Post: #1251

"At this point, I feel pretty good. My confidence is strong and I am not hesitating much at all.

But, I can feel that my game is very elementary, it lacks the subtleties and complexities that make approaching a social art form.The little looks, the little jokes, the dramatic pauses, the word play, the double entendres, etc.

I can still display a lot more wit, power, and masculine energy."

Gio, I know exactly what you mean. I'm going through another one of those cycles as well.

To increase your masculine energy the best advice I have is to continue to progressively lean into your edge and constantly work on expanding your comfort zone. Face your fears, do whatever makes you feel nervous, try new things.

It sounds like you're definitely taking action there.

I also find meditation and being very present to the moment helps tremendously.

Plus the more interactions you have where you build sexual tension with women, eventually your brain starts to operate on a different wavelength where it is sharply tuned to all of the subtleties as well as the masculine and feminine energies.

It's a matter of practice and patience.

Body language and vocal tonality/projection is key as well.

I feel that you would benefit from using more direct language when speaking to women, ex. drop the phrase "..or something" and the words "wanna" and "maybe".

Don't ask for permission, instead tell her.

Lead.

But be sure to balance this with a warm, sexual vibe as you don't want to be too aggressive or be confrontational.

You also might want to experiment with using more plausible deniability, where your words are innocent but the vibe is very sexual.

Also remember that while women will feel turned on when you're unapologetic and openly flirting with them in front of many people, due to their social conditioning and not wanting to appear like a slut, they may say no for that reason alone.

Even though it's not a big deal for us, it can be for them.

You might benefit from looking into:

the charisma myth (how to be more charismatic)
the mood cure (looking at neurochemistry to affect mood)
the power of now (being present)
anything by david deida (masculine polarity)

Post: #1252

Gio, here's a little something you might try out. I know you're always looking for ways to change things up...

When you see one of these girls, approach and talk with her just as you normally would. Then right when she thinks you're going to make your move, don't -- just let her go.

Then re-approach the same girl if you see her weeks or months later (since you're always revisiting some of the same places). You'll get good results.

Let them feel the tension and become curious. Let them feel the need for your attention. They'll sense that you didn't stop out of fear but for some other mysterious reason. This will feed their interest -- they'll wonder about you every once in a while.

Do this with the finest girls.

Post: #1253

(02-20-2014 09:34 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  Gio, here's a little something you might try out. I know you're always looking for ways to change things up...

When you see one of these girls, approach and talk with her just as you normally would. Then right when she thinks you're going to make your move, don't -- just let her go.

Then re-approach the same girl if you see her weeks or months later (since you're always revisiting some of the same places). You'll get good results.

Let them feel the tension and become curious. Let them feel the need for your attention. They'll sense that you didn't stop out of fear but for some other mysterious reason. This will feed their interest -- they'll wonder about you every once in a while.

Do this with the finest girls.

I just did this about an hour ago. Talked for several blocks with a hot young blonde girl from Sweden who is going to college here. Her school is right down the street from where I live. She had to cross the street, and rather than following her like a puppy I said "I'll see you around." She said "sounds good" and we shook hands.

Post: #1254

I gotta get to your level, Gio. I like how you pay attention to small details and use them the way you do.

Here's a few approaches I just did at the University:

I was walking down the street and I saw this hot Armenian looking chick with huge breasts walking in my direction. Just as she got a couple steps in front of me I stop her and go direct. I say "Hey, you're cute." She smiles but also looks kinda shocked. She says "thank you" and keeps walking. I say "Wait, talk to me for one second." but she keeps going.

I walk around for a minute looking for my next approach. I see a white chick wearing extremely small Chicago Bulls shorts and a matching snapback hat. The Miley Cyrus influence was obvious. I could tell she was the type to put pics on instagram for attention. Her shorts definitely got my attention. I go direct again "Hey, you're cute. I wanna talk to you for a second" Again she says "thank you" and keeps going. No sweat, as she walked away I got to get a good mental picture of her ass in those shorts.

I talked to some more people after this, but they weren't approaches to get girls, it was more just socializing since I was in such a social environment. I had a long conversation with some freshman who has his head on straight. That kid is gonna kill it one day. I exchanged info with him because he might be able to aid me and my bro in some business.

I leave the campus and head to the gym. On the way to the gym I spot a white chick with an ass the size of Texas (Alexis Texas that is...). I go direct again:

Me: You're kinda cute. What's your name?

She opens up well and smiles hard as hell.

Her: Thankyou. (she says her name but I forgot)
Me: I'm Zeus.

We shake hands.

Her: It's nice to meet you, but I should tell you up front that I'm waiting for my boyfriend.
Me: Oh, that changes things.
Her: I'm sorry!

We go our separate ways. I could see that she was still looking at me as I walked off. I wonder how that would've gone had I pushed a little more. The thing about this approach was my body language. By this point in the day I was completely relaxed and without a care in the world.

I think I could be scaring the younger girls with the direct approach, but I haven't done it enough to say for sure. I'll experiment with it more, then decide how to go about it. On the other hand I think there's a chance I'm not being dominant enough with the direct approach.

I also take too much time in between approaches. I need to act fast and keep the momentum going. All that wasted time should be put toward more approaches. I'm not giving myself a chance to get warmed up either; I approach a few girls then call it a day. I'd really like to see what the results would be after giving myself around 5 warm up approaches.

Post: #1255

My bank account was injured for a while but I'm back in the game!

Went out to what seemed to be a black n latino club with some migos and did like 8 approaches. Didn't really workout for ya boy but it was the first time doing that shit in a long time. I think I'm back!

My favorite approach was this group of 7 chicks that I butted into like a honey badger. The whole group was giving my salty looks And they hated me from the start. Looked like they all had sand in their Vaginas. The queen bee was pissed because I made her move out of her spot. I found out it was girls night. They said they left their boyfriends at home and I told them I'll be all your boyfriends tonight. I fucked with them a bit more after that and then ejected before I was on the front page of world star

Side note:The enforcer of the group(A tall white girl with a Samoa Joe body type)thought I was funny and was laughing. So thats cool. I guess.



Here are some openers I used
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-To a girl dancing in an open space near the bar. I walked up next to her and told her that she was in my spot, this is where I dance!

-Girls at the pool table. There were some quarters on the table and I picked them up and looked at them and held them up and they smiled so I said lets play. I waved my friend over to play on my team and we played a game with them.

-Walked up to a couple chicks on the dance floor and told them to come back to my table. The chick I was talking to said ok but her friend got distracted by something and the girl I was talking to wouldn't leave her.

-Fucked with some older chicks to get a free cigarette, sat down at their table and chopped it up.

-Went to a strip of bars called fry street and walked up to two chicks and opened them with "Hey whats the top fraternity here?" They said they don't know and asked me why I asked, I told them me and my friend were trying to pretend to be in a frat to get into sorority parties. This approach had the best chance of turning into something but the back story I told them got blown up when this dude I used to chill with three or four years ago came into the bar and got excited when he saw me and came up and hugged me. I told them I was from out of town and was visiting my friend lol.

Most of these approaches led to lengthy convos but I had trouble closing.
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Just gotta keep doing all of that and I'll be batting .450 soon enough!

Post: #1256

I decided to play what somebody mentioned here before, this is "rejection game". Instead of making a goal of getting numbers and attracting girls i set my goal to be rejected as many times as possible. What is does it takes off the pressure of the approach. Once you adopted this mindset you are no longer afraid of being rejected as much. The goal is to get as many rejections as possible and get immune to it eventually. The more immune you are the more freedom you will get, the less anxiety you will feel. And the less anxiety you will feel the more confident warm energy and masculine power you will project and eventually more positive reaction you get.



yesterday i made 3 approaches.

1. i was passing the store and saw a nice looking employee inside. I turned back and entered the store.

me: hi
her: hi, how can i help you?
me: actually i dont want to buy anything. i just came to say hello because you like nice.
her: thank you
me: whats your name?
her: i cannot tell
me: too bad, how about coffee
her: sorry, i have bf
me: ok

i talked a bit about clothes and wished her nice day.

i pass by a nice blonde who gave me eye contacted. i turned back and decided to talk to her. she was on phone by this time but i didnt care.

2. me: hey, hang on, i wanted to talk to you, i think you are cute


she laughs and shows me a weeding ring.


3.15 minutes later i saw young girl with big bag standing by herself.

me: hi
her: hi ( confused look)
me: i saw you before today i think this is a sign to meet each other
her: i dont believe in such signs
me: you dont? are you student? you look like going for train
her: yes am leaving home today.

she was embarrassed and walked away. i let her go.

2 more today.

1. Saw a nice blond passing by. I immadietly turned back and approached her from back.

me: hi, we just passed each other and i thought you look cute so i wanted to say hello
her: hello
me: whats your name?
her: xxx
me: where you heading
her: i am going to buy a monthly ticket
me: you use public communication a lot then. are you a student?
her: yes i study physics

i talked with her a bit more about studies but i see she is about to move away.
me: hey , how about grab some beer somtimes
her: we will see
me: ok give me your number
her: how about fb?
me: ok

2. i saw nice looking blode in some eccentric dress. she entered the store. I followed her.

me: hi
her: hi
me: nice style. i saw you before and wanted to say hi
her: oh ok
me: you have an artistic look , are you an artist?
her: no i graduated pedagogy
me: oh, i thought you are a painter or singer
her: haha no, i cannot sing
me: me either , we have something in common. whats your name?

we exchanged names

some fluff talk. how about grabbing a tea somtimes?

her: i dont know i dont live here i just come for a course
me: thats fine , gibve me your number and we will be in touch next time you are here
her: i dont know, find me on fb
me: do i look like mentalist? , sorry to disappoint you but i cannot read your thoughts
her: hehe
me: ok put my number in your phone and let me know if you want hang around

she puts my number in her phone.

her: i cannot belive its happening. like in the movie. you are fearless

once she put my numebr she hesitate what name shoud he save

me: do you remember my name?
her: antek?
me: what antek? now i am offended i dont talk to you anymore.
her: haha thats what i heard
me: ok, lets do this again

i introduced myself again

me: i cannot believe, antek? nobody offended me like this before
her: laughing hysterically oh you made me good laugh
me: laugh is good thing, ok take care

today i made better. i was more calm and projected warmer vibe. once i pass approach anxiety in sober daygame i know my results be much better.

the key you should not wait for perfect moment to approach. i approach no matter the situation, be it in store, girls on phone etc. this way i dont give time to my mind to built excuses and create anxiety.

Post: #1257

(02-20-2014 06:44 PM)L M McCoy Wrote:  Where do you normally go to day game in SF if you don't me asking? I live like an hour away and have never visited SF

All of the colleges and universities. And, the high end shopping areas and touristy areas.

Plus, every grocery store, mall, gas station, and retail center I find myself at.

(02-20-2014 08:09 PM)Beginner Wrote:  Gio i read all your appraoches and you always get the latina and black girls. have you calculated your success with each type of girl maybe theres a pattern there?

Yes, traditionally, I have done slightly better with latina and black girls. I think this is due to two reasons:

1) I am white; They perceive me as having a higher dating value then them.

2) Those girls are generally less feministic; They respond better to my direct style of game.

Because of this, I have made a concerted effort to approach and attract more white girls.

(02-20-2014 09:13 PM)freewheeler Wrote:  You might benefit from looking into:

the charisma myth (how to be more charismatic)
the mood cure (looking at neurochemistry to affect mood)
the power of now (being present)
anything by david deida (masculine polarity)

Freewheeler,

Awesome post and awesome advice!

Everything you wrote really resonated with me.

Thanks, you have helped my game evolve!

I love all the little details you mentioned.

(02-20-2014 09:34 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  Gio, here's a little something you might try out.

When you see one of these girls, approach and talk with her just as you normally would. Then right when she thinks you're going to make your move, don't -- just let her go.

Yes.

I like this.

I do it sometimes on accident but I probably should be doing it more on purpose occasionally.

I actually did a post on the concept of "Re-Approaching" after a softer, initial approach.

Post: #1258

Damn Gio, this whole time I've been reading your posts in my head in a slightly hispanic accent.

Post: #1259

Just went out with the soul purpose of day gaming, i pussied out three times. My heart is racing right now, why do i get so nervous?

Im getting eye fucked a lot by fatties everywhere, its cause im too skinny i know it.

What does it mean you walk across a girl and all the time she has her eyes looked on the floor ahead, its like they know i want to say something and avoid giving any IOIs??? Maybe they are just shy?

Anyway ill be going out again in maybe an hour its too hot right now. Im supposedly putting up flyers, i was thinking of asking hey are you in college or something.

Post: #1260

Gio, yes the stop-just-short and reapproach later technique might increase your batting average in the reapproach, especially with some of the really fine pussy you will most enjoy banging.

Girls are weirdly intuitive and sometimes they might get a sixth sense they're being "numbers-gamed" and while they'll always admire a man with the balls to do it if he has any social skills at all, the really fine ones might feel they're too good for that and reject the approach instinctively for that reason. But if you get right to the point when they're sure you're going to make a move and then almost seem to get distracted and just let them go it will confound their expectations and that will lodge you in their memory as they try to understand in the days and weeks to come what was the deal exactly with that smooth player type guy who talked to them that day but then just let them go. So the next time you see this high quality piece of pussy she is primed for you.

Post: #1261

Just to follow up on my results with all these approaches..

Last night, I went on a date with the 19yo from this approach:

(11-16-2013 02:34 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  10 minutes later, I see another cutie, Latina, long hair, nice body. She is walking towards the bus stop, I hurry to catch up. She sits down at the bus stop, a minute later I walk up pretending that I am just walking by..

me: hello

I continue walking a few steps to make it appear like I haven't come to talk to her..

her: hi

I slow down..

me: i like your jacket

I stop.

her: oh thank you
me: thats a cool shade of green, it reminds me of money
her: haha ya i wore it because someone owes me money and i was hoping to collect it today
me: haha you are trying to use color schemes to get in their mind huh?
her: ha ya but it didn't work
me: too bad. how was class today?
her: oh pretty good
me: what did you have?
her: psychology
me: thats my favorite
her: ya its interesting if you have a good teacher
me: thats true, are you from around here?
her: no im from santa clarita
me: where?
her: its right near 6 Flags as you get over the grapevine
me: oh ya i know that town, i stop at a little mexican place right off the freeway
her: at a little shopping center, truck stop?
me: exactly
her: omg! i love that place!
me: thats funny

She got really excited and a connection was made. We chatted for a few more minutes and getting her number was easy.

I texted her about 10 minutes after meeting her and joked about the truck stop in her hometown. She got right back to me. I will try to set up a little dinner date in a few days

I banged her on the first date:

Here is a brief summary of that bang!

(12-11-2013 12:04 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Just got another one. 19. Told her I was 29. 1st date. Approached her last month.

-I saw her sitting by herself at the bus stop, so I walked by her and said "hi". (full approach is in the above link)

-Texted her 10 minutes after meeting her to continue the joke that we had been laughing about.

-Texted her a few days later to set a date. She didn't get back to me.

- She texted me 2 days later. We said we would hang out soon.

- Texted her 5 days later to set a date. She didn't get back to me.

- She texted me 3 days later saying sorry she wants to hang. We made plans.

- She came over last night for dinner. BANG

That young body was amazing! Tight and flawless!

That's one 18yo, one 19yo, and one 20yo this semester. I am getting better.

Honestly, her 19 year old body was spectacular.

Her 19 year old pussy smelled like a brand new car!

*****

Tonight, I have date with the 18 year old from this approach:

(02-14-2014 10:28 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Today, different university..

I park me car and walk onto campus, I immediately see a cute black girl in yoga pants..

I walk at an angle that allow are paths to cross, when I get past her about one step, I say..

me: i love your hair, you got alot going on up there but it all comes together nice
her: oh thank you
me: that one french braid is what makes it
her: you think so
me: yup, do you have class right now
her: yeah on my way right now
me: what do you study?
her: fashion design
me: you look like a fashion person
her: i do?
me: ya
her: haha
me: do you have a a little accent?
her: oh maybe im from indiana
me: your a hoosier
her: yes
me; i thought i heard a little mid western twang
her: ha, hey im about to go in here right now.

She points at a building that we passed a a few steps ago. The fact that she didn't stop at the building entrance but instead walked with me about 10 steps lets me know that she like me.

me: ok ill let you go to class, do you wanna text me sometime?
her: oh umm, well, u can text me
me: okay, here is my number call me so i have yours

She call me. We say our goodbyes.

I texted her about 2 hours layer and said -- "how was class? did i spell you name right??? -gio"

she got right back to me. We have been texting off and on all day. We might be going for frozen yougart tonight. I offered wed and alcohol but she said she doesn't do that. We'll see

As you guys can see, I normally have to approach 20-40 18/19 year olds in order to get a bang. I am 38.

Sometimes, I get lucky and it happens in fewer approaches, sometimes more.

Post: #1262

(02-22-2014 03:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Her 19 year old pussy smelled like a brand new car!

That's an amazing thing you just said.

Post: #1263

Friday, 12-2pm, university.

As I'm driving about a block away from campus, I see a hot italian/spanish girl, maybe she was white/latina, 18 or 19 with long dirty blond hair and wearing form fitting jeans with a nice body. She is walking away from campus, waiting at the corner, I see a parking spot, I take it and quickly walk in her direction. She crosses the street, I cross as soon as I can. She is about 1 block ahead of me, I speed up my walk and get out my phone which is on silent mode.

When I get within about 10 feet of her, I begin my "fake phone call". I have a fake conversation into my phone. I do this so she will hear me walking behind her and get a feel for my vibe.

"just email me that stuff and make sure you include everything"

"i dont care what those guys are doing, honestly, they are a bunch of fucking idiots"

"when a girl says something like that, she means it, dont play around"

I say these things as I casually walk past her. Once, I get a few steps ahead of her I turn over my shoulder and say..

me: hey what is the name of this neighborhood? is this considered strawberry hill or west valley?
her: oh umm actually, im not sure
me: oh your not from around here?
her: well, ive only been here for about a year
me: oh okay, where did you come from?
her: san marco
me: what! i went to high school in san marco
her: really?
me: ya i went to san marco high
her: ya me too
me: oh cool, how are you enjoying it up here
her: its ok

At this moment, she turns and starts walking into an apartment building. I am still walking slightly ahead of her so it's weird for me to just turn and follow her. I stop and say..

me: hey, let me ask you something.
her: sorry i gotta run

She disappeared into the building.

Fuck! I guess she wasn't interested.

Next!

*****

10 minutes later, I see a hot latina in yoga pants, dark features with clean cinnamon skin with a nice plump ass busting out of those pants. She has earbuds in.

She is across the street. I cross and put myself 15 feet in front of her. I slow my walk to allow her to catch up. As she is passing me, I pretend to notice her, I smile and say:

me: is that mgmt?

She can't hear me because of her headphones.

her: oh what?
me: that sounds like mgmt
her: oh no its wu-tang
me: wutang? you're too young to know about wutang. what album?
her: i dont know its just random songs
me: they are like 20 years old, how old are you?
her: im 19
me: who taught you about wutang?
her: my dad is a dj hahaha
me: seriously? thats funny
her: ya he turned me on to them
me: they used to be one of my favorites, who is your favorite?
her: well, im listening to odb right now
me: you like odb?
her: ya
me: damn, now i know you are a little crazy!
her: lol whose yours
me: ghost and the gza

We walk and talk music. After a few minutes, she has to head to class..

me: hey lets hang out sometime and listen to some wutang, maybe smoke or something..
her: oh i would but, im not really trying to date right now
me: its not a date, i didnt say date, lol
her: well, no thanks actually

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see a cute red head sitting and working on her laptop, pretty face, creamy skin..

I walk by..

me: how is your wifi connection out here?
her: oh it terrible
me: haha
her: i think its time to go inside but i was hoping to enjoy some sunshine
me: you dont know about the secret balcony?
her: the secret balcony?

I explain to her that there is a little known part of the library where you can actually sit outside on a balcony.

She thanked me.

I do not ask for her number or try to insta-date her.

When she stood up, I was not attracted.

*****

5 minutes later, I see a cute latina taking pictures around the art building..

I walk by..

me: are you taking selfies out here? haha
her: no im taking pictures of this sculture
me: i personally think that looks out of place, it doesn't fit in with the scenic beauty around here, dont you agree?
her: you know, it really would be better in front of the industrial arts building.
me: exactly,thats what it is, industrial art, not natural art.

She just kept walking. I guess she didn't want to stop and talk.

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see a beautiful white girl, blond, thin, fit, hot..

She is walking right towards me, she is wearing crazy sunglasses..

me: look at those crazy glasses
her: haha

We walk right past each other.

I immediately turn, walk in her direction and say..

me: excuse me, you look great today, where are you from?
her: oh im from san diego

I walk over to her.

me: oh i love sd, i have family in la jolla
her: im from near there
me: hi im gio
her: samantha
me: nice to meet you

We chat for a minute about SF.

me: wanna go out for a drink sometime?
her: oh sorry i have a boyfriend

Next!

*****

10 minutes later, I see a cute filapina, hot little body, round ass and a cute face, she looks like she is about 16 but since we are on a college campus, I know she is at least 18..

I follow her across the street. I get within a few feet of her. She trips and almost falls down..

me: hey dont trip over the grass haha
her: omg i almost did
me: good thing i was here, i would have saved you
her: haha thanks
me: how was class today?
her: it was ok

Blah, blah, blah. We talk about school stuff for a few minutes as we walk through the campus apartments. After a while, she starts to had towards a building.

me: hey do you wanna exchange numbers or something?
her: oh well, i dont know, i have a boyfriend
me: are yo happy with him
her: um yes i am

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see a cute white girl wearing short shorts and a mid cut top..

I walk up along side her...

me: you are gonna freeze to death out here girl
her: haha im fine im warm blooded
me: a warm blooded mammal huh?
her: yes exactly
me: you must be a bio major
her: close, im geology
me: oh cool

Blah, blah, blah. We talk about school.

She wasn't interested.

Next!

*****

5 minutes later, I see a smoking hot white girl, tight yoga pants, little tank top, carrying a yoga mat with an ass that should have been on Instagram..

I walk past her and say..

me: how was yoga?
her: ha oh it was really good
me: the teacher is ok
her: oh i love her shes really good
me: you never know with these college yoga classes
her: no shes great
me: do you ever do it in any studios or anything?
her: no this was my first time
me: its amazing right?


Blah, blah, blah..

I'm really flattered but I cant, I have a boyfriend" was the last thing I remember.

*****

I've decided that I'm going to dress a little edgier.

I need to invoke a more extreme emotional reaction

I'm still too plain and "vanilla", in my appearance. It doesn't match my aggressive gaming style.

Post: #1264

(02-22-2014 01:51 PM)Kickb Wrote:  

Damn Gio, this whole time I've been reading your posts in my head in a slightly hispanic accent.

I am 50% "hispanic".

I don't have a "hispanic" accent.

(02-22-2014 02:16 PM)dog24 Wrote:  why do i get so nervous?

You are not used to doing it.

It is a little scary at first until you get used to it.

(02-22-2014 02:16 PM)dog24 Wrote:  What does it mean you walk across a girl and all the time she has her eyes looked on the floor ahead

It could mean a lot of things..

If you want to bang her, approach her, regardless of her body language and perceived "mood".

Some of my best approaches/bangs have come from girls who initially appeared to be "anti-social".

If you want her, approach her. There's no reason to ponder her emotional state.

(02-22-2014 02:16 PM)dog24 Wrote:  Maybe they are just shy?

Sometimes.

Other times, they are just trying to appear shy.

(02-22-2014 02:16 PM)dog24 Wrote:  i was thinking of asking hey are you in college or something.

Maybe ask them directions to the nearest college.

Say you have to do something on campus. Start a discussion about college, major's, etc.

(02-22-2014 02:21 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  Girls are weirdly intuitive and sometimes they might get a sixth sense they're being "numbers-gamed"

Hahahahahahaha!!

Fascinating and I agree!

I need to do a better job of not giving off the vibe of a guy running "numbers game"!

I'm sure a few of them have sensed it.

(02-22-2014 03:05 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

(02-22-2014 03:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Her 19 year old pussy smelled like a brand new car!

That's an amazing thing you just said.

I don't remember if it was you or maybe Beyond Borders who reminded to me to enjoy and savor every sexual moment with a hot young girl.

It is a privilege to be able to get naked with one of them. One of the great thrills in life.

The literally smell fresher and "newer".

Post: #1265

Log of few Approaches from last week..

# 1: I intentionally go sit at a busy Phlebotomy( Blood Drawing) location and pretend to be reading a book while waiting my turn, This location is within a University so there are a lot of students around and after 5 min of wait a cutie with a broken ankle comes sit next to me, i give it some time and open with.

me: I like your one boot

her: Laughs ... cant wait to wear my other one

me: I'm guessing Ankle fracture ?

her: yeah , I slipped on Ice , blah blah blah.....

me: They are really backed up today ...

her: yeah , always takes like an hour.

me: i have to get back to work , may be I will come back tomorrow morning.

her: What do you do ?

me: Usual Story that sits well with her and I ask her what she is studying

her: she tells me and I reveal my Intentions.

Me: Well I have 10 min before i head back let's get a cup of coffee

her: No I'm really busy , i have to get to a class

me: Ok lets exchange numbers so we can carry on ....

her: I have a BF

me: Is he the Jelous kind

her: he kinda is

me: Alright nice talking to you and I eject

# 2: I'm trolling at Lunch break and spot a single girl sitting on a bench by herself, She looks lonely , definitely not a student. I remember it was Valentines Day and I open her with

me: Happy Valentine's day to you

her: same to you

she shifts as if giving me the invite to sit with her and I did

me: So what are doing sitting all lonely in this corner

her: I'm waiting for my mom, she has an appointment in such and such place

me: Nice of you to do that for your mom, My mom is in NY and I spent abpout 2 weeks with her , she had a surgery done last month and now I'm here to do work with the University

her: What do you do ?

me: my usual DHV story

her: Intersting , I'm a CNA but don't work in the medical field any more.

me: Where are you working these days ?

her: I work at a Strip Club as a hostess

me: Ok, Listen I was gonna go outside for a smoke, why don't you join me

her: Ok lets go

Insta Date: We get coffee and go outside for a smoke , We sit and talk for good 10 min and I go for the close, she tells me she has a serious BF and he deserves all her free time. I tried the BF destroyers to no avail and finally settle for her to hook me up with some of her Stripper friends.

She was digging me but didn't give me her number but offered to introdce me to some of her friends, she took my number, I haven't received any texts from her ..........

Post: #1266

(02-24-2014 09:06 AM)Lothario Wrote:  # 1: I intentionally go sit at a busy Phlebotomy( Blood Drawing) location and pretend to be reading a book while waiting my turn, This location is within a University so there are a lot of students around

Im gonna go and do this right now, its exhausting chasing after girls specially since i cant seem to catch up to any of them.
Im gonna go sit on a bench in one of the streets coming out of college, ill be reading something i need to memorize for a test.

Im writing this so i dont pussy out again, i hope i get called out if i dont post all the approaches im supposed to do.

Post: #1267

(02-22-2014 06:15 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(02-22-2014 01:51 PM)Kickb Wrote:  

Damn Gio, this whole time I've been reading your posts in my head in a slightly hispanic accent.

I am 50% "hispanic".

I don't have a "hispanic" accent.

(02-22-2014 02:16 PM)dog24 Wrote:  why do i get so nervous?

You are not used to doing it.

It is a little scary at first until you get used to it.

(02-22-2014 02:16 PM)dog24 Wrote:  What does it mean you walk across a girl and all the time she has her eyes looked on the floor ahead

It could mean a lot of things..

If you want to bang her, approach her, regardless of her body language and perceived "mood".

Some of my best approaches/bangs have come from girls who initially appeared to be "anti-social".

If you want her, approach her. There's no reason to ponder her emotional state.

(02-22-2014 02:16 PM)dog24 Wrote:  Maybe they are just shy?

Sometimes.

Other times, they are just trying to appear shy.

(02-22-2014 02:16 PM)dog24 Wrote:  i was thinking of asking hey are you in college or something.

Maybe ask them directions to the nearest college.

Say you have to do something on campus. Start a discussion about college, major's, etc.

(02-22-2014 02:21 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  Girls are weirdly intuitive and sometimes they might get a sixth sense they're being "numbers-gamed"

Hahahahahahaha!!

Fascinating and I agree!

I need to do a better job of not giving off the vibe of a guy running "numbers game"!

I'm sure a few of them have sensed it.

(02-22-2014 03:05 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  

(02-22-2014 03:01 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  Her 19 year old pussy smelled like a brand new car!

That's an amazing thing you just said.

I don't remember if it was you or maybe Beyond Borders who reminded to me to enjoy and savor every sexual moment with a hot young girl.

It is a privilege to be able to get naked with one of them. One of the great thrills in life.

The literally smell fresher and "newer".

Respect G, I view your game in a similar vein as the players version of Reggie Miller or Ray Allen.

Those guys can go 0-for their last 25, but they KEEP shooting because they feel the next one will go in and eventually it does. Never shy away from taking the big shot, it's a mentality. I can dig that.

Salute!!!

Post: #1268

Walmart Approaches:

# 1: I am waiting for some meds to be filled for a friend of mine and start trolling the aisles and see a MILF with nice boots coming my way, I open with

me: Nice boots
her: Thanks , can't leave house with out these
me: How do you protect the suede ? I have a pair of suede shoes that i don't want to wear in snow
her: you can get a protectant spray from here
me: yeah, my shoes are in NY , just got here last week.
her: What brought you here
me: Working on a 3 month project with the Uni...... yada yada
her: I used to work there but now I work at the Salon
me: Nice , So did you just got off from work ?
her: No, today was my off day.
me: I'm new in this town , lets go out for drinks sometime
her : yeah sure

We exchange numbers, banter a little more, I kiss her on the cheeks when departing and did set up a time and date to meet.

Date: She showed up 5 min before scheduled time, dressed nice accentuating her dolly Parton type boobs. We exchange personal Info, I kino here and there and at about 1 hr mark and couple of glasses of wine, Kiss her, She starts to tell me she has a dancing lession in an hr.

We leave , I ask her to drop me at my place which is 3-4 blocks away, she does and I invite her to come in for a glass of wine, she gives token resistance and I tell her to cancel her dance lesson , she can reschedule any time, she called while we were in her car and comes inside with me.

Wine is flowing, We go outside to smoke and heavy kissing , we are inside and she wouldn't come to the bedroom, We drink, dance, smoke, kiss. I went as far as second base...

I don't think i will be persuing a second date as she knows way too many people that i know as well (Oh well ..... Hazards of gaming and living in a small town)


# 2: I see a Tall busty white Girl possibly with fake boobs, She sees me smiles and we cross each other. a little later I see her in the Cosmetics Aisle, I open her with ....

me: Do you know where is the hand lotion, they usually keep it in Cosmetics
her: yeah it's in the next aisle
me: thanks, Is there a brand you recommend ?
her: yeah try that i really like it , specially with this weather and I have to wash my Hands a lot at work ..
me: let me guess, you are a Nurse.
her: smiling and shifts towards me , how did you guess ? I'm a nursing student.
me: you have a motherly, nurturing vibe about you ...
her: hahaha
me: Where are you doing your clinicals , I might run into you
her: such and such hospital , What do you do ?
me: I am a consultant just came from NY and working with such and such place.

I let her go for whatever odd reason ..... and a little later see her standing one aisle over from check out , she seems like she looked towards me, then looked away (may be she wants me to reapproach) .... and I reapproach with

me: hey I found the lotion you recommended
her: you will like it
me: Listen ! I would like to take you out for drinks sometime
her: i would love that but i'm taken , My BF is in the store over yonder.
me: I'm guessing he is the jelous kind
her: good guess again
me: alright i'll let you go then ...

Post: #1269

I love Lothario's approaching!

I am learning from your conversational skills with women.

(02-24-2014 11:00 AM)dog24 Wrote:  its exhausting chasing after girls specially since i cant seem to catch up to any of them.

This interesting to me.

I do often find myself having to speed up my walk quite a bit. Girls can walk fast and the answer for us is to..

Walk Faster
Jog a little if you have to
Take good angles
Time lights and traffic jams
Look for short cuts
Follow them
Improve fitness level

Also, try walking in front of them and slowing down a little to let them catch up.

For example, if you see her across the street, cross and put yourself in front of her and behind her.

(02-24-2014 12:01 PM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  Respect G, I view your game in a similar vein as the players version of Reggie Miller or Ray Allen.

Those guys can go 0-for their last 25, but they KEEP shooting because they feel the next one will go in and eventually it does. Never shy away from taking the big shot, it's a mentality. I can dig that.

Thanks Detroit,

I have enjoyed reading your interesting perspectives.

Honestly, I see myself more as Nate Robinson type of playboy.

When I get out there, I'm going for mine. I don't give a fuck. I might fail but it won't be because I was scared to shoot the ball!

Or, a white player example would be Kirt Hinrich. I fight and scratch for everything I get and my skills allow me to actualize survive at a high level.

Maybe, a combo of those 2 guys..

All in all, my numbers are not at all star level but when I get hot and get into a rhythm, I can be very dangerous.

I hope to get to a Ray Allen or Reggie Miller type level in another few years.

They are consistent high percentage sharp shooters!

I think I need to improve my fashion and conversation a little more in order to get there.

Post: #1270

I will now take a break from all this approaching.

Why?

Because this past weekend, I had sexual contact with an 18yo, a 19yo, and a 20yo.

Two 7s and an 8. Latina, Black, Latina. The 18yo and 19yo had thin, beautiful bodies.

To make this happen, I had to approach around 60 girls of similar age.

Statistically, If I approach 20 college girls, I will likely bang one.

That's it, just 20 fucking girls!!!

4 years ago, I had to approach 40 or 50 or 60 college girls just to get one!

(Keep it mind that 4 years ago, I was 34 years old and mainly approaching college freshman and sophomores)

I have gotten older but through hard work and dedication, I have gotten better.

As I continue to push hard in this area, these numbers will continue to improve, even as I get closer to 40.

I thank you guys for you help!!! I'm not sure I would/could have done it without this forum.

I joined this forum because I knew I had the power to get cute 18 and 19 year olds.

Finally, after 4 years and 3 months, I feel like I have accomplished my mission!

I know I can go onto almost any university campus in the world and if I put the approaches in, I will pull a thin, feminine college girl.

It's a beautiful feeling!

*****

In terms of improving these numbers..

What I've learned is to NOT WASTE APPROACHES!

Don't "half-step"! Approach with full force every time!

Never "half-assed" or at "half meaure"!

This often means more guts, more courage, more confidence, more ownership of it and less giving a fuck about the outcome.

If you can do this.. You will do more for yourself, more for the girl, and more for the world in general. And, you will create more chemistry with more girls!

*****

Things can change at any moment.

I could lose one of these girls today!

"It's complicated"

When I find myself with no sexual options, I will start again.

*****

Running "Number's Game" was a little weird because I had to pretend that I was not running "number's game".

I learned to give each girl my full attention and not be concerned with the "numbers".

*****

I'm satisfied with my social-sexual abilities.

I will begin to focus more on other things.

*****

Now, I will not make time to go to a college campus during the day. I will simply talk to girls that I run into throughout the normal course of my day. Of course, I do try to shop, eat, and hang out at places that have a lot of girls.

Post: #1271

(02-24-2014 05:42 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  I will now take a break from all this approaching.

Why?

Because this past weekend, I had sexual contact with an 18yo, a 19yo, and a 20yo.

Two 7s and an 8. Latina, Black, Latina. The 18yo and 19yo had thin, beautiful bodies.

To make this happen, I had to approach around 60 girls of similar age.

Statistically, If I approach 20 college girls, I will likely bang one.

That's it, just 20 fucking girls!!!

4 years ago, I had to approach 40 or 50 or 60 college girls just to get one!

(Keep it mind that 4 years ago, I was 34 years old and mainly approaching college freshman and sophomores)

I have gotten older but through hard work and dedication, I have gotten better.

As I continue to push hard in this area, these numbers will continue to improve, even as I get closer to 40.

I thank you guys for you help!!! I'm not sure I would/could have done it without this forum.

I joined this forum because I knew I had the power to get cute 18 and 19 year olds.

Finally, after 4 years and 3 months, I feel like I have accomplished my mission!

I know I can go onto almost any university campus in the world and if I put the approaches in, I will pull a thin, feminine college girl.

It's a beautiful feeling!

*****

In terms of improving these numbers..

What I've learned is to NOT WASTE APPROACHES!

Don't "half-step"! Approach with full force every time!

Never "half-assed" or at "half meaure"!

This often means more guts, more courage, more confidence, more ownership of it and less giving a fuck about the outcome.

If you can do this.. You will do more for yourself, more for the girl, and more for the world in general. And, you will create more chemistry with more girls!

*****

Things can change at any moment.

I could lose one of these girls today!

"It's complicated"

When I find myself with no sexual options, I will start again.

*****

Running "Number's Game" was a little weird because I had to pretend that I was not running "number's game".

I learned to give each girl my full attention and not be concerned with the "numbers".

*****

I'm satisfied with my social-sexual abilities.

I will begin to focus more on other things.

*****

Now, I will not make time to go to a college campus during the day. I will simply talk to girls that I run into throughout the normal course of my day. Of course, I do try to shop, eat, and hang out at places that have a lot of girls.

What are you moving onto now?

Post: #1272

So, it took 5 hours to do two approaches. Worst ROI ever.
I sit down at a bench for nearly two hours not a single girl was seen that day.
I decided to walk around my campus and couldnt find any girls alone.
This is a big poblem i missed ton of opportunities cause i cant approach if there is an audience.

Then i went to a mall 2 miles away, did no approaches. At one point i became almost paranoid and i thought the guards were gonna kick me out.

Then i went to another college thats just as close as my own, there was an endless stream of girls walking the three blocks from the main road to college. It took me almost an hour of waiting for a girl to be alone.

Good looking girl probably an 8, she was walking towards me and i said hi.
She pretended not to listen and only stopped after i repeated myself and she was already 2 feet away from me. I asked something about her college and she wasnt having any of it. I didnt bother asking for a number or anything i just said ok thanks, and she looked at me like thats it? I know what you were trying to do.

As soon as i turned a truck full of guys started cat calling her. Guys do this stupid thing were when a girl walks past them they just say hi kinda like teasing her, its not even an attempt to pick up its just trolling.

Then i went to the supermarket, no girls, a block from home i noticed a girl waiting for her bus in a corner it was already dark and she got scared
Me: Hi, mind if i bother you?
Her: No
Me: I just saw you from across the street and wanted to say hi
Her: hahah ok (i was surprised she didnt took it the wrong way)
Me: So what are you doing here, she told me she worked across the street and where she was going but she didnt give me any eye contact.
And then i said i know this is kinda weird but do you want to go out sometime, and she said YEAH ITS WEIRD, and then she got up ooops that my bus and left, i totally scared her.

I need a more efficient way to do this.

Post: #1273

Brother Giovonny every single post of your has a Gem in it, Keep preaching brother.

I know we all excel at one facet in life and lack in other,wish you all the best in whatever endeavor you are embarking on. I'm guessing you are trying to optomize the finances which is pretty big part of Game. Preach a little on that would ya ......

With the same kind of discipline you used when gaming girls I'm sure you will be successful in no time.

In personally did well Career wise and ended up lacking severely in the getting girls dept and just trying to catch up on lost time.

So what are some of the Big facets of a Players Game of life.

1. Finance

2. Style

3. Fitness

4. Social Skills and Whatever else that can be filed under gaming girls (Conversational abilities, Humor, Confidence, Balls/Courage etc etc

Post: #1274

(02-24-2014 06:13 PM)dog24 Wrote:  I decided to walk around my campus and couldnt find any girls alone.
This is a big poblem i missed ton of opportunities cause i cant approach if there is an audience.

Then i went to a mall 2 miles away, did no approaches. At one point i became almost paranoid and i thought the guards were gonna kick me out.

Then i went to another college thats just as close as my own, there was an endless stream of girls walking the three blocks from the main road to college. It took me almost an hour of waiting for a girl to be alone.

dog24: I hope you have tough skin, my critique purely to help you out and I can resonate with some of your weaknesses that were mine few years ago.

Here are few suggestions in random order ......

" Your opinion about yourself is more important then other people's Opinion about yourself "

Fuck what others think about you approaching in daylight, Fuck the Guards who are trying to throw you out of the mall. Actually most people will secretly admire your balls to approach a girl and carry on about their lives. At the early stages of game it is difficult but slowly desensitize yourself and free yourself from outcome dependence.

Just say Hi, Smile at Girls passing by in a playful way, Dress to Impress every day , you will get more looks from Girls.

Read Bang and Day-Bang and reread them

Taoisms follow the first rule first

1. Remove your desire: Just carry on a conversation with a girl with out thinking about banging the Girl. Once you get good at talking then start polarizing them ......

Post: #1275

Gio and Lothario, dropping some gems here.I've haven't approached in the day time for a while. Time to get to work.