One of my plates is pregnant.

Not by me though, by her boyfriend.

I beat it twice in early January, she's apparently 4months into the process.

The story doesn't make logical sense, glaring holes...

But fuck it, as long as she ain't pinning this on me. It's all good.

Maybe it's a hoax to end things, either way.

I ain't taking a bullet in The Matrix *cue slo-mo bullet dodge*

Good luck to her, as for her baby daddy - what a lucky guy...

(01-27-2016 01:30 AM)1026 Wrote:  One of my plates is pregnant.

Not by me though, by her boyfriend.

I beat it twice in early January, she's apparently 4months into the process.

The story doesn't make logical sense, glaring holes...

But fuck it, as long as she ain't pinning this on me. It's all good.

Maybe it's a hoax to end things, either way.

I ain't taking a bullet in The Matrix *cue slo-mo bullet dodge*

Good luck to her, as for her baby daddy - what a lucky guy...

DarianFray
Keep us posted. I've been thinking of moving to straight day game, haven't done enough reading to figure out the bang logistics

Is it against the rules and/or advisable to post a full text from a girl I just received? In it, she accuses me of "technically" rape, it really is pure hamster.

I used to think you guys were paranoid about the rape thing, but now I believe it.

(01-27-2016 01:02 PM)churros Wrote:  Is it against the rules and/or advisable to post a full text from a girl I just received? In it, she accuses me of "technically" rape, it really is pure hamster.

I used to think you guys were paranoid about the rape thing, but now I believe it.

Maybe take a screenshot of it and censor the sensitive information like name, locations, etc.

I think some on the forum can advise you on it. Usually I'd cold snap her asap, but in this special case, fade away on her.

Any bitch that says that should be nexted.

@ Churros

Nip that shit in the bud quick.

Chances are higher than not she won't press charges,
But it's likely she'll blab to whoever cares to listen.

As Kaotic said - next her ASAP.
WTF is technically rape?

I miss the days when rape was a bloodied, battered, half naked woman running barefoot through the streets.

Had another date Monday:

30 year old POF match, latin, fake tits, her pictures were definitely well taken.

She's good at camouflaging her age and some chub.

Honestly, she wasn't that much to look at except her fake tits.

Even before we met she was giving me sass which I put in check immediately and she liked it.

We show up, like I said, definitely wasn't a looker, say what's up to the bartender, I order myself a drink, I forgot she can't drink.

She's have a Brazilian butt lift done in a few weeks and can't drink apparently.

We go on about growing up, immediately asks if I'm arab, then realizes I'm Indian, then drops steroetypical comments about kebabs, I found amusing.

I flipped it on her calling her on it and asking if she eats tacos everyday and if she's Mexican, she was surprised I hit back and startled her a bit.

We start playing a game of pool, we talk while we shoot.

I get up close to her to find out she's got quite a bit of makeup, and then she drops she has the inside of her lip tattooed with a band name

She pays for us to play a few more games of pool, I just can tell this bitch just isn't that smart, let alone financially savvy.

Making 35K a year, getting a brazilian butt lift (on top of tits she got done), wants a BMW or Benz, she asked me if her salary was good or bad, I just laughed.

If she worked out and actually ate right she could have a great thick latin body.

I ended up bouncing early, the conversation was dying and I was bored.

Ended only paying for a drink and $1 in quarters, literally has to be the cheapest date I've been on as of late.

I went for the kiss, but got a peck, she sent me the "i'm home text"

I responded the next day.

Around 9 I got a "I had a good time, you were super dope. But I can't see us dating. I like you for who you are and had a chill time" text.

I laughed because her hamster was going in overdrive since I never chatted her through the day.

This is the last time I meet and grab a drink with a girl at or near my age ever again.

No loss of my skin.


Other updates:

I find myself having short patience with women, and nexting them faster and faster.

For example I matched with this 26 year old on Tinder, semi cute, got her number, she called me sexy and loved my gym pic.

Yet she was brazen enough after I asked her schedule this week to say She was book, she had a date thursday and saturday.

I used the standard, "just cancel on him, he'll understand etc" line, she counters saying, she's got an emergency call if she needs it, and it's their second date.

I didn't even bother responding, a woman who tells a new man she's a serial dater because automatic bottom feeder to me.

I had the indian girl come over last night, we banged, then she rubbed a sports ball on my chest to get a knot out.

The black girl I went on a date with from 2 weeks back is interested, had the Carribean girl apologize that's she's been sick since last week.

Had 2 others bitches literally say they were sick, both dropped something about emergen C which I thought was weird.

A blondie wanted to come hangout but had work early this morning, I cancelled on her, and am having her make it up to me.

The 18 year old is still interested, means I gotta meet up with her soon, she might be a 3 date bang girl or maybe even a virgin.

I feel you on the serial daters. It's sort of like a girl telling you she's taking dick on two different days, and there's no room in the cue for you.

Other news: The blonde from tinder, (met last summer) added me on snapchat. I don't have plans to pursue, but if she hits me up, we'll see what happens.

I'm never in the cue to begin with, if a female brings shit like that up, its an automatic radio silence and next.

It rubbed me the wrong way since it was so casually mentioned. Bragging about that to a guy is a turn off and isn't going to have them chasing you.

I think I'm getting fatigue texting all these females. I need a break.

Serial fathers are just sluts who believe they have a conscience. Ignore her and move on they have too much attitude. If she's in one of your social circles put her on backburner and only text her when you have too.

Just further illustrates the masculization of these girls in the dating pool

They think they are exercising their female perogative and feeling desired, but what guys see is a potentially loose chick void of any discretion who sport fucks

In their minds it inflates their value, in our minds it only decreases it

I don't think guys in our age group +/- 28 years old should even consider women in or above our age group.

Nah homie, miss me with that.

Women over 30 are invisible to me.

It's 2016 & they're still in the game?

This isn't professional sports, veteran lizards are just not worth it.

They're on the ever increasing decline, we are haven't even reached our plateau yet.

I wonder if I'm being too picky these days? I just got home from a mates house warming (who has a house warming mid week?) and this short fit mid 20's scottish girl was throwing herself at me but I just wasn't really interested. I didn't even ask for her number.
It didn't help that she was downgraded to a 6 due to short hair and acne (who has that at 25?) but still... used to be I'd have jumped at that just for the notch. Tonight and a lot of times recently, I just couldn't care less.

I seem to be in this place right now where the chicks who are into me aren't hot enough but my game isn't good enough to pull the hot ones I do want.

(01-28-2016 03:27 AM)1026 Wrote:  I don't think guys in our age group +/- 28 years old should even consider women in or above our age group.

Your thinking is right on this.

I'm in my 40s and don't consider women in or above your age group. Well sometimes in, but rarely much above.

Yeah I've only been on 2 dates with my age in the last few months, the other blonde 30 year old is actually pretty cool and decently cute, I just want a look at those titties.

Every other girl is usually 25 and below, I'd actually venture to say 23 and below.


MDP's right, females think bragging like men about dates adds to their SMV, when in our eyes it does exact opposite.

Fortunately for a lot of us, a lot of younger chicks 18-23 are into older guys, haha. I'm curious of the mindset of older women using online dating.

Date with a cute, tall Latina tonight. Ex gymnast and her body shows it. We had a good time, going to 3 different places. I suggested my place but she countered with another lounge which we went to. She ordered an appetizer there which I wasn't really expecting, but surprisingly it didn't bother me. We drank more wine and she really seemed to be enjoying herself. Light kino.

She called an uber to pick us up and drive us back to my truck parked several long city blocks away. when we got there, I asked if she wanted me to drive her home. She said no thanks. So, in the back of the uber I go for the kiss and she kind of veers off to my cheek/half lip kiss. It was a little awkward. She said she'd text me when she got home.

I was a bit pissed walking back to my car. After taking her to a few places for drinks all I get is a half assed kiss. I was writing her off in my mind saying I'm not texting her again. I drive home and she calls me. We talk for 30 seconds but lose reception so she texts me she's home safe and that her phone has shitty reception for calls. I text ; ok glad to hear it.

5 minutes later she calls again. She wants to talk about our date and my first name, etc. She's laughing on the call etc. After 8 or so minutes of flirty talk, I ask her when she's free again and she says 'next weekend but I may be free this saturday for a movie or show' We end on agreement we'll touch base on Saturday.

This date threw me off a bit. Good energy during date. Decent kino. Lame ass kiss and won't let me drive her home but would rather take the uber home at the end of the date. Then, she calls twice when she gets home and wants to talk and giggle on the phone. Guess she likes me since she called. Another factor I'm sure is she's a bit older chick, (26-30 I'm guessing) and in my experience some of these older birds can have more 'rules' and be more 'cautious' than the young ones in terms of kissing on first dates/makeouts/ first date bangs, etc.

(01-29-2016 12:44 AM)robreke Wrote:  Date with a cute, tall Latina tonight. Ex gymnast and her body shows it. We had a good time, going to 3 different places.

I asked if she wanted me to drive her home. She said no thanks. So, in the back of the uber I go for the kiss and she kind of veers off to my cheek/half lip kiss. It was a little awkward. She said she'd text me when she got home.

I was a bit pissed walking back to my car. After taking her to a few places for drinks all I get is a half assed kiss. I was writing her off in my mind saying I'm not texting her again. I drive home and she calls me. We talk for 30 seconds but lose reception so she texts me she's home safe and that her phone has shitty reception for calls. I text ; ok glad to hear it.

5 minutes later she calls again. She wants to talk about our date and my first name, etc. She's laughing on the call etc. After 8 or so minutes of flirty talk, I ask her when she's free again and she says 'next weekend but I may be free this saturday for a movie or show' We end on agreement we'll touch base on Saturday.

Looking forward to hearing updates on how this goes bro.
I'm a young player myself but I want to be prepared for situations like this and not let my ego get in the way of a girl who could just be playing it safe.

In my current player mindset if I took a girl to 3 different places for a date and all I got by the end of the night was half a kiss I would be pissed too. Then when she calls me I would have just not picked up so that she knows she fucked up by not doing something as simple as kissing at the end of a great date.

But hey at least she tried to make things a little better by reaching out and calling you so that you can calm down probably because she realized she fucked up by not going through with a basic kiss. But she could also be just fucking with your head and trying to give you a little false hope that you two might meet again.

Who knows bro I just hope things go positive for you.

Maybe she's a freeloader?
I'm new and newb but from reading this site im now going to less venues on day 1 dates. Unless it's on her dime otherwise my pockets are sealed after 2 venues plus ill find out early if she's there to freeload (especially if she doesn't reach for her purse when the check comes)
Another thing I do is not ask yes or no questions:
Should I drop you home? Turns into; where should I drop you off?

Hey robreke what time did you meet her and what time did you end the date? Did you end it or did she end the night?

Im also waiting to hear what the pros say, recalibrating my thought process.

Rob you had a right to be pissed, I would've ignored her texts and calls, let her hamster spin a bit.

She was probably a bit buzzed and wanted validation that the date went well for you because of her.

I don't hit up girls after a date, even if they said they had a good time.

But you're right, this girl probably vibed with you well, but may of bit a been skittish.

(01-29-2016 05:59 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Rob you had a right to be pissed, I would've ignored her texts and calls, let her hamster spin a bit.

She was probably a bit buzzed and wanted validation that the date went well for you because of her.

I don't hit up girls after a date, even if they said they had a good time.

But you're right, this girl probably vibed with you well, but may of bit a been skittish.

In retrospect that's what I should have done kaotic; ignored the calls and texts, at least until the next day. I'm still not to the point that I am treating all women the same unfortunately and this girl was a hard 8-8.5.

She actually texted me this afternoon asking what the email address was that was linked to my iTunes. I answered 40 minutes later and asked if she was going to send me some cool music ideas as we talked about some of her favorite bands last night. She never answered back.

Maybe she wanted to google my email address to see if she could find more about me since I played the mystery man last night. Nothing on google about it though.

I guess I'll let it lie and contact her next week sometime unless I hear from her first.

(01-27-2016 07:40 AM)toejam Wrote:  DarianFray
Keep us posted. I've been thinking of moving to straight day game, haven't done enough reading to figure out the bang logistics

Alright, just got back from the date so let's do a summary.

She sent me a text yesterday fo confirmation so that was a good sign. Bantered a bit back and forth.

Today she drove 20 miles to see me in my town. I chose a cafe 5 minutes from my apartment. Met up 5 minutes from the cafe and walked there. Great vibes and banter from the start - she looked really good.

The date lasted roughly 2 hours. We bantered in line for coffee - I could see the waitresses checking us out. I payed for our coffee and told her to get us the sofa in the corner of the cafe where we could people watch. Right from the start I sat down in a way that made our legs touch - she did not shift hers away.

We really vibed - almost BPD warning signs since we had so much "in common". I actually felt like I was the one sizing her up, no nervousness at all after we met up. She said she felt unsure in my presence, in a good way, and that the waitresses were checking me out. She touched me often (unprompted), laughed loudly at my jokes, played with her hair. Talked a lot about the difference between men and women, her experience fleeing from her country, travelling, family, general innuendo. It's easier to have a flow in the conversation when you sit next to each other, instead of across like at a job interview. Very basic stuff but always worth repeating - a small but important "hack". Also, touched her on the shoulder, forearm, small of back and felt her hair at various points. High-fived her when we found out things we had in common.

So when the cafe closed we got our things and went out. We walked in the direction of my apartment and here's where I (probably) fucked up. Told her I live 2 minutes from where we stood and invited her for tea and hanging out. She declined, I thought "Alright". She asked me if I could just walk home with someone I'd known for 2 hours, I barreled through it with "Sure, I'm Swedish" and grinned.

I needed to escalate and show intention, so I stepped closer to her, grabbed her around her hip/small of her back and pulled her in for a kiss. Extremely caveman-like for being a sober date but I thought what the fuck. She rejected the kiss and said something like "Today we hug". I was completely unfazed and said "Sure", since she was smiling. She then said we have to meet again, which I agreed to. Said our goodbyes.

Since she rejected the kiss I expect to never see her again. This is my first date with an EE girl; I could tell she were actually raised with some values, so maybe it's a thing. I don't know. All in all, a good date and great learning experience.

I am so depressed right now

After the triple flake this week, a meetup on tuesday that ended with the girl not wanting to see me since apparently I wasn't "challenging" and cocky enough, a girl was supposed to come over this saturday afternoon to my home.

Everything was clean, good clothes etc, she drove 1h to see me, I expected this to be relatively good especially after I heavily implied in our online conversation that I would take care of her and give her massage (she played along).

We are in my room, there is this awkward silence, that I try to break by building some comfort, and from time to time trying to kino "naturally", and build tension. Not 20 mn have passed, and she asks to go outside for a walk. I knew this was fucked up somewhere but still agreed, and hope to change her mood after showing her a good spot I know.

Huge flag: she took her purse with her, even tough I implied we could come back and she would take it then.

Pissed at that point but still trying to positive, I went out with her. Showed her the river next to where I live, we talked about travels (she is going to travel in one month),managed to get her to ask a couple questions about me but most of the time she was silent. Even after I stayed silent too, she would continue until we spent like 2-3 mn silent.
We go to my neighbourhood, thinking she would come back with me, then at that point she is like "I have to go".
Total time from when I saw her to when I saw her last: 1h exactly.


I am lost. I get dates compared to 2 months ago for sure, but nothing comes from them. I have a fuckbuddy who wants to be my girlfriend and a girl who wants to marry me basically but I don't care. What the fuck is wrong with me?

Maybe I am not good-looking enough ? (the harshest three girls who rejected me are at least 7 and full 2 points in SMV above me objectively so maybe that's it)

Anyway, going to the gym to try to forget about it.

(01-30-2016 10:43 AM)DarianFrey Wrote:  We really vibed - almost BPD warning signs since we had so much "in common".

Man, that is an important thing to keep in mind.

Sorry to hear stuff didn't work out, sounds like maybe you spent too much time on the comfort side of things and not enough time on the attraction side. I struggle with that one, it's tough when I'm really connecting with a girl to remember to keep some distance and sense of unattainability.

One thing I've found can help with the escalation is to put her arm in yours as you're walking home. Chicks love this shit. This is what you're shooting for:

@Mikado, how are you meeting these girls? Seems like you're having trouble building some kind of connection with these girls. Did you manage to get your date to laugh? It didn't seem there was anything fun happening or going on. I'd like to know your approach to dating and what's your personality's like going into these situations.

Also, a lot of girls are socially awkward and look for guys to make them feel comfortable. If you could get your date laughing and close to you, there's a good chance of making things happen.