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DarianFrey 路 2016-01-30 13:37:00 路 #7001
(01-30-2016 11:44 AM)Ensam Wrote:(01-30-2016 10:43 AM)DarianFrey Wrote: We really vibed - almost BPD warning signs since we had so much "in common".
Man, that is an important thing to keep in mind.
Sorry to hear stuff didn't work out, sounds like maybe you spent too much time on the comfort side of things and not enough time on the attraction side. I struggle with that one, it's tough when I'm really connecting with a girl to remember to keep some distance and sense of unattainability.
That's the thing, she seemed really attracted considering her various cues - touching and complimenting me, laughing, asking questions, good eye-contact, open body language. Didn't check her phone once. She also noted that the female staff were checking me out. But I don't know, maybe there's something I miscalibrated. I felt certain I'd get a peck at least.
And I agree, should have put her arm in mine - it really is a golden move.
We'll see how it goes.
QuietDog 路 2016-01-30 18:08:00 路 #7002
For you guys with iPhones out there:
Do you leave on the setting that lets people know whether you've read their text or not?
I've always kept it off, thought it would just be best to just keep 'em unsure. Lately I've noticed a buddy of mine who's a Natural left his on and it started me thinking about what that could sub-communicate. She'll see that you read her text but you're still not responding immediately maybe because you're too busy or even just don't feel like it then
Gonna try it out for a bit, see if I notice any difference in my text game
Do you leave on the setting that lets people know whether you've read their text or not?
I've always kept it off, thought it would just be best to just keep 'em unsure. Lately I've noticed a buddy of mine who's a Natural left his on and it started me thinking about what that could sub-communicate. She'll see that you read her text but you're still not responding immediately maybe because you're too busy or even just don't feel like it then
Gonna try it out for a bit, see if I notice any difference in my text game
Bilboswaggins 路 2016-01-31 05:36:00 路 #7003
LMR is killing me, got a girl back from the club yesterday with relative ease and things seemed pretty smooth, but could not convert it. I think that maybe doing some shots back home loosens them up a bit.
Has anyone any other options?
Has anyone any other options?
^ Keep calm and persistent, and try to keep the tension up.
Also keep in mind that some girls will come back who are on the fence, even though there is nothing you can do to push them over the fence when you get them back. It's not just about what happens once back, but what was demonstrated beforehand, that can mean the difference between "on the fence and won't budge in one night" and "on the fence and can be pushed over in an hour".
Also keep in mind that some girls will come back who are on the fence, even though there is nothing you can do to push them over the fence when you get them back. It's not just about what happens once back, but what was demonstrated beforehand, that can mean the difference between "on the fence and won't budge in one night" and "on the fence and can be pushed over in an hour".
On Saturday night, I hit my boy's party.
Quite some bash. I was slow to get in the groove.
But late in the night, I nab the flyest girl at the party.
A big breasted, light-skinned, tiny 8.0.
Couldn't close, had her isolated in a room within half an hour.
She balked when things got hot & heavy.
Fast forward to today, a non reply to WhatsApp intro message.
& 2 minutes of uninspiring phone banter.
Atleast I nabbed a number of a cutie today.
It's been awhile since I've binged into the next day straight, probably will be again until next time.
Water is good.
Quite some bash. I was slow to get in the groove.
But late in the night, I nab the flyest girl at the party.
A big breasted, light-skinned, tiny 8.0.
Couldn't close, had her isolated in a room within half an hour.
She balked when things got hot & heavy.
Fast forward to today, a non reply to WhatsApp intro message.
& 2 minutes of uninspiring phone banter.
Atleast I nabbed a number of a cutie today.
It's been awhile since I've binged into the next day straight, probably will be again until next time.
Water is good.
redbeard 路 2016-01-31 12:31:00 路 #7006
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Mess O. 路 2016-01-31 14:00:00 路 #7007
My, oh my, the fun & frisky girl-next-door, Queen of the Red Flags, keeps on knockin' at the door, and I jus' keep committin' to the monumental error of lettin' her on in. We've spent quite a bit of time together, and even though I know I gotta shut the door on this bitch, to do so is simply beyond my current level of will power.
What a flirt, always the first to sprinkle on the sexualization into our talks. Typically, she'll sit in my desk chair and I'll be on the edge of the bed, so during this latest round, she seemed especially raucous, so at the height of her boisterous guffaws, as she props herself forward at the edge of the chair, arching her back and jutting her ass, I reach over to grab a mighty handful, and she doesn't seem to mind. I stand up and grip the other side of it, followed by my hoisting her up out of the chair and planting her on my lap, where I attempt to maul her face. Denied. Only when I start to pull her pants off and cup her bare cheek does she affirmatively command me to stop. I do so, and place her back on the chair. She stays put, and we actually discuss what just went down. Over the last few weeks that she's lived here, we've had a lot of back-and-forth, chilling alone together many times, but never quite knowing where I stand, occasionally testing the boundaries, for how else would I know where they where at?
Through her sentiments of remorse, she declared how we were cool, but how I was to never try that again (I had tried some serious moves on several occasions so far). Also, at long last, she formally announced how she simply does not want that kind of attention from me. In counsel with my friends, I've made the declaration before that the end of this deal had arrived, only to hang with her not even days later, but I think after this time she won't come knockin' again.
After she left, I paced around a bit, energized. Despite the fizzled ending, it felt GREAT to have pulled such a stunt. I pushed as far as I possibly could, and still wondered if I could've reached ever farther.
I'm not worthy of being considered anything near to being a player, but I figured this would be the thread for my latest lil' adventure.
What a flirt, always the first to sprinkle on the sexualization into our talks. Typically, she'll sit in my desk chair and I'll be on the edge of the bed, so during this latest round, she seemed especially raucous, so at the height of her boisterous guffaws, as she props herself forward at the edge of the chair, arching her back and jutting her ass, I reach over to grab a mighty handful, and she doesn't seem to mind. I stand up and grip the other side of it, followed by my hoisting her up out of the chair and planting her on my lap, where I attempt to maul her face. Denied. Only when I start to pull her pants off and cup her bare cheek does she affirmatively command me to stop. I do so, and place her back on the chair. She stays put, and we actually discuss what just went down. Over the last few weeks that she's lived here, we've had a lot of back-and-forth, chilling alone together many times, but never quite knowing where I stand, occasionally testing the boundaries, for how else would I know where they where at?
Through her sentiments of remorse, she declared how we were cool, but how I was to never try that again (I had tried some serious moves on several occasions so far). Also, at long last, she formally announced how she simply does not want that kind of attention from me. In counsel with my friends, I've made the declaration before that the end of this deal had arrived, only to hang with her not even days later, but I think after this time she won't come knockin' again.
After she left, I paced around a bit, energized. Despite the fizzled ending, it felt GREAT to have pulled such a stunt. I pushed as far as I possibly could, and still wondered if I could've reached ever farther.
I'm not worthy of being considered anything near to being a player, but I figured this would be the thread for my latest lil' adventure.
DarianFrey 路 2016-01-31 15:06:00 路 #7008
Mess O.
What a post! You can write bro.
I recognize that energized feeling after a failed attempt with a woman.
Excellent example that it's better to be rejected than wondering what could've been. We expose ourselves because a turned cheek is better than twisting regret.
What a post! You can write bro.
I recognize that energized feeling after a failed attempt with a woman.
Excellent example that it's better to be rejected than wondering what could've been. We expose ourselves because a turned cheek is better than twisting regret.
Mess O. 路 2016-01-31 15:27:00 路 #7009
You damn right. And I was amazed at my restraint once I truly hit the line. I loved the fact that I tried.
toejam 路 2016-01-31 19:36:00 路 #7010
from the other thread
What's the protocal for initiating contact after a bang? I think I've seen players mention they won't initiate contact until the next day after the bang and other players who will contact sooner than that.
(01-31-2016 12:36 PM)toejam Wrote: 21, mocha latte, cute face, average body, nice legs, cute voice
From SA
First date bang success (that thread with the recipe is gold)
Very light LMR but they were easy hurdles.
Banged when we arrived. Passed out. Banged in the morning.
What's the protocal for initiating contact after a bang? I think I've seen players mention they won't initiate contact until the next day after the bang and other players who will contact sooner than that.
Remington 路 2016-01-31 21:28:00 路 #7011
(01-31-2016 07:36 PM)toejam Wrote: from the other thread
(01-31-2016 12:36 PM)toejam Wrote: 21, mocha latte, cute face, average body, nice legs, cute voice
From SA
First date bang success (that thread with the recipe is gold)
Very light LMR but they were easy hurdles.
Banged when we arrived. Passed out. Banged in the morning.
What's the protocal for initiating contact after a bang? I think I've seen players mention they won't initiate contact until the next day after the bang and other players who will contact sooner than that.
I always tell new bangs to text me once they get home to let me know they made it back in one piece. They will usually text me something around the lines of "I'm home, I had fun," or "It was nice meeting you, thanks for taking me out."
It's always good to receive those kinds of texts for future reference in case things go down the toilet. Emotionally, women can go from 0-100 in a second. Always nice to have that text in your back pocket just in case the crazy train starts rolling.
Lothario 路 2016-01-31 21:44:00 路 #7012
Mess O Awsome post and thanks for sharing. What you did was Polarize the girl to either yes or no. I learned that the hard way after being in the Limbo zone did no good to get my dick wet. Polarizing was one of the earlier lessons I learned.
Mr Finish 路 2016-01-31 22:28:00 路 #7013
I get two Swedish chicks back to my friends place. Everything is going well and the better looking of the two at one point tells me she wants to sleep with me. They keep going back and forth in Swedish and my friend secretly records their convo and sends it to his Swedish friend to translate. Turns out the ugly one was telling her friend that she wants to hook up with me, even though I had already made out with the better looking one. I eventually isolate and I'm about to bang when she storms in and says she wants to leave. My Russian friend runs grade A interference but to no avail. It's literally 5 in the morning and pouring rain... And she not only calls an uber, she waits outside in the rain to make her friend feel bad. I've had some bad cock blocks but this was one of the worse ones I've encountered.
vinman 路 2016-01-31 22:38:00 路 #7014
(01-31-2016 10:28 PM)Mr Finish Wrote: I get two Swedish chicks back to my friends place. Everything is going well and the better looking of the two at one point tells me she wants to sleep with me. They keep going back and forth in Swedish and my friend secretly records their convo and sends it to his Swedish friend to translate. Turns out the ugly one was telling her friend that she wants to hook up with me, even though I had already made out with the better looking one. I eventually isolate and I'm about to bang when she storms in and says she wants to leave. My Russian friend runs grade A interference but to no avail. It's literally 5 in the morning and pouring rain... And she not only calls an uber, she waits outside in the rain to make her friend feel bad. I've had some bad cock blocks but this was one of the worse ones I've encountered.
That went beyond a cock block. I don't think there's even a name for that.
Mr Finish 路 2016-01-31 23:06:00 路 #7015
Dude I know, at one point the ugly chick cornered me in the kitchen and pretty much demanded I make out with her. I declined and she got pissy. It sucks because her friend was really chill and looking great in her high heels and tight club dress
toejam 路 2016-01-31 23:22:00 路 #7016
^^^^^^^^^^ yo
You got cock blocked from a bang. That is the worst.
At a bar years ago I met a check and proceeded to make out with her at the bar. We're having a good time and she decides she wants to make out with me again throughout the night. As we're making out her girl friend comes over, grabs her hand and blurts to me "sorry, we're leaving." The chick I was with grabs my hand and pulls me as theyhead out. We're all going outside. Soon as we're outside her friend hails a cab and untangles my hand from the girl I was with. They jump in a cab and bounce.
I was freakin pissed. I honestly wanted to fuck her in her butt for cockblocking then spit in her face.
I can't remember why I didn't bounce with her earlier in the night. ....tragedy
You got cock blocked from a bang. That is the worst.
At a bar years ago I met a check and proceeded to make out with her at the bar. We're having a good time and she decides she wants to make out with me again throughout the night. As we're making out her girl friend comes over, grabs her hand and blurts to me "sorry, we're leaving." The chick I was with grabs my hand and pulls me as theyhead out. We're all going outside. Soon as we're outside her friend hails a cab and untangles my hand from the girl I was with. They jump in a cab and bounce.
I was freakin pissed. I honestly wanted to fuck her in her butt for cockblocking then spit in her face.
I can't remember why I didn't bounce with her earlier in the night. ....tragedy
Mr Finish 路 2016-01-31 23:46:00 路 #7017
(01-31-2016 11:22 PM)toejam Wrote: ^^^^^^^^^^ yo
You got cock blocked from a bang. That is the worst.
At a bar years ago I met a check and proceeded to make out with her at the bar. We're having a good time and she decides she wants to make out with me again throughout the night. As we're making out her girl friend comes over, grabs her hand and blurts to me "sorry, we're leaving." The chick I was with grabs my hand and pulls me as theyhead out. We're all going outside. Soon as we're outside her friend hails a cab and untangles my hand from the girl I was with. They jump in a cab and bounce.
I was freakin pissed. I honestly wanted to fuck her in her butt for cockblocking then spit in her face.
I can't remember why I didn't bounce with her earlier in the night. ....tragedy
There's something about a night /club/bar setting that truly brings out the sociopathy in some girls. If they aren't getting any attention they will take their friend down with them. Men simply don't don't do this, my friend was actively distracting this chick and even said he doesn't care who bangs, as long as one of us do.
I really like day game. Isolation is key. A girl feels like she has the right to be a bitch at night. That same girl during the day is an entirely different person.
I got the number and I WILL bang, I just have to wait a few days for something that was right there and about to happen imminently.
~wrIghter~ 路 2016-02-01 02:47:00 路 #7018
(01-31-2016 11:06 PM)Mr Finish Wrote: Dude I know, at one point the ugly chick cornered me in the kitchen and pretty much demanded I make out with her. I declined and she got pissy. It sucks because her friend was really chill and looking great in her high heels and tight club dress
Abundance, right there. She wants to have what her friend has but acts like a spoiled brat when you deny her the D, lol.
I've had girls pull a chick away from me at the bar. They had like one dude in the group (not sure if he was one of their boyfriends), but they watched the girl grind on me, we salsa danced for about 5 : songs
and they pulled her away when things were getting heavy. I have no idea why girls cockblock each other. It's always been a mystery to me.
RedPillUK 路 2016-02-01 05:46:00 路 #7019
That sounds like a truly devastating experience. Maybe you should have just gone all in, made out with her in secret and then tried for a threesome.
Now you know what to do next time, ha.
Now you know what to do next time, ha.
Lol, was that a shit test?
Make out with me or I'll cock block you against my hotter friend.
Make out with me or I'll cock block you against my hotter friend.
Mr Finish 路 2016-02-01 08:53:00 路 #7021
I couldn't make out with the ugly chick because not only did I find her unattractive, she was incredibly obnoxious and arrogant. I couldn't bring myself to indulge this behavior.
realologist 路 2016-02-01 10:54:00 路 #7022
(01-31-2016 10:38 PM)vinman Wrote:(01-31-2016 10:28 PM)Mr Finish Wrote: I get two Swedish chicks back to my friends place. Everything is going well and the better looking of the two at one point tells me she wants to sleep with me. They keep going back and forth in Swedish and my friend secretly records their convo and sends it to his Swedish friend to translate. Turns out the ugly one was telling her friend that she wants to hook up with me, even though I had already made out with the better looking one. I eventually isolate and I'm about to bang when she storms in and says she wants to leave. My Russian friend runs grade A interference but to no avail. It's literally 5 in the morning and pouring rain... And she not only calls an uber, she waits outside in the rain to make her friend feel bad. I've had some bad cock blocks but this was one of the worse ones I've encountered.
That went beyond a cock block. I don't think there's even a name for that.
Cockplosion
toejam 路 2016-02-01 11:37:00 路 #7023
kaotic 路 2016-02-01 12:36:00 路 #7024
Thursday night got a new notch, 2 hours of sleep, got to work late....and it's our end of month Friday.
Friday night I chilled with my coworkers went to a comedian venue, which was absolutely hilarious, we ended up being part of the show.
Saturday night had a date with that 6.75 black girl, layed low at venue 1 with a hoodie because I was just there with a girl, apparently my friends friends saw me and thought I was embarrassed with being on a date with a black girl. (They told me later joking)
That kind of rubbed me the wrong way, but I realized they're just busting my balls.
She kept calling me an asshole and a dick, but after asking her if she preferred boring and quiet, she admitted she wouldn't have fun with me with a laugh.
I bounced to venue, few drinks and some shots, she pays, we bounce outside, only to see 2 of my friends getting arrested. Which was a riot since once is one of those SJW Bernie, Black Lives Matters Latino's - the other was this jacked guy who was very calm.
Anyways, I get that black girl topless, but she's on her period, I immediate call her on it saying "already pulling the im on my period card" -with a grin-
I push through some more LMR but couldn't get through it. So I whipped my dick out. Didn't help.
I kick her out and pass out.
Honestly, her body wasn't that great and the more I looked at her, the more I was unattracted to her, I more than likely won't be following up with her again.
Sunday the trainer girl comes over, stretches me out, we bang, as she's leaving, "Hey I just wanted to ask, am I the only girl you're seeing?"
A bit startled I say "Yeah" but immediately followed up with "well one of the cute ones, but out of the hundred you're #2"
I should've originally just started out with a cockier avoiding response, but I just cummed and I was half asleep when she asked.
She's a sweet nice girl, cool to hangout out with, but that's it. She's got a kid, I'm not interested in an LTR, I have a feeling she's already caught feelings now I've gotta eject her soon.
An old plate of mine that we snap back and forth with had a PMS melt down about hanging out with me, she even screenshotted our convo and sent it to her girls. I called her out on it and she was finally honest, saying she wants something meaningful that will grow into an LTR. I flat out told her I'm not interested in that nor do I have the time. Can't wait for her hamster.
I got a few new numbers over the weekend, I'm kind not feeling on going on many dates this week, we'll see what's up.
Friday night I chilled with my coworkers went to a comedian venue, which was absolutely hilarious, we ended up being part of the show.
Saturday night had a date with that 6.75 black girl, layed low at venue 1 with a hoodie because I was just there with a girl, apparently my friends friends saw me and thought I was embarrassed with being on a date with a black girl. (They told me later joking)
That kind of rubbed me the wrong way, but I realized they're just busting my balls.
She kept calling me an asshole and a dick, but after asking her if she preferred boring and quiet, she admitted she wouldn't have fun with me with a laugh.
I bounced to venue, few drinks and some shots, she pays, we bounce outside, only to see 2 of my friends getting arrested. Which was a riot since once is one of those SJW Bernie, Black Lives Matters Latino's - the other was this jacked guy who was very calm.
Anyways, I get that black girl topless, but she's on her period, I immediate call her on it saying "already pulling the im on my period card" -with a grin-
I push through some more LMR but couldn't get through it. So I whipped my dick out. Didn't help.
I kick her out and pass out.
Honestly, her body wasn't that great and the more I looked at her, the more I was unattracted to her, I more than likely won't be following up with her again.
Sunday the trainer girl comes over, stretches me out, we bang, as she's leaving, "Hey I just wanted to ask, am I the only girl you're seeing?"
A bit startled I say "Yeah" but immediately followed up with "well one of the cute ones, but out of the hundred you're #2"
I should've originally just started out with a cockier avoiding response, but I just cummed and I was half asleep when she asked.
She's a sweet nice girl, cool to hangout out with, but that's it. She's got a kid, I'm not interested in an LTR, I have a feeling she's already caught feelings now I've gotta eject her soon.
An old plate of mine that we snap back and forth with had a PMS melt down about hanging out with me, she even screenshotted our convo and sent it to her girls. I called her out on it and she was finally honest, saying she wants something meaningful that will grow into an LTR. I flat out told her I'm not interested in that nor do I have the time. Can't wait for her hamster.
I got a few new numbers over the weekend, I'm kind not feeling on going on many dates this week, we'll see what's up.
toejam 路 2016-02-01 14:06:00 路 #7025
Met a nice young thing off SA. Been banging her for about a month now. She's been pushing for gifts but at this point I'm like whatever. She did lose her phone, we've been emailing like forever including setting up our meets. It's a pain but it's been working. She's been asking for a phone but she knows it's not happening anytime soon.
Suddenly I get an email that she can't email me anymore because her laptop broke. She nicely asked for a laptop, phone, and a booze list (they're under 21, she was going to invite me to her friends so we can have a threesome)
I can get her a cheap phone (used, ebay) and the booze but I'm not shelling out for a laptop. No way.
The funny thing is, because she had no phone she gives me her girlfriend's numbers and says "you can call me here you know I have no phone. "
I almost want to run game on the friend(s) and avoid getting her anything. Alternatively I want to just get the booze, avoid all the other requests, and get my threesome on. Her friends are hotter than her.
Ive held a solid frame with her since day 1 but she's getting more bold with her requests.
Dilemma playing itself out.....ill take anyone's 2 cents
Suddenly I get an email that she can't email me anymore because her laptop broke. She nicely asked for a laptop, phone, and a booze list (they're under 21, she was going to invite me to her friends so we can have a threesome)
I can get her a cheap phone (used, ebay) and the booze but I'm not shelling out for a laptop. No way.
The funny thing is, because she had no phone she gives me her girlfriend's numbers and says "you can call me here you know I have no phone. "
I almost want to run game on the friend(s) and avoid getting her anything. Alternatively I want to just get the booze, avoid all the other requests, and get my threesome on. Her friends are hotter than her.
Ive held a solid frame with her since day 1 but she's getting more bold with her requests.
Dilemma playing itself out.....ill take anyone's 2 cents