

Effort spent trying to get girls to respond/text/engage is usually better spent meeting new girls who already-want-to-do-that.

(06-16-2014 08:21 PM)party1981 Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 08:17 PM)Borealis Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 07:34 PM)Blue Streak Wrote:  Seems like a perfect opportunity for some innuendo to sexualise the conversation if you ask me.

Something simple like "you should try it sometime " or "I'll show you how it's done sometime ". Then, when she accuses you of being sexual or "dirty", play innocent and accuse her of having a dirty mind.

Okay I just texted" "I'll show you how it's done sometime how flexible are you?" Hope she eats it up.

I would decrease your texting ratio (most specifically, I'm always monitoring to see if I'm contributing more than she is). Also, I try pretty hard to follow Heartiste's advice to never text a question mark.

Effort spent trying to get girls to respond/text/engage is usually better spent meeting new girls who already-want-to-do-that.

What's wrong with using question marks? I've seen lots of people use question marks and other punctuations and they have killer game.

Oh and she just wrote back "more flexible than the average person I think" ugh. I'm tempted to write back "Let's put that to the test shall we? Insert your contact # here _______"

Ok, I've got one. I responded to this girl's (20, cute blonde) ad on CL looking for either a teacher or cop to hook up with to fulfill a fantasy. I am a university professor and that seemed to work for her. We emailed back a forth a few times, then she gave me her number without me having to ask and the conversation moved to text.

We texted a bit over the next couple of days, sexualising immediately. I even called her the following evening to build comfort, teasing her and telling her how I was going to fuck her. We organised to meet in three days time (during the day on a Sunday) so she could come to my office and we could fuck (part of her fantasy). She texted me the following day, still being sexual. Then suddenly she went silent and when I sent a confirmatory text on Sunday morning she responded with a flake.

Text messages from Friday (day after talking on the phone) onwards:

Her: Mmmmmmm thinking of you
Me: Naughty thoughts, I bet.
Her: Haha of course
Me: Good girl. Tell me.
Her: Just of you bending me over the desk and taking advantage of me [emoticon that I don't understand]
Me: Pushing your skirt up and pulling your sexy, already damp panties down around your knees to expose your pink pussy begging for my cock.
Her: [emoticons showing she liked it]
Her: Soooooo hot
Me: Do you want my cock?
Her: Yep bad
Me: Tell me where you want it

No response. I try to restart the next evening:

Me: Am waiting for your homework, Ms. [Name]. (Working the teacher student fantasy angle, which I had done a bit previously. Her 'homework' was to think in more detail about her fantasy and then to text it to me)

Again, no response. The next morning (day we had arranged to meet) I send her the confirmatory text and she flakes:

Me: Hey babe. Meet me at [local landmark which is public and has lots of people] at 1pm. We will check each other out and then head to my office for some fun. Time to fulfill your fantasy.
Her: I don't think I can anymore today. I have work today I have been called in...
Me: Unfortunate, babe. I was looking forward to testing out your claim of being able to cum 10 times. Perhaps another time then.

I figure give it a few days and then try to re-initiate later in the week. I am just wondering whether to keep it casual or to try and go straight back to the sexualisation in order to remind her why we came into contact in the first place. For the latter, I was thinking of texting something about a hot young student sexily dressed who came to my office for help with her studies and was flirting with me, which got me horny and reminded me of CL chick.

Thoughts?

(06-16-2014 08:34 PM)Borealis Wrote:  Oh and she just wrote back "more flexible than the average person I think" ugh. I'm tempted to write back "Let's put that to the text shall we? Insert your contact # here _______"

I would keep it shorter. Just write, "We'll see. Insert # here _______"

(06-16-2014 09:01 PM)Blue Streak Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 08:34 PM)Borealis Wrote:  Oh and she just wrote back "more flexible than the average person I think" ugh. I'm tempted to write back "Let's put that to the text shall we? Insert your contact # here _______"

I would keep it shorter. Just write, "We'll see. Insert # here _______"

Texted her that and now she's not responding. Should I just move on?

(06-16-2014 08:34 PM)Borealis Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 08:21 PM)party1981 Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 08:17 PM)Borealis Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 07:34 PM)Blue Streak Wrote:  Seems like a perfect opportunity for some innuendo to sexualise the conversation if you ask me.

Something simple like "you should try it sometime " or "I'll show you how it's done sometime ". Then, when she accuses you of being sexual or "dirty", play innocent and accuse her of having a dirty mind.

Okay I just texted" "I'll show you how it's done sometime how flexible are you?" Hope she eats it up.

I would decrease your texting ratio (most specifically, I'm always monitoring to see if I'm contributing more than she is). Also, I try pretty hard to follow Heartiste's advice to never text a question mark.

Effort spent trying to get girls to respond/text/engage is usually better spent meeting new girls who already-want-to-do-that.

What's wrong with using question marks? I've seen lots of people use question marks and other punctuations and they have killer game.

Oh and she just wrote back "more flexible than the average person I think" ugh. I'm tempted to write back "Let's put that to the test shall we? Insert your contact # here _______"

See:

http://heartiste.wordpress.com/2013/08/2...ss-rule-3/

See also the commandments of poon (you can google it).

Something about her texts seem wrong ...
You haven't met as yet?

I'd suggest proceed with caution

I'm gonna be bombing this thread come August. I've been generally out of the text loop since moving abroad in April and when I get back to school my practical text game will probably be a bit rusty. I <3 RVF

Carry on

(06-10-2014 11:38 AM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Banged new girl last Tuesday (first meet). Next day was her bday- sent text at night (Wednesday): 'happy bday miss X- we sure know how to celebrate'

She wrote back ~5 hrs later: 'Lol, thanks!'

Friday afternoon I sent a short callback humor message. No response. Waited until after the weekend, and hit her with a restart message Monday night: 'how was your weekend missy'

Got a text back ~8 hrs later: 'Great, I've been in DC. You?'

I usually don't have an issue with post-bang texting, but she doesn't seem very enthusiastic. Her texting pre-bang was similar syntactically and she would take anywhere from 1-3 hrs to respond, but I'm surprised by the same tone and even longer response times. Do I go for logistics now or ask when she'll be back in town/have her hit me up when she gets back?

I waited a day and replied with:
"gov ball was an adventure. when do ya get back"

No response.

5 days later I restart with:
"i'm checking out a new venue this week- join me"

The following afternoon she sends:
"I'm on the west coast this week"


Now what? For me, this kind of shit typically doesn't happen after the bang.

(06-16-2014 03:51 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^

"new phone. who is this"

No reply of course.

I just noticed she added me on snap a few days ago.

Should I restart later or just eject ?

I know you shouldn't ever delete an old number

(06-17-2014 12:50 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 03:51 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^

"new phone. who is this"

No reply of course.

I just noticed she added me on snap a few days ago.

Should I restart later or just eject ?

I know you shouldn't ever delete an old number

Why not snapchat her?

Who says you can't delete old numbers? I do all the time. Sure you can hold on to old ones and ping them once a month or whatever, but your energy would be better well spent focused on new prospects who aren't making you jump through hoops to get a glimpse at their 'golden' snatch.

(06-17-2014 12:53 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 12:50 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 03:51 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^

"new phone. who is this"

No reply of course.

I just noticed she added me on snap a few days ago.

Should I restart later or just eject ?

I know you shouldn't ever delete an old number

Why not snapchat her?

Who says you can't delete old numbers? I do all the time. Sure you can hold on to old ones and ping them once a month or whatever, but your energy would be better well spent focused on new prospects who aren't making you jump through hoops to get a glimpse at their 'golden' snatch.

Absolutely true. I ended up snapchatting, she responded, I didn't look (I use snapbox to view snaps without letting the user know i saw it) it said her name.

I'll let this simmer until tonight.

Here's another: TL;DR
Tinder>Number close>set up date> flakes (as is tradition)>says she owes me

Set plans again last tuesday, flakes. Sunday text her "so i see miss flake died, you such at this game"

Today girl: " oh shit, my bad, again. I still haven't bought a new cable and turned my phone off for a few days"

-She posted a pic of Instagram yesterday- so i know it's a BS lie

Last thing i'm going to do is get mad and call her out on it. The best thing I could do is say, "that's twice you owe me, drinks are on you on x at y" or "who is this" <--I can't say "new phone, who is this" since i just texted sunday

thoughts anyone ?

Banged this girl on OkCupid last week after the first date. She's been extremely noncommittal and aloof since then, whereas she was nice and eager before the first date. Clearly wasn't the sex that was bad as she got off twice and texted me afterwards she had a great time.

Our text convo:

Me: "Hey, I want to try out this new cocktail place. Interested in joining tonight or tomorrow?"

Her: "I might be but I have a soccer game tonight and a haircut tomorrow night"

Me: "Thursday?"

Her: "Possibly"

So, low investment responses. Should I just go radio silence for a bit? Or something else?

I would mess around with her for a bit as in mock her like a dumb brat when she texts you beta bait texts. I would reply with "huh?" and make her repeat herself and text you back, then go with radio silence. It's a subtle way of getting hand on the bitch. If she still keeps it up then my friend, it's buyer's remorse. But at least you fucked the slut, you've won that victory at least...

(06-17-2014 04:46 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 12:53 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 12:50 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 03:51 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^

"new phone. who is this"

No reply of course.

I just noticed she added me on snap a few days ago.

Should I restart later or just eject ?

I know you shouldn't ever delete an old number

Why not snapchat her?

Who says you can't delete old numbers? I do all the time. Sure you can hold on to old ones and ping them once a month or whatever, but your energy would be better well spent focused on new prospects who aren't making you jump through hoops to get a glimpse at their 'golden' snatch.

Absolutely true. I ended up snapchatting, she responded, I didn't look (I use snapbox to view snaps without letting the user know i saw it) it said her name.

I'll let this simmer until tonight.

Here's another: TL;DR
Tinder>Number close>set up date> flakes (as is tradition)>says she owes me

Set plans again last tuesday, flakes. Sunday text her "so i see miss flake died, you such at this game"

Today girl: " oh shit, my bad, again. I still haven't bought a new cable and turned my phone off for a few days"

-She posted a pic of Instagram yesterday- so i know it's a BS lie

Last thing i'm going to do is get mad and call her out on it. The best thing I could do is say, "that's twice you owe me, drinks are on you on x at y" or "who is this" <--I can't say "new phone, who is this" since i just texted sunday

thoughts anyone ?

Sounds like it might be time to let this one go. Two flakes in a row is normally my cue to next a girl. Not to mention all this crap about her phone being turned off. What modern woman can go without her phone for "a few days"? She would have bought a new one immediately upon realising she lost the original one.

(06-17-2014 04:58 PM)apoclater Wrote:  Banged this girl on OkCupid last week after the first date. She's been extremely noncommittal and aloof since then, whereas she was nice and eager before the first date. Clearly wasn't the sex that was bad as she got off twice and texted me afterwards she had a great time.

Our text convo:

Me: "Hey, I want to try out this new cocktail place. Interested in joining tonight or tomorrow?"

Her: "I might be but I have a soccer game tonight and a haircut tomorrow night"

Me: "Thursday?"

Her: "Possibly"

So, low investment responses. Should I just go radio silence for a bit? Or something else?

IMO, you are asking her too many questions and not being assertive enough. Especially the line, "Thursday?". You are almost begging her to come out with you again.

Alternative script:

Me: Hey, I'm trying out this new cocktail place tonight. Join me.

Her: I might, but I have a soccer game tonight and a haircut tomorrow night

Me: Gay/unsubscribe/k/other pithy one word answer

Then leave it and perhaps try re-initiating again at a later date. She isn't giving you anything to work with or suggesting an alternative time which indicates a lack of interest on her part. Demonstrate you don't care by not pursuing her.

(06-17-2014 12:21 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  

(06-10-2014 11:38 AM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Banged new girl last Tuesday (first meet). Next day was her bday- sent text at night (Wednesday): 'happy bday miss X- we sure know how to celebrate'

She wrote back ~5 hrs later: 'Lol, thanks!'

Friday afternoon I sent a short callback humor message. No response. Waited until after the weekend, and hit her with a restart message Monday night: 'how was your weekend missy'

Got a text back ~8 hrs later: 'Great, I've been in DC. You?'

I usually don't have an issue with post-bang texting, but she doesn't seem very enthusiastic. Her texting pre-bang was similar syntactically and she would take anywhere from 1-3 hrs to respond, but I'm surprised by the same tone and even longer response times. Do I go for logistics now or ask when she'll be back in town/have her hit me up when she gets back?

I waited a day and replied with:
"gov ball was an adventure. when do ya get back"

No response.

5 days later I restart with:
"i'm checking out a new venue this week- join me"

The following afternoon she sends:
"I'm on the west coast this week"


Now what? For me, this kind of shit typically doesn't happen after the bang.

What does this girl do? Sounds like she is travelling all over the place.

(06-17-2014 07:18 PM)Blue Streak Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 12:21 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  

(06-10-2014 11:38 AM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Banged new girl last Tuesday (first meet). Next day was her bday- sent text at night (Wednesday): 'happy bday miss X- we sure know how to celebrate'

She wrote back ~5 hrs later: 'Lol, thanks!'

Friday afternoon I sent a short callback humor message. No response. Waited until after the weekend, and hit her with a restart message Monday night: 'how was your weekend missy'

Got a text back ~8 hrs later: 'Great, I've been in DC. You?'

I usually don't have an issue with post-bang texting, but she doesn't seem very enthusiastic. Her texting pre-bang was similar syntactically and she would take anywhere from 1-3 hrs to respond, but I'm surprised by the same tone and even longer response times. Do I go for logistics now or ask when she'll be back in town/have her hit me up when she gets back?

I waited a day and replied with:
"gov ball was an adventure. when do ya get back"

No response.

5 days later I restart with:
"i'm checking out a new venue this week- join me"

The following afternoon she sends:
"I'm on the west coast this week"


Now what? For me, this kind of shit typically doesn't happen after the bang.

What does this girl do? Sounds like she is travelling all over the place.

Recently finished college and is starting work at the end of the month. Seems she's traveling before that schedule kicks in.

(06-16-2014 01:53 AM)Cobra Wrote:  

(06-14-2014 03:49 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  ^too eager with your texting (girls are such cunts).

Should have waited at least a day to hit her up, but regardless - maybe text her again in a day or two: "you suck at this game" if she gives half a shit she'll text back something like "lol I know I'm so busy sorry" then follow up later "what's your sched like this week" if she gives you zero/indefinite options then forget about it.

Thanks General Stalin. I used this.

You may be on to something here but I may have screwed it up. See below.

Me: You suck at this game
Her: What game?
Me: If you play your cards right..Maybe you'll win
Her: Hmmm I'll keep that in mind
Me: But there are a few things I need to know first
Her: Like?
Me: Hmmm..#1 what's your sched like this week
Her: I work 10-7 all week
Me: I'm in the city on Wednesday..Let's grab a drink around 7:30

No response.. not sure if I pushed it but who knows. I'm confused between the camp that says use text only for logistics and the other side which advocates humor and being witty. I think I got caught in the middle.

So, she gives a shit but maybe not enough. Do girls generally take a little hiatus to get back to you after giving a time and does that correlate with attraction levels?

Suggestions welcome and thanks again fellas.

Any thoughts on this gents? It's been 2 days, no response.

Sorry for the 'restart' post.

^You're investing more in the text interaction then she does.

If you'll notice GIRLS are better at text game then guys.

Less is more.

I'd wait a week and shoot a restart text. If she doesn't respond keep it moving. Actually, keep it moving anyway. The more numbers you have the more you can practice with them. I get numbers sometimes just to send out Test Texts to see how girls respond with zero care if they don't come through.

The less I text them, the more they reply.

I used to text long ass sentences, basically mini paragraphs, and they lost interest.

Now I send 10 words max, usually 4-5, and my reply rate has gone through the roof. I guess their "thirsty meter" goes down.

Her "Sure lets meet up at XYZ at 8", me: "k".

I've been using tinder and have been having good responses with an opener off delicioustacos (the harry potter storyline opener)

I'm getting stuck when they reply with something along the lines of "Hahaha, how many times has that gotten you laid?"

I usually amplify with something like "hundreds of times, but I'm yet to find my soulmate... Who knows, it could be you?! We could move to the countryside, buy a small farms with (insert random animals here) and raise our brood of 9 children away from the evils of suburban life etcetc"

It works OK, and I can usually push through, but does anybody have some better answers to this shit test?

Met miss 22 yr old, darkly tanned blonde, fresh Ole'Miss graduate, on the street last week. She doesnt live here but comes here often. We hit it off in the approach, I knew who she was interviewing with. She was fun to talk to, great approach all around. She was lost, and I gave her some brief directions to find her friends.

Seeing an opportunity, I texted her right away to meet me and my buddies a few blocks from there for drinks. She said sure, she had three other friends with her.

We are hanging in this strip of bars, mostly pub draught spots, dumb sports bars, wine bars and one club for 21 year olds. Wanting to show these girls fun, I told them to meet us at the club.

They get there first and say, "where are you?" I am with a few buddies. We are dressed well and suited up. We meet up with the girls, and sure enough, my girl and another red head look smoking hot, getting swarmed by goons. In this setting 9's, on the street 7's, maybe 8.

We hang with the girls for a while, drink, do shots, laugh and connect. Except for one of them who we ignored, who was not feeling us. She snatched them all away to "dance" I stayed there, and didnt chase. But they never came back..... they bolted!

Now, if a girl bolts on me I NEVER text her again. But since I connected so well with my approach, and that she was probably influenced by her gargoyle friend who wasn't getting attention, I want to reconnect. I am starting to come around to the idea of not being so butt hurt over flakiness, if it doesn't cost me my money, health or large amount of time.

Its been a week and I want to text this girl back, but I have waited. Supposedly there is this Roissy text guide by age that a friend sticks to. But reading the text posts lately, I want to keep the vibe strong.

Text her after a week? Wait longer and reopen, then ignore? Honestly, never get caught up over this, but this one was different.

(06-17-2014 07:06 PM)Blue Streak Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 04:46 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 12:53 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 12:50 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 03:51 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^

"new phone. who is this"

No reply of course.

I just noticed she added me on snap a few days ago.

Should I restart later or just eject ?

I know you shouldn't ever delete an old number

Why not snapchat her?

Who says you can't delete old numbers? I do all the time. Sure you can hold on to old ones and ping them once a month or whatever, but your energy would be better well spent focused on new prospects who aren't making you jump through hoops to get a glimpse at their 'golden' snatch.

Absolutely true. I ended up snapchatting, she responded, I didn't look (I use snapbox to view snaps without letting the user know i saw it) it said her name.

I'll let this simmer until tonight.

Here's another: TL;DR
Tinder>Number close>set up date> flakes (as is tradition)>says she owes me

Set plans again last tuesday, flakes. Sunday text her "so i see miss flake died, you such at this game"

Today girl: " oh shit, my bad, again. I still haven't bought a new cable and turned my phone off for a few days"

-She posted a pic of Instagram yesterday- so i know it's a BS lie

Last thing i'm going to do is get mad and call her out on it. The best thing I could do is say, "that's twice you owe me, drinks are on you on x at y" or "who is this" <--I can't say "new phone, who is this" since i just texted sunday

thoughts anyone ?

Sounds like it might be time to let this one go. Two flakes in a row is normally my cue to next a girl. Not to mention all this crap about her phone being turned off. What modern woman can go without her phone for "a few days"? She would have bought a new one immediately upon realising she lost the original one.

Exactly what I said, what modern female can live without their phone. She was just posting to IG also.

After her excuse the following took place:

Girl: oh shit, my bad, again. I still haven't bought a new cable and turned my phone off for a few days
Kaotic: That's twice you owe me, now how about those drinks.
Girl: I definitely owe you drinks, but my car part hasn't come in yet (its 1.5 weeks)
Kaotic: Yaw, just say you're to scared and shy to meet up.
Girl: No I'm not scared, you are really cute.
Girl: But my car isn't happy.
Girl: Makes me feel like a bum.

Anything I can say ? Seems like trying to guilt her isn't working, plans aren't working, she's making every excuse in the book.

I didn't even bother replying, she isn't going to take responsibility for flaking, def went down on the list of girls.

(06-18-2014 12:34 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 07:06 PM)Blue Streak Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 04:46 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 12:53 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  

(06-17-2014 12:50 PM)kaotic Wrote:  No reply of course.

I just noticed she added me on snap a few days ago.

Should I restart later or just eject ?

I know you shouldn't ever delete an old number

Why not snapchat her?

Who says you can't delete old numbers? I do all the time. Sure you can hold on to old ones and ping them once a month or whatever, but your energy would be better well spent focused on new prospects who aren't making you jump through hoops to get a glimpse at their 'golden' snatch.

Absolutely true. I ended up snapchatting, she responded, I didn't look (I use snapbox to view snaps without letting the user know i saw it) it said her name.

I'll let this simmer until tonight.

Here's another: TL;DR
Tinder>Number close>set up date> flakes (as is tradition)>says she owes me

Set plans again last tuesday, flakes. Sunday text her "so i see miss flake died, you such at this game"

Today girl: " oh shit, my bad, again. I still haven't bought a new cable and turned my phone off for a few days"

-She posted a pic of Instagram yesterday- so i know it's a BS lie

Last thing i'm going to do is get mad and call her out on it. The best thing I could do is say, "that's twice you owe me, drinks are on you on x at y" or "who is this" <--I can't say "new phone, who is this" since i just texted sunday

thoughts anyone ?

Sounds like it might be time to let this one go. Two flakes in a row is normally my cue to next a girl. Not to mention all this crap about her phone being turned off. What modern woman can go without her phone for "a few days"? She would have bought a new one immediately upon realising she lost the original one.

Exactly what I said, what modern female can live without their phone. She was just posting to IG also.

After her excuse the following took place:

Girl: oh shit, my bad, again. I still haven't bought a new cable and turned my phone off for a few days
Kaotic: That's twice you owe me, now how about those drinks.
Girl: I definitely owe you drinks, but my car part hasn't come in yet (its 1.5 weeks)
Kaotic: Yaw, just say you're to scared and shy to meet up.
Girl: No I'm not scared, you are really cute.
Girl: But my car isn't happy.
Girl: Makes me feel like a bum.

Anything I can say ? Seems like trying to guilt her isn't working, plans aren't working, she's making every excuse in the book.

I didn't even bother replying, she isn't going to take responsibility for flaking, def went down on the list of girls.

No contact.
Until she texts you "Hi!". And to which you reply "Heythere. I'm going to be at bar XX tonight, hop by if you want, I'm bored with all this texting"