Post: #276

(05-12-2018 11:59 PM)KMK Wrote:  The threat of a bad afterlife used to be an effective tool for social control, but no one falls for it anymore.

People eventually realize that they do their time in Hell in this life, not in the afterlife.

Atheists are not nearly as smart as they think they are.

Post: #277

I've never posted in here and only gave a cursory glance at previous posts, many of them good and relatable.

"Biggest red pill you've had to swallow" almost implies that there's a degree of pain associated with being "woke" or whatever. And while there might be a period of pain and anger in seeing the world for what it is, I don't believe that it's necessary or healthy to linger in that phase. Here are my own personal truths at the age of 36:

In regards to women, they are indeed all like that (Cosi fan tutte). I don't necessarily mean cheating whores. But women are women. Their reality is fluid, their mind can be convinced of anything. This has negative and positive repercussions. The yin and yang in life dictates that men must live in truth, and women must live in a lie. That is the exact nature of male and female energy. To know women is to know deceit, but not all deceit is harmful. If she lives in a world of white lies, she can get by in life without causing too much destruction. Women don't necessarily lie, they simply see reality as much more fluid where there's no such thing has hard facts.

Money/career. It's never enough. Somewhere in Ibiza is a billionaire laying on the deck of his 30 million dollar yacht, the partiers and the bottle whore models left the night before and he's left to the peace and quiet of his own solitude. As he lays on his yacht deck his mind clears and there is a stillness, an enjoyable bliss of being one with the blue sky above and the sun shining on him. Somewhere in a small shitty town there's broke college stoner laying on a towel in a park having the same exact moment. Both men equally happy. Being exceptionally ambitious and hungry for money/power is not for everyone. If you aspire to that, make sure it's a genuine desire and not to impress others. And if in the middle of your hustle, you can't make time to lay out in the sun and enjoy being alive, then what's the point?

Spirituality- some people are further along than others. Just as some are taller, smarter, and better looking. Some people are naturally drawn to the spiritual path while others have no use for it. To each his own.

99.9999% of what comes out of people's mouths is to validate themselves to others. Either participate in it or don't, but don't look down on them for it. I have an insanely judgemental personality and I've struggled with this one. I've embraced my judgement, we all do it, but delivery is everything. Judge others, judge yourself, but throw yourself into the mix. Being human is a dance.

Heroes are all in your mind. We all look up to people, to great men, artists, philosophers, leaders, warriors. We see their best qualities and use those qualities for inspiration. But show me a hero and I'll show you someone as fallible and flawed as anyone else.

Post: #278

(05-13-2018 12:59 PM)Veloce Wrote:  I've never posted in here and only gave a cursory glance at previous posts, many of them good and relatable.

"Biggest red pill you've had to swallow" almost implies that there's a degree of pain associated with being "woke" or whatever. And while there might be a period of pain and anger in seeing the world for what it is, I don't believe that it's necessary or healthy to linger in that phase. Here are my own personal truths at the age of 36:

In regards to women, they are indeed all like that (Cosi fan tutte). I don't necessarily mean cheating whores. But women are women. Their reality is fluid, their mind can be convinced of anything. This has negative and positive repercussions. The yin and yang in life dictates that men must live in truth, and women must live in a lie. That is the exact nature of male and female energy. To know women is to know deceit, but not all deceit is harmful. If she lives in a world of white lies, she can get by in life without causing too much destruction. Women don't necessarily lie, they simply see reality as much more fluid where there's no such thing has hard facts.

Money/career. It's never enough. Somewhere in Ibiza is a billionaire laying on the deck of his 30 million dollar yacht, the partiers and the bottle whore models left the night before and he's left to the peace and quiet of his own solitude. As he lays on his yacht deck his mind clears and there is a stillness, an enjoyable bliss of being one with the blue sky above and the sun shining on him. Somewhere in a small shitty town there's broke college stoner laying on a towel in a park having the same exact moment. Both men equally happy. Being exceptionally ambitious and hungry for money/power is not for everyone. If you aspire to that, make sure it's a genuine desire and not to impress others. And if in the middle of your hustle, you can't make time to lay out in the sun and enjoy being alive, then what's the point?

Spirituality- some people are further along than others. Just as some are taller, smarter, and better looking. Some people are naturally drawn to the spiritual path while others have no use for it. To each his own.

99.9999% of what comes out of people's mouths is to validate themselves to others. Either participate in it or don't, but don't look down on them for it. I have an insanely judgemental personality and I've struggled with this one. I've embraced my judgement, we all do it, but delivery is everything. Judge others, judge yourself, but throw yourself into the mix. Being human is a dance.

Heroes are all in your mind. We all look up to people, to great men, artists, philosophers, leaders, warriors. We see their best qualities and use those qualities for inspiration. But show me a hero and I'll show you someone as fallible and flawed as anyone else.

That's some eloquent and impactful writing there.

Post: #279

Biggest red pilled I ever swallowed?

As a black man i realized

"American black people are the most pathetic people on earth"

We glorify the negative. (thugs etc)
ANY milestone whether big or small is paraded as if its a miracle a black person could do it.
We have a hive mind where you are outcast if you go beyond it.
We are confused, truly mentally weak. we NEED and PURSUE validation

Just go on any BLM page or pro black page and you'll be disgusted.
Talk to any black person an I ensure you most will say the white man is the cause of their problems
"Woke" is just a trendy word used to belittle people


Its truly sad. Instead of focusing on being black I focus on being a Man as I see masculinity being one of the most powerful things in the world.




Another red pill is the obvious fact that there's a war on men going on

Post: #280

I spent much of my life searching for a NAWALT, i.e. a red-pilled woman. Found a couple of them and learned that even red-pilled women are still hypergamous and solipsistic.

EDIT: This just popped up, seems relevant:

Post: #281

Once you understand female nature its OVER, unless you choose to forget.

Once you understand
1. There almost life dependency on attention
2. Their fake cringe-worthy "noble acts of positivity and unity"
3. Their Jealousy of masculinity to the point of trying to break it apart
4. Their hypergamous nature
5. Their validation of a promiscuous lifestyle
6. Thier complete lack of responsibility
7. Thier sneaky manipulative ways
8. Their hypocritical willingness to physically, mentally, emotionally and even spiritually abuse a man
9. Their absolute lack of logic.
10. Thier cocky demeanor. The only things they've truly accomplished is graduating which with all the help they get really isn't an accomplishment


Yes I'm Bitter, yes I'm angry, Yes I'm going through the red pill rage, yes I'm overreacting but I'll rather vent it off on this forum than anywhere else



Back before i even found this forum i was on "return of kings" and the girl I was dating read what i was reading (without me knowing) and said it was women hating stuff....Ironically she fit ever negative thing about women on that list

Post: #282

(05-16-2018 06:46 PM)Donfitz007 Wrote:  2. Their fake cringe-worthy "noble acts of positivity and unity"

Very well stated and lucid, particularly your quoted No2 point.
This is goes to explaining everything much of the way the western world and politics is, making the bare neccessities of sweat and living and toil something they're not. Not to go off on a ranty tangent, here in Ireland they're trying to dress up the abortion referendum as some wonderful coming together moment where we vote one way or the other, when in fact it is about whether potential humans will get the chance to even survive, but "isn't it beautiful how women get the choice to choose" but not "whether others live at all"

Beautiful I say!

(Smacks head off table till unconscious)

There is nothing feminine about this at all, except its very female thinking.

There's a lot of we must be respectful platitudes and feelz, there is no bite allowed.

Post: #283

(05-16-2018 06:46 PM)Donfitz007 Wrote:  Once you understand female nature its OVER, unless you choose to forget.

Once you understand
1. There almost life dependency on attention
2. Their fake cringe-worthy "noble acts of positivity and unity"
3. Their Jealousy of masculinity to the point of trying to break it apart
4. Their hypergamous nature
5. Their validation of a promiscuous lifestyle
6. Thier complete lack of responsibility
7. Thier sneaky manipulative ways
8. Their hypocritical willingness to physically, mentally, emotionally and even spiritually abuse a man
9. Their absolute lack of logic.
10. Thier cocky demeanor. The only things they've truly accomplished is graduating which with all the help they get really isn't an accomplishment


Yes I'm Bitter, yes I'm angry, Yes I'm going through the red pill rage, yes I'm overreacting but I'll rather vent it off on this forum than anywhere else

Back before i even found this forum i was on "return of kings" and the girl I was dating read what i was reading (without me knowing) and said it was women hating stuff....Ironically she fit ever negative thing about women on that list

Good that you realize this...just know that anger is just a temporary stage and that you'll come out on the other side better and wiser for everything you've been through and what you now know.

Post: #284

It took me a while to realize what the biggest red pill I had to swallow was. It was the one I had the hardest time accepting or coming to terms with. Honestly, I still struggle with it.

Back when I was working in academia, I regularly encountered men who were broken. I don't mean broken as in they had been broken (although there was plenty of that). I mean they were operating in a way I didn't understand and didn't accept. And these weren't just clinical subjects (although, again, there was plenty of that, as well).

The most common form this issue took was in a man who was convinced, or in some cases knew, that his girlfriend or wife was cheating on him. I can think of a specific case of a very well educated and seemingly charismatic professor I shared a floor with. At a party one night, he revealed to me that his wife had not shown up because she was probably off screwing this other dude. I thought they were swingers or something. But it came out that this guy was devasted and had contemplated suicide.

This pattern, of men being literally cucked and doing nothing about it... seriously bothered/bothers me. And I saw it over and over again. The men often just shrugged their shoulders. They seemed convinced that "she" was the best they could do, so they would just have to accept that kind of behavior. "You know, she's really good looking. Way better looking than me. *Shrug*"

It bothers me because they are (biologically) men. I get women's ways, more or less. I have seen the absolute worst of that. I stared in to the abyss on that, and I can't go back. But, with men, it's different. I'm not staring in to the abyss. I am staring in to a vague approximation of myself. It is like I am looking in to some sort of a mirror. I look at another man and I wonder how he (A MAN) can allow himself to fall that far. Maybe I have some latent fear that, if these men could become that pathetic, perhaps it could happen to anyone, maybe even to me.

Post: #285

"Don't let yourself get attached to anything you are not willing to walk out on in 30 seconds flat if you feel the heat around the corner"- Heat

I think guys like that have spent so much time and effort building their lives into this stable little routine. They've invested so much in their things, their wife, their whatever. That when things go south, they stick it out because of how much they've invested in it. I say this from experience. My last ex cheated on me and I continued banging her for months (but rest assured, we were split up and she was kicked out of the house), when I should have just cut it off cold turkey. If you're the personality type that builds and invests, it's hard to pull the plug on certain things. But it has to be done.

Post: #286

The whole reason why I started game is...

= when I was this sensitive sweet little boy, my girl left me for this ugly fat motherfacka.

And I asked god, why is life unfair? Until now, I have yet to hear a single reply from him. Not 1.

Post: #287

(05-18-2018 04:05 AM)Tiger Man Wrote:  Back when I was working in academia, I regularly encountered men who were broken.

If one spends one's formative years studying too much and impressing the movers & shakers who will later write one letters of recommendation, one risks ending up severely underdeveloped in non-academic areas of life.

Men who are not loved by anyone and who have no great passion for either life or death have little to lose by throwing themselves into careerism. It's an acceptable form of escapism. Such men tend to be gammas.

Post: #288

(05-18-2018 06:04 AM)AceP Wrote:  The whole reason why I started game is...

= when I was this sensitive sweet little boy, my girl left me for this ugly fat motherfacka.

And I asked god, why is life unfair? Until now, I have yet to hear a single reply from him. Not 1.

Who said life was fair?

God has told us quite the opposite, in this world.

It's the other guy that's lying to you.

Post: #289

(05-18-2018 06:04 AM)AceP Wrote:  The whole reason why I started game is...

= when I was this sensitive sweet little boy, my girl left me for this ugly fat motherfacka.

And I asked god, why is life unfair? Until now, I have yet to hear a single reply from him. Not 1.

Hello Ace. This is God. I have hijacked some loser's forum account just for a minute because you keep bothering me for an answer on this one.

All that matters is your spiritual development.

Unfairness is but one form of suffering.

Suffering builds character.

The more character you have the more you develop spiritually.

Suffering is a gift.

That doesn't feel like one, until much, much later.

Do you really think that someone who always gets what they wants is a better person than someone who sometimes doesn't?

I hope that answers your question.

I am returning control of this account to the original user, so, don't expect any more heavenly wisdom from this one, just don't.

He can't even choose a good username.

Post: #290

(05-18-2018 06:04 AM)AceP Wrote:  The whole reason why I started game is...

= when I was this sensitive sweet little boy, my girl left me for this ugly fat motherfacka.

And I asked god, why is life unfair? Until now, I have yet to hear a single reply from him. Not 1.

Hey Ace, It's God again, I forgot to mention one thing. Stop whining, I don't have time to reply to everyone on this planet. And even if I did, there would be many more people much more worthy of my time than you. So please don't whine about that again. This will be my last response to you.

Aloha!

Post: #291

Women are children. Actually it's not a hard one to swallow, but one to bear in mind. It explains everything.

Post: #292

Sorry about that post guys. I think either Kona hacked my account or it's a sign from God that the polynesians are the real chosen ones and the desert they wandered in was actually the pacific ocean.

Post: #293

The media and news companies are nothing more than corporations putting out propaganda on a daily basis no matter where you lean on the political scale or your favorite type of film. The biggest example I've seen was the local newspaper in my town. It's a Democratic-dominated town so the newspaper writes everything Trump will lead to chaos while if a Democrat did those, they'd be lauded as heroes.

Post: #294

Biggest red pill was when I thought all the women were whores but your family member. My sister asked me for my credit card one day pretending her paycheck didn't go through her bank account, that she needed something asap. My other sister by accident discovered it was a scheme that she planned with the gang member she was fucking (doing 3somes too apparently) to fraud with my credit card. Was so angry I almost called the police, my mom got mad at me and reprimanded me. I was so hurt, so angry, kinda became needy to the girl I was seeing and got dropped couple days later.
Lesson here is that 1- all women know their flaws and they will have each other backs but yours , 2- a girl doesn't give a fuck about your problems she is here for the fun time 3- Since I have become kind of emotionless they will try to pick up every play from the playbook to get you to say you love them or you want them , I do the opposite, and to my surprise they fall deeper in love

Post: #295

I had issues with girls when I was younger and I wasn´t very self-confident until end of high school and I went full beta with girls few time.
I have grown up in typical enviroment that makes you worthless piece of human and beta. No father, small rented apartment, no property and instead of playgrounds, my mother mostly took me to pubs.
I don´t see such issue with the girls, that´s only consequence.


Everybody around me lost their lifes to alcohol. My father (who was never there for me, because his drinking problem was something he couldn´t handle), my mother and all the friends I have/had around.
I used to drink a lot and I do drink even now, but it´s freaking me out, that my whole life would be commited to getting drunk on the weekends.

These guys know, that they will work their shitty jobs until the end of their lifes and they will live from weekend to weekend just to have a beer in pub. They don´t seek anything more. And it´s absolutely everybody around me.

To be honest, at this moment I totally don´t know what I want from life and what is my life goal, but I definitely know, that I would rather die, than live with knowledge, that I will spend another 50 years just for this.

Post: #296

Another redpill i learned was

"Women don't care about you, only how you make them feel" (maybe not 100% but enough)

That loving, caring, girl that you can vent to and share all your problems with? Oh she's just helping you because she gets a kick off that feeling that she got you to open up to her, she knows you're becoming dependent on her, you're giving her ammo to use against you.



I love this forum but much of the actual self-help stuff is buried deep deep down into the prime of this forum. It takes alot of active searching to find what you're looking for

Post: #297

Probably all of the above for me. Understanding how the culture that I grew up was very much geared against the ethos of self improvement, it was quite nihilistic and deterministic in fact. I felt like I could have really set myself up better for achievement in my teenage years. Luckily I learnt it quite quickly. Coming to terms with how harmful popular culture is was a really big one too.

Post: #298

It takes a lot of time to fully understand and accept that, yes, in fact, "all women are like that." It takes even longer to fully understand and accept that this includes your mother.

Post: #299

Been meaning to post this for a bit. Not how I came to the Red Pill, but surely another layer of re-enforced concrete in the foundation.
I was at an art exhibit a couple of weeks ago. This museum is pretty large and they frequently rent out a portion of it for weddings and the like. While I'm there I see a bridal party goofing off, and of course the "bride" is is there too. Turns out that I know her.

In March I went to the local St. Patrick's Day drinkfest. By 4:00 everyone was pretty drunk and I was chatting up a couple of girls. One of them seemed especially friendly and we ended up off by ourselves talking and doing a good bit of touching. Things are good enough that I ask her where her place is. She just says, "Let's go." 5 min walk and we are in her apartment and clothes are coming off. While my dick is in her mouth I happen to see a picture of a dude next to a vase of semi-dead flowers. I hate to ruin the moment but I need to know if some asshole is going to show up while I've got this girl's legs pinned behind her shoulders.

"That your brother?" I ask?

She doesn't look but mumbles that it's her roommate’s boyfriend. With the coast clear, I proceed to very thoroughly savage her. Yeah, raw. I'm a moron. At least I had the sense to pull out and make her swallow the load. She made "yum" sounds and licked me clean. A little after sex comfort cuddling, and I roll out.

Back to the art museum, I'm looking at the "bride" knowing that about a month and a half back, I was giving her a dicking down. The groom, was in fact, the guy in the photo next to the dead flowers. I stood there watching this dude get down on his knees, and do a reenactment of his proposal for the photographer.

This guy had zero clue what he had gotten himself into. (Or who had already been in it.) Soulless.

Post: #300

(05-18-2018 04:05 AM)Tiger Man Wrote:  I look at another man and I wonder how he (A MAN) can allow himself to fall that far. Maybe I have some latent fear that, if these men could become that pathetic

Here's a red pill, some men (I'd actually argue MOST), are meant to be cannon fodder for the species.