Post: #8651

+1 WIA. Excellent advice and analysis.

You've given me a lot to think about. I thought about my game style, and I've realized that I enjoy learning about people, and talking and connecting with them. I am good at making people open up to me. This is unfortunately more a boyfriend-type behavior. If this is a habit I need to get rid of, I better do it now though. At the same time, with girls, they get close to me, but I don't get close to them. I don't really divulge anything personal about me. It is always a one-way street. I really enjoy being the mysterious man.

I most definitely will never be taking a girl out to dinner. If that is one lesson, I learned from reading this forum, it is definitely that. Cooking dinner with a girl reflects my personal style. You have fun, chat, connect, and then get down to business. Plus, you get to boss her around which is always a plus. I was planning on doing a special dish that I love which = DHV.

I set a very strong frame with her since the very beginning. I ask the questions, she answers them. I tell her when and where, she shows up, which is what makes me think making dinner with her would be ok.

Yet at the same time my gut is telling me don't. Perhaps I should wait and do another booty call and make the call after that.

Both you and Jagnum suggest ramping it up in the bedroom, which I agree with (kind of getting bored anyways), so I'll be doing that next week regardless.

Jagnum, thanks for excellent advice on getting her to open up. Honestly, wouldn't know how to broach the subject without that.

Post: #8652

http://www.thedailybeast.com/articles/20...-ring.html

These dudes bragged about it online.

WIA

Post: #8653

(09-28-2016 08:10 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Furthermore - what's the male equivalent of skrillex hair cuts, tattoos, feminism, et cetera - What makes a guy look like a manwhore, but not a possible husband?

This is harder to pull off as a guy, because when a chick starts to take a liking to us - she accepts us warts and all at first, and then starts the slow beta-ization. I remember when my college GF talked me about of cutting the springs on the Civic. *shudders*

...

You'll have to use your noodle to think of ways to make her feel like it's Spring Break when she's with you, and then turn back into the future wife of some Christian Republican when she's not.

Love to hear the other vets on this

WIA

I am out and about, but would like to come back to this when I have time to sit down and process.

(This continues to be the best thread on the forum)

Post: #8654

(09-28-2016 08:10 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Furthermore - what's the male equivalent of skrillex hair cuts, tattoos, feminism, et cetera - What makes a guy look like a manwhore, but not a possible husband?
Love to hear the other vets on this

WIA

I'd say it has to be dressing very Dom BDSM style: black leather pants, boots, belt with very large buckle, rings, maybe a triskelion necklace, vest. If you want to go Uber-Alpha* have handcuffs clipped to your pants. You will definitely be approached by at least a few girls, some of whom will be hot.

The flip side is a tuxedo. Say you just left a wedding [night game] but didn't want to hang out at a hotel all night, maybe you're from out of town.

* I'll give an example of how one guy does this on 1st meets, based on info gathered from multiple people in a later post. Not the one below.

Post: #8655

How to go further with new plates: go out for drinks, suggest taking kinks to a new level. She consents happily, back to your place. Have them strip down to bra and thong, leave heels on, kneel down. Tell her to undress you from the waist down and deepthroat.

She likes being tied up, so lift her up from the floor and throw her on the bed, face down. Handcuff her hands behind her back. Start slowly with spanking, then ramp it up to paddling and finally flogging until her heels are kicking the air. Stroke her back, neck, ass, and thighs with vampire gloves. You see her shudder with the new sensation but she clearly enjoys it. She should be dripping wet by now so you remove the gloves & finger fuck her until she's about to come.

Pull her ass up and give her a dildo or vibrator to use on her pussy while you get out the anal toys. Lots of lube. You can't use too much lube. Penetrate her with anal beads or a flared dildo, very slowly as she starts to orgasm. Pull them out slowly and she has a few more. Now you can stick your cock in her waiting ass. Fuck her until she forgets her name. When you're ready to come, just flip her over, she says, 'You can come wherever you want.'

As you drive her home, she thanks you not only for a fun time, but an 'unforgettable experience.' Now think of your next plate that likes to experiment with you or is at least willing to try.

Post: #8656

(09-29-2016 04:43 PM)DonnyGately Wrote:  How to go further with new plates: go out for drinks, suggest taking kinks to a new level. She consents happily, back to your place. Have them strip down to bra and thong, leave heels on, kneel down. Tell her to undress you from the waist down and deepthroat.

She likes being tied up, so lift her up from the floor and throw her on the bed, face down. Handcuff her hands behind her back. Start slowly with spanking, then ramp it up to paddling and finally flogging until her heels are kicking the air. Stroke her back, neck, ass, and thighs with vampire gloves. You see her shudder with the new sensation but she clearly enjoys it. She should be dripping wet by now so you remove the gloves & finger fuck her until she's about to come.

Pull her ass up and give her a dildo or vibrator to use on her pussy while you get out the anal toys. Lots of lube. You can't use too much lube. Penetrate her with anal beads or a flared dildo, very slowly as she starts to orgasm. Pull them out slowly and she has a few more. Now you can stick your cock in her waiting ass. Fuck her until she forgets her name. When you're ready to come, just flip her over, she says, 'You can come wherever you want.'

As you drive her home, she thanks you not only for a fun time, but an 'unforgettable experience.' Now think of your next plate that likes to experiment with you or is at least willing to try.

I was going to suggest Ash Ketchum and Pikachu costumes and have her play with your Poke Balls, but the above is an option as well.

A good place to look for female fantasies - Cosmo - specifically the stories and columns about "male" fantasies. The "male" fantasies are almost always what WOMEN want, not what men actually want.

WIA

Post: #8657

I'm struggling moving up to intermediate game since I cant solidly tell when a girl is giving IOIs / letting you escalate because she is fishing for attention, vs she is genuinely interested. The former is a waste of time and prick my ego.

If I was prowling the field then the answer is obvious, keep escalating past the point of no return and accept the time wasted as collateral damage.

But I'm in a happy LTR, and whatever game I'm running is for maintenance and improvement purpose. Trying to escalate with a false lead is very risky for obvious reasons.

And my venues are often full of girls who know their business (media marketing, latin dances)

Anyone has advice aside the "keep escalating" old gem?

Post: #8658

Go out last night, first time this week. After about an hour in a 6 approaches me, commenting on my pants saying she can't see them (camo peacocking?). Playfully tell her I'm just all torso and feet. Bit of banter, tells me she studies film. Tell her what I do. Mentions her friends left for the dancefloor but she's bailing on them for me. I suggest to come get food. She does, then after we finish she asks if she can come back to mine. We get an Uber. All up about 30 minutes from her approach to my place.

Open the door of my room, sit on bed, talk for 30 seconds then she tries to pin me down and make out... then we get to business. Went raw again... need to cut down on the rawdogs. Average as fuck white girl but you have to love layups every now and then. Not worth a reload

+1, 30 total 2016 now, 88 all time #RoadTo100

Post: #8659

(09-27-2016 01:38 AM)Jagnum Wrote:  So it's going to come down to Friday.

I set a goal at the beginning of September to "Sleep with three new women this month." I didn't get any bangs in all of August, so I made up for it by setting another "reach" goal for myself at the beginning of September.

As September has almost gone, two bangs so far. One was the great yoga first date with the 20-year old recommend it, and the other a beautiful little 32-year old.

On Friday September 30th, I have a 2nd date lined up with a sexy first year grad student, a 24-year old,

Didn't get the bang with the Latina 24-year old, unless some woman magically appears in my bedroom in the next 30 minutes, will have failed the goal of getting 3 new bangs in September.

We had a great 2nd date, a lot of chemistry at the bar. At one point she leaned over and kissed me twice on the cheek in the bar after something I said that she really liked. Lot of touching, we kissed a few times at the bar (I try to avoid kissing at the venue, but it just happened).

Anyway, she comes over,

Her LMR kind of kicked in early, once we got to my room, she said, "I just realized I've been up since 7 am, and have had a long day." (I should have said, "Me too. Lay down. I'll give you a massage.")

I didn't respond to that statement directly. We get on my bed. She gets close to me, we start making out, but she isn't down beyond kissing. She said something interesting things to me, she said,

"You know what you're doing."
"I feel a bit intimidated by you...it's like you're very confident"
"You have a really strong sexual energy" (she's originally from a hippie town)
Then she asked me, "So just given the way you approached me [direct, on campus], and just what I'm feeling right now...do you do this a lot?"

I told her I don't usually bring a girl back on the 2nd date, but we had a good chemistry at the bar, and probably should be somewhere where we can be alone.

I also told her, which is true, that yeah I mean from time to time I'll run after a cute girl, but I certainly don't go on dates with every girl I talk to. But with her I felt a good connection.

Maybe I should have made up a ridiculous answer, "Yes. I have 13 girlfriends and a Chinese bride on the way." Then told her more seriously what I already mentioned above.

I've never had a girl ask me that in the bedroom, although I'm sure others have felt it, but haven't told me directly.

I wasn't sure how to address it. How to respond to the things she said above. Basically she was calling me out as a player without using that word.

She was obviously comfortable enough to come over to my place, aroused, attracted, and aware of my standards, but was firm about leaving after 30 minutes. Obviously tried to get her to stay, but it wasn't happening.

We got as far as making out, but she wasn't having me take off her bra. I had my shirt unbuttoned, but nothing further.

So ends September.

Post: #8660

I wouldn't have explained much at all.

When she asked if you do this a lot, I would have just laughed, said no and carried on making out.

In the end she'll do what she wants to do anyway, only danger is accidentally talking her out of it.

Post: #8661

(09-29-2016 06:24 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  A good place to look for female fantasies - Cosmo - specifically the stories and columns about "male" fantasies. The "male" fantasies are almost always what WOMEN want, not what men actually want.

WIA

I read that section monthly when I'm in line at the supermarket or Target. Good advice.

Post: #8662

Yeah, should stick with agree and amplify there to defuse.

Post: #8663

(09-30-2016 03:22 AM)Dalaran1991 Wrote:  I'm struggling moving up to intermediate game since I cant solidly tell when a girl is giving IOIs / letting you escalate because she is fishing for attention, vs she is genuinely interested. The former is a waste of time and prick my ego.

If I was prowling the field then the answer is obvious, keep escalating past the point of no return and accept the time wasted as collateral damage.

But I'm in a happy LTR, and whatever game I'm running is for maintenance and improvement purpose. Trying to escalate with a false lead is very risky for obvious reasons.

And my venues are often full of girls who know their business (media marketing, latin dances)

Anyone has advice aside the "keep escalating" old gem?

This is a tough one. Because a girl will keep riding the pull because she enjoys being pursued, being flirted with, her getting to be sexy.

How can you know that you can still close, if you don't close?

I don't think you can "know" for sure until P is in the V....

So as far as I know, that's a dead end, unless you want to renegotiate/reframe your current relationship.

But can you use your skills in other ways?

Most game guys use open/attract/qualify/close to bang chicks.

Can you get this chick to do something ELSE for you?

A simple one, Can you get her to charm the bartender and score you both drinks? What about get her to scam a guy for drinks for the two of you?

The alcohol is not really the goal, it's about appealing to her sense of mischief and using her skills and ingenuity.

WIA

Post: #8664

(10-01-2016 01:41 AM)Jagnum Wrote:  We had a great 2nd date, a lot of chemistry at the bar. At one point she leaned over and kissed me twice on the cheek in the bar after something I said that she really liked. Lot of touching, we kissed a few times at the bar (I try to avoid kissing at the venue, but it just happened).

Anyway, she comes over,

Her LMR kind of kicked in early, once we got to my room, she said, "I just realized I've been up since 7 am, and have had a long day." (I should have said, "Me too. Lay down. I'll give you a massage.")

I didn't respond to that statement directly. We get on my bed. She gets close to me, we start making out, but she isn't down beyond kissing. She said something interesting things to me, she said,

"You know what you're doing."
"I feel a bit intimidated by you...it's like you're very confident"
"You have a really strong sexual energy" (she's originally from a hippie town)
Then she asked me, "So just given the way you approached me [direct, on campus], and just what I'm feeling right now...do you do this a lot?"

I told her I don't usually bring a girl back on the 2nd date, but we had a good chemistry at the bar, and probably should be somewhere where we can be alone.

I also told her, which is true, that yeah I mean from time to time I'll run after a cute girl, but I certainly don't go on dates with every girl I talk to. But with her I felt a good connection.

Maybe I should have made up a ridiculous answer, "Yes. I have 13 girlfriends and a Chinese bride on the way." Then told her more seriously what I already mentioned above.

I've never had a girl ask me that in the bedroom, although I'm sure others have felt it, but haven't told me directly.

I wasn't sure how to address it. How to respond to the things she said above. Basically she was calling me out as a player without using that word.

She was obviously comfortable enough to come over to my place, aroused, attracted, and aware of my standards, but was firm about leaving after 30 minutes. Obviously tried to get her to stay, but it wasn't happening.

We got as far as making out, but she wasn't having me take off her bra. I had my shirt unbuttoned, but nothing further.

So ends September.

The short analysis is

- you had attraction.

- you were in the comfort aka trust building stage aka -

"If you fuck me, will if I feel horrible after, please don't make me feel bad, because I want to fuck you"

- she basically said that you were a player
- You didn't address it properly
- You didn't get the lay.

So if you were turn to the Trust chapter in the Book of Game, sometimes mislabeled Comfort - we focus on trust building activities.

We never rewind the pull and use attraction material like "agree and amplify", "playfully misinterpret", "ignore and change subject", "Let the silence hang so she fills in the vacuum"etc.

Game is emotional progression. And if you allow her to go back into a banter and playful mood, she will gladly do that, because she's no longer in danger of getting her pussy pounded when you let her be sassy.

We need to build trust when a chick says "you're a player" aka "I don't trust you, even though I'm attracted to you"

Trust Building 101

- Exposing vulnerability - tell her a story that doesn't make you look cool, but does tell her about yourself.

- Taking the girl to lots of different places and letting her see that you're a normal cool guy

- Talking to others, including her friends, but also strangers - making her see that you're a normal cool guy

- When you touch her - you're okay with it. You're not timid, but warm.

- When she pulls away - you're also okay with it. You're not hurt, you're attentive and listening to her body language

These are your pistols, your go to's.

Areas to Improve On

Presumably, you had this chick at the bar, and she's relieving her own sexual tension by kissing you. And you let that happen. So the sexual urgency is diminishing.

I didn't see you set her up in terms of whether she's adventurous, which would have set the stage for a bathroom/car pull -taking advantage of her impulsiveness.

I didn't see where you gave her plausible deniability on the way to your spot. "We're just going to make out, sorry I have to kick you out..."

I didn't see where you purposefully went to the 7-11 or grocery store between the transition from the bar to home. (Which is why having a place with good logistics is not about getting them home, but about you going out more.)

But maybe you did do all of that, and just left it out of the description.

One of the truisms of the game is that - Women make decisions 1) in the moment, 2) based on how they feel.

So if you want the decision to go your way, you focus on HOW SHE FEELS. Not what she is thinking. Where most guys fail with chicks, is that they focus on what she literally says - and not what leads her to say those things.

The idea is that you can't change a woman's mind. You can't make her rationally understand that sex is probably the best thing she can do right now.

You change her mood.

In a typical opening situation,
"I have a boyfriend..."

The reply isn't "How long you had that problem?" © Positive K

It's something like

"Do you love him..."
*pause*
"You hesitated"
*pause*
*change subject*

In this situation, she sounds like she wants to bang from your description - but something is holding her back. She doesn't trust you. This time she recognizes that the heat is rising between you...but this has probably happened to her before.

So how do you take the pussycat by the ears?

These chicks are expecting you to deny/deflect/change the subject - that confirms her suspicions. Although there may be ways to get at her from a clever and intellectual way - what you want to do is change her mood.

Right now she's subtlely attacking you. And you're not really aware that she's doing it. And she knows you aren't aware. Maybe at the top level of consciousness - but in the subconscious level. Someone who is attacked, should defend himself. That's the law of the jungle.

You have to handle her move. You can make your own subtle attack, or you make her draw her attack out.

Her - "You have a strong sexual energy...you approached me...you must do this all the time"...

Option A
You - "I'm glad you recognized the strong CONNECTION between US. When I saw you, I knew that I HAD TO MEET YOU. (you could say, you're not even really my type, but there's something about you..)

Usually I'm so AWKWARD with girls...but with you, IT'S LIKE WE'VE KNOWN EACH OTHER FOREVER.

^This can sound quite "player-y" quite game-y'

So you don't elaborate or belabor these points

You pause.

Change your tone

Then you tell her, "I see you going away from me now, it's in your eyes. Come back to me, be here with me, for this little second"

^This sort of "dreamy stuff" then *state break/rapport break* - will get her off of her "this guy is a player" mood and in to something else.

From there, you have to see where she is in terms of her attraction, and how she's handled intense relationships.

I like to prep a chick for the idea that this "thing" we have right now is momentary, and unless we take advantage of it, it will be gone.

From there, I like to set up chicks to think about gratification and denial.

"There are some people that deny themselves gratification, pleasure, reward...for some far off reward that never seems to come." (prudes)

"Then there are others who taste the fruit, and feel bad for not denying themselves. They feel bad because they feel good " (sluts with remorse)

I think if you're present in the moment (here and now) you can enjoy the fruit, enjoy your time, and be happy about it.

Option B
Another tactic that I like is asking her if she's been hurt. Then you sort of work through what went wrong in that situation. Usually, she gave up her body because she wanted his love and affection/at least the option.

So you have to reframe that idea that she's trading sex for love, and rather that when you bang her - you're building something in the moment for mutual benefit - that doesn't really have strings attached.

__________________________

So my basic advice
- Know what stage you're in
- Always Deal with the problem in this stage, so you don't have problems in the next stage. (I don't believe in LMR, I believe in First Minute Resistance)
- Always move forward, never backwards.
- Use the right tactics for the right stage
- If the girl asks for trust, give her trust
- Use the basic trust building tools when possible
- If the issue still persists, Take the pussycat by the ears and deal with her concerns by addressing them somewhat intellectually, but focusing on changing her mood, and getting her into a different emotional place.

WIA

Post: #8665

WIA that was awesome.

Yes, despite my posts and others on this forum advising—"don't kiss at the venue"—I didn't control those impulses. You're right. When we got back to my room, the sexual tension had dissipated. I could feel it. Which means she definitely felt it.

Trust thing is right. Should have talked more about being vulnerable.

Should have added more plausible deniability by saying:

"Let's go somewhere where we can be alone" (i.e. let's not kiss in the bar).

And giving her more bachelor-pad bait, I didn't this time for some reason. (Usually, I tell broads at the bar we should "see photos from that last trip I went on".)

When we got to my bedroom, and just went for it. That's worked for me in the past, I pull my computer out to see photos, but before I can open them, we just start making out. Those are my favorite types of bangs, where there's so much sexual energy in the room.

"I see you going away from me now, it's in your eyes. Come back to me, be here with me, for this little second"

"This "thing" we have right now is momentary, and unless we take advantage of it, it will be gone."

I remember doing that in Mexico last year. I was in a car with a cute little latina 19-year old, she was dropping me back off at my hotel. I first asked if she wanted to come in but she shook her head. We talked a bit more. I went in for the kiss. She rejected me, turned her head way. I told her something along those lines about "this thing we have is momentary. Unless we take advantage of it, it will be gone", entirely in Spanish, which was difficult to say the least, plus at 1 am after a long day (ATM problems). A minute later, I went for the kiss a second time, and it was a different story. We made out, and she immediately took my hand and slid it underneath her dress on to her wet pussy. Banging commenced in her car a few minutes later.

Making her feel a sense of loss.

I took notes. Hopefully will adjust that next time. Game is incremental, building on everything. Frustrating, but always working on it.

Seeking advice broadly—do you think holding hands on the way back to my place is good/bad/doesn't matter on the 2nd date?

Post: #8666

(10-01-2016 07:14 PM)Jagnum Wrote:  WIA that was awesome.

Text book old school game. Nothing special about it, other than no one does it anymore. They've dropped this sort of thinking, because it's technical and therefore not cool.

The idea that "game is emotional progression" is straight out of Love Drop's book that is a rehash (and humanization) of the Mystery Method.

(10-01-2016 07:14 PM)Jagnum Wrote:  I remember doing that in Mexico last year. I was in a car with a cute little latina 19-year old, she was dropping me back off at my hotel. I first asked if she wanted to come in but she shook her head. We talked a bit more. I went in for the kiss. She rejected me, turned her head way. I told her something along those lines about "this thing we have is momentary. Unless we take advantage of it, it will be gone", entirely in Spanish, which was difficult to say the least, plus at 1 am after a long day (ATM problems). A minute later, I went for the kiss a second time, and it was a different story. We made out, and she immediately took my hand and slid it underneath her dress on to her wet pussy. Banging commenced in her car a few minutes later.

Exactly. You ALREADY know how to do these things intuitively.

Most everything written about game is deconstruction of what naturally happens. And then applying game is like basically hitting the checklist and making sure you're getting appropriate feedback. All day, every day, every chick.

Guys have a whole lot of game - but one of the issues when it's coming down to "go time" is that we're single track thinking.

Another game truism is "She's ready 15 minutes, after you are"

So part of the real tension in running game is that
- you want to be present, in the moment
- you don't want to be thinking
but
- you need to have a plan, you need to have mile markers/sign posts
- there's a smidge of calculation in what you say and do.

The hardcase newbies on the Newbie board are usually way too much on one side of the other.

(10-01-2016 07:14 PM)Jagnum Wrote:  Making her feel a sense of loss.

There's definitely that.
That's part of LMR, part of Dread. Avoidance of pain is a stronger motivator than Seeking Pleasure.

However, you want the girl to seek pleasure, freely.
You can't always frame it, or think of something that gets her to think about it that way. But I try to avoid that sort of move when I can.

(10-01-2016 07:14 PM)Jagnum Wrote:  Seeking advice broadly—do you think holding hands on the way back to my place is good/bad/doesn't matter on the 2nd date?

Hand holding can work, but it can also set you up for more of a "boyfriend" "this could be going somewhere" sort of vibe.

What you want is that "spring break" "let's be totally crazy" "let's explore sexuality" sort of vibe. You want her to enjoy the sex without having to worry about what you think of her, because she worries about that when it comes to her boyfriend.

Here's one I re-engineered from a break up.

"When i broke up with my ex, a few weeks later we met at a bar, and she told me everything....everything... And I told her everything. We'd been together 3 years and this was the first time we were honest...our first time being really free - it was like breaking up again - I never want to feel like that again."

Along the same lines is that scene from Magnolia





"Once you found that out, you might not like me"

This game thing is more than just pocket squares and ass to grass squats.

WIA

Post: #8667

(10-01-2016 07:50 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  Text book old school game. Nothing special about it, other than no one does it anymore. They've dropped this sort of thinking, because it's technical and therefore not cool.

(10-01-2016 07:50 PM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  This game thing is more than just pocket squares and ass to grass squats.

WIA

We need a technical revolution in game. My guess is that people have moved on from it who wrote about it, but its the basis of everything, and applicable to all areas of life and business. Mindset, lifestyle and tight game are unstoppable.

Post: #8668

A little question for you players, when considering a girl for an LTR or as a fuck buddy do you take her voice into consideration?

Reason I say this is I was waiting in line yesterday to get my favorite parmesan pizza in the city and this chick ruined it. She was a 9 on the Richter scale, tall and thin with a very firm ass but her squirrel like voice made me leave the place before ordering. My ears were bleeding and I left the place without my pizza.

It made me realize that voice is maybe a biggie for me.

Post: #8669

So can anyone give me a run-down on this situation: Met this girl about a month ago, chick was in a fading relationship as she called it and we banged on the third time we hung at my place which was a week after we met. So I was thinking, feminine ''good girl'' chick - doesn't drink, doesn't like to go out, washes dishes at my place without me ordering and so on. Everything was going fine for a month, sex was great, she swallowed, liked facials. She initiated texts, we talked nearly daily and came to my place to bang at least 2 days a week. Got cuddly, stayed over for the night and I thought that it was going great. Last week we met at my place while she was on her period, gave me some head and we made plans for the next time somewhere at the end of the week. I said that I don't have time until Thursday night and neither had she. Last we talked was some small-talk on Wednesday and she hasn't initiated anything since then. I've gone radio silence as well, to understand whether she's actually interested or not.

Should I just ask for a meet-up this week or wait until she initiates something? It's weird how fast they seemingly get cold. I'm thinking that she met up with her ex and I was just a fun fling in the mean time.

Post: #8670

@papaiela You let a girl's annoying voice stop you from getting food you wanted? Grow some thicker skin man.

If you are going to voluntarily be spending any length of time with a female, especially on an intimate level, then you need to take everything into consideration. Don't waste tour time with girls you dont like.

If a girl had a voice that annoyed me it would surely have an effect on my ability to enjoy interacting with her.

Post: #8671

(09-24-2016 01:18 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  Me: (This is where I decided to experimenting with tell her whats up.) If you want the truth it's because your pics look slutty and you kept asking me to smoke weed and grab food. You seem more like an easy lay than some bitch who should be wined and dined. I'm a busy dude and not looking for a girlfriend right now. Just cool fun pepe to meet and spend time with and see what happens. Seems like you're not my type.

Freudian slip? I think so.

Post: #8672

(10-02-2016 11:40 AM)Bilboswaggins Wrote:  So can anyone give me a run-down on this situation: Met this girl about a month ago, chick was in a fading relationship as she called it and we banged on the third time we hung at my place which was a week after we met. So I was thinking, feminine ''good girl'' chick - doesn't drink, doesn't like to go out, washes dishes at my place without me ordering and so on. Everything was going fine for a month, sex was great, she swallowed, liked facials. She initiated texts, we talked nearly daily and came to my place to bang at least 2 days a week. Got cuddly, stayed over for the night and I thought that it was going great. Last week we met at my place while she was on her period, gave me some head and we made plans for the next time somewhere at the end of the week. I said that I don't have time until Thursday night and neither had she. Last we talked was some small-talk on Wednesday and she hasn't initiated anything since then. I've gone radio silence as well, to understand whether she's actually interested or not.

Should I just ask for a meet-up this week or wait until she initiates something? It's weird how fast they seemingly get cold. I'm thinking that she met up with her ex and I was just a fun fling in the mean time.

You were her rebound, now she realizes she's not in to you.
Typical.

WIA

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The best part of WIA's awesome post is that you to gain her Trust you have to give her your Trust first.

That's how I avoid LMR. She already has your trust and if she values that she gives you her trust to have and: not laugh at her fanatsies/body/desire, be discreet, be fun, know what you're doing, not throw her out in the hall 2 secs after you come, not call her a slut.

Someone she can safely bootycall later that weekend, week, month, when she gets back into town. That's what she wants, not just the immediate fun and adventure but to at least, in her mind, think she can do it all again in the future, casual fun.

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"so i can get regular sex without putting in too much effort."

Can a guy with this attitude actually accomplish this goal?

WIA

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Banged a 39 year old MILF.
To be honest, I didn't like the experience. Couldn't get it up for round two. I was turned off by her body which gave birth to a boy and a girl twenty years ago. I managed to fit three fingers in her vagina, which was very bad.
Whilst I'm writing this, she's sending a text asking If I miss her?

I will vanish from her world gently, since she's a good person whom I enjoyed drinking wine with. I can't even think about a second bang or keep her in my harem. I felt somehow guilty, and could not stop picturing her daughter which we dropped off at her place an hour before we banged.
Can't wait to get back and game 21 year old pussy again.