Post: #276

(05-26-2018 10:38 AM)DonnyGately Wrote:  A slightly softer correction is 'Put your phone away.' I use a raised eyebrow also if she doesn't immediately comply.

Yeah, pretty much the same thing. I should've added: I don't bark it like a command, definitely not something to embarrass her or cause a scene. It's more just in a hushed, but emotionless tone... Then I don't scowl at her or look at her menacingly, more like a blank stare and no response until she complies. When she does put the phone away, I say, "Thank you."

Post: #277

(08-20-2013 11:02 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  Does waterboarding count as BDSM/Domination?

Yes, I've been asked to do this.

Post: #278

I have this girl which I want to escalate a little bit more to see her limits. I want to do it gradually though . This is what I have done so far in order :

1- I spanked her
2- I choked her
3-I slapped her on the face .
What would the next step after the slapping ?
I don’t want to go too far too soon .

Post: #279

(10-06-2018 08:57 AM)Mizo1234 Wrote:  I have this girl which I want to escalate a little bit more to see her limits. I want to do it gradually though . This is what I have done so far in order :

1- I spanked her
2- I choked her
3-I slapped her on the face .
What would the next step after the slapping ?
I don’t want to go too far too soon .

Next time you unbuckle your belt to get down to business, you tie her hands with it.

You'd be surprised how many girls' eyes light up and they willingly let you do it.

My escalation ladder with this BDSM stuff is usually:

1 - Light ass spanking
2 - Choking
3 - Hair pulling
4 - Harder ass spanking

If they like all of these and it turns them on, I proceed with

5 - Tieing up hands
6 - Blindfold

After that anything goes and we'll take it to the point we're both comfortable with.

Actually I think if you've slapped her in the face already, she'd probably be down for all of this. I consider face slapping more extreme than all of the above 6.

Having said that, I've never even done face slapping so take it with a grain of salt. Maybe it's just because I don't get turned on by it at all so it doesn't even cross my mind.

Post: #280

I wasn't into it until I met several girls whose eyes lit up and pussies started gushing when they asked if I would do it or made it clear they desired very rough sex. I agree with you that it's like step 6 though. But I've had girls literally ask me to slap them hard if they gag while deepthroating and pull their head off.
[Insert joke about what's the difference btw a sorority girl and a mosquito...]

Hey, whatever works right?

It's just a pure power & dominance display. It's not like you're trying to leave marks or bruises there. And like spanking and choking there's definitely a spectrum of very light to hard.