Got a number from a girl off OKC. (Different than the one in the thread above.)In her profile she mentions she has never met anyone from online. Got her intrigued with calling me daddy online. Increased the innuendo and then told her I had to go.

My last message included my phone number. She texted me a half hour later. Positive sign.

Some sexual banter back and forth with her doing what I said. After she had brushed her teeth and put cute jammies on I told her to send me a pic. Her response:

Her: You must be out of your mind.
CP: (17 min later) tsk tsk Daddy is going to have to discipline you.
Her: (6 min later) I'm read to be disciplined Daddy

That was last night. I actually am pretty good with sexting. I have gotten a regular plate and a girl from OKC in London to orgasm by fingering themselves by what I wrote. They both hit me up to do it again.

I don't think I should give her the experience. I was already fucking one of the other girls and the other one messaged me late at night and I figured why not? This one lives in my city only a short distance away. Would like to add her to the rotation.

But like I said, she has mentioned twice about not meeting anyone from online (attention whore) and she did not comply with sending me pics. Thoughts?

CP

She's ready to be disciplined...but won't send a pic to confirm who she is? I'm thinking catfish. Also I try to avoid going sexual too soon with girls I haven't met. The girls I've gotten nudes from I never got the chance to meet. Try getting her on the phone or scheduling a meet over text.

(01-18-2016 01:58 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  She's ready to be disciplined...but won't send a pic to confirm who she is? I'm thinking catfish. Also I try to avoid going sexual too soon with girls I haven't met. The girls I've gotten nudes from I never got the chance to meet. Try getting her on the phone or scheduling a meet over text.

I saw her pics on OKC. A very cute girl. I was thinking about texting her tonight around 9:00ish. Ask her if she is ready to be disciplined and if she says yes then call her and phone sex her.

Will report back/

CP

(01-18-2016 04:03 PM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  

(01-18-2016 01:58 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  She's ready to be disciplined...but won't send a pic to confirm who she is? I'm thinking catfish. Also I try to avoid going sexual too soon with girls I haven't met. The girls I've gotten nudes from I never got the chance to meet. Try getting her on the phone or scheduling a meet over text.

I saw her pics on OKC. A very cute girl. I was thinking about texting her tonight around 9:00ish. Ask her if she is ready to be disciplined and if she says yes then call her and phone sex her.

Will report back/

CP

You can't be serious, why aren't you attempting to actually hangout with her ?

Why not build some comfort, have a regular convo on the phone with her for a bit so her hamster stops spinning ?

Then suggest meeting up.

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You can't be serious, why aren't you attempting to actually hangout with her ?

Why not build some comfort, have a regular convo on the phone with her for a bit so her hamster stops spinning ?

Then suggest meeting up.
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I'm an idiot. I got tunnel vision there. Will report back tomorrow.

CP

I texted the girl I fucked last night to come over Wed night. Just got the reply now:

Asley: Nope, gotta work!

I was going to send "gay" but will see if she suggests an alternate meet up.

The one from the other night just replied:

CP: 3:28 pm Wednesday night: 8====D~~~
Ashley: 3:31pm Nope. Gotta work!
Ashely: 3:48pm Also, Saturday was fun, but going to XXXX for sex isn't going to work for me. Too far! (15-20 min Uber ride)

This after giving her multiple orgasms and her saying she hasn't been fucked that good in a long time.

Not sure if I should respond gay or nothing. Offering to pay for her Uber is probably too Beta.

CP

(01-18-2016 04:56 PM)Caractacus Potts Wrote:  The one from the other night just replied:

CP: 3:28 pm Wednesday night: 8====D~~~
Ashley: 3:31pm Nope. Gotta work!
Ashely: 3:48pm Also, Saturday was fun, but going to XXXX for sex isn't going to work for me. Too far! (15-20 min Uber ride)

This after giving her multiple orgasms and her saying she hasn't been fucked that good in a long time.

Not sure if I should respond gay or nothing. Offering to pay for her Uber is probably too Beta.

CP

Both of these texts from her are pretty straight-forward rejections. There's no ambiguity here, no angle to play. It sucks, but it happens. Your best bet is to say nothing at all and move on. If anything, ping her with a mass text a month from now with a pic of you doing something cool, like an exotic vacation. All you can do is stay on her radar. She might come around at some point when she's feeling lonely and/or horny

You're right. I have been "thirsty" in some regards because I only have one plate spinning at this time. Trying to get more has really taken up a lot of my time this past two weeks. I may need to step away for a while and just enjoy my Tuesday night regular.

Having at least one regular bang will help mitigate the thirst, but don't let this experience stop you from getting new leads. Rocking a girl's world never guarantees repeat business. It helps, but don't ever count on getting another bang no matter how good she says the sex was. This lesson was a hard pill for me to swallow, but it's true. Girls have endless options, an unpredictable hamster, and the attention span of a gnat.

Headed to a small town on business. Chick I met off SA is in another small town about 45 minutes away. First date was no bang, she fed me at the lounge w which led to some kissing, nothing major. We met a month ago. Her texts are responsive, eager to meet. (I.e. touch-base texts) she lives on campus. She's 18.


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Me: I'm coming to x town on business we should meet.
Her: that would be great!
Me: wear a dress
Her: sure thing. (Heart emoji)
Me: y town (her town) hotels are a hot mess
Her: I know (sad face emoji)
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Not sure how to respond:
The town ill be staying in has a nice hotel but she does have a dorm which I guess could be an option. She doesn't drive, ill have a car, I can scoop her up. Should I pick her up and bring her back or should I be trying to slide back to her dorm? Not sure which scenario will put me in better position for bang.

Is there a feeler test to see where her head is at?

You could text her back saying that she knows the area better and she should help you find a hotel. If she is that interested in meeting back up, she should be more than happy to assist. If she says something dumb along the lines of "I don't know" or something else negative, just poke fun at her not knowing the area where she lives.

I wouldn't go for the bang in a dorm room just because she most likely has a roommate that could cock block or interrupt intimacy. Find a cheap place to stay and pick her up and bring her there.

What can i say next? This girls phone is broken and gave me her facebook.

Been chatting away on FB and arranged to meet up sometime next week.

Should I continue this chat ?

Her. (I know this sounds weird as I am on tinder, but I'm only on tinder through a chrome plug in which means you can use it on your lap top)
Me. Are you just naturally weird? Well the weirdness is good we wouldnt have matched
Her. Is anyone superficially weird? smile emoticon
Me. Its hard to tell. Though, attractiveness is
Her. Are you just naturally attractive?
Me. Thanks for the compliment, but no. I have to use wax in my hair
Her. Hahahaha smile emoticon

Guys,, what would your answer be?
A good date with a chick, but no bang. Scheduled another, she seemed excited about it. Flaked w/o excuse. So I nexted her. She texted me 3 days later:
"
Hey luke. I am sorry but I am ill. Listen I will have two tickets for next Sunday for music club xxx for concert of yyy. Do you want to go with me
"
The band looks nice, venue is very close to my place. What to text not to sound needy and to punish her for flaking a bit? We are in Poland.

Thanks

^She came back with a nice response, no need to punish her.

Simple response like "what time?" would be good enough.

I've gotten some great ideas but want to try something bold and new to the following question:
"What do you want to do? "

Usually this is pre - first date text logistics. Setting up a first date. Based on reading this thread I usually roll with:
- rob a bank
- get drunk
- go skinny dipping
- streaking
- start world war iii
- kidnap a seal

But now I realize I have nothing really sexual to add to my arsenal but at the same time I don't want to scare away a lead before even a first meet. Any ideas on a semi safe sexual response to the question or at least something to weed out those who are interested vs those who are not (hookers etc)

I need to be a bit bold...

(01-26-2016 06:17 PM)toejam Wrote:  I've gotten some great ideas but want to try something bold and new to the following question:
"What do you want to do? "

Usually this is pre - first date text logistics. Setting up a first date. Based on reading this thread I usually roll with:
- rob a bank
- get drunk
- go skinny dipping
- streaking
- start world war iii
- kidnap a seal

But now I realize I have nothing really sexual to add to my arsenal but at the same time I don't want to scare away a lead before even a first meet. Any ideas on a semi safe sexual response to the question or at least something to weed out those who are interested vs those who are not (hookers etc)

I need to be a bit bold...

Why ? Be sarcastic, funny, and lock down the date.

You don't have to be sexual unless it flows into the conversations naturally.

If you're afraid you'll scare the car, then don't. Keep it simple, then escalate in person.

Lads, got a number from a Polish chick at a bar last Friday; a HB6.5 hipster chick, 7.5 if she lost weight. She was alone in the bar and tagged along with my mates for the rest of the night. She was flirty with me and talked about giving me blowjobs. Did not bang or kiss close. I understand that she just wanted attention and company for the night, and most likely this is a dead end. Nevertheless, wouldn't mind trying to bang this chick.

So yesterday, I sent her: Hey you little Polish vixen. Remembered that you're still owing me a BJ... [Yeah, maybe too straight forward, but sent it without expecting an answer]

Today, she replied: Yeah, I know, but my fucking schedule is pretty busy right now.

Still learning text-game, but if I understand correctly: For starters the full-stop is already putting a halt to the interaction. Also she does not open a hole (no pun intended) in her schedule, i.e. she isn't interested.

Three questions: 1 - is my analysis correct? 2 - if yes, and I still want to mess with her, what could be a cocky reply? If not, what would you read the message?

Cheers

(01-26-2016 06:17 PM)toejam Wrote:  I've gotten some great ideas but want to try something bold and new to the following question:
"What do you want to do? "

Usually this is pre - first date text logistics. Setting up a first date. Based on reading this thread I usually roll with:
- rob a bank
- get drunk
- go skinny dipping
- streaking
- start world war iii
- kidnap a seal

But now I realize I have nothing really sexual to add to my arsenal but at the same time I don't want to scare away a lead before even a first meet. Any ideas on a semi safe sexual response to the question or at least something to weed out those who are interested vs those who are not (hookers etc)

I need to be a bit bold...

This is a tough question, your answers sound too try hard. I generally think being vague is the best answer, something like "I work" with a sarcastic grin usually works.

Telling her that you are a I.T Consultant working on C+ isn't going to excite her, not like she knows what that job is.

(01-27-2016 11:04 AM)Dom Filipe Wrote:  Lads, got a number from a Polish chick at a bar last Friday; a HB6.5 hipster chick, 7.5 if she lost weight. She was alone in the bar and tagged along with my mates for the rest of the night. She was flirty with me and talked about giving me blowjobs. Did not bang or kiss close. I understand that she just wanted attention and company for the night, and most likely this is a dead end. Nevertheless, wouldn't mind trying to bang this chick.

So yesterday, I sent her: Hey you little Polish vixen. Remembered that you're still owing me a BJ... [Yeah, maybe too straight forward, but sent it without expecting an answer]

Today, she replied: Yeah, I know, but my fucking schedule is pretty busy right now.

Still learning text-game, but if I understand correctly: For starters the full-stop is already putting a halt to the interaction. Also she does not open a hole (no pun intended) in her schedule, i.e. she isn't interested.

Three questions: 1 - is my analysis correct? 2 - if yes, and I still want to mess with her, what could be a cocky reply? If not, what would you read the message?

Cheers

Why didn't you escalate that night? She was alone in a bar.

The busy line seems like a mild blow off, but you can still push on.

I'm not a text expert but I think there are rules stated on this thing all over this forum. Text should only be used to set up a date, not build a relationship or attraction.
So your opener was cringe worthy, seemed a bit too sexual from the start.

I say give it a week, send another text and find out when she is free. Then arrange a date from there.

Cheers man!

Tried escalating without success. As said, I reckon she was there just for the company and attention, and I gave her that. Since I wasn't aiming at finding a girl that night (she sat next to me and started talking) or didn't buy her drinks, no harm done.

Nevertheless, and I'll admit, my opener was cringe worthy, and destined to fail. I'll hit her up next week with a standard text

(01-27-2016 11:04 AM)Dom Filipe Wrote:  ...
So yesterday, I sent her: Hey you little Polish vixen. Remembered that you're still owing me a BJ... [Yeah, maybe too straight forward, but sent it without expecting an answer]

Today, she replied: Yeah, I know, but my fucking schedule is pretty busy right now.

Still learning text-game, but if I understand correctly: For starters the full-stop is already putting a halt to the interaction. Also she does not open a hole (no pun intended) in her schedule, i.e. she isn't interested.

Three questions: 1 - is my analysis correct? 2 - if yes, and I still want to mess with her, what could be a cocky reply? If not, what would you read the message?

Cheers

You say you weren't expecting an answer but I suspect you hoped for one. The overtly sexual reference in your first text likely sunk you. Always remember that a girl's mood changes in the blink of an eye. If she was being overtly sexual with you the night before do NOT assume she'll still be feeling the same way when you text her the next day. Keep your first text light and playful, keeping in mind that the sexual tingles she was feeling the night before have likely dissipated.

Given how she responded to your message, I'd say this is likely the case. Wait a few days and hit her up with something light, maybe referencing something interesting or funny from your interaction that night. But don't take things sexual. The most effective play (over text) is to let her open that door first, and slowly escalate lightly. Save the real sexual escalation for when you have her in person.

(01-28-2016 05:27 AM)SomeFcksGiven Wrote:  You say you weren't expecting an answer but I suspect you hoped for one.

Will not deny that. In this case what I was hoping for was very easy sex, but as you put it, i.e. taking into consideration a woman's moods, I should have known better. Will continue the interaction as suggested/recommended.

Thanks

I'm going to reschedule. Want to know if this is the right thing to do.

Met up with her on date 1 and escalated, made out. No bang. Probably my bad though, I didn't push.
Set up date 2 for tomorrow. She's down.

Me: friday I'll be out, meet me
Her: ok
**2 days go by.**

Me: see you tomorrow
Her: ok.
Her: what time?
Her: I need to know this tonight as I have other things going l going on

I plan on just telling her if she has plans she should stick to them, that I'm not a backup. I don't want to meet for drinks just for her to bail.
Or just not to respond until morning.

(I have two on backup, both ready to meet up)

Is there a "better" response to her demand?

^That last text is her giving herself an out if she decides to flake. If you got together with her, I'd guess she would constantly check her phone or tell you about her plans later that night. I've had women do that to me and I find it very disrespectful. Makes me feel like I am her placeholder until her next set of plans.

If I had a woman say that to me, I'd just say something like "id rather not waste my time since youd be on a time clock."

You are the prize. Don't fall into her frame.

Youuuuuuuuuuuuu.
You.
You're good you.