Hey, any players out there that can shed some light on this:

I have a high notch count, roughly 90, and I show no positive results when I get tested for stds. I did get some warts 6 years ago that I got removed and don't worry about it anymore, and I've had chlamydia twice.

I slept with a new chick a bunch for a few weeks, right now she's sick, has a fever kinda thing and is puking up her food, took the day off work. Is it possible it's because of me?

She has tested positive for strep throat, and she works with a bunch of toddlers, and her co workers are also sick.

Is this anything I should be concerned about?

What do you think?

(08-25-2016 04:36 PM)Beijong Wrote:  She has tested positive for strep throat, and she works with a bunch of toddlers, and her co workers are also sick.

Is this anything I should be concerned about?

What do you think?

You answered your own question.

I'd start stacking up on Zinc and Vitamin C right now, because you're bound to get strep from her.

Yeah, I figured that..

Do you think riding and blowing my experienced Weiner has anything to do with it though?

(08-25-2016 05:30 PM)Beijong Wrote:  Yeah, I figured that..

Do you think riding and blowing my experienced Weiner has anything to do with it though?

(08-25-2016 05:30 PM)Beijong Wrote:  Do you think riding and blowing my experienced Weiner has anything to do with it though?

@kaotic that response killed me

Lol

Call me superstitious I guess, or paranoid
I'm definitely not a doctor and I don't know about these things exactly

I just know a girl I'm banging seems to have quickly experienced a weakness in her immune system which causes me alarm.

I'll just chill

(08-24-2016 09:55 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

(08-24-2016 09:13 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  Online game is tough on the outskirts of west Dallas. A lot of homely and older women around here, but I'm like a young bachelor, so it's a way different atmosphere for me. I would move, but I'm here for work. A lot of families and a lot of businesses, but hardly what one would call a party town.

I'd imagine the milf scene would be pretty good there. Of course, thats what I imagine.

The Latinas running around suburban Texas are pretty sweet.

You're not wrong. Some of them like to hang out at the sports bars (I don't even call these real bars). Problem with milfs is figuring out what their game is since they tend to be more of the settle down type.

(08-25-2016 09:05 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  

(08-24-2016 09:55 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

(08-24-2016 09:13 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  Online game is tough on the outskirts of west Dallas. A lot of homely and older women around here, but I'm like a young bachelor, so it's a way different atmosphere for me. I would move, but I'm here for work. A lot of families and a lot of businesses, but hardly what one would call a party town.

I'd imagine the milf scene would be pretty good there. Of course, thats what I imagine.

The Latinas running around suburban Texas are pretty sweet.

You're not wrong. Some of them like to hang out at the sports bars (I don't even call these real bars). Problem with milfs is figuring out what their game is since they tend to be more of the settle down type.

West Dallas as in the street in Houston or West Dallas as in the western side of the City of Dallas?

I've heard some things about both, and coincidentally they both have milfs.

In West Dino, there's a nice new district, I forgot what it's called but it's where Cake Bar is at.

You're right Stalin, I think somehow girls just know when you don't care vs being thirsty. I am rotating 3 plates on a pretty regular schedule, and have 8 draft picks trying to get in the rotation.

I might be getting flaked on tonight, still hours until the meet, so definitely time to put Plans B and C into action! Let's see....Vanilla, chocolate, flan, or mochi?

Exactly. It's important to notice, though, that the going is easy when the going is good. Cultivating that cool and content attitude is important year-round, not just when you've got pussy growing out of your ears. I don't just mean for gaming other girls, but also for your own mental health and stress levels.

I feel that a number of us here get a little anxious when we don't have pussy-on-demand and we go sexless for a while. One must try not to let a drought of sex negatively affect their lives and other things they've got going on. It's incredibly easy to get distracted and wrapped up in acquiring pussy, just as easy as it is to get emotionally wrapped up in a girl that you're sweet on. The MO must be the same: have self-control.

(08-25-2016 09:35 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(08-25-2016 09:05 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  

(08-24-2016 09:55 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

(08-24-2016 09:13 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  Online game is tough on the outskirts of west Dallas. A lot of homely and older women around here, but I'm like a young bachelor, so it's a way different atmosphere for me. I would move, but I'm here for work. A lot of families and a lot of businesses, but hardly what one would call a party town.

I'd imagine the milf scene would be pretty good there. Of course, thats what I imagine.

The Latinas running around suburban Texas are pretty sweet.

You're not wrong. Some of them like to hang out at the sports bars (I don't even call these real bars). Problem with milfs is figuring out what their game is since they tend to be more of the settle down type.

West Dallas as in the street in Houston or West Dallas as in the western side of the City of Dallas?

I've heard some things about both, and coincidentally they both have milfs.

In West Dino, there's a nice new district, I forgot what it's called but it's where Cake Bar is at.

City of Dallas.

(08-26-2016 03:24 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  Exactly. It's important to notice, though, that the going is easy when the going is good. Cultivating that cool and content attitude is important year-round, not just when you've got pussy growing out of your ears. I don't just mean for gaming other girls, but also for your own mental health and stress levels.

I feel that a number of us here get a little anxious when we don't have pussy-on-demand and we go sexless for a while. One must try not to let a drought of sex negatively affect their lives and other things they've got going on. It's incredibly easy to get distracted and wrapped up in acquiring pussy, just as easy as it is to get emotionally wrapped up in a girl that you're sweet on. The MO must be the same: have self-control.

Tough part for me is getting to that game. As I said, I live around Dallas. I've been around a lot of the college scene since I'm young and graduated recently. But there's a certain something I'm lacking if I'm not picking up anyone frequently. I use to hang around some friends that taught me how to be in bars and it certainly help, but that female element is elusive. I can figure out math problems with ease, but figuring out a woman is like trying to guess why 1 + 1 = 4.

For now, I'm just reading and studying stuff from more experienced people. I certainly think one element of it is that I don't have the money yet to do a lot of things that they do, like having a nice car, driving to nice places, making her seem like you got money when you don't.

(08-26-2016 09:01 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  

(08-25-2016 09:35 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(08-25-2016 09:05 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  

(08-24-2016 09:55 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

(08-24-2016 09:13 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  Online game is tough on the outskirts of west Dallas. A lot of homely and older women around here, but I'm like a young bachelor, so it's a way different atmosphere for me. I would move, but I'm here for work. A lot of families and a lot of businesses, but hardly what one would call a party town.

I'd imagine the milf scene would be pretty good there. Of course, thats what I imagine.

The Latinas running around suburban Texas are pretty sweet.

You're not wrong. Some of them like to hang out at the sports bars (I don't even call these real bars). Problem with milfs is figuring out what their game is since they tend to be more of the settle down type.

West Dallas as in the street in Houston or West Dallas as in the western side of the City of Dallas?

I've heard some things about both, and coincidentally they both have milfs.

In West Dino, there's a nice new district, I forgot what it's called but it's where Cake Bar is at.

City of Dallas.

Personally I would love an extended amount of time to date and bang women in Texas. From what I have seen a lot of the middle - upper class women there take care of themselves well, dress well, look feminine, and overall come off as pretty hot. Whether its the milfs or young women, Texas would be a lot of fun.

(08-26-2016 09:19 PM)Vaun Wrote:  

(08-26-2016 09:01 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  

(08-25-2016 09:35 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

(08-25-2016 09:05 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  

(08-24-2016 09:55 PM)Vaun Wrote:  I'd imagine the milf scene would be pretty good there. Of course, thats what I imagine.

The Latinas running around suburban Texas are pretty sweet.

You're not wrong. Some of them like to hang out at the sports bars (I don't even call these real bars). Problem with milfs is figuring out what their game is since they tend to be more of the settle down type.

West Dallas as in the street in Houston or West Dallas as in the western side of the City of Dallas?

I've heard some things about both, and coincidentally they both have milfs.

In West Dino, there's a nice new district, I forgot what it's called but it's where Cake Bar is at.

City of Dallas.

Personally I would love an extended amount of time to date and bang women in Texas. From what I have seen a lot of the middle - upper class women there take care of themselves well, dress well, look feminine, and overall come off as pretty hot. Whether its the milfs or young women, Texas would be a lot of fun.

It certainly is. When I use to live in the college town, however, my competition was the athletes and the fraternity house. The women here were very picky about who they wanted. I didn't start gaming till senior year. I was also said to have natural game cause I have no fear talking with girls at bars like my more experienced friends, but when they challenged me to get numbers and such, it became a totally different game. So here I am.

I spent one summer in Houston and the women there were definitely head and shoulders above most women elsewhere in terms of looks, femininity, and knowing how to dress and behave in public.

Came off a high after banging the Biker chick Thursday.

Friday the Viet chick next hit me up saying she missed me and of course I didn't reply.

I ended up meeting up with the older blondie last night, rode the bike in the evening from work/gym to her, shitty idea.

We went to 5 bars, she paid for 3 of the 5, definitely wanted PDA, I wasn't about it.

She kept talking about me going down on her, wasn't happening.

After bar 5 we headed back, sheriff tailed her car, luckily he lit up a car to the right of us.

We bounce back have a decent marathon fuck session (thanks vodka and beer). I last way longer drunk.


Over the entire night her cute personality started turning a bit annoying - also found she just got out of an engagement a few months ago.

Turns out the guy cheated on her with a 19 year old - I laughed but thought this in my head about the dude.



I also found this chick isn't on birth control.

So let's see:

-Just got out of engagement
-Got cheated on
-Isn't on BC
-Hitting the wall (she's older)
-Constantly texting me and wanting to see me again

Yeah, I thought this also:



I wont be seeing her again and play the fadeaway game.

Today, as for the biker girl she wants to see me again - her texting has changed.

It was delayed and distant even by a day or so, now it's shorter response time and double the texts, the last one asking to see me this week if I have time for her.

Supposedly a girl is driving 45 minutes out to visit me first time tonight, if not, maybe I'll take a night off.

A guy friend gave me the Facebook of an ex-work colleague of work. She doesn't know me, I don't know her. His rationale: "You are both single, and most importantly, you are the same kind of weird )" The girl seems cute.

Let's see what happens...

Oh shit. I guess I spit some fire game with this one 18 year old cutie. Chick's all over me. Texting me, telling me how happy she was and how good I made her feel. Even showed my whatsapp pic to her mom. Damn I'm not about that life. Will bang her and keep her on the side. Good thing is I have to move to a different city in 2 weeks. She knows that.

Old mini LTR plate Hottie 8 West Indian added me on SnapChat - I played stupid asking who it was:

She confirmed who she was, hoping it was alright to add me, she wanted to see how I was doing and what I was up too since it's been so long.

I told her I'm hardly on snapchat and to give me her number again.

She does so, I text her, she texts me back hours later, I text back the next day telling her a few things that are new, don't hear from her for over a day.

She text me just a bit ago, immediately told me she moved down south with her BF with a new job at a wine bar.

I didn't hesitate and immediately deleted her texts and number.

Girls think they're slick thinking they can't talk to a former fling like that and put them in their orbit.

Fuck that attention whoring bullshit.


What a shame she was a smokeshow hottie - I didn't commmit - she immediately got a man - but tried hanging out with me a few time.

Now she's mothering this dudes kid and trying to get back at me, nah, I'm good.

(08-26-2016 09:06 PM)BlueResolute Wrote:  [quote='General Stalin' pid='1380748' dateline='1472243072'] I use to hang around some friends that taught me how to be in bars

what did they teach you?

@kaotic I might be in the same situation as you are. Met a cutie couple weeks ago. Later had a date with her, everything went well, k-closed. Then she just ghosted and soft nexted me telling she's got a bf, which is a lie.

Today I saw her at the city center, we had a short chat and when I said good bye she said text me. Really I actually liked her a lot and then she started to play games tho everything was fine. I nexted her and had fun with different girls over the last 2 weeks. Not sure if I should text her. She's leaving my country in 3 weeks though. Might give it a last shot, wouldn't mind f-closing her.

Abundance is slowly starting to sink in for me. The mid-20's girl I met at the climbing gym several weeks ago has been difficult to meet up with, I've invited her out a couple times and she's always got something else going on, and she's reached out a couple times too but not with any firm invitations. Last time she asked about hanging out and then was busy when I offered a time I just didn't reply, plenty of other girls out there who are making time to spend with me.

Had a Tinder meetup with a cute Latino last night, 37 year old single mom, she's only been here 12 years and has a strong accent. She was very receptive to chat on Tinder and easily gave me her number last weekend, then agreed to meet me at my house Mon night. Took her on my usual walk through the park as the sun set, was touching her a lot and making her laugh. Took her back to my place for drinks, we're sipping tequila and I can tell it's going to her head. Turns out she's been divorced a year and this is her first date in 21 years, she's pretty nervous but I'm good at putting her at ease. I'm slowly touching her more and more, playing with her hair, touching her ears and neck, says stop a few times so I cool off then engage again. Give her a tour of the house and show her my room, she's not having that and heads back to the living room pretty quickly. We end up in the kitchen with her sitting on my counter with her legs around me, I'm rubbing all over her but she keeps dodging when I try to kiss. It's clear she's into me but moving super slow. I get bored and tell her it's time to call it a night. I go for the kiss again as she's getting ready to leave and she finally gives in and it's fucking hot, great kisser. We make out for a couple minutes and she's letting me touch her more, but I know it's not going further tonight so send her on her way.

One of you more experienced players could probably have gotten the bang from her, for me it was a great learning experience and we were both having fun. In the past I would have stopped completely at the first sign of resistance. I kept having flashes of things I've read here: don't answer her questions directly, agree and amplify when she asked how many girls I've brought back to my place, play to her emotions not logic, and it was all coming a bit more naturally. And to be honest there's a part of me that feels for her, I remember how crazy nervous I was that first date and kiss with someone new after being married for 10 years. I don't intend to put much effort into her but if she wants to get together again I think it'll be fun.

Not every girl bangs the first time you hang out. Don't put a helluva a lot of stock into things like "every girl will fuck you the first time she meets you just depends on the game" - I mean never say never but some girls have rules in their head about getting busy on the first date. That's okay. They still want to play, they just need a little more comfort.

Before I moved to CO I was hooking up with this 33 year old city chick. Worked for the government, made a lot of money, had a nice condo near China town, etc. First time we hung out we were clicking hard but she was resisting being really physical. I had some plans later on that night and she invited herself out so I could "get to my plans." I wasn't going to be the desperate type to be like "Nah the plans are way later stay longer" so I saw her out the door but had a hot pinned-her-again-the-wall makeout session before she walked down the stairs. She was a freak in the sack the next time we hung out and everytime after that.

If this girl is just off the marriage wagon it's okay for her to be a little apprehensive it doesn't mean your game was weak. Sounds like you were doing all the right shit and you're a pretty socially savvy dude if not a tad on the "serious" side at time. Sounds like she was into you. Next time there may be some play involved.

(08-30-2016 05:42 PM)RunsWithScissors Wrote:  - She was very receptive to chat on Tinder and easily gave me her number last weekend,

- then agreed to meet me at my house Mon night. Took her on my usual walk through the park as the sun set,

- was touching her a lot and making her laugh. Took her back to my place for drinks,

- we're sipping tequila and I can tell it's going to her head.

- Turns out she's been divorced a year and this is her first date in 21 years, she's pretty nervous but I'm good at putting her at ease.

- I'm slowly touching her more and more, playing with her hair, touching her ears and neck, says stop a few times so I cool off then engage again.

- Give her a tour of the house and show her my room, she's not having that and heads back to the living room pretty quickly.

- We end up in the kitchen with her sitting on my counter with her legs around me, I'm rubbing all over her but she keeps dodging when I try to kiss.

- It's clear she's into me but moving super slow.

- I get bored and tell her it's time to call it a night.

- I go for the kiss again as she's getting ready to leave and she finally gives in and it's fucking hot, great kisser.

It's clear to me what you did wrong and why she behaved in that fashion.

A better question is what would have been a more solid game plan?

(08-30-2016 05:42 PM)RunsWithScissors Wrote:  One of you more experienced players could probably have gotten the bang from her

Yes.

(08-30-2016 05:42 PM)RunsWithScissors Wrote:  for me it was a great learning experience and we were both having fun. In the past I would have stopped completely at the first sign of resistance.

The killer instinct is great, but you have to temper that with removing the road blocks before you get resistance. Last Minute Resistance is often (though not always) a sign that you messed up early.

(08-30-2016 05:42 PM)RunsWithScissors Wrote:  I kept having flashes of things I've read here: don't answer her questions directly, agree and amplify when she asked how many girls I've brought back to my place, play to her emotions not logic, and it was all coming a bit more naturally.

(08-30-2016 05:42 PM)RunsWithScissors Wrote:  And to be honest there's a part of me that feels for her, I remember how crazy nervous I was that first date and kiss with someone new after being married for 10 years. I don't intend to put much effort into her but if she wants to get together again I think it'll be fun.

Empathy still in check, good shit Runs w/Scissors.

WIA

(08-12-2016 02:30 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  Had a girl show up at my house uninvited tonight when I was lying naked on a huge beanbag with another girl I just got done fucking...

Her and I heard my door bell ring a few times while we were laying there chatting but I honestly thought it was a neighbor coming to complain because we started fucking right in my front foye with the door open for the world to see... and it's a screen door. So I ignored it and after a few minutes they went away. Bout 20 min later I go check my phone and a girl asks if she can come over. Then the next message is "I'm outside"

I respond a while later with something dismissive like "what you were at my house? I had people over earlier" she responded with pissed off messages telling me to never message her again and that I'm a coward yadda yadda. She surely saw my clothes and this girl's clothes on the floor right in front of my door... And she maybe even heard us talking.

I tried a little damage control but I don't think it's happening. Deny till I die but whatever she shouldn't be fucking popping over my place uninvited. First world manwhore problems

(08-12-2016 11:16 AM)kaotic Wrote:  ...
Fuck it, next. She'll be texting you soon of course.
...

She texted me a couple days ago saying she was sorry for being mean she was "just really mad" and asked me how I've been