Me: Let's hang out later this week.

Her: Uhm, my boyfriend is coming over this week, but we can next week (:

Little background, the chick is a barista at a local nearby coffee shop. Lots of IOI's, eye contact etc.
I've encountered the "i have a boyfriend" a whole bunch of times but this is new.

(05-12-2014 11:19 PM)OzzBalls Wrote:  Me: Let's hang out later this week.

Her: Uhm, my boyfriend is coming over this week, but we can next week (:

Little background, the chick is a barista at a local nearby coffee shop. Lots of IOI's, eye contact etc.
I've encountered the "i have a boyfriend" a whole bunch of times but this is new.

If you don't care about her potentially having a boyfriend who she might cheat on, then go for it. Just tell her next week is fine and you'll let her know when/where.

Ive been trying to get at this girl for a while now. I kind of blew it because our first date was awkward as hell. Its a girl from China here in college. I've been trying to get her to go on a second date but always comes up with excuses or she doesn't flat out respond. I feel like im overvaluing her too much because if all goes well, she'll be my first Chinese flag, but this girl is weird, maybe I'm not cut out for Chinese girls.


She texted me about 3 hours ago after a long week of no texting.


Her: Midwest. What is your plan tonight?

Me 7 minutes later: Hey Connie. I have a paper due at 5pm, which I'm doing now. After that not much. You?

Her 13 minutes later: I just done all my finals...

Me 26 minutes later: Good job. Sophomore year done! Lol.

Me 2 minutes later again: You still craving that pie? (She's wanted to eat "American" pie since forever but she keeps on flaking)

Her 3 minutes later: I am on a diet now...lol

Me 5 minutes later: Oh wow, what kind?

Me 6 minutes later again: It's not like you're overweight or anything


No response. Its so weird. I was told I should be more beta than asshole or cocky towards these Asian girls from friends here. Not sure where Im going wrong here. Should I text her something or should I just leave it at that?

I think I should just stick to Mexican girls.

^That's bad text game. Bad.

You appear needy, non-busy and too eager.

Start fresh.

Read up on text game.

I went on 2 dates with this broad who showed interest in me. She texted me that same week and wanted to fuck but I was out of town. I laid low for the past week cause I've been busy with other things but still wanna fuck. I tried recontacting this bitch but I feel like she either got some new dick or feel like she isn't interested anymore. I texted her earlier today:

"Nice fucking song choice *with a pic of her spotify update (she added some gangster rap on that shit which she found out I listened to a lot of)
She responded 5 minutes later "why ya stalking me brah"

She's a sarcastic ass bitch that's given me sass before, but she insisted that she "come over and watch a movie" twice when I was out of town. Drop from the roster and cut her loose or reply back?

I'm feelin cut her loose but I think she's a 7.5-8ish and could tell she'd be a good fuck.

^Why are you texting her a screenshot of her spotify?

Less is more.

You could have sent a simple:

"come hang tonite at my pad"

I rarely agree with girl's sarcasm, but in this case I get why she sent you that.

(05-14-2014 05:57 PM)Christian McQueen Wrote:  ^That's bad text game. Bad.

You appear needy, non-busy and too eager.

Start fresh.

Read up on text game.

Thanks for the brutal advice, haha, I knew subconsciously I was being too needy, really appreciate it. Any good resources out there like books or articles on text game that you recommend? I need help in this aspect of game. I lack creativity when it comes to texting.

I have to keep it real, otherwise what's the point? Only being constructive though, not destructive.

Start here: http://blockedurl.com/the-players-guide-to-text-game/

Thanks. I feel like I fucked this one up as she stopped initiating contact in the past week (she used to be the one chasing me) but I'll shoot that text tonight and see what happens next.

(05-08-2014 11:17 AM)Tresdus Wrote:  Texted her yesterday: Breakfast Saturday?
She replied today: Most likely not.

I've got no idea what to say next. Any help is appreciated.

Edit: What about "Dinner and your chance to win at Four Connect it is then."
(We played that game.)

You're doing what other guys do, you're chasing/supplicating with your suggested response by asking again. You should instead answer with a simple question mark or no response at all. Then restart text later, maybe on the weekend when she might be out and already drunk.

(05-11-2014 02:07 PM)Mr. Calicoat Wrote:  You're right. I guess I tried a little too hard to knock this bitch off her pedestal and by showing her that if she isn't there I can easily find others (I barely know her but she seemed like the kind of girl who believes she can make any man go exclusive with her because she's "special", well, not me!).

Your job as a man is not to go around knocking girls off of pedestals. If you are, you're acknowledging that she is above you in some way. A position of strength would be one of ignoring them completely, as if they don't exist. What you're doing comes off as butthurt.

You should've gone radio silent, or told her "I can tell you over drinks" or go funny, "miniature horse, ice shot luge, and hopefully no video cameras"

(05-14-2014 06:21 PM)the chef Wrote:  "Nice fucking song choice *with a pic of her spotify update (she added some gangster rap on that shit which she found out I listened to a lot of)
She responded 5 minutes later "why ya stalking me brah"

She's a sarcastic ass bitch that's given me sass before, but she insisted that she "come over and watch a movie" twice when I was out of town. Drop from the roster and cut her loose or reply back?

I'm feelin cut her loose but I think she's a 7.5-8ish and could tell she'd be a good fuck.

"Quit trippin, I'm back, bring some movies over"

"I'm behind you"

Pick your response based on your personality, but you really brought that upon yourself.

(05-14-2014 05:46 PM)MidWest Wrote:  I was told I should be more beta than asshole or cocky towards these Asian girls from friends here. Not sure where Im going wrong here.

McQueen pretty much answered your questions, but the above GLARES out at me. Are your friends getting laid left and right? Are they getting laid by more than one girl? Why would you take their advice if not?

She was looking for you to lead.

(05-14-2014 07:05 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(05-14-2014 05:46 PM)MidWest Wrote:  I was told I should be more beta than asshole or cocky towards these Asian girls from friends here. Not sure where Im going wrong here.

McQueen pretty much answered your questions, but the above GLARES out at me. Are your friends getting laid left and right? Are they getting laid by more than one girl? Why would you take their advice if not?

She was looking for you to lead.

No they do not get laid. But I mostly hang out with them to get the inside scoop on Asian girls or FOB Chinese girls. So I assume they know more than me about their girls since im not Asian. But you are right. Any way to salvage this text?

Question: Does anybody ever forget to text a girl back? In perspective: When a girl texts me, if I don't respond almost immediately, I will get back to doing whatever I was before and forget to text her until the next day most time. But I don't want to appear needy by instantly responding. How do you remember when to text a girl back or should I just embrace the natural aloofness?

Related to this situation: http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-34151-...81300.html
I added that roommate on FB a few days ago. We exanged a few messages.

Me: "looks like all girls with this [her] surname are pretty" (related to something I said earlier)

Her: "well, thanks:D however, you know that *myexfb* is my roommate right?:)"

How do I play this?

Met up with this broad for drinks last night. Within 15 minutes I could tell she no longer gave me those flirty eyes and wasn't on my dick as hard as she has been. Also her phone was blowing the fuck up, either from her party girl roommates or another dude trynna fuck. I cut that shit short and played it cool and bounced.

She's sent me 2 of meaningless small talk texts to get me to banter with her over text messages but I've given her the radio silence treatment.

Crazy cause just 2 weeks ago this bitch practically tried to invite herself over to fuck. I most definitely wanted to add this chick to the fwb category or at least a booty call.

I'll inevitably see her cause we have a lot of mutual friends but I think ill charge this to the game. Do you guys think I should still try and smash or pull a vanishing act for a bit?

Edit: on my phone so I have why the quote function isn't working. But I meant to quote my last few posts.

^Disappear for a week, then shoot a restart text.

If she responds positively, then meet for drinks and escalate.

Btw: just because you think she's not feeling you doesn't mean she wasn't down for the D last night. Could have been a shit test.

Always plow ahead.

Good lookin out

The last 3 girls said the same thing after banging for awhile

I never responded to them.

I almost want to say "k" or to troll her.

Or how could i voice, hey the door is open still without sounding beta ?

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^Use 'k'.

It's the easiest and most devastating text to send a girl.

Sends their hamster into overdrive and they'll usually respond with some shit because they're stunned you're not chasing.

You guys are still adding gals on fb! Why?

I'm going to pick up this chick I've taken out twice and we're going to smash in a few hours.

Background: I didn't get to fuck her on the first two dates (I got head from her, sucked on her tits, and fingered her) because of shitty logistics but tonight we're going dutch on a hotel room. And she sent me nudes two nights ago.

I texted her earlier with: "Expect me around 7:30. Wear a black thong."

She texts back: "We'll see."

I'm gonna let that sit for an hour or so before I respond. Anyone care to help me out with a witty reply while I'm getting over my lunch-induced coma? Or should I ignore it?

I don't think it needs a reply. You have nothing to gain, and you could accidentally look thirsty by sending a wrong reply.

I hope it went well.

I got a cute mexican girls number on Friday. I texted her and we were making plans to go watch a movie during the week. She said she would check her schedule and get back to me today but I have a feeling she wont respond. Should I just wait it out a couple more days and go radio silence for a while or should do you guys think I should just message her something tonight?

Girl keeps bringing up that she's a giant when I asked for her number. She is 2 inches shorter to me. How to break this shit test ?

Texted chick we should grab a quick drink this week (we've been on one date). She took a day to respond with the following-

Her: Hey 1337, thank you for the invitation, but I don't really think we're a good match.

(05-19-2014 12:20 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Texted chick we should grab a quick drink this week (we've been on one date). She took a day to respond with the following-

Her: Hey 1337, thank you for the invitation, but I don't really think we're a good match.

How long have you known this chick?/Have you banged?/Was she a random approach whose number you received?/Has she been a bitch to you in the past?