2 chicks and 9 kids?
And he ain't gotta job?
Sounds like hell.

But his game is way better than mine.

Salute!
WIA

I guess if you really wanted to be with ALL your kids, you'd have to make that shit work. He's sho-nuff a bum for not working, but I be his EBT card stay lit!

This reminds me of the selfish nature of women in general. The mentality that if she's regularly giving you the pOssy, you're somehow in an implied contract with her.
How are you gentlemen overcoming women who wanna put you on lock? It's been awhile since I've had to deal with this, but I really want to ask the next one who pulls the exclusivity card "why are you so selfish?"

Your instincts are right, because it forces her hand. The trick is that you gotta be okay with her walking away, trying to bang some guy and throw it in your face.

The other thing is that you gotta be honest with yourself on why.

"I like big titties and them D's just ain't enough. Now if you could convince your friends to join us from time to time, i.e..every Tuesday like clockwork, maybe I could be more serious..."

WIA

(12-28-2016 04:53 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  This reminds me of the selfish nature of women in general. The mentality that if she's regularly giving you the pOssy, you're somehow in an implied contract with her.
How are you gentlemen overcoming women who wanna put you on lock? It's been awhile since I've had to deal with this, but I really want to ask the next one who pulls the exclusivity card "why are you so selfish?"

Funny thing happened recently. Plate I used to see whenever I go to visit my hometown brought this up. She kept asking what are we doing, I'm guessing she was trying to force my hand. Turns out she realized that she was just a plate, and that there's more likely someone in my life. Excellent question to bring up. I think the answer goes back to having abundance mentality. What got me through was the realization that she's just a plate, and that there's plenty of fish in the proverbial sea.

Thanks for the NYC tips fellas.... Great to hear NYC seems to be turning for the better.

(12-27-2016 07:32 AM)Moma Wrote:  

(12-26-2016 09:56 PM)lex the impaler Wrote:  Just wrapped up a trip to Kenya. Would definitely recommend it. How do you guys handle African/west Indian lizards. Only thing that seemed to work was social status game. If they think you're loaded, they'll swarm. Part of my 2017 goals is to spend more time among African women, and learn how to deal with them. For the second gen immigrants/expats, how do y'all handle going back to your home countries?

Africans definitely depend on social status and this leaks out to other facets of their lives (business, relationships, intimate relationships etc).

I am a solo cat and I am assed out when I go to African events solo. Once I have been certified, the punni starts to flow quite comfortably almost like there is a secret membership that one has to own.

From travelling back home, I set the premise beforehand. I try to communicate often with the family back home (monthly phone calls) and Whatsapp to those who have it. I notice that the Africans that I know are notoriously horrible at Whatsapp and send very stunted messages. This means ideally you want to call often and Africans have excellent memory and will remember how many times you reached out to call.

Prior to travel, I will let a few trusted ones know that I am about to arrive, giving dates etc. This is in order for them to pad my arrival and make things easy and stress free. It is not even up for discussion that you should purchase some gifts and bring them with you. Call it tax, call it payment, whatever label you need to make the process smooth in your mind. Give out those gifts to those who helped you and have some extras for others.

By the time I arrive, these things will be in place and social circle will help one land the lizards that one needs. For the West Indies, I don't have connections like that but I follow the same principles with whom I know and I usually tone down the bragging. If they ask me how I am living in the US, I grudgingly admit to what I am doing and tone everything down. I'd rather not light the wrong type of fires.

I am good at emulating accents so I will put on a slight African accent where I am at and I will keep it up unless I am in a situation where they need to know that I am from the West and then I will hit them with the full British.

This method has served me well and others approve of this method.

P.S. I am dying to go to Nairobi. I have a good friend who lives there (9ja guy who moved from London) and he continuously tells me it's the DR of Africa. Let's see what 2017 brings.

I definitely will recommend Nairobi. Especially if you already have contacts on the ground. Unfortunately my accent isn't too strong, but folks could easily tell that I wasn't from those parts.
Excellent point on gift giving. I completely blew that aspect, would have helped "grease the wheels" quite a bit in terms of appeasing folks. In my youthful arrogance I convinced myself that I didn't need to do that. My sister on the other hand is way more well versed on these things than I am. She had gifts lined up for the whole clan.
Kenya was nice, next time I'm planning on hitting up Mombasa, Zanzibar and Dar-es-Salaam. Perhaps even squeeze in a few days in Addis Ababa. Ethiopian women are intoxicating.

(12-28-2016 02:56 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  I too am aiming for a 3 person harem. There's just something about that number that sounds comforting.

In the past I never planned out the 3 girl rotation. It just kind of happened then I noticed the patterns.

#1 is the girl that makes herself the most available to me. And / Or provides the most value IE cooking, cleaning, back rubs etc. So understandably she gets most of my attention. If I am not careful I could easily catch feelings or develop oneitis for this girl. I see her 2 - 3 times a week but I limit it to that. If I see her more than that, red flags or not I will start to catch feelings.

#2 is the girl that may have shown a lot of interest initially. She may have even held the #1 spot. But now her interest is waning because she sees this is going nowhere. Instead of bowing out she starts playing the games. IE waiting several hours or days to return calls and texts. When we set up a date. She will tease me with dirty talk, send naked pics, then flake at the last minute. All of this to make me want her more. And the truth is this shit would work if I didnt have someone else to go to! I Gotta make her want me more than I want her. I try not to see this girl more than 3 -4 times a month.

#3 girl may have been #1 or #2 either way she has accepted, nothing serious is ever going to happen between us. She starts to move on. She starts dating dudes she considers to be LTR material. She doesnt want to make herself look bad by jumping their bones to early. She uses me as a release valve. Even after she enters a relationship with one of the guys. We still keep in contact. What she deemed as safe and manageable has turned out to be predictable and boring. She still needs that excitement and wants to hook up once in a blue. As long as my schedule permits I am happy to oblige. I see her once or twice a month.

As I type this out. I am thinking to myself. This sounds like it was a lot of work. But when I think back. I remember managing a rotation was less work than dealing with one chick! Why? Mainly because when I had a rotation going, I was the most nonreactive and non needy mothafuka on the planet! And I dont mean in a practiced way. I really did not sweat any woman or her nonsense.... And they could sense "it". Whatever "it" was made these women into some of the calmest and compliant women I have ever dealt with. Dont get me wrong these women were still women so they still had their annoying habits and still played their games. But these were still some of the chilliest relationships I have ever had. And also the best sex? Not sure why but the sex I had with these women was on a much more primal and deeper level than anything I have had since.

Thinking back to this, makes me realize just how much of a reactive and needy bitch, I have been in relationships since then. Which was probably the root cause of all my relationship problems.

There is something about having 3 girls in a rotation that just seems more natural to me than the one on one relationship.

Thanks for the rep WIA. How I'm feeling right now.

"I was the most nonreactive and non needy mothafuka on the planet!"

PREACH!

WIA

That abundance you feel when you have options casts a spell on any woman. I think a notable point in any mans game is when he begins to treats his time like the finite asset it is. Instead of double texting , you take that extra text and send it to a different girl who can reply in shorter than two hours. You reply to that "I hate you" text with an "lol" or a "really? Do tell". It starts to mean less and you finally see the fun in running game. You're no longer tryna "get pussy", pussy has to get you.

I dislike NYC night club game. I think because I roll with too deep of a crew (with guys who have GFs), and for other reasons.

Still reeling from LTR that broke up with me two weeks ago, so aorry to vent. But just felt comfortable doing it here.

At least I have a scheme coming over tomorrow.

@MaceTyrell - why did your LTR break up with you?

New Year's just around the corner.
What's the plan?

(12-30-2016 02:03 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  New Year's just around the corner.
What's the plan?

January 2 I have an appointment to freeze sperm and get vasectomy.

Wow

What made you come to this decision?

WIA

(12-30-2016 02:03 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  New Year's just around the corner.
What's the plan?

Wasn't sure if you meant plans as in plans for new year or goals for the new year so I wrote out both:

Goals for New Years:

- I'm planning on starting a investment portfolio. I just read about a janitor with no degree who died with 8 million in assets. He didn't even tell his kids about it.

- Taking the advice from the BlurredSevens photo thread and putting money towards an editorial photographer to boost my online game.

- Wardrobe upgrade. Getting fresh is a must, but more balanced. I've always been the street wear guy, jordan 4 guy. Let's see what a nice pair of chelsea boots does for a young n... in the coming year.

Plans for the day:

Might head to Montreal with a group of friends. I've heard it gets crazy, so I gotta see for myself.

Out of town

Heading out with the boys from the old neighborhood, they got lady friends who got friends

Plan to get in where I fit in

Packing plenty of gum so my mouth won't get dry from spitting venom

(12-30-2016 02:44 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Wow

What made you come to this decision?

WIA

Many factors:
I love women too much. I love my business too much. Love life too much. For about 10 years I've had this gnawing thought "What if this is the time?" Too much paranoia. So, gonna get fixed and really put a hurting on these girls. I rather be a wise uncle than a beaten father.

(12-30-2016 04:01 PM)Carmichael Reid Wrote:  

(12-30-2016 02:44 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Wow

What made you come to this decision?

WIA

Many factors:
I love women too much. I love my business too much. Love life too much. For about 10 years I've had this gnawing thought "What if this is the time?" Too much paranoia. So, gonna get fixed and really put a hurting on these girls. I rather be a wise uncle than a beaten father.

Luckily, my pull-out game has been strong af over the past 20 years, but now that I'm older who knows. Last thing I need is to be tipping a bish for life every month on schedule, lol.

Is that procedure covered under insurance, or you gotta come out of pocket?

(12-30-2016 04:10 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  

(12-30-2016 04:01 PM)Carmichael Reid Wrote:  

(12-30-2016 02:44 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Wow

What made you come to this decision?

WIA

Many factors:
I love women too much. I love my business too much. Love life too much. For about 10 years I've had this gnawing thought "What if this is the time?" Too much paranoia. So, gonna get fixed and really put a hurting on these girls. I rather be a wise uncle than a beaten father.

Luckily, my pull-out game has been strong af over the past 20 years, but now that I'm older who knows. Last thing I need is to be tipping a bish for life every month on schedule, lol.

Is that procedure covered under insurance, or you gotta come out of pocket?

The frozen sperm I feel is gonna come out of pocket. But vasectomy is on the house.

On a side note . . .

I remember banging a hoodrat with like 4-5 kids maybe 8 years ago. I ditched her afterwards, but she tried contacting me talking about she was pregnant. Lol, I assumed it was a commonly used ploy given her disposition and told her I didn't know what to tell her because I had a vasectomy. I wouldn't be surprised if I had some illegitimate chirren running around out there, lol.

Tired of our arguments. Showed ugly side of myself.

(12-30-2016 04:44 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  Tired of our arguments. Showed ugly side of myself.

You let that Ike Turner come out?

(12-28-2016 08:08 PM)Ogunn Wrote:  

(12-28-2016 02:56 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  I too am aiming for a 3 person harem. There's just something about that number that sounds comforting.

In the past I never planned out the 3 girl rotation. It just kind of happened then I noticed the patterns.

I have had multiple 3 girl harems (not bragging) and here is my recent take on it:

I can consistently pull girls of the 6 and 7 level but rarely the 8 or 9. Maintaining 3 girl harems require lots of time, money and energy. The time I spend maintaining these harems can be better utilized pushing myself career (business/money) wise, and time in the gym... which will all in turn raise my SMV.. making it easier for me to get that 8 or 9 that I really want.

in the last few months of 2016 I got rid of my harem and am now down to one single 7 plate who is so far reliable enough to have sex on a regular basis without stressing me for a relationship and at the same time giving me enough time to pursue the goals I really want to achieve.

I said this before in another thread and ill say it here..

At a certain point 6s and 7s don't even count as a notch anymore.

Since this is New Years Eve... I think thats my best advice for all the brothers here going into 2017.