Post: #26

Vancouver anyone?

Post: #27

You n me ballsy. I'm free next weekend if you want to meet up. My game is hardly what I would call tight but it could be fun to critique each other and what not.

Post: #28

Cleveland anyone?

Post: #29

I am sure they are more than a few guys in ATL that could use some of your experience...

(07-27-2013 10:03 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(07-27-2013 06:26 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  I have a guy coming to ATL who needs help. Maybe you can both work on your dry spells together

(07-27-2013 11:30 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(07-27-2013 01:10 AM)kickboxer Wrote:  Ali I need help with my blackout game. I'm going to get blackout soon and I'll call you

I need help too. My last blackout game ended me up with a shattered leg, 10K hospital bill,and an epic dry spell.

Maybe this thread could be a sticky in the newbie section. I've been advocating this for a long time. Guys join the forum wanting help, but there's only so much we can do via typing. I believe most problems can be ironed out hanging out with experienced members.

IME, guys meetup and talk a lot about game, have a few drinks, and go on the hunt. It's constructive and has a loads of comradery.

An evolution from meetups to mentoring.

Post: #30

(07-28-2013 07:47 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  I am sure they are more than a few guys in ATL that could use some of your experience...

(07-27-2013 10:03 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(07-27-2013 06:26 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  I have a guy coming to ATL who needs help. Maybe you can both work on your dry spells together

(07-27-2013 11:30 AM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

(07-27-2013 01:10 AM)kickboxer Wrote:  Ali I need help with my blackout game. I'm going to get blackout soon and I'll call you

I need help too. My last blackout game ended me up with a shattered leg, 10K hospital bill,and an epic dry spell.

Maybe this thread could be a sticky in the newbie section. I've been advocating this for a long time. Guys join the forum wanting help, but there's only so much we can do via typing. I believe most problems can be ironed out hanging out with experienced members.

IME, guys meetup and talk a lot about game, have a few drinks, and go on the hunt. It's constructive and has a loads of comradery.

An evolution from meetups to mentoring.

What exactly is blackout game? Is it literally you getting blackout drunk or what? I've never heard this term before.

Post: #31

There are just making a joke slacker.

Post: #32

^^^No we're not.

Blackout game:

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When blackout game goes wrong:


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Post: #33

Roosh had an Ambassador program going for the forum and then shut it down, I think for members who are wiling to help others and are open to disclosing their location that would have been a great idea.

I will ask Roosh to consider starting the program again.

Post: #34

I am looking for help in Sydney AU, pm me if you are interested in heading out for some day and night game.

Post: #35

I'm 20, student, Amsterdam.

I would love to meet up with some of the forum members here. I'm definitely a nooby (been in this for 3 months). I started out doing the Roosh day bang model with little success. Guys on this forum quickly steered me in the direct direction. It immediately felt natural and while I have a long way to go, I feel my confidence has soared and it brought me some success.

The best resource I've come across is the London daygame model, i.e. Krauser, Yad, etc. These guys basically run up to a girl, stop her in front and go:

hey, can I say something quick? [wait for acknowledgement] I just saw you walking past and I had to come over, you look really nice.

And go from there.

I'm in the utter beginner phase with this technique, but I wanna master this above all else.

Anyone who is near Amsterdam I'm glad to meet up with. I'd also love to skype with people who are doing this type of approach as well, so we can share experiences.

Post: #36

Why don't you contact Krauser and see if he would help out?

Post: #37

Nomad --- I'm free this week and am going to do 5 approaches a day. I feel that coming in as a total noobie on someone with that track record is almost an insult. Maybe after a string of approaches a mail to him might help me. At any rate, I can try. I doubt these guys do anything for free though, I saw that you can hire Yad for 750 pounds a day.

Besides, I already have their "daygame blueprint" dvds (look online), it has brilliant infield material. I know the work that is ahead of me

I'm confident I will get the details of this stuff right after practice, the bigger challenge is creating an environment where this behaviour (going out to meet girls, always working on yourself) is the norm.

I think that just talking with like minded guys regularly is already a huge thing. I don't have many friends that are on this path, and getting to know more people that are self improvement oriented like us (the RVF) is one of my biggest priorities right now. I think this is the case for many people on here.

Great thread.

Post: #38

Three simple rules of life that applies equality to women:

1. If you do not go after what you want, you will never get it;

2. If you don't ask, the answer will always be no;

3. If you do not step forward, you'll always be in the same place.

Post: #39

Green,

I live near you. Send me a msg. I'm a noob as well.

Post: #40

I have to write all of this up into some sort of organized piece but for now I will just drop some suggestions that I give to guys that come to me. The first two things I tell them is:

1. You have to start with the right frame of mind. If you are going out there upset, depressed, anti-social, tired, etc. you will be working against yourself. You want to be going out there in an upbeat, social, energetic mood. Your mood will dictate how you come across to women more than anything else about you. If you are going out there with some serious negativity about women, it will come across to them.

2. You are NOT going out there to pick up women. Don't think of what you are doing as picking up women. Think of it as just being social and friendly. You are just engaging women on a social basis. That's it! The moment you start thinking this way you will take a lot of pressure off of yourself and the interaction. If she's impolite that's her problem because she has no social class or manners.

If you can go out there with this mindset then you will already have a major advantage before you even approach the first woman.

Post: #41

me and another rvf member daygame and night game together in Manhattan. anyone down for a quick game sesh hmu

Post: #42

I would also highly recommended the book Models by Mark Manson

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Post: #43

(07-29-2013 09:09 AM)GreenGranted Wrote:  Anyone who is near Amsterdam I'm glad to meet up with. I'd also love to skype with people who are doing this type of approach as well, so we can share experiences.

Hey Greengranted/Every10, I'm not gonna be in town much until September, but I'd be incredibly down to get in some meetups. Would be great to get the kick in the ass I need for my game.

I'm also studying in Amsterdam, so this should be great.

Post: #44

(07-29-2013 06:27 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  I would also highly recommended the book Models by Mark Manson

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Nomad, can you give cliffs on this book? IIRC this guy doesn't like Roosh, right?

Post: #45

He has an issue with the pickup community in general and their stance on women - calling them sluts etc. His approach is mostly about finding a good girl to have a relationships with NOT picking up women for sex. This is what I believe most guys want anyway. Most guys don't have what it takes to be a Roosh and they are not willing to put in the work.

While what he advocates will work the problem with America is the market and the damaged women. Doesn't matter what you do in America you are still selecting from the same population of crazy women. There are some decent ones out there but there are a small minority. Depending on where you are in the country it can get better or worse. Miami for example, is pretty bad.

Post: #46

I am currently moving to the Dupont Cir region of DC, I'll be moved in by September. I'm up for meeting some wingmen...not for picking up chicks (I like to work solo), but more for meeting up before going out, pumping up, and being around in case of failures/number closures/etc...

Post: #47

anyone near boston? you'll have a place to crash for a week for two as well.

i need some help badly.... my room mate said he would, but the most he's done is thrown me under the bus... and that's been 2 years.

Post: #48

@akp55 The forum haven't been able to help?

Post: #49

i've tried, even just doing cold approaches... i'm missing something and i don't know what it is..... maybe i reek of desperation... i have no clue.
i've been here dolo for like 6 years too.

(07-31-2013 09:26 PM)Nomad77 Wrote:  @akp55 The forum haven't been able to help?

Post: #50

(07-29-2013 04:24 PM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  Green,

I live near you. Send me a msg. I'm a noob as well.

(07-31-2013 07:22 AM)thebassist Wrote:  

(07-29-2013 09:09 AM)GreenGranted Wrote:  Anyone who is near Amsterdam I'm glad to meet up with. I'd also love to skype with people who are doing this type of approach as well, so we can share experiences.

Hey Greengranted/Every10, I'm not gonna be in town much until September, but I'd be incredibly down to get in some meetups. Would be great to get the kick in the ass I need for my game.

I'm also studying in Amsterdam, so this should be great.

Same here.
21 years old living in Haarlem.
Would be nice to have our own dutch crew in this beta infested country.
Im back in september aswell. Would be nice to have a meeting.