Hahah Scotian and i have had some good laughs about or experiences meeting with JJ and his famous hat..Im going to write a book called " How not to be a douche 3.0" and give it to J.J. The book will mainly focus and how not to wear big stupid hats when trying to get into clubs and also not telling people you have "models" waiting for you all over the world and then turing up on a double date with someone who is obese and unattractive...ebook version should be out soon.

P.S the double date story was a fun night..the best parts were taking a cab and when we got to our destiantion Mr Roberts making his date pay her share of the cab ride....1000 peso.... and at that time my spanish was terrible so i had JJ speak to my girl for a bit in spanish to make sure wasnt a hooker...by the time we got back to my apartment she was so upset she used google translate to tell me he was the biggest jerk she had ever met and that i should never see him again... she wasnt a hooker and i ended up banging her for 1 month straight!..Thanks JJ!!

Roberts is my hero.

We need a photo of this hat. It sounds amazing.

How common are girls that look like this in Colombia? Chick is gorgeous.

https://instagram.com/p/uLOZq3H0wS/?take...haelanoroc

This video shows why SEA is so fun.





https://vimeo.com/120269572

Description from the video **This is not me**
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I traveled through Vietnam on a motorbike that I purchased over there. I also traveled to Singapore, Thailand, and Philippines. I spent approximately a month a half over there. I purchased a bike in the north of Vietnam for $235 USD and sold it for $110 USD in Saigon. I was riding on a Honda Win 110cc. Surprisingly the journey was not expensive as you would think. When I was riding through Vietnam Pho was about 1 USD everywhere. Gas was about $5 USD a day and hotels ranged from $3-10 dollars split with my friends.If you plan to go on a journey like be sure to bring some water proof gear, as I assure you will most likely ride in rain (at least in the tropical climate). I have to say that the best riding days were when we would take highways that ended on our map. One time we came to the end of a highway and rode through a rice paddy and took a boat across a river. We eventually rode through a small village and everyone was so surprised to see couple americans riding through. We stumbled upon some kids who were getting out of class (in the end of the video). Here is my journey filmed entirely with a Gopro 3+ Black.
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I met JJ Roberts- late 30s or early 40s fat dude w/a cowboy hat.

I took him to this hipster burlesque bar and girls would come up to talk to me and be like "who's that weird dude next to you w/the long hair and dressed in all black w/cowboy hat".

He would tell girls "that relationships are bullshit and this is sex 3.0. I wrote a book about this and just interviewed Neil Strauss from the game". They looked at him like a clown let out of the circus.

One of the weirder forum meet-ups I've had. I googled him @ the time, so I thought he was just an artsy type (ala Goldmund), but I promptly declined all future proposals to hang out and cut contact.

Funny enough, I've messaged Scotian when he mentioned a British guy "guru" who he had a beef with. Immediately I knew exactly who he was talking about.

Seems like JJ is spamming loads of places, STW included. Knowing what I've heard about the guy, his comments in below post made me laugh.
http://swooptheworld.com/she-caught-me-c...qus_thread

I'm always a little sceptical of guys claiming to run completely honest and open relationships with hot girls. It just doesn't fit with my own experiences. Great claims require great evidence.

(03-31-2015 04:14 AM)dreambig Wrote:  Seems like JJ is spamming loads of places, STW included. Knowing what I've heard about the guy, his comments in below post made me laugh.
http://swooptheworld.com/she-caught-me-c...qus_thread

I'm always a little sceptical of guys claiming to run completely honest and open relationships with hot girls. It just doesn't fit with my own experiences. Great claims require great evidence.

Yeah. You can do that with Asian women, if you how how to do it. Open Wife + mistresses game basically.

Outside of that, the only people I know that can pull stuff like that off are Naturals that have at least one more attribute going for them other than a silver tongue mouthpiece. Tall with elite good looks, alot of money and success, or some modicum of fame.

(03-31-2015 09:53 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  Yeah. You can do that with Asian women, if you how how to do it. Open Wife + mistresses game basically.

Outside of that, the only people I know that can pull stuff like that off are Naturals that have at least one more attribute going for them other than a silver tongue mouthpiece. Tall with elite good looks, alot of money and success, or some modicum of fame.

Bestow us with your wisdom, sensei.

You can do that w/low-class women or high-class women that are playing around on the side too (open marriage).

Don't mistake that for open on your end, closed on her end.

If you want to be a happily married playboy, you need to lie. Anybody tell you otherwise is lying.

I've seen the "open wife + mistress" shit. It falls apart. It might work for a year or five, but its a ticking time-bomb. The dude is always worried about his wife chopping his nuts off in his sleep. Nah, id pass.

I dated a girl whos dad was an open playboy. Its a terrible thing on family. Its selfish. Don't do it.

In Thailand you can have a wife and a mistress, but you have to keep it hidden. The wife knows, but it's a don't ask don't tell type of deal. Definitely don't let her friends catch you out with your mistress or she will have a massive loss of face and who knows how she will react.

The Thai girls I know whose dads have a mistress (mia noi) aren't happy about it at all and seems to cause friction between them.

Kai, I don't know about the mistress thing in China but isn't there a soft P4P element involved with that? Those Chinese rich guys seem like glorified sugar daddies to me.

There were a couple of "PUA" guys in Japan that made claims like JJ. Turns out they were banging 30-40+ year-old women, i.e. the ones that nobody wants. Laughable how they would lecture people on being open and not lying to girls. It's 100% the opposite to what I've seen and heard. Asian girls will let you cheat but they don't want that shit in their faces. Better to say nothing and let them live the dream that you are being faithful. Lie to them with a straight face to let them save face and more importantly, not hurt their feelings. Hurt feelings = drama

Show me someone doing the "100% honest open relationship" thing with hot 18-23 year-olds in their prime and you will have my attention. Those girls don't tend to stick around if there isn't at least an illusion of exclusivity. Sure you can do it for a while but you are going to lose them by being stupid and talking about banging other chicks.

In China, you can do but you need enough money to keep them longer than a year. Er nai, does not mean you always have 2 wives. You can have as many as you can financially support. It could take anything from 400 a month up to 3000 a month, depending upon your girls. You would probably have to keep a main as a wife to avoid your others from demanding marriage at some point. All this shit is completely open. Some guys keep it under wraps, some are in public with both, and the wife's only rule is do not bring the others into her house. There is no p4p element because that would defeat the purpose of having clean and exclusive women on the side. Having kept women maintains their cleanliness. Guys that do not have open arraignments do p4p.

Some have open p4p arraignments but their restriction is no raw dogging by their wives, but I do not know too many guys that do this. Most p4p Chinese guys I know, keep that shit a secret all the way.

DVY and Rio was spot on 100%. It hurts the family and makes rifts between your daughters and maybe your sons. I have seen the damage it causes personally. It's not worth it in my opinion. If you do not want kids ever, go ahead, you won't hurt anyone then, but you will need distractions because the main might require a kid for this arraignment and the other girls will see that you have no kids with the main and will bug you non-stop about it.

Kai, if I remember correctly, you've mentioned before that when Chinese women have kids, the relationship tends to fall more into a mother and father relationship instead of a husband and wife relationship, i.e., less intimacy.

So if you don't have a mistress, who are you fucking? Random chicks? The maid? And I don't mean "you" specifically, I'm talking in a general sense.

(That post may not have even been you, but I'm pretty sure I remember that being said about Chinese women)

Last night involved death threats, having my passport held hostage, and some kickass Parkour on my part. I asked my friends back home what they did...Battlefield and Netflix. To each his own.

And the other rule, is never, ever, ever bring home a kid out of wedlock.

(04-01-2015 07:00 AM)TravelerKai Wrote:  In China, you can do but you need enough money to keep them longer than a year. Er nai, does not mean you always have 2 wives. You can have as many as you can financially support. It could take anything from 400 a month up to 3000 a month, depending upon your girls. You would probably have to keep a main as a wife to avoid your others from demanding marriage at some point. All this shit is completely open. Some guys keep it under wraps, some are in public with both, and the wife's only rule is do not bring the others into her house. There is no p4p element because that would defeat the purpose of having clean and exclusive women on the side. Having kept women maintains their cleanliness. Guys that do not have open arraignments do p4p.

Some have open p4p arraignments but their restriction is no raw dogging by their wives, but I do not know too many guys that do this. Most p4p Chinese guys I know, keep that shit a secret all the way.

DVY and Rio was spot on 100%. It hurts the family and makes rifts between your daughters and maybe your sons. I have seen the damage it causes personally. It's not worth it in my opinion. If you do not want kids ever, go ahead, you won't hurt anyone then, but you will need distractions because the main might require a kid for this arraignment and the other girls will see that you have no kids with the main and will bug you non-stop about it.

(04-01-2015 12:12 PM)Enigma Wrote:  Kai, if I remember correctly, you've mentioned before that when Chinese women have kids, the relationship tends to fall more into a mother and father relationship instead of a husband and wife relationship, i.e., less intimacy.

So if you don't have a mistress, who are you fucking? Random chicks? The maid? And I don't mean "you" specifically, I'm talking in a general sense.

(That post may not have even been you, but I'm pretty sure I remember that being said about Chinese women)

I doubt I said something like that. If that was true I would not marry one.

If they are in between mistresses they just get another one. Not hard at all. Dudes like that don't struggle to find pussy like that. Mistresses also provide face.

Westerners play with rolex watches, iphones, at the meeting table. Chinese men show each other their mistresses. Maid chasing is something the knuckleheads do.

(04-01-2015 01:35 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  

(04-01-2015 12:12 PM)Enigma Wrote:  Kai, if I remember correctly, you've mentioned before that when Chinese women have kids, the relationship tends to fall more into a mother and father relationship instead of a husband and wife relationship, i.e., less intimacy.

So if you don't have a mistress, who are you fucking? Random chicks? The maid? And I don't mean "you" specifically, I'm talking in a general sense.

(That post may not have even been you, but I'm pretty sure I remember that being said about Chinese women)

I doubt I said something like that. If that was true I would not marry one.

If they are in between mistresses they just get another one. Not hard at all. Dudes like that don't struggle to find pussy like that. Mistresses also provide face.

Westerners play with rolex watches, iphones, at the meeting table. Chinese men show each other their mistresses. Maid chasing is something the knuckleheads do.

Ah, ok. Could've sworn I saw that posted somewhere. They were saying that's one of the reasons the wives are fine with the men having mistresses.

Regarding the other part, I was referring to the comments that you shouldn't have a mistress if you have kids. I think we all know what to do if we don't already have a mistress

There are men that have wives that won't put out after kids, but that isn't unique to Chinese. There are plenty people worldwide like that. Japan is notable for that though.

(04-01-2015 02:06 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  There are men that have wives that won't put out after kids

Wife that doesn't put out = free pass to cheat

(04-01-2015 04:04 PM)username Wrote:  

(04-01-2015 02:06 PM)TravelerKai Wrote:  There are men that have wives that won't put out after kids

Wife that doesn't put out = free pass to cheat

Well make sure you talk about this with any woman you think you might marry. I told my wife straight up that if she ever went cold on me, I would either cut her loose or find an outlet because my drive is too high to play games of cheating and hiding with any woman. I had at least 3 other gfs at the time and she knew all their names too, so she knew I was dead serious and knew how to find plenty Chinese girls.

She told me not to worry about and that I would see. Well her drive is higher than mine, so I don't have that problem. Yet another reason to always marry a younger woman by at least 5 years or so...but alas I digress...

Boots on the ground in Berlin. Thankful I'm traveling with a girl because I don't see many attractive women here.

I'm in Stockholm. The talent is good especially compared to my recent stay in Berlin.

Greetings from Nashville

The downside to working in coffee shops in NGO-heavy destinations. Listening to some neutered guy have a long, drawn-out conversation with his latest feminist girlfriend where every sentence is yet another overkill effort to convince her how conscious he is of gender issues.

It doesn't take this much effort to get laid, Buddy. I promise.

(04-11-2015 12:44 AM)Beyond Borders Wrote:  

The downside to working in coffee shops in NGO-heavy destinations. Listening to some neutered guy have a long, drawn-out conversation with his latest feminist girlfriend where every sentence is yet another overkill effort to convince her how conscious he is of gender issues.

It doesn't take this much effort to get laid, Buddy. I promise.

"If only life were like this":