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sebip 路 2015-10-29 09:06:00 路 #1883
I believe this is some kind of fucked up test in her mind because i forgot to mention that she was a virgin before, and it was a big step for her because she is new in our country, came here one month ago to college. she kinda got obssesed with me because i made a very different approach when i met her and we clicked and then i was cold all the way. And she kept telling me how guilty she feels after i fucked her, and that she needs to see a psychologist. And she was very resistant when she first came to my place she didnt even let me kiss her because she said it wasn't fair to her boyfriend even though i have kissed her before when she was drunk. It seems she likes to blame her actions on alcohol like it's an excuse
(10-29-2015 09:06 AM)sebip Wrote: I believe this is some kind of fucked up test in her mind because i forgot to mention that she was a virgin before, and it was a big step for her because she is new in our country, came here one month ago to college. she kinda got obssesed with me because i made a very different approach when i met her and we clicked and then i was cold all the way. And she kept telling me how guilty she feels after i fucked her, and that she needs to see a psychologist. And she was very resistant when she first came to my place she didnt even let me kiss her because she said it wasn't fair to her boyfriend even though i have kissed her before when she was drunk. It seems she likes to blame her actions on alcohol like it's an excuse
Look man. I find that you're already losing your focus. Look at the thread you're posting in. This about what you should text next.
sebip 路 2015-10-29 09:56:00 路 #1885
Yeah and that's why im asking what i should text next but i thought to give a little background so you can understand the situation a little better
(10-29-2015 09:56 AM)sebip Wrote: Yeah and that's why im asking what i should text next but i thought to give a little background so you can understand the situation a little better
Texting is a flirty casual interface. It should never be about deep concerns. You want to keep it light and interesting. Back it out with a quick quip.
sebip 路 2015-10-29 10:15:00 路 #1887
This is nothing deep, i just asked what should i answer after she told me she kissed 3 guys
(10-29-2015 10:15 AM)sebip Wrote: This is nothing deep, i just asked what should i answer after she told me she kissed 3 guys
"Wow. You're such a slut.. kinda getting a little turned on right now"
If she's the type who can tell you're kidding, leave it like that. If not, a wink

might help soften it
(10-29-2015 10:11 AM)etuvus_spaxus Wrote: (10-29-2015 09:56 AM)sebip Wrote: Yeah and that's why im asking what i should text next but i thought to give a little background so you can understand the situation a little better
Texting is a flirty casual interface. It should never be about deep concerns. You want to keep it light and interesting. Back it out with a quick quip.
Some my favorite responses...
"oh"
"i see"
"cool"
(In this case, I would just go with "oh").
They'll usually respond with what they're actually trying to say like "Are you mad that I kissed 3 other dudes??" (a text you ignore which sends the hamster wheel into overdrive).
You have to understand that women love to be the center of attention, so they create drama and say stupid shit. Her goal here is to prompt a response from you. That was the purpose of her text, to see if you'd get mad and jealous.
Don't play into it, especially not over text message.
sebip 路 2015-10-29 10:29:00 路 #1890
Thanks hank for the insight, i went with your advice btw i enjoyed reading "the awakening"
I just got the following reply from a girl on OKC:
so ive really never been this straight forward but im reaaaaaally attracted to you and youre tall as fuck and your suit picture is totally turning me on right now
I know I should push for the meet up ASAP but I can't. I have my daughter this weekend and I have another prospect scheduled for Monday night.
I could try to push it to Tuesday or switch nights with the first girl but I don't want this girl to cool off on me.
Suggestions?
(10-29-2015 02:37 PM)Caractacus Potts Wrote: I just got the following reply from a girl on OKC:
so ive really never been this straight forward but im reaaaaaally attracted to you and youre tall as fuck and your suit picture is totally turning me on right now

I know I should push for the meet up ASAP but I can't. I have my daughter this weekend and I have another prospect scheduled for Monday night.
I could try to push it to Tuesday or switch nights with the first girl but I don't want this girl to cool off on me. 
Suggestions?
strike while the iron is hot man
(10-29-2015 10:23 PM)pheonix500000 Wrote: (10-29-2015 02:37 PM)Caractacus Potts Wrote: I just got the following reply from a girl on OKC:
so ive really never been this straight forward but im reaaaaaally attracted to you and youre tall as fuck and your suit picture is totally turning me on right now

I know I should push for the meet up ASAP but I can't. I have my daughter this weekend and I have another prospect scheduled for Monday night.
I could try to push it to Tuesday or switch nights with the first girl but I don't want this girl to cool off on me. 
Suggestions?
strike while the iron is hot man
Seconded. The way things are these days, if you don't make this happen right away there's a 90% chance she's gone for good. Just don't show any eagerness or thirst to her while you secretly scramble to make arrangements on your end.
Indeed, find a sitter for your daughter, do what you have to do to get the bang this evening(tomorrow is halloween)
(10-29-2015 07:31 AM)sebip Wrote: Ok so here's my situation. I started seeing a girl who apparently has a boyfriend in her home country. Anyway we went out a couple of times, and one night she got drunk and let her guard down and I kissed her but didn't fuck her. A few days later I invited her to my home, she slept at my place but still didn't fuck her cause she said she was feeling very guilty. Anyway I invited her once again to my place and she finally gave in yesterday. She was feeling very guilty but at the same time she looked like she was falling in love with me. And today I got a text from her saying she went yesterday clubbing and got really drunk(after I fucked her) and that now she has some problems because apparently she found out she kissed 3 guys and they are all mad at her now. So why the fuck did she message me that? I don't like a bitch telling me how she kissed 3 different guys in the same day after I fucked her so how should I respond? I really wanna put this hoe in her place.
Just ignore her bro. Let her keep messaging you, while yoi ignore her for a few days. I gurantee you she is a hoe and has you fooled in this image that she is or was a good girl and feels bad for cheating when deep down she doesn't.
Stop falling for her tricks.
Why would a girl who already has a boyfriend and cheating on him, plus just got fucked by another guy go out clubbing then go kiss 3 random guys if she wasn't a slut.
She has so deeper issues that she is letting you know.
Stop being gullible and believing every word she says. Do not continue to waste time talking to her unless it's about setting up a time for her to come over and fuck you. Keep gaming other girls and don't look back as this girl is cheating on her boyfriend, fucking other guys besides you, and will continue to pretend that she is a good girl but blame it on the alcohol whenever she does something slutty.
Also remember to always use a condom and don't eat her out.
kaotic 路 2015-10-30 15:36:00 路 #1896
Savage is right, why feed into her validation.
Ignore that shit unless she offers to hangout with you.
She's a slut, plain and simple, and a slut's gonna slut.
Don't believe a word she says, just because she's virgin, doesn't mean she can't be a slut.
Menace 路 2015-10-30 15:38:00 路 #1897
All texting problems are solved once you have multiple girls going at once. It works like magic.
Told a girl 2end date we should chill out and like watch movies and cuddle after we both canceled a date to go out bc we're both feeling lazy and I was busy
Her: "is that your way of saying you're trying to Netflix and chill? *Laugh emoji*"
Kinda of a jokey thing but may be a subtle shit test
^
"hey, get your mind outta the gutter

"
(10-29-2015 10:15 AM)sebip Wrote: This is nothing deep, i just asked what should i answer after she told me she kissed 3 guys
"That so turns me on, when are you coming over?"
"What a coincidence, I just kissed 3 gals"
Followed by radio silence...
Balkan 路 2015-11-06 17:31:00 路 #1903
Context: Texted a girl I've banged several times to stop by after work tonight (called her earlier this week and she suggested we do something friday). I almost always take this girl out on cheap little dates like farmer's market, new cafe, local bars. I'm trying to phase out spending $$ on seeing her now and just inviting her straight over. She's a cool girl, enjoy her company but probably not LTR material. Anyways she responded
"is this a booty call? lol"
What can I say to keep her around but not come off as overly chodey/providerish?
(11-06-2015 05:31 PM)Balkan Wrote: Context: Texted a girl I've banged several times to stop by after work tonight (called her earlier this week and she suggested we do something friday). I almost always take this girl out on cheap little dates like farmer's market, new cafe, local bars. I'm trying to phase out spending $$ on seeing her now and just inviting her straight over. She's a cool girl, enjoy her company but probably not LTR material. Anyways she responded
"is this a booty call? lol"
What can I say to keep her around but not come off as overly chodey/providerish?
joke/agree and amplify:
"cuddle sesh"
"gonna cuddle you so hard"
ignore/make her qualify:
"skirt heels 8pm"
"bring wine"
Answer:
"friday fun"
(11-06-2015 05:31 PM)Balkan Wrote: ...
"is this a booty call? lol"
What can I say to keep her around but not come off as overly chodey/providerish?
"Yes"
No need to be overly clever with a girl you're already banging. Often, being direct like this can be a real panty peeler. Just don't wuss out with "jk" or anything of the sort if she balks a little
(11-06-2015 07:59 PM)BassPlayaYo Wrote: "Absolutely! LOL"
Text game fails:
1. Overly eager - Check
2. Perfect punctuation - Check
3. LOL - Check
Panty wetness level: Sahara Desert