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RE: Is There A Point Of Diminishing Returns On Weightlifting And Attracting Girls?
Definitely. Most girls like the muscular but still somewhat slim, toned, athletic look. Not the monsterous oversized gorilla look.
The key here is steroids. You're not going to get enormous unless you use them, and in most cases not past the point where women start reacting more negatively to you either. Also, steroids will often bloat up your face and guts (bad eating/too much food can do this too), and make you look fat even if you have low bodyfat. So even if you're muscular and strong as hell, you'll still be "fat" or at least chubby to most chicks. This especially applies if you have the short and stocky build, and not so much for taller people. Here's a perfect example, Joe Rogan:
http://www.twoscoopsgethuge.com/post/604...k-this-out
So then you'll have to get very low bodyfat to compensate for the perceived chubbiness, which is a pain in the ass in itself, and will give you an unnatural, veiny, jacked gorilla-look that most women don't care for, even if you're not hugely muscular either.
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RE: Is There A Point Of Diminishing Returns On Weightlifting And Attracting Girls?
I still think this is the look most women love and all you really need:
Most women go for lean muscularity over the jacked meathead look. Notice how Pitt doesn't look big when he's fully clothed but you can tell he's lean and toned underneath. The proportions of his chest and shoulders are good compared to his waist. His belly is flat.
His face is angular, which I believe is a huge attraction point. His biceps and triceps have some size and are defined. This is an ideal that natty guys with decent genetics can actually achieve.
At 6 ft, by far the most compliments I have gotten on my body have been when I'm around 175 lbs. Not when I had more muscle, and more fat at 185-190, and definitely not when I was a distance runner at 145-160. At 175, I look pretty close to Pitt in clothes, though I've never been that ripped. A 4 pack, not a 6 pack.
Granted, I've never been jacked and never could be without gear, so I can't say how girls would react to me then. But I do know that I typically don't see the most jacked guys with the hottest girls, and often the girls they are with are not that great at all. The ones I do see with hot girls are more often than not similar to Pitt.
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RE: Is There A Point Of Diminishing Returns On Weightlifting And Attracting Girls?
I've gone from 160-200 in 3 years at 6 ft, and I think not too much changed from 180 pounds on. I'm talking going from 8-12% body fat at 180-200 respectively, and going from 180 upward didn't really do that much. Let's be real here - you aren't going to ever build enough muscle naturally for this to become an issue, so I suggest everyone regardless of this exact point of diminishing returns to build their maximum amount of muscle and see for themselves. So yes, probably there is diminishing returns and I think many girls don't care beyond a little muscle mass coupled with a low-ish body fat, but once you're ''there'' you'll want to progress just for progress itself, seeing the body change and weight on the bar increase.
Edit: I agree with the Pitt reference as being BS, because he did look better in Troy with more muscle mass and anyone saying these two physiques are only possible with steroids has very low expectations of what the natural body can achieve. I looked like him at 160 and the attention I got then can't even be compared to what I get now. This sort of body is a good physique to aim for, yes, but you'll look like a twig in clothes. If you chop off the head, he'll look like just another skinny teenager with good muscle insertions, bellies and proportions and you either have them or you don't.
In conclusion, more muscle mass with same body fat is always going to be better, but diminshing returns are real. Still, you're gonna be working out anyhow, so why not just eat a small surplus and continue getting bigger, even if it gives you less of a return than it did before? It's not like you're gonna spend more time to achieve more muscle than you have to spend to maintain. This whole debate is pointless if you look at it that way.
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RE: Is There A Point Of Diminishing Returns On Weightlifting And Attracting Girls?
(04-05-2015 11:46 PM)Bilboswaggins Wrote: I've gone from 160-200 in 3 years at 6 ft, and I think not too much changed from 180 pounds on. I'm talking going from 8-12% body fat at 180-200 respectively, and going from 180 upward didn't really do that much. Let's be real here - you aren't going to ever build enough muscle naturally for this to become an issue, so I suggest everyone regardless of this exact point of diminishing returns to build their maximum amount of muscle and see for themselves. So yes, probably there is diminishing returns and I think many girls don't care beyond a little muscle mass coupled with a low-ish body fat, but once you're ''there'' you'll want to progress just for progress itself, seeing the body change and weight on the bar increase.
Edit: I agree with the Pitt reference as being BS, because he did look better in Troy with more muscle mass and anyone saying these two physiques are only possible with steroids has very low expectations of what the natural body can achieve. I looked like him at 160 and the attention I got then can't even be compared to what I get now. This sort of body is a good physique to aim for, yes, but you'll look like a twig in clothes. If you chop off the head, he'll look like just another skinny teenager with good muscle insertions, bellies and proportions and you either have them or you don't.
In conclusion, more muscle mass with same body fat is always going to be better, but diminshing returns are real. Still, you're gonna be working out anyhow, so why not just eat a small surplus and continue getting bigger, even if it gives you less of a return than it did before? It's not like you're gonna spend more time to achieve more muscle than you have to spend to maintain. This whole debate is pointless if you look at it that way.
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RE: Is There A Point Of Diminishing Returns On Weightlifting And Attracting Girls?
Very few guys get freakishly large - even those on gear. Frankly your post below smacks of lack of knowledge about "androgens". Getting HYOOGE requires more than androgens.
Lifting changed my life. I pull smooth and easy now and I'm no badass playah. I'm in my late 40's I get IOI's from girls in their mid-20's, that simply wasn't the case before I carried the muscle mass I do.
There are many reasons to lift, all of them contribute to poontang pullage. Anyone saying that being ripped doesn't contribute to game is a hater, delusional, uninformed or a liar.
(04-07-2015 07:43 AM)Lechon Wrote: People like easy answers to complex questions. Here are some things to consider.
- Do you have boyish looks that pull chicks, or have your facial features matured already? Because when you're 250 pounds from all those androgens you took, you won't look like a boy no more.
- Do you have a large or small frame? Lots of muscle on a small frame will look unnatural and give you problems.
- How's your cardio? Can you carry big muscle without wheezing and sweating like a pig when you walk around? Not to mention your heart rate/blood pressure.
- Are you athletic or an actual athlete? Is big muscle an asset in your sport(s)? Can you carry extra muscle without becoming inflexible? I remember a particularly good looking and sexy gymnast/athlete girl from school telling me about how disgusted she was by guys who couldn't even jog properly because they were too inflexible from too much lifting and too little all round athleticism. Her boyfriend was the most muscular guy in our class, but all round athletic too.
- Will you come off as a natural human alpha male that's just bigger than other guys because you're more alpha, or a weirdo who thinks adding more muscle will get rid of your insecurity and inferiority issues? Are you a leader like a manager or business owner, do you have a good mood and a winning attitude like Arnold to counter what many people perceive as threatening and intimidating? If you're not that type, can you appear dangerous and intimidating in a way that make women attracted to you, or will you just be a monsterously big asexual/strange freak instead? Because let's face it, a lot of chicks like scary guys.
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RE: Is There A Point Of Diminishing Returns On Weightlifting And Attracting Girls?
What you lot need to realise is this: You need to look muscular in clothes. Forget being satisfied with the Brad Pitt, Fight club look if you look regular with clothes on. That look is only good if you are able to take your clothes off in front of the lizard or if you are in the habit of going out clubbing with no top on. This can be the case in tropical climates but most of you lot live in the West which adheres to a no shirt, no service type of policy and culture.
Get swole enough that you look powerful and not fat in regular clothes. Wear clothes to accentuate that physique. How many men have lost the bang because they took off their clothes and shocked the lizard with a large sprawling belly and unsightly love handles in the heat of the moment? Very few. And any lizard that cancels the bang based on that, can step off.
There is NO point of diminishing returns for a non steroid user weightlifting and getting reptiles. If you keep your bodyfat no higher than 15 percent as a natural lifter and put on muscle, it can only get sweeter not more sour.
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RE: Is There A Point Of Diminishing Returns On Weightlifting And Attracting Girls?
(04-08-2015 01:38 PM)Moma Wrote: What you lot need to realise is this: You need to look muscular in clothes. Forget being satisfied with the Brad Pitt, Fight club look if you look regular with clothes on. That look is only good if you are able to take your clothes off in front of the lizard or if you are in the habit of going out clubbing with no top on. This can be the case in tropical climates but most of you lot live in the West which adheres to a no shirt, no service type of policy and culture.
Get swole enough that you look powerful and not fat in regular clothes. Wear clothes to accentuate that physique. How many men have lost the bang because they took off their clothes and shocked the lizard with a large sprawling belly and unsightly love handles in the heat of the moment? Very few. And any lizard that cancels the bang based on that, can step off.
There is NO point of diminishing returns for a non steroid user weightlifting and getting reptiles. If you keep your bodyfat no higher than 15 percent as a natural lifter and put on muscle, it can only get sweeter not more sour.
In the original point of the thread, diminishing returns means that the increase in attention from going as a skinny guy to being athletic is bigger than going from athletic to full-on natural bodybuilder. So, I would say that diminishing returns indeed exist. The increase is only marginal after you look like you lift with clothes on.
Also, how many natural guys actually look big while being over 12% body fat? It's all an illusion. Once you have enough muscle, the fastest way to look bigger is to drop 5lb of fat. Sorry to disappoint you guys, but if you are an average height male, weighing 160-180 pounds shredded is and looks HUGE by natural standards.
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RE: Is There A Point Of Diminishing Returns On Weightlifting And Attracting Girls?
(04-14-2015 08:36 AM)RexImperator Wrote: I bet someone could come up with a chart that showed optimum LBM per inch height or something like that.
As you increase muscle past some point, perhaps quantity attracted goes up but quality goes down. You become a "type" searched out by "Jersey Shore" sort of girls. I think this requires steroids, though.
I was in bed beside a smokin hot blonde blue eyed aryan beauty. She was telling me how much she hated steroids. Her last boyfriend was on steroids and she juuuuust hated it. Hated it so much she dated and banged him for months. The thing that makes this extra funny is that I was on "steroids" at the time. Yeah, she really hates guys on steroids.
As always, watch what they do, not what they say.
I put steroids in quotations up there because I detest the term. Is someone who drinks alcohol on drugs? Not really, I mean technically yeah, but no one who knew anything about alcohol consumption would say that. Why then is someone on testosterone said to be on steroids? Because people don't understand it, or rather, they misunderstand it because of all of the false propaganda out there against it.
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RE: Is There A Point Of Diminishing Returns On Weightlifting And Attracting Girls?
(04-05-2015 10:29 PM)MrXY Wrote: I still think this is the look most women love and all you really need:
Most women go for lean muscularity over the jacked meathead look. Notice how Pitt doesn't look big when he's fully clothed but you can tell he's lean and toned underneath. The proportions of his chest and shoulders are good compared to his waist. His belly is flat.
His face is angular, which I believe is a huge attraction point. His biceps and triceps have some size and are defined. This is an ideal that natty guys with decent genetics can actually achieve.
At 6 ft, by far the most compliments I have gotten on my body have been when I'm around 175 lbs. Not when I had more muscle, and more fat at 185-190, and definitely not when I was a distance runner at 145-160. At 175, I look pretty close to Pitt in clothes, though I've never been that ripped. A 4 pack, not a 6 pack.
Granted, I've never been jacked and never could be without gear, so I can't say how girls would react to me then. But I do know that I typically don't see the most jacked guys with the hottest girls, and often the girls they are with are not that great at all. The ones I do see with hot girls are more often than not similar to Pitt.
This thread just keeps on going.
Brad Pitt definitely looked good in that film, but you've got to take into account that he would have been pumped, dried out, tanned, and shot in the best possible lighting. If you can look like that cold without the lighting etc., then you're doing pretty well.
As for the lean mass per inch of height, I think there's just too much variation in skeletal structure to be able to do it, which is also one of the problems with BMI. I remember back at 15 when my training partner and I first joined a gym. We were both the same height, and both extremely scrawny because we played so much sport, with single digit body fat. If anything I was a little thicker than him, and yet he outweighed me by around 18 pounds. He had extremely wide shoulders (must have been 21 inches plus without any muscle on), thick bones, and a wider pelvis than me (though not necessarily wide for his height). On the other hand I had a really narrow pelvis, pretty narrow shoulders, and fairly small wrists. Even in my late twenties, I could still make 135 at 6 feet tall pretty comfortably, as long as I didn't lift weights, whereas he would have to go anorexic to be able to do that.
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RE: Is There A Point Of Diminishing Returns On Weightlifting And Attracting Girls?
(04-14-2015 09:05 AM)Kieran Wrote: Even in my late twenties, I could still make 135 at 6 feet tall pretty comfortably, as long as I didn't lift weights, whereas he would have to go anorexic to be able to do that.
Thank you hungry skeleton
Seriously though, I feel your pain with small wrists. I wish I could grow my hands and wrists. I'm always jealous of people with big hands.
No matter how strong I get, they'll always be average..
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Jariel. That is exactly why I don't like night clubs. Me on the dance floor is BAD news. I'm the rare arhythmic black man. But I'm reasonably friendly (wouldn't say outgoing), and I can figure how how to put my clothing on in a way that doesn't make me look like a retard.
Honestly, guys are splitting too many damn hairs in this thread. If you wanna look roided out, go for it. if you think your body looks better lean and muscular, go for it. If you think that you actually can pull off that higher BF but huge muscle head look you should go for that. There is no fucking one size fits all that you can put on all men. I'm 5'7-8 and I would look like an idiot if I was 200 pounds. It's just not a good look for most men at my height. The amount of money I would have to spend on drugs, food, custom clothing and other such things would make it cost-prohibitive for me, not to mention I just don't think I need to be that big. I think the cut off for me at my height would be 155-160. I would have visible muscule mass, but I would still play up my naturally lean/athletic look.
Now 200lbs at 6' is a completely different matter. But 240 at 6' would begin to look a little unnatural for many man. I think It really depends on how your body is naturally built. I think every body type has its pluses and minuses. A lot of my very large friends look great in clothing because of how large they are, but they struggle to keep their weight down.
A lot of my smaller friends disappear in clothing, but you would swear they're much bigger than they are if we hit up the beach together and they're shredded down and six-packed up.
I think the whole point of this is to play up your strengths and downplay your weaknesses. Let's face it, even with roids most of us aren't going to look like a fitness model, but you can still look better than most of the competition if you take the time to build an adequate physique.
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(04-14-2015 09:05 AM)Kieran Wrote: Brad Pitt definitely looked good in that film, but you've got to take into account that he would have been pumped, dried out, tanned, and shot in the best possible lighting. If you can look like that cold without the lighting etc., then you're doing pretty well.
This is a good point.
The smaller you are, the more you are a victim to lighting and complexion.
For a naturally very fair/ pale guy like myself, I can literally go from looking amazing to good to shitty by simply changing the lighting. I'm assuming this is the same for the darker black, Indian, etc. guys. Fuck you tan bastards in the middle
But that mostly only applies to definition. If you're big, you're going to look big in every light. Just like you're going to look big whether you're wearing clothes or not.
To address the question, I think where the diminishing returns come in is when guys think about this stuff to the point of obsession.
"Do you think I'll attract more HB8s at 8% BF and 185 pounds or 9% BF and 190 pounds?"
Who the fuck cares? Whatever tiny advantage you may get one way or the other will be offset by the approval seeking mentality that even lead you down that line of thinking in the first place.
You'd be much better off just working out for yourself and owning it.
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