Post: #3226

(08-03-2014 11:40 PM)kaotic Wrote:  Hmmmm i think banging all these girls is making me weird about my main HB. She complements my life, awhile ago she wanted to know if it was going anywhere (i accidentally swiped her friend on tinder, denied till i died, everything was cool after) told it would eventually.

I have slight thoughts of paranoia and jealousy. However, i think im down to see where it goes with this main HB.

Any thought of how to bring it up and tell her she's my woman now ? (If i choose to ask)

Brb bringing flak jacket

EDIT: I should probably add that I'm a bit paranoid because - a girl from her city is coming out to my city to visit me right now as we speak. I guess my fear is she might know her. I just talked to my main HB and everything seemed cool, I'm know I'm psyching myself out fml.

Update: Holy fucking shit, so I met up with this chick, turns out she frequents the bar that my main HB bartends at. My mind is fucking blown that my gut was telling me something. Also this chick wasn't that attractive in person, once again almost a SIF. I hugged her goodnight and sent her on her way, even though all the signs were there. My gut told me to just send this date off.

Post: #3227

I’m in the process of trying to solidify a main squeeze and surround that main squeeze with a multitude of side squeezes.

This chick constantly shows interest -- actual interest -- but she’s pretty hesitant to schedule dates. After we hang out/hook up, she goes home and immediately messages me something like, “I shouldn’t have left. Let’s do this soon.”

I don’t like hitting up girls first. I’ve made it a personal rule. Sure, it causes stress every now and then. This chick who obviously shows interest ^ always tells me to hit her up, but I tell her to message me. If she doesn’t initiate hanging out with me, I take it as a lack of interest and I don’t message her. For instance, on Friday she said “Message me tomorrow so we can do something.” I told her, while making out, “You hit me up, ok.” She said yes and then didn’t. So even though I wasn’t free, I take it as an insult.

Am I overthinking this? Or is my rule to wait for a girl to message me stupid?

Post: #3228

Same here, once she's firmly in the rotation, I prefer her to initiate contact and chase. The less she does, the less we talk

Certain occasions I like to reach out just to get a pulse on things or to further cement them

Most deliberate effort is put into getting newer chicks to this level

Post: #3229

I still have anxiety about last night, still tripping on it.

Doesn't help that my second job boss called saying, "you need to call me after work".

Post: #3230

(08-04-2014 11:59 AM)MY DETROIT PLAYAS Wrote:  Same here, once she's firmly in the rotation, I prefer her to initiate contact and chase. The less she does, the less we talk

Certain occasions I like to reach out just to get a pulse on things or to further cement them

Most deliberate effort is put into getting newer chicks to this level

Thank you.

Better question: Does this situation say anything about the girl? She's a cool chick, but I dislike that she's attempting to game me like I am her.

Should I hit her up the schedule the date? Or do I wait and if she says nothing, eject?

Since I like her, I'm thinking about combining option 1 and 2; to wait it out and if she says nothing, propose plans.

Post: #3231

I know what you are doing building compliance and at the same time wanting her to chase

I wouldn't necessarily eject if she's been responsive and you said you've even hungout

Every chick is different so this is definitely your call ie 'How into you do you think she is'?

Don't throw away a solid prospect over something this insignificant. The key is that she is asking you to hit her up, that's not chasing on your part. It would only be chasing if you had to initiate ALL contact or your attempts were going without response.

It almost seems like a test of wills

Your plan sounds solid, just don't 'overwait' to the point where you lose the vibe you've worked to establish

Post: #3232

Good call, brother. I appreciate it. I often work out about things negligible in the grand scheme.

Post: #3233

I rented a friend's room to a couple chicks for their summer vacation from out of town. Turned out they were all 21 (or younger but with good fake ID), girls hung out with me a decent amount, they found out I had a girl and then met my girl. Afterward they were all undressing in front of me "accidentally" and saying how pretty my girl is and blowing up my phone. The girls and all their friends were seriously attractive. Wish I'd had more time to pawn them off on some friends. The female roommate in the place they were staying was WAY jealous of the younger way hotter girls.

My coworker is in his early 50s and I've been coaching him on game because he's banged (and been dumped) by a bunch of old hags. He has an awesome dog that he rescued and he absolutely loves. He played don't fuck it up game this weekend with a 20 year old girl (way cute and way in shape by his former standards) that came over at the FUCKING GAS STATION to meet his dog and pet it.

He had her back to his place for Margaritas and banged her out, she was calling him daddy and saying she'd never been fucked like that before (had a 5 year relationship she got out of) because he went to fucking town on her thinking he'd never fuck a 20 year old of that caliber again. She's blowing up his phone. However high he is feeling right now, I am almost as high for him. I've been giving him high fives all day, I told him I've never been more proud of him in my life. 30+ year age difference but also a HUGE HUGE difference in quality for him.

Post: #3234

(08-04-2014 05:08 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  I rented a friend's room to a couple chicks for their summer vacation from out of town. Turned out they were all 21 (or younger but with good fake ID), girls hung out with me a decent amount, they found out I had a girl and then met my girl. Afterward they were all undressing in front of me "accidentally" and saying how pretty my girl is and blowing up my phone. The girls and all their friends were seriously attractive. Wish I'd had more time to pawn them off on some friends. The female roommate in the place they were staying was WAY jealous of the younger way hotter girls.

My coworker is in his early 50s and I've been coaching him on game because he's banged (and been dumped) by a bunch of old hags. He has an awesome dog that he rescued and he absolutely loves. He played don't fuck it up game this weekend with a 20 year old girl (way cute and way in shape by his former standards) that came over at the FUCKING GAS STATION to meet his dog and pet it.

He had her back to his place for Margaritas and banged her out, she was calling him daddy and saying she'd never been fucked like that before (had a 5 year relationship she got out of) because he went to fucking town on her thinking he'd never fuck a 20 year old of that caliber again. She's blowing up his phone. However high he is feeling right now, I am almost as high for him. I've been giving him high fives all day, I told him I've never been more proud of him in my life. 30+ year age difference but also a HUGE HUGE difference in quality for him.

Whenever I get a buddy laid, it almost feels like I got laid too haha

Post: #3235

That's a great story, totally happy for your friend hitting that, and totally sad I got to wait a while until I can go for a 3-decade diff, ha.

Post: #3236

I have noticed that I've been setting up dates with women to get my mind off of other women, which seems unhealthy. For instance, I may make plans with Jennifer and Julie to take my mind off of Sarah.

I wish I was capable of not spending most of my mental energy liking more than one girl at a time...it's not one-itis as much as it is an undeserved attraction.

Game is about becoming the best version of yourself and I'm aware what I need to improve. But mentally dwelling on one chick is one problem I've been working on for years; I hope to get rid of it soon. No need to waste my emotions (no homo) on non-quality chicks even if they're hot and give me good sex.

Within the past three months I've worked on my fitness, made money and became better at connecting with girls. Next thing to check off my list is my obsessive mind.

Post: #3237

The more girls I fuck, the quicker I feel the hunger to get a new notch.

Post: #3238

Here's a piece of evidence that the Manosphere's efforts are having a real effect

My brother and his son are visiting this week from LA. My brother and I were talking and he was telling me how good my nephew is at getting hot girlfriends and said "Think he's kind of a male chauvinist." He called my nephew into the room and said "Tell Uncle XY what you told me on the plane about women"

Nephew: "Women should get equal pay with men when when they get equal prison sentences with men. Women only get 20% of the prison time men do for the same crime." We discussed this for a bit then he said. "Did you know if you watch Cinderella backwards it's the story of a woman who learns her place?" and grinned.

He's a tall alpha 16 year old who attends a wealthy high school.

The tide is turning guys, keep at it........

Post: #3239

Kinda feel dirty after banging one of my regulars. She openly talks about "hanging out" with other guys. Obviously im not stupid and know the score, I never reveal what im doing.

Her pussy smelled man, but that 19 year old pussy is good. I get off quick everytime with her. Didn't use a condom again either, idiot.

Problem is she's a cuddler, I don't like doing that with her. She was super needy tonight and practically begged me to stay. I bounced after dreadfully waiting 30 minutes.

I think I might need to cut her from my harem. Then again her lease is up end of this month and I think she's moving down south to SD. Problem solved I guess.

I should go get tested asap tho.

I do dig my main girl more though, shes super cool, and I've got a new member to the harem, she hit me up tonight to fuck, after me rescheduling it for today, totally ignored her, we'll see how it plays out.

Post: #3240

New neighbors moved into the apartment next door. Woke up to someone knocking on the door. I answered in my boxers. It was a dude, short guy around 5'4 or so introducing himself and asking about how the washing machine worked.

At first I'm like "Why the fuck are you knocking on my door at 6am to ask about the fucking washing machine"

But the door to his apartment is open and I can see his girlfriend rummaging through her purse. A cute little blonde. Trashy cute, I'm sure you guys know what I mean. She openly cussed and had multiple tattoos. Some girls you just know are sluts within seconds of meeting them. But a slut can still be cute.

I helped her out on how to work the washing machine. I wanna sport fuck the shit out of her. It wouldn't be much of a challenge, but it would be fun as hell. It's not worth opening up that can of worms, but I tend to let my dick do the thinking most of the time.

Post: #3241

After seeing her again on my way back in from the gym I decided to go for it. Maybe the boost of testosterone from the gym got the best of me.

I'm gonna try to time us meeting up in the laundry room. But today is my cook day, where I prepare some mass meals to eat throughout the week. I'm gonna make my bomb ass chili and drop some of it for them as a type of "housewarming present". Establish contact on a more formal level than me crawling out of bed in my boxers pissed off about being woken up.

I mean, she's seen my in my underwear, its only fair I get to see her in hers.

Post: #3242

Yesterday I was escalating with this girl on my bed for the bang when as I took her shirt off before anything else, she asks me 'are you sure you want to do this?'

I had the comfort and attraction in here and I delayed kissing her for the first time and the result was a lot of built up tension and she didn't hold back afterwards.

There was no resistance whatsoever. Any of you guys experienced something similar before?

This is the first time I've been asked by a girl if I'm sure I want to have sex with her. She was a cute girl and this threw my head for a spin.

Post: #3243

(08-06-2014 08:46 AM)AntiTrace Wrote:  I mean, she's seen my in my underwear, its only fair I get to see her in hers.

I highly recommend you avoid this. The last thing you want is her (or him) sabotaging your future bangs based on the drama. Lots of ways to lose in this situation without a lot to gain.

Post: #3244

Man...

I felt tired as hell this morning. I drove with the tram and take a seat with a girl on the opposite. As soon as I turn around she greets me with a big smile and is giving mad IOIs. She looks perfect, like out of a dream.

So while she is trying to lock eyes with me I do.... nothing.



Back home I got mad at myself for letting this gift of the gods go.

I go to the city park to clear my mind and get ambushed by two 7s asking me "Where are the animals?" with the "I need a good fucking look".

Instead of saying "The lion is already in front of you, wanna drink something?" I straight up give them the directions and they turn away with the "This was an approach you idiot!" vibe.

One day I'm not feeling it and loose a sure 10 and a threesome.
Man I almost got oneitis by that tram girl... fuck this shit.

Post: #3245

Got my first notch since my divorce last night. A cute bartender 10 years younger than I am. She sucked my dick and balls like it was her purpose in life. I was certain I would never feel that kind of lusty passion again. It was fucking great. Although I was trying to get with the other cuter bartender, all in all it was fun, and today I am master of the fucking universe.

Post: #3246

(08-06-2014 03:21 PM)Rage_on Wrote:  Got my first notch since my divorce last night. A cute bartender 10 years younger than I am. She sucked my dick and balls like it was her purpose in life. I was certain I would never feel that kind of lusty passion again. It was fucking great. Although I was trying to get with the other cuter bartender, all in all it was fun, and today I am master of the fucking universe.

Welcome back to the Game

Post: #3247

This is kind of new for me. I currently have 3 different girls engaged in sexual texting with me over the past week. One is my ex of 5 years, the other is a good friend of my ex and the third is a girl I banged last week when she was visiting Vegas. I've always struggled to get chicks to send me nudes and risky photos but now I've got all three of them eating out of my hand. This is nuts.

Post: #3248

(08-06-2014 08:46 AM)AntiTrace Wrote:  After seeing her again on my way back in from the gym I decided to go for it. Maybe the boost of testosterone from the gym got the best of me.

I'm gonna try to time us meeting up in the laundry room. But today is my cook day, where I prepare some mass meals to eat throughout the week. I'm gonna make my bomb ass chili and drop some of it for them as a type of "housewarming present". Establish contact on a more formal level than me crawling out of bed in my boxers pissed off about being woken up.

I mean, she's seen my in my underwear, its only fair I get to see her in hers.

Ok, I've now seen her in her underwear. And again, it makes me want to continue. Although I had chat with her boyfriend and he actually seems pretty cool, so I may just make friends with them.

It happened when I went to go drop off two servings of my famous chili. The dude was stoked and looked and sounded drunk and high as fuck.

The chick walked directly in front of the path of the door in her underwear, and was messing around with some laundry bag the entire time I was there. God I love slutty girls...

Post: #3249

I always try to schedule with multiple girls to avoid flaking. But tonight I think it's overkill. It just kind of happened.
I have dates set up at 9, 9:30, 10, and 11. All at the same place. Maybe one coming over at 8 and one girl I'm going to meet up with "whenever I'm done hanging out with my friends."
I'm tempted to let them all show up and see what happens. Probably not sex, but a good story would ensue. But I'm just going to cancel on most of them.
It's kind of nice how the times are all staggered though. If things go badly with one girl, I only have to wait a short time for a shot with another.

Post: #3250

Yeah why would you cancel them? It's not your pad, right? I mean, if you're not really into one of them then yeah, cancel her.