(12-03-2015 11:55 PM)N°6 Wrote:  

(11-28-2015 10:56 PM)R_Niko Wrote:  Does anyone else find Tinder is kinda played out? For the first year or so I was on it I got a good number of dates. I found most girls I matched with wanted to meet (this was in late 2013). Now it seems like another time wasting form of social media, attention whoring for women rather than a meetup app.

When I recall the nature and volume of my dates this time last year, they contrast with now when I am lucky to get a conversation going.

The new Tinder versions have killed it. They've even removed Moments which I used to see which of my passive and inactive matches were still around. Maybe attention whores were abusing matches for likes and not engaging in chat.

I've had that thought as well, but I've had girls show a keenness to actually meet all throughout this year (not in any great frequency until a little lately it must be said). At least a number of those had indicated a DTF willingness, and still further, I was able to source a bang as recently as last week.
Mind you, my success on Tinder shot up exponentially on leaving the Anglosphere; though having said that, that correlated with an increase in the quality of my photos. Even though I'm of above average looks, I'm working on getting a jacked body, and experimenting with a few douchebag-ish shots, which should improve my rate even further.

Like I said, your idea has crossed my mind, and I'm wondering if it's because the hotties that abounded during Tinder's apex had since had their share of cock. Ergo, if that means that the guys who hadn't then had tight photos or appearance yet -- like myself -- may have missed out.
However, I switched my location back to my hometown and came across a few familiar faces from 2013 amongst the sea of hambeasts, so my theory may not exactly be the case. Maybe there isn't such a change as too much cock, just as there isn't such a thing as too much pussy.
I can't buy the idea that Tinder has evolved into Snapchat-/Instagram-Lite, I'd wager that the attention whores have always been there, and probably abound further in the faces of those who don't give them enough tingles.

Matched with a mother who has 8 children. Yes EIGHT. Now I blame myself for this because I was just looking at pictures and swiping right or left depending on how the first look got me.

Good lord. I quickly unmatched. Had a couple of decent bangs from it though this past week.

Has anyone had a match go silent on you after replying something that might've been a bit too try-hardy or invested? I might've done that to a couple of mine who haven't replied in a few days. What pisses me off is that I'd been about to reply something that would've pushed towards a meet up, then thought of the reply I gave.
A pretty similar thing happened to an 8 I matched with in Warsaw a few months ago whom I'd otherwise clicked with. Sometimes I'll never learn.

I'll post screenshots to illustrate.

If you really, reallly want to hack tinder I have a little strategy. Hire someone to do this, swipe right on all the attractive girls in a big city until you finally run out of profiles. Depending on the size, this could take days. Should cost you maybe $30-50, depending on how long this takes. I find auto likers to just mark your profile, its much better to out source this out. Or if your bored, you can do it yourself.

Once you finally run out of girls to swipe, log in twice a day and you're going to see the batch of the newest girls who signed up to Tinder, who haven't been swarmed by all the IRT and chumps. I've had great matches with these new girls, and some seem much more eager to meet, you can be their first "tinder experience".

I will report the results of this hack in a week.

if getting matches is an issue for anyone, I'm not sure how anyone can help, since it's 90% appearance based...

I have a 10 on the go now, 18 year old model. Wish me luck, fellas

^Have you spoken to her over the phone? I'm curious if you did a confirmation or not.

(12-05-2015 05:34 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  ^Have you spoken to her over the phone? I'm curious if you did a confirmation or not.

Yep. She wouldn't give me her number but she called me and blocked it. We talked for over an hour. She's legit. I've creeped all her social media, as a model she's on everything

Irish/nerdy/bookworm chick who's number I got never responded after my initial phone text (I always text with a confirmation pic so that they do the same). I didn't double text but pinged online just to make sure she knew it was me. Soon after unmatched. I'm starting to think my luck has run its course with this app.

Solid picture set up, decent bio with a bit of humor, text game (hit or miss). I think reading pickup/canned(apart from a few good ones) lines hasn't done any good. Probably restart soon.

^^^^^^ Forget the above -- some of those matches have responded. I do agree with what the others earlier have said about being aggressive in closing -- unless you're outside the Anglosphere. Even then, if she escalates (which has happened in continental Europe), go for it, silly. I find that girls can stretch out a conversation even after you've gotten momentum and if there looks like there's potential, for getting the number early is key.

Has anyone ever run into a Tinder match in real life??
I literally walked slap into one at a social circle gathering. Whoa. What would you guys have done then? When we had a chance to be alone, I asked how she looked rather familiar (my words) and very subtly implied knowing her through Tinder. Would it have been a smart idea mentioning that outright? We go to the same university and may well have the same mutual friends professionally (she's in architecture, I'm in engineering).
She was one of those matches whom while having showed blatant keenness, went dead silent a few days later, hence we never # closed. I didn't feel a massive amount of chemistry so even though I could've followed through offline what was felt hanging online, I gamed two others there who were comparatively hotter.

(12-06-2015 06:19 AM)JWLZG Wrote:  ^^^^^^ Forget the above -- some of those matches have responded. I do agree with what the others earlier have said about being aggressive in closing -- unless you're outside the Anglosphere. Even then, if she escalates (which has happened in continental Europe), go for it, silly. I find that girls can stretch out a conversation even after you've gotten momentum and if there looks like there's potential, for getting the number early is key.

Has anyone ever run into a Tinder match in real life??
I literally walked slap into one at a social circle gathering. Whoa. What would you guys have done then? When we had a chance to be alone, I asked how she looked rather familiar (my words) and very subtly implied knowing her through Tinder. Would it have been a smart idea mentioning that outright? We go to the same university and may well have the same mutual friends professionally (she's in architecture, I'm in engineering).
She was one of those matches whom while having showed blatant keenness, went dead silent a few days later, hence we never # closed. I didn't feel a massive amount of chemistry so even though I could've followed through offline what was felt hanging online, I gamed two others there who were comparatively hotter.

Hahaha. Around this past NYE I was at a club in Budapest when I saw two cute girls in the coat check line. I just said some random BS just to get conversation started with them and they both seemed receptive. The brunette one was fine, great body and face. Well at the bar, I see them again so I chat them up and the brunette buys me a drink. We start talking a bit and then almost simultaneously, we both felt something familiar about each other. I then went aside and checked my tinder and realized I had matched her a day or two earlier. When we both met up again near the bar, I could tell we both knew. So we brought it up that we were tinder matches. It's funny how different people can look in their photos. Although I will admit she looked better in person.

I wish the story had a happy ending but it did not. So we started dancing, kino, some making out, generally having a good time. I made the mistake of walking away to look for my boy and when I finally found her again, she was chatting up another American brotha in the club. It was kind of awkward because my boy and I had just befriended that guy and his group earlier as it is a rarity to see a group of Black Americans in Europe. I tried to get her back but it was too late, "we didn't have chemistry" she explained afterwards. I was pissed but ya know what? I learned a lot of lessons about game during that Budapest trip. I lost a battle but in the end, I am still winning the war.

I ran into a tinder match in real life once. I had travelled to Singapore this past October to meet up with my family, where I matched with a dozen or so girls in the first day.

One of them was this seemingly cute and petite girl who was keen and tried to set a date to meet. I wanted to hold out to see what else I could find because I didn't have a lot of free time in my itinerary , so I didn't commit to her just yet.

We were waiting in line for a taxi outside this hotel near Boat Quay when I felt a tap on my shoulder. I looked to my right and I was taken aback to see a fatter version of the same girl I matched with. She showed no regard about my family's presence and went on to exclaim how we matched on tinder the day before and how we're running into each other, all the while my dad was giving me this defeated look from behind. Now at this point we hadn't even exchanged phone numbers and there she is moaning about how awesome it was to see me and how I should come drinking with her friends. I pulled her to the side and explained my situation to her after which she sheepishly walked away.

I went back to her tinder profile to examine her pictures again to find only MySpace angles. How could I have missed that. She had a pretty face and a round gut. Her pictures were downright deceiving, I'd have posted them her but I think it's against forum rules. The conversation I had with my dad that night over a drink wasn't pretty either.

(12-06-2015 07:42 AM)FatBoy Wrote:  I ran into a tinder match in real life once. I had travelled to Singapore this past October to meet up with my family, where I matched with a dozen or so girls in the first day.

One of them was this seemingly cute and petite girl who was keen and tried to set a date to meet. I wanted to hold out to see what else I could find because I didn't have a lot of free time in my itinerary , so I didn't commit to her just yet.

We were waiting in line for a taxi outside this hotel near Boat Quay when I felt a tap on my shoulder. I looked to my right and I was taken aback to see a fatter version of the same girl I matched with. She showed no regard about my family's presence and went on to exclaim how we matched on tinder the day before and how we're running into each other, all the while my dad was giving me this defeated look from behind. Now at this point we hadn't even exchanged phone numbers and there she is moaning about how awesome it was to see me and how I should come drinking with her friends. I pulled her to the side and explained my situation to her after which she sheepishly walked away.

I went back to her tinder profile to examine her pictures again to find only MySpace angles. How could I have missed that. She had a pretty face and a round gut. Her pictures were downright deceiving, I'd have posted them her but I think it's against forum rules. The conversation I had with my dad that night over a drink wasn't pretty either.

^I'd screen their photos harder. No wonder a fatty would be so forward. Commiserations about your dad finding out.

Anyway here's the exchange of my IRL social circle match. I'm probably not going to mention that we met yesterday , but I can also:

2) restart, most likely tonight
3) wait for her response
4) wait until we meet again via social circle

Like with Fury's story, there's a chance that we may have clicked a bit more had one of us brought up the fact that we were Tinder matches, but chances are my face would've been lost amidst her probable sea of matches (even as a 6).

My opener was related to her caption mentioning whiskey. As it is, there's a whiskey bar literally across the road from my place.

Its prime hunting season here. School is off. All these bored uni students have nothing to do. The experiment is working well, getting a ton of matches and curious new tinder users. To be updated.

Got it today. Got some good pictures (travel pic, dog pic, me in a tank top looking jacked but not in a douchey way). No matches so far but I've only had it for about 5 hours.

Getting a fair bit of resistance here -- are they just constant shit-tests/ASD or have I lost her?

I just need to find a way to close her.

Her last 2 messages were that she has work all day and a thumbs up emoji.

I would have unmatched that bitch and moved on after the 3rd message.

Two words.

Time waster.

Is it just me or is Tinder making anyone else jaded based on how dirty the girls are?

These days I just troll on Tinder for shits and giggles.... and yet they still spread.

UnW - are you in the U.S.?

Sorry guys I pumped and dumped them all and now you get all the jaded bitches

Idk why you'd troll girls on there, I don't have time for that, I simply open, find out their location, get to know a bit about them and close them. It's a numbers game on there, your pics are what matter, your game helps, but you can only do so much.

A bitch opening Tinder, is like her opening a bagful of dicks.

(12-10-2015 12:17 PM)_Samo_ Wrote:  UnW - are you in the U.S.?

These screen shots are all.from Australia.

(12-10-2015 12:32 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Sorry guys I pumped and dumped them all and now you get all the jaded bitches

Idk why you'd troll girls on there, I don't have time for that, I simply open, find out their location, get to know a bit about them and close them. It's a numbers game on there, your pics are what matter, your game helps, but you can only do so much.

A bitch opening Tinder, is like her opening a bagful of dicks.

Even after trolling I'm still able to bang them. I enjoy seeing how much I can push it.

(12-10-2015 04:31 PM)UnW Wrote:  Even after trolling I'm still able to bang them. I enjoy seeing how much I can push it.

That's good, you should post the number closing sequences so others can learn from it.

please format your pictures so they arent massive.
You're using imgur link.
you can add m or l to the end of your images to size them.
http://i.imgur.com/JRYtyox.jpg
http://i.imgur.com/JRYtyoxl.jpg

Example

So I´ve been following this thread for quiite a while now (only recently signed up) and wanted to give the community something back by posting a conversation from yesterday, that ended really well :-)

As I can´t post photos of her, I´ll just say she´s a good 7 or 8...

^Not saying I'm some texting guru...but that wouldn't work for most cats. Actually a lot of chicks would unmatch. Honestly I didn't find anything witty or funny...but cocky and sexually direct. Assuming you really are a former model, some girls are likely more receptive to such advances.

I do like how the girl in question mentions not being like the other chicks from the stories and then gives in after your request for a blowjob. If you adapt some of the texting advice here on the forum, you'd likely get similar(maybe better) results quicker with less work.

In case you're looking for what NOT to do, these reddit "Get your profile reviewed here!" threads are a goldmine to see what other guys are doing.

https://www.reddit.com/r/Tinder/comments...cember_12/

Just like I always say your game life should be about "doing the opposite."

Guys all have pics of themselves "doing interesting things!!" you have pictures of you drinking in nice clothes with bitches.

Guys have long "quirky" profiles? Your profile is an emoji.