(06-14-2018 09:38 PM)Super_Fire Wrote: I'm sure there are reasons for this, no doubt stemming from millennia of most people being dirt poor, going through droughts, famines, tons of war, and competing with way too many other people, but there's no denying that a civic mentality is a new thing in these parts.
Part of the reason for this is simply the fact that China is a third world country.
The bigger question at the heart of the issue is, could China change?
I'm skeptical, because the Chinese people, their institutions and culture shows no signs of desiring change.
Every time I ride Beijing Line One during rush hour (the ancient line wasn't built large enough to accommodate proper queuing infrastructure), people constantly cut the line. No one challenges them, because the Chinese standard response is to have a massive freak-out any time anyone challenges you, especially if they are a stranger.
No one wants to take the risk of being involved in an altercation, because other strangers aren't going to step in as witnesses to defend their actions and dispute the lies the line cutter tells. The police don't waste time enforcing good social behavior -- they have bigger fish to fry, both serious crimes and various corrupt activities they are required to perform.
Japan has responded to the issue of living in an ethical vacuum by creating throughout its history, complex codes of social behavior. All that bowing has a purpose. In Japan, like everywhere in East-Asia, people rush into elevators without looking to see if someone is getting off first, even when there's a 90% chance that someone will be getting off. The Japanese solution to their selfishness and stupidity is for both the idiot rushing into the elevator and the victim they nearly trampled to bow to each other politely and go back to their day. This preserves everyone's dignity and instates a level of humanity in others.
Japan is still and dog eat dog culture at its core, which is why, despite all the bowing, bosses still are complete assholes to their subordinates, but at least they do it in a way that doesn't cause anyone else to feel entirely dehumanized.
The Chinese solution to encountering a person attempting to get off an elevator while rushing on to it, is to pretend that the other person does exist and keep forcing your way ahead, expecting that others bend to your will and find some way around you.
Korea is just a clusterfuck of stubborn personalities, a preference for violent responses to any provocation and no creative capabilities. There's a reason why the country has been in a civil war for 70 odd years. Even China figured out that a Communist system with a command economy and controlling every aspect of everyone's life wasn't working, but N.Korea stubbornly presses on, even as thousands starve. S.Korea got a lot of help from the US in pointing them in the right direction, but have a distinctly unhappy local population, so unhappy that many N.Korean escapees are driven to depression by the S.Korean lifestyle.
It's true that the US has been a real dick as a superpower, but the country has gotten along famously with its allies. China has gotten along terribly with its allies, because the idea of a mutual good is absent from the East-Asian mentality on life.
Kim Jung Un would rather starve half his population to death and waterboard the other half than experience even the slightest tinge of loosing.
The best deal Trump can make will be to pay N.Korea to behave so that China can no longer use N.Korea as a bargaining chip.