Post: #451

So I just found an old fuck buddy on this site

FUCK.

Lets hope she wasn't letting everyone else hit it raw...

EDIT: hair is different and ass isn't as phat.

Post: #452

I'm trying to do this in SF and not having too much success getting the responsiveness you guys are getting. Of course SF is the sugar baby capital of the country, so maybe they are all old pro's at it.

Post: #453

(05-09-2013 01:07 PM)slubu Wrote:  Last night I hinted I'd take the girl out to dinner and it was as if I just offered her a benz. Some of these girls have just never experienced decent living.

Aren't you doing this in Newport Beach?

Post: #454

(05-09-2013 01:48 PM)Menace Wrote:  I'm trying to do this in SF and not having too much success getting the responsiveness you guys are getting. Of course SF is the sugar baby capital of the country, so maybe they are all old pro's at it.

Try north bay...especially santa rosa area. bet there is some inventory out there.

Post: #455

Booked a room for two nights with nothing lined up this AM.

Have one night filled.

Now to fill Saturday....

Post: #456

(05-09-2013 01:22 PM)samsamsam Wrote:  

(05-09-2013 01:07 PM)slubu Wrote:  Last night I hinted I'd take the girl out to dinner and it was as if I just offered her a benz. Some of these girls have just never experienced decent living.

slubu, I think you are in SoCal, right? Just hard to believe that an attractive gal hasn't had a good dinner. Were you offering (joking) sizzler or Morton's or Mastro's?

Yeah, she just moved here. No I was offering a nice eclectic place.

Post: #457

(05-09-2013 02:07 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(05-09-2013 01:07 PM)slubu Wrote:  Last night I hinted I'd take the girl out to dinner and it was as if I just offered her a benz. Some of these girls have just never experienced decent living.

Aren't you doing this in Newport Beach?

I'm in Newps and LA - doesn't mean the girls necessarily live in those same towns.

Post: #458

(05-09-2013 12:00 PM)MrXY Wrote:  While I'm sure plenty of girls are SA are just golddiggers, I'm starting to think quite of few of them are getting off on it as well.

You got it backwards bro. Golddiggers are not hookers. Hookers fuck for cash. Golddiggers fuck because cash turns them on.

Post: #459

(05-09-2013 02:07 PM)thegmanifesto Wrote:  

(05-09-2013 01:07 PM)slubu Wrote:  Last night I hinted I'd take the girl out to dinner and it was as if I just offered her a benz. Some of these girls have just never experienced decent living.

Aren't you doing this in Newport Beach?

The girls in SoCal on the site are primarily from Riverside, Long Beach, etc.

Lots of the girls on the site don't even have cars.

It doesn't take much to impress a 19 year old girl who was born to a single mom.

Post: #460

(05-05-2013 06:47 PM)ElBorrachoInfamoso Wrote:  

(05-05-2013 05:14 PM)basilransom Wrote:  Reading through the thread now, so this may have been covered:

Do you have to get a hotel room?

I've got a place in a sweet spot, but I have roommates, but by the time I got home from the bar with her, they'd be out of sight. I could conceivably say I own the place and rent out the other rooms. I've been told I seem like a trust funder on occasion, and I can play up bits of my background to make me seem wealthier than I am. I just don't want to spring for a hotel room every time I have a date, i.e. not even a guaranteed bang.

You don't want one of these bitches knowing where you live. Don't go cheap on this unless you want a crazy bitch showing up at your door.

Could you just screen first? Eg, meet her at a bar, and if she's not too crazy, bang at your place. It could run $150+ for a hotel room around here, and if you're closing on one out of every two or three dates, that's $300-450 per bang.

Also, when you're on the road in say, Chicago, do you say you live there? That you don't but come there often?

Hell, if like MikeCF says, the chick doesn't have a car, the whole renting a place might be sidestepped, you just get a drink by her and then bang at her place.

Post: #461

(05-09-2013 01:07 PM)slubu Wrote:  Last night I hinted I'd take the girl out to dinner and it was as if I just offered her a benz. Some of these girls have just never experienced decent living.

I'm texting with a very cute 20 year old college student who, when I asked her what she was expecting said she was looking for some pampering and a $100 allowance per month because that's what her shortfall in her bills was. I looked at my phone thinking "Is this real life?"

When you've made good money it's easy to forget that what is a really modest amount of money or gifts to you can apparently be a big deal to some of these girls

Post: #462

This thread changed my life entirely.

If you look very young, you need to "show" a bit more that you have cash. This is circumvented by staying in nicer hotels and meeting there directly.

That is all I have to add on the topic. No longer going to spend more than $200 a bang. Not worth it.

Post: #463

(05-10-2013 08:44 AM)WestCoast Wrote:  This thread changed my life entirely.

If you look very young, you need to "show" a bit more that you have cash. This is circumvented by staying in nicer hotels and meeting there directly.

That is all I have to add on the topic. No longer going to spend more than $200 a bang. Not worth it.

Get a money clip wallet.

Post: #464

my son's 17 yr old girlfriend is on Seeking Arrangement.

so is her skankfest mother.

lozlzozlzozllzolzol

Post: #465

(05-10-2013 11:08 AM)King Solomon Wrote:  my son's 17 yr old girlfriend is on Seeking Arrangement.

so is her skankfest mother.

lozlzozlzozllzolzol

Damn! This thread just continues to deliver

Post: #466

(05-10-2013 08:51 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  Get a money clip wallet.

Yes. I'm a big believer that the sight of a wad of cash goes right to the primitive part of a woman's brain and runs down her circuits to her pussy

BTW-these 18-21 year old college girls are all over my nuts -it's unreal.

Post: #467

XY did you put up a picture on your profile?

Post: #468

Yeah I do have a money clip. I look like I just graduated high school so the first meet was a big wiff, so I just set it up the next one at a nice hotel with a nice lounge, this pretty much makes all biz trips fun now.

(05-10-2013 12:45 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

(05-10-2013 08:51 AM)el mechanico Wrote:  Get a money clip wallet.

Yes. I'm a big believer that the sight of a wad of cash goes right to the primitive part of a woman's brain and runs down her circuits to her pussy

BTW-these 18-21 year old college girls are all over my nuts -it's unreal.

Post: #469

(05-10-2013 01:51 PM)slubu Wrote:  XY did you put up a picture on your profile?

Yes I have pics up but I've hidden my profile from search so it is only visible to girls I message and possibly to girls I view( I'm not certain about that)

Here's a funny one-I'm messaging with an 18 year old who won't even start college in the college town near me until the fall, but she's already out there trying to find SDs. She's damn hot too.

Post: #470

Girls that are hidden show in my "who viewed you" list so I'm sure ours do as well.

Post: #471

Damn. Bill Maher just mentioned SA on his show tonight.

Post: #472

Hotwheels,

I think you said you use google voice for the women, but Google voice doesn't support MMS, so how do you get them to send you pics?

Post: #473

SA game has started me thinking about my cost per notch running regular game

Accounting for drinks, cover charges, food, gas (a big expense for me), occasional hotels, and incidentals, I'm sure my cost per notch is at $350+

If the typical SA notch costs me a nice hotel room, dinner at a good restaurant, and a few drinks, being a short term sugar daddy will be no more expensive, and often less expensive than a conventional notch

And the quality of the girls is better.

Question-how are you guys screening these girls?

My technique so far goes like this: Once I get a response from a girl, my next message or two is small talk or a joke. I next ask if she is interested in considering an arrangement for part time companionship. they all say yes.

My next message goes in more detail about what type of companionship and what type of girl I'm looking for and ask if they're willing to meet if that sounds good to them. Nothing explicitly sexual, I just hint at it. Most agree that what I have suggested is fine-many say that's exactly what they're looking for. If they say they want a monthly allowance paid I cut them off.

I then drop my number and name and tell them to text me. Almost all do the same day.

Once they text me, I exchange a few small talk texts so she gets comfortable that I'm not a weirdo. Then I ask what she's looking for from an arrangement. This is key I think to getting rid of the hardened gold diggers or ones with ridiculous expectations. If she gives me a high dollar amount, seems like she wants something up front or otherwise seems like she is going to be difficult, I cut her off. Many of them say they don't know, this is the first time they're done this and they're not sure, etc, which are good responses to me. If they ask what I'm offering, I keep it vague "gifts" ,"luxuries" of course no dollar amount

I reassure her we can work something out and ask her if she's open to meeting soon. Next I make a pic request telling her I have rather high standards about appearance. They all send a couple a least. I haven't gotten nudes on the first round and don't request them of course. Often they ask for pics of me and I oblige.

A little more text small talk and then I drop the bomb. I essentially say that I want us to have a clear understanding of the arrangement and that I expect that an intimate relationship will be part of the arrangement and ask if she's ok with that. Almost all have responded in the clear affirmative to this. Two so far were hesitant and I cut them off.

Then I talk about scheduling- I haven't been able to meet with any of these girls yet due to schedule conflicts but I'm hoping next week. I've noticed that if I don't text a girl for a day or two, she'll often text me-they're obviously trying to keep me interested and worried that I'm going to jump to another girl, which is good for me

Do you guys have any criticisms or suggestions? I'm a newb at this and want to know if I should be doing anything different. In particular, should I be qualifying them harder sexually? Should I be more explicit late in the interaction, ask for nudes etc, to screen out those who aren't DTF on the first date? I don't want to scare off good prospects but I don't want to be left with my dick in my hand after paying for a hotel room either

Post: #474

Others use it but I do not and never claimed to.

I like to get pics.

Post: #475

(05-11-2013 03:01 PM)LowerCaseG Wrote:  Hotwheels,

I think you said you use google voice for the women, but Google voice doesn't support MMS, so how do you get them to send you pics?

I use Google Voice. I just tell them to email me the pics. If she's not willing to go through the trouble of email then she's probably not going to put out at a reasonable cost.