Post: #1

Either its first time or not

Do you correct her or go with what she is saying?

I am not talking about where to go to lunch or something like that, i am talking about opions and ideas.

I know all the girls are self centered about them only and they think what is right is correct and so on.

as an example ...they don't do the right thing but point mistakes in others

would like to know opinion from you guys

Post: #2

Why would you correct her.

The whole time I'm talking to girl I'm thinking of how to get her back to my place or her place. I don't care if she loves Bernie or thinks the earth is flat.

Post: #3

(10-06-2018 12:22 PM)Funkbus40 Wrote:  Why would you correct her.

The whole time I'm talking to girl I'm thinking of how to get her back to my place or her place. I don't care if she loves Bernie or thinks the earth is flat.

so just agree with what ever she says...

Do you bring any new topics for discussion or let her pick one?

Post: #4

If your discussing stuff you would disagree to the point of it bothering you, you should probably avoid and switch those topics.

When dealing with conversation I shift to non-contraversal topics and even topics I can gauge the quality of the women. I tend to move the conversation to cooking or physical activities. That way I can figure out if she is more than one night stand material

Post: #5

Any conversation you have before you banged her should stay clear of strong opinions or correcting her on her opinions. You are on a mission to bang her and that is the only goal. Engaging in political discussions, her character flaws, her take on whats right or wrong, her cognitive dissonance, etc greatly increases the chances of you cockblocking yourself.

Agree and amplify, laugh it off, change the topic, anything. But do not engage.

Post: #6

The main idea is not to go head to head.
You might state that you believe otherwise, and if required, then elaborate (to some extent).

Remember that you are trying to elicit values and find common ground.

Post: #7

thanks for the replies folks.
Here is a followup question which i have seen frequently while talking with girl

I have seen girls talking about their Hypergamy acheivements meaning ( they got advantages because they are girls or have a vag)
like as an example, they met this guy who was a football player or a stock broker.
like i have dated a guy who was a some sort of big shot...

when she brings this topic at that time she might have done with that guy or getting some benefits.

how to deal with this situation

Post: #8

Poorly worded question. What I think your asking is when she talks about other guys or having sex with other guys?

Stay clear of these and if she brings them up, tell you don't care.

Post: #9

(10-07-2018 12:33 PM)Funkbus40 Wrote:  Poorly worded question. What I think your asking is when she talks about other guys or having sex with other guys?

Stay clear of these and if she brings them up, tell you don't care.

sorry I was not clear.
I was talking about her past relationships.

Post: #10

Others can chime in, when discussing past relationships you are getting friendzoned. You need to break that conversation off.

Say something along the lines of;

"The past is in the past, I'm here and let's discuss x"

" want me to charge for therapy"

"All this talk about your past leads me to think you need couple counseling"

I've been there and messed up too. What I learned is that you need to be assertive in these situations.

Post: #11

It is all about keeping the frame. Making your reality dominate. Even if you are wrong.

To put it simple;

If in your reality fairies exist and are flying about. Then that is how reality is. If the whole world disagrees then the whole world is wrong. You want to belief in fairies then that is alright. Just do not let anyone tell you that fairies do not exist.

If you keep up the frame and do not give in to the pressure other people will suddenly start to adjust to your frame. Soon they will start talking about fairies too. Soon they will pretend they even see fairies. They even start pointing at those invisible non existing fairies. It does not take long before a discussion begins about what color of fairies are the best ones.

I have made invisible pink elephants appear just by insisting they do exist. Suddenly people be pointing at non-existing elephants and wondering why they are pink. Long discussions about these strange non-existing creatures happen.

People will bend and adjust their mind towards someone with a stronger mind. Be stronger in mind and you decide what shapes reality takes. Whether it is true or not.

Post: #12

(10-07-2018 09:18 AM)Maximummax Wrote:  thanks for the replies folks.
Here is a followup question which i have seen frequently while talking with girl

I have seen girls talking about their Hypergamy acheivements meaning ( they got advantages because they are girls or have a vag)
like as an example, they met this guy who was a football player or a stock broker.
like i have dated a guy who was a some sort of big shot...

when she brings this topic at that time she might have done with that guy or getting some benefits.

how to deal with this situation

Need more specific context but

If this is a girl youve just met or haven't banged she's testing you. She's trying to see if you'll fall in line and prove yourself (in which case you've already failed).

It's likely a sign of her deep insecurity and if a she doesn't feel good about herself deep down (in spite of the facade she presents). Think about it.... She's straight up demonstrating her own worth by the value of the guy(s) willing to fuck her. That's a scared little girl looking for daddy/ strength / social stature / wealth to keep her safe (my bread and butter )

Any guy that's too into her (and reveals it by falling into her frame) is not "good enough" (How can he be since she's of so little worth?). Once this happens attraction that may have been established is almost surely going to die.

So

- Dont answer direct questions
- Pivot the conversation to where you want it to go*
- "Sexualize" the conversation (fun / flirty not awkward creepy) Dont exchange information (boring)

*Conversation if done right is foreplay to women. Like dancing you need to lead her on an emotional journey. She doesn't want to know shit...she wants to feel shit. You need to know where you want to take her