Damn, i've been away from this forum for a while not checking up on it. I've went on a few dates and nothing materialized.

Just goes to show that I need to read the posts in this place to keep a proper state of mind going into meet up's.

(01-16-2016 09:18 PM)MiscBrah Wrote:  Ah Tinder. My love-hate relationship with it is very strong.

Here's what I do

Me: Her name, you're too fucking cute.

Her: (Some bullshit like Haha thanks, so are you, whatever)

Me: I have to be honest tho

Her: What's that

Me: I'm really only looking for a fwb

Her: Same lol

Me: 999-999-9999 Here's my number send me a funny text (I sometimes simply say Phone #)

What's important here is that you type her name out in the opening message. Make sure you add the word fucking too because I feel it adds something.

But Miscbrah, how can this work? You're complimenting her and then asking for sex?

It works because shes already likely DTF since shes on Tinder and since she swiped right on you she's also probably attracted. Most girls on Tinder are looking for sex but too many guys get caught up in the who-can-be-more-witty battle that they will almost always lose.

My bio is Yes, I am trying to have sex with you. I don't think most girls read the bio anyway but some have said they laughed at it.

I've had Tinder for over a year now. I've messed around with all these different elaborate scripts and while I had some success, the above has worked the best for me and also has the benefit of not taking up much time.

As a general rule, make sure you get her number before you try to meetup. I think that texting her is much better than messaging through the Tinder app as it distances you from other guys.

Most important is to remember that Tinder is a numbers game. I also swipe right on just about everyone and try out new scripts and ideas on the ugly ones. I have had success because I've stuck with Tinder for a long time and found what works well for me.

I live in a smallish town and don't get to do as many approaches in real life as I want. Tinder helps with comfort and escalation but leaves something to be desired for approaching. Make sure you view Tinder as a supplement, not your main source of woman

Lastly, yes your pictures matter. I will also say they matter less than you probably think. My pictures are pretty bad and yet I still get plenty of hot matches. Could I get more if I had professional pictures? Definitely. However, don't wait until you get perfect pictures to try and start Tinder. You can always delete and remake your account. That way you get another shot at girls that may have swiped left on you. I don't do this though as my ego is fragile and I like seeing my army of Tinder slut matches.

Final Notes and caveats, I work primarily with 18-22 year olds. (I'm a young guy, this isn't some big accomplishment or anything) I don't really get many matches from girls older than this so I don't know how this would go with 30+ year olds. Then again, I don't think you guys are trying to bang many 30+ women either.

If you're one of those guys that has given up Tinder, redownload it and give this script a try. I think you will have some success and let me know how it works for you guys.

I've been ignored 5 times after this one so far haha

Set up a meet for drink with a Chinese-American. My profile is pretty much DTF.

But she ignored that part and just admitted that she is into Eastern Europeans and is curious about my accent.

Who has got experience with Chinese girls? I tend to think of them as Asexual for some reason. She looks and dresses like a white girl with white friends. What's one to do.

(01-25-2016 08:37 AM)Foolsgo1d Wrote:  I'm only using Tinder in large city areas from now. Where I am currently is just so dire.

Am going to re-install my tinder for the run up to St. Valentine's Day. Depending on what happens, I could very well be deleting it afterwards until I visit a large city.

(01-26-2016 12:28 AM)VforVlad Wrote:  Set up a meet for drink with a Chinese-American. My profile is pretty much DTF.

But she ignored that part and just admitted that she is into Eastern Europeans and is curious about my accent.

Who has got experience with Chinese girls? I tend to think of them as Asexual for some reason. She looks and dresses like a white girl with white friends. What's one to do.

I always used to think like that but Chinese girls are actually pretty sexual provided they aren't fresh off the boat in my opinion. They're usually pretty loud as well.

(01-26-2016 04:03 PM)rdvirus Wrote:  

(01-26-2016 12:28 AM)VforVlad Wrote:  Set up a meet for drink with a Chinese-American. My profile is pretty much DTF.

But she ignored that part and just admitted that she is into Eastern Europeans and is curious about my accent.

Who has got experience with Chinese girls? I tend to think of them as Asexual for some reason. She looks and dresses like a white girl with white friends. What's one to do.

I always used to think like that but Chinese girls are actually pretty sexual provided they aren't fresh off the boat in my opinion. They're usually pretty loud as well.

I'm going to push for sex and get touchy very early. No prolonged chit chatting for this one. She saw what I wrote and I'm gonna act up on it. IF she is not down, I'm splitting. The logistics are kind of bad. She wants to meet at a bar near her campus. Unless she can invite me to her dorm...I'm pushing for sex in the car. I'm gonna get something sexual out of this.

(01-25-2016 11:35 AM)mack_hand Wrote:  why the fuck do women post pics with 3-4 of their friends?
why the fuck do women post pics of their dog as the main pic?
why the fuck do women post pics of their kid/niece/nephew etc?

It's inevitable with both men & women, in a group picture as the lead photo, the person with the profile is NEVER the most attractive in the group, and is probably the least. I've seen the same comment on at least a dozen tinder profiles by women and I've observed the same in women's profiles.

Dog pic or some other nonsense as the lead pic (a flower, inspirational quote, etc) is instant left swipe now. I've clicked through on tons of those and the chick behind the profile is ALWAYS unattractive. 100% of the time.

Kid pics are a bit more common with older women as a way to show depth, but it's a big turnoff. Women are so fucking stupid - way to attract a pedophile!

I think that the bullshit lead pic is a way to get guys to chase, it's just that the prize at the end of the chase is never worth it.

Basically Tinder is proving the point that you're only as good as your lead photo.

Having used Tinder outside of Asia, I'm amazed at the amount of flaking, its almost now wise to schedule at least 2 hangouts per day, almost a certainty one person will flake / "get sick all of a sudden".

(01-27-2016 02:12 PM)RockHard Wrote:  

(01-25-2016 11:35 AM)mack_hand Wrote:  why the fuck do women post pics with 3-4 of their friends?
why the fuck do women post pics of their dog as the main pic?
why the fuck do women post pics of their kid/niece/nephew etc?

It's inevitable with both men & women, in a group picture as the lead photo, the person with the profile is NEVER the most attractive in the group, and is probably the least. I've seen the same comment on at least a dozen tinder profiles by women and I've observed the same in women's profiles.

Dog pic or some other nonsense as the lead pic (a flower, inspirational quote, etc) is instant left swipe now. I've clicked through on tons of those and the chick behind the profile is ALWAYS unattractive. 100% of the time.

Kid pics are a bit more common with older women as a way to show depth, but it's a big turnoff. Women are so fucking stupid - way to attract a pedophile!

I think that the bullshit lead pic is a way to get guys to chase, it's just that the prize at the end of the chase is never worth it.

Basically Tinder is proving the point that you're only as good as your lead photo.

I've had the same experience with the nonsense lead pictures. Always a swamp donkey awaiting your swipe.. However, the reverse is true for my profile. I have a picture of me suited down and just a portion of my jaw in my lead picture, absolute clickbait. The rest show my face, i'm nothing special but it seems to be working well.. matches are coming in anyway. Forces the lizards to go thru my other pictures and read my bio. Maybe something for you fellas to consider.

Got a new phone number from Tinder, chatted to her a little on Whatsapp over a couple of days. She told me that she's had some bad dates recently and clearly she isn't ready for dating but "good luck". Another attention seeking timewaster.

(01-22-2016 01:52 PM)The_CEO Wrote:  Do you guys unmatch if someone hasn't responded?

Or just leave it?

Leave it, this can happen

I agree, I've had girls reply back a few days or a week later.

(01-26-2016 12:18 AM)MrRoundtree Wrote:  I've been ignored 5 times after this one so far haha

Interesting bro. I've used that for a long time and while I have been rejected my fair share I have never been ignored. Maybe its a cultural region thing? I'm in midwest America where the girls are slutty, not a country where the girls are feminine and have more traditional values.

Have any of you international guys figured out any shortcuts or tricks to help calibrate with what works locally on Tinder? I recently relocated to a new country, and I went from having steady matches in the last place I was to zero after weeks and probably hundreds of right-swipes. Clearly something is off, can't figure out what.

(01-26-2016 12:28 AM)VforVlad Wrote:  Set up a meet for drink with a Chinese-American. My profile is pretty much DTF.

But she ignored that part and just admitted that she is into Eastern Europeans and is curious about my accent.

Who has got experience with Chinese girls? I tend to think of them as Asexual for some reason. She looks and dresses like a white girl with white friends. What's one to do.

The chinese girl messaged me today and here is how it went down:








I'm keeping her waiting now for a little while.

I'm somewhat of an expert on Asian girls not sure if it's a good or bad thing. You handled that well and it sounds very positive. You set the frame and she bit. She's even helping you on the logistics side. Take her to a bar at 9pm as per the bang recipe and go back to your place. She sounds pretty adventurous so it could well be on.

^^

Nice, Vlad.

"The bio was pretty straightforward"... You still runnin' that carousel/Serbian notch profile ?

Vlad, that's it! I like the way you handled that. I'm thinking she's not used to guys being so straightforward.

(01-28-2016 06:51 PM)Vincent Chase Wrote:  I'm somewhat of an expert on Asian girls not sure if it's a good or bad thing. You handled that well and it sounds very positive. You set the frame and she bit. She's even helping you on the logistics side. Take her to a bar at 9pm as per the bang recipe and go back to your place. She sounds pretty adventurous so it could well be on.

Well as I said in a previous post, the logistics are pretty bad for my place. It's 30 minutes out.

I would just have to get her hot and bothered, warm up the car and take it to the backseat...under the pretense that we're still going to my place but first a bit of fooling around.

Sidenote: During our original exchange, I offered a bar and she countered it with another Bar - which I have now figured out is pretty close to her campus. I don't think she has a car [She made a joke on Tinder saying "I'm also pretty good at math but a terrible driver", poking fun at the Asian stereotype]

(01-28-2016 06:52 PM)George is King Wrote:  ^^

Nice, Vlad.

"The bio was pretty straightforward"... You still runnin' that carousel/Serbian notch profile ?

Yes. Pretty much. Did a bit of tweaking but it's still roughly the same.

George, a few girls were too dumb to get what it all meant so I dumbed it down a bit, removing the carousal reference, and making it a bit shorter. But the theme of adding a Serbian named Vlad to their sex collection as opposed to another Steve, Dave, or Brian is still there.

I've been pipelining on Tinder in Asia by changing my location using Fake GPS app. I was getting at least a few matches every day, but then for some reason the number of new matches dropped to 0 a few days ago. Does fake GPS work for you guys? Maybe Tinder has changed something in the algorithm?

delete

Vlad I disagree with your approach. The girl clearly likes you despite your completely not subtle attempt to turn her into a notch or booty call only. That's why she said "If another guy said that it would be a complete dick move."

She obviously has read your profile and read between the lines, no need to 'double-check' your both on the same page. What's that about? It takes the fun out of the game for both you and her. I don't see the point in it.

(01-28-2016 08:51 PM)RedPillUK Wrote:  Vlad I disagree with your approach. The girl clearly likes you despite your completely not subtle attempt to turn her into a notch or booty call only. That's why she said "If another guy said that it would be a complete dick move."

She obviously has read your profile and read between the lines, no need to 'double-check' your both on the same page. What's that about? It takes the fun out of the game for both you and her. I don't see the point in it.

Well it's on. Saturday at 9.

The 'double check' was necessary. She ignored the bio, rejected my initial day for meet up saying that she isn't free till Saturday, countered me by rejecting the bar I initially suggested for being too far, while suggesting a bar near her campus, and finally topping it off by saying that she is in a hurry to go to party so it has to be early. She needed to absolutely be checked and I didn't care if nothing had come of it.

SO yes, we disagree. I think I made the right move [See: Her 9 messages in a row for supporting evidence]