Good work, Invictus. I have yet to get a Tinder Bang. My biggest problem is logistics and inexperience but I'm hoping to get there soon.

(06-08-2014 12:16 AM)Renberg Wrote:  If anything, this Tinder update is telling me who NOT to pursue. All I've seen thus far is attention-whoring and attempted-but-failed humor.

Why does that matter? Do these factors change how hot she is or how likely she is to get down?

(06-06-2014 08:53 PM)Mister X Wrote:  Not really understanding the hoopla over Moments.

I look at moments as just a tool for you to see more photos of the girl so you don't have to ask for her facebook to screen her. Tinder leads go stale for me so fast that i don't see the point in investing in moments. If a girl doesn't like my looks from my main photos than i think that only thing that would change her mind is my voice and my presence, not some more, probably worse photos.

(06-06-2014 05:07 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  I threw out the lunch pick just to see if girls were even looking at it.

Pictures of food you have cooked are solid gold for many girls. Personally i save this for in an person meet. Say you are sitting on your couch because your logistics worked without issue but she is sitting on the other end of the couch because who knows what hang up she she has. Showing pictures on your phone is perfect because she HAS to sit right next to you to see.

(06-06-2014 05:07 PM)General Mayhem Wrote:  Always venture on the outrageous side. It's not hard to shine when your competition barely has a pulse.

Honestly and sincerely good luck with this. If you have tried skout and wechat you can see a wasteland of shitty try hard comments on bikini photos and photos of meals and drinks. frankly i would want to shoot myself trying to think of good shit to say about that other than "yeah i went to that place last year, let's talk about x" (and that topic change would probably not work on a photo comment). personally i think you should be screening hard on tinder and only putting in effort where return is very likely.

Urgent help:

I'm landed - have 20 matches already but should I insinuate that I'm moving here or should I be upfront and just state that I'm traveling for business? Obviously that would have many chicas bidding my adieu. I guess I could try half and half depending on what my instincts tell me.

(06-07-2014 11:40 AM)Monty_Brogan Wrote:  Next move here?

Next move is to bang a different girl .

Unrelated to your question, I personally would recommend texting stronger. "might" and "possibly" do not convey strength.

(06-07-2014 11:40 AM)Monty_Brogan Wrote:  Off topic, but this one girl is an absolute 9+. She's a Southern Belle, marathon runner, doesn't have any pics of her pounding bud lites like 3/4 of the chicks I see, sense of humor. We were chatting and on the app and then she gave me HER number. But now she says she is real busy with work and will text me back in a couple days when things slow down... just my luck. I'm still holding out a little hope, but fuck it if she doesn't get back to me.

Just assume she will not contact you ever again. wait longer than she said it would take to get back to you and then "suddenly remember that you forgot about her" when you text her. but lock down the text whenever you get the number. tinder is flakey for several reasons.

also, this probably goes without saying... when a girl is funny with written messages there is limited correlation with real-life entertainment.

i also want to say: block any girl that doesn't work for you. burn your bridges so you don't get distracted.

(06-09-2014 01:28 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  Urgent help:

I'm landed - have 20 matches already but should I insinuate that I'm moving here or should I be upfront and just state that I'm traveling for business? Obviously that would have many chicas bidding my adieu. I guess I could try half and half depending on what my instincts tell me.

I think it looks more attractive you're traveling for business (SMV). It'll also weed out girls who aren't interested in hooking up with someone that's passing by their town.

(06-07-2014 12:33 AM)Renberg Wrote:  

(06-06-2014 11:12 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  I have a really nice downtown condo and nice car - is this a good way to casually add value in an "innocent" way?

I always feel like I underplay my hand for fear of looking like a douche... but if there was an innocuous way to push my advantages I'd gladly do so.

I don't think it'll help you get the date and I don't necessarily think it'll help you get her back home. But when you say you "have a really nice downtown condo," I assume it's in a good location (surrounded by restaurants, bars, etc.)

^ That aspect definitely comes in handy. But bragging about your pad would only work if you have some really cool shit inside (a painting you bring up over drinks, a certain type of drink, etc.)

I think this advice is very location dependent. However, one thing that is often lacking in advice i see is enabling the girl to help your logistics. The girl needs to know where you live to help you. Now the counter to that is the fear that a girl will not come to a bar on your corner if her commute is far worse than yours. But i think that is a strength. 1. i want to screen out those unmotivated girls. 2. frank proximity information helps logistics

(06-05-2014 08:25 AM)Thesoloist Wrote:  Just had a chick text me this

"Hey depending on how I feel I can't come over tonight"

basically qualified her and she was DTF and now I get this text haven't responded yet but obvious flake

it is time for plan b. and tell her what it is. that usually gets the wheel turning. think about it like this... when you have just fucked 5 girls in the past few days youprobably turn down random tinder dates too.

(06-03-2014 12:22 AM)slothpiece Wrote:  Are you guys meeting any prospects after not meeting them within week of making contact and making 1st attempt to make plans and getting excuse? Thought Id follow up once more with lukewarm leads but not working very well.

Strong leads that flaked on the first meet have worked for me many times on the second try on tinder. that rarely worked for me on okcupid. personally i think it is important to convert to texting or a free texting app early though.

i think it helps to mentally classify a girl as to whether she is willing to use tinder as a real time texting app or as a dating website where she replies to messages in batches. in the first case strike while the iron is hot or you will lose bangs from horny girls. regardless, i think you should convert to texting. tinder is unreliable AND you want her to invest progressively however minorly

(05-26-2014 12:52 AM)Mister X Wrote:  3.) Too many girls trying too hard to show they're outgoing and adventurous. Sky diving or rock climbing shots where you can't see their face or get a good feel for their body type. Why they put them up is beyond me.

/Rant

Actually, I think you're saying that you know exactly why they put them up.

(05-23-2014 01:04 PM)bullocks Wrote:  All of them are 8+, one 9, actually the 19 prolly a 7.5. There's another girl ive been texting with whos 5 mins away, last night i was thinking "fuck how can i ask her out slickly"...shes a 9-9.5 18 yr old, so anyways we were talking about our pay cheques and shes like "so when are u taking me out to dinner or something" usually id respond with "yeah ill get right on that " but it was perfect lol so hopefully i can meet her soon as she brought it up.

not bad but i think the appropriate response is "or something ". anyway please do not take this girl to dinner unless it is for the dollar menu

(06-09-2014 01:40 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(06-09-2014 01:28 PM)MikeinMKE Wrote:  Urgent help:

I'm landed - have 20 matches already but should I insinuate that I'm moving here or should I be upfront and just state that I'm traveling for business? Obviously that would have many chicas bidding my adieu. I guess I could try half and half depending on what my instincts tell me.

I think it looks more attractive you're traveling for business (SMV). It'll also weed out girls who aren't interested in hooking up with someone that's passing by their town.

In my experience you will get more bangs if you say you have moved.

Just for shits and giggles.

   
   

I still play with Tinder and occasionally get a bang. Something I just started trying is if a girl has her IG handle in her Tinder profile, I message her on IG. So far my response rate is 50/50, and the women range in ages 21-25. I started a week ago and taking my first one out tomorrow night, wish me luck.

(06-09-2014 02:41 PM)invictusiii Wrote:  Just for shits and giggles.

That sounds promising. I like the momentum of it, which seems that you, invictusiii, facilitated quite well.

(06-09-2014 03:05 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(06-09-2014 02:41 PM)invictusiii Wrote:  Just for shits and giggles.

That sounds promising. I like the momentum of it, which seems that you, invictusiii, facilitated quite well.

It was. That was from last night. Got the bang.

I'm having a bug where Tinder is not updating my location as a travel. It still thinks I'm a plane flight away. Not sure why. Solution?

man, Tinder here in Ireland is not that good

I miss Brazil so much now

(06-09-2014 04:09 PM)runsonmagic Wrote:  I'm having a bug where Tinder is not updating my location as a travel. It still thinks I'm a plane flight away. Not sure why. Solution?

My bug with Tinder is that every single girl I match with lately ends up being 60 miles away, not even close to what I set the distance to. I see with the new update that hasn't been fixed yet either.

(06-07-2014 11:40 AM)Monty_Brogan Wrote:  Next move here?



I'm 29 and she's 35...haha. Her profile says she wants to, "meet new people and have fun". I'm new to this app, but when broads say that is that coded for just fucking, or am I being naive? She messaged me first too, so I'm trying my best to capitalize on this.

The chick you're texting with above has great tits.

Figured i would fill you in.

Tinder match, she didn't drink, was down to hangout and meet up last friday.

Of course she flaked, saw her IG today, she just got a boyfriend over the weekend apparently LOL !

Can't trust these hoes.

I kind of want to call her her out just for fun, we've never met, I wouldn't care if she blocked me, should I do it ?


or is that being a little bitch and beta?

^ Waste of your time.

(06-09-2014 05:46 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Tinder match, she didn't drink, was down to hangout and meet up last friday.

Of course she flaked, saw her IG today, she just got a boyfriend over the weekend apparently LOL !

Can't trust these hoes.

I kind of want to call her her out just for fun, we've never met, I wouldn't care if she blocked me, should I do it ?


or is that being a little bitch and beta?

If you're letting it get to you that much, I think you already know the answer.

(06-09-2014 05:49 PM)Travesty444 Wrote:  ^ Waste of your time.

I'm on the shitter, technically I'm not wasting time. But yeah you're both right, waste of energy on noone important.

Once again girls validate you can't trust them and are attention seeking whores.

I feel bad for the dude, apparently he's been in the friendzone for years and now is finally having his chance.

In other news I get to see a new 20 year old tinder girl again tonight. She's lining up to be in my rotation.