Post: #9251

I engineered a great evening with a very pretty artist last night, and it may be my favourite seduction to date, so I've come here to brag. I was at a party being thrown by one of my best friends. I sent him a funny cat meme on Thursday that I thought he would find useful when talking to his girlfriend. We were sat around drinking wine last night, when I asked him if he'd had a chance to use the cat meme. The conversation progressed and I ended up telling the group that cat memes were my preferred form of communication with girls. When asked why I explained that they were the modern equivalent of the romantic sonnet, and that Pablo Neruda himself would have abandoned Sonnet XVII mid flow and substituted in a cat meme instead to more accurately convey the depth of his passions had they existed at the time of writing. Some no-nothing girl, to whom I shall always be grateful, asked who Neruda was, so I explained that he was a great Chilean poet famed in part for his collection of love sonnets. This girl asked me to recite one. I agreed on the condition that this artist chick would be my muse. So, I held her hands, looked into her eyes, and recited Sonnet XVII, which I learned when I was younger and studying Spanish. Despite the sonnet's Petrarchan form, her pussy was able to drip in near perfect pentameter, as fitted the work in translation.

Things were going pretty well with her up to that point anyway, but this was the coup de gras. Could one ask for more compelling proof that the work done in our youth bears fruit when allowed to blossom in its own time.

Herewith, one of the great romantic sonnets of the last century:

I do not love you as if you were salt-rose, or topaz,
or the arrow of carnations the fire shoots off.
I love you as certain dark things are to be loved,
in secret, between the shadow and the soul.

I love you as the plant that never blooms
but carries in itself the light of hidden flowers;
thanks to your love a certain solid fragrance,
risen from the earth, lives darkly in my body.

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
so I love you because I know no other way

than this: where I does not exist, nor you,
so close that your hand on my chest is my hand,
so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.

Post: #9252

^^^^
Wait? So you recited this chick a poem? That's some old school shit right there! I love it. How did it end up?

Post: #9253

(01-07-2017 09:14 AM)Turnus Wrote:  ^^^^
Wait? So you recited this chick a poem? That's some old school shit right there! I love it. How did it end up?

Yep, hand in hand, eye to eye, as if I wrote the poem myself. We went outside for a cigarette (though I'm not much of a smoker, the moment demanded it) fooled around a bit, and then at the end of the night I went back to hers and fucked her a bunch of times in ways more suited to being the subject matter of a particularly lewd limerick.

Post: #9254

H1N1 that's some gangster shit right there.

You mind fucked the shit out of her and fucked her soul dude.

(01-07-2017 03:22 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  Put on a movie (dirty dancing) and a few teasing heavy petting session later she asks "so what do you want to do now"

I just got head from a new chick who insisted on watching that with me a few nights ago.

Post: #9255

(01-07-2017 09:08 AM)H1N1 Wrote:  I engineered a great evening with a very pretty artist last night, and it may be my favourite seduction to date, so I've come here to brag. I was at a party being thrown by one of my best friends. I sent him a funny cat meme on Thursday that I thought he would find useful when talking to his girlfriend. We were sat around drinking wine last night, when I asked him if he'd had a chance to use the cat meme. The conversation progressed and I ended up telling the group that cat memes were my preferred form of communication with girls. When asked why I explained that they were the modern equivalent of the romantic sonnet, and that Pablo Neruda himself would have abandoned Sonnet XVII mid flow and substituted in a cat meme instead to more accurately convey the depth of his passions had they existed at the time of writing. Some no-nothing girl, to whom I shall always be grateful, asked who Neruda was, so I explained that he was a great Chilean poet famed in part for his collection of love sonnets. This girl asked me to recite one. I agreed on the condition that this artist chick would be my muse. So, I held her hands, looked into her eyes, and recited Sonnet XVII, which I learned when I was younger and studying Spanish. Despite the sonnet's Petrarchan form, her pussy was able to drip in near perfect pentameter, as fitted the work in translation.

Things were going pretty well with her up to that point anyway, but this was the coup de gras. Could one ask for more compelling proof that the work done in our youth bears fruit when allowed to blossom in its own time.

Herewith, one of the great romantic sonnets of the last century:

I do not love you as if you were salt-rose, or topaz,
or the arrow of carnations the fire shoots off.
I love you as certain dark things are to be loved,
in secret, between the shadow and the soul.

I love you as the plant that never blooms
but carries in itself the light of hidden flowers;
thanks to your love a certain solid fragrance,
risen from the earth, lives darkly in my body.

I love you without knowing how, or when, or from where.
I love you straightforwardly, without complexities or pride;
so I love you because I know no other way

than this: where I does not exist, nor you,
so close that your hand on my chest is my hand,
so close that your eyes close as I fall asleep.

Post: #9256

Looks like its time to start the business/outcome independecy part of my life.
2 dates sunday afternoon and I flaked on both after going hooping with some friends.

Girls stay tripping.

All they want is someone to netflix and chill with but you gotta buy them shit before you can netflix and chill

With a girl last year I bought cake mix after a night DT and we fucked.
After that we literally watched netflix and fucked for the next 6 months whenever we hung out. Saying that also makes me realize how unfun most girls are. Like that satisfies you?!
....loser bitch..

Post: #9257

I got a little bit of an issue with my main.

Lately she's been a little distant, since I've been away for a while but she visits every 3 weeks or so. Haven't seen her in about a month and suddenly she sends me a text on New Years about "it not being so good".

I think she was on to me in the fall, as I was banging away when she wasn't there. I told her that I didn't care what she did in her city, and I really still don't to be honest. I'm going to be in the same city as her in the spring living there, so I can't imagine the timing couldn't be worse, as I wanted to get serious for a bit.

So I have three courses of action:

1. Try to heal it as is, as in try to patch it up and have it be okay when I return but still edgy
2. Continue to ghost as I'm doing right now and hope she comes crawling back
3. Be completely honest with her and absolutely break her heart and basically admit I've been lying the last ~6 months

I realize the last one is an absolutely horrible idea, but it's a definite power play. It would absolutely crush her as she's a highly dominant woman and needs to have everything her way.

I'm torn guys. This is something that bothers me more than usual.

Post: #9258

If she's just a plate your not seeing regular, and now for a month over Christmas, sounds to me like she probably met someone over the holidays, and maybe she hopes this guy can offer her more than you can.

It happens, they won't hang around forever If your not giving them what they need.

Doubt you'll break her heart at this stage if she's already pulling away.

Sounds like your getting feelings for her tho, likely just an impulse response to her pulling away, or maybe you dont have much else on the go and feeling lonely in January...

I'd continue ghost, chase up fresh and forget about her for now. What will be will be.

She may chase back or she may disappear for a while why she tries out the new guy.
If you did a good job first time, you'll probably hear from her when it fizzles out but dont sit around waiting.

Post: #9259

I had a similar thing happen to me before Christmas where all the girls I was seeing dropped off the radar in December, only for most to reappear first week in January.

My theory is they locked down a bf for Christmas presents, cuddles and pictures because they hate being single at Christmas.


Funny story with one of these girls I was seeing over the autumn, maybe once every week/10 days.

Eventually I told her I couldn't see her any more because she wanted a relationship, and I was getting irritated with her pestering me too much to see her more often.

She took it badly but did back off.

I called her up for a booty call a couple more times in November but then from the start of December she went quiet and made excuses twice not to see me.

I guessed she had met someone else.




FFWD to this Friday, I sent a restart text saying 'are you still around or u all loved up now?'

Next day she responds 'I am kind of seeing someone now xx'

Me: no worries, doors open if it don't work out
Her: it's early days so who knows xx
Her: I have missed u tho (sad face emoji) xx
Her: blowing kiss emoji.

Saturday night I have a first date with a girl and swapping sex stories back at my place, I'm telling her how I met this other girl and she bursts out laughing, saying stop the story, stop the story, is her name xyz?!?!

Turns she she's a close friend of this other girl!

She wasn't putting out so after she left, I text the first girl saying Iv just had her friend over.

Once she read them Sunday morning it fucking kicked her Hampster into overdrive and she's sending me a ream if texts asking if I fucked her, what did I tell her about us, telling me not to see her again, she feels jealous and ending with 'are you comin over?'

Laughing to myself, I replied 'no, I'd have to drive to you, sex the life out of you, drive back, work today and still have enough energy for another date Iv got lined up tonight'

Followed by 'but if you bring ice cream...'
(which she always used to)

She came back with 'what time will u be kicking me out?'

She drove straight over, with ice cream, and the sex was as good as ever.

Apparently her bf, who she started seeing at the start of December, had commited the mortal sin of cancelling on her Saturday night with a cold!!

Post: #9260

If a girl wants to bang or stop banging you, she'll always find a justification, no matter how frivolous or downright ridiculous, for she's a creature of the fleeting moment.

Post: #9261

Made a decent approach on a stylishly dressed chick in Tesco. Got her number, texted back and forth, pushed for a date, she declined that day because she had "other plans". As it transpired later, it was, yes, I'm not kidding - gym, and then, reading manga. Let's be honest, women got lazy because they've got lined up a queue of horny men via Tinder, online dating websites and other social media. If you think about it for a minute, that technology, to our own detriment, been invented by men. Anyhow, did I feel insulted? You bet. Manga vs a confident, bold, well dressed and socially savvy man. And not that bad looking, too. But she said "maybe another time" so finally we (that is, really, me) re-arranged for Monday, though after she said Sunday was no-go. She wanted afternoon, kinda coffee date, but I pushed for later and we met at 7pm.

I picked a very swanky bar that I like, live music, good service, nice decor and all that, and we sat down upstairs in a corner. First red light - I sat on a spacious sofa, her in an armchair a good distance away, I could barely hear what she said! A businesswoman in her later twenties signalling she didn't mean business. I made her sit down on the sofa, next to me, but she kept a healthy distance between us at all times, and too rigid a body to relax herself. Her getting a smoothie didn't help, and on my persuasion she got herself later a small beer of which she drunk two-thirds after nursing if for more than an hour.

I focused conversation on her, made her comfortable, made her laugh, verbally escalated and complimented but was getting nothing in return. And she spent, to my taste, too much time on her phone as well. I reckon I should've just walked out on her, really. I did mention the phone thing indirectly, she got the hint, alas, didn't help. And her excuse to go home was perfect - she had to do the trip booking before midnight. As if the whole day, until 7pm weren't enough to do just that. Se we left, walked in silence. She didn't even say thank you for organising a night out. Got a firm handshake a la businesswoman and that was that.

But dispirited I was not. I had another date lined up the next day. This one was with a nurse. I met her in M&S. She was getting rosé wine, and we talked a bit. It seemed very on, it was in her eyes, and her almost dancing around me. I stood my ground, it seemed like she wanted me to walk towards her, then she said got to go... and 30 seconds later was back saying she may swap for red. She asked for my Facebook, instead I took her number. She stuck with rosé.

Seemed on, for she kept replying quite quickly, asked questions and indicated would be free next Friday or Saturday. What else can you ask for? Then she suggested we should meet before that, Tuesday, after work for a wee walk. We met, had a coffee, it was a good flow, then we had a walk but it was cold and dark so no time to sit down on a bench and engage in romantic activities. Either way, quite to the contrary with the experience from the day before and at the end, unprompted, she gave me a hug.

But after that day, she begin to take longer to reply and when I suggested to warm up against the cold weather with a few drinks she messaged back "Unfortunately my weekend will be busy". And to make a point, the message was garnished, with a smiley face. Because why not? And that was that.

Post: #9262

(01-12-2017 07:03 PM)ksbms Wrote:  I focused conversation on her, made her comfortable, made her laugh, verbally escalated and complimented but was getting nothing in return. And she spent, to my taste, too much time on her phone as well. I reckon I should've just walked out on her, really. I did mention the phone thing indirectly, she got the hint, alas, didn't help. And her excuse to go home was perfect - she had to do the trip booking before midnight. As if the whole day, until 7pm weren't enough to do just that. Se we left, walked in silence. She didn't even say thank you for organising a night out. Got a firm handshake a la businesswoman and that was that.

Ouch.

I've got to say, I've never gotten the handshake before.

The first girl was a flimsy prospect from the start. I won't fault her for turning down your request for a same-day date since it's entirely plausible she had a prior commitment, but if she was truly interested she would've given you more to work with. From how your post reads, it sounds as if she turned down Sunday without making a counteroffer -- you made the counteroffer for Monday and she accepted, that's a subtle but important difference.

To each their own I suppose, but I probably wouldn't have taken a flimsy prospect to a swanky place. I'd have gone to a cheap watering hole, shared a drink or two to feel out her interest first. Then, if things went well between you two on the first date maybe bring her someplace nicer on the second or third date.

You did well to focus the conversation on her, as women love talking about themselves. Making her laugh is always a good thing, but I'm not sure what you mean by "escalating verbally" because right after that you mentioned "complimenting" her. Generally, it's not a good idea to shower a woman with too many compliments. The more compliments you give, the higher you raise her value and the lower your value appears relative to hers (at least from her perspective).

Another thing you got right was postponing the date 'til a later time. No one wants to get screwed into having a "friendly lunch" with a prospect when the real objective is providing one's self an opportunity for seduction which, needless to say, is much more difficult to pull off during the day.

Bottom line: She didn't make any part of the process easy for you. I'm sure you've heard the expression, "Love is like a fart. If you have to force it, it's probably shit," right? Well, even though we're not even close to talking about love, the same general principle applies -- there needs to be at least some measure of reciprocity from a girl you're gaming, otherwise you're just trying to force something to happen by your own volition.

Kudos for quickly shrugging off that experience by having another prospect lined up. An abundance mentality is absolutely essential to the game.

Post: #9263

(01-12-2017 08:24 PM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  

(01-12-2017 07:03 PM)ksbms Wrote:  I focused conversation on her, made her comfortable, made her laugh, verbally escalated and complimented but was getting nothing in return. And she spent, to my taste, too much time on her phone as well. I reckon I should've just walked out on her, really. I did mention the phone thing indirectly, she got the hint, alas, didn't help. And her excuse to go home was perfect - she had to do the trip booking before midnight. As if the whole day, until 7pm weren't enough to do just that. Se we left, walked in silence. She didn't even say thank you for organising a night out. Got a firm handshake a la businesswoman and that was that.

Ouch.

I've got to say, I've never gotten the handshake before.

The first girl was a flimsy prospect from the start. I won't fault her for turning down your request for a same-day date since it's entirely plausible she had a prior commitment, but if she was truly interested she would've given you more to work with. From how your post reads, it sounds as if she turned down Sunday without making a counteroffer -- you made the counteroffer for Monday and she accepted, that's a subtle but important difference.

To each their own I suppose, but I probably wouldn't have taken a flimsy prospect to a swanky place. I'd have gone to a cheap watering hole, shared a drink or two to feel out her interest first. Then, if things went well between you two on the first date maybe bring her someplace nicer on the second or third date.

You did well to focus the conversation on her, as women love talking about themselves. Making her laugh is always a good thing, but I'm not sure what you mean by "escalating verbally" because right after that you mentioned "complimenting" her. Generally, it's not a good idea to shower a woman with too many compliments. The more compliments you give, the higher you raise her value and the lower your value appears relative to hers (at least from her perspective).

Another thing you got right was postponing the date 'til a later time. No one wants to get screwed into having a "friendly lunch" with a prospect when the real objective is providing one's self an opportunity for seduction which, needless to say, is much more difficult to pull off during the day.

Bottom line: She didn't make any part of the process easy for you. I'm sure you've heard the expression, "Love is like a fart. If you have to force it, it's probably shit," right? Well, even though we're not even close to talking about love, the same general principle applies -- there needs to be at least some measure of reciprocity from a girl you're gaming, otherwise you're just trying to force something to happen by your own volition.

Kudos for quickly shrugging off that experience by having another prospect lined up. An abundance mentality is absolutely essential to the game.

Thanks for input, LeoneVolpe. Actually, I got a number on Wednesday and tried to meet with her on Thursday but she declined and said "maybe some other time". This already wasn't great - a genuinely interested girl would suggest a viable counter-offer. My overall cost of the date came under £5 so no big deal. Was trawling the streets again, and bumped into nurse, heh. Didn't give her attention.

Made some approaches but nothing stuck today. Prime-time is after 5pm but it's dark, cold, windy, and everyone because of these conditions is in a rush to get home. What fucks me up, are recurrent thoughts of my ex. Steered clear of re-contacting her but I've just realised it will not be easy to find just as hot girl as her to replace her. I've been DGing everyday from 1st Jan, and only the Brazilian chick I had a chance to approach was a match in the looks department.

Post: #9264

Interesting weekend and week.

Pissed off some MILF cougar who came around, first bang of the year was a chinese girl, just had a great fuck session that my with cute that my homegirl hooked me up with, mediocre date with an Indian girl.


This weekend I had a Saturday bender drinking shooting darts and chilling with friends.

First venue as I walk in my boy walks with these 3 cute girls and 1 semi cute girl. Tells me to go to venue 2 so we bounce. Notice the girls are just chilling at the bar by themselves so I open the set, asking "how do you know X ?"

"whose X?
-i make a midget gesture with my hands-
"aww that's mean lol"

That breaks the ice, a minute later we're talking about chodes, and one girl has no idea.

Turns out ALL 4 are married and have 2 kids minimum, 2 of the 4 are definitely cute, the other 2 turn out being whatever.

2 of my boys picked them up at venue 1, the blondie wanted to fuck one of my friends, the other guy can't game girls for the life of him and always makes shit political.

The girls ask what I do, "Oh I'm a stripper" they laugh, "no seriously" -deadpan face- they take the bait - "no way ?! really ?" "yeah make bank with those bored X(City) housewives and cougars" -smirk- they crack up.

Of course the girls ask what I am, play the guessing game, she guess indian on last guess.

"Oh okay so like basically arab then"
"Uh no way east of the middle east"
"I don't think so"
"Do you want me to pull out a map lol, it's own sub continent duh!"
"I'm guessing you're mixed mexican"
"Wow yeah, that's crazy you knew"
"So do you own hotels and 7/11?"
"Are you here illegally ? You know Trump won right ?" -smirk-
"OMG you're so mean lol, yeah he won !"
"Yeah I love Trump voted and donated to the guy"

Anways I aske them their age, they look at eachother, one says she's 35, the other asks me to guess, I say 35, she says no, I call bullshit, and kept telling her she's lying, she got pissed she swears she's 29.

I bounce, tell them, we're playing darts, the pissed off girl ends up showing up and we teach her how to play cricket.

Me and my other bro kill it at darts and run the board. This other guy shows up, he's a liberal, I have a bit of a soft spot for him and float him girl advice from time to time, he's just too goddamn nice, it happened to be his birthday.

I bought him a beer, and we grab something to eat after - turns out 2 of the MILFs show up there with one of the guys, I finish my food and sit in their booth and wing for him. Looks like one of the married girls is going to bang him, and one of the other girls states it out loud and we laugh.

Goddamn females are shady, he's got it handled so I leave the booth.

I end up paying for me and nice guys meal, drop him off at his pad, said happy birthday and went home.


Tuesday had a date with an Indian girl, she looked cute on Tinder, from the midwest, been here in SoCal less than a year.

That changed when I saw her, she was dressed cute, I'll give her that, but her nose and eyebrows bugged me.

She talked ALOT, I told her she was buying me a drink to listen to her bitch about family and that I'm not Dr. Phil, she apologized.

We kept talking, well she did, criticizing her cousin whose a spoiled baller, but this bitch dropped 3 times that she was making 100K in the medical field and has 2 degrees.

She smokes ciggs alot, definitely a turn off, along with her ego.

Shoot some pool, then close our tabs and walk out.


I give her a hug, go for the kiss like usual - this bitch turns her head.

"Come here"
"Mmmm nope lol"
"Wooowww"

I walk away.

"I don't kiss on the first date"
"Yeah and I don't fuck on the first date lol"

Worse part of the night was after the date, hate to change a flat in the soaking rain with a goddamn tshirt.

God/Satan/Allah/Jesus/Moses are telling me no to go on dates with Indian girls anymore. What a waste.


Anyways, upside is the Chinese girl and the squirter/cum machine girl which I'll write about later.

Post: #9265

The moment a girl with a boyfriend tells me her boy is "nice" and she wears the pants in the relationship...

Post: #9266

Im thinking of going after this super hot bartender chick with a kid that I met on wedding recently. I can already hear RVF screaming against it

Post: #9267

(01-14-2017 06:26 PM)XXL Wrote:  Im thinking of going after this super hot bartender chick with a kid that I met on wedding recently. I can already hear RVF screaming against it

What's wrong with that? Bartenders are sluts, and she has a kid so you know she is down with creampies. Plow away homie.

Post: #9268

(01-14-2017 07:39 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

(01-14-2017 06:26 PM)XXL Wrote:  Im thinking of going after this super hot bartender chick with a kid that I met on wedding recently. I can already hear RVF screaming against it

What's wrong with that? Bartenders are sluts, and she has a kid so you know she is down with creampies. Plow away homie.

100% agreed.

Just because a bitch has a kid doesn't mean she's automatically nexted.

Game her, wrap up, and smash her.

Post: #9269

(01-14-2017 10:22 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(01-14-2017 07:39 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

(01-14-2017 06:26 PM)XXL Wrote:  Im thinking of going after this super hot bartender chick with a kid that I met on wedding recently. I can already hear RVF screaming against it

What's wrong with that? Bartenders are sluts, and she has a kid so you know she is down with creampies. Plow away homie.

100% agreed.

Just because a bitch has a kid doesn't mean she's automatically nexted.

Game her, wrap up, and smash her.

Oh you're so sweet and supportive guys, make me feel like sky's the limit

Post: #9270

(01-06-2017 02:50 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  Had a date with this sexy thick black 33 y/o girl that works at the front desk in my mother's apartment complex. My mom hooked this entire thing up - asked this girl what she thought of me seeing me come in and out of the building from time to time and she said I was good looking. Gave my mom her number which my mom then gave to me. Texted a bit and made plans. She is also a single mom. Anyway, date was awesome and this girl is sexy as fuck. Huge titties just begging to be motorboated. I took her to dinner then brought her back to my place for some wine and relaxation. Made out a but though she was the one pulling away. Good vibe and she was into me but seems to have a real "anti-slut" guard. Said she had to head home right after a real spirited make out and how I was "trouble." We are getting together again after the weekend.

Update: second notch of 2017

Closed on second date on Friday night. Also found a good "gotcha" for getting girls to come straight to my place for dates.

Because of my job I have an on-call rotation so every few weeks I try to stay in all week because from 5pm - 10pm I have to have access to my laptop and internet connection on the fly incase there is a critical issue. On these weeks, if girls want to make dates, I tell them we can hang out but we have to "keep it low key because I'm oncall maybe just have some wine and relax at my place."

It works.

Anyway this girl is great. Those big giant titties are fake as hell. A little firm for my liking, but great nonetheless. Fucked her twice then sent her on her way and then went to my main's where we traded off massaging eachother.

Will be seeing this girl again as well. Rebuilding/expanding them harem for 2017.

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Supposed to have a girl coming straight to my place tonight but right now my main is napping on my couch nekked with her perky little titties hanging out and I don't want to kick her out.

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Had a date last night with this real eager-seeming girl. Told her we could meet briefly at a bar near my place but I was oncall so I couldn't stay out long and we'd have to move ti my place after if we want to hang out longer. Turned out to be awkward as fuck. Girl seemed like a socio path. 90% of the conversation was sarcastic. At one point she said "I just want to talk about sex for about 20 minutes then go home and eat spaghetti" then proceeded to ask me how many women I've slept with.

Told her it'd be easier to tell her how many I haven't slept with, then started pointing to specific girls in the room "Haven't slept with that one. Haven't... wait nevermind."

Shit was getting weird and she was not very attractive so I said I had to cut the date short... but we could move it to my place if she wanted to hang some more. She said "Thats gonna be a hard no" which was for the best. She was very conversationally combative in a passive aggressive way. Deleted.

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Some slutty OKC chick who cold messaged me two weeks ago and subsequently sent me nudes wants to meet up this week. I thought she was just a time waster who wanted to trade pics and nothing more but we'll see.

Post: #9271

When it comes to game, one of the biggest issues I've run into with frustrating regularity are women going back to their exes. I've had this happen with both women I'd yet to close and women I'd already fucked. Typically, the timeframe in which this occurs can range from a few days to a few weeks into new interactions. Due to this effect, I've had more of a revolving door of women than harems, unfortunately.

Anyone else had similar experiences?

Post: #9272

(01-15-2017 08:21 PM)LeoneVolpe Wrote:  When it comes to game, one of the biggest issues I've run into with frustrating regularity are women going back to their exes. I've had this happen with both women I'd yet to close and women I'd already fucked. Typically, the timeframe in which this occurs can range from a few days to a few weeks into new interactions. Due to this effect, I've had more of a revolving door of women than harems, unfortunately.

Anyone else had similar experiences?

What's your personality like?

What are the boyfriends like?

Post: #9273

redbeard:

Generally speaking, I'd say I'm cocky/funny.

Since I haven't met their boyfriends, I can't say what they're like. Generally, I avoid the topic of exes (mine or theirs) with girls, as it seems, at least for the most part, counterproductive.

I know the most recent girl this happened with was having some trouble affording a place in LA on her own, in a separate conversation I indicated I wasn't looking for anything serious (which she claimed she wasn't either) and next thing I know she decides she and her ex (who she used to live with) wanted to "give it another try." So, I'm assuming my lack of commitment has cost me some, and women's pragmatic nature of putting housing needs over cock has cost me others.

Usually, the pattern is as follows:

Girl breaks up with an LTR > meets me > I run game > sometimes I fuck 'em/sometimes not > time goes by > girl wants to try making her LTR work > I go onto the next

Post: #9274

You fuck a girl, send her home...what happens next?

"time goes by" is when you're losing them. What are you doing during this time?

Post: #9275

I try not to see any plate I'm spinning too often, so I might only hit them up once maybe twice a week at most. Generally, when I invite them to do stuff, they're the kinds of things I'd want to do anyway (e.g. grab a drink, bowling, go for a hike, Netflix, take 'em to bed, etc.).

I don't ask to become anything serious. It's my belief that if a girl is interested in a relationship with you, eventually she'll ask "What are we?" or "Where's this going?" hinting toward her wanting to become something more serious. More often than not, I'm cool with (and prefer) just seeing a chick casually without putting any label on it.

I don't know if I sufficiently answered your question -- or if it might help you to know I live in Southern California, a place notorious for flakes in both platonic friendships and relationships.