spiritmaze
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RE: The Philippines thread
I'm in Makati and Tinder also stopped working for me on 19th of April, seemed to coincide with Tinder's latest update. I have tried logging in on other wifi networks in coffee shops etc. I have briefly been able to get on, view my messages, and even sent a few messages but the connection always fails. I don't think I've been banned from Tinder. When I try to log into tinder on wifi in my condo I always get the 'there's a problem with your internet connection' message.
There appears to be a problem with the Tinder server in Philippines, but I also tried a VPN and that doesn't work either.
So annoying. I was absolutely destroying tinder and that's where the best quality girls are.
I've been in Manila for 5 months now and I can usually average a shag-a-day, but it's been slowing down this past month. I have about 400+ notches total since october 2014 and I'm 29. I agree with an earlier poster who said that goofballs are flooding the philippines now and ruining the easy lays with their pussy pedestaling. Now we have plenty of bitch shields once a filipina reaches a 6.5-7.
I notice white guys on the manila streets...they are all walking beside 6 or below-level filipinas. I am yet to see a white guy with a hot filipina. I seem to be the only one here banging them. If there's any other guys out there who are tapping my market of 7's and above then send me a PM!
I reckon a beta turning up in Manila without game will have a much harder time than he thinks. Manila is getting harder and there's plenty of ego here now. If it gets much worse then I am thinking Thailand or somewhere with better quality women would be more worth while. Philippines probably still way easier than other Asian countries, but the women here are often really scummy.
I see there being absolutely no point in coming to the Philippines to beg and grind for average pussy. Also, logistics in Manila suck for meet ups - public transport sucks and girls are too scared to take taxis from Pasig or Quezon City to Makati (unless they are sluts, and who wants a slut?). Most keen girls live in Metro Manila area and it's a ball ache arranging meet ups. Filipinas are very flaky too so expect a lot of no-shows on dates.
Don't get me wrong, there's plenty of sex to be had here, but it takes a lot of effort if you want decent quality filipinas. Not a cake work that's for sure.
I know my bragging may get a negative reaction, but here it is. I'm a very good looking guy. Blue eyed, tall, lean/fit body. I look like a Jonathan Rhys Meyers/Jude Law/Cillian Murphy type. I am popular with girls, even in the West, and I am red-pilled as fuck. The point of this is... if I find it a bit of a grind in Manila then I can only imagine what it's like for other dudes here. Betas and gammas must be punching walls.
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RE: The Philippines thread
Spiritmaze, I've been living in the Philippines for over a year and agree. Almost every young/tall/handsome white guy I've seen (since my first day here) has been with a 6 at best. Recently saw a Thor lookalike with what I'd call a 3. Unreal.
However, there's one thing you haven't mentioned, something I see constantly: the hottest girls are almost never with handsome guys, but 5'3 local manlets, mid-40s creepy-looking black dudes, old Filipinos, chubby Chinese-looking guys, flubby white dudes in their 50s, or otherwise fairly average-looking local men. I've even seen, multiple times, very hot white girls (EE?) with short Filipinos. The guys almost always have wealth on display, whether it's a car, a really nice suit, in a fancy restaurant, she's carrying shopping bags...
Asia is not the west.
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(05-15-2017 04:04 AM)Chetthebaker Wrote: (05-10-2017 10:10 AM)cosworth Wrote: If you dont go to El nindo , check out Coron , its less hassle to get to .
Cebu city is like a mini manila , but i preferred it.
You mean Coron Coron the town with the nicer beach I'm assuming? The island of Coron is a 5 hour boat ride.
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(05-15-2017 03:45 AM)digitalconquistador Wrote: Spiritmaze, I've been living in the Philippines for over a year and agree. Almost every young/tall/handsome white guy I've seen (since my first day here) has been with a 6 at best. Recently saw a Thor lookalike with what I'd call a 3. Unreal.
However, there's one thing you haven't mentioned, something I see constantly: the hottest girls are almost never with handsome guys, but 5'3 local manlets, mid-40s creepy-looking black dudes, old Filipinos, chubby Chinese-looking guys, flubby white dudes in their 50s, or otherwise fairly average-looking local men. I've even seen, multiple times, very hot white girls (EE?) with short Filipinos. The guys almost always have wealth on display, whether it's a car, a really nice suit, in a fancy restaurant, she's carrying shopping bags...
Asia is not the west.
I fail to equate how you think a guy who is basically sponsoring a girl to a white guy who probably has 1/100th his wealth. You've never seen an ugly rich mofo in the US with his sugar baby?
Perhaps the true hotties in the US don't need to stoop that low, but I suspect the rich pool in the Philippines is a fraction of the US also.
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(05-15-2017 01:09 AM)spiritmaze Wrote: I'm in Makati and Tinder also stopped working for me on 19th of April, seemed to coincide with Tinder's latest update. I have tried logging in on other wifi networks in coffee shops etc. I have briefly been able to get on, view my messages, and even sent a few messages but the connection always fails. I don't think I've been banned from Tinder. When I try to log into tinder on wifi in my condo I always get the 'there's a problem with your internet connection' message.
There appears to be a problem with the Tinder server in Philippines, but I also tried a VPN and that doesn't work either.
So annoying. I was absolutely destroying tinder and that's where the best quality girls are.
I've been in Manila for 5 months now and I can usually average a shag-a-day, but it's been slowing down this past month. I have about 400+ notches total since october 2014 and I'm 29. I agree with an earlier poster who said that goofballs are flooding the philippines now and ruining the easy lays with their pussy pedestaling. Now we have plenty of bitch shields once a filipina reaches a 6.5-7.
I notice white guys on the manila streets...they are all walking beside 6 or below-level filipinas. I am yet to see a white guy with a hot filipina. I seem to be the only one here banging them. If there's any other guys out there who are tapping my market of 7's and above then send me a PM!
I reckon a beta turning up in Manila without game will have a much harder time than he thinks. Manila is getting harder and there's plenty of ego here now. If it gets much worse then I am thinking Thailand or somewhere with better quality women would be more worth while. Philippines probably still way easier than other Asian countries, but the women here are often really scummy.
I see there being absolutely no point in coming to the Philippines to beg and grind for average pussy. Also, logistics in Manila suck for meet ups - public transport sucks and girls are too scared to take taxis from Pasig or Quezon City to Makati (unless they are sluts, and who wants a slut?). Most keen girls live in Metro Manila area and it's a ball ache arranging meet ups. Filipinas are very flaky too so expect a lot of no-shows on dates.
Don't get me wrong, there's plenty of sex to be had here, but it takes a lot of effort if you want decent quality filipinas. Not a cake work that's for sure.
I know my bragging may get a negative reaction, but here it is. I'm a very good looking guy. Blue eyed, tall, lean/fit body. I look like a Jonathan Rhys Meyers/Jude Law/Cillian Murphy type. I am popular with girls, even in the West, and I am red-pilled as fuck. The point of this is... if I find it a bit of a grind in Manila then I can only imagine what it's like for other dudes here. Betas and gammas must be punching walls.
If you can bang a fresh new pussy every day in the US please do share. Otherwise, your experience is the prototype "instaboost". Sure if you're shitty with women in the states your gonna get scraps here, but at least your getting something.
Its only a grind because its become normalized in your routine. It was already a grind in Bangkok when I had a Golden Week, I can't imagine doing it for 5 months.
Hell when I was living there I was only averaging 1-2 girls a week, as I had business obligations to attend to. I suspect you should slow down a bit and take a breather.
Oh and just call an Uber, cost you $5-10 max, and the girls will feel safe.
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If you can bang a fresh new pussy every day in the US please do share. Otherwise, your experience is the prototype "instaboost". Sure if you're shitty with women in the states your gonna get scraps here, but at least your getting something.
Its only a grind because its become normalized in your routine. It was already a grind in Bangkok when I had a Golden Week, I can't imagine doing it for 5 months.
Hell when I was living there I was only averaging 1-2 girls a week, as I had business obligations to attend to. I suspect you should slow down a bit and take a breather.
Oh and just call an Uber, cost you $5-10 max, and the girls will feel safe.
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At my absolute best I was averaging 1 new girl a week back in Sydney (my home town). That was while working full time though. I then moved to Dubai for 2 years and I was able to do 15 girls in a month some months there. Dubai is a hugely overlooked paradise for casual sex. Deserves its own thread.
Averaging 1 new shag a day in Manila was quite easy for my first 2 months, but I had been pipe lining for a good 2 months before I arrived. Also, it has been quite erratic. Some days I would close no one, other days I would close 3 girls. I have never beaten my record of 3 girls in a day, but I have achieved that several times in Manila.
I am now averaging a new girl every 1.5-2 days in Manila. I see that as a pretty big drop from my former glory. Maybe it's partially due to exhaustion on my part.
You're right, the Uber move is a good work-around. I've been using that a bit lately. But you'd be surprised that a lot of girls just don't like the idea of sitting in a taxi/uber alone with a male driver. I think also girls just use it as an excuse not to meet. White guys have got a bad reputation here now and half the battle is navigating the shit tests from filipinas who are trying to work out if I'm just looking for casual sex. Once I get uncovered as a playboy it's pretty much game over.
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(05-15-2017 03:45 AM)digitalconquistador Wrote: Spiritmaze, I've been living in the Philippines for over a year and agree. Almost every young/tall/handsome white guy I've seen (since my first day here) has been with a 6 at best. Recently saw a Thor lookalike with what I'd call a 3. Unreal.
However, there's one thing you haven't mentioned, something I see constantly: the hottest girls are almost never with handsome guys, but 5'3 local manlets, mid-40s creepy-looking black dudes, old Filipinos, chubby Chinese-looking guys, flubby white dudes in their 50s, or otherwise fairly average-looking local men. I've even seen, multiple times, very hot white girls (EE?) with short Filipinos. The guys almost always have wealth on display, whether it's a car, a really nice suit, in a fancy restaurant, she's carrying shopping bags...
Asia is not the west.
That's interesting. To be honest I haven't noticed the phenomena of hot girls with ugly guys here, but i'm purely in Makati around Gramercy. I don't get out much. Most hot girls I see around my area are either with a group of friends in the mall, or alone. Are you in my area?
On your point though, I know for a fact that Korean guys are killing it out here. Filipinas love white Korean skin and culture, and K-guys are known for being generous and are happy to spoil filipinas. I recently hung out with a Korean guy here, who was a friend of a girl I was seeing. He rolled up in his porsche and kept talking about how he was ex-military. Absolute player. Once I spent a bit of time with though he revealed his true personality, which was a campy little faggot geek boy... but the filipinas were swooning over this rich nerd. He seemed to be more interested in me than the filipinas though so I doubt he's fucking any of them.
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(05-15-2017 04:29 AM)Putin Closes Wrote: I fail to equate how you think a guy who is basically sponsoring a girl to a white guy who probably has 1/100th his wealth.
Spiritmaze essentially said: If you're not handsome, you're going to have a rough time.
And I'm saying 90% of the hottest girls here are with average or below average looking men who have status/money.
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spiritmaze
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(05-15-2017 07:00 AM)digitalconquistador Wrote: (05-15-2017 04:29 AM)Putin Closes Wrote: I fail to equate how you think a guy who is basically sponsoring a girl to a white guy who probably has 1/100th his wealth.
Spiritmaze essentially said: If you're not handsome, you're going to have a rough time.
And I'm saying 90% of the hottest girls here are with average or below average looking men who have status/money.
Status and money is so easy to fake though. I tell all girls I meet that I'm a lawyer and they all get stars in their eyes.
I think the only disadvantage to being handsome in the Philippines is you will be perceived as a playboy. Filipinas are outrageously jealous to the point of actually stopping the interaction with you if they feel threatened. Filipinas, in some ways, might actually prefer a less attractive guy that they feel more secure with. Filipinas are very insecure and I have to work pretty hard at convincing women here that I am actually interested in them and not fucking half the city.
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(05-15-2017 07:09 AM)Going strong Wrote: (05-15-2017 06:37 AM)spiritmaze Wrote: I know for a fact that Korean guys are killing it out here. Filipinas love white Korean skin and culture, and K-guys are known for being generous and are happy to spoil filipinas.
More than anything, "K-guys" are known for abandoning "their" Filipina cuties once they become pregnant, never to return. There are a ton of abandoned (by their foreign father) half-Korean kids in Manila... Still, some poor Filipinas have to try their luck with Korean tourists, whatever the (well-known) risks are... like some (desperate or slightly delusional) people play at the casino with one slim chance out of twenty to win big.
I have only ever heard of white guys doing that out here...and Filipino men, who appear to be the worst offenders when it comes to abandoning pregnant Filipinas.
K-pop and Korean fashioned is absolutely obsessed over by the younger generations in Manila (I should know, I primarily target 18-20 year olds). I have also, just for fun, asked a lot of filipinas about their impression of Koreans and Japanese. All feedback was overwhelmingly positive. Koreans offer the best of both worlds - an advanced western society, while still being Asian. Western primacy is falling off it's perch here. I think rich first world Asian men will start eclipsing us here soon, and it's not hard to see why. Most of the white guys I see around here are weak chinned, tracksuit pant wearing creeps....and they just look predatory, in a really unappealing way.
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(05-15-2017 07:20 AM)Putin Closes Wrote: I can't even think of banging a 100 girls in 3 months. Just not in my DNA. Once you get a couple good 7's maintaining the harem seems much more productive use of time.
A week tops is the most I could probably do this kind of lifestyle before it gets old. But I understand some guys like the chase. And if your banging those kind of numbers no small wonder foreign reps are taking a beating .
If a girl is really poor, tell her Uber has a GPS tracker that you can see in case anything goes wrong. I find the poorer the girl the less chance of a flake ironically.
If your banging 15 girls in a month in Dubai, then congratulations on your genetics, but I think any advice / online TR you give will be pretty much useless to us non-model looking guys.
Sex addiction is a curse my friend. My lifestyle has cost me friends and jobs. I'd still say it's been worth it, but it has huge downsides.
Yes, being handsome helps. Although, I used to be terrible with women. Being handsome helps in the initial stages, but it all falls apart without 'game' to back it up. I would rather be an average guy with game than a handsome guy with no game.
Here's an example. I was considered the best looking guy at my high school and I shagged 0 girls at school. There was a short little pimply dude called Mitch who ended up banging half the girls in my year. He was one of the most aloof, badass mofo's I have ever met. Go figure.
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(05-15-2017 08:54 AM)RagnarLothbrok Wrote: (05-15-2017 01:09 AM)spiritmaze Wrote: I notice white guys on the manila streets...they are all walking beside 6 or below-level filipinas. I am yet to see a white guy with a hot filipina.
I noticed the same in Bangkok. Very rare to find a young foreigner with a good looking Thai girl during the day. I am always amazed when I see decent looking foreigners with average or even below-average Thai girls. Those are usually foreigners without much game who stick to Tinder and Thaifriendly. Or they just came to Thailand and are not even aware of the quality they could get there. And I guess some of them are not even able to identify a bottom of the barrell girl because they are not experienced enough with Asian girls.
It is much more common to see older (say 35+), out of shape guys with good looking gold diggers walking around - both at night and daytime.
Regarding quantity vs. quality: I have to agree with Putin. The most I have ever done was 8 girls in 8 days in Bangkok. But that was because I was going out 5 times a week and had 2 tinder dates. I became much more picky and shallow Tinder dates actually started to annoy me. Many times I decided to go out with my friends instead of meeting a new girl. I think averaging 1-2 new girls in Asia is a good middle-ground. One notch from going out on the weekend and one Tinder date with the best girl you matched with over the week. Or with a girl that comes straight to your apartment.
As Stalin once said 'Quantity has a quality of its own.'
I go through binge and purge cycles. I definitely get burn-out, but if I take a day or 2 off then my evil dick is ready to through another cycle of fanny for a couple of weeks.
What really wears me down is having to go through the same motions without it really getting any easier - hunting, chasing, shit tests and facing the inevitable rejections that are part and parcel of the hunt (can't bang them all). Nothing worse than getting blown out by an Asian, as a white man....I guess I suffer from entitlement. And the more I bang, the more entitled I get.
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