(02-10-2017 02:28 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  Ok so I asked her out for cocktails like 10 days ago and I got this reply today. For your info I know shes unemployed. She looks really good if thats important.

Her: This might sound shitty but only if you're willing to pay. I'm struggling financially and I can't be spending at all. Sorry for the late answer, I've been dealing with a lot of shit

Wow next this ugly hoe.

(02-14-2017 09:00 AM)BrunoCasanova Wrote:  Chick I've recently met sent me this as I was about to set up a 2nd date:

Quote:"Waiting for my roses for Valentine's day first. Question is how charming you can be"

Thinking about this: "Yeah, I was gonna take u to Dubai tonight darling but my privat jet is on maintenance now. so unfortunatly i wont be able to pick u up. But we'll grab a glass and make up for it in the weekend"

Any better ideas? Would be sort of nice to flip it around so the frame almost becomes so that she has to impress me instead.

Cheers!

IMHO, I'd next her right away and won't even bother with a reply.
You had one date and she's already demanding shit?

If you insist on replying, maybe something like "Waiting for my Valentine's Day sex/blowjob first. Question is how bad you want those roses."

(02-16-2017 11:05 AM)Grenblin Wrote:  

(02-14-2017 09:00 AM)BrunoCasanova Wrote:  Chick I've recently met sent me this as I was about to set up a 2nd date:

Quote:"Waiting for my roses for Valentine's day first. Question is how charming you can be"

Thinking about this: "Yeah, I was gonna take u to Dubai tonight darling but my privat jet is on maintenance now. so unfortunatly i wont be able to pick u up. But we'll grab a glass and make up for it in the weekend"

Any better ideas? Would be sort of nice to flip it around so the frame almost becomes so that she has to impress me instead.

Cheers!

IMHO, I'd next her right away and won't even bother with a reply.
You had one date and she's already demanding shit?

If you insist on replying, maybe something like "Waiting for my Valentine's Day sex/blowjob first. Question is how bad you want those roses."

No no no. Ghost the bitch.

(02-16-2017 10:37 AM)blacknwhitespade Wrote:  What are some good Valentines Day zingers? I just had a girl text me this on Tinder:

Me: "where is the get to know you better button?"
Her: Happy Valentines Day

I'd use some sort of corny cliche, like "Happy Valentine's _ay". I'll give you the D when I see you."

(02-16-2017 11:08 AM)Rusplaya Wrote:  

(02-16-2017 11:05 AM)Grenblin Wrote:  

(02-14-2017 09:00 AM)BrunoCasanova Wrote:  Chick I've recently met sent me this as I was about to set up a 2nd date:

Quote:"Waiting for my roses for Valentine's day first. Question is how charming you can be"

Thinking about this: "Yeah, I was gonna take u to Dubai tonight darling but my privat jet is on maintenance now. so unfortunatly i wont be able to pick u up. But we'll grab a glass and make up for it in the weekend"

Any better ideas? Would be sort of nice to flip it around so the frame almost becomes so that she has to impress me instead.

Cheers!

IMHO, I'd next her right away and won't even bother with a reply.
You had one date and she's already demanding shit?

If you insist on replying, maybe something like "Waiting for my Valentine's Day sex/blowjob first. Question is how bad you want those roses."

No no no. Ghost the bitch.

That's my first suggested variant. But it never hurts to throw some shit back at her, always makes me feel better

Also: Wassup my Russian brotha!

(02-16-2017 11:10 AM)Grenblin Wrote:  

(02-16-2017 11:08 AM)Rusplaya Wrote:  

(02-16-2017 11:05 AM)Grenblin Wrote:  

(02-14-2017 09:00 AM)BrunoCasanova Wrote:  Chick I've recently met sent me this as I was about to set up a 2nd date:

Quote:"Waiting for my roses for Valentine's day first. Question is how charming you can be"

Thinking about this: "Yeah, I was gonna take u to Dubai tonight darling but my privat jet is on maintenance now. so unfortunatly i wont be able to pick u up. But we'll grab a glass and make up for it in the weekend"

Any better ideas? Would be sort of nice to flip it around so the frame almost becomes so that she has to impress me instead.

Cheers!

IMHO, I'd next her right away and won't even bother with a reply.
You had one date and she's already demanding shit?

If you insist on replying, maybe something like "Waiting for my Valentine's Day sex/blowjob first. Question is how bad you want those roses."

No no no. Ghost the bitch.

That's my first suggested variant. But it never hurts to throw some shit back at her, always makes me feel better

Also: Wassup my Russian brotha!

Back at ya brother.

and I cannot believe women have the balls to say shit like that.

(02-16-2017 11:13 AM)Rusplaya Wrote:  Back at ya brother.

and I cannot believe women have the balls to say shit like that.

Seriously? I hear that shit quite often ESPECIALLY from our homeland chicks.
"A man must chase me, prove to me that he needs me, preferably with expensive gifts and dinners, then I'll know that he is serious."
This is a huge red flag for me, when I hear this shit, I GTFO as soon as I can.

(02-16-2017 11:16 AM)Grenblin Wrote:  

(02-16-2017 11:13 AM)Rusplaya Wrote:  Back at ya brother.

and I cannot believe women have the balls to say shit like that.

Seriously? I hear that shit quite often ESPECIALLY from our homeland chicks.
"A man must chase me, prove to me that he needs me, preferably with expensive gifts and dinners, then I'll know that he is serious."
This is a huge red flag for me, when I hear this shit, I GTFO as soon as I can.

Wow wow. No wounder I do not date Russian hoes. Only hooked up with two but they are american raised.

It is a shame men fall for this bullshit tactic.

(02-16-2017 11:21 AM)Rusplaya Wrote:  

(02-16-2017 11:16 AM)Grenblin Wrote:  

(02-16-2017 11:13 AM)Rusplaya Wrote:  Back at ya brother.

and I cannot believe women have the balls to say shit like that.

Seriously? I hear that shit quite often ESPECIALLY from our homeland chicks.
"A man must chase me, prove to me that he needs me, preferably with expensive gifts and dinners, then I'll know that he is serious."
This is a huge red flag for me, when I hear this shit, I GTFO as soon as I can.

Wow wow. No wounder I do not date Russian hoes. Only hooked up with two but they are american raised.

It is a shame men fall for this bullshit tactic.

My go-to reply to this is the popular meme


Also, I fucking loved this gem. I match with a Russian girl on a dating website, message her and she replies: "Please prove to me why I should go on a date with you."

Ideas gents?

(02-16-2017 12:05 PM)Rusplaya Wrote:  Ideas gents?

Tell her you'd rather speak to her on the phone, or do it in person.

(02-16-2017 12:05 PM)Rusplaya Wrote:  Ideas gents?

Jesus resize your screenshots.

I'd send a birthday cat after waiting 12-24 hours minimum.

What a weirdo.

I would not fall into her frame of "small talk" and answering logically/directly.

This is a milf who was the manager of a restaurant. I was afraid to send her my last message, fearing she would be "offended" that I called her a girl but to my surprise she responded well.
Now I don't know how to generate some "sparks" before asking her out.

   
   

^I would never text a chick "I understands u girl"... Sounds limp-wristed as hell.

Just text her back "Let's celebrate your recovery with a drink" and set it up from there. You got nothing to lose. Let your boldness be the spark.

(02-14-2017 09:00 AM)BrunoCasanova Wrote:  Chick I've recently met sent me this as I was about to set up a 2nd date:

Quote:"Waiting for my roses for Valentine's day first. Question is how charming you can be"

Thinking about this: "Yeah, I was gonna take u to Dubai tonight darling but my privat jet is on maintenance now. so unfortunatly i wont be able to pick u up. But we'll grab a glass and make up for it in the weekend"

Any better ideas? Would be sort of nice to flip it around so the frame almost becomes so that she has to impress me instead.

Cheers!

This is just in the flow of conversation, as i understood it?

Its not a "get me flowers so i go out with you" statement, i took it as more dumb meaningless flirting/posturing that constitutes 90% of girls chat.

Why are people nexting her...

(02-10-2017 02:28 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  Ok so I asked her out for cocktails like 10 days ago and I got this reply today. For your info I know shes unemployed. She looks really good if thats important.

Her: This might sound shitty but only if you're willing to pay. I'm struggling financially and I can't be spending at all. Sorry for the late answer, I've been dealing with a lot of shit

I would take her out. What she said and the way she said it didnt rub me personally the wrong way.

(02-18-2017 09:32 AM)DarianFrey Wrote:  ^I would never text a chick "I understands u girl"... Sounds limp-wristed as hell.

Just text her back "Let's celebrate your recovery with a drink" and set it up from there. You got nothing to lose. Let your boldness be the spark.

OK. Although that was meant to be kind of patronizing and the mis-conjugation was to convey this.

(02-18-2017 10:26 AM)Beirut Wrote:  

(02-10-2017 02:28 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  Ok so I asked her out for cocktails like 10 days ago and I got this reply today. For your info I know shes unemployed. She looks really good if thats important.

Her: This might sound shitty but only if you're willing to pay. I'm struggling financially and I can't be spending at all. Sorry for the late answer, I've been dealing with a lot of shit

I would take her out. What she said and the way she said it didnt rub me personally the wrong way.

He can also tell her to come over. "I've got some [insert type of booze] at home."

(02-18-2017 11:05 AM)duedue Wrote:  

(02-18-2017 09:32 AM)DarianFrey Wrote:  ^I would never text a chick "I understands u girl"... Sounds limp-wristed as hell.

Just text her back "Let's celebrate your recovery with a drink" and set it up from there. You got nothing to lose. Let your boldness be the spark.

OK. Although that was meant to be kind of patronizing and the mis-conjugation was to convey this.

To clarify, it was not meant as a dig towards you brother. Just a general observation.

Keep us updated!

(02-18-2017 11:06 AM)duedue Wrote:  

(02-18-2017 10:26 AM)Beirut Wrote:  

(02-10-2017 02:28 PM)Rekkd Wrote:  Ok so I asked her out for cocktails like 10 days ago and I got this reply today. For your info I know shes unemployed. She looks really good if thats important.

Her: This might sound shitty but only if you're willing to pay. I'm struggling financially and I can't be spending at all. Sorry for the late answer, I've been dealing with a lot of shit

I would take her out. What she said and the way she said it didnt rub me personally the wrong way.

He can also tell her to come over. "I've got some [insert type of booze] at home."

Yeah. Id save that for the 2nd date personally, if shes really hot and im into her.
Its natural to assume she will bring it up on the first date when/after he pays, so second time he can just invite her over.

A hot girl can find a million ways to make the guy pay anyway, at least this one was upfront and acknowledged it (unless guys never pay for dates in canada or something).


And anyway, even if its a mistake bla bla bla, you get her on the date and you game her there. Whats the point of nexting her?

Its like poker. If you trust your post flop skills, you can afford to make pre-flop mistakes. The payoffs postflop will balance it out.

Invited the milf for a drink.

   

She is kind of a hippy so my last line was to tease her. But I think I gave up too easy (weak frame). Could have said "Never stop experiencing."

(02-22-2017 07:58 AM)duedue Wrote:  Invited the milf for a drink.


She is kind of a hippy so my last line was to tease her. But I think I gave up too easy (weak frame). Could have said "Never stop experiencing."

Nexting her was probably the most reasonable thing to do.

Speaking of your repartee, I think it wasn't a good one, you played to the frame she established. I'd go with i dont plan to be you bf or something borderline curt and low-investment, say you talk shite or, simply lol.

Mind the spelling and punctuation.

^ My frame is very weak and now that I've become more interested in this I see it's been like that since my childhood. I tend to take what physicists call "path of least resistance" which translates, more or less, to avoiding conflict.

What's a good non-beta farewell text to a girl (banged a few times) that's moving to another city but I'd like to keep in touch every now and then.

^^^
See you when I see you