Post: #9501

(02-25-2017 11:10 PM)ExploringReality Wrote:  Fuck my life. Be brutal with me boys, I need it.

Mmm, teenagers... I feel your pain. Best trick for whiskey dick is to not think about it, otherwise the anxiety will make it worse. Stop trying and just go down on her, think about how wet she is and how hot her little moans sound. Outside in a street - spin her around, grab her neck, spank her ass and finger her or whatever does it for you, and hope things come around.

And stock up on these- https://www.alldaychemist.com/men-s-heal...dpill.html

Legit source, and at those prices there's no reason not to have a stash on hand. Pop a quarter to half a 20mg tab if things are looking good and you'll have better stamina and no problems ever again.

Post: #9502

So after a week of being pretty conservative and defensive with scoping things out, I went full offense in the last couple of days. I've had a date lined up each day so far and been on them. Having smashed yet, but things are looking good. Changing my scenes really helped.

Post: #9503

(02-26-2017 04:46 PM)Gorgiass Wrote:  

(02-25-2017 11:10 PM)ExploringReality Wrote:  Fuck my life. Be brutal with me boys, I need it.

And stock up on these- https://www.alldaychemist.com/men-s-heal...dpill.html

Legit source, and at those prices there's no reason not to have a stash on hand. Pop a quarter to half a 20mg tab if things are looking good and you'll have better stamina and no problems ever again.

At 23 you shouldn't be needing dick pills (normally)...so I'd try less alcohol and less chicken choking first.

Lets see you go 7 days without rubbing one out pre-game next time...you should be able to scratch 18yo hottie's eyes out with your meat puppet

Post: #9504

(02-27-2017 04:19 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(02-26-2017 04:46 PM)Gorgiass Wrote:  

(02-25-2017 11:10 PM)ExploringReality Wrote:  Fuck my life. Be brutal with me boys, I need it.

And stock up on these- https://www.alldaychemist.com/men-s-heal...dpill.html

Legit source, and at those prices there's no reason not to have a stash on hand. Pop a quarter to half a 20mg tab if things are looking good and you'll have better stamina and no problems ever again.

At 23 you shouldn't be needing dick pills (normally)...so I'd try less alcohol and less chicken choking first.

Lets see you go 7 days without rubbing one out pre-game next time...you should be able to scratch 18yo hottie's eyes out with your meat puppet

Funniest thing, I'm at 2 weeks of no-fap, and I have erections throughout the day. So I'm blaming the alcohol and maybe being outside (I can barely piss if I'm outside). Meh, I don't care that much right now, my post was made still a little drunk and on a high energy mood, as I was feeling pretty awesome just because of applying game and "winning" in front of these people. My ego was happy .
She was a bitch when I text her so I didn't reply and I will go after the bang if I see her again Anyway I don't really care, plenty of girls on my radar (even though I fail to approach...I find excuses).

Thank you guys for the replies! It's time to go out and learn to drink responsibly, I don't want to fuck my opportunities over just because of alcohol when my game was right.

Post: #9505

(02-27-2017 04:19 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(02-26-2017 04:46 PM)Gorgiass Wrote:  

(02-25-2017 11:10 PM)ExploringReality Wrote:  Fuck my life. Be brutal with me boys, I need it.

And stock up on these- https://www.alldaychemist.com/men-s-heal...dpill.html

Legit source, and at those prices there's no reason not to have a stash on hand. Pop a quarter to half a 20mg tab if things are looking good and you'll have better stamina and no problems ever again.

At 23 you shouldn't be needing dick pills (normally)...so I'd try less alcohol and less chicken choking first.

Lets see you go 7 days without rubbing one out pre-game next time...you should be able to scratch 18yo hottie's eyes out with your meat puppet

This^^^

How many lifetime notches do you have? You were probably nervous. I would only use dick pills if nothing else works.

Post: #9506

(02-27-2017 05:36 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

(02-27-2017 04:19 PM)PapayaTapper Wrote:  

(02-26-2017 04:46 PM)Gorgiass Wrote:  

(02-25-2017 11:10 PM)ExploringReality Wrote:  Fuck my life. Be brutal with me boys, I need it.

And stock up on these- https://www.alldaychemist.com/men-s-heal...dpill.html

Legit source, and at those prices there's no reason not to have a stash on hand. Pop a quarter to half a 20mg tab if things are looking good and you'll have better stamina and no problems ever again.

At 23 you shouldn't be needing dick pills (normally)...so I'd try less alcohol and less chicken choking first.

Lets see you go 7 days without rubbing one out pre-game next time...you should be able to scratch 18yo hottie's eyes out with your meat puppet

This^^^

How many lifetime notches do you have? You were probably nervous. I would only use dick pills if nothing else works.

Hey redbeard, thank you for the input.
4, I had a HS gf that dumped me a little over 1 year ago. I discovered game and the manosphere then.
My goal is to get to 7 this year so I'm going after 3 more. I was probably nervous, I was sure not comfortable getting my dick out on the streets I had not a place there though, I was visiting old friends from my HS town. The whole "logistics are the most important component of your game" really clicked for me that night.

Post: #9507

Got flaked on by two seperate girls this weekend, sucked.

Then a girl came over to my house last night, brought a bottle and I got pretty smashed. She was drinking too; but I'm an alcoholic. If I have more than 2 shots I decide all the alcohol in the world shall be mine and go on a stupid-spree trying to drink it all. When I drink whisky I start raging and doing stuff I normally would not be agressive enough to do. I started like pinning her down and she kept trying to get away. I would let up every once in a while and look right in her eyes to say "if you want me to stop just say; Eugenics I want you to stop" and she would flash me a develish smile and keep playing at trying to get away. Ended up in some pretty rough but shortlived sex (whisky dick lol).

Despite the pretty agressive and enjoyable sex I'm pretty sure I lost a lot of frame with her because I started talking about past relationships (after she asked of course) and my expectations I have in a lover. I'm cringing just writing this, i don't know why I get like that.

I gotta stay away from the sauce or maybe just have 1. She actually took me to the movies today which was weird for me. I'm kind of down for it because girls paying for stuff instead of me feels good; but it feels non-masculine at the same time. I have a serious "never buy women shit" rule, I guess it just feels weird when a woman will pay my way without even a hint of resentment. I'm hungover my thought process is all fucked up I'll do a better write up later.

Post: #9508

Great. The truth shall set you free.

Getting your notch count up will help you relax and figure out the logistics. It's possible you could've banged at her place or on your buddies couch.

Take this L, turn it into a lesson, and keep pushing. I hope to hear from you more in this thread and the NoFap thread.

Post: #9509

(02-25-2017 02:20 PM)Eugenics Wrote:  "Also when she said the creeper thing in my game your in at that very moment."

Wisdom.

She agreed to dinner at my house and flaked later on. Didn't build enough attraction and comfort and the distance was probably a factor.

The only reason I trip about the friend is if she's already sexually satisfied I'll be less likely to get it in later. I try to not let it affect me, she is on tinder after all.

Next, thanks fellas

Set up a dinner date far away....then flake.

Post: #9510

Girl I'm seeing wants to go to a swingers club to live oit her fantasy of me fucking her in the open where people can watch. She picked one that doesnt allow single men in, but she is open to letting a girl join us. Neither of us has ever been to one. Any veterans know what to expect?

My assumptions are the people at the club won't be that attractive and this could be kind of lame, but who knows. Will be in NYC, can't give more details than that.

Post: #9511

^ My main has a fantasy of doing the same thing (being fucked in front of other people).

There is a swingers' resort in my area I have been thinking of taking her to for this.

Post: #9512

I have been with my girl for over 6 months. She cooks for me, every meal when she's over. Makes me breakfast before I wake up. Is very pretty and sweet. She's 21 I'm 30.

When we first started dating she was on the pill and I told her I don't commit to girls who are infertile, so if she wants to date she'd have to get off the pill. I'm just at a place in my life where I don't wanna be exclusive with a woman unless she's eager to have and raise my children. She got off the pill and for a few months we were not using any protection at all. During this time I looked at her as my prize possession, someone who legitimately wanted a life with me and a family. Even though I strongly dislike the culture in this country, somehow she was what I deemed a quality woman.

Yesterday she told me in tears (which she can turn on and off) that she's not ready to be a mother and wants to get an iud. She also has been saying she wants to have more 0rga3ms and bang more often. I'm so tired of western hook up culture and it seems thats what she wants right now. Just play house, get all my love and and provision.. but doesn't want to pass on my genes right now, apparently.

Right after she said it, it was like I was talking to a clone of every other girl I've smashed.. I lost that feeling of tenderness. She was no longer the potential mother of my children, she was just an infertile girl that wants to bang without consequences and enjoy my exclusive provision and safety.

6 months fellas. I dunno. I know she's young but I'm not looking to wait til she's old to plant my seeds.

Think of how many dudes a girl would smash if there were no consequences. It's not all that special of an act. But with no protection at all? That guy better be in your long term life plans and be suitable. By her insisting she didn't wanna get pregnant, it felt sort of like an insult.

I have a different mind set than many dudes on here, but I'd appreciate your feedback. I lost a lot of feeling for her already and it's been a day. I'm saying "I love you too" and feeling like a liar.

I'm in the thick of it and not thinking as clearly as I'd like to be. Can anyone share some perspectives?

Post: #9513

Had some drinks with a solid 5 yesterday. She is late 30's and has a couple of kids, but I am not looking to marry these girls so why not? She is from an upper class neighborhood so she has that snobby attitude about her. Now I just want to hate fuck her. I can tell she was a solid 7 in her 20's and pre-kids.

She paid for MY drinks too. Which caught me off guard. I told her I at least wanted to pay for my half but she insisted. Who am I to argue? Wasn't 100% I was going to get the kiss with her hard to read attitude, but I pulled it off. She enjoyed it.

Post: #9514

For the past 8 months or so, I've been leading a girlfriend-in-each-port lifestyle. At one point I had up to 3 girlfriends in different cities within ASEAN.

At first it was exciting and an ego boost to land in each city and get into bed with the girl the same night.

But after a while, it gets tiring.

When I'm not in their city, the relationships require lots of upkeep through texting and video calls. This on top of working a business, hanging out with the guys, and chasing other girls who live in the same city as I, it's gotten to be too much... and I don't think this lifestyle is sustainable for a guy like me.

I would rather have one girlfriend who lives a 10 minute taxi ride from me, than to juggle 3 women I'd have to get on a plane to visit (visa issues notwithstanding).

If you told me a year ago that juggling three girlfriends in three different countries is not what you really want to do, I would have laughed in your face and called you crazy. And yet here I am...

Post: #9515

(02-27-2017 09:24 PM)Repo Wrote:  Girl I'm seeing wants to go to a swingers club to live oit her fantasy of me fucking her in the open where people can watch. She picked one that doesnt allow single men in, but she is open to letting a girl join us. Neither of us has ever been to one. Any veterans know what to expect?

My assumptions are the people at the club won't be that attractive and this could be kind of lame, but who knows. Will be in NYC, can't give more details than that.

(02-28-2017 02:02 AM)General Stalin Wrote:  ^ My main has a fantasy of doing the same thing (being fucked in front of other people).

There is a swingers' resort in my area I have been thinking of taking her to for this.

I've been to the Scarlet Ranch in Denver, it's a swingers club. Had a BDSM relationship with my last LTR so I led her around on a leash in a skimpy outfit while I was suited up all night, she knelt on pillows at my feet while I sat at the table, etc. We didn't do much ourselves but watched a lot, the upstairs was people partying, food, drinks, nudity, rope demonstrations, while there was all sorts of people having sex in the rooms in the basement. Apparently there's etiquette about the private rooms; if the curtain is closed the participants want privacy, if it's half-open then anyone is free to watch, if it's all the way open they are receptive to people joining. The same ex and I fucked on webcam a few times for anonymous audiences (icanhazchat), that was a good intro to fucking in front of other people.

We had a bunch of other experiences with the kink community. There's plenty of nice, fun people but you're right that in general it's a lot of unattractive people and there were very few that I found interesting enough to want to hang out with.

I enjoyed all that crazy sex shit, but it's not something that's of high importance to me in a relationship.

Post: #9516

(03-01-2017 11:37 AM)CleanSlate Wrote:  For the past 8 months or so, I've been leading a girlfriend-in-each-port lifestyle. At one point I had up to 3 girlfriends in different cities within ASEAN.

At first it was exciting and an ego boost to land in each city and get into bed with the girl the same night.

But after a while, it gets tiring.

When I'm not in their city, the relationships require lots of upkeep through texting and video calls. This on top of working a business, hanging out with the guys, and chasing other girls who live in the same city as I, it's gotten to be too much... and I don't think this lifestyle is sustainable for a guy like me.

I would rather have one girlfriend who lives a 10 minute taxi ride from me, than to juggle 3 women I'd have to get on a plane to visit (visa issues notwithstanding).

If you told me a year ago that juggling three girlfriends in three different countries is not what you really want to do, I would have laughed in your face and called you crazy. And yet here I am...

How much time are you spending on the chicks in other cities? What is your excuse for traveling?

Post: #9517

(03-01-2017 11:55 AM)redbeard Wrote:  How much time are you spending on the chicks in other cities? What is your excuse for traveling?

It varies. Few days here, a week there.

I travel partly because I have to leave Thailand every 60 days while on a tourist visa, or 30 days on an exemption.

Instead of making 1-2 day border runs to Cambodia, I make bigger trips out of it because I like to go see new places and get a feel for the girls, culture, food, meet other forum members... everything really.

Post: #9518

(03-01-2017 12:20 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

(03-01-2017 11:55 AM)redbeard Wrote:  How much time are you spending on the chicks in other cities? What is your excuse for traveling?

It varies. Few days here, a week there.

I travel partly because I have to leave Thailand every 60 days while on a tourist visa, or 30 days on an exemption.

Instead of making 1-2 day border runs to Cambodia, I make bigger trips out of it because I like to go see new places and get a feel for the girls, culture, food, meet other forum members... everything really.

I meant what do you tell the girls?

There's a difference between saying "I'm leaving to go party with guys from my pickup forum" vs "I have a 4 day sales conference where my phone will be off from 7 AM - 9 PM, then we'll be going out to network until 1 AM."

I'm doing the same thing...but girls know I'm busy. They don't expect me to be texting them selfies every five minutes, or filling them in about every detail. 16th Law of Power. What happens is I won't text a girl for...4 or 5 days? Then when I'm bored I'll FaceTime them. They love that shit.

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Quote:I dont act on game principles, I try to live them. Instead of not phoning for 2.7 days, I dont phone because I was actually too busy. I dont act desperate because I actually am fucking other women already. I dont have routines used to DHV or any of that PUA shit, I am high value. I dont feign confidence, I am confident.

Post: #9519

(03-01-2017 10:54 AM)Beijong Wrote:  I have been with my girl for over 6 months. She cooks for me, every meal when she's over. Makes me breakfast before I wake up. Is very pretty and sweet. She's 21 I'm 30.

When we first started dating she was on the pill and I told her I don't commit to girls who are infertile, so if she wants to date she'd have to get off the pill. I'm just at a place in my life where I don't wanna be exclusive with a woman unless she's eager to have and raise my children. She got off the pill and for a few months we were not using any protection at all. During this time I looked at her as my prize possession, someone who legitimately wanted a life with me and a family. Even though I strongly dislike the culture in this country, somehow she was what I deemed a quality woman.

So basically you're wanting to have a kid without really planning for one ? But if it happens, it happens ?

Keep in mind you're only 30, I'm around your age and have no urge to have kids.

If you don't like the culture in the country you're staying, why not move ?

Quote:Yesterday she told me in tears (which she can turn on and off) that she's not ready to be a mother and wants to get an iud. She also has been saying she wants to have more 0rga3ms and bang more often. I'm so tired of western hook up culture and it seems thats what she wants right now. Just play house, get all my love and and provision.. but doesn't want to pass on my genes right now, apparently.

Right after she said it, it was like I was talking to a clone of every other girl I've smashed.. I lost that feeling of tenderness. She was no longer the potential mother of my children, she was just an infertile girl that wants to bang without consequences and enjoy my exclusive provision and safety.

She's 21, she's still young and horny and isn't thinking about kids.

She doesn't want kids, and now you've checked out of your relationship.

Quote:6 months fellas. I dunno. I know she's young but I'm not looking to wait til she's old to plant my seeds.

Think of how many dudes a girl would smash if there were no consequences. It's not all that special of an act. But with no protection at all? That guy better be in your long term life plans and be suitable. By her insisting she didn't wanna get pregnant, it felt sort of like an insult.

I have a different mind set than many dudes on here, but I'd appreciate your feedback. I lost a lot of feeling for her already and it's been a day. I'm saying "I love you too" and feeling like a liar.

I'm in the thick of it and not thinking as clearly as I'd like to be. Can anyone share some perspectives?

Keep in mind men bang with possible consequences as well, an unwanted kid and possible STD's.

6 MONTHS and you want her off BC and if she gets prego it's okay ?

At 6 months you haven't really truly known this girl yet, and putting the added pressure of the paranoia or pregnancy ?

That's not a healthy relationship at all.

A woman who doesn't want to get pregnant at 21.....isn't unheard of.

Basic bitches want to be "young wild and free".

Stop wasting your time and hers if she doesn't want kids - the relationship is over, your gut is telling you that.

Find a woman that checks all the boxes of being the mother of your children.

(03-01-2017 11:11 AM)graffix13 Wrote:  Had some drinks with a solid 5 yesterday. She is late 30's and has a couple of kids, but I am not looking to marry these girls so why not? She is from an upper class neighborhood so she has that snobby attitude about her. Now I just want to hate fuck her. I can tell she was a solid 7 in her 20's and pre-kids.

She paid for MY drinks too. Which caught me off guard. I told her I at least wanted to pay for my half but she insisted. Who am I to argue? Wasn't 100% I was going to get the kiss with her hard to read attitude, but I pulled it off. She enjoyed it.

I don't care if some bitch pays for my drinks.

It sounds like you weren't satisfied with that date to be honest.

Post: #9520

(03-01-2017 01:10 PM)kaotic Wrote:  [quote='Beijong' pid='1519595' dateline='1488383657']
I have been with my girl for over 6 months. She cooks for me, every meal when she's over. Makes me breakfast before I wake up. Is very pretty and sweet. She's 21 I'm 30.

When we first started dating she was on the pill and I told her I don't commit to girls who are infertile, so if she wants to date she'd have to get off the pill. I'm just at a place in my life where I don't wanna be exclusive with a woman unless she's eager to have and raise my children. She got off the pill and for a few months we were not using any protection at all. During this time I looked at her as my prize possession, someone who legitimately wanted a life with me and a family. Even though I strongly dislike the culture in this country, somehow she was what I deemed a quality woman.

So basically you're wanting to have a kid without really planning for one ? But if it happens, it happens ?

Keep in mind you're only 30, I'm around your age and have no urge to have kids.

If you don't like the culture in the country you're staying, why not move ?

Quote:Yesterday she told me in tears (which she can turn on and off) that she's not ready to be a mother and wants to get an iud. She also has been saying she wants to have more 0rga3ms and bang more often. I'm so tired of western hook up culture and it seems thats what she wants right now. Just play house, get all my love and and provision.. but doesn't want to pass on my genes right now, apparently.

Right after she said it, it was like I was talking to a clone of every other girl I've smashed.. I lost that feeling of tenderness. She was no longer the potential mother of my children, she was just an infertile girl that wants to bang without consequences and enjoy my exclusive provision and safety.

She's 21, she's still young and horny and isn't thinking about kids.

She doesn't want kids, and now you've checked out of your relationship.

Quote:6 months fellas. I dunno. I know she's young but I'm not looking to wait til she's old to plant my seeds.

Think of how many dudes a girl would smash if there were no consequences. It's not all that special of an act. But with no protection at all? That guy better be in your long term life plans and be suitable. By her insisting she didn't wanna get pregnant, it felt sort of like an insult.

I have a different mind set than many dudes on here, but I'd appreciate your feedback. I lost a lot of feeling for her already and it's been a day. I'm saying "I love you too" and feeling like a liar.

I'm in the thick of it and not thinking as clearly as I'd like to be. Can anyone share some perspectives?

Keep in mind men bang with possible consequences as well, an unwanted kid and possible STD's.

6 MONTHS and you want her off BC and if she gets prego it's okay ?

At 6 months you haven't really truly known this girl yet, and putting the added pressure of the paranoia or pregnancy ?

That's not a healthy relationship at all.

A woman who doesn't want to get pregnant at 21.....isn't unheard of.

Basic bitches want to be "young wild and free".

Stop wasting your time and hers if she doesn't want kids - the relationship is over, your gut is telling you that.

Find a woman that checks all the boxes of being the mother of your children.

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She was off B/C for the last three months, and now she wants to get back on it.

I realize that it's normal for girls to not want to have babies at 21, but I'm not looking to have a relationship thats exclusive unless there's procreation in their. I simply have no feelings for girls that wanna just bang and waste my time.

So when she got off BC I grew very attached to her, now that she's on again I don't feel exclusivity is justified. I only left my long term bachelor lifestyle because I thought we were on the same page about having kids.

Anything other than family formation is non deserving of exclusivity / marriage / ltr in my opinion.

She's now sounding like she wants more of a basic carefree lifestyle - that includes my salary and provision. I'm feeling more like a placeholder guy now instead of a real investment.

-- don't like my country's culture, why don't I move? : I want to. I've been taking Russian lessons for two years and have been to Russia. My kinda place. I don't know how I would survive there exactly yet. Or how I could get in. For canadians, only a 30 day travel visa is assigned, and I'm a non-certified accountant, so it's not incredibly easy to get work there that a Russian couldn't do better for less.

Post: #9521

(03-01-2017 01:10 PM)kaotic Wrote:  I don't care if some bitch pays for my drinks.

It sounds like you weren't satisfied with that date to be honest.

Yeah the date/meet up itself was...'ok'. Nothing spectacular but it wasn't a complete disaster. She was just quiet and reserved it was hard to get a good read on her. Not to mention she is late 30's and has kids, so her free time is very limited. Not even sure when she'll get time to go out again, let alone when I'll get the bang. I'll give it 2 more dates max.

As for the paying part, I've just never had a girl pay 100% before. I went out with my newest (and possible new main) plate on Monday night, and she offered to split. Then went on to say how she doesn't think it's fair that guys always have to pay since she's eating/drinking half. I couldn't agree more. It's not that I mind paying 100%, because it's usually my idea to invite them out for drinks in the first place. But I'm not going to lie that it's a nice change of pace when the girl pays 100%. But it's not something I think I could let happen all the time.

Post: #9522

(03-01-2017 01:33 PM)Beijong Wrote:  She was off B/C for the last three months, and now she wants to get back on it.

I realize that it's normal for girls to not want to have babies at 21, but I'm not looking to have a relationship thats exclusive unless there's procreation in their. I simply have no feelings for girls that wanna just bang and waste my time.

6 month relationship is what I'm getting act, that's a short amount of time the LTR aspect of things.

I don't understand - you do want to start a family correct? That's why you want a woman who isn't on BC to have an LTR with ?

The only exclusive relationship you'll entertain is if you can have kids with her right ?

Don't you think it's a tad bit early to risk having kids with a woman you've barely known 6 months ?

What I'm getting at is that you need way more than 6 months to figure out if a woman is worth having a child with.

Quote:So when she got off BC I grew very attached to her, now that she's on again I don't feel exclusivity is justified. I only left my long term bachelor lifestyle because I thought we were on the same page about having kids.

Anything other than family formation is non deserving of exclusivity / marriage / ltr in my opinion.

She's now sounding like she wants more of a basic carefree lifestyle - that includes my salary and provision. I'm feeling more like a placeholder guy now instead of a real investment.

Isn't she the one whose supposed to be attached to you ? Not the other way around ?

I completely understand that you are looking for that, some men want that and are over the bachelor lifestyle ?

I highlighted the bold: Am I to understand that you are supporting her financially in some sort of way ?

Quote: I want to. I've been taking Russian lessons for two years and have been to Russia. My kinda place. I don't know how I would survive there exactly yet. Or how I could get in. For canadians, only a 30 day travel visa is assigned, and I'm a non-certified accountant, so it's not incredibly easy to get work there that a Russian couldn't do better for less.

That's great to hear you're learning Russian, what would it take for you to become certified, as far as accounting is there a demand for that in Russia ? What would it take for you to be viewed as a CPA there ?

Post: #9523

(03-01-2017 01:45 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(03-01-2017 01:33 PM)Beijong Wrote:  She was off B/C for the last three months, and now she wants to get back on it.

I realize that it's normal for girls to not want to have babies at 21, but I'm not looking to have a relationship thats exclusive unless there's procreation in their. I simply have no feelings for girls that wanna just bang and waste my time.

6 month relationship is what I'm getting act, that's a short amount of time the LTR aspect of things.

I don't understand - you do want to start a family correct? That's why you want a woman who isn't on BC to have an LTR with ?

The only exclusive relationship you'll entertain is if you can have kids with her right ?

Don't you think it's a tad bit early to risk having kids with a woman you've barely known 6 months ?

What I'm getting at is that you need way more than 6 months to figure out if a woman is worth having a child with.

Quote:So when she got off BC I grew very attached to her, now that she's on again I don't feel exclusivity is justified. I only left my long term bachelor lifestyle because I thought we were on the same page about having kids.

Anything other than family formation is non deserving of exclusivity / marriage / ltr in my opinion.

She's now sounding like she wants more of a basic carefree lifestyle - that includes my salary and provision. I'm feeling more like a placeholder guy now instead of a real investment.

Isn't she the one whose supposed to be attached to you ? Not the other way around ?

I completely understand that you are looking for that, some men want that and are over the bachelor lifestyle ?

I highlighted the bold: Am I to understand that you are supporting her financially in some sort of way ?

Quote: I want to. I've been taking Russian lessons for two years and have been to Russia. My kinda place. I don't know how I would survive there exactly yet. Or how I could get in. For canadians, only a 30 day travel visa is assigned, and I'm a non-certified accountant, so it's not incredibly easy to get work there that a Russian couldn't do better for less.

That's great to hear you're learning Russian, what would it take for you to become certified, as far as accounting is there a demand for that in Russia ? What would it take for you to be viewed as a CPA there ?

It would take 4 years at about 20 hrs a week of study on top of 40hr a week full time work to get certified. The certification would be negligible at my office because its only considered asset criteria and not mandatory. It would increase my chances of getting hired in Russia though, especially if I was fluent in Russian.

I guess about the relationhip it comes down to the fact that I either wanna be in family mode or player mode. This long term relationship business is not of much interest to me.. there's a high risk of it being a total waste of time. I was in a 3 year relationship with a girl on bc and it abruptly ended leaving with with my dik in my hands, and taken advantage of. Same thing happened with a 1 year relationship. Nothing to show for it, but it was a massive investment of time that I could have put to better use.

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One of the Asian chicks I was fooling with blew up on me over text 2 days ago.

I'm not spending enough time with her / messaging her and she decided it would be a good idea to tell me she is a Feminist and that all my views (on the world in general) are wrong.

I'm aware this was a call for attention but I don't have any time for that.

She received a firm boot out the door.

Met with a half English / half Arabic 6/6.5 on friday off tinder. (8 on the face to me but the body is a little plump in places)

I drove to hers, we had drinks at a bar not far. Stayed till closing then moved to the next place open and continued until we had nowhere left (around 2AM)

We caught an Uber back to hers and I got the bang.

The bang was good, she wanted to be choked and for me to spit in her mouth and call her a slut.

Overall she's a pretty down to earth chick, she hates Feminism and is pro-brexit / pro-trump.

I'm not naive, I'll see if this is a facade and keep an eye on her.

Flaked on a Tinder date for Saturday.

This chick was sending me tons of nudes and was basically DTF. 2 hours before the meet she sends a text saying she can't drink because of her medication but she is still DTF. I asked her what for and she told me she suffers from BPD.

Blocked and deleted that number fast, I've read a lot of horror stories on here from these types of broads.

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(03-01-2017 03:20 PM)Beijong Wrote:  I guess about the relationhip it comes down to the fact that I either wanna be in family mode or player mode. This long term relationship business is not of much interest to me.. there's a high risk of it being a total waste of time. I was in a 3 year relationship with a girl on bc and it abruptly ended leaving with with my dik in my hands, and taken advantage of. Same thing happened with a 1 year relationship. Nothing to show for it, but it was a massive investment of time that I could have put to better use.

If LTR is not of interest to you, then you aren't going to be able to be in family mode.

In order to have a family, you've got to get to know the woman you're with, that takes time, obviously both you of you need to understand where this relationship will end up (as in having a family).

I'd be hesistant to just meet a "good" woman and jump into a family with her.

I'd like to vet her for quite some time before, getting a good quality DOES take an investment.

It's tough to find a legitimate woman who checks all boxes for being a good family woman at that young of an age in the west.


Why don't you stay in player mode for awhile instead of jumping into relationships ?