(11-11-2016 06:20 PM)crispytaco Wrote:  Most of the time, after making out with a girl, I don't usually text her.

By "making out," do you mean actually fucking her, having a heavy makeout, or just a kiss?

Personally, I'm of the camp that it's generally best not to kiss/makeout at all until in isolation and going to escalate all the way to sex. If you're making out with the girl but not fucking her, that might contribute to the subsequent flaking.

(11-11-2016 06:20 PM)crispytaco Wrote:  However, there are times where you are about to leave the city in 1 or 2 days, and you need to expedite the process. Can't wait for her to miss me. I invite her and things don't go as expected. She is not replying too much etc.

What is your favorite move to push without being needy?

Best way would be to find, or invent a reason that it makes sense to get together on that particular day. E.g., invite her to a scheduled event like a concert, or tell her that you're going to be in her neighborhood/area on a certain day/time so you'd like to drop by with some wine.

(11-12-2016 12:13 AM)Donkey_Riding Wrote:  By "making out," do you mean actually fucking her, having a heavy makeout, or just a kiss?

It seems in this city I get the lays in the 2nd to 3rd meeting. So the first week I got no bangs while the second week I get them everyday.

Anyway here is what I just texted. Instead of asking "How are you"? I did this:

Me: Hey, I'm bored, let's go to Las Vegas !

Her: Hiiiiii Are you that bored?

Me: Just sleepy. I went to a party yesterday. But actually I am flying tomorrow, remember?

Her: Oh I see... Let's go out tonight then! I'm going to the gym and I'm free after that....

Me: hmmm ok. fair enough, once I finish my errands

So there it goes. It seems it is going well so far....

Met a girl on tinder. Convo went real well (she may have even messaged me first?). Got her number. Told her to come out with me tomorrow evening (Sunday).

Her response: I'll let you know in the morning? I might have to meet with some people from a class.

What should I say back? I was thinking of telling her "That's okay then, maybe another time". In this way I would be pre-emptively telling her no instead of giving her total control. Thoughts? I am very open to other suggestions or advice.

^^^

Respond with "k" then wait

(11-09-2016 08:17 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Hit up an old lead about having wine tonight. She shit tested me and asked more about the wine. Kept it brief, assumed the sale and invited her over. Received one of the bitchiest and most nuclear shit tests of all time.

Her: What are you doing right now?
Me: getting in soon. come at 730
Her: What?! lol I'm about to drive for a little to meet my friend... I figured you can entertain me on my way.

She double texts 5 mins later:
Her: It's cute that you thought I'd want to drop everything and to meet you... haha

I wouldnt even treat it as a shit test. This is a girl trying to cover up her obvious interest in meaningless posturing. You clearly have the upper hand.

(11-09-2016 08:17 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Hit up an old lead about having wine tonight. She shit tested me and asked more about the wine. Kept it brief, assumed the sale and invited her over. Received one of the bitchiest and most nuclear shit tests of all time.

Her: What are you doing right now?
Me: getting in soon. come at 730
Her: What?! lol I'm about to drive for a little to meet my friend... I figured you can entertain me on my way.

She double texts 5 mins later:
Her: It's cute that you thought I'd want to drop everything and to meet you... haha

"Looks like you deserve some proper spanking"

(11-13-2016 12:37 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(11-09-2016 08:17 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Hit up an old lead about having wine tonight. She shit tested me and asked more about the wine. Kept it brief, assumed the sale and invited her over. Received one of the bitchiest and most nuclear shit tests of all time.

Her: What are you doing right now?
Me: getting in soon. come at 730
Her: What?! lol I'm about to drive for a little to meet my friend... I figured you can entertain me on my way.

She double texts 5 mins later:
Her: It's cute that you thought I'd want to drop everything and to meet you... haha

"Looks like you deserve some proper spanking"

Went with this zinger. She responded an hour later with the following:

Her: And you are socially inept.

She double texts 10 mins later:
Her: How many more times do I have to insult you for you to stop texting me? It should be a sin to be handsome and so uncouth at the same time..


Sounds like the pussy is wet. Where to go from here?

(11-13-2016 04:20 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  

(11-13-2016 12:37 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(11-09-2016 08:17 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Hit up an old lead about having wine tonight. She shit tested me and asked more about the wine. Kept it brief, assumed the sale and invited her over. Received one of the bitchiest and most nuclear shit tests of all time.

Her: What are you doing right now?
Me: getting in soon. come at 730
Her: What?! lol I'm about to drive for a little to meet my friend... I figured you can entertain me on my way.

She double texts 5 mins later:
Her: It's cute that you thought I'd want to drop everything and to meet you... haha

"Looks like you deserve some proper spanking"

Went with this zinger. She responded an hour later with the following:

Her: And you are socially inept.

She double texts 10 mins later:
Her: How many more times do I have to insult you for you to stop texting me? It should be a sin to be handsome and so uncouth at the same time..


Sounds like the pussy is wet. Where to go from here?

You haven't said the safe word yet

Had a tinder match text me late last night apologising for being at salsa when I called (a few hours earlier). She said that she'd realised that she had been terrible at replying.

I responded just then as I didn't want to leave her hanging too long (its midday now); humouring her first sentence a bit, and arranging a time to meet, ignoring her last sentence.

Our exchange on Tinder was v positive if strung out, so was our ongoing banter via text save for her being a bit flaky twice, as she acknowledged.

I should've posted this before responding, but I was pretty slack with jumping on RVF; nevertheless, would you have responded as I did?

^ yes. Reward the apology with a quick response. But don't address it directly. Don't let her think "all is forgiven so I can do it again".
Good move just focusing on setting up the next date and not focusing on her bad behavior.

(11-13-2016 04:43 PM)TornadoByProxy Wrote:  

(11-13-2016 04:20 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  

(11-13-2016 12:37 PM)ksbms Wrote:  

(11-09-2016 08:17 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  Hit up an old lead about having wine tonight. She shit tested me and asked more about the wine. Kept it brief, assumed the sale and invited her over. Received one of the bitchiest and most nuclear shit tests of all time.

Her: What are you doing right now?
Me: getting in soon. come at 730
Her: What?! lol I'm about to drive for a little to meet my friend... I figured you can entertain me on my way.

She double texts 5 mins later:
Her: It's cute that you thought I'd want to drop everything and to meet you... haha

"Looks like you deserve some proper spanking"

Went with this zinger. She responded an hour later with the following:

Her: And you are socially inept.

She double texts 10 mins later:
Her: How many more times do I have to insult you for you to stop texting me? It should be a sin to be handsome and so uncouth at the same time..


Sounds like the pussy is wet. Where to go from here?

You haven't said the safe word yet

Sent that yesterday and still no response. Looks like she was actually pissed.

She's not pissed. She's just not amused enough.

New to Tinder. Got a 21 yo potential whore who is clearly DTF but acting a little weird/slow with texts:

(She messages me immediately after matching and sends me her ###):

Me: Hi Suzie, so I take it you prefer texting to Tindering? lol -bws

her: What's going on? Thanks for txting..hate that app lol..always crashes on me. Can u meet tonight? (Tuesday) In a crzy mood right now.

Me: It's Wednesday hahaha. What's going on, got a crazy case of mid-week crisis?! I believe I'm free after work tonight

her: ??

Me: (Shrug face)

Her: Ok...sounds good. What do u want to do to me? The dirtier the better. I luv getting it from behind really hard and sucking a guy off.

Me: I don't give away secrets, that's part of the fun! Just relax spread your legs and I'll take it from there.



That all happened within an hour, now 2 hrs since my last text and silence. I'm thinking send her a confirmation/qualification text "I'm getting out of work in a few hours, let's meet at 8pm, and btw, do you have any special technique for making a guy cum fast?"

Any thoughts?

(11-16-2016 03:44 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  New to Tinder. Got a 21 yo potential whore who is clearly DTF but acting a little weird/slow with texts:

(She messages me immediately after matching and sends me her ###):

Me: Hi Suzie, so I take it you prefer texting to Tindering? lol -bws

her: What's going on? Thanks for txting..hate that app lol..always crashes on me. Can u meet tonight? (Tuesday) In a crzy mood right now.

Me: It's Wednesday hahaha. What's going on, got a crazy case of mid-week crisis?! I believe I'm free after work tonight

her: ??

Me: (Shrug face)

Her: Ok...sounds good. What do u want to do to me? The dirtier the better. I luv getting it from behind really hard and sucking a guy off.

Me: I don't give away secrets, that's part of the fun! Just relax spread your legs and I'll take it from there.



That all happened within an hour, now 2 hrs since my last text and silence. I'm thinking send her a confirmation/qualification text "I'm getting out of work in a few hours, let's meet at 8pm, and btw, do you have any special technique for making a guy cum fast?"

Any thoughts?

Tranny

(11-16-2016 04:30 PM)SiverFox Wrote:  

(11-16-2016 03:44 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  New to Tinder. Got a 21 yo potential whore who is clearly DTF but acting a little weird/slow with texts:

(She messages me immediately after matching and sends me her ###):

Me: Hi Suzie, so I take it you prefer texting to Tindering? lol -bws

her: What's going on? Thanks for txting..hate that app lol..always crashes on me. Can u meet tonight? (Tuesday) In a crzy mood right now.

Me: It's Wednesday hahaha. What's going on, got a crazy case of mid-week crisis?! I believe I'm free after work tonight

her: ??

Me: (Shrug face)

Her: Ok...sounds good. What do u want to do to me? The dirtier the better. I luv getting it from behind really hard and sucking a guy off.

Me: I don't give away secrets, that's part of the fun! Just relax spread your legs and I'll take it from there.



That all happened within an hour, now 2 hrs since my last text and silence. I'm thinking send her a confirmation/qualification text "I'm getting out of work in a few hours, let's meet at 8pm, and btw, do you have any special technique for making a guy cum fast?"

Any thoughts?

Tranny

Very likely- a lot of em on Tinder. Carry out your due diligence before getting together.

(11-16-2016 04:33 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  

(11-16-2016 04:30 PM)SiverFox Wrote:  

(11-16-2016 03:44 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  New to Tinder. Got a 21 yo potential whore who is clearly DTF but acting a little weird/slow with texts:

(She messages me immediately after matching and sends me her ###):

Me: Hi Suzie, so I take it you prefer texting to Tindering? lol -bws

her: What's going on? Thanks for txting..hate that app lol..always crashes on me. Can u meet tonight? (Tuesday) In a crzy mood right now.

Me: It's Wednesday hahaha. What's going on, got a crazy case of mid-week crisis?! I believe I'm free after work tonight

her: ??

Me: (Shrug face)

Her: Ok...sounds good. What do u want to do to me? The dirtier the better. I luv getting it from behind really hard and sucking a guy off.

Me: I don't give away secrets, that's part of the fun! Just relax spread your legs and I'll take it from there.



That all happened within an hour, now 2 hrs since my last text and silence. I'm thinking send her a confirmation/qualification text "I'm getting out of work in a few hours, let's meet at 8pm, and btw, do you have any special technique for making a guy cum fast?"

Any thoughts?

Tranny

Very likely- a lot of em on Tinder. Carry out your due diligence before getting together.

She looks feminine in 4 photos, albeit a double chin, but I've seen those on lots of women. You think she's too fast/graphic to be real? Or did my "spread your legs" comment expose him/her?

(11-16-2016 04:39 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  She looks feminine in 4 photos, albeit a double chin, but I've seen those on lots of women. You think she's too fast/graphic to be real? Or did my "spread your legs" comment expose him/her?

Almost certainly a tranny, or worse, a hooker looking for an easy mark.

If it's too good to be true (she did all the sexualizing and FAST) it usually is.

Another easy marker is her alluding to feeling crazy and wild completely out of the blue.

I smell a scam...which really a hooker or a tranny both are.

(11-16-2016 11:25 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(11-16-2016 04:39 PM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  She looks feminine in 4 photos, albeit a double chin, but I've seen those on lots of women. You think she's too fast/graphic to be real? Or did my "spread your legs" comment expose him/her?

Almost certainly a tranny, or worse, a hooker looking for an easy mark.

If it's too good to be true (she did all the sexualizing and FAST) it usually is.

Another easy marker is her alluding to feeling crazy and wild completely out of the blue.

I smell a scam...which really a hooker or a tranny both are.

Yeah, it was a hooker/scam. She sent me a few more naughty pics. I've encountered a few of these before where they quickly ask for your ###.

(11-09-2016 06:29 PM)Nater Wrote:  Yes, I could be your dad.

Good way to introduce her to calling you daddy.

I find this one bad though "you sound intimidated...don't be"

Yea no response on that one. But in the conversation she's the older one not me.

Thanksgiving restart text:

Matched with a 24 yo on Tinder last week, using my Kindle (older Tinder version) and a variation on Vladimir's "Serbian Notch" profile. Mine is tailored to my being an older man (early 40's). It's pretty direct, basically telling women to "swipe right if you're in the middle of your carousel ride and want to add an older man to your notch collection".

Tinder showed she was 10 miles away. I open with a greeting and a nickname for her. Some light chatter, then it went cold for a couple of days. Sent the Happy Thanksgiving message, she responded, and it shows her over 600 miles away. Find out she's in her hometown for the holiday.

Some more chatter, then moved to Snapchat. Exchanged a few naughty pics, I sent her one (Boruca King style) that made her say "wow", and that she "wants it". She was returning back to my area Tuesday. So we left it at either meeting up Wednesday night or Thursday during the day.

Shot her a text Tuesday, "Have a safe trip home, (nickname)." No response.

Sent a text earlier today, "Did you make it back or are you still in the security line lol". Still no response.

I check Tinder, she's local now, and looks like she logged on a couple of hours ago.

Ideas on a next move from here would be appreciated.

You reached out to her twice and she gave you no response and she's local and logged in. Sounds dead to me.

I'd of sent her a snap of you doing something cool, get her interest aroused.

Or send a honeypot snap of your body, moon her, dick pick, whatever (more of a nuclear option).

If she saw it and didn't reply then it's a dead lead man.

(11-30-2016 04:59 PM)kaotic Wrote:  You reached out to her twice and she gave you no response and she's local and logged in. Sounds dead to me.

I'd of sent her a snap of you doing something cool, get her interest aroused.

Or send a honeypot snap of your body, moon her, dick pick, whatever (more of a nuclear option).

If she saw it and didn't reply then it's a dead lead man.

Thanks Kaotic,

I read your reply almost immediately after you posted it, and was going to go with the nuclear option shortly after that.. at first..

While debating on the right pic to arm the warhead with, I had one of my regulars text me, wanting to come by for, among other things, my homemade bacon mac and cheese dinner. Dinner, smashed, and the regular was out the door.

Tinder girl knew I had tonight or tomorrow available. To send a pic of 'something cool' and/or launching the nuke tonight would have reaked of desperation.

I may still go nuclear tomorrow, especially based on the content of her and my exchanges leading up to my making this post. Not completely sure yet. Eh, I'll decide in the morning.

I do want to give props to whoever said the line (it's also someone's sig line) about having options and choices or something. 'Game gives you choices, choices give you options'. I can't remember the exact quote, but it's the absolute truth.

Alright, met a beautiful 20 or 21 junior on campus yesterday. Went direct, she was looking nice today, yadda yadda yadda. Anyway got her number, and had some good text banter back and forth. She responds within the hour and enthusiastically.

SO this afternoon I push for a meet-up this Saturday and Sunday. She replies with, "I just broke up with my boyfriend and don't think I'm ready to go on any dates."
I respond back with a, "woah who said anything about dates, too formal and way too many expectations, blah blah blah."
Her response, "haha I guessss" (yes 4 s's)

Now I'm torn about how hard to push, tease her about expectations of going on dates. I also sense that I could send anything, save a dickpick, and get her to bite, but we all know how hamsters work.

Any thoughts?

^
Saturday night send her a pic of your partying and having a great time with "you should tag along sometime!"

Instant opportinity (if she responds before noon the next day) to text her back in the morning and get her to chill sunday afternoon somewhere relaxed because you're hungover. This worked for me a few times.

Met a woman in a restaurant, we were seated at the bar. We talk about swimming laps in our gym's pool, about my travels, her daughter who is 28 (she is probably low 50s). She is attractive, petite, toned. We talk about white sand beaches, and i type in one in Brasil, Jericoacoara.. Then I ask about her rings, none of which are a wedding ring, and then call my phone from hers. "Arent you a bit young for me?" -- "Some people would think so". She paid her tab, we talked some more then she dipped out.

What do I text next?

"You up to swim a few laps on Tuesday and then lounge in the hot tub?"
"Is 18 too young for you?" im 27
"Im glad I asked about those rings, and even more pleased with the answer"

Help me with a text opener.