BlurredSevens
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
Had a failure tonight. Brings me to two bangs and two failures in the last seven days.
Tonight was a 20yr old girl I invited to my house, as I did for the other 3 last week. Ive been working on her for a month now - she was one of the first #'s I pulled off tinder, so It's been a slow process. She shit tested me hard before coming over, saying how she doesn't sleep around and not to waste my time, etc. but that's what all girls say so I didn't think much of it. I called her and she relented and agreed to come over.
Unfortunately, when she got here she told me she didn't drink. First red flag. Later she told me she still lives at home. Fuck, I knew it wasn't on then.
I eventually kissed her and she kissed back, but before any heavy making out could ensue, she decided to bail, saying she didn't like driving in the dark, but that she wanted to hang out again.
Overall, she was an uncommonly pleasant girl to be around. She was immediately comfortable when she came over, and we had a good rapport right off the bat.
I guess the lesson here is that you just never know how a girl will react until that moment where you go for it, and kiss her. So you have
to burn through a lot of girls to find the ones you want, which for me right now are the sluts.
Another lesson from tonight: having a bunch of GQ and Esquire magazines lying around are great conversation starters. Girls seem to gravitate toward them and always have something to say about who's on the cover.
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Millz
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
Met up with the okc chick last night and took her to a bar in my local area that had an open night. We spoke, got drinks, made out and then she tells me she has a fiance who she is getting married to next month but he sits at home playing world of warcraft and has LAN parties where his friends all bring around their custom built computers and play games for the whole weekend and he is 33? I think.
The guy is rich and offers her comfort whilst she fucks anyone she pleases and he has no clue about it.
She also showed me her okc messages and I was in shock in how poor the average mans game is. Tons of hi how are you  or  faces everywhere whilst my message to her was simply Hey Sup?
Got my dick sucked and sent her on her way. Got a text later on that night from her saying she wants me to teach her how to play COD sometime next week which is a females way of saying I want your kawk
Do you guys ever get those days where you're just like I love game so much and the fact I've discovered it. Having some other guys wife to be suck your dick is one of the greatest feelings the world has to offer
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
So, I could use some advice -
This is getting to be a common occurrence lately and I'm not sure if it's me and my game, the culture, or just normal, but I'm finding that a very large percentage of the time I get back from a girl something about her getting back with her ex boyfriend, or she's seeing someone, or her relationship status has changed, or somesuch. It's in the time span of meeting -> date, in that 3-4 day span. I wouldn't think anything of it except for the fact that I can count 20 or so in the past several months that it's happened with.
Usually the interaction went fantastic, she was into me, I would qualify her extensively, get the number, continue with some conversation, and then hit her up a day or two later. A day later if it was at a bar, two days if it was a coffee shop. If my schedule was odd I'd go one day just to set something up quick (things go south I find if it drags for a week or two before you meet).
Is there anything along with this that I'm missing? Usually these are the girls I'm most into - the ones that I'm so-so with are the ones begging me to come out with them. Not even directly related to hotness, it's usually the difference of these girls can hold a conversation vs these girls are skanks.
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Veloce
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
Cockblocked by logistics.
Met up with this solid 8 that I met at the hotel where I work, my first ever "work approach". She'd flaked on me once but bought my drinks last night. Really hit it off, smart girl, we were talking all night, physically escalating. She lives a few blocks from the bar so I thought SNL was likely. Walked her back, asked to use the bathroom, and she says, "Ahhhh, no, I'm sorry. I can't. My roommate situation...it's too complicated. It's really not a good situation, I'm sorry you're going to have to find a bush or something." Had kind of an awkward makeout session and that was that.
She'd told me earlier in the night that she was miserable with her roommate, who turns out to be a guy. I'm thinking it's likely an ex-bf she still lives with or is involved with some sort of "it's complicated" sitation.
Onward.
"...so I gave her an STD, and she STILL wanted to bang me."
TEAM NO APPS
TEAM PINK
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Belize King
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
Three hour nap, shit, shower, shave, 50 pushups,double shot of Canadian whisky, 50 dips, got fitted, cologne chosen, bumpin some motivational music, blast seven text, little bit of dirty talk to a Thai girl I miss for confidence boost.
Ready to hit it. Solo game. Three bars and two clubs on the list.
Goal is 10 approaches. Going hard for the SNL. I have work but if she aint smashing I am not worried about the number. Tired of getting flaked on and bullshit excuses. Been ladi once in two months since Thailand. Time to step up.
Game on.
The cycle of disrespect can start with just an appetizer.
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(07-18-2013 11:38 AM)thedude3737 Wrote: Cockblocked by logistics.
Met up with this solid 8 that I met at the hotel where I work, my first ever "work approach". She'd flaked on me once but bought my drinks last night. Really hit it off, smart girl, we were talking all night, physically escalating. She lives a few blocks from the bar so I thought SNL was likely. Walked her back, asked to use the bathroom, and she says, "Ahhhh, no, I'm sorry. I can't. My roommate situation...it's too complicated. It's really not a good situation, I'm sorry you're going to have to find a bush or something." Had kind of an awkward makeout session and that was that.
She'd told me earlier in the night that she was miserable with her roommate, who turns out to be a guy. I'm thinking it's likely an ex-bf she still lives with or is involved with some sort of "it's complicated" sitation.
Onward.
I think she read Bang.
Feel the fear..then do it anyway.
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Giovonny
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(07-18-2013 11:38 AM)thedude3737 Wrote: Cockblocked by logistics.
Met up with this solid 8 that I met at the hotel where I work, my first ever "work approach". She'd flaked on me once but bought my drinks last night. Really hit it off, smart girl, we were talking all night, physically escalating. She lives a few blocks from the bar so I thought SNL was likely. Walked her back, asked to use the bathroom, and she says, "Ahhhh, no, I'm sorry. I can't. My roommate situation...it's too complicated. It's really not a good situation, I'm sorry you're going to have to find a bush or something." Had kind of an awkward makeout session and that was that.
She'd told me earlier in the night that she was miserable with her roommate, who turns out to be a guy. I'm thinking it's likely an ex-bf she still lives with or is involved with some sort of "it's complicated" sitation.
Onward.
Not bad for your first "work approach" ever. Sounds like the date went well. You still have a chance, hopefully. 2nd date?
(07-18-2013 09:49 PM)soup Wrote: I'm getting to the point where I feel relieved if a girl flakes because it means my night is freed up to go out to meet new girls.
Interesting.
I have experienced this. I think its because of "over-gaming". We are gaming so much, practicing so much, that we forget how to enjoy each girl and each date. It all becomes a grind. As soon as I realized this, I made an adjustment..
I started approaching and dating less. I once focused on quantity like # of approaches, # of dates, etc. Now, I focused more on quality. Quality of boner test, quality of date, quality of logistics. Not just higher quality girls but also girls who really turn me on. A more strict boner test.
I got more in touch with my natural sexual needs. Not having sex just for the sake of having sex but because I really want to. Not approaching girls just for the sake of practice but because I really have no sexual options at the moment. Does that make sense? Not dating just to practice dating but dating in a way that I actually enjoy. Doing stuff that I actually want to do with or without the girl. Otherwise, why bother? Its not worth it.
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soup
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(07-18-2013 10:44 PM)Giovonny Wrote: (07-18-2013 11:38 AM)thedude3737 Wrote: Cockblocked by logistics.
Met up with this solid 8 that I met at the hotel where I work, my first ever "work approach". She'd flaked on me once but bought my drinks last night. Really hit it off, smart girl, we were talking all night, physically escalating. She lives a few blocks from the bar so I thought SNL was likely. Walked her back, asked to use the bathroom, and she says, "Ahhhh, no, I'm sorry. I can't. My roommate situation...it's too complicated. It's really not a good situation, I'm sorry you're going to have to find a bush or something." Had kind of an awkward makeout session and that was that.
She'd told me earlier in the night that she was miserable with her roommate, who turns out to be a guy. I'm thinking it's likely an ex-bf she still lives with or is involved with some sort of "it's complicated" sitation.
Onward.
Not bad for your first "work approach" ever. Sounds like the date went well. You still have a chance, hopefully. 2nd date?
(07-18-2013 09:49 PM)soup Wrote: I'm getting to the point where I feel relieved if a girl flakes because it means my night is freed up to go out to meet new girls.
Interesting.
I have experienced this. I think its because of "over-gaming". We are gaming so much, practicing so much, that we forget how to enjoy each girl and each date. It all becomes a grind. As soon as I realized this, I made an adjustment..
I started approaching and dating less. I once focused on quantity like # of approaches, # of dates, etc. Now, I focused more on quality. Quality of boner test, quality of date, quality of logistics. Not just higher quality girls but also girls who really turn me on. A more strict boner test.
I got more in touch with my natural sexual needs. Not having sex just for the sake of having sex but because I really want to. Not approaching girls just for the sake of practice but because I really have no sexual options at the moment. Does that make sense? Not dating just to practice dating but dating in a way that I actually enjoy. Doing stuff that I actually want to do with or without the girl. Otherwise, why bother? Its not worth it.
Nah- it's not that I don't throw myself into my dates, it's that I'm looking forward to going out. If I feel like a lot of energy, I'll try to go out and meet new girls after I bang a date.
It's like the date is the appetizer in some cases. In other cases, going out is the dessert.
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Giovonny
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(07-18-2013 11:04 PM)soup Wrote: (07-18-2013 10:44 PM)Giovonny Wrote: (07-18-2013 09:49 PM)soup Wrote: I'm getting to the point where I feel relieved if a girl flakes because it means my night is freed up to go out to meet new girls.
Interesting.
I have experienced this. I think its because of "over-gaming". We are gaming so much, practicing so much, that we forget how to enjoy each girl and each date. It all becomes a grind. As soon as I realized this, I made an adjustment..
I started approaching and dating less. I once focused on quantity like # of approaches, # of dates, etc. Now, I focused more on quality. Quality of boner test, quality of date, quality of logistics. Not just higher quality girls but also girls who really turn me on. A more strict boner test.
I got more in touch with my natural sexual needs. Not having sex just for the sake of having sex but because I really want to. Not approaching girls just for the sake of practice but because I really have no sexual options at the moment. Does that make sense? Not dating just to practice dating but dating in a way that I actually enjoy. Doing stuff that I actually want to do with or without the girl. Otherwise, why bother? Its not worth it.
Nah- it's not that I don't throw myself into my dates, it's that I'm looking forward to going out. If I feel like a lot of energy, I'll try to go out and meet new girls after I bang a date.
It's like the date is the appetizer in some cases. In other cases, going out is the dessert.
I think you just love "the hunt". I hate to use that word but you know what I mean. For a lot of us, I think there is a genetic component to gaming. Maybe this stuff is in our DNA? I think it is..
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Kickb
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
Met up with one of the OkC girls I've been talking to
Went swimming, at one point my shorts nearly slipped off in the water. I told her and she said"gthat's Ok I've been looking at it all night"
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(07-19-2013 02:11 PM)soup Wrote: One of my girlfriends is coming over for playtime in an hour. She's a ginger.
I might hang with a skinny tall Danish girl tonight.
God , I love redheads and especially gingers. I'm sad that my ginger recently dropped out of my harem because i wouldn't commit to her.
Have three dates from POF this weekend. Haven't had a single night lay from online in a while, going to push for it.
Went to a nightclub party, two chicks I knew had ridden to the party together and the driver, who I've banged and is a big slut, was mad at the other because a guy they were talking to preferred the other girl. They're both attractive but the other girl is about ten years younger. Later I found out the driver had driven off and left the other girl stranded there. Women hate it when they get out competed by younger women.
Talked to another girl I know and I suggested that we pose as a couple and go to a regular swingers club party in another city I'm aware of. She's a huge slut and size queen and she was totally down for it.
Made a few approaches went nowhere. Went to a bar, was just sitting there, was approached by a girl. Nothing special for sure, but bangable. Talked for quite a while then she said she had to go, and said "Don't you want my number?" and wrote it on a cocktail napkin. I guess I'll text her
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