Just wrapped up a trip to Kenya. Would definitely recommend it. How do you guys handle African/west Indian lizards. Only thing that seemed to work was social status game. If they think you're loaded, they'll swarm. Part of my 2017 goals is to spend more time among African women, and learn how to deal with them. For the second gen immigrants/expats, how do y'all handle going back to your home countries?

(12-26-2016 09:56 PM)lex the impaler Wrote:  Just wrapped up a trip to Kenya. Would definitely recommend it. How do you guys handle African/west Indian lizards. Only thing that seemed to work was social status game. If they think you're loaded, they'll swarm. Part of my 2017 goals is to spend more time among African women, and learn how to deal with them. For the second gen immigrants/expats, how do y'all handle going back to your home countries?

If you speak like a foreigner, you will be at an advantage. If you cannot speak their native language, you will be at a disadvantage socially. Africans are the kind of people who will talk shit to your face when they know you have no idea what you are saying.

It really depends on your relatives. If they up talk you, then when you go to the country people expect more of you.'

Edit: to answer you question, which I realize that I didn't fully do, last time I went there and stayed for a while, my family was way too liberal in the gift giving, and so my relatives expected that, and when we stopped giving to them, they were really angry and became our enemies almost universally. So go with a few things if you have friends/ relatives.

Most of my living arrangements were handled by people we knew before we went there. If you can find someone who knows a lot about your area before you go, that will help in a big way. My dad sent a car over there, that we used till it broke apart. ( the engine was bad so we changed it, but our mechanic took the engine block and made a new engine assembly, haha). if you know someone you trust, you can save time and money if they do your leg work before you get there.

We usually tell our relatives that we are coming, and they pick us up, etc. Girls will like you if you look good and sound good. I was a brat because I could get away with a lot of shit. all my teachers except one loved me, but she was an angry person in general. ( I am going off topic here, I know)

(12-26-2016 07:32 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  I need to stop perusing these other threads. It hurts my heart.

2016
- lost 60 lbs. No change in my game, cause I don't lean in that way. But faster mental processing. More energy all around

- some fitness pr's, but Rudebwoy is in this post, don't want to embarrass myself

- need to move. Lot of these chicks i rock with would be wifey candidates if I knew I wanted to stay on the east coast.

WIA

LOL you are fine dude, losing 60llbs is no joke.

When you say pull up goals to equal your age. Do you mean doing 30 pull-ups if you are age 30?

My goal is to be fully location independent, I have been working on this for over year.

I also need to make more FU money to match my personality.

My man Moma has been habla espanol hard these past few months, I need to get on that or some francais si vous plait.

I would love to reach Latin America, don't know if it will happen next year. I hear you need a wing to really enjoy it.

I would also like to spend a month in another country, the week vacations are no longer enough.

My friend hooked me up with a club promoter in a major Italian city, he has the place on lock. Opportunities like that I cannot pass up and I have never been to Italy.

The same friend has a business proposal on the table for us to make some nice change.

Of course, stuff happens that derails these plans.

(12-26-2016 09:56 PM)lex the impaler Wrote:  Just wrapped up a trip to Kenya. Would definitely recommend it. How do you guys handle African/west Indian lizards. Only thing that seemed to work was social status game. If they think you're loaded, they'll swarm. Part of my 2017 goals is to spend more time among African women, and learn how to deal with them. For the second gen immigrants/expats, how do y'all handle going back to your home countries?

From experience
- WI in America = treat as Black Americans
- African in America - if she's Americanized, then treat her as an American.

The real problems come with the traditional African girl who's an exchange student, or is 1st generation and has been sheltered through high school and college.

More of a headache than anything, in my experience.

Anytime i've dealt with a traditional type girl
- Get at her with discretion. I'm aiming to be the "thief in the night", not her boyfriend. I don't want her to be "tainted" goods because she dealt with some akata/gaijin/cocojin etc.

- Many are naive about sexuality and relationships. Very much in the heartbreak territory.

So next time you see an African night advertised, show up, but play the sidelines and dark corners. Coming out the bathroom...As opposed to trying to hit her on the dance floor where everyone is watching.

WIA

(12-26-2016 09:56 PM)lex the impaler Wrote:  Just wrapped up a trip to Kenya. Would definitely recommend it. How do you guys handle African/west Indian lizards. Only thing that seemed to work was social status game. If they think you're loaded, they'll swarm. Part of my 2017 goals is to spend more time among African women, and learn how to deal with them. For the second gen immigrants/expats, how do y'all handle going back to your home countries?

Africans definitely depend on social status and this leaks out to other facets of their lives (business, relationships, intimate relationships etc).

I am a solo cat and I am assed out when I go to African events solo. Once I have been certified, the punni starts to flow quite comfortably almost like there is a secret membership that one has to own.

From travelling back home, I set the premise beforehand. I try to communicate often with the family back home (monthly phone calls) and Whatsapp to those who have it. I notice that the Africans that I know are notoriously horrible at Whatsapp and send very stunted messages. This means ideally you want to call often and Africans have excellent memory and will remember how many times you reached out to call.

Prior to travel, I will let a few trusted ones know that I am about to arrive, giving dates etc. This is in order for them to pad my arrival and make things easy and stress free. It is not even up for discussion that you should purchase some gifts and bring them with you. Call it tax, call it payment, whatever label you need to make the process smooth in your mind. Give out those gifts to those who helped you and have some extras for others.

By the time I arrive, these things will be in place and social circle will help one land the lizards that one needs. For the West Indies, I don't have connections like that but I follow the same principles with whom I know and I usually tone down the bragging. If they ask me how I am living in the US, I grudgingly admit to what I am doing and tone everything down. I'd rather not light the wrong type of fires.

I am good at emulating accents so I will put on a slight African accent where I am at and I will keep it up unless I am in a situation where they need to know that I am from the West and then I will hit them with the full British.

This method has served me well and others approve of this method.

P.S. I am dying to go to Nairobi. I have a good friend who lives there (9ja guy who moved from London) and he continuously tells me it's the DR of Africa. Let's see what 2017 brings.

Good god - I'm trying this when I get rejected. This is brilliant.

24yr black male in NYC here.

2016 was great - great LTR, my 15th notch (only adultery if y'all married), traveled. But personal life stuff was a tad messy. Realized I have been putting women above work, family, friends, and myself. That has to change.

2017 goals: Scheme on a new girl every week, or "scheme" on at least 52 girls by year end. By scheme I mean going for a hookup, or slow cooking a prospect. Always be closing? That's dependent on others allowing you to close. Always be scheming - you have full control.

I'm gonna sound like a simp, but my 2016 LTR is the best girl I've ever been with, and I am actively avoiding relationships with girls who fall short.

I'd also really like a 3-some, but that seems to be the thing you fall into.

My long-term goal is 100 notches before marriage. Don't want to think about settling down for another 10 years. Currently at 15 over a 9 year period.

How man strives!

@Mace you're living the dream! Young black and in NYC?

Do a forum search for Distant Light.

WIA

(12-27-2016 10:40 AM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  24yr black male in NYC here.

2016 was great - great LTR, my 15th notch (only adultery if y'all married), traveled. But personal life stuff was a tad messy. Realized I have been putting women above work, family, friends, and myself. That has to change.

2017 goals: Scheme on a new girl every week, or "scheme" on at least 52 girls by year end. By scheme I mean going for a hookup, or slow cooking a prospect. Always be closing? That's dependent on others allowing you to close. Always be scheming - you have full control.

I'm gonna sound like a simp, but my 2016 LTR is the best girl I've ever been with, and I am actively avoiding relationships with girls who fall short.

I'd also really like a 3-some, but that seems to be the thing you fall into.

My long-term goal is 100 notches before marriage. Don't want to think about settling down for another 10 years. Currently at 15 over a 9 year period.

How man strives!

Interesting... As a young black male in NYC I thought it was shit and ended up leaving...

What kind of girls are you targeting?? Where are you meeting them? Online, night or day game?

All my notches have been through social circle game.

I have never had night game work for me, and honestly I haven't really tried it seriously.

Also have not had any luck online. Again, haven't really tried it. Also don't plan on - between reading about how hard it is to pull from online, and my own preference.

Will do!!!

Too good not to share

2 Toronto based Naija sisters blackmailing African business leaders

http://www.680news.com/2016/12/26/toront...n-nigeria/

Another example of how being rich and famous might get you laid , but makes you a target

WIA

Dumb bitches smh.

Hopefully my naija brothers can take them down.

They're not Naija females.

They got outwitted by Femi Otedola. These foxes got outfoxed.

http://politicsngr.com/indian-sisters-tr...ed-photos/



WB but would not fly in private jet around Africa.

(12-27-2016 02:22 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  All my notches have been through social circle game.

I have never had night game work for me, and honestly I haven't really tried it seriously.

Seems like I was doing everything wrong then.

I tried mostly nightgame and somewhat online... Never ran social circle game and a tiny bit of day game.

What nationalities are you getting? Black lizards, latin lizards, white lizards... What exactly are you getting?

Sorry for so many questions but im just curious because outside of European chicks and club promoting I had shit luck in NYC.

I will be back anyways in the Spring!

LOL at those Indian gold diggers from Toronto.

So you guys still think it is easy to game in Toronto!

Saw a girl similar to that in looks just now at Starbucks, by herself. My buddy was drooling of course, I pretended like I didn't see her. She looked over at us, but I suspect she was scouting for customers.

It must be something in the food or water here.

They should consider themselves lucky for breathing. The wrong guy would have had his "driver" pick them up at the airport. You don't get to the top of the African business world without the ability to think outside of the box and solve problems.

@Djemba thanks for the link. Lol at them getting outsmarted.

WIA

To Kirdiesel,

Unfortunately, for me unless I'm traveling or vacation all I do is night game and occasionally bang coworkers (which I shouldn't do lol).

I've actually got two methods which work pretty well majority of the time.

Method 1- this is what I do majority of the time. Hit up a club and do what is called grenade Mack. It's like pulling the trigger on a grenade and holla at as many girls as you can. Now don't go hard and try to get their number but just have small talk with them and get their names. By being friendly whenever you see them later on you already have a little rapport and then you can go for the kill.

As far as bars are concerned however I kind of just play the numbers game. Just really talk to every attractive girl I see and see where there head is at.

This actually works a lot. There's billions of girls in this world and I'm sure there are millions that like me.

Method 2- I've rarely done this but somehow every time I do it I end up with a bang. Go out to a bar or club alone. Sit by the bar and just be to yourself. Normally every time a girl will come up to me and ask me if I'm alone and why I'm alone. After that it just seems to easy. They think you are different because you go out by yourself and from there it's easier.

For me the type of girls I like are mixed and Spanish girls. I'm an African American brother but I don't like chicks that are dark. I go for the light skinned or Spanish chick and if a snow bunny throws it at me I'm gonna take it.

For me I've only been to NYC once and the time I went it was amazing. I didn't even go to any clubs because I wasn't going to pay more then 20$ to get into a club. I met this fly Singaporean shorty who was on a student visa and showed her a great time.

For me why I think that I'm successful is because I honestly don't care if I get rejected. I know the more shots I take the more shots I'll make. I'll feel a lot better knowing I took the shot and missed it as opposed to not shooting it and letting someone else shoot the ball.

(12-27-2016 01:15 PM)kirdiesel Wrote:  

(12-27-2016 10:40 AM)MaceTyrell Wrote:  24yr black male in NYC here.

2016 was great - great LTR, my 15th notch (only adultery if y'all married), traveled. But personal life stuff was a tad messy. Realized I have been putting women above work, family, friends, and myself. That has to change.

2017 goals: Scheme on a new girl every week, or "scheme" on at least 52 girls by year end. By scheme I mean going for a hookup, or slow cooking a prospect. Always be closing? That's dependent on others allowing you to close. Always be scheming - you have full control.

I'm gonna sound like a simp, but my 2016 LTR is the best girl I've ever been with, and I am actively avoiding relationships with girls who fall short.

I'd also really like a 3-some, but that seems to be the thing you fall into.

My long-term goal is 100 notches before marriage. Don't want to think about settling down for another 10 years. Currently at 15 over a 9 year period.

How man strives!

Interesting... As a young black male in NYC I thought it was shit and ended up leaving...

What kind of girls are you targeting?? Where are you meeting them? Online, night or day game?

Kirdiesel I dont know when you left or where you were based when you lived in NYC.

From what my cousins have been telling me stuff has changed radically over the last ten years. Gentrification like a Mothafukka! White chicks flocking to trendy Brooklyn spots looking for that BBC! Way more interracial couples walking around. New trendy spots popping up if you are interested in black and latino flavor of girls.

It maybe worth a visit to see whats going on.

2015 My focus was fitness, and growing my social circle. I made big gains in both areas. All bangs came from social circle. Passed on a lot of bangs due to a limiting belief that I couldnt sleep with women that were to young IE below 27. I am 46, but I pass for early to mid 30s.

2016 I got back into the game. Got rid of all limiting beliefs! I started going out a lot more to clubs lounges etc. I started day gaming. I stopped relying only on social circle. I got my wardrobe in order. (It was in such a sorry state!!!)

I traveled more domestically and made my first international trip to Europe. The trip to Berlin was a game changer! I am hooked on travel now. I realized my job was not going to get me to where I wanted to go.
I got my Real Estate License. My plan was to save a year to two years of savings then go full time. I got laid off on Oct 13. I had enough savings to last 6 months. I took a leap of faith. I burned my bridges and go full speed into this now!

I focused more on gaming white chicks but all my 2016 Bangs were black or mixed girls. Zero from night game. All were from day game / social circle and one from Couch Surfing.

I slacked off big time on the fitness.

2017 Goals are to get back into the gym and get my fitness back up. Run at least three races.

Make enough money in Real Estate to pay all my bills and have at least a 6 month cushion.

Reward myself with a month long trip to Europe.

Get good at night game and at gaming and closing the white broads. Build a Harem. The goal is to have at least 3 chicks on rotation at all times.

Become conversant in Spanish and French.

I too am aiming for a 3 person harem. There's just something about that number that sounds comforting.

I have a potna that lives with both his kids mothers with a total of about 8-9 kids all under one roof. He doesn't work, but they do. I wouldn't do it, but I respect his hustle.

There is an increasing number of bishes into the polyamorous lifestyle. If I had the time to pursue I wouldn't mind it myself.

(12-28-2016 03:44 PM)DimeBait Wrote:  I have a potna that lives with both his kids mothers with a total of about 8-9 kids all under one roof. He doesn't work, but they do. I wouldn't do it, but I respect his hustle.

There is an increasing number of bishes into the polyamorous lifestyle. If I had the time to pursue I wouldn't mind it myself.

That's why I like this thread so much, always providing good intels and ideas for future personal projects.
Need to work on implementing this kind of life.