How to know when to detach from an approach/chick

I will now give a girl three chances. If I was a perfect player, chance would not be involved, but since I'm not..

If she fails three of my criteria, she will be jettisoned from the potential pool of lucky girls who get to have night with me.

Girls need to know that guys aren't turned on buy argumentative women.

So many reasons exist why guys should not try to talk to anything less than a 7.

It's bad for humanity to talk to less than a 7, even if it is an even easy bang.

Having a great time daygaming and nightgaming with bojangles. He really gets you out of your comfort zone. Be sure to meet this cat if you can.

(08-01-2014 02:45 AM)soup Wrote:  How to know when to detach from an approach/chick

I will now give a girl three chances. If I was a perfect player, chance would not be involved, but since I'm not..

If she fails three of my criteria, she will be jettisoned from the potential pool of lucky girls who get to have night with me.

Girls need to know that guys aren't turned on buy argumentative women.

So many reasons exist why guys should not try to talk to anything less than a 7.

It's bad for humanity to talk to less than a 7, even if it is an even easy bang.

Elaborate Soup. Are u talking about screening?

This was back in 2010 !
http://www.rooshv.com/building-attractio...lian-girls
So my initial attraction might be a weak point from last night'd post.

G Manifesto Vindicated?




Dress for success!

Holy blackout game.

Got uproariously drunk off mezcal with an Australian dude, I'm talking crazy intoxication.

Ran through the streets until I found three attractive french chicks sitting in a bar.

Took them out of that bar...convinced them that there was dancing to be done.

Went to a club, blacked out. I do remember gaming a Mexican senorita, no ingles.

Woke up with a condom still on and a note on my pillow with her number and email.

Re-engaged 3 girls today after not speaking for 3 or so weeks with "our communication has been silly. plans?" and they all responded within 30 mins.

Will try and get logistics right and make our areas coincide after work shindig which I want to escape before things get out of control.

Have an enjoyable Friday gents.

Dalaran, I'm talking about last night this Spanish girl was being so argumentative with feminist bullshit.. But she was still interested in me and came back to my house but was freaking out over compliance tests that I was giving her.. It was too much so I kicked her out.

I've had fucks that come out if tension before this was way too much. I shouldn't have argued with her, probsbly should have just nodded my head yes and escalated. Suffices to say, we were both drunk.

Haha soup, across the continent, simultaneously drunk and with senoritas. I was definitely drunker though, hurting in a good way now.

I like getting into arguments with feminists sometimes. Sometimes. Something about calling a women out on her bullshit is so very satisfying. Going to bed with a clear conscience is a good feeling.

Other times biting the bullet in order to get laid is a must...leads to angry, dirty sex.

(08-01-2014 01:08 PM)Goldmund Wrote:  Haha soup, across the continent, simultaneously drunk and with senoritas. I was definitely drunker though, hurting in a good way now.

I like getting into arguments with feminists sometimes. Sometimes. Something about calling a women out on her bullshit is so very satisfying. Going to bed with a clear conscience is a good feeling.

Other times biting the bullet in order to get laid is a must...leads to angry, dirty sex.

I think the Mexicanitas you are with don't put on the angry feminist thing as much as this girl from spain did. She was a 6 with good tits but kind of overweight. Next!

I think i fucked up. The chinese girl i banged here left me with 2 dirty wine glasses, which i naturally cleaned up and moved to the drying rack, but i forgot to put them back to their place in the cup board! Came home with my regular 30 min ago and while i was in the bathroom, she had taken a glass of water and noticed the 2 wine glasses... First thing she asks was "who have you been drinking wine with?"
I just fucking froze. I could have come up with any fucking excuse but i used the "with a friend"
"Which friend?"
"..." Brain hitting blank. "...an old lay"
Told her some bullshit story how i met my old lay at the street and went out to the park to drink some wine...
Now she left and hit me with a ultimatum: Stop fucking other girls or she is gone.

Now i'm thinking what to do...

1) Agree to be exclusive; still hit other girls. I would prefer not to do this
2) Hold my frame and tell her that she is free to go if she wants.

Any other suggestions?

Why would you agree to be exclusive if you don't truly want to be exclusive? With a frame like that, you're already giving her the upper hand should you become exclusive with her.

I'd go with option 2 personally.

(08-01-2014 01:14 PM)soup Wrote:  I think the Mexicanitas you are with don't put on the angry feminist thing as much as this girl from spain did. She was a 6 with good tits but kind of overweight. Next!

A feminist in southern Mexico?

I have a feeling if i got with option 2 there is like 5% chance of me ever having sex with her again. She is a good girl, it would be sad to see her go, but i guess this is one of those times i just have to get out of my comfort zone and promote someone else to regular status. Only thing is...i'm probably going to have to go to a point lower this time.

(08-01-2014 01:33 PM)The Great Basilisk Wrote:  I have a feeling if i got with option 2 there is like 5% chance of me ever having sex with her again. She is a good girl, it would be sad to see her go, but i guess this is one of those times i just have to get out of my comfort zone and promote someone else to regular status. Only thing is...i'm probably going to have to go to a point lower this time.

Or option#1 but don't bend into her ultimatum.

Leave it open that you'd like to be with her BUT on your own terms and when YOU decide, make it known you won't get be BF/GF at this exact moment, major reason being: she just threw an ultimatum your way. Ackwowledge what she wants, and explain the above. It'll calm her nerves that you're "headed" that way, and still puts you in a position to do what you want.

I see this as not caving, but doing it on your own terms. If you truly don't want to be exclusive, well then don't. She'll respect you more as a man sticking to his guns than a man who turns weak and caves. It honestly looks like she's playing you into Option 2.

Also, I wouldn't be surprised that she off fucking other dudes.


P.S. Always scrub after a lay. Always be prepared to walk away.

So, I've stumbled upon a secret goldmine for daygame recently, but since I like you guys, I will share it with you.

Your local [largish] hospital cafeteria. At lunchtime.

I can tell you this much: it is filled with attractive nurses, assistants, cashiers, secy's, receptionists, and even doctors. Not too mention family of patients also. I've been seeing a new allergist weekly so decided to grab lunch there a bunch of times so my time out of the office is minimized. And the food happens to be decent. Obviously some large company does it for them.

I'd say when I sat down today there were at least 7 younger woman sitting completely alone, 4-5 of which were clearly bangable, all single. One was a very cute blonde doctor in her mid-late 20s. I bet 95% of the guys she meets are too intimidated to ask her out once they know she's a doctor.

Trust me when I tell you NO ONE is chatting these girls up. I just roll up to their table, or sit across from them at a large table and/or ask them 'Is this seat taken?' Then they raise their eyes from their lunch and spot me all suited up, sometimes you see their eyes actually pop.

We have a nice chat, using indirect game, and if they have to go back on shift in 5 minutes I simply ask for their number and then text it to double-check. Otherwise just run game as normal.

The best prospect so far is maybe the hottest mixed Asian I've ever seen, turns out to be a 25-yr old emergency room doctor! Working 5-6 long days a week, no boyfriend, none in the pipeline, very little social life from what I can tell, prob just the other asian doctors [who she has no interest in of course]. Smart as all hell of course but typically feminine, first-generation.

Once she finds out what night she has off next week [rotating schedule] we're going to hit the city hard. We'll see how it goes.

But she's a legit 9.5 [when I sat down across from her and she looked up I almost fell out of the chair] so it beats any other option that night....

Indian girl blocked me from tinder and insta when I told her to text me and gave her number. My line was this -

"Let's talk in text. I want to get off this app for now. Number."

Instant block. No response.

WTF.

(08-01-2014 04:35 PM)dancingjohn Wrote:  Indian girl blocked me from tinder and insta when I told her to text me and gave her number. My line was this -

"Let's talk in text. I want to get off this app for now. Number."

Instant block. No response.

WTF.

Well...hate to break the bad news but...clearly she isn't interested lol, you shouldn't even be lingering on this. Plenty of more girls to get numbers from on there. Keep it moving.

Females are irrational, she could've blocked you for a ton of reasons.

(08-01-2014 04:35 PM)dancingjohn Wrote:  Indian girl blocked me from tinder and insta when I told her to text me and gave her number. My line was this -

"Let's talk in text. I want to get off this app for now. Number."

Instant block. No response.

WTF.

As K said, girls are unpredictable. Furthermore, there are more Indian girls out there

My text and online game have been bottoming out all day. Wonder what's up with that..

Anyone else having issues ? At first I thought there was something wrong with my phone and internet. It's erily quite along poosy river today..

I'm feelin the thirst coming on..

Out with a cute MILF from OKC last night to a show she bought tickets for. Specifically intended to work on my kino, did pretty well, a couple awkward efforts but most were natural enough. She went for a smoke and round of drinks in between sets so I looked around for prospects so to not stand there awkwardly and to incite a little jealousy. Moved up next to one standing in front next to another girl but not engaged, opened over the shoulder with "What do you guys know about the main attraction coming up?" 19 yo gorgeous, natural blonde, Ivy league student staying at Daddy's lake house. Kinda shy but she was definitely into it. BSed for 5-10 minutes but worried my date would return in the middle of a number grab so didn't go for it. Kicking myself for it today.

Jealousy was definitely incited, date opened another guy she knew behind us soon after she returned to see me chatting up the young 'un even though I immediately refocused on her. Proceeded to befriend him and steer the conversation away from unfamiliar to me topics when they started on a tangent. Wound up bouncing to her house and getting some raw dog anal and a "That was crazy, I've never done that before.'' Hmmm...

Still wish I could've had my cake and eaten the other one too. Going for it next time.

(08-01-2014 06:21 PM)soup Wrote:  My text and online game have been bottoming out all day. Wonder what's up with that..

Anyone else having issues ? At first I thought there was something wrong with my phone and internet. It's erily quite along poosy river today..

I'm feelin the thirst coming on..

Had two tinder girls unmatch me when i suggested meetup this morn.

Harem collapsed earlier in the week, all via txt.

Just got a solid # off the street on my way to union pool. A new cycle begins.

I think I want to go to NYC for a day before the Summer is over...

^ my entire harem except 2 girl collapsed in last 2 weeks. And text/tinder/new prospects game is going ridiculously bad.

I was thinking about this some time ago and realized I couldn't do worse than this right now. So I revenge approached a Dominican 6 on my way back home.

She was asking about subway transfers and I took it from there with some notes from day bang. Elderly talk about how queens is like (her destination), how is DR, the beaches, my stories from the city etc. Didn't want to close her because she didn't attract me much. But the rush of approach felt good. When I was getting off at my station she had those puppy eyes saying bye to me.

Here's a good routine to run at a place like whole foods. It's along the line's of Gio's "dragged out approach" I think he calls it something different but you'll get the picture:

See a girl at the hot bar or salad bar. Ask her if something she has put on her plate is good:
Example: Excuse me, is that sweet potato dish good?
Her: Yeah, I get it a lot...or, I don't know, it's my first time ( doesn't matter what she says)
You: Okay, thanks I may try it. It looks good.
Her: Sure...
then you go about your business of finishing loading up your plate. Make sure you get some of what you asked her about so you can talk to her later about this as described below. You may do this to more than one woman at that one time, just try not to let the other one see you asking the new one.
Then, let the girl or girls you talked to check out. Hopefully they'll eat there at a table, preferably by themselves.
Then, sit at a table close to them. About halfway through your meal say "good call on the sweet potatos" (or whatever it was) She'll comment.
Then, I'll ask them about something else: "have you ever tried the sushi plates here?"
She'll answer and then you're off in a conversation. This is a good way to do a situational indirect opener at a place like this. By doing more than one woman during a certain lunchtime or dinner time, you increase your odds that at least one of them will be eating there at the store where you can chat them up instead of just one girl you talked to getting her meal to go. I've got some numbers this way.