Post: #101

(02-14-2016 04:56 AM)Travesty Wrote:  Am I the only one that thinks the advice worth taking for serious relationships with women would be men with 20 year+ successful marriages with no cheating and multiple well-raised kids with a spark still there?

A lot of this is like watching Nickelodeon. Like a dentist talking about heart surgery.

There should almost be a separate thread on this.

Post: #102

(02-13-2016 11:51 AM)Belgrano Wrote:  

(02-12-2016 06:09 AM)Giovonny Wrote:  You start to think that all women are just like the porn stars.

When in reality, most women are only porn stars for a handful of guys, not for "countless dudes".

Let's be realistic here, it's not even that.
Most women are not like pornstars at all, and never will be.
The vast majority of them, and men too, is just bad at sex.

It's not an art to them, not that important, not deserving of too much thought. On the same scale as eating and drinking. It doesn't need to be haute cuisine to be enjoyable, in fact a lot of people are perfectly content with stuffing themselves with questionable fast food and be done with it. Why would sex be any different?

I agree with Gio and think there's a bias here.
The men on this forum and many of the women we hook up with and hear stories about belong already to the top 5% globally when it comes to sexual activity. People for whom sex is almost like a hobby, who enjoy it, or are even obsessed with it, devote a huge part of their time to pursuing it, and often strive to improve their skills. Compared to most other humans in this world, we are deviants. Our sex lives are not representative at all and very far removed from the average human experience.

There's hundreds of millions of girls out there that in terms of sexuality are honest, naive Goody Two-Shoes to pick from for a man, should he desire something like that. They are far more abundant than the sluts who can only thrive under very special circumstances and selected cultural environments, and even then are a minority. Just leave the urban Western bubble and you'll see. There's really no need to worry.

Friend, those women will ALL BE WESTERNIZED within the next 10-15 years.

Post: #103

(02-10-2016 01:18 PM)yeppels Wrote:  I have a question to you guys about good vibes.

What kind of mindset are you in when you put off good vibes?

My mindset?

- Appreciative
- Fun loving
- At peace
- Non-needy
- Humorous
- Thankful
- Playful

(02-10-2016 01:18 PM)yeppels Wrote:  How do you have this state without the environment around you influencing you?

A fun environment helps.. But, I practice being in a positive, fun, mindset no matter what environment I am in.

We must practice mind and thought control.

We can not always be a slave to our thoughts and feelings.

We must take control of our experience.

I literally practice being playful and at peace.

Life is a mind game.

(02-10-2016 01:18 PM)yeppels Wrote:  Does it just come naturally from being a happy and satisfied person? I.e. good health, sexually active, successful career/moneymaking prospects etc?

Being happy and satisfied can help a lot.

Having a good life can help a lot.

But, some guys have a shitty life and are not even that happy, HOWEVER.. When they get around girls they can still find sexual success because they have a good look and they know how to communicate with girls in a flirty, non needy way.

So, having a happy life can help -- but it doesn't guarantee success with women.

So, it just depends on your ability to game.

(02-08-2016 08:09 PM)Taco Illusionist Wrote:  as a newbie how would I transition this mindset into my practical interactions with women?

When I was a newbie, I didn't understand any of this shit..

Now that I've had a few years of experience, My advice would be this:

- Continue to fine tune your look. Present the sexy, dominant version of yourself, not the politically correct, mild mannered version of yourself. Don't be afraid to be edgy.

- Don't be serious with women. Be playful and flirty.

- Sex is not a big deal. Talk about sex casually and playfully with women.

- Don't ever appear judgmental. Sex is fun and normal.

- Talk to a few attractive girls a day. This will give you valuable experience.

- Smile more.

- Use humor.

(02-08-2016 08:09 PM)Taco Illusionist Wrote:  Is it simply a case of 'as you think you shall become'

No.

Things do not happen by accident.

Thinking is not enough.

We must take the right action at the right time.

We must dress right, speak right, act right, walk right, etc.

(02-08-2016 08:09 PM)Taco Illusionist Wrote:  Are there certain actions or words you would do/say at certain points during a date/interaction which help trigger this?

Yes, of course.

Being playful with she talks about sex.

Never showing judgmental body or facial language.

Encouraging her sexual freedom.

Talking openly about your sex life.

Talking about other peoples sex life.

Never making a big deal about sex.

Etc.

(02-13-2016 11:51 AM)Celtic_Austrian Wrote:  Most women are not like pornstars at all, and never will be.

The vast majority of them are just bad at sex.

I agree.

I've been with many young women.

Most of them were not like pornstars.

Many of the college girls I am with have very little experience with wild porn star type of sex.

Many of them have never done anal. Many of them give bad blowjobs. Many of them don't want to swallow cum or even take a facial. Many of them have very little experience being tied up.

(02-12-2016 07:21 AM)Mr. Pink Wrote:  You think the number of attractive college graduates with multiple partners is less than 90%?

That is not the question I was addressing...

I was addressing these statements about college girls:

(02-01-2016 08:52 AM)Mr. Pink Wrote:  she's been fucked repeatedly in every orifice, tied up, choked, and had her face glazed by countless dudes

(02-11-2016 08:58 AM)Mr. Pink Wrote:  a woman has been throatfucked and glazed by multiple guys

(02-12-2016 12:17 AM)Mr. Pink Wrote:  a woman who has gagged on multiple cocks and been fucked in the ass repeatedly.

In my experience, most attractive college girls do not have this much sexual experience.

I have been with nearly 100 college girls.

Some were absolute freaks but many of them were quite inexperienced sexually.

To say that 90% of attractive college girls have been "fucked repeatedly in every orifice, tied up, choked, and had her face glazed by countless dudes" is an extreme exaggeration. (based on my data)

Forgive me if that is not the point you were trying to make.

Again, taking the "red pill" sometimes causes guys to become to extremist in their view of women. They think all women want porn star sex. Don't forget, many parts of America are still religious, most parents raise their daughters to be sexually conservative, kinky sex is still taboo, etc.

So, my point is -- attractive college girls will become a porn star for the right guy -- but -- to think that 90% of attractive college girls are whores on the level of porn stars in simply not true, based on my experience.

Post: #104

Reading through the feedback the key seems to be that you need to make a woman feel comfortable around you. You do this through light-hearted, fun and non-judgemental interactions. Nothing intimate will ever happen between two people if they are not comfortable around one another. Non-judgement also translate to trust and respect, both of which are vital ingredients of true attraction.

This easier said than done though, because I feel many younger guys and girls are raised with a great deal of sexual shame in today's society where even the very nature of a man and woman communicating in a sexually free manner is seen as taboo, let alone acting like a pornstar behind closed doors.

It comes to the point where many gen Y's are at opposite ends of the spectrum: either sexually shy or sexually hyperactive. AB actually touched on this a few months back (ps he's been noticeably absent of late?). There are very few people with a healthy, balanced sense of sexuality.

Post: #105

(02-12-2016 11:12 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Do I step back into my own thread to attempt to course correct, or do I realize that "my" thread is a lie that I tell myself?

That everything I've written, or rather the ideas that it generates from others really should just go the way that they want.

Can you ever own an idea? An interpretation?

WIA

It's a shame, if I'm tracking you correctly I like the idea you started with and I think it deserves exploration.

Correct me if I'm wrong but I think your original intent was to remind guys that girls are inherently sexual beings - they are human after all. Women have sex available to them all the time but are kept in check by how society views them and how they view themselves. The secret to tapping that sexual desire is to recognize the bonds that are holding it back and working with them to free them from it. That's admittance to the secret society.

It doesn't mean every girl, or even most, have engaged in whatever depths of depravity you can imagine, but chances are they've imagined and fantasized about things most men can't even fathom. As men we restrict our sexual desires due to lack of access. I don't imagine all the deviant shit I'd naturally want to do because just getting laid is hard enough. Women don't have to work as hard for sex, it's not as exciting on its own for them, so they go deeper with the fantasies. What holds them back isn't a lack of willing partners but a lack of acceptable ones.

Or maybe this is just me taking your ideas for myself and passing them on for others to consume as they wish.

Post: #106

It's a shame I was over the top in the language I used because grouping those quotes together and dropping the rest of the context makes me come off as a nutjob and and makes a joke of the point I was trying to make. I'm not nearly as experienced as you but I did bang around 20 girls my age between my high school years and early 20's before I left the US and many more than that since I left. Like yours, my sample size includes a few different types of girls including both freaks and the more wholesome, "pure" types; even two virgins.

All I'm trying to say is this; there is nothing unique about doing things like blasting on a girl, having her deepthroat you, anal, or light bondage. Based on my own experiences and the anecdotal experiences of my sexually successful friends, this is pretty much standard. I personally have only had a few girls not down for anal. And I'm just one dude with average game at best, average height, and a decent physique. Again, I'm not saying that there's anything wrong with a woman having these fantasies and being sexually free, I'm just asking how heavily you're weighing her previous sexual encounters when you're deciding whether or not to commit to a woman and start a family. Getting more notches won't ever be a problem for me no matter where I am in the world, it's the prospect of finding a good woman 10 years from now to pump out and mother 5+ well-adjusted kids and grow old with that's a little more concerning. The way I see it, 10 more years of the current trajectory in the social and sexual climate doesn't exactly bode well for the family life.

Anyways, none of that is relevant to the thread and is unimportant to the majority so I'll just thank you for the great advice you've put out, especially about rocking a more playful vibe, and bow out.

Post: #107

(02-12-2016 11:12 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Do I step back into my own thread to attempt to course correct, or do I realize that "my" thread is a lie that I tell myself?

That everything I've written, or rather the ideas that it generates from others really should just go the way that they want.

Can you ever own an idea? An interpretation?

WIA

If you feel like someone is ruining the message you're getting across it'll only cause more harm not to correct them.

Most of us here are students here trying to figure out the world. Usually that leads to dead ends and misinterpretations. If anything we would like to be called wrong, corrected, and enlightened.

Post: #108

I especially enjoyed the talk about girls getting "glazed". There's just something hilarious about using that word like that, like she's a donut or something.

Post: #109

(02-16-2016 10:56 AM)Samseau Wrote:  Let us not forget unfunded liabilities, i.e. social security and pensions.

That's not debt. Congress can change or welsh on that anytime they want. CF. US SC Griswold case. It's already happened before. First they will eliminate the SS cap on earnings. Then they will remove rich people from the rolls. Then cut benefits. Rinse repeat.

Quote:Combined with student loans, credit card debts, and mortgages, the debt is absolutely overwhelming.

So you seem tototally fail to understand what Net Worth is. You shouldn't argue this with professionals. So, I'll try again:

US CITIZENS HAVE $85 TRILLION, THAT'S $85,000,000,000,000.00 NET OF ALL DEBTS.

Net of debts = Net Worth. Assets - Liabilities = Net Worth. The value of homes NET of the mortgage. The money in the bank NET of credit cards and all loans. The value of stocks and funds NET of all margin or borrowing. I mentioned all this specifically in my reply, but you chose to ignore that. One wonders why.

A man would admit he was completely wrong and move on from the topic. This is not a debate. This is not my opinion. This is cold, hard facts you can find in 0.2 seconds on Google

I understand if you didn't know the Griswold case but it is pretty relevant to your handwringing in the thread.

Everyone's entitled to their own opinion, but not their own facts.

Post: #110

Is it possible that players get flaked on more than non-players, because girls have an intuitive sense that one is in on it, the girls kinda want it, but they've been societally pressured against such behavior and get jitterbugs at the door?

Post: #111

(03-01-2016 03:42 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  Is it possible that players get flaked on more than non-players, because girls have an intuitive sense that one is in on it, the girls kinda want it, but they've been societally pressured against such behavior and get jitterbugs at the door?

Players get flaked on more because they ask out more girls.

Post: #112

I want to share one more story about the "Secret Society"...

7 years ago, when my game was weak, I got invited into the "secret society" -- But, I lacked the social-sexual awareness to recognize it. I didn't have the experience, I didn't have the "killer instinct", I was scared and nervous, I was not ready to "see the matrix"!

A beautiful girl asked me if I wanted to fuck, but, I didn't know how to respond!

I was frozen by inexperience. I was paralyzed by my beta tendencies. I was uncomfortable in that moment.

--

I was having dinner with friends and associates. Towards the end of the night, a sexy latina who was a friend of a friend asked me if I wanted to join her back at her hotel!

I couldn't believe what she said! A beautiful girl had never invited me back to her hotel room before!!! I thought that maybe she was joking around with me or that I didn't hear her correctly!!

It made me slightly uncomfortable because I didn't know how to respond!!!

I sort of laughed it off as if she was joking.

She looked at me dead serious and said -- "you're not telling me what I want to hear"

She was asking me if I wanted to fuck, she was telling me that she wanted to fuck me!

I was not ready to communicate on her level. She was beautiful and sexy, I was a game newbie.

I was simply not ready. I couldn't see what she was doing. I couldn't "see the matrix". I wasn't ready to join the society.

I didn't take her statements seriously, I nervously laughed them off, I showed her that I was NOT part of the society.

I gave her a hug and said good night.

--

She probably thought that I didn't like her, or she thought I was gay, or she thought I was just stupid.

It took me a few years to fully realize what happened that night.

I got invited in by a beautiful girl but I didn't even realize it.

Often times, the invitations are subtle and even non-verbal -- a look, a glance, a touch.. A little question or statement... Eye contact, an invitation to hang out, a coy smile, a harmless, innocent looking gesture...

Any of these things can be an invitation to join..

I was not ready to receive my first invitation.

It me years of hard work in order to reprogram my brain.

Finally, after nearly 7 years of approaching girls, texting girls, dating girls, banging girls, going after hotter and younger girls, etc. Finally, I received another invitation, this time I was ready for it. This time, I was able to recognize it.

Now, I get invited a few times a year.

Now, I am a member.

But, 7 years ago, I was just another beta newbie wandering aimlessly.

It does feel good.

I just wanted to share that.

Post: #113

^ same thing happened to me a couple years ago at a club except I took the girl into a corner and whipped my dick out before getting into a cab and then going to her place to BANG. She made me breakfast the next morning. ^_^

Post: #114

Thinking about printing out this entire thread and posting it on my wall lol.

Post: #115

(04-13-2016 12:34 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  I was having dinner with friends and associates. Towards the end of the night, a sexy latina who was a friend of a friend asked me if I wanted to join her back at her hotel!

I couldn't believe what she said! A beautiful girl had never invited me back to her hotel room before!!! I thought that maybe she was joking around with me or that I didn't hear her correctly!!

It made me slightly uncomfortable because I didn't know how to respond!!!

I sort of laughed it off as if she was joking.

She looked at me dead serious and said -- "you're not telling me what I want to hear"

HAHAHA oh Gio, what a long way you've come. I could say that when I was in school I was that clueless, but out of school I do think I could've caught that lob.

It was practically on a silver platter for you.

Just goes to show you that women can be very forward when the time is right and they really dig your look/style/way you carry yourself.

Here's my story that you may enjoy. It's not exactly a secret society invite, but I was stunned (almost too much to even recover) that this FWB I had even suggested that I should pursue a gorgeous girl RIGHT AFTER I finished fucking the FWB (and told me not to even walk her to her car).

Nuts. I look forward to being a Secret Society member next time I'm not in a LTR. Such a change from my childhood indoctrination.

Post: #116

(03-01-2016 03:42 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  Is it possible that players get flaked on more than non-players, because girls have an intuitive sense that one is in on it, the girls kinda want it, but they've been societally pressured against such behavior and get jitterbugs at the door?

For some reason, I always vision a girl getting fucked by some other guy whenever a flake occurs. I know that at least a quarter of the time, it's for a legit reason. But I'm one of those guys who thinks the average girl, especially an average American slut, is getting fucked senseless by some guy on a nightly basis.

I had a girl flake on me last night after she insisted on coming to my spot. An hour later, she was at the bar with her female friend with her friend having to take her home because she was too drunk. She lives with her parents who rent out to some other guy, so my mind immediately assumes she was getting dicked down that night by the renter. Needless to say, I was pissed that entire night. And apparently, I live in a state where girls are so uptight, 1am is too late to "chill".

EDIT: And I didn't even realize I was reviving a thread. But this thread is highly underrated. Getting into the psyche of girls when it comes to legitimizing sex as a natural desire is a very powerful strategy. I can't stand how guys mainly demonize the same act many of them bitch about not getting enough of, hence making it difficult for all of us. Slut shaming is one of the worst things a man can do, not for the same reasons SJWs go after slut shaming, but for a man, he's dwindling his own odds of having a healthy sex life. Some of the best times of my life was when I spent entire days and weekends banging a girl whose company I enjoyed, even if they were just fuckbuddies.

Maybe I crave sex too much, albeit I do get a high off of it.

Post: #117

(03-01-2016 03:42 PM)XPQ22 Wrote:  Is it possible that players get flaked on more than non-players, because girls have an intuitive sense that one is in on it, the girls kinda want it, but they've been societally pressured against such behavior and get jitterbugs at the door?

Typical guy needs very clear sign to anything, whether it's approach invitation or some sort of green light from a girl when he wants to go on a date with that girl.

Players don't bother with such things too much. Players just go. Therefore they get flaked on way more cause they chase more girls at once and they also tend to follow through with girls even when chances are low as they think they can flip them once they meet up.

So yeah, when you tell average guy how many rejections or flakes you get he'll most probably laugh at you even though he sucks at game. He pulls the trigger when, to us, it's already too late so his chances are high.

Post: #118

Part of it is that high-status girls want to fuck guys other high-status/pretty girls are fucking, or surrounded by such women. Pre-selecting is huge. Combine that with non-judgement and someone who looks like they know what they're doing and you can get from A to Z in a hurry.

Post: #119

(11-14-2016 10:06 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  Part of it is that high-status girls want to fuck guys other high-status/pretty girls are fucking, or surrounded by such women. Pre-selecting is huge. Combine that with non-judgement and someone who looks like they know what they're doing and you can get from A to Z in a hurry.

That's representative of the results we've been getting from our party game experiments. Not all girls are DTF (if they came in a group, it can be hard to separate them for the bang).

However, if any girl stays behind for any reason (to help clean up, everyone gradually left and she was too distracted to notice), it's a given that she will fuck you if you're the host.

The key factor here is that the party has to be cool and have it's fair share of women.

Arado has been running party game in Guangzhou and has had excellent results with pussy that he hadn't even paid attention to all night literally falling into his lap.

Post: #120

I don't know if this counts as a 'secret society' thing. Over the weekend I was talking to a group of people at a party. Trump came up. I usually try very hard not to be political at parties, but one of the guys starts white knighting in front of the girls about the 'grab them by the pussy' thing. I laughed and said that he was mad if he didn't think girls did this stuff all the time, and mentioned that I'd been grabbed by the dick quite a few times by random chicks in bars and clubs. The girls giggled, and we changed the subject. Before the end of the evening both girls came up to me together and asked for my number so that we could hang out. They've both been texting me pretty constantly since, making lots of comments about grabbing my dick next time we hang out.

Post: #121

(11-12-2016 01:04 PM)SuS Wrote:  For some reason, I always vision a girl getting fucked by some other guy whenever a flake occurs. I know that at least a quarter of the time, it's for a legit reason. But I'm one of those guys who thinks the average girl, especially an average American slut, is getting fucked senseless by some guy on a nightly basis.

That's essentially my default position when I go in cold to a date with any "single" online girl in her late 20s or early 30s. She's giving it up casually to someone else while in the meantime looking for a material/emotional provider boyfriend. The couple girls I've seen regularly over the past year might not exactly frame their "online dating experience" in that way, but it's pretty clear if you read between the lines that's the way they're operating.

She's dating. She's sexually active. She's getting banged by somebody at least semi-regularly, even if she claims to be "single." It would be foolish to assume otherwise. The only wiggle room is that some girls have lower sex drives, so Chad might only show up twice a month instead of twice a day. Still.

Sometimes the more honest/dumber ones will even be kind enough to mention this to you in their profiles. "I'm not looking for sex, I can get sex anytime I want, I'm looking for a relationship." Indeed, indeed.

My online game goal is simply to convince her that I'm a better option for casual fucking than whatever other guy she's currently casually fucking; I'm not running a lot of "provider game" here hoping I might get the Iay six dates later when she decides I'm possible boyfriend/husband material. I'm a fairly successful guy but I do my best to deflect around any work/job/income related questions. For many of the girls I meet, I could be homeless for all they know. In fact I think I might tone that back a little bit - could help me.

I do get blown out a lot by online girls because I think that's finally a tough sell for a player, particularly in the 27-35 demo which is the demo that I get the most dates with. By that age girls are conscious about their notch count, and if they're looking for the casual dicking they're more than likely going to go back to a known quantity than look for the devil they don't know. That's the way it played out over the summer when the main girl I was seeing started seeing another guy regularly. It wasn't some new dude from Tinder, but a prior.

My instinct that by the time girls are that age you have to go in guns blazing as something extraordinary for her to consider the possibility of adding a new fuckbuddy and a new notch to the rotation. I'm actually somewhat pleased that I've done as well as I have, though by comparison to some younger guys here who are banging younger chicks it doesn't seem particularly impressive. The shitty part is that I know at least some of these chicks I didn't hear from again likely knew I was going to be way more fun than whoever it was. But for whatever reason they just couldn't convince themselves that the new was a better option than the old. Whether this is a failing of my game, or something mostly up to chance I don't know. One could make the argument that I just didn't make the sale hard enough, and I suppose that's fair.

It's also why I don't have a lot of patience for going on date after date with no action. If she hasn't binned me within two dates then she's probably a time-waster and hopeless she ever will, or she's binned me in the wrong category and it's going to be an uphill grind that could probably be better spent hitting up new chicks.

Even three dates is really too much, by the end of date two if it seems like she's still ambivalent about sex I'm starting to think real hard about packing it in. All of the girls I'e seen regularly in the past year+ except one have been down for the bang within an average of two. And the chances that a girl will even respond to my follow-up/restart texts if sex didn't happen first time out are not great anyway.

TLDR: Women likely prefer to bang known quantities, and the squares they know and the players they don't are the known quantities.

Post: #122

(11-14-2016 10:33 PM)Suits Wrote:  

(11-14-2016 10:06 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  Part of it is that high-status girls want to fuck guys other high-status/pretty girls are fucking, or surrounded by such women. Pre-selecting is huge. Combine that with non-judgement and someone who looks like they know what they're doing and you can get from A to Z in a hurry.

That's representative of the results we've been getting from our party game experiments. Not all girls are DTF (if they came in a group, it can be hard to separate them for the bang).

However, if any girl stays behind for any reason (to help clean up, everyone gradually left and she was too distracted to notice), it's a given that she will fuck you if you're the host.

The key factor here is that the party has to be cool and have it's fair share of women.

Arado has been running party game in Guangzhou and has had excellent results with pussy that he hadn't even paid attention to all night literally falling into his lap.

Party Game is indeed a great cousin of Last Man Standing Game. Drinks, everyone leaving, man and woman are left behind, sex is on the menu.

Of course if you're the host it's so much the better!

Any guy that doesn't have more women than men at his party is doing it wrong. When it's guys night out don't invite them, otherwise it should be a minimum of 60% girls.

Post: #123

XPQ, I've noticed a subgroup of women I call 'camels.' Rather than have FWB 2x a month with Chad, they can go 4-7 months until they find a guy they want to fuck - doesn't have to be a relationship but can be a new FWB. I think this is more common with attractive girls who aren't too desperate for male attention.

Let's face it, they all watch porn and have vibrators.

Agreed that if a girl cancels on you, 4/5 times it's another guy.

We need to come up with a specific name for girls on the rebound who sleep with every guy in sight. Anteaters?

Post: #124

(11-15-2016 07:34 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  Party Game is indeed a great cousin of Last Man Standing Game. Drinks, everyone leaving, man and woman are left behind, sex is on the menu.

Of course if you're the host it's so much the better!

Any guy that doesn't have more women than men at his party is doing it wrong. When it's guys night out don't invite them, otherwise it should be a minimum of 60% girls.

Last Man Standing Game seems anti-game. Would you break it down?

The whole point of being the party host is that you have a lot of social proof and are clearly shown to be fun.

Last Man Standing is usually someone with negative attributes (didn't find something better to leave for, didn't get a girl already, didn't have anything better to do. The only thing that you have positive is perseverance for getting laid, but too much focus on that will dry things up quick.

What am I missing?

Post: #125

(11-15-2016 07:34 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  Any guy that doesn't have more women than men at his party is doing it wrong. When it's guys night out don't invite them, otherwise it should be a minimum of 60% girls.

I'm a firm believer in getting more chicks to come out than dudes, but 60%(maybe give 5%) is generally the most you can get reasonably and, honestly, for practical reasons. Unless you're filthy rich of course.

If chicks come to a party and see a lot more chicks than dudes then all they'll do is start yapping with each other about how they know the host or know you the guy who brought them. Then having them essentially lez out over each other but do anything but fuck. Doesn't create a conducive environment. Not to mention I've seen several dudes be considered the beta friendzone bitch after doing just this. This scenario being for American chicks not sure how it would play out abroad.

And for practical logistical reasons. Women don't bring shit to a party. You'd be lucky if she even brings a single bottle of liquor which she'll only share between her friends. Guys bring out booze and lots of it. It's expected and you're a dick if you're not bringing 2 chicks if you're coming alone+a 6 pack, bringing 3 six packs or a 48 pack of shit beer if coming alone without girls, or bringing people with 2:3 ratio guys to girls with a 6 pack for every guy in the group capping at 6 six packs for a group(bottle of liquor is considered equivalent to 3 six packs of good beer). Also adjust amount of booze to be brought to the level of a party. This would be the standard expected at a damned fucking good party with good ratios. I bring less to something average and generally just a single girl to something subpar.


And on a side note: Last man standing "game" is anti-game. My policy is always first to show up last to leave out of courtesy to help clean up or because I want to keep partying(usually both every time), but there's already a girl on my arm or I've fucked her by the end of the night. Being the last guy standing means you end up with the fattie if you're lucky.