Post: #276

Mentions some kind of mental illness/disease early on completely unprompted. - She will use this to excuse her behaviour and there will be no getting past it; impossible to convince her she is wrong because it's not her fault.

Single mother - failed her duty as a woman to choose a suitable mate to have children with. If she failed her biological imperative it's likely she will be pretty fucking bad at a lot of other stuff too. Damaged goods.

Tatoos/piercings (other than ear)/drug use - Short sited and promiscuous. Impulsive.

Mentions ex umprompted, especially early on - Everyone knows this is rude. Will use this to justify her current behaviour. "my ex ruined me" sob stories etc

Phone addict behaviour, impolite phone use during early dating phase - requires above average amount of validation and attention. Will use this as an excuse to leave, hangout with other men, disrespect you. Lack of manners. By far one of the reddest of red flags.


Too many more to count.

Post: #277

1. Bad/nonexistent relationship with parents.
2. Lots of tattoos, and piercings.
3. Smart phone addict.
4. Doesn't make eye contact.
5. Can't cook.
6. Short/shortish hair.
7. Over 25.

Post: #278

My personal instant deal breakers for considering a serious and committed relationship with a female:

Has cheated in a previous relationship.
Still friends/close contact with ex-lovers.
Close friends with a lot of men.
Doesn't want kids.
Already has kids from another man.
Obvious and lengthy slutty past.
Poor relationship with parents.
Beyond healthy child-rearing age (older than late-20's).

Post: #279

What's worse than a woman who has cheated in the past is a woman who casually shares the info, expecting you to shrug your shoulders and think it's no big deal. That's someone who is selfish and has no functional sense of right and wrong. I don't care if she's the cheater or the cheetee, but it seems like women are tempted to be "the other woman" by virtue of the allure of preselection.

Post: #280

This tattoo

Post: #281

Referring to her pets as "my children" and/or her big dog as "my man".


Also what's the meaning of the ideogram above?

Post: #282

(01-19-2017 07:00 PM)Splord Wrote:  Referring to her pets as "my children" and/or her big dog as "my man".


Also what's the meaning of the ideogram above?

It is a chick on her knees blowing a guy.

Post: #283

- Had lesbian sex
- Low impulse control (high libido)
- When she says women are able to cheat and still love the guy she cheated

Post: #284

(01-19-2017 07:07 PM)Atlanta Man Wrote:  

(01-19-2017 07:00 PM)Splord Wrote:  Referring to her pets as "my children" and/or her big dog as "my man".


Also what's the meaning of the ideogram above?

It is a chick on her knees blowing a guy.

I guess I should start seeing the wider picture

Post: #285

Women who talk in a baby voice to try and get a man to do what she wants. It can be anything from her trying to get a man to go to the store for a Snickers bar, or throw away a piece of trash.

As soon as that voice comes out, I'm gone.

Post: #286

Absent father. Don't do it.

Post: #287

Single mothers

Post: #288

- Tattoo (s)
- Bad relationship with family (or disclosing that too early, without some level of shame)
- Doesn't ever want kids / couldn't imagine giving birth
- Foul mouth / valley girl / voice fry
- Never had a real job before 20
- Openly talk about exes, or what they like to do in bed (annoys me hearing what they learned from the last guy)
- Single Mother (especially if all they do is blame the baby daddy about the situation)
- Divorce (especially if all they do is blame the ex about the breakup)
- SJW leanings, declaring themselves a feminist (especially if they aren't directly asked or its not necessary)
- Call themselves a dog mom
- Cop, Firefighter, security job or any masculine type work where they are surrounded by men (and not a secretary)
- Post too much shit on Instagram, addicted to phone

Just so many options

Post: #289

For Bangs:

- Subscribes to any form of SJWism
- Is dodgy on exactly how old she is (for obvious reasons)
- Has (or is unclear about) a boyfriend or husband
- Refuses to use, or is unconcerned with, birth control
- Has apparent drug, alcohol, or mental health problems

For Relationships:

- All above, plus,
- Is over 30 (with very few exceptions)
- Has either been in a very long LTR or marriage
- Or, has a series of short-term relationships or bangs (branching in to slutdom)
- Has ever been pregnant (either aborted or gave birth)
- Too much social media or general internet usage
- Career girl, expresses no interest in marriage or children
- Has close male friends
- Maintains contact with any exes
- Experimented with or expresses interest towards bisexuality
- Is interested in politics and wants to tell me about it
- Has no domestic/traditionally female skills - can't cook, clean, keep herself looking nice
- Fundamentally disagrees with my take on religion, philosophy, or politics
- Is well educated (say Masters, PhD, or professional doctorate) unless she is burned out and thinks it was a waste of time
- Quick edit and last point: If she has porn star skills and just shrugs and claims she comes by that naturally. Mmmhhhmmm.

All the above are based on personal experience. I have met a few exceptions, but these rules have held well for 10+ years.

Post: #290

Plenty of good ones listed on this thread but wanted to share one, I cannot stand chicks with ugly dogs that they are super-attached to. I don't care how many times you kiss that fucking French Bulldog of yours but it is not turning into a Husky anytime soon.

These are the same women that get all emotional when you don't want to go near their ugly fucking dogs, time to get real.

Women getting super-attached to their pets is one issue saved for another discussion but at least have good taste if you are going to do it.

Post: #291

(12-14-2014 10:12 PM)The Beast1 Wrote:  Tramp stamps

There goes 90% of the millenial women..

Post: #292

(12-15-2014 03:37 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  Excellent posts by the OP and Dr. Howard on serial monogamists aka (black widows), I've dealt with this kind of woman first hand, and they can just as bad as worse as your blatant raging slut types. There is a certain level of deception, manipulation, and cold calculation, that these women engage in, that is truly shady and fucked up.

A lot of guys touched on some good ones, but a glaring red flag I think a lot of people are neglecting, are girls whose group of friends almost all consists of wild party girls or raging sluts. There's the old saying "birds of a feather, flock together", in other words women tend to gravitate and make friends with other women who are similar to them.

Not to mention I think women are even more influenced by their peer groups than men, so if her friends are all partying doing MDMA and fucking new dudes, they will think that it's the "cool thing to do", or feel like they are missing out if "all their friends are having so much fun." Which translates to "I want to go out get fucked up and ride some new cock."

To kind of expand on what other guys have said, another red flag to pay attention to are girls who have a shit ton of "ex-boyfriends", if you've been seeing a girl for a few months and over that time she's casually mentioned a handful of different "exs" that's not a good sign. Not only has she taking many past dicks, but she has shown that she's "nexted" those dudes, which means she's not in very stable relationships, and probably isn't someone to bother getting serious with.

To take it a step further, a really big red flag is if a girl actively tries to avoid an ex, this could mean that she played or burned the guy real bad and doesn't want to face him. If she burned an ex in the past, you could be the next one to get burned by her in the future.

Jesus.

6/6 points was one of my exes.

I need to screen better, seriously.

Post: #293

To keeps things simple:

1) Wedding rings
2) 26 years old and above + playing hard to get

Screen them fast

Post: #294

1) Irregular sleeping habits. Sleep problems are an awesome litmus test of mental health, the most unstable people I know either sleep way too little or way too much.

2) Strong interest in horses. My mom is really into horses (dressage) and thanks to her I've had a front row seat to the rampant dysfunction of that social scene from a young age. It's a pit of vipers in the literal sense, women with sociopathic tendencies and above average testosterone levels seem to gravitate towards horses and they get absolutely hooked on bending a strong animal to their will. This unfortunately often applies to their significant others also (shout out to my pops). I've seen way too many rich guys without game get suckered in by the mind blowing sex only to get picked clean within a few years.

3) Artsy girls. People that dwell in the unconscious and seek out strong emotional stimuli don't make for the most stable relationships. Artsy girls usually have strong SJW tendencies too. Easy sex though.

Post: #295

Damn.. Reading some of these red flags makes me think of wich one I display myself. Currently in a relationship

Post: #296

(05-22-2018 04:46 PM)NorthxNorthwest Wrote:  2) Strong interest in horses. My mom is really into horses (dressage) and thanks to her I've had a front row seat to the rampant dysfunction of that social scene from a young age. It's a pit of vipers in the literal sense, women with sociopathic tendencies and above average testosterone levels seem to gravitate towards horses and they get absolutely hooked on bending a strong animal to their will. This unfortunately often applies to their significant others also (shout out to my pops). I've seen way too many rich guys without game get suckered in by the mind blowing sex only to get picked clean within a few years.

Also the equestrian community is a lesbian/bull dyke stronghold

Post: #297

If she's been to the penis museum in Amsterdam and puts the pictures on social media

Post: #298

(05-23-2018 06:45 AM)Mikestar Wrote:  If she's been to the penis museum in Amsterdam and puts the pictures on social media

Very specific red flag you have there

Post: #299

If she's religious. One out of ten will be the virgin blushing bride a lot of forum members dream of. Nine out of ten are absolute whores who feel bad about it so they make it up to themselves by being deep into religion.

Post: #300

Wait femtilapp are you a woman?