Post: #51

(12-08-2015 03:42 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(06-16-2014 09:08 PM)The Lizard of Oz Wrote:  Interesting thread.

I think some of the guys posting here are overlooking a resource staring you right in the face:

Find posters on the forum who live in your area and are of similar age or have shared interests -- or just posters that you think you you might enjoy hanging out with. Get in touch with them through PMs or the "meetups" subforum and see if you can make new friendships with like-minded men.

My thoughts exactly - though the similar interests and age aren't even exactly mandatory. A lot of guys from this forum have already met and begun the types of lifelong friendships all you guys here are complaining about not being able to find after your teens. And these with guys who likely don't even live in the same city or country, so if you live in a big city with other members, there's a lot of potential.

I'm not even into pickup, but I've met quite a few members, and I find the personalities as you read them on the forum are very transferable to real life. The good parts and the little personality quirks. So if a guys seems like someone you would respect and vibe with and he has no hangups that rub you really wrong, take the time to go meet him.

I'll also add that I think one mistake guys make is wanting to meet a friend that "ticks all the boxes" for them. You're not looking for a wife here that's going to share your home and bed and help you raise your children.

I have actually built quite a few friendships that have lasted over the years throughout my twenties and early thirties. Now, I don't see these guys a lot because I'm always moving somewhere new, but we still stay in touch, and from time to time I meet up with them when we get the chance and nothing has changed. I'm as close with some as people I grew up with back home.

But here's the thing. I don't agree with every single thing these guys say or do or the way they live their lives. Some have downright pissed me off at times. They are extremely diverse, and in fact, a lot of them probably wouldn't get along very well with each other.

Life is too short and you're going to make yourself miserable if you expect people to always behave and think the way you want them to. Friendship is not about meeting a replica of yourself, and we all know the world is not that simple; it's about living and "working together" in spite of your differences (but without sacrificing your basic moral beliefs).

Some of my friends are young, just coming out of high school. Some of my friends are past retirement age. Some are rich. Some are poor as fuck. Some look like they're in the military and some are rocking dreds. Some are drinking themselves to death, and I'm still waiting to see if they'll snap out of it; some are born again Christians hooked on coffee (and maybe I'm waiting for them to snap out of it too). Some are thai or Cambodian - some are American or Norwegian. Some are traveling the world and walking life's jagged edge - others are married with children and will probably sit right there in the same place they are until the day they die. Hell, a couple are even women.

Maybe that sounds like a lot of friends. I'm sure some of you might think I'm counting acquaintances, but I'm not. Yeah, maybe they wouldn't all help me bury a body, but I don't plan on stacking up any bodies any time soon, and these are people I could turn to in an emergency. Many would and have invited me to stop wandering around and come live in their homes or their hometowns for a while and start building a normal life. If I come to their city, I often do stay in their homes when I first arrive.

So, these are real friends, and while my lifestyle choices might lead to us drifting apart for good eventually (we are, after all, scattered across the globe), I don't doubt a good handful will continue to reach out from time to time to touch bases until we're old and grey. Which ones really make it the long haul will probably depend on where I end up settling down.

I do have some very basic criteria if I'm going to establish a deeper friendship with someone, though.

They have to be a moral person - i.e. they don't take advantage of other people or steal from people, and they'd be very likely to help out if they saw someone in a dire situation. I mean, I can't even really be a casual friend with someone if they don't have a strong moral base.

I can't really stomach hardcore pessimists either. They're too damn bitter and often use negative paradigms as an excuse for immoral, self-serving behavior. It's easy to fuck other people over if you decide all the "other people" are shitbags....

Also, they actually have to be a genuine person you can have a real conversation with. I'm met a lot of surface-level shallow people that seemed like they were interesting underneath their masks - a lot of these people I've liked because they were fun guys to hang out with and because they know how to play the game. But it's too hard to build a real friendship with someone if they can't cut the bullshit and open up a little bit.

Here's another thing about making friends. If you want to build a friendship with someone new, you've got to be able to tune out the world for a minute. When you meet up with a new acquaintance, do you just run from club to club looking for a target-rich environment where you can hit on club sluts?

Sure, that's fun, but it doesn't leave much time for actually getting to know each other, does it?

I think a lot of guys who struggle to make friends aren't taking the time to slow down and just kick back and bullshit and let the world pass on by. So you've got to ask yourself - are you the one who is always cutting the conversation short to hurry along to the next venue? Are you the one with his head buried in his phone, texting with the latest crop of girls and running off to the next date or bang? As I said, I've met a lot of guys here, and I can assure quite a few definitely are.

Or are you willing to set the phone down for a minute and just kick back in a dead restaurant or bar or over the barbecue or on a hike in the mountains without worrying what all the other people in the world are doing? Again, some of you definitely are.

See, anyone can run around slamming shots with you all night and chasing pussy, but if you run into someone who can sit around all night with you smoking shisha or sipping beers and just talking about everything and nothing - and there are a lot more out there than you think if you yourself can slow down enough to pay attention to the person who's sitting right in front of you - and they're not a sleazy person who uses others, you've run into someone that at least has the potential to become a friend for life. So pay attention to them for a second.

I also wrote a blog post and mentioned in a post here on the forum recently about resisting the urge to seek out those perfect (surface level) social situations in everyday life. The same is true for deeper friendship. We want to meet that perfect new friend like we want to run into that perfect 10 with a perfect personality. So we ignore everyone else and put ourselves on "standby" until that happens. After all, you want to be free to engage when you stumble across that perfect 10 sitting all by herself or that crowd of well-connected cool people just waiting to add to someone to their group...right?

But when you start to open up to people and appreciate them for who they really are, you'll often find the most unassuming people around you in everyday life are the ones with the real potential. They often live a lot wilder, more enriched lives than you might think too.

You ignore the 6 staring at you across the bar with those cock-gobbling eyes. You meet a guy and you want to skim right over him because he looks like this average guy and not all that exciting at the surface level. But you know what, just like sometimes the hottie who has everything handed to her is the most boring lay and worse conversationalist, some of the "coolest" people in the world I've met, who have the best package on the outside, are also the least fun to be with. The least real. The least happy. The least honest and dependable. I've lost patience with those types; delete them from your life if they can't get on your level.

And often the happiest, most authentic, most exciting, most enjoyable, and most engaging people are the ones you'd be liable to pass right over and ignore because you're looking for a friendship with "more to offer." So I guess it's true what they say about not judging a book by its cover.

Yes, you need some common ground. Yes, you need mutual respect.

But you don't need twin personalities and lifestyles to build a relationship with that kind of person for the long haul, and if you think you do, you may just be setting the bar a bit too high.

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(03-30-2012 11:40 PM)Excelsior Wrote:  Darwinism, thy name is western woman!

No, seriously-the teachings of Darwin are alive and well. The only difference now is that instead of being pushed forward by nature's environmental factors, natural selection is being marshaled on by women themselves. They truly are their own worst enemy.

Think about what it takes for an attractive woman to remain single into her mid-30's. At 35, Ms. Jane Doe has spent almost two decades playing around.

Sure, she could have had a man by now. Hell, she could have had a dozen or so. Back when she was the hot 18 year old freshman, men drooled over her. She just needed to set foot in a frat basement or a mall in order to solicit the attention of high value men. She required no game, or other such efforts-her mere presence was enough. The same was true at 20, 21, and 24. Hell, even during her late 20's she was still attractive. Good men were available. Good men were willing to take her, and make her their queen. They wanted to give her a family, love, and all of the other trappings that (now at age 35) she says she wants.

But she didn't want any of that. Why? Oh, there were many reasons. Firstly, she couldn't let a man steal her golden years. She needed to finish her sociology degree over at Wellesley, do study abroad a few times, go to grad school, and sample a number of attractive men. How could she do that if she let just one in, and gave herself to him? He would lock her down for good. No, that wouldn't do. If she did settle, he'd need to be perfect.

Attractive as she was, she found a couple of Mr. Perfects during her prime. Tall, affluent, and handsome, they constituted the bulk of the few relationships she actually maintained during this period. They gave her validation and plenty of good dick-it seemed each time that she'd won the game after all. If she was going to give herself at all, it would be to them.

But invariably, they left. She failed to realize that such men have many options beyond her own flawed self. She could hold the attention of these elite males for a short while, but she could not fend off the rest of womanhood (to which such a man has easy, abundant access) for long. Attractive as she was, she would lose the battle to other similar women (each easily as beautiful as she), and again end up single.

Burned by the failure to snag the alpha male time and time again, one would assume that Ms. Doe would learn to perhaps adjust her standards accordingly. Even during the tail end of her prime (after several of these alpha males had passed), she still had good men waiting around. They wanted her. Sure, they weren't as tall, buff or rich as Mr. Perfect, but some of them were cute, and they wanted her.

But she did not want them. They were too short, too boring, and far from affluent enough to provide the lifestyle she demanded.

And so, back to the casual sex train she goes, her friends (some of whom have already found happy companionship and wish to continue lording that difference over her) leading her along the way to an eternally barren, cat-filled future. "You're so beautiful, hold out for THE ONE!" They say. "Never settle, you're too good for that!" they say. "You're a STRONG WOMAN! You hold out for what you want!"

And so she does. The big 3-0 comes and goes. Biology calls-she needs to reproduce. Time is running out. Suddenly, she is 35. She has spent the better part of two decades playing around, her prime having long been poured down the drain in the name of attracting the eyes of random horny strangers (whom she loved to tease in the clubs/frats as a young girl for validation) or the eyes of a few elite men who saw her as nothing more than a vessel for their excess ejaculate.

Her value on the dating market has declined now that she is 35. The decent men her age that she had eating out of her hand at 18-25 have moved along, themselves either playing the field or locked onto a younger woman by now. She cannot even command the attention of the elite male she so loved before. He is 35-40 and has absolutely no problem snagging twenty-somethings. He'll not give all that up for her now.

A few good folks endeavour to tell her the truth: if she wants a long term mate, she should perhaps consider an older (45-50+) male. At her age, they are her best option, as they will want her.

She bristles. How can she settle for them at their age? Her friends bristle alongside her. "Remain strong!", they say. "Never settle!"

And so she doesn't. Her very last chance at using her fertility passes as she remains stubborn, her last eggs going to waste as she enters her 40's and laments her lack of offspring alone.

Darwinism has used her own arrogance (too good for every guy) and ignorance (thought she had forever to settle down) against her. No need for environmental changes to physically wipe out certain organisms in this case. She did it all by herself. There was no patriarchy to stand against her-it was her own entitlement that wiped out her genetic future.

She faced each opportunity to establish something meaningful and destroyed it (the hundreds of good guys she blew off for superficial reasons, refusing to date older men even while past her prime, wasting time on distant alphas, etc).

She defeated herself, all by herself (admittedly with some goading by like-minded peers). She was her own worst enemy. Not nature, and not men-just herself.

In our society, the selfish and entitled simply destroy themselves. Through their own acts (and those of their peers), they destroy their own genetic future.

Bottomline: Yes, natural selection is alive and well. No, it cannot be stopped, and no, its victims cannot be reasoned with.
Just sit back and enjoy the show-that is all that can be done.

Post: #53

"In my world, no girl goes out anywhere with a guy that she does not find attractive."

-WIA

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Post: #54

(12-10-2015 01:42 PM)Quintus Curtius Wrote:  "I have an addiction problem." Translation: I lack the fanatical willpower needed to solve my problems.

Post: #55

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(12-21-2015 08:50 PM)BrewDog Wrote:  So I'm leaving as soon as I have the capital to do so. I was an infantry Marine and my buddies tell me it's some how pussy to run away to another country instead of fixing my own. But this shit is unfixable, and I owe these fat American shitheads no more of my time or service. My forefathers fled Britain and then fought King George III to get away, and they certainly weren't pussies for sailing away on rickety wooden boats for months across an ocean to then trek across a harsh American wilderness and survive frigid winters in an attempt to just be left the fuck alone. So I don't think it makes me a pansy to just pick up my shit and leave when I no longer feel free.

Post: #56

Beyond Borders on LTR

(04-29-2014 06:04 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

(04-29-2014 05:47 AM)big poppa Wrote:  I've been dating this girl for a while now, virgin until I was with her.. Attractive, not an amazing body but very very bangable. Very rarely drinks, doesn't smoke, her friends are all 'good girls', none of them have been with more than 1 partner at 21-22 years old. She cooks, her parents are together, she respects her father, etc. etc.

Only thing is that I'm 22, and I don't how much longer I can continue leading her on because I will not be marrying for at least 10-15 years.

Am I going to regret letting her go? Are these girls easy to find? :\

As far as whether they're easy to find, where do you live?

I will say that yes, part of you will probably regret letting her go, at least sometimes.

But part of you will regret staying with her if you do too.

It's just the nature of a man.

22 is young and you've got your whole life ahead of you. You're also the same age, so that means she'll age just as fast as you will, which isn't really ideal from a man's perspective. It does suck to string them along for a long time when you're not as serious as they are too.

You could try being honest with her about the situation, but if she loves you, she'll find a way to rationalize sticking it out anyways. That's how women often work - their emotions make the decision and then they hamster it. And then she'll still blame you later when her attempts to change your mind over the years don't work.

So if you want to move on, you'll probably have to take full responsibility of cutting the cord yourself.

I guess it just depends on your goals in life. I'm sure some guys will pop in here and presume to have the answers you need, but at the end of the day, the solution for this particular scenario is something you can only decide for yourself.

Post: #57

(12-30-2015 06:51 PM)MMM Wrote:  I was never so lonely as I was when I was unhappily married.

Post: #58

LINUX on mistakes and life lessons (whole post is worth a read): /thread-52398...pid1174290

(12-19-2015 11:51 PM)LINUX Wrote:  Game isn't about how many women you can bang or how many phone numbers you can get. Game is knowing that wherever in this world that you go, regardless of the language they speak, you will never be alone.

Beyond All Seas

"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being overwhelmed by the tribe.
To be your own man is a hard business. If you try it, you'll be lonely often, and sometimes
frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself." - Kipling

Post: #59

Hey can y'all help me out. I'm looking for the post by Giovanny where he said something like he's automatically higher value than any females because he's a man.

Post: #60

(02-25-2015 06:55 PM)delicioustacos Wrote:  This is where the money goes when I fill up my gas tank.

That fucking rules. I'll never bitch about high gas prices again. Carry on, you magnificent shit flinging salmon jamming bastards.

(02-26-2015 01:57 PM)delicioustacos Wrote:  These men inherited the most valuable resource on Earth.

Some of them are stewards of the most important spiritual site on Earth.

They're heirs to ancient traditions, tasked with bringing their people out of darkness to reclaim leadership in the world. A daunting burden. Fortunately they were given immense wealth, great authority, and strong clans at their backs.

AND THEY USE IT TO SHIT ON WHORES!

What more do you need to know?

They use it to shit on whores.

Throw out the history books. Burn all the literature. Tagthesponsor.com is all you need to understand human beings.

Post: #61

If you click the green arrow next to "delicioustacos Wrote:" it links to the post.

Post: #62

(01-03-2016 01:11 PM)The Black Knight Wrote:  I have heard this shit-test before and I'll tell you the same thing I tell women: "Yup, you sure can find a man that cooks/kisses your ass/tolerates your bullshit/etc but it won't be a man you are really attracted to deep down like me."

Post: #63

H1N1 on finding a purpose in life:

(12-31-2015 07:42 AM)H1N1 Wrote:  Lack of purpose is not the problem, it is a symptom of a deeper malaise - mediocrity and excessive comfort. Life is about the highs and the lows. We need struggle, triumph and disaster, fleeting success and deep abiding failure. To really live, we need the threat of a kind of death to be constantly hovering over us, whether it is social, financial, or literal, we need circumstances to set ourselves against. Unfortunately, the lives most of us lead mean we allow ourselves to be robbed of this opportunity, by and large. We can turn up unthinkingly day after day, do just enough without really exerting ourselves, and get well enough remunerated for it. As a result, we can afford an adequate accommodation, enough food, enough time and money for moderate socialising, healthcare etc.

The reason you don't have a purpose is because all your decisions are more or less made for you, and life just floats on by, not too good, not too bad. Like it or not, the threat of real disaster in any arena of life is exciting to your true nature. Purpose is always survival, or 'thrival', in meaningful circumstances - that, in essence, is the human condition, to struggle against adversity and triumph for a while - to measure our internal selves against external stimulus, and to prevail.

Purpose will find you, whatever you're doing, when doing the bare minimum is no longer acceptable. This sounds lofty, but really it is not. There is as much purpose on a building site as there is in a laboratory, provided you are looking for it, not allowing modernity to rob you of it. It is a choice. It is a harder choice when your job is soft and comfortable, no doubt. Dangerous work makes it easier to find purpose, whether that is being a soldier, an off-shore oil rig worker, starting a company, etc etc. When there is the constant, real threat of danger or defeat, you will find purpose, and it will drive you on. This is why men who do dangerous work form deeper bonds between each other, why people in these professions seem to have so much more vitality, and I suspect why PTSD and addiction are such a problem for them once they stop - they move from an environment where their purpose is clear, simple and constant, and move into an environment where, like you, they do not know how to find things to struggle against. Find a way to struggle and you will find purpose. Boredom is the greatest threat to the soul.

Post: #64

Paracelsus on control mechanisms in modern society:

(01-05-2016 11:18 PM)Paracelsus Wrote:  They don't say you are forbidden to have a dissenting view, they instead warn you and try to shame you about how that view will be received -- e.g. "You have freedom of speech, but you should know that homophobia is looked down upon."

It gives the impression of having a right to say whatever you want, but they implicitly suggest a consequence if you make a non-approved point or in a non-approved way. And on top of that it's a psyop on you because it gives the impression the state is telling you for your own good rather than for the state or the institution's own good. I didn't realise how powerful or how endemic this way of controlling speech was until I looked around. You'll find it on almost every corner.

In the present day, the Left has found a way to condense down the phrase "You are not allowed to say that". They use the word "disrespectful."

Post: #65

Just read through Krauser's latest article, dealing with the significance of when a girl laughs during your approach. The favorable response to your persuasion.

"The better your sexual vibe the more she’ll produce illogical giggles and laughs as an exhaust pipe for her growing sexual interest.

Post: #66

Days of Broken Arrows during Blizzard 2016 -

TL;DR - Women get injured more easily than men and recover slower. Have your woman make you hot chocolate while you shovel snow.

(01-25-2016 12:42 AM)Days of Broken Arrows Wrote:  

(01-24-2016 09:29 PM)la bodhisattva Wrote:  Scenarios like this are great examples of the patriarchy at work.

All I see are men braving hazardous conditions driving snowplows, husbands shoveling their driveways, neighbors with snowblowers helping neighbors with shovels, boyfriends walking to their girlfriends to shovel for them, facebook statuses of fat girls saying "woke up to to the sound of a shovel scrapping my sidewalk. thanks ______!", more neighbors clearing the way for other female neighbors. The oppression must be suffocating in times like this.

In all honesty, these times do bring out a lot of good in people. I even had my older neighbor do the lion's share of clearing my property. Granted, he had a snowblower and I had the shovel, but still. What I do see, however, is a dearth of women lending a helping hand to their husbands, let alone mere neighbors. Imagine what a sorority row without outside help would look like.

Good points. But one thing.

You don't want them to help. When women get injured, they stay injured -- sometimes permanently, sometimes for long, long periods of time.

So if your woman throws her back out, for example (as mine did), you could be possibly looking at both your lives being turned upside down. Whereas if you or me get injured, we're usually back out there in a few days.

Have you ever stopped to think why men have beards and women do not? Beards are to protect the face from the elements meaning...men were biologically built to brave the elements. Women weren't. Hence their lack of beards.

Biology doesn't lie. They should teach this in school. It's so basic, yet people miss the obvious.

For the last few decades, our society has been pushing women into sports only to learn that when they get injured it's often harrowing, unlike with men.

The New York Times did an article in 2008 on how when women get soccer injuries, it totally screws them up because their ligaments are more fragile. Their headline? Get this: "The Uneven Playing Field."

Yeah, guys that's it. God was "uneven" when he made men and women.

Now if we could only get women with full beards and rippling muscles we'd all be "even." If only they had dicks! Then we'd really be "even!!" Dumbass fucking intellectuals can't see what's right in front of their faces.

Tl/dr: Have your woman make hot chocolate while you shovel. As a man whose ex-wife stayed injured for five long, long years, this is not a road you wanna go down.

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Interesting tips:

(02-05-2016 04:08 PM)B TAHKE Wrote:  Having done Public Affairs for a Military Organization at one point in time, I would advise these things

1. Control the narrative as best you can.
2. Remember what the media's narrative is (You condone rape, are a rapist, etc) and that is how they will spin it.
3. You spin their questions with answers about nothing to do with rape, or the article. If asked about it, the response should be only "It's satire" then move onto a completely different subject much how a politician will ramble on about something completely unrelated to the question asked.
4. However, short answers are best when it deals with the subj. of rape, women hating, etc (less to edit and manipulate, and they WILL combine different sentences into one sentence that will mean exactly what they want it to mean)
5. Try not to use the word "I". As strange as it may seem, a response of "I wrote the article as satire" and "I don't condone rape." and The members of ROK are not rapists." can be edited to a quote on the radio (or non video quote as "I am condone ROK as rapists" (See 4 above)
6. Remember Dr. Oz.. expect the same.

Have someone independent record the whole thing for you.

Good Luck.

Post: #68

Surreyman gives a spot-on analysis of feminism and predicts its future.

(02-10-2016 07:34 PM)Surreyman Wrote:  Feminism is a bit like The Netherlands. They both owe their existence to an extensive network of dikes, struggling against nature's forces. Unlike feminism, The Netherlands produces a net benefit to the world, and that's why it will last.

Post: #69

^^^
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Post: #70

How to maintain your frame in an marriage.

(02-09-2016 06:18 PM)armenia4ever Wrote:  Update:
Been married for about 3 months now and I've noticed a few things.

- In my personal experience, the sex has actually increased since marriage.

We average twice a day. (Sometimes, I don't even feel like it, but I oblige. Her high sex drive has skyrocketed to new levels with the pregnancy.) I've also discovered through some research that the father's semen helps reduce pregnancy cramps, morning sickness, ect.

- Frame will always be essential and shit tests will still occur.

Me and my wife had a small fight that escalated. I'm stubborn and I don't back down, despite how much I love her. I said something that had made her mad and in order to stay mad at me - emotions for the win - she made a big deal at me stopping by the bar on my way home for work for an hour.

It was happy hour and I literally spent a dollar on two beer - 50 cents each. I like stopping by at that bar when I can as it gives me a chance to talk to people as well as to make new connections. Networking with people who are actually/become your friends is essential. (It's often who you know for a job, not necessarily what you know.)

I kept asking her why she was making a big deal about it. She got madder.

Considering she is pregnant, the notion of fighting emotions with any kind of logic is even less of an option. You can't simply can't argue against emotions, no matter how logical you are with your girl - or usually any woman for that matter that you are intimate with.

So after a few retorts back and forth, I didn't try. She ended up simply saying, "Fuck you" and running into the bathroom. I replied in kind, "Fuck you!" I hear some crying.

I decide that I'm not going to bother with it or put up with it anymore so I got dressed and got ready to go outside for a walk. Before I left, I told her I loved her, but that she she could either stay there and cry or come with me for a walk.

The result was immediate.

She asked me to wait, got dressed and came with me. As we walked and talked, she apologized to me and she said she didn't even know why she had cried and that she wasn't sure why she was even trying to stay mad at me at the time.

Apparently she says that when she gets mad at me, she wants to have sex with me, and so she tries to get madder in order to not have sex with me. Sometimes when we squable or I do something she doesn't want me to - usually watching something or spending "too much time on the computer" she will half-joke, "You aren't getting any." I'll shoot back, "No you aren't getting any and since you are pregnant, you need it."

She then backs down and concedes my point. Note, this is before the emotions rise.

I've also noticed mini-tantrums when she gets mad. We were watching the Superbowl at a friends house and she was mad I was on my phone. I gave her a look of disgust, got up, and walked to the next room. When I came back, she was even more upset. To "punish me" she kept trying to sit at the edge of the couch away from my physical touch. I simply played it off, maintained my composure - and did give her some quiet comments about how she was having a temper tantrum.

When we left, she again mentioned she didn't know why she was trying to stay mad at me and apologized.


- Always be a leader; don't abdicate your responsibility to lead as a man.

It's actually harder than I realized when I started conceptualizing it and applying it on more than just an abstract level.

Since we are on a budget, we watch netflix at home - though we have gone out to a fair share of movies - when we aren't at a friends or I'm at work. Sometimes she - and I to an extent - will be bored of watching movies. She will complain she wants to do something else.

When I challenge her to think of something, she always responds, "Well I don't know! I don't know what there is to do around here." (My wife moved in with me when we got married.)

She is expecting me to come up with the activities for the evening. I'm more of a "Do what I want at that moment" kind of person and I don't plan the evenings activities.

What this has told me is that I need to get on this. I need to make sure I come up with things to keep us busy and give her the option to follow along - which she is usually more than happy to do.

I got a stitching machine and I plan to try and do some stitching of my own clothes as well as some repairs. (Why not learn another skill?) I realize this is perfect for her as well as she has some experience with a sewing machine.

She also is willing to take walks with me at any time as she likes to try to get active when she can as she hasn't been able to do her usually running and exercise since the pregnancy. (She had abs before I got knocked her up.)

Tomorrow we are going to go to a prayer meeting/dinner at our Priests house. Again, I'm trying to get used to always having options of what to do with a determination to do them and give her the option to come if she desires. Usually she always does as she likes spending time with me.

- Diaper, diapers, diapers.

Been talking to my relatives who had/have kids and they've mentioned you go through a box a week on average of diapers. Guess it's never to early to really stockpile

- Create "you" time away from your wife/girl.

My wife always wants to spend time with me. I texted her on my way home that I was going to stop somewhere and write. I knew she wasn't going to like that as she texted she wanted to walk with me, but she will just walk anyway. I got a few, "Whatever" responses.

I texted back with my own, "Whatever" and haven't texted her since. When I get home though, I know she will be ready to go for a walk with me again regardless. Maintain frame and don't back down. (I'm not saying be some sort of tyrant either.)

Point is, if I don't create "me" time, I won't get it.

Post: #71

Source: /thread-53328...pid1205717

(01-29-2016 03:08 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  I would have helped her move the couch..

Then, I would be more demanding of her.

I would use the couch moving as a way for me to take more power in the relationship.

After moving the couch, I would insist that she please me sexually in ways that she never has before.

After moving the couch, I would insist that she do all the nasty things that I ask of her.

After moving the couch, I would be aggressively pushing for naked pics of her, sex shows from her, ball sucking, ass licking, deep throating, porno making, threesomes, cum swallowing, ass fucking, etc.

After moving the couch, I would become more dominant and demanding of her.

Moving the couch is a small investment. I would try to get a 100x return on my investment.

I don't mind doing little favors for girls that I am fucking. Doing little favors for them gives me the license to ask BIG favors from them.

The last time a girl asked me for a favor, she ended up licking my ass for about an hour.

Post: #72

(01-02-2016 01:23 PM)JoyStick Wrote:  Hey can y'all help me out. I'm looking for the post by Giovanny where he said something like he's automatically higher value than any females because he's a man.

Kind of totting my own horn but I will not take credit for coming up with this line, I just can not remember where did I read that concept. Was it Giovonny, Krauser, Roosh ? Do not know who it was.

I will take credit for posting it a few years ago though

(03-01-2014 06:35 PM)Lothario Wrote:  

(03-01-2014 06:02 PM)Kaizen Wrote:  So I'm in a men's clothing shop in manhattan a few weeks back.

Minding my biz shopping when....cott damnn! A 10 walks by me. Glowing face, banging body and dressed with mad style. Straight up bad bitch. I was floored. She caught me looking a few times. I must have looked like a hungry dog staring at food.

She was the type of piece that could be dating Jeter or some other baller.

The idea of approaching her didn't cross my mind for even a second. Ive only recently been getting my feet wet with day game and this kamikaze mission didn't seem like a great time for more practice.

So, Id genuinely like to hear from the advanced players that regularly approach 10s and wouldn't be fazed by this scenario (paging mcqueen, fisto, etc)...

What is your mindset and method when you make these approaches? Anything you can share with some of the mortals here would be appreciated

Though I'm no Fisto or Mcqueen but will bite the question from OP

"Your Value as a man is inherently higher then women, No matter how beautiful , Rich or educated she is, Period."

Better believe this ^^^ . Eat live and breathe with it. It will help you hold your frame and hang on to it.

Aside from the philosophy of it, In my limited experience outstandingly beautiful women are very approachable , guess what just like you froze most men freeze and they are approached way less then say a 7.

No special tricks for a 10, Open spit your Airtight Game , rinse and repeat. Attraction Triggers are the same for all the women. Confidence, Charisma, Boldness etc etc.

If you are new to Day Game you could not be at a better place then Manhattan. Get your conversation juices flowing, 6,7,8,9 doesn't matter, Dive in and Just do it ......

Post: #73

Source: /thread-52398...pid1174290

(12-19-2015 11:51 PM)LINUX Wrote:  I can tell you the mistakes and lessons that I learned from my life and you can disregard them or learn from them as you please.

1. When I was young, I was too busy playing football and chasing women and I never visited my grandparents, I regret that now because they're all dead and I never heard their stories.

2. I was seeing a psychologist for many years after war and one day I saw him in the line at the pharmacy picking up his prescription for anti-depressants and sleep medication. When I asked him about it, his reply was, "Everyone is fucked up Linux, some are just better than others at pretending they're not."

3. I've had hundreds of girlfriends that I treated really well, but there were a few that I treated like shit and it bothers me still.

4. Game isn't about how many women you can bang or how many phone numbers you can get. Game is knowing that wherever in this world that you go, regardless of the language they speak, you will never be alone.

5. I had a great marriage, dual income making close to 200k a year, I had a huge house, I had a good wife, I had no debt. I have what many guys here chase after, but I was miserable. Now I have nothing but freedom and spontaneity and apart from a few nights here and there, I'm a really happy person and I never want to go back to the life I previously had.

6. They key to having good friends is to call them when you don't need anything.

7. Be careful on the internet, if someone writes you advice, sells you a product, judges you, critiques you, hides behind a screen name or email address, without ever meeting anyone and showing them who they really are. Odds are, they're full of shit.

8. Always chase beauty, whether that's an ass of a beautiful woman, a piece of art, a poem, or a flower. I really believe that when imagination is gone, the soul dies.

9. A man should never be a slave to his own thoughts and emotions.

10. “To be yourself in a world that is constantly trying to make you something else is the greatest accomplishment.”

Post: #74

A lost gem from the Donald Trump Thread:

(08-20-2015 10:54 PM)kleyau Wrote:  

(08-20-2015 09:37 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  18 Real Things Donald Trump Has Said About Women

Get a load of this crap (and the inane SJW comments below it).

I'm glad that broad collected those lines in one place; they're all gold.

Quote:1. That giving your wife "negotiable assets" is a terrible mistake.

“I would never buy Ivana any decent jewels or pictures. Why give her negotiable assets?” Trump is quoted as saying of his then-wife in a 1990 Vanity Fair piece.

2. That women are essentially aesthetically-pleasing objects.

In his 2006 book Trump 101: The Way to Success, Trump wrote: "Beauty and elegance, whether in a woman, a building, or a work of art, is not just superficial or something pretty to see."

3. That sexual assault in the military is totally expected.

"26,000 unreported sexual assults in the military-only 238 convictions. What did these geniuses expect when they put men & women together?"

4. That women on "The Apprentice" need to rely on sex appeal.

"It's certainly not groundbreaking news that the early victories by the women on 'The Apprentice' were, to a very large extent, dependent on their sex appeal." -- How To Get Rich, 2004

5. That bad press doesn't matter as long as you have a sexy girlfriend.

"You know, it doesn't really matter what [the media] write as long as you've got a young and beautiful piece of ass." -- from an interview with Esquire, 1991

6. That a woman MUST be hot in order to be a journalist.

"I mean, we could say politically correct that look doesn't matter, but the look obviously matters," Trump said to a female reporter in a clip featured on "Last Week Tonight." "Like you wouldn't have your job if you weren't beautiful."

7. That pumping breast milk is "disgusting."

When a lawyer facing Trump in 2011 asked for a break to pump breastmilk for her infant daughter, The Donald reacted very poorly. "He got up, his face got red, he shook his finger at me and he screamed, 'You're disgusting, you're disgusting,' and he ran out of there," attorney Elizabeth Beck told CNN. Trump's attorney does not dispute that his client called Beck "disgusting."

8. That all women hate prenups, because they are gold diggers.

“The most difficult aspect of the prenuptial agreement is informing your future wife (or husband): I love you very much, but just in case things don’t work out, this is what you will get in the divorce. There are basically three types of women and reactions. One is the good woman who very much loves her future husband, solely for himself, but refuses to sign the agreement on principle. I fully understand this, but the man should take a pass anyway and find someone else. The other is the calculating woman who refuses to sign the prenuptial agreement because she is expecting to take advantage of the poor, unsuspecting sucker she’s got in her grasp. There is also the woman who will openly and quickly sign a prenuptial agreement in order to make a quick hit and take the money given to her.” -- Trump: The Art of the Comeback, 1997

9. That women have a "great act" going on to trick men.

“Women have one of the great acts of all time. The smart ones act very feminine and needy, but inside they are real killers. The person who came up with the expression ‘the weaker sex’ was either very naive or had to be kidding. I have seen women manipulate men with just a twitch of their eye — or perhaps another body part.” -- Trump: The Art of the Comeback, 1997

10. That Hillary would be a bad president because of her husband's actions.



11. That Angelina Jolie has dated too many guys to be attractive.

“[Angelina Jolie’s] been with so many guys she makes me look like a baby... And, I just don’t even find her attractive," he said in an interview with Larry King in 2006.

12. That Bette Midler's "ugly face and body" are offensive.

"While @BetteMidler is an extremely unattractive woman, I refuse to say that because I always insist on being politically correct."

13. That Rosie O'Donnell is "crude, rude, obnoxious and dumb."

14. That the best line in any movie is this beautiful gem.

“My favorite part [of 'Pulp Fiction'] is when Sam has his gun out in the diner and he tells the guy to tell his girlfriend to shut up. Tell that bitch to be cool. Say: 'Bitch be cool.' I love those lines.” -- TrumpNation: The Art of Being The Donald, 2005

15. That a journalist who offended him had an ugly face.

New York Times columnist Gail Collins recalled: "During one down period, I referred to him in print as a 'financially embattled thousandaire' and he sent me a copy of the column with my picture circled and 'The Face of a Dog!' written over it."

16. That Cher is 'lonely' and 'a loser' because she doesn't support him.

"Cher is an average talent who's out of touch with reality," he said in a 2012 Fox News interview. "Cher is somewhat of a loser. She's lonely. She's unhappy. She's very miserable."

17. That women fawn all over him because he is rich and powerful.

"Love him or hate him, Donald Trump is a man who is certain about what he wants and sets out to get it, no holds barred," Trump said about himself one time. "Women find his power almost as much of a turn-on as his money."

18. That the ladies on "The Apprentice" are all super in to him.

"All of the women on 'The Apprentice' flirted with me -- consciously or unconsciously. That's to be expected." -- How To Get Rich, 2004

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(09-08-2015 03:20 PM)CrashBangWallop Wrote:  http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/c...g-sex.html

Quote:Woman discovers 'boyfriend' of two years is woman when she removes blindfold during sex

Woman has blindfolded sex with 'male cancer patient ashamed of scars' - before discovering it is female friend using prosthetic penis, court hears

(09-10-2015 08:09 PM)scorpion Wrote:  Let this be a reminder that the most potent game is mental/psychological in nature. Fucking a girl is one thing, but mindfucking her takes thing to entirely another level. A woman might have fond memories of Mr. Stuntcock who gave her some hot sex, but it's guaranteed that the one guy she'll never get over, the one guy she will pine for in her quiet and lonely moments for the rest of her life is not the guy who fucked her the best, but the guy who got deep inside her head. What is good game? Making a girl feel like you own her pussy. What is amazing game? Making a girl feel like you own her soul.