Post: #251

(07-05-2013 03:17 PM)kickboxer Wrote:  I heard tender is coming to android in a couple weeks. Seems like a cool trend to get in on in the beginning

There are some fly fucking girls on their. Just make sure you get the best possible pics of yourself up.

Post: #252

Doused a regular girl tonight to go out and find a woman... too much b.s. with this one... the quest for abundance.

Post: #253

(07-05-2013 12:52 PM)TexasMade Wrote:  Why didnt you try a venue change and bang?

I second the number. I rather do that. They have it then you know they are down. For me though it doesnt work well. Rarely get a call back. If a girl is going to fuck you, 70% of the time they automatticaly know. Escalation of force gets them to open up. If you dont try then and there your likely hood of smashing goes down. In the States or maybe all western girls, a makeout should mean she will fuck you. You need to push the issue and convince her it is okay. Cockblocking girlfriends are your main setback.

The first girl early on in the night I tried to re connect with by finding her later on through text but it didn't go through.

The second I hinted at her leaving with me by making up some logistical adventure or some shit and she understood what I was trying to hint at and I got 'not tonight'. I wasn't too attracted to her anyways so I couldn't care too much.

The third was at the end of the night and she was pretty close to her friends, it would have been a more difficult pull although definitely doable, just didn't know of a way to do it just yet.

If a makeout meant a ONS 100% of the time, my notch count would be x12. I need to find a way to increase the ratio of notch-make out.

Post: #254

Had an experience last night that I thought was pretty interesting. Im on a rooftop bar sitting down, having a smoke and a drink getting my night started. There's two other open chairs in front of me and a chick comes right over and asks if she can sit down. I say sure and notice a guy trailing her coming over as well. Turns out they're on their first date after having met on match.com. I'm thinking "Yes, entertainment!". The chick is mid 30s, dark tan possibly latina... I'd rate her a 6. The dude is a typical late 30's white guy with the rolled up sleeved button-up.

I give it the benefit of the doubt that they really just wanted to sit down and there were no ulterior motives at work but with chicks, thats never the case. As we're chit-chatting and small-talking I start to get the feeling that this was her way of dragging the dude into deep waters and seeing if he could swim. He seemed pretty uncomfortable being in that environment alltogether and I could tell he probably never does the bar scene. His body language was all sorts of bad and it was as if we had to constantly keep trying to include him in the convo.

After a while I could tell she was giving me obvious signals and I started to feel a little bad for the guy. I was thinking "should I chill and fall back or should I take what the night is giving me and figure out a way to get her number?" She kind of figured it out for me by giving me a look and saying she was going to go find the restroom. I knew what she meant. I gave her about 5 mins then told the guy I needed to go get more smokes. I caught her coming out of the restroom and got straight to business telling her that I wasn't going to stick around much longer and she should put her number in my phone. She didn't hesitate at all and started typing.

I went back upstairs and stuck around for a few more minutes. The guy actually went ahead and bought a round for everyone. Ugh. After talking a little bit more, turns out that they had been talking online for 6 FUCKING WEEKS before actually agreeing to meet up. I shook my head in disbelief. I stuck around until my beer was finished and then headed out. I think the takeaway from that was the most important thing I got from the night. That theres no substitue for real world interaction and meeting people face-to-face.

Post: #255

I'm poor with shit tests via text. I'm a person to person guy for sure, whom does alot of a better job deflecting them or throwing it back in their faces when its all live. This girl is shit testing me live bringing up her elusive bf whom she hates but does not want to cheat on to protect the idea she is a good Christian girl (lol).

Basically she said she is nervous to chill because she is still "kinda of in it"

I run that through my logic computer and it spits out this translation:

"I'm shy to hang out with you because I know I will like you and your cock better then my boyfriends"


Now I just don't know how to reply to it. We were supposed to chill tonight but I'm and really don't want to force anything for tonight, but I still want to fuck her - not sure how to respond and how to play it.

Tips ?

Post: #256

Tell her to stop being scary

Post: #257

I was in a very upbeat and social mood tonight so I went to the bar. There was 6 people there watching WNBA games. Had a beer and talked to the hot bartender chick then left.

Post: #258

(07-07-2013 02:15 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I was in a very upbeat and social mood tonight so I went to the bar. There was 6 people there watching WNBA games. Had a beer and talked to the hot bartender chick then left.

I think you are selling yourself short or resting on your laurels. Why would you go to a sports bar if you want to meet women?

Post: #259

I fucked this girl 2 times already and she doesn't want to suck my dick. Any ideas to make her do it?

Post: #260

(07-07-2013 03:58 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  I fucked this girl 2 times already and she doesn't want to suck my dick. Any ideas to make her do it?

I had the same thing this month and finally she sucked my dick a few days ago. Just keep bringing it up. The more that she fucks you and doesn't suck your dick + you keep bringing it up = her in a bad situation where she might lose you to a girl who does suck your dick.

Answer = fuck other girls that do suck your dick and fuck her, and eventually she realize that she has to suck your dick to keep your attention.

That's what I did. Don't know if it's science, but I got the blow job this week.

Whatever you do, don't give up on the BJ. Keep pressing and asking her to do it. Don't get histrionic, but make it clear that it's a real vibe killer that she isn't giving all of herself to you.

Post: #261

(07-07-2013 03:57 AM)soup Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 02:15 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I was in a very upbeat and social mood tonight so I went to the bar. There was 6 people there watching WNBA games. Had a beer and talked to the hot bartender chick then left.

I think you are selling yourself short or resting on your laurels. Why would you go to a sports bar if you want to meet women?

There are only a few bars in town, this one was the closet one to me. There's one "club" but no real clubs/bars that are pickup oriented. Theres one that should be good opening in a few months and another early next year (if im still here), but my choices for night life are:

- restaurant bars (actually a few decent places, but filled with chodes)
- sports bars (theres one mostly sports and one thats a clusterfuck of normal bar and sports bar) - I've seen a few hotties at both places, but nothing tonight.
- "club" which is just the same as the sports bars without TVs
- 2 more places where I'd get stabbed for trying to take home the meth head clientele.

But I think you are right that I'm selling myself short. I told myself I'd wait until I got a job until I got back into approaching more and I haven't really done anything since getting a job. I've been feeding a friend red-pill advice, but otherwise I haven't been putting in the effort.

Post: #262

(07-07-2013 04:07 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 03:57 AM)soup Wrote:  [quote='WesternCancer' pid='485167' dateline='1373181355']
I was in a very upbeat and social mood tonight so I went to the bar. There was 6 people there watching WNBA games. Had a beer and talked to the hot bartender chick then left.

I think you are selling yourself short or resting on your laurels. Why would you go to a sports bar if you want to meet women?

There are only a few bars in town, this one was the closet one to me. There's one "club" but no real clubs/bars that are pickup oriented. Theres one that should be good opening in a few months, but my choices for night life are:

There exists a larger population of women in the world than men. If I were you, I'd arrange my life so that I'm surrounded by women that deserve me. It's clear that you care a lot about this, so factor into your life equation.

For now, it sounds like you are fucked. Suck it up and get out of there to greener pastures.

Game doesn't exist in a vacuum.

Post: #263

(07-07-2013 04:07 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 03:57 AM)soup Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 02:15 AM)WesternCancer Wrote:  I was in a very upbeat and social mood tonight so I went to the bar. There was 6 people there watching WNBA games. Had a beer and talked to the hot bartender chick then left.

I think you are selling yourself short or resting on your laurels. Why would you go to a sports bar if you want to meet women?

There are only a few bars in town, this one was the closet one to me. There's one "club" but no real clubs/bars that are pickup oriented. Theres one that should be good opening in a few months, but my choices for night life are:

- restaurant bars (actually a few decent places, but filled with chodes)
- sports bars (theres one mostly sports and one thats a clusterfuck of normal bar and sports bar)
- "club" which is just the same as the sports bars without TVs
- 2 more places where I'd get stabbed for trying to take home the meth head clientele.

Post: #264

Tech difficulties deleted my last post.

The gist:
Game doesn't exist in a vacuum. It sounds like you trapped where you are because of school/job and are trying to squeeze water out of stone. When that's over, go to a place where it's easier to meet girls.

Post: #265

That's the plan. I'm here right now so I can make some easy cash, build a good resume, improve my health/lifting etc. By next summer I'll be either back in school or working somewhere game-friendly. I came here knowing the reality of the girls situation so its not like the shitty nightlife and ok daygame is a big surprise. Come fall I'll be able to get some solid daygame going at a nearby university, work will be less busy etc.

Post: #266

(07-07-2013 04:04 AM)soup Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 03:58 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  I fucked this girl 2 times already and she doesn't want to suck my dick. Any ideas to make her do it?

I had the same thing this month and finally she sucked my dick a few days ago. Just keep bringing it up. The more that she fucks you and doesn't suck your dick + you keep bringing it up = her in a bad situation where she might lose you to a girl who does suck your dick.

Answer = fuck other girls that do suck your dick and fuck her, and eventually she realize that she has to suck your dick to keep your attention.

That's what I did. Don't know if it's science, but I got the blow job this week.

Whatever you do, don't give up on the BJ. Keep pressing and asking her to do it. Don't get histrionic, but make it clear that it's a real vibe killer that she isn't giving all of herself to you.

You know, this bitch just came over and she didn't even want to have sex. I am tired of her games. She keeps teasing me like mad, kissing, etc and telling me she is gonna leave. I finally told her that the door is open and she can leave. I just deleted her number off my phone. I'm pissed as fuck.

Post: #267

(07-07-2013 08:53 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 04:04 AM)soup Wrote:  

(07-07-2013 03:58 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  I fucked this girl 2 times already and she doesn't want to suck my dick. Any ideas to make her do it?

I had the same thing this month and finally she sucked my dick a few days ago. Just keep bringing it up. The more that she fucks you and doesn't suck your dick + you keep bringing it up = her in a bad situation where she might lose you to a girl who does suck your dick.

Answer = fuck other girls that do suck your dick and fuck her, and eventually she realize that she has to suck your dick to keep your attention.

That's what I did. Don't know if it's science, but I got the blow job this week.

Whatever you do, don't give up on the BJ. Keep pressing and asking her to do it. Don't get histrionic, but make it clear that it's a real vibe killer that she isn't giving all of herself to you.

You know, this bitch just came over and she didn't even want to have sex. I am tired of her games. She keeps teasing me like mad, kissing, etc and telling me she is gonna leave. I finally told her that the door is open and she can leave. I just deleted her number off my phone. I'm pissed as fuck.

Go for three other girls and you won't remember her.

Post: #268

(07-07-2013 08:53 AM)Every10GivesMeA10 Wrote:  You know, this bitch just came over and she didn't even want to have sex. I am tired of her games. She keeps teasing me like mad, kissing, etc and telling me she is gonna leave. I finally told her that the door is open and she can leave. I just deleted her number off my phone. I'm pissed as fuck.

Don't get pissed. That implies you are letting her affect your emotions. You are better than that.

Post: #269

I have been doing coffee shop game lately. The fact that it has gotten me accustomed to approaching girls stone cold sober is great along with the ability to simply talk to anyone and have a fun conversation is also a plus.

I turned 21 recently, and I finally have it set in my mind to go to this bar solo. I know a spot that is insanely good in the bar. It is part of a U-shaped bar. The spot faces the entrance and is directly between the entrance and the bathroom.

I also have been shedding the fat. At the rate I am working, I will cut down completely in a couple months.

Lastly, my style has come together.

This is going to be me when the city I live in gets flooded with girls at the end of August:

Post: #270

After I got my swell on in the gym with some heavy ass shrugs I was in the same mood as last night, fully expecting to rawdog like 10 chicks in the butt by the time I got home.

Head to the mall because I want some new pants. I do my standard warmup with some bitch in a skate shop asking about the different materials their shorts are made of etc.

I walk thru the food court and all the husky native bitches are eye fucking me, no thanks. Made eye contact with some questionably aged LGs, again no thanks. Get to the bookstore. Lots of bookstores have the books in the front that are on sale that attract a lot of passers by. I'm perusing one of these ones full of gay ass cookbooks and this hottie with a lowcut shirt, big tits, and only 10 lbs overweight instead of 50 like everyone else walks by. She stops and looks at the other section of the sale books kind of leaning over to see them. I'm staring at her tits and when I look up shes looking at me and smiles.

GAME ON MOTHERFUCKER, YOU'RE GOING DOWN

So I casually make my way over there:

"they never have any good books on these sale racks"

"ha, ya I know"

standard rambling (dropped a DHV on how good I am at finding fucking DEALS)

"you lookin for anything in particular?"

"not really, I want to get a book for my kid though"


SHITFUCKFUFUCKKSHITTTTT ABORT MISSION.

I ain't into single mothers, theyve proven once they'll let a dude bust in them when they're not on birth control and this asshole right here is very prone to nutting in girls who let him stick it raw.




Then I hit some gay farmers market. There were some fine asian girls, but as I suspected they were questionably legal (and with beta boyfriends). More fat as 50+ women, girls with butterfaces (I'm talking real bad acne and the chick from the gym who as a phat ass but looks like a pterodactyl) . finally I see a chick I swear I've met before, but I tell myself it couldn't be her so I go in expecting to do the 'mistaken identity opener' a la pdog. Turns out it IS that chick, shes with some fatty whom I introduce myself to, but she barely says anything. I'm caught off guard and do the whole boring "lol wut r u doin these dayz" and tell her straight up what my job is. FUCK. I abort mission there too, but have her number I'm gonna get her out to drink tequila in a playground one day.

This place is where alphas go to die.

Post: #271

What do you guys say to get the girl to leave your house, after the bang? I have been having an issue with semi-sleepovers lately.

As in, the girl falls asleep after we bang and either leaves a few hours later, or not until the next morning. I want them to leave right away, but I don't want them to freak out on me either.

Post: #272

(07-08-2013 01:23 PM)BlurredSevens Wrote:  What do you guys say to get the girl to leave your house, after the bang? I have been having an issue with semi-sleepovers lately.

As in, the girl falls asleep after we bang and either leaves a few hours later, or not until the next morning. I want them to leave right away, but I don't want them to freak out on me either.

Since I'm a musician, I always say I have projects I need to work on, or students coming. Sometimes I tell her that I just got a last minute call for a gig or that my clumsy friend needs help with DJing gig somewhere.

Post: #273

Sent a mass text.

Had some SIF come over.. made out, a lot resistance yadada no bone yet. Not in to her if she's putting up such a front. She's like a 5.. we drank all my whiskey.

Post: #274

Either I need to get my kino game up or I need to screen for different girls. Had two dates come back to my house put up massive resistance to even kissing.

Despite the fact that their legs were crossed away from me, I went in for the kiss on both and got dissed.

You can't fuck with the rules of the game or it will fuck with you x 2.

Post: #275

Got four numbers from tinder today. Will follow up with those leads tomorrow.

Went to a party at the beach and the hottest girl there approached me and a friend talking. Didn't isolate cause I had been talking to her for only 15 minutes and couldn't think of a good enough reason. Going to hit her up on Facebook tomorrow.