Post: #426

SA veterans, would you recommend using SA if you were a D-list celebrity? I have a friend, a popular poker player, that wants to give this a try.

Post: #427

Sucio--sure--but IMHO maintaining a strong "daddy" frame (and that does not mean chump--rather, investigating many "baby" opportunities) is key.

Post: #428

These whores are blowing up my phone. Every one I've given my number to after a short message exchange has texted me within a few hours and they keep texting me. If I don't text back for a while they'll text me again, sometimes with more pics. I've got about 12 of them texting me this evening-I can't keep them straight.

One stripper wanted me to come to her club tonight (denied). All have agreed to meet me; several of them are pushing hard to meet.

I'm having a lot of fun qualifying them. One said I was rude for asking her to send pics to show she wasn't overweight. She sent the pics anyway and kept talking about us meeting.

Have gotten lots of pics, some sexy ones but no nudes yet. Not sure if I want to push for them- I may just let them send them to "convince" me

One dimwit asked if she could bring her friend to the first meeting. Sent me a pic of her and the friend; of course the friend is fat. As if I, a wealthy Sugar Daddy, would tolerate a fat cockblocker getting between me and my Sugar Baby

I've been surprised at the number of these girls who say they are looking for Sugar Daddys AND Sugar Mommys. I guess if you're looking to sell your pussy, you'll take the highest bidder, whoever that is.

I'm still feeling my way in this; my online game is good but I'm not sure how to proceed in the lead up to the meet when they start asking about what I'm willing to do for them. I'm just trying to be vague and put them off a bit, saying we can talk about it later, but some keep coming back and pressing. Should I just cut them off on the grounds that type will insist on upfront payment or can I work around that? Expert advice needed...

And how do you handle the issue at the meeting?- I can see it definitely coming up then

Also, I was thinking of this from the girl's perspective and it occurred to me that these girls have to realize that a lot of other girls on this site and otherwise are competing for the limited number of guys who are decent looking, not too old, and have the money to do this. So I'm thinking of strongly hinting, or outright saying, that I'm considering other girls for the position in order to stoke up the competition. I figure this should make them less demanding and more willing to please-that is, more willing to jump on my cock the first night and show me what they can do. Do you guys do anything like that?

Post: #429

What kind of pictures are you guys using? Same ones from other online dating sites you use?

Post: #430

(05-06-2013 10:32 PM)MrXY Wrote:  I'm still feeling my way in this; my online game is good but I'm not sure how to proceed in the lead up to the meet when they start asking about what I'm willing to do for them. I'm just trying to be vague and put them off a bit, saying we can talk about it later, but some keep coming back and pressing. Should I just cut them off on the grounds that type will insist on upfront payment or can I work around that? Expert advice needed...

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Don't be vague, be in control. The impression I am getting from the girls is most of the guys on this site are chodes that are easy marks. See the girl I banged out that had a guy pay her $600 just to hang out for a night that I posted about a page or two back.

Same girl, 21 y/o 5'8" blonde, stopped by tonight for a quickie. Zero outlay other than buying condoms.

Quote:And how do you handle the issue at the meeting?- I can see it definitely coming up then

I posted how I handled this just recently. Scroll back a page or so.

Quote:Also, I was thinking of this from the girl's perspective and it occurred to me that these girls have to realize that a lot of other girls on this site and otherwise are competing for the limited number of guys who are decent looking, not too old, and have the money to do this. So I'm thinking of strongly hinting, or outright saying, that I'm considering other girls for the position in order to stoke up the competition. I figure this should make them less demanding and more willing to please-that is, more willing to jump on my cock the first night and show me what they can do. Do you guys do anything like that?

Some girls realize that and some don't. Most do it seems in my area.

I always let them know there are other girls in the picture.

Hell, several have wanted me to get another girl for three ways, but that is due to my profile.

Essentially I'm screening for bi chicks.[/quote]

Post: #431

Been on site a few days now. I am aiming for 18-22 when I travel, 34-44 milf's local. I can try to work the milf's from seeing me as a sugar daddy to me becoming their cub and have them spend money on me.


24-33 year old will be too much about $$ right up front

Post: #432

I've decided to focus on 18-22 year olds and small town girls-I figure they will be more impressed with the places I take them when I meet them and will be less demanding and gold diggerish from the start

Post: #433

Alright, date #2 done with, again no sex. Maybe I'm just setting my standards too high expecting sex on the first meet but it seems like that is the norm for some of you. I do have to say two things however. First, she was very very attractive. To the point the bartender asked me in private where the hell I found this girl. Think Laker girl type. Second, she was very pleasant to be around. Great manners, just a sweetheart. Where have all these girls been hiding?

So met her at the bar down the street from my vacant place. Had one drink there, then bounced to my place for another drink. Made out, some groping but then she stopped me. I believe I'm pretty aggressive and I know how to close girls so I'm not sure what's going on. Frustrating, but damn this one was probably an 8.5 on the scale.

Two questions for the veterans here: 1) Do you ever see girls after the first date that you don't close? What do you do on the second date? 2) Have a date with a sober under 21yo tonight. Any suggestions on what to do?

Post: #434

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Post: #435

Do you guys get lumps of emails all at once? I noticed I can go hours with no replies and then all of a sudden I have 5-6 messages in my mailbox all within 3-4 minutes and all of them being messages with the girl first contacting me, not girls that are replying to a message I sent and non are local or near me. Some in uk, south america, and a few from east or west cost.

spamming?

Post: #436

yes it's spamming

I haven't received any since I hid my profile. I don't see any reason to have your profile in the open and searchable. I'm messaging every girl in my area who meets my standard and is recently active.

Post: #437

what the story with only show TClogiQ Background checked profiles

will only pro's get verified? for those who have swooped, did you girl have this?

Also whats up with pics with black lines across eyes. I want to say those are almost a dead pro give away

Post: #438

(04-30-2013 10:09 PM)WestCoast Wrote:  Sure here's my line:

Girls = get the bang with 0% chance of accusations. I will not bang a girl more than 2 drinks in and always send a "had a great time last night" text the next morning. Also make sure to get her to send naked photos etc etc. So i'm in the clear. False rape is a big no. My moral line for women is pretty much a zero excluding the emotional attachment part. As soon as she texts me daily i am out. Run like DMC. If we're still in the "this is just a fling stage" i'm there.

Business = all honesty all ethics. You build a brand in business and your name matters there. If I screw over one client i am ruining my business model. This is sales 101, you want to do good work so people pass it along to people and you actually make more money by being honest. Business is not women. Women are unfair creatures of emotion and self desire.

Business is built on honesty, women have no concept of fairness or honesty

I don't really get the line of thinking that because I view <xyz group of people> as shitty people that I should act like them.

Post: #439

@Spader- The similarities of what you wrote crosses across cultures. It is somewhat astounding. This financial aspect is basically "game" in Russia, China, SEA and most of the world.

Hell, at the very least seeking arrangement offers low-investment sex w/hotties. Dating in LA is a disaster (time and money-wise), so I respect this.

How many girls are you rotating through from SA?

Post: #440

I changed my Annual Income to $200,000-$250,000 with net being $750k-$1 Mill to see if I will get any replies.

Will change it in 2 weeks to see if any difference.

Post: #441

This may be a red flag....

First text response;

   


Busy morning;

   

Post: #442

(05-09-2013 10:47 AM)DVY Wrote:  @Spader- The similarities of what you wrote crosses across cultures. It is somewhat astounding. This financial aspect is basically "game" in Russia, China, SEA and most of the world.

Hell, at the very least seeking arrangement offers low-investment sex w/hotties. Dating in LA is a disaster (time and money-wise), so I respect this.

How many girls are you rotating through from SA?

Just the one from the original three, but at this point it is an experiment. I do check-in and see who are new to the site every few days. Only takes a few minutes. When this girl runs her course, I will start the process again.

This just makes a lot of sense for me right now. Traditional relationships (if I can even find a decent woman in LA) tend not to work for me past a few months. I’m just too busy with other things and they get frustrated with not being a priority, start to complain, and I’m out. Candidly, I like the newness anyway…went through the typical ONS phase in my 20s and now prefer mini-relationships…while always looking for the next one to catch my eye. I live near the beach and want to be free for summer anyway. I still enjoy the game, I just like to have a fallback option.

This approach is a good one for certain guys. I’m not spending huge amounts of money…really no more than I would on a steady GF and I have the luxury of keeping her in the background with no bitching. Time is a valuable commodity for me. Also, I don’t have jealousy issues, and don’t think SA would work for someone who does. These girls can be a bit scandalous, and most are probably even more untrustworthy than your typical chick. I just don’t care, and want to have fun with them when they are around and let them go when they are out of my sight.

I’m seeing another woman I met through traditional channels, but it’s going nowhere. Arrangement girl is pretty hot. She gets a lot of attention when we are out, but she also knows she has to try hard to keep me and, candidly, its enjoyable being on this side of the equation for a change.

Post: #443

(05-09-2013 11:39 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  This may be a red flag....

First text response;

ha! funny, but that would probably be a green light for me. Not only is she dealing with issues, but she can't spell. easy to get in her head.

just keep those walls high around your real world...and hang on tightly.

Post: #444

"therepy" lol

From all the messaging, texting and emailing I've been doing with these girls I'm getting a sense that some of these girls are doing this not just for the money but because they are sexually aroused by the older man/authority figure/daddy figure or being submissive. Also, many women have fantasies of being a hooker, courtesan or mistress. While I'm sure plenty of girls are SA are just golddiggers, I'm starting to think quite of few of them are getting off on it as well.

One girl sent me a text out of the blue that said "I'm very giving and I enjoy being submissive". Another said , when we had a scheduling conflict that it was ok because this was all about what I wanted and what was convenient for me. Just saleswomanship? Maybe, but I'm doubting that because I'm picking up a similar tone from some other girls who weren't so explicit.

Post: #445

(05-09-2013 11:39 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  This may be a red flag....

First text response;




Busy morning;

Will since your locking down Milwaukee, I'll have to move over to Madison

Post: #446

(05-09-2013 12:00 PM)chyamor Wrote:  

(05-09-2013 11:39 AM)Hotwheels Wrote:  This may be a red flag....

First text response;




Busy morning;

Will since your locking down Milwaukee, I'll have to move over to Madison

hah So how do I taste?

Post: #447

damnnnnnnn.

this thread keeps making me want to down some haterade. time to figure out a hustle of my own



seriously. I'm looking at the girls in Vancouver and they are hot as fuck

THERES MORE GIRLS ON THIS SITE THAN ON OK CUPID

FUCK EVERYTHING.

meltdown imminent.

I feel sorry for this dude:



funny thing is they still have the attitude of the rest of the girls and highlight how smart they are.





I think I'm going to show this site to all my friends. Here I thought I had pedestalization under wraps... all the hot girls in my old city are whoring themselves out to old dudes for a monthly allowance.

Just saw a girl I went on a date with once. This site is craaaazy.

Post: #448

(05-09-2013 11:45 AM)Spader Wrote:  Just the one from the original three, but at this point it is an experiment. I do check-in and see who are new to the site every few days. Only takes a few minutes. When this girl runs her course, I will start the process again.

This just makes a lot of sense for me right now. Traditional relationships (if I can even find a decent woman in LA) tend not to work for me past a few months. I’m just too busy with other things and they get frustrated with not being a priority, start to complain, and I’m out. Candidly, I like the newness anyway…went through the typical ONS phase in my 20s and now prefer mini-relationships…while always looking for the next one to catch my eye. I live near the beach and want to be free for summer anyway. I still enjoy the game, I just like to have a fallback option.

This approach is a good one for certain guys. I’m not spending huge amounts of money…really no more than I would on a steady GF and I have the luxury of keeping her in the background with no bitching. Time is a valuable commodity for me. Also, I don’t have jealousy issues, and don’t think SA would work for someone who does. These girls can be a bit scandalous, and most are probably even more untrustworthy than your typical chick. I just don’t care, and want to have fun with them when they are around and let them go when they are out of my sight.

I’m seeing another woman I met through traditional channels, but it’s going nowhere. Arrangement girl is pretty hot. She gets a lot of attention when we are out, but she also knows she has to try hard to keep me and, candidly, its enjoyable being on this side of the equation for a change.

This to a tee. Honestly, I don't even know what to say. I love this site. I've been on 3 dates so far, last night I spent $3 fucking dollars total and had a great time. Still no bangs, first two were my fault and last night's I got cockblocked by something completely random. But it's coming.

One thing I will say is I do have some of the things necessary to pull this off. My career lends itself to this. I'm in a suit everytime. I have access to a few places right now for lodging (similar to those who get hotels), and I'm only slightly stretching the truth.

Last night I hinted I'd take the girl out to dinner and it was as if I just offered her a benz. Some of these girls have just never experienced decent living.

Post: #449

(05-09-2013 01:07 PM)slubu Wrote:  Last night I hinted I'd take the girl out to dinner and it was as if I just offered her a benz. Some of these girls have just never experienced decent living.

slubu, I think you are in SoCal, right? Just hard to believe that an attractive gal hasn't had a good dinner. Were you offering (joking) sizzler or Morton's or Mastro's?

Post: #450

Quote:No worries with the hubby. He knows I'm on here. Its my way of getting a little excape from the real world. getting is pretty easy for me. I now only work Saturday and Sunday 3rd shift.

Wow....

Somebody needs to sac up assuming he isn't banging some trim on the side as well.

Letting her whore around on SA is definitely cheaper than a divorce anyway.