Nothings better when you have a pre structured opener and 2nd and 3rd line and all of a sudden I'm getting all these messages like "nice try buddy but you already said that to my friend"

One time I deleted my tinder just because I got busted by so many girls I felt dirty. haha

(05-22-2014 11:14 PM)Teddykgb Wrote:  Nothings better when you have a pre structured opener and 2nd and 3rd line and all of a sudden I'm getting all these messages like "nice try buddy but you already said that to my friend"

One time I deleted my tinder just because I got busted by so many girls I felt dirty. haha

This has happened to me on Match, OKCupid, and MeetMe.

We need to move to NYC bro.

My new comeback is "That means your friend is also hot".

(05-22-2014 11:24 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(05-22-2014 11:14 PM)Teddykgb Wrote:  Nothings better when you have a pre structured opener and 2nd and 3rd line and all of a sudden I'm getting all these messages like "nice try buddy but you already said that to my friend"

One time I deleted my tinder just because I got busted by so many girls I felt dirty. haha

This has happened to me on Match, OKCupid, and MeetMe.

We need to move to NYC bro.

My new comeback is "That means your friend is also hot".

No love for POF?

I just got the weirdest call on Tinder.

I've mass messaging tons of girls and quite a few of them I just send them my number first to see if they bite.

This girl just called me while I'm high as fuck and starts talking with me. I've sent my number to so many girls I'm not sure who it is.

Me: Yea I remember your name but I just forgot how to spell it.

Her: Yeah right say my name first.

She sounds receptive to hangout but I have to somehow figure out which one she is on Tinder. She said I gave her my number 3 days ago but I've been getting a lot of matches so this could get sticky.

(05-22-2014 11:49 PM)Teddykgb Wrote:  I just got the weirdest call on Tinder.

I've mass messaging tons of girls and quite a few of them I just send them my number first to see if they bite.

This girl just called me while I'm high as fuck and starts talking with me. I've sent my number to so many girls I'm not sure who it is.

Me: Yea I remember your name but I just forgot how to spell it.

Her: Yeah right say my name first.

She sounds receptive to hangout but I have to somehow figure out which one she is on Tinder. She said I gave her my number 3 days ago but I've been getting a lot of matches so this could get sticky.

Should have ignored her demanding you say her name and have you play a guessing game of what colour her favourite panties are. She sounds nutty so I bet she would have responded.

(05-22-2014 11:24 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(05-22-2014 11:14 PM)Teddykgb Wrote:  Nothings better when you have a pre structured opener and 2nd and 3rd line and all of a sudden I'm getting all these messages like "nice try buddy but you already said that to my friend"

One time I deleted my tinder just because I got busted by so many girls I felt dirty. haha

This has happened to me on Match, OKCupid, and MeetMe.

We need to move to NYC bro.

My new comeback is "That means your friend is also hot".

I get this same shit. But why should we feel bad? How come if a chick and her friend get the same message, they're allowed to stare down on us condescendingly? If we're messaging them first, they should be fucking honored; not a reason for bitchiness.

Anyone have any different experiences with uninstalling/reinstalling the app? Not deleting your account, just the app itself.

Sometimes I'll swipe like a mad man and get 0 matches for more than a day. I'm thinking, how is this even possible??

Then I'll delete the app, reinstall, swipe for a little bit, and within a few hours, get 5-10 matches.

Does deleting the app and reinstalling it somehow bring your profile to the forefront? I don't get it.

I have done this several times, including deleting my actual profile and restarting several times and it works. That first day my account is "new" is when I get the most matches. Then after a few days the matches stop and I have to do the whole thing over again. Just seems annoying to be doing this every 3-4 days.

It seems that when you run out of people to swipe, you just move the mileage adjuster by one or a few miles back and forth to get it to respond. It could say no people are available within 5 miles. Then you switch it to 3 miles and back to 5 or 6. Should shift some new people your way. This thing is highly addictive.

Had plans with 4 chicks on tinder for this weekend and so far two chicks flopped. i think ones at a 80% chill rate and the 4th is probably at about 35%. All the girls except one are 18, the other is 19 haha

All of them are 8+, one 9, actually the 19 prolly a 7.5. There's another girl ive been texting with whos 5 mins away, last night i was thinking "fuck how can i ask her out slickly"...shes a 9-9.5 18 yr old, so anyways we were talking about our pay cheques and shes like "so when are u taking me out to dinner or something" usually id respond with "yeah ill get right on that " but it was perfect lol so hopefully i can meet her soon as she brought it up.

(05-22-2014 05:16 AM)Prophylaxis Wrote:  Anyone notice a drop in quality lately? Seem to be matching with mostly <6s and the occasional 7.

The 8's and 9's are super selective due to so many thirsty dudes on there.

6's 7's are the norm, if you meet an 8 in person she's really a 6.5 or 7.

I've even noticed the same trend from POF/OKC switching to Tinder such as:

Don't ask me to hook up, im not here to hook up, looking for a relationship

5,6,7 bitches are actually thinking they're gonna find the "one" on tinder now!!

I ran a test on Tinder:
I've been swiping right almost everything that is more than a 5. My pictures were the same
In my hometown I got in about 4 months 30 matches. Radius set on 30miles. Majority of the girls don't pass the boner test. Receptiveness of opener was low (about 50%). "Hey! How are you doing?" At least 50% of the girls I got were from Brazil. No dates, no bangs.

Then, i spent two weeks in Bonn (Germany). In 2 days I got 20 matches on a 2 mile radius, receptiveness of opener was much bigger (around 80%). I had 0 logistics, and was there working so it was complicated to get free time, didn't even spend the weekend over there. No dates, even though I believe I could have had some, had I better logistics. No bangs also. Hotter girls, ugly ones were more "witty" and complicated

One of my german female colleagues (8) had a similar, german, app (Friendscout24). She had about 500 "likes" on her profile, and she liked just 11 guys (saw it with my own eyes). Said she never met anyone and that it was "just for fun". IMO, more like just for some attention from good looking guys.

Conclusion:
In my hometown, lisbon, Tinder sucks. It might get you laid with the ogres. No thanks. Apparently, i'm also not very good looking over here.
In germany, things are a bit better, but still the girls are just using it to pass time, probably when they're on the toilet or something. They are waiting to be approached on the streets :predator:

(05-23-2014 06:44 PM)Wreckingball Wrote:  I ran a test on Tinder:
I've been swiping right almost everything that is more than a 5. My pictures were the same
In my hometown I got in about 4 months 30 matches. Radius set on 30miles. Majority of the girls don't pass the boner test. Receptiveness of opener was low (about 50%). "Hey! How are you doing?" At least 50% of the girls I got were from Brazil. No dates, no bangs.

Then, i spent two weeks in Bonn (Germany). In 2 days I got 20 matches on a 2 mile radius, receptiveness of opener was much bigger (around 80%). I had 0 logistics, and was there working so it was complicated to get free time, didn't even spend the weekend over there. No dates, even though I believe I could have had some, had I better logistics. No bangs also. Hotter girls, ugly ones were more "witty" and complicated

One of my german female colleagues (8) had a similar, german, app (Friendscout24). She had about 500 "likes" on her profile, and she liked just 11 guys (saw it with my own eyes). Said she never met anyone and that it was "just for fun". IMO, more like just for some attention from good looking guys.

Conclusion:
In my hometown, lisbon, Tinder sucks. It might get you laid with the ogres. No thanks. Apparently, i'm also not very good looking over here.
In germany, things are a bit better, but still the girls are just using it to pass time, probably when they're on the toilet or something. They are waiting to be approached on the streets :predator:

You're not alone.

I have found that I only get matches when I swipe like a maniac. Usually I'll wake up, watch Sportscenter for an hour or so, and during that hour I'll swipe on Tinder, often times without even looking at the screen.

But the matches I get are not my type. They never are. I get quantity but not quality. I was all excited to use this thing for the summer, and actually, it's surprising how many hot chicks are on this thing, but I never get matched. It's annoying because I'm able to get those girls in real life.

I know when it comes to OLD you often have to accept drop in quality for rise in quantity but this is ridiculous. I'll just do cold approaches if this is what it's gonna be.

Frustrating because I think if you're a single man, particularly a single man in a major city, there is no reason you shouldn't have this app. I guess though my warning would be to temper your expectations.

Granted it's only been a little over a week for me, but I don't see why the situation would change for any reason. If you're able to pull the kind of girls you want in person, just do that. You may not get as many easy lays, but I've always put quality over quantity.

Is there no autolike bot for iPhone?

The quality on tinder seems to have gone down substantially. I'm about to start opening with, "Hey, do you have any hot friends?"

Smashed a chick tonight that I matched in like February. Was so random thru out a "come chill" lazy text and it worked haha chicks face is a 8-8.25, body is prolly a 8 or jus under. Fun time she's 18 and I think I have a for sure netflix date with one of the 4 I mentioned earlier 8.5 18 ur old

Chick that i gave a 80% chance of chilling today flopped it looks like - after confirming last night and asking me what i wanted to do and stuff lol hate chicks like that. no text today or anything and i sent a text from a text now app seeing if she was ignoring and she was.

deleted the number n moving on lol

So, can someone give me any logical reason why swiping right on everybody is a good move? Because when I do that, I get match notifications and get excited and then when I open up my match box it's someone I have no interest in talking to.

Wouldn't it be better to just swipe yes on girls you like and no on girls you don't, so that when you do get a match notification you know it's always gonna be from a girl you dig?

Unless I'm missing something.

I only swipe right on everybody when I'm getting like 0 matches to make sure the app isn't acting up. If after swiping right on everything for like 2 hours, and still nothing, I delete the app and reinstall it. Then I start getting matches again. But that's the only reason I'd see for mass swiping.

Its takes more effort to actually right swipe on only the hot chicks. I use to do this too for the longest time but now i just watch tv and keep pressing the heart icon while not even looking at the phone.

(05-25-2014 01:31 AM)bullocks Wrote:  Its takes more effort to actually right swipe on only the hot chicks. I use to do this too for the longest time but now i just watch tv and keep pressing the heart icon while not even looking at the phone.

Well I did that a few times, but like I said -- you go to sleep and wake up to like 5 new matches, none of whom you want to talk to. It's annoying is all. At least to me.

The way I see it is -- tinder is house money. I'm not paying for the service, I'm not inconvenienced in any way, it takes minimal effort on my part to create a profile. I'm literally swiping on my couch while watching tv. No approach anxiety, no having to approach a set of girls in a club or compete with dudes in the club. If I bang just one hot chick off the app, that's one hot chick I wouldn't have banged otherwise. Maybe some guys are only satisfied if they bang 2-3 new girls a month off it, but I said before, I'm a quality over quantity guy.

So I'd rather swipe on girls I actually like, play the numbers game and eventually have at least one girl swipe right/meet up with me, then to continue waking up to matches with a smile on my face, only to get disappointed soon after.

Been wanting to check this out but you meed to have facebook to login amf i refuse to be on fb

Theres a new app hitting android soon called pure. I guess everything is trmporary so if your looking for a hookup you go on. Couple hours later no record of your profile or message til you go on again

(05-25-2014 02:19 AM)Mister X Wrote:  

(05-25-2014 01:31 AM)bullocks Wrote:  Its takes more effort to actually right swipe on only the hot chicks. I use to do this too for the longest time but now i just watch tv and keep pressing the heart icon while not even looking at the phone.

Well I did that a few times, but like I said -- you go to sleep and wake up to like 5 new matches, none of whom you want to talk to. It's annoying is all. At least to me.

The way I see it is -- tinder is house money. I'm not paying for the service, I'm not inconvenienced in any way, it takes minimal effort on my part to create a profile. I'm literally swiping on my couch while watching tv. No approach anxiety, no having to approach a set of girls in a club or compete with dudes in the club. If I bang just one hot chick off the app, that's one hot chick I wouldn't have banged otherwise. Maybe some guys are only satisfied if they bang 2-3 new girls a month off it, but I said before, I'm a quality over quantity guy.

So I'd rather swipe on girls I actually like, play the numbers game and eventually have at least one girl swipe right/meet up with me, then to continue waking up to matches with a smile on my face, only to get disappointed soon after.

Lol. Yeah same shit here. When I tried just rapidly clicking on hundreds of girls without looking. I opened the app the next morning and looked at my matches and...

(05-25-2014 03:52 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  

(05-25-2014 02:19 AM)Mister X Wrote:  

(05-25-2014 01:31 AM)bullocks Wrote:  Its takes more effort to actually right swipe on only the hot chicks. I use to do this too for the longest time but now i just watch tv and keep pressing the heart icon while not even looking at the phone.

Well I did that a few times, but like I said -- you go to sleep and wake up to like 5 new matches, none of whom you want to talk to. It's annoying is all. At least to me.

The way I see it is -- tinder is house money. I'm not paying for the service, I'm not inconvenienced in any way, it takes minimal effort on my part to create a profile. I'm literally swiping on my couch while watching tv. No approach anxiety, no having to approach a set of girls in a club or compete with dudes in the club. If I bang just one hot chick off the app, that's one hot chick I wouldn't have banged otherwise. Maybe some guys are only satisfied if they bang 2-3 new girls a month off it, but I said before, I'm a quality over quantity guy.

So I'd rather swipe on girls I actually like, play the numbers game and eventually have at least one girl swipe right/meet up with me, then to continue waking up to matches with a smile on my face, only to get disappointed soon after.

Lol. Yeah same shit here. When I tried just rapidly clicking on hundreds of girls without looking. I opened the app the next morning and looked at my matches and...

LMFAO you said it brother.

Alright some thoughts.

1.) WAY too many girls with pictures of their friends as their main profile pic. If I don't dig every girl in the picture, I swipe left. Some girls do this for the first 3 or so shots they have! You don't know who it is until photo 4! I really feel girls do this as a cheap way to try and get a swipe. Maybe that's the cynic in me talking.

2.) WAY too many girls with failed attempts at being funny/goofy in their main profile pic. The mustache drawn on the finger sort of shtick. Maybe there's a market out there for girls like that, but not for me. If I see another girl with the mustache finger thing trying to pass it off like a unique shot I'll probably delete the app for good.

3.) Too many girls trying too hard to show they're outgoing and adventurous. Sky diving or rock climbing shots where you can't see their face or get a good feel for their body type. Why they put them up is beyond me.

/Rant

This, from a santa barbara 5. I see what travesty was saying earlier, i swiped yes on all of the santa barbara women, the whole thing took about 20 minutes. And the women weren't even that hot.

Her second pic was of her holding a newborn baby, so i gave my tried and true response to the women holding a newborn baby on a dating site. The best part is that a hot woman would have laughed at this.

Thanks for the misogyny Eradicaor, gave a chuckle

Tinder has been especially buggy lately. I'll try to add some photos and will always get an error about failing to crop the image.