(08-10-2015 09:32 PM)robreke Wrote:  

(08-10-2015 09:16 PM)Travesty Wrote:  ^ My guess is you met her online and didn't do a phone call before meeting?

^ Pretty much spot on:

Met her online: Check.

No phone call before meeting: Check

After reading this I'm adopting a call before we meet up policy. I got to thinking and while I still need to really go through my numbers, my initial thinking is that with the women who I had conversations with prior to meeting for the first time,my SNL rates were much higher. Not even speaking for her, but I know if I can talk with a girl before meeting I feel much more calibrated going into the date. I get a feel for how they speak, their general energy level, there's also the opportunity for callback humor when we meet in person, and it gives the whole dynamic that we've already been on a mini date prior to the first meeting.

I got home last night from visiting family and started texting with a girl I'm meeting for drinks tonight and pitched a quick call to her. We spoke for about 10 minutes and I feel like I now have a game plan for going into tonight. I also matched with a blonde 28yo later in the evening and after some good text banter went for the phone call. She enthusiastically agreed and we had a great, short conversation. We made Thursday night drink plans and I feel very confident about this one.

So bottom line, if you're going to take the time to block out hours to meet up with some girl it's certainly worth a 10 minute phone call to qualify her. And even better if you get a serious attitude from her on the phone or she's boring as a box of rocks you can next her and find something better to spend your time on.

(08-10-2015 11:02 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  A journal entry I wrote Saturday Night/Sunday Morning

Night game, it's quite interesting. This is my third time this year going to a night bar/club venue and I'm not intimated by it. I think being here has helped me overcome a lot. My buddy and I walked in like we own the spot and I see a girl checking me out immediately. I approach her, proposition her to dance but she says "I came here with my girlfriend" I look at the girl she's with and migrate through the crowd.

It's literally body to body and you have to maneuver yourself to make it to different sections of the floor. A good majority of the girls were taken...some by each other, some by their groups, and others were couples. My first dance came from a Colombian from Philly. My buy Manny opened her and a friend and we split them up. My dance game was a bit off (don't know meringue), but I got IOIs about my hair and bad dancing.

"Omg, I love your hair", "You're so funny, I like you". She was in town on Vacation and leaving Monday. I didn't go for the number and we split after dancing a couple of songs. After a rejection from an older set of spanish women, my boys and I did our own thing until I saw a cute Asian girl in a leopard print skirt and black top. I approach her and we go off to the dance floor.

After a bit, I notice that I've seen her before. She asks if we've went to the same school and ask a bit about where I'm from. Rapport is built, we grind it out on the dance floor, I get hot (sweat out my blue dress shirt), and as a repeat of the time before, her friends call her over. I rejoin my boys and look over the scene. It isn't the best night and there is no way I could pull...even if it was handed to me (unless I bang a girl in my buddy's car...or in the bushes).

I didn't get the asian girl's number but it turns out she's best friends with my buddy Rab's lady friend. We exchange pleasantries before they leave and we later split to get iHOP. I'm currently doing a lazy write-up because its 6am, I'm not dead sleepy and I want to share. So all in all...it was a great night. Danced meringue with a Colombian, had a Chinese chick grinding on me and expressing interest.

Going to take my buddy's advice and keep her as one of the longer options while continuing to talk to other girls. I think there's more to say but I'll leave at that. Oh wait, my kino game is like..totally on point. If I were a porn start I think Kino McSkeet would work. Okay, going to sleep.

TL: DR; Went out, had fun Saturday night. Ran into the hot american born Chinese chick from two weeks ago, not a lot of effort put into this journal entry, haha.

Kino McSkeet haha.. Just curious what is this latin bar you go to a lot? Is it any good? PM me if you don't want to say here. Sounds like your dance floor game is on point.

When going for a number in the bar or club, once there's enough comfort built, I just say "Hey, gimme your number so I can text you something hilarious." Then when I get her number, right then and there I literally text her the two words "Something hilarious"

Usually works great if you've got enough attraction and comfort groundwork laid down

^I'll shoot you a PM! That is a pretty decent line btw. I think one thing I do is waiting until a girl begins to leave to go for the number.

(08-11-2015 10:02 AM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(08-10-2015 09:32 PM)robreke Wrote:  

(08-10-2015 09:16 PM)Travesty Wrote:  ^ My guess is you met her online and didn't do a phone call before meeting?

^ Pretty much spot on:

Met her online: Check.

No phone call before meeting: Check

After reading this I'm adopting a call before we meet up policy. I got to thinking and while I still need to really go through my numbers, my initial thinking is that with the women who I had conversations with prior to meeting for the first time,my SNL rates were much higher. Not even speaking for her, but I know if I can talk with a girl before meeting I feel much more calibrated going into the date. I get a feel for how they speak, their general energy level, there's also the opportunity for callback humor when we meet in person, and it gives the whole dynamic that we've already been on a mini date prior to the first meeting.

I got home last night from visiting family and started texting with a girl I'm meeting for drinks tonight and pitched a quick call to her. We spoke for about 10 minutes and I feel like I now have a game plan for going into tonight. I also matched with a blonde 28yo later in the evening and after some good text banter went for the phone call. She enthusiastically agreed and we had a great, short conversation. We made Thursday night drink plans and I feel very confident about this one.

So bottom line, if you're going to take the time to block out hours to meet up with some girl it's certainly worth a 10 minute phone call to qualify her. And even better if you get a serious attitude from her on the phone or she's boring as a box of rocks you can next her and find something better to spend your time on.

I need to try this. It seems like a good way to build a connection and get a gauge for what a person is going to be like.

^ Lol wow it's like a time machine back to 2010! Crazy.

Gary Brodsky and G Manifesto know what's best.

Last Saturday night, I went to meet a girl from Tinder. She was from Venezuela and was only visiting my city, Atlanta, for the month. She didn’t have a car since she was travelling but she said her friend could drop her off at a bar 25 minutes away from me out in the suburbs. I lobbied for the bar next door to my apartment as I always do. There is nothing special about this bar at all other than the fact I live next to it, but of course I tell her it’s the BEST damn bar in the city. She hasn’t truly lived until she’s tried this amazing place. Having a bedroom a few hundred feet away from a bar is one of the best life decisions I’ve ever made. But to my disappointment, she said her friend would only take her nearby.

I got there a little before her and claimed two bar stools. The girl suddenly appears in front of my face and catches me off guard as I was distracted watching a UFC fight that was being projected on a large screen. She sits down and I begin my standard rambling. “So be honest, how many Tinder dates have you been on?” It’s funny how they usually all say the same answer of around 4-5. I now have a canned joking response of “Oh yeah me too, only like 4 or 5.. this week.”

The conversation was more interesting than average since I always enjoy hearing what it’s like in other countries. She expressed her disdain with Venezuelan government. I was surprised to learn that she had to tell her government exactly how much money she is bringing to the U.S., then she must keep all receipts and show them to the government upon returning. And any money she brings back unspent is seized by the government upon arrival.

I told her Americans know 3 things about Venezuela. Hugo Chavez, Gasoline, and season 3 of Homeland.

As the end of the date nears, I had gotten a kiss on the cheek and was going to go for a quick kiss on the lips while we were still sitting at the bar. She tells me that she had a confession to make. “My mom is here.” she tells me. “Oh, she’s outside to pick you up?” “No she’s here in the booth back there with my sister and my aunt.” She points behind me. I slowly turn around and to my surprise, spot 3 middle-aged South American women giggling and waving at me. They had been watching us the whole time.

I was a little tipsy at this point and decided what the hell, let’s go talk to them. Not talking to them would probably have given a bad impression anyways. I’m now sitting in a booth rambling with 3 Venezuelan women who have no idea what the hell I’m saying. My date sits there and translates my rambling into Spanish for her family. After 15 minutes or so I decide to call it a night. I tell them it was nice to meet everyone and I head out. She texted me later, told me I made a good impression, and we set up a date for the very next night.

The 2nd date took place at the bar next to my apartment. No familia tagging along this time and sealed the deal when I took her back to my place to watch some American TV shows that she just HAD to see. (Parks and Rec episode where the Venezuelans come to visit)

+1 for the flag count

Logistics! That's a pretty interesting situation, ha. I would of done the done the same given the situation. I'm good with talking to parents and coming off as a gentleman. How did she get over to yours for the 2nd date?

^the next day, after meeting me, her mom was comfortable dropping her off in the city to meet me. And it was earlier in the evening, around 5:30, so her mom and aunt just went shopping after they dropped her off with me.

I fucked this asian tight ass bitch so fucking hard that my dick is sore. It felt sore at first but by the next day damn it was sore, I thought I had caught something for a bit.

This soreness prevented me from fucking the MILF this weekend. I tried but I couldn't.

Went to the clinic to get checked it out and I came up clean. Doc said that the asian broad must have been too tight and I going in too hard so that was the issue.

Fuckin' asian chicks, they so tight but so fun to fuck!

Not to mention the MILF was a better fuck than the asian, the asian was a bit inexperienced and just gushed.

How to deal with this girl? She texted me that me and she should just be friends because its like were just playing games lol.

I stopped seeing her now for almost 2 weeks because she disrespected me with in front of her friends leaving me and went hom alone.

What should I reply to her and the response from her text?

I still didn't get the bang though.

I don't think text game really builds attraction, but the goal is to maintain the connection without screwing it up.

I don't brag about mine, but occasionally I drop some good stuff. Her texts on the left, mine on the right.
   

But text game should be setting up a date not to give information or not.

Don't know what to do now.

Here's just a random though that popped into my head a few days ago, what do you fellas think will happen if 80 percent of the global male population became game aware?. It'll be a cold fucking world out there. The game is seriously changing as more and more dudes are taking the red pill. I stumbled upon a dude on youtube. Calls himself the seduction coach, he's french by the way. That dude is fucking awesome. I mean it just shows you that more and more people are getting game aware. I feel we should enjoy this while it lasts.

(08-13-2015 07:06 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  Fuckin' asian chicks, they so tight but so fun to fuck!

Not to mention the MILF was a better fuck than the asian, the asian was a bit inexperienced and just gushed.

Online pull for both or cold approach?

(08-13-2015 07:06 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  Fuckin' asian chicks, they so tight but so fun to fuck!

Not to mention the MILF was a better fuck than the asian, the asian was a bit inexperienced and just gushed.

You should try an asian milf. Many of them have bodies and pussies that are just as tight as the average white girl. Some of the best sex I've ever had was from a 48yo vietnamese woman who had 3 kids. She looked her age in the face but from the neck down she could hang with any 20 something, kids or no kids. Her body was a freak of nature.

Oregon,

I highly agree with that. It's definitely getting into niche territory, though. I actually have dates with 2 of them tomorrow,

(08-13-2015 09:10 AM)dassad5a5 Wrote:  But text game should be setting up a date not to give information or not.

Don't know what to do now.

If her pussy is wet before you even arrive shit's gonna be 10 times as easy. It's not about giving out information it's all about building yourself up. Then again if you aren't good at doing it just use it for logistics.

Interesting night, asian girl I had a short date with and I texted, threw out she was free yesterday.

Another girl whose originally from the south is here every other week for work. We agreed on meeting this week.

The asian girl texts me last minute to checkout an observatory for the meteor shower, then tells me the real reason is her "friend" is having problems and needs her. AKA beta dude who she's flirting with or butthurt beta dude upset she's hanging out with me.

I straight tell her that's not cool, it's rude, I don't waste time, and she owes me drinks. She agrees and constantly apologizes.

I get home thinking, cook I'll have some time to unwind, turns out southern girl texts me and says "hey I'm here where are you ?" I immediately call her.

She thought we were hanging out yesterday, and I thought today. We get a good laugh about it, she's seems really sweet and genuine, hoping she's like that in person.

Gotta love southern charm, shame she's moving, but gives me a good window.

Also the marine date went well, and we had some perverted jokes, then we had a convo that led up to me sending a pic of blinders, whips, and cuffs. Needless to say it's on now.

Number farmed a few more digits, 2 more latin girls that are fresh in the region. Stoked on that, it's always the new girls that are more fun and easy going. That's how it was with my chicago girl, shame she wanted to get serious, glad I let that go for both our sakes.

(08-13-2015 12:31 PM)~wrIghter~ Wrote:  

(08-13-2015 07:06 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  Fuckin' asian chicks, they so tight but so fun to fuck!

Not to mention the MILF was a better fuck than the asian, the asian was a bit inexperienced and just gushed.

Online pull for both or cold approach?

Both from Online approach, both were from Seeking Arrangement.

One of them was a 2nd bang date and the other one is my regular who I fucked on her first date.

(08-13-2015 12:56 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  

(08-13-2015 07:06 AM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  Fuckin' asian chicks, they so tight but so fun to fuck!

Not to mention the MILF was a better fuck than the asian, the asian was a bit inexperienced and just gushed.

You should try an asian milf. Many of them have bodies and pussies that are just as tight as the average white girl. Some of the best sex I've ever had was from a 48yo vietnamese woman who had 3 kids. She looked her age in the face but from the neck down she could hang with any 20 something, kids or no kids. Her body was a freak of nature.

I have not tried an Asian MILF, actually I have a couple on my pipeline.

I've noticed that some older tend to have tighter pussies than girls in their 20s.

The asian I fucked was 23 and the MILF 41. I'm 23.

(08-13-2015 04:16 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  I have not tried an Asian MILF, actually I have a couple on my pipeline.

I've noticed that some older tend to have tighter pussies than girls in their 20s.

Older women get a bad rap on here but if you can find one that's got an easy going attitude and is not completely jaded, they can be just as much fun as women in their early 20's. I'm 43 and I've banged a handful of 19 year olds, an 18 year old and a ton of over 40s and from a pure sexual standpoint I haven't enjoyed one particular age group over the other. You just have to screen hard for someone that's not a pain in the ass to be around.

Yup there's 2 kinds, the old jaded manipulating ones, and the easy going fun ones who missed out on their younger days and want to relive it by banging younger dudes.

(08-13-2015 04:53 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Yup there's 2 kinds, the old jaded manipulating ones, and the easy going fun ones who missed out on their younger days and want to relive it by banging younger dudes.

Absolutely true. Every older woman that I banged for any length of time had been divorced from a longish 15+ year marriage and their kids were almost grown up. They had usually only been with their ex husband prior to divorce and they were giddy to take a ride on the carousel.

Also they are likelier to be even freakier than younger girls because by now they are totally comfortable with the sexuality and willing to 'try anything once.' Plus the ones that were always freaks before/during marriage and know they like choking and spanking and bondage.

Lately I've been messing around with WeChat to see if I can link up with any of the girls from the people near by function. So far I've been added by a few Chinese girls but I don't know how to communicate with them without using google translate. Even then the translation can be a cockblock.

Earlier I was talk to a cute asian 7, very casual "Hi", "where are you from" "coffee or tea" all done with a translator on my part. After establishing we stayed in the same city, I tried asking her to join me for coffee. She says "I was doing part-time, if you need can contact me" <translated version>. I tried asking her to text my cell # but google translated it as "Acid text me". After telling her that it was an error I tried it again using emoji...but no good.

Well on the bright side of things...I have more matches on tinder, a lead that's down to meet up when I want, and Chinese chicks that would probably be down to meet if I understood the language. Like OTSC said earlier though, my logistics situation being the way it is makes game and trying to pull chicks difficult (read: hard as fuck), like swimming with center blocks tied to my ankles lol.