^^^ brings an idea to mind, why not go and create profiles on all these sites and apps using pictures of overseas models overbrag on the profile and then get numbers using some text internet service and say to the lizards that you will hook them up with a friend in a different city. That friend just being you obviously.

(10-28-2013 01:02 AM)Emancipator Wrote:  ^^^ brings an idea to mind, why not go and create profiles on all these sites and apps using pictures of overseas models overbrag on the profile and then get numbers using some text internet service and say to the lizards that you will hook them up with a friend in a different city. That friend just being you obviously.

Yeah I have tried this in the past actually. I've come close, but it's a hard act to pull off and a lot of effort. I'd rather just pull them on my own accord. But, that said, it's hardly impossible, as the text messages I posted demonstrate.

My idea with the Pussy Exchange was to take those random occasions where you connect with a girl that is too far away to pull, and donate that connection to someone else.

I had a few other txt message streams that I didn't post, and so far it seems that girls are 50/50 on getting "set up" with my "friend" in her city.

Social proof, and all that. Some girls would rather go out with a guy that a random stranger knows, than go out with a random stranger.

You know you are a player when you are talking to one of your girls about having threesomes with her friends, and you are scrolling through her friends with her making choices.

This is probably a generalisation, but the difference between white and black girls when it comes to sex is way different. I was going about it the same way as usual with a movie and slowly escalating and she said "this is your first time with a black girl huh"

I was like yeah, and she laughed. I kind of figured she just wanted dick and so I stopped kissing her and took her pants and panties off real quick. The whole process was expedited!

Girl coming over tonight to my place. First meet, from tinder - she has to drive 45 minutes to get here, so I know she is at least invested.

Blurred,

I've thought the same thing. I've got these random numbers from around the world that are basically there to die.

An even crazier thing: One of my roommates was supposed to go on a first date with a chick. Some family emergency came up last minute so he had to bail. He told the girl to meet one of our other roommates. He sent her a quick picture of him and she agreed. They went on the date. They're now married.

I don't have much time to get another girl into the rotation, but if you've got some really solid girls in NYC don't be afraid to pass along those numbers!

(10-28-2013 03:45 PM)MaleDefined Wrote:  An even crazier thing: One of my roommates was supposed to go on a first date with a chick. Some family emergency came up last minute so he had to bail. He told the girl to meet one of our other roommates. He sent her a quick picture of him and she agreed. They went on the date. They're now married.

That's a great story. A good example too of why I think some girls are willing to get "set up" with a stranger, by another stranger - they believe in these fairy tale stories of fate; that they will meet their future husband in the most unlikely of circumstances. And based on your story, these unlikely scenarios actually do transpire, and do work out for some people, which is pretty cool.

I'm trying to bang two different girls later tonight, but I'll PM you some of the NYC girls pics tomorrow when I have free time. Even if nothing comes out of this, it would be fun to see how it plays out, just for the sake of it.

Baltimore guys - I also have a 23yo blonde cutie that agreed to have me set her up with "my friend." Hit me up if you want to try out this experiment.

(10-28-2013 09:22 AM)kickboxer Wrote:  This is probably a generalisation, but the difference between white and black girls when it comes to sex is way different. I was going about it the same way as usual with a movie and slowly escalating and she said "this is your first time with a black girl huh"

I was like yeah, and she laughed. I kind of figured she just wanted dick and so I stopped kissing her and took her pants and panties off real quick. The whole process was expedited!

I wouldnt say black and white. I would say hood and not. I have smashed hood Mexican chicks and trailer park white girls who just want the dick. No foreplay. Most hood dudes dont give a fuck about the women gettin off. They insert until the pussy becomes wet. Hood bishes are use to that and dont know anything else.

(10-28-2013 04:26 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  

(10-28-2013 03:45 PM)MaleDefined Wrote:  An even crazier thing: One of my roommates was supposed to go on a first date with a chick. Some family emergency came up last minute so he had to bail. He told the girl to meet one of our other roommates. He sent her a quick picture of him and she agreed. They went on the date. They're now married.

That's a great story. A good example too of why I think some girls are willing to get "set up" with a stranger, by another stranger - they believe in these fairy tale stories of fate; that they will meet their future husband in the most unlikely of circumstances. And based on your story, these unlikely scenarios actually do transpire, and do work out for some people, which is pretty cool.

I'm trying to bang two different girls later tonight, but I'll PM you some of the NYC girls pics tomorrow when I have free time. Even if nothing comes out of this, it would be fun to see how it plays out, just for the sake of it.

Baltimore guys - I also have a 23yo blonde cutie that agreed to have me set her up with "my friend." Hit me up if you want to try out this experiment.

I would definitely bump this chick to the front of my dating list just to see the type of dividends it would pay.

Solid 8 hit me up on POF. I tried an instadate message. She gave me her number. I texted her. Seems kind of suspect. Pros are lurking on POF but usually I run into the black pros. Her profile seems legit. Number is an Austin number though. Maybe she is a stripper who is in town for a day or two. We shall see. Havent got a response yet. I have honestly been hit by maybe 10 pros the last six months. Do I have the face of a fuckin John? My pics are from Thailand, Brazil, and Mexico. Straight international. Maybe I look like a suger daddie haha. Will keep you posted.

Should I post a link to her profile? You never know what the guest lurkers are doing here. I alway wonder if there are some straight trolls or assholes who try to fuck our game up.

She was a bot. Didnt directly answer any questions. Finally got around to telling me shes going to just try hookup.com and her battery is going to die so add her. That's a first.

So the host of the party where I got relentlessly cockblocked by that mangina gave my number to that chick.

I get a text at work saying who it is and reply with "at work, call later"

She calls me just now and a few minutes in I notice this noise. I realize what it is: shes chewing an apple.

"are you chewing an apple so you can sound casual on the phone, fuckin george costanza over here..."

I started laughing my ass off and she didn't even get the reference.

(10-28-2013 01:11 PM)TimDV Wrote:  Girl coming over tonight to my place. First meet, from tinder - she has to drive 45 minutes to get here, so I know she is at least invested.

Quick follow up: She looked better than on her pictures (how many times does that happen) 8+ imo and is totally unaware of how great she looks for a 30 year old, she has this very youthful looking face (and body). Anyways.
I slowly pushed the boundary while talking with her for 2 hours sipping red wine (her bottle), when we started to make out a bit you could see she felt uncomfortable and she stopped me saying it went all too fast and she only had one relationship before, which lasted +10 years. Since that she's been single for 2 years working 12 hours a day spending the rest of her time with her son. I was one of the first dates she had since then, a friend of hers encouraged her. We kissed some more (softly, not too intense) but it was late and she had to drive a long way back so she left.

The rare uncorrupted mind, it seems to exist - it took me by surprise, but I'll probably see her again as she already messaged me twice today. I'll give this one some time.

Do I pursue the absolutely gorgeous cute 16 y/o...

6 years.. hmm....

Tonight will be the third consecutive night that I'm fucking a different girlfriend.

I think I'm just going to start calling them Ms. Tues, Ms. Sunday, etc.

These aren't new bangs, but girls I've been seeing for a while.

In a way, it's good, because it's keeping me from drinking. They only thing I don't like is that only one of them has nice tits. The others have very fit, slender/skinny sexy bodies with awesome asses, but no tits.

---

I've realized that these girls are trying to run game on me by constantly emptying my sack. This how they prevent me from feeling like I need to get pussy from someone else.

They might be winning tonight, but tomorrow and the next few days I'm a free man from my multiple ball-and-chains.

To all the guys out there who complain about having one girlfriend, try having more than three and then you can complain.

In a way, it's ok for now but they are all starting to put pressure on me for more of my time.

Past two numbers I've gotten from day approaches I've attempted a hangout at my place. I've asked them if they want to come over for a drink in a casual way.

Both times I've gotten something along the lines of: hey I don't know you all to well yet, why don't we just meet for a coffee during the day instead?

I'm not sure if this is a good or bad thing.

I am looking to just bang and see where I am at later, so maybe I'm doing good in the respect that I am qualifying girls and not wasting time with girls who aren't down.

But at the same time, I might be burning prospects that might only be warm at first, but become a strong prospect for a bang later after an initial hangout.

Maybe it's because I'm not willing to sacrifice time for other things right now to go on dates. Or I just don't like these girls well enough to commit more than one meeting.

Might be just the moment as well. Things could change a week from now for sure.

(10-29-2013 10:53 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  Past two numbers I've gotten from day approaches I've attempted a hangout at my place. I've asked them if they want to come over for a drink in a casual way.

Both times I've gotten something along the lines of: hey I don't know you all to well yet, why don't we just meet for a coffee during the day instead?

I'm not sure if this is a good or bad thing.

I am looking to just bang and see where I am at later, so maybe I'm doing good in the respect that I am qualifying girls and not wasting time with girls who aren't down.

But at the same time, I might be burning prospects that might only be warm at first, but become a strong prospect for a bang later after an initial hangout.

Maybe it's because I'm not willing to sacrifice time for other things right now to go on dates. Or I just don't like these girls well enough to commit more than one meeting.

Might be just the moment as well. Things could change a week from now for sure.

I don't think its that much of a jump to think that a girl who doesn't know you that well isn't willing to go to your place just yet--as far as she knows you could be a total psycho. She also could be concerned with looking like a slut, ex. do you wanna come to my place for a drink--it's pretty obvious, even to a woman what that means. While there's no doubt that it can work, it isn't going to work all of the time. Plus a girl might have been feeling you at the time but a day or two later her emotions change, might want to try getting her on the phone and gaming her a bit more.

Regardless, here are some points to ponder.

Are you getting her to emotionally invest during your first meeting?

Are you taking her on that emotional rollercoaster, qualifying her, getting compliance and having her get sucked into your frame/reality?

Are you talking to her on a man-to-woman basis where your intent is clear through your subcommunications (vocal tonality, body language, eye contact, etc.)?

Is there a buildup of sexual tension during your first interaction?

Were you being physical?


I'm not sure what kind of daygame you were running but if it was very indirect then I wouldn't be surprised if she shudders at your later suggestion to come by for drinks at your place.

You'll need to do a meetup somewhere else first (maybe a nearby bar), get to know her some more and then bounce her to your place or work on making a greater impression so that you've got all your bases listed above covered and she's practically begging for your number upon meeting you, as she thinks to herself, who the FUCK is this guy?

(10-29-2013 10:53 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  Past two numbers I've gotten from day approaches I've attempted a hangout at my place. I've asked them if they want to come over for a drink in a casual way.

Both times I've gotten something along the lines of: hey I don't know you all to well yet, why don't we just meet for a coffee during the day instead?

I'm not sure if this is a good or bad thing.

I am looking to just bang and see where I am at later, so maybe I'm doing good in the respect that I am qualifying girls and not wasting time with girls who aren't down.

But at the same time, I might be burning prospects that might only be warm at first, but become a strong prospect for a bang later after an initial hangout.

Maybe it's because I'm not willing to sacrifice time for other things right now to go on dates. Or I just don't like these girls well enough to commit more than one meeting.

Might be just the moment as well. Things could change a week from now for sure.

It seems like you want one thing, but you're running the wrong game to achieve that goal. Number closing probably isn't going to produce the results you're interested in unless that first conversation where you get the number has some sexual energy to it. I'm certainly not the expert in this area (I don't typically run game this fast, I'm fine building emotion and establishing some rapport so I can bang a few times before moving on) so I'll leave a more in-depth analysis to both the others who have replied and the few that might follow.

(10-29-2013 08:03 PM)soup Wrote:  To all the guys out there who complain about having one girlfriend, try having more than three and then you can complain.

In a way, it's ok for now but they are all starting to put pressure on me for more of my time.

I'm on the exact opposite side of this--my regulars have all backed off at almost the same time, leaving me with large voids in the evenings that I'm filling with video games instead of running game. I have apparently gotten lazier than I thought, even with my "go out and approach" initiative last week and messaging a few dozen more women in my area on OKC/POF.

For me this week is doubling down on approaches, as practice makes... well, if not perfect, then certainly "less terrible", which I'll accept for now. Time to review some threads on here before texting the old wingman to pick dates to meet up at the local bars!

For those who actually care, the pasty white thin chick who's kinda' crazy decided she wanted to be "dedicated to her boyfriend". I'm quite sure she'll be back (we've been hooking up a few times a year since she was 19, she's 25 now) but her deciding to have a "good girl" epiphany comes at an inconvenient time. The chick I met for drinks last week didn't work out and I've gotten nowhere with the numbers I've pulled in the past month. The numbers were pretty cold, though, so I'm not shocked that women I number pulled in passing a month ago don't remember me or aren't interested.

My 27 year old rocker chick is swinging back around for another series but it'll be at least a week before she's financially stable enough to hang out with me. She insists on paying for herself, and recently had car trouble that drained her bank account, so we put our hookups on the back burner so she can focus on getting to bed early so she doesn't lose her job. We also had a brief pregnancy scare (it was between me and another guy) but turns out she was just late (per her, it happened a few times even while on birth control while she was married.) She's fairly straightforward and seemingly upfront with me--we're pretty "no-bullshit" with each other, so I have some trust that what she says is accurate. I 100% know she isn't pregnant (we have one mutual friend who confirmed), and I also know she went to get a different form of birth control (apparently the one she was on while married made her pretty depressed during that time.) Long-winded? Sure, but seeing it typed out helps me see where I'm being stupid, and has the added benefit of letting other people provide suggestions.

(10-29-2013 10:53 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  Past two numbers I've gotten from day approaches I've attempted a hangout at my place. I've asked them if they want to come over for a drink in a casual way.

Both times I've gotten something along the lines of: hey I don't know you all to well yet, why don't we just meet for a coffee during the day instead?

Have you seen my Zero Date Bangs Thread? http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-28403.html

Getting girls to come directly over is all about setting the frame and making your intentions clear, but without removing the plausible deniability that is the lifeblood of her hamster. Here is what I mean:

BAD:
you: hey are you DTF?
her emotional reaction: surprise, shock
her thoughts: "I'd probably fuck this guy, but I'm not a slut"
her reply: uhm no. go die in a fire.

BAD:
you: hey do you want to come over for a drink?
her emotional reaction: confusion, discomfort
her thoughts: "wtf does he mean by that? is he a murderer? does he want to sleep with me? is he gay?"
her reply: how about we meet at a coffee shop instead?

GOOD:
you: are you free tonight?
her: yeah I get off work at 830pm
you: cool, maybe we can drink and make out (this line is gold by the way)
her emotional reaction: vagina tingles, hamster spinning
her thoughts: "hmm he is pretty cute. But if he isn't cute I don't have to sleep with him. What do you think, hamster?"
her reply: haha that sounds like fun
you: yeah, text me when you're heading out later and I can give directions to my place

I had an 8.5 walk through my door at 11pm Monday night after she got off work, having never met me before. I ran that script above, and she replied playfully asking if I was worthy of making out with, etc. Agree & Amplify over a few texts, and she was in. I did eventually have to call her on the phone before she came over though to calm her last minute fears and deflect a couple shit tests, but never did the thought cross my mind that I'd meet her in a bar.

If you've met these girls in person, there is no reason you can't get them to come over. Building comfort is a misguided approach, in my opinion. Girls don't need comfort to bang, they just need emotional engagement. If you can make her hamster spin, then the bang is there for the taking.

(10-30-2013 03:28 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  

(10-29-2013 10:53 PM)Nascimento Wrote:  Past two numbers I've gotten from day approaches I've attempted a hangout at my place. I've asked them if they want to come over for a drink in a casual way.

Both times I've gotten something along the lines of: hey I don't know you all to well yet, why don't we just meet for a coffee during the day instead?

Have you seen my Zero Date Bangs Thread? http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-28403.html

Getting girls to come directly over is all about setting the frame and making your intentions clear, but without removing the plausible deniability that is the lifeblood of her hamster. Here is what I mean:

BAD:
you: hey are you DTF?
her emotional reaction: surprise, shock
her thoughts: "I'd probably fuck this guy, but I'm not a slut"
her reply: uhm no. go die in a fire.

BAD:
you: hey do you want to come over for a drink?
her emotional reaction: confusion, discomfort
her thoughts: "wtf does he mean by that? is he a murderer? does he want to sleep with me? is he gay?"
her reply: how about we meet at a coffee shop instead?

GOOD:
you: are you free tonight?
her: yeah I get off work at 830pm
you: cool, maybe we can drink and make out (this line is gold by the way)
her emotional reaction: vagina tingles, hamster spinning
her thoughts: "hmm he is pretty cute. But if he isn't cute I don't have to sleep with him. What do you think, hamster?"
her reply: haha that sounds like fun
you: yeah, text me when you're heading out later and I can give directions to my place

I had an 8.5 walk through my door at 11pm Monday night after she got off work, having never met me before. I ran that script above, and she replied playfully asking if I was worthy of making out with, etc. Agree & Amplify over a few texts, and she was in. I did eventually have to call her on the phone before she came over though to calm her last minute fears and deflect a couple shit tests, but never did the thought cross my mind that I'd meet her in a bar.

If you've met these girls in person, there is no reason you can't get them to come over. Building comfort is a misguided approach, in my opinion. Girls don't need comfort to bang, they just need emotional engagement. If you can make her hamster spin, then the bang is there for the taking.

I've got some expendable numbers so I put a variation of your line to work...

   

(10-30-2013 03:28 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  If you've met these girls in person, there is no reason you can't get them to come over. Building comfort is a misguided approach, in my opinion. Girls don't need comfort to bang, they just need emotional engagement. If you can make her hamster spin, then the bang is there for the taking.

My thoughts exactly.

I am familiar with your thread and what I initiated there was a very similar approach that you use as well.

I've done it three times, with the first being successful. She came over, we had a drink, make out but no bang. The latter two attempts the girls told me they weren't comfortable with coming over.

I need more attempts still to determine if this is an approach that suits me or not, it is still too early to come to conclusions.

Just raw dogged ms. 48 2013 and washed my dick off.

Hopin I don't transmit STDS

You know that girl that's cute and just needs to lose weight? The one that tries really hard to make a change and loses that weight (keeps it off) and the girls get a little jealous because now she's getting some attention and people are remarking at how much better she looks?

Yeah, used to work with her doing events, she stopped working for that company but I kept on. Was supposed to go with her roommate and my girl friend (after work, we all worked an event together last night) to visit this chick at a bar local to my place where she was watching a band perform (she knows the drummer).

Her roommate bailed as I was driving home separately, my friend parked in front of my place and we walked over to the bar. On the way there, chick texts me saying if I'm still coming over they're in the back and she would appreciate if I walked her to her car afterwards (late at night she didn't want to wait for band to break down their equipment). My spidey sense started tingling or maybe that was just the drinks I'd had at the event and the long island I downed at my house.

I've been wanting to bang this chick more and more as she went through her semi-transformation. Because I want to and because it'd be kind of a reward for all her hard work. It sounds right in my head at least. Arrived at the bar, it was remarkably empty, walked past the bouncer no ID check for my friend who didn't have anything on her (did I mention we were in full costume still from the event we worked?). I have this place mostly on lock. Get some beers from the cute bartender and I make a mental note to try to work on in the future.

Rest of the time at the bar is flirting, having fun with both girls and eventually getting them all dancing which looks ridiculous in the costumes my friend and I have on. The band sits with us on their break then play our requests in their last set as we have a blast on the dance floor. Pretty damn good time for a nearly empty bar (compared to any other week). I walk them both back to my place and hand out waters. My friend hugs me and goes home and the chick asks me for another water. I oblige, we flirt trying not to wake up my roommate and then I just grab her and start making out.

Things start getting hot and heavy, I've got my hand down her pants and she's rubbing my crotch. She asks if anyone else is there/lives there and I take it as my queue to answer her by grabbing the back of her hair and making out/fingering her while she is forced to walk backwards into my bedroom. One of the rare ocassions when my bed isn't made and there's shit EVERYWHERE (had to turn my room/closet upside down looking for my costume) so I just push her down on the bed and shove shit off as things get hot and heavy and we have some treats for halloween.

Favorite moment is when she starts cumming and lets out a sexy but loud moan/gasp and quickly puts her hands across her own mouth to try to stifle it but can't quite. She offers to go home after but I tell her to just crash as she has to be up in 4 hours. I pass out then walk her to the door when her alarm goes off, pass out again, then get up and put a couple huge steaks in the slow cooker and douse them in pepperoncinis/juice for me to feast on tonight after it's been simmering for 8 hours and will be fall apart tender.

Did I mention I have plans to get drinks with the hottest girl working the event from last night too? It's a good day to be a man. Happy Halloween motherfuckers.

I brought a girl to my room and did not fuck her. I even told her I would not.

What the fuck. I didn't have any rubbers. But I had multiple occasions to buy some.

I practically cockblocked myself.

This girl would have licked my hairy balls hours before going to get her dad. And what do I tell her? "I'm not going to have sex with you. We're gonna have something to eat, then you get the fuck out." I kissed her a few times, a bit before she left, and again at the door.

On the flip side, it's been a very, very long time since I even so much as kissed a woman. I reckon I can still fuck her. Maybe even tomorrow afternoon. I don't know how wise that would be, seeing as we will have nearly the exact same classes until graduation in 3-4 years. And she will never be more than a "plate".

One other thing. Being an honest, happy asshole works very well for me. I fart and burp a helluva lot these days (not eating well), I play with her butt, call her a dirty little slut, touch her when and where I want, and am completely unapologetic. And she totally eats it up. "I can't stand him anymore!"...with a huge fucking smile on her face.