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(10-26-2017 01:56 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  Girls you know have been looking at you but they quickly turn away and start talking to someone beside them when you happen to look at them. Is it interest or attention seeking behavior?

Recent eg, Background: Seen her around in campus many months ago, didn't go beyond 'hi'. Didn't get the impression she was interested. Then I met her again twice while she was working in a store in the weekends. Had a nice chat going on both occasions, and got her number the second time. But I did a major mistake after getting her number by kind of ignoring her company on the way to the checkout counter while she was headed in the same direction, probably destroyed the comfort created. Anyway, predictably, she ignored my text I sent 2 days later. Fast forward a few months later, and she did the 'sudden look away upon eye contact' thing as mentioned in the 1st para.
She was hanging out in another room with friends while I was outside talking outside.

Is this worth a restart text? Of course, I might run into her but the vacation is approaching.
What do you all think?

Hey guys, any ideas on this? I realized that if I do send her a restart text , it is going to look bad because she would be able to see my previous text of 'how are you' to which she didn't reply.

I am guessing she averted eye contact because of the previous text and the way the previous approach went but its kind of difficult to gauge if she is interested or if it is just bs.
10-29-2017 12:40 AM
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Why torture yourself with endless guessing about what-ifs and maybes? Shoot her the restart text. Either she replies or she doesn't, and you won't have to worry about it anymore.

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10-29-2017 04:26 AM
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RE: Rejected but shows IOI
(10-29-2017 12:40 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  
(10-26-2017 01:56 AM)Hazaer Wrote:  Girls you know have been looking at you but they quickly turn away and start talking to someone beside them when you happen to look at them. Is it interest or attention seeking behavior?

Recent eg, Background: Seen her around in campus many months ago, didn't go beyond 'hi'. Didn't get the impression she was interested. Then I met her again twice while she was working in a store in the weekends. Had a nice chat going on both occasions, and got her number the second time. But I did a major mistake after getting her number by kind of ignoring her company on the way to the checkout counter while she was headed in the same direction, probably destroyed the comfort created. Anyway, predictably, she ignored my text I sent 2 days later. Fast forward a few months later, and she did the 'sudden look away upon eye contact' thing as mentioned in the 1st para.
She was hanging out in another room with friends while I was outside talking outside.

Is this worth a restart text? Of course, I might run into her but the vacation is approaching.
What do you all think?

Hey guys, any ideas on this? I realized that if I do send her a restart text , it is going to look bad because she would be able to see my previous text of 'how are you' to which she didn't reply.

I am guessing she averted eye contact because of the previous text and the way the previous approach went but its kind of difficult to gauge if she is interested or if it is just bs.

(10-29-2017 04:26 AM)King of Monkeys Wrote:  Why torture yourself with endless guessing about what-ifs and maybes? Shoot her the restart text. Either she replies or she doesn't, and you won't have to worry about it anymore.

I can but the thing is I might run into her on campus and there might be a loss of frame if she didn't reply to 2 opening texts. And its exam time for her, not sure how that is going to figure into her replying let alone hanging out for a date.
10-29-2017 07:18 AM
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