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(10-11-2011 08:17 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  during my time online before, with my real profile, okcupid sent me a message saying it was determined that i was attractive and they'd be showing me more attractive people like me.

i thought that was bullshit at the time.

but it appears, without that tag, there is an endless supply of uglies put in front of you.

I'm not doubting you but that would be a strange strategy for OKCupid to withhold the good looking girls from most users and just keep the ugly ones. The more good looking girls they have the more chance men will sign up and continue to use the website.
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Does anyone have advice for a "nice guy" profile on POF?
10-12-2011 02:57 PM
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(10-12-2011 02:57 PM)houston Wrote:  Does anyone have advice for a "nice guy" profile on POF?

Im just guessing but you'd probably have to be good looking and find a subtle (or not so subtle) way to point out you make decent cash. I have a feeling "nice guy" is what most guys put up because they think thats what they should put up, so amongst that you have to stand out.

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That's what I'm thinking. Mechanico recommended I try it but neither of us have ideas on what I should use
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Since okcupid clearly matches you with people who have a similarly-rated attractiveness score, I'm wondering if it is worth it to make some fake female profiles and give yourself 5-star ratings?

It would cause you to be displayed in the "you might like" cue of more attractive girls.

Anybody tried this?
10-12-2011 03:58 PM
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(10-12-2011 03:53 PM)houston Wrote:  That's what I'm thinking. Mechanico recommended I try it but neither of us have ideas on what I should use
Just keep changing it up. Change your pic, profile and username and you could run a game on the same girls that wouldn't chat with you before.

In Houstons case he looks nice in his pictures so thats why I thought he should play off of that.

These nasty "meth dealer" profiles were brought on board here by huey who didn't look nice in his pics.

If your profile pics include you driving a monster truck over a prius then go the bad boy route. Keep changing up and see what works.
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dear god, some chicks are so clueless. while browsing some profiles i came across a chick who said something like, "message me if you know how to speak greek, i'm dying to learn"

HAHA

so i sent her a note explaining that she basically broadcast to the world she wanted to get fucked in the ass. which in turn resulted in several emails back and forth. i escalated asking for her cell but she went cold on that.

things i do for science.
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(10-12-2011 01:53 PM)KingofScotland Wrote:  
(10-11-2011 08:17 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  during my time online before, with my real profile, okcupid sent me a message saying it was determined that i was attractive and they'd be showing me more attractive people like me.

i thought that was bullshit at the time.

but it appears, without that tag, there is an endless supply of uglies put in front of you.

I'm not doubting you but that would be a strange strategy for OKCupid to withhold the good looking girls from most users and just keep the ugly ones. The more good looking girls they have the more chance men will sign up and continue to use the website.

OKCupid does that - if you are determined worthy (i.e. good looking), they will elevate you and match you up with the hotties. The difference is night and day.
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(10-12-2011 05:40 PM)Smitty Wrote:  
(10-12-2011 01:53 PM)KingofScotland Wrote:  
(10-11-2011 08:17 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  during my time online before, with my real profile, okcupid sent me a message saying it was determined that i was attractive and they'd be showing me more attractive people like me.

i thought that was bullshit at the time.

but it appears, without that tag, there is an endless supply of uglies put in front of you.

I'm not doubting you but that would be a strange strategy for OKCupid to withhold the good looking girls from most users and just keep the ugly ones. The more good looking girls they have the more chance men will sign up and continue to use the website.

OKCupid does that - if you are determined worthy (i.e. good looking), they will elevate you and match you up with the hotties. The difference is night and day.

I can verify this. From what I can gather, it takes a certain amount of "4-5 star" ratings in quickmatch before you enter the "more attractive" pool. I have no idea how elaborate the algorithm is, but if it's pretty simple his scheme of using fake profiles to rate himself might work.

"Wait and see." - Fisto
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it is really terrible. all the chicks they put in front of me are fat and ugly.

perhaps it is no wonder that my rate of banging hot chicks was pretty high when all there were put in front of me where the best looking - and more importantly, my profile was put in front of the hot ones.

good to note - if and when i'm ever back in the pool i'll be sure to use that old profile so to keep that rating... dayum.
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(10-12-2011 04:11 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  
(10-12-2011 03:53 PM)houston Wrote:  That's what I'm thinking. Mechanico recommended I try it but neither of us have ideas on what I should use
Just keep changing it up. Change your pic, profile and username and you could run a game on the same girls that wouldn't chat with you before.

In Houstons case he looks nice in his pictures so thats why I thought he should play off of that.

These nasty "meth dealer" profiles were brought on board here by huey who didn't look nice in his pics.

If your profile pics include you driving a monster truck over a prius then go the bad boy route. Keep changing up and see what works.
How can I suggest that I make good money or something along those lines without sound like I'm bragging? I want to go for the "college graduate, good boy".
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(10-12-2011 07:56 PM)houston Wrote:  
(10-12-2011 04:11 PM)el mechanico Wrote:  
(10-12-2011 03:53 PM)houston Wrote:  That's what I'm thinking. Mechanico recommended I try it but neither of us have ideas on what I should use
Just keep changing it up. Change your pic, profile and username and you could run a game on the same girls that wouldn't chat with you before.

In Houstons case he looks nice in his pictures so thats why I thought he should play off of that.

These nasty "meth dealer" profiles were brought on board here by huey who didn't look nice in his pics.

If your profile pics include you driving a monster truck over a prius then go the bad boy route. Keep changing up and see what works.
How can I suggest that I make good money or something along those lines without sound like I'm bragging? I want to go for the "college graduate, good boy".

Lie in your profile details on the right and don't mention money in your profile.

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(10-12-2011 06:44 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  it is really terrible. all the chicks they put in front of me are fat and ugly.

perhaps it is no wonder that my rate of banging hot chicks was pretty high when all there were put in front of me where the best looking - and more importantly, my profile was put in front of the hot ones.

good to note - if and when i'm ever back in the pool i'll be sure to use that old profile so to keep that rating... dayum.

You don't get to see the hotties even when you do "Match Search" ?

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(10-12-2011 06:44 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  it is really terrible. all the chicks they put in front of me are fat and ugly.

perhaps it is no wonder that my rate of banging hot chicks was pretty high when all there were put in front of me where the best looking - and more importantly, my profile was put in front of the hot ones.

good to note - if and when i'm ever back in the pool i'll be sure to use that old profile so to keep that rating... dayum.

How is your 'asshole' profile working out? The one you created for the science experiment...
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Bizzare that OKCupid would keep the good looking girls away from the normal guys. I can see guys rushing to rate any half decent girl 5 stars hoping it'll get them attention but can't see as many girls rating guys.
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(10-13-2011 05:14 AM)Smitty Wrote:  
(10-12-2011 06:44 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  it is really terrible. all the chicks they put in front of me are fat and ugly.

perhaps it is no wonder that my rate of banging hot chicks was pretty high when all there were put in front of me where the best looking - and more importantly, my profile was put in front of the hot ones.

good to note - if and when i'm ever back in the pool i'll be sure to use that old profile so to keep that rating... dayum.

How is your 'asshole' profile working out? The one you created for the science experiment...

So far, not very well.

The problem is primarily at this point getting chicks to even read the profile. I am using different pictures than I did when I had the success last year.

I grew a beard in the last year and while my gf absolutely loves it, it appears (as I suspected) that most chicks don't.

I did the "Rate my face" thing on there and my bearded pictures got shit ratings versus the ones I used in my past profile.

I just got those results back.

so i'll change out those pictures for the old ones that worked well and got decent ratings.

I have reached out to a few girls and have gotten about a 75% response rate but no numbers or (fake) dates yet.

reactions to the profile have been muted but I think getting the email response rate that I have is a good sign.

one thing i've learned is that I ever break up with this girl, first thing to go is the beard.
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Got this e-mail from okcupid... what is this all about? Just trying to make me feel better about myself?

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About you, docean13:

Your personality: Really great
How bad girls want you: So bad
Your profile, as of 8 milliseconds ago: Approved!

Check out our matching system. It's a no pressure, massive game of question and answer with millions of people at once. The more you answer, the better your matches will be!

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dc, Been taking a lengthy read through the MMA Underground thread. Already seeing some positive results from a couple modifications. Much thanks brother.
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They're telling you your profile is approved.
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Gay. Anybody using "YourBestFace" to optimize pics? Have some experience with PPC, figured I'd use it like that to keep improving the quality of pics I have on there. One of the results definitely surprised me.
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(10-13-2011 12:51 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  
(10-13-2011 05:14 AM)Smitty Wrote:  
(10-12-2011 06:44 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  it is really terrible. all the chicks they put in front of me are fat and ugly.

perhaps it is no wonder that my rate of banging hot chicks was pretty high when all there were put in front of me where the best looking - and more importantly, my profile was put in front of the hot ones.

good to note - if and when i'm ever back in the pool i'll be sure to use that old profile so to keep that rating... dayum.

How is your 'asshole' profile working out? The one you created for the science experiment...

So far, not very well.

The problem is primarily at this point getting chicks to even read the profile. I am using different pictures than I did when I had the success last year.

I grew a beard in the last year and while my gf absolutely loves it, it appears (as I suspected) that most chicks don't.

I did the "Rate my face" thing on there and my bearded pictures got shit ratings versus the ones I used in my past profile.

I just got those results back.

so i'll change out those pictures for the old ones that worked well and got decent ratings.

I have reached out to a few girls and have gotten about a 75% response rate but no numbers or (fake) dates yet.

reactions to the profile have been muted but I think getting the email response rate that I have is a good sign.

one thing i've learned is that I ever break up with this girl, first thing to go is the beard.

All due respect, why keep a beard just because your girlfriend likes it?
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(10-13-2011 05:18 PM)Smitty Wrote:  
(10-13-2011 12:51 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  
(10-13-2011 05:14 AM)Smitty Wrote:  
(10-12-2011 06:44 PM)dc1000 Wrote:  it is really terrible. all the chicks they put in front of me are fat and ugly.

perhaps it is no wonder that my rate of banging hot chicks was pretty high when all there were put in front of me where the best looking - and more importantly, my profile was put in front of the hot ones.

good to note - if and when i'm ever back in the pool i'll be sure to use that old profile so to keep that rating... dayum.

How is your 'asshole' profile working out? The one you created for the science experiment...

So far, not very well.

The problem is primarily at this point getting chicks to even read the profile. I am using different pictures than I did when I had the success last year.

I grew a beard in the last year and while my gf absolutely loves it, it appears (as I suspected) that most chicks don't.

I did the "Rate my face" thing on there and my bearded pictures got shit ratings versus the ones I used in my past profile.

I just got those results back.

so i'll change out those pictures for the old ones that worked well and got decent ratings.

I have reached out to a few girls and have gotten about a 75% response rate but no numbers or (fake) dates yet.

reactions to the profile have been muted but I think getting the email response rate that I have is a good sign.

one thing i've learned is that I ever break up with this girl, first thing to go is the beard.

All due respect, why keep a beard just because your girlfriend likes it?

clearly, i like it too. but if i were trying to optimize my chances of getting the most women interested in me, i realize that the beard would have to go.

beards are manly and shaving sucks. i enjoy the beard. but i know its a niche and right now, the girl that rides my cock loves that niche so it works.

if and when i have to cast a wider net however, it likely goes.
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(10-13-2011 04:01 PM)docean13 Wrote:  dc, Been taking a lengthy read through the MMA Underground thread. Already seeing some positive results from a couple modifications. Much thanks brother.

my pleasure.

Seriously folks, I hate to point people away from this board but the thread on the MMA site I linked to is pure gold. It has 18 months worth of trial and error from well known personalities. in fact, i just saw some of you post comments on their blogs today.

1700+ messages dating back to spring of 2010.
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@DC1000 - so do you message girls or just sit back and wait for them to message you?
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(10-12-2011 05:45 PM)Gmac Wrote:  I can verify this. From what I can gather, it takes a certain amount of "4-5 star" ratings in quickmatch before you enter the "more attractive" pool. I have no idea how elaborate the algorithm is, but if it's pretty simple his scheme of using fake profiles to rate himself might work.

It does. However if your profile sucks, you'll start getting low ratings from a more demanding audience, and fall back relatively quick.
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(10-13-2011 10:17 PM)oldnemesis Wrote:  
(10-12-2011 05:45 PM)Gmac Wrote:  I can verify this. From what I can gather, it takes a certain amount of "4-5 star" ratings in quickmatch before you enter the "more attractive" pool. I have no idea how elaborate the algorithm is, but if it's pretty simple his scheme of using fake profiles to rate himself might work.

It does. However if your profile sucks, you'll start getting low ratings from a more demanding audience, and fall back relatively quick.


well i'm going thru the quickmatch right now giving ratings and based on the number of 1's vs. the number of 4 and 5's the 'hot' pool isnt going to be very crowded
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