Post: #3251

I can't be in five places at once. I wish I could but I can't, so I had to flake on all of them but one. I picked the hottest one (9:30) and didn't get laid. I had a good time though, turns out we're both alcoholics. We got drunk as shit and passed out in my bed.

Post: #3252

this morning I wake up and began doing a few auto swipes on tinder. usually I blindly swipe. it's morning so I'm moving a bit slower than usual.

I come across my main regular bitch. same bitch crys and crys to be with me constantly. been searching for a reason to drop her like a hot potato.

should I just go cold turkey on her or what guys?

Post: #3253

^^ Attractive women don't fall in the water, they jump from raft to raft.

Cold turkey as in never seeing her again? If you don't want to ever see her again I suppose.
If you just want to re-kindle and re-tingle to what was, just cut back on contact.

Relationships have a shelf-life. If you aren't meeting her requirements for a LTR, she'll look elsewhere. Whatever you do, you can't totally control her, she may leave regardless of your actions.

Post: #3254

^^^ yes I was speaking of going the "never see her again" route.

I've been letting my harem go one by one. I'm bored of them now.

Post: #3255

Time to start anew Mr. Butterworth!

Women don't know what they want, and lets be honest, how many girls that are DATING do you see on Tinder? She's probably just using the app as an ego boost, because every time she swipes right, she will get a match.

Post: #3256

^^ I think I'm just gonna tell her we're done with no explanation and let her head spin around that shit.

Post: #3257

^^ Update:

me: we're done. you can keep the movie I left in your laptop.

her: what? what's going on?

(tries to call seconds later. I don't answer)

her: Please don't make me feel crazy and just send me something short, I have no idea what could be wrong

Post: #3258

(08-07-2014 05:42 PM)Mr. Butterworth Wrote:  ^^ Update:

me: we're done. you can keep the movie I left in your laptop.

her: what? what's going on?

(tries to call seconds later. I don't answer)

her: Please don't make me feel crazy and just send me something short, I have no idea what could be wrong

And the hamster begins to spin into overdrive. She'll probably try doing damage control.

Post: #3259

Hey Guys- long-time reader, first time poster. I wanted to debrief and ask some questions regarding my first day approach in a long time:

This afternoon, I approached a 6 in a museum. I had a fancy camera with me, and I noticed she was studying in an interesting spot with cool light. I asked if she minded if I took a shot (the picture actually was a good shot, regardless of my desire to approach) and we started chatting from there.

The interaction lasted for about 10 minutes and she seemed receptive. We had a decent back and forth, with her giving me some detailed answers to my questions about her, although I noticed she wasn't asking me follow-up questions. In any case, she mentioned that she liked hiking and that she was new to the area and didn't know any spots. After telling her about a few good spots, I segued into a suggestion that we go hiking sometime and that she should give me her phone number. She did (!).

A few positives about the approach: Had the balls to approach (duh), acted fairly cool overall, got the number. During the approach I was definitely nervous, although I had good vocal tone, wasn't fidgeting and overall didn't do anything too obvious to show I was uncomfortable.

A few negatives: After she gave me her number, I got a bit more uncomfortable, and wasn't exactly sure what to do next. I kinda rambled a bit and was perhaps slightly awkward, but not overly so. I said that I was heading out and it was nice to meet her and that was that.

So a couple quesitons-- 1. I got her number today (Thursday) and was wondering when the best time to follow up with her is.
2. She actually wrote down her first and last name. Should I take this as a sign she wasn't creeped out and possibly even was
digging me?
3. Should I read anything into her not asking me questions, or just assume that maybe she didn't know what to ask?
4. Instead of suggesting a meetup to go hiking, would it be best to suggest a drink instead? My thought is that we only interacted for 10 minutes and she might be hesitant to go into the woods alone with a stranger.
4. Should I have stuck around and continued the conversation after I got her number? Like I said, a bit of chatting after I got it, but I started getting more anxious and said I had to be on my way to get out of there.

Thanks for the feedback, gentleman.

Post: #3260

@kaotic

too late for her damage control. it's a done deal. i did forget to take a screen shot of her tinder profile though. I was seriously just awaking up. literally laying in bed with phone and eyes blurry as fuck.. I had to rub my eyes to make sure I wasn't seeing things.

looked at her photos and her little blurb. seen she had been active 1hour before that.. then swiped left...

UPDATE AGAIN:

her: My head is reeling. Please tell me you'll at least talk to me for a second when you're off work.

Post: #3261

(08-07-2014 10:55 AM)Mr. Butterworth Wrote:  ^^^ yes I was speaking of going the "never see her again" route.

I've been letting my harem go one by one. I'm bored of them now.

bingo, I sympathize man. Time to begin anew....

....hey, it's almost Fall Semester! What are the odds....

Post: #3262

Here's my question..

I get numbers. I suck at text game. I have screwed it up all the time.

Unless, of course I call her after text messaging game goes to hell.

I just got a number from this 7.5 and as much as I want to text her, may end up calling her instead.

Thoughts on texting vs calling? I'll also do a search but currently enjoying the high from getting another number from a sweet one I'd like to rail.

Post: #3263

(08-07-2014 06:22 PM)Mr. Butterworth Wrote:  @kaotic

too late for her damage control. it's a done deal. i did forget to take a screen shot of her tinder profile though. I was seriously just awaking up. literally laying in bed with phone and eyes blurry as fuck.. I had to rub my eyes to make sure I wasn't seeing things.

looked at her photos and her little blurb. seen she had been active 1hour before that.. then swiped left...

UPDATE AGAIN:

her: My head is reeling. Please tell me you'll at least talk to me for a second when you're off work.

Key word "try" you've already ejected, let her hamster spin, I bask in that shit.

Post: #3264

(08-07-2014 06:34 PM)Cobra Wrote:  Here's my question..

I get numbers. I suck at text game. I have screwed it up all the time.

Unless, of course I call her after text messaging game goes to hell.

I just got a number from this 7.5 and as much as I want to text her, may end up calling her instead.

Thoughts on texting vs calling? I'll also do a search but currently enjoying the high from getting another number from a sweet one I'd like to rail.

Why not just do some minor casual text exchanges, make up a decent enough excuse to call her - you're driving, hands aren't free, laundry, whatever.

Then initiate game via phone call. I notice most girls don't pick up when you try to call them first, so now I always text a bit THEN call them.

Post: #3265

Hahah funniest shit happened to me last night/this morning:

Backstory:

A few months ago I went on 2 dates with and never banged this girl we'll call her BLONDIE (I even slept over at her house cause I was drunk. We made out and I macked down on her titties and passed out. She's probably a 6.5, cute face but kinda chunky).

She pretty much outright said she just wanted to be friends so I go radio silent on her. 2 weeks ago she snaps me a few times, she sends me her number again. We planned on hanging out last week but she was going with "friends" so I passed on it.

Last Night:

So we're at the baseball game last night, I'm with my main HB 8 we're walking near the beer garden...this girl gives me the hang ten sign. Turns out its BLONDIE from above story, I give her a hang ten shaka and point at her and keep walking lmao. HB 8 says "whose that?" in a semi jealous/worried tone, I tell her " a friend, come on now, I know everyone, everywhere" - with a smirk of course.

I end up snap chatting BLONDIE, her and her friend are flipping off laughing, I reply in kind.

This morning I text her, "did I imagine seeing you last night at the game ?" -no response-

She deleted me off Instagram & Snapchat haha. Classic woman scorned move and I have no regrets. Honestly it feels good knowing a girl got pissed cause I one upped her with another girl.

Bonus points: After the game HB 8 is the first girl to give me roadhead and make me cum. She was a champ, 30 minutes of blowing me, I also was fingering her from over her back. Pretty fucking hot.

TL;DR>

Old tinder date hooked up but never banged (friend zoned me) saw me with my main HB 8 at a baseball game>barely said hi> text her his morning>she deletes me off social media> got best roadhead ever from HB 8.

Sweet Justice.

Post: #3266

Cobra
Can you provide an example of how you are screwing up texting? This is something you will get better at with practice and with some advice on the forum. The problem with calling is that it is unlikely she will pick up especilly since she has not saved your number yet if it is the first contact you are initiating.

How bad can you text game be

Post: #3267

been working on closing a lot these days. pushing for instant date, getting numbers then setting up dates. bit of a chore but lots of fun.

I was asking myself why closing is so difficult.

Then I remember 3 months ago during one of my transformational moments of just becoming red pill.

Was getting it real hot with this beautiful blonde. A solid 8.5 Kazakstan mixed sicilian, rare beauty and very nice attitude. We are hitting it off so hard, making out and grabbing boobs.

Then she dropped this on me: "well, I dont have to go home tonight"

Stupid beta me: "uhm....well thats great..." Needless to say nothing happened.

Default response I would give now: "well let's go then, I have the perfect plan for tonight" then grab her by the hand or carry her from the bar.

I wish there s a time machine so I can come back and rip my old beta self a new one. Thats one of the hottest blonde Ive gamed. Funny now that I kinda know what Im doing I dont run into someone like this anymore.

Post: #3268

Went out with JWLZG again tonight. Number closed this cute American who just moved here from Michigan. She looks like she just got out of college, turns out she's fucking 30. My jaw hit the fucking floor.

Post: #3269

I've continued radio silence to let this chick figure out what her infraction was. she just texted me this:

her: The only thing that has come to mind that I could possibly think you've somehow seen is that I put the tinder app on my phone on Wednesday night. If for whatever reason this is somehow my "infraction", you should know that I downloaded it because I was trying to figure out how to delete my profile (which I hastily made to make myself feel better when we broke up the week before we went to the lake). I thought about it that night cause Diana was on hers and I realized my profile may be floating around out there still as I just deleted the app off my phone a day or two after I first got it without actually disabling my account.

If it's something other than that, then I'm still totally at a loss.
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thoughts??

Post: #3270

(08-08-2014 06:53 PM)Mr. Butterworth Wrote:  I've continued radio silence to let this chick figure out what her infraction was. she just texted me this:

her: The only thing that has come to mind that I could possibly think you've somehow seen is that I put the tinder app on my phone on Wednesday night. If for whatever reason this is somehow my "infraction", you should know that I downloaded it because I was trying to figure out how to delete my profile (which I hastily made to make myself feel better when we broke up the week before we went to the lake). I thought about it that night cause Diana was on hers and I realized my profile may be floating around out there still as I just deleted the app off my phone a day or two after I first got it without actually disabling my account.

If it's something other than that, then I'm still totally at a loss.
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thoughts??

Forgive me if I'm remembering incorrectly, but didn't you say you were looking for a reason to get rid of her? If so, just move on and tell her don't worry about it, you've moved on.

If you still want to bang her, have her come over. Have her install the app in front of you, it should show all her messages and you can see if she actually messaged and gave out numbers to any guys. Pretty easy to verify her story if she's willing. Not much to lose really, make her delete her account in front of you, tell her you're not going to be exclusive, she can be exclusive to you take it or leave it.

Post: #3271

(08-08-2014 07:05 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  tell her you're not going to be exclusive, she can be exclusive to you take it or leave it.

This isn't even in my reality, have you actually pulled off having one agree to something as up front as this before?

Post: #3272

@ A. Ocean

you're right, I do want to just be done. I half way thought of keeping her around for banging. but as I said, I'm bored.

I'll just nix her

Post: #3273

(08-08-2014 06:53 PM)Mr. Butterworth Wrote:  I've continued radio silence to let this chick figure out what her infraction was. she just texted me this:

her: The only thing that has come to mind that I could possibly think you've somehow seen is that I put the tinder app on my phone on Wednesday night. If for whatever reason this is somehow my "infraction", you should know that I downloaded it because I was trying to figure out how to delete my profile (which I hastily made to make myself feel better when we broke up the week before we went to the lake). I thought about it that night cause Diana was on hers and I realized my profile may be floating around out there still as I just deleted the app off my phone a day or two after I first got it without actually disabling my account.

If it's something other than that, then I'm still totally at a loss.
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thoughts??

(08-07-2014 06:22 PM)Mr. Butterworth Wrote:  @kaotic

too late for her damage control. it's a done deal. i did forget to take a screen shot of her tinder profile though. I was seriously just awaking up. literally laying in bed with phone and eyes blurry as fuck.. I had to rub my eyes to make sure I wasn't seeing things.

looked at her photos and her little blurb. seen she had been active 1hour before that.. then swiped left...

UPDATE AGAIN:

her: My head is reeling. Please tell me you'll at least talk to me for a second when you're off work.

Post: #3274

I want to thank the members of RVF for their cumulative knowledge and support over the last year to finally achieve a milestone; an 18 yr younger swoop from Day Game, on the 2nd date.

Thank YOU RVF

Post: #3275

(08-08-2014 08:30 PM)Mr. Butterworth Wrote:  @ A. Ocean

you're right, I do want to just be done. I half way thought of keeping her around for banging. but as I said, I'm bored.

I'll just nix her

Or just do your own things and just have her around to bang. If you're rather annoyed or just over it, just eject. Simply tell her you're done.