Post: #6476

Since deleting pof and okc, I have one lead and matched a theater chick on tinder. I'm being extra selective and not really depending on the app as my main source.

My current lead is a this cute hipster black chick with long dyed hair with a slim figure. I'm busy during the week *work/gym/sleep* so if I want to get her out, it would have to be the weekend.

I'm seeing progress from the gym and having trainers help. I've gotten pretty lean and am starting to see changes in figure and definition. I just need to work on breaking this dry streak.

Post: #6477

Got drinks with a 29 y/o 5th grade teacher this weekend. Used the movie American Wedding as an excuse to go back to my place since it came up in conversation on our date. She blew me on the couch but no sex. I actually enjoyed her company and personality. Too bad I met her on SA.

My 1 month membership with SA ended a few weeks ago. Pulled 76 phone numbers from 4 weeks of messaging girls on there and now I'm just working on getting one girl out on a date per week. Any more than that and I get burned out.

If you only try one new thing in life, try SA.

Post: #6478

I'm talking to a girl on Tinder who just spelt obsessed 'upsessed'.

Fuck this. I'm out.

Post: #6479

(10-26-2015 06:29 PM)brob Wrote:  Got drinks with a 29 y/o 5th grade teacher this weekend. Used the movie American Wedding as an excuse to go back to my place since it came up in conversation on our date. She blew me on the couch but no sex. I actually enjoyed her company and personality. Too bad I met her on SA.

My 1 month membership with SA ended a few weeks ago. Pulled 76 phone numbers from 4 weeks of messaging girls on there and now I'm just working on getting one girl out on a date per week. Any more than that and I get burned out.

If you only try one new thing in life, try SA.

Fair play.

What is SA? I ain't been around much lately.

Post: #6480

(10-26-2015 06:29 PM)brob Wrote:  Got drinks with a 29 y/o 5th grade teacher this weekend. Used the movie American Wedding as an excuse to go back to my place since it came up in conversation on our date. She blew me on the couch but no sex. I actually enjoyed her company and personality. Too bad I met her on SA.

Did she ask you for money? If not, and you like her, just treat her like any other girl. My main girl I've had for several months I got off SA and I've never paid her an allowance.





In my experience, elementary and kindergarten teachers are freaks, too.

Post: #6481

Just got flaked on by a girl who liked me on okc, sent a first msg, and made plans with me just yesterday. what the fuck. I'm very angry.


How the fuck does this even happen?

She didn't even have the decency to tell me she was flaking. What a bitch.

I'm immensely pissed off. It's like the pussy gods just came and brought this girl to me just to take it away and fuck me over.

Post: #6482

(10-26-2015 09:20 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Just got flaked on by a girl who liked me on okc, sent a first msg, and made plans with me just yesterday. what the fuck. I'm very angry.


How the fuck does this even happen?

She didn't even have the decency to tell me she was flaking. What a bitch.

I'm immensely pissed off. It's like the pussy gods just came and brought this girl to me just to take it away and fuck me over.

Flaking is the norm these days. Just read the "I just got flaked on thread" It's what women do. Happens to guys all the time.

Sounds like you need to develop a thicker skin if you're going to advance in the realm of playerdom.

Post: #6483

(10-26-2015 07:58 PM)Blackwell Wrote:  

(10-26-2015 06:29 PM)brob Wrote:  Got drinks with a 29 y/o 5th grade teacher this weekend. Used the movie American Wedding as an excuse to go back to my place since it came up in conversation on our date. She blew me on the couch but no sex. I actually enjoyed her company and personality. Too bad I met her on SA.

My 1 month membership with SA ended a few weeks ago. Pulled 76 phone numbers from 4 weeks of messaging girls on there and now I'm just working on getting one girl out on a date per week. Any more than that and I get burned out.

If you only try one new thing in life, try SA.

Fair play.

What is SA? I ain't been around much lately.

Would like to know what SA is, too.

Post: #6484

Seeking Arrangement

Post: #6485

(10-26-2015 07:58 PM)Blackwell Wrote:  

(10-26-2015 06:29 PM)brob Wrote:  Got drinks with a 29 y/o 5th grade teacher this weekend. Used the movie American Wedding as an excuse to go back to my place since it came up in conversation on our date. She blew me on the couch but no sex. I actually enjoyed her company and personality. Too bad I met her on SA.

My 1 month membership with SA ended a few weeks ago. Pulled 76 phone numbers from 4 weeks of messaging girls on there and now I'm just working on getting one girl out on a date per week. Any more than that and I get burned out.

If you only try one new thing in life, try SA.

Fair play.

What is SA? I ain't been around much lately.

(10-27-2015 01:59 AM)Druber Wrote:  

(10-26-2015 07:58 PM)Blackwell Wrote:  

(10-26-2015 06:29 PM)brob Wrote:  Got drinks with a 29 y/o 5th grade teacher this weekend. Used the movie American Wedding as an excuse to go back to my place since it came up in conversation on our date. She blew me on the couch but no sex. I actually enjoyed her company and personality. Too bad I met her on SA.

My 1 month membership with SA ended a few weeks ago. Pulled 76 phone numbers from 4 weeks of messaging girls on there and now I'm just working on getting one girl out on a date per week. Any more than that and I get burned out.

If you only try one new thing in life, try SA.

Fair play.

What is SA? I ain't been around much lately.

Would like to know what SA is, too.

Gentlemen behold the Seeking Arrangement Thread:

/thread-21493.html

Post: #6486

(10-26-2015 08:21 PM)MrXY Wrote:  

(10-26-2015 06:29 PM)brob Wrote:  Got drinks with a 29 y/o 5th grade teacher this weekend. Used the movie American Wedding as an excuse to go back to my place since it came up in conversation on our date. She blew me on the couch but no sex. I actually enjoyed her company and personality. Too bad I met her on SA.

Did she ask you for money? If not, and you like her, just treat her like any other girl. My main girl I've had for several months I got off SA and I've never paid her an allowance.





In my experience, elementary and kindergarten teachers are freaks, too.

I've met 9 girls for drinks. Banged/got blown by 6. One brought up money the next morning as I was showing her the door. It caught me off guard so I just said "uhhh maybe next time" and out she went. Of course, there will never be a next time. This was 4-5 weeks ago and I haven't been in touch with her since. The beauty of that site is that the vast majority of girls don't seem to be too concerned about arrangements. It will be interesting to see how things play out for SA. I think these have been the golden years but the racket could be up soon.

Post: #6487

(10-26-2015 09:20 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Just got flaked on by a girl who liked me on okc, sent a first msg, and made plans with me just yesterday. what the fuck. I'm very angry.


How the fuck does this even happen?

She didn't even have the decency to tell me she was flaking. What a bitch.

I'm immensely pissed off. It's like the pussy gods just came and brought this girl to me just to take it away and fuck me over.

Girls be flakin'

Double book your dates and then you be the one who decides which girl gets flaked on.

Post: #6488

(10-26-2015 07:53 PM)Blackwell Wrote:  I'm talking to a girl on Tinder who just spelt obsessed 'upsessed'.

Fuck this. I'm out.

"Upsessed" is leveling up in the cesspool doncha know?

Post: #6489

Two of my best plates told me they are falling in love with me and hence have to end seeing me. One is a black model doing pretty well and the other a latina with great ass and fake tits. Both have a gazillion orbiters. Anyway that's unfortunate but neither was my bottom bitch and I'm sure at least one of them will be see me again. Probably both but just infrequent.

I will focus more on my Nr.1 now and perhaps add a new face or two to the harem. I would even look forward to a more quiet period. Girls bring some much drama, it can really prevent you from growing professionally.

Post: #6490

Got a date tonight with a girl I met once 2 years ago, I'll try for a SNL

Post: #6491

The other weekend, I was out with a girl (mini relationship) in a city where she got a text from a guy. She pretty much said, "hey, just wanted to let you know that we might run into a guy I hooked up with once." I asked her why she felt the need to let me know that. She replied saying that she didn't want to make it weird.

Guess it was her opportunity to let me know that she has a lot of gentleman callers. She claims that she is in the single digits for her notch count (not believing). That kind of stuff doesn't really bother me but I was wondering what you all would have said or done in that situation.

Post: #6492

^Ignore it and keep a mental note. It seems you have the upper hand in your relationship. Keep it.

Post: #6493

2 girls flaked (Tuesday Date 2/Weds Date 4) after offering to meet, 2 girls get nexted.

1 cute 18 year old yogi girl number, 1 22 year old thick latin girl number acquired after.

See how easy that was ?

Replace em' don't chase em'


Sometimes you get in a lull and get bored, then you have this urge to push your game.

Post: #6494

I have a chic I've banged a couple times. It took me hanging out with her a few times first so she didn't feel easy (you know the lines). So we've hung out quite a bit and had sex a few times. Mind you, I have a couple other babes in the wheelhouse.

Anyway, she's thrown out the "we're looking for different things...we should probably keep our space...but I do hope to see you again" texts. I haven't really responded, and I'm not really into playing games...it's annoying when a girl is trying to play a game, and I'm pretty sure she is purposefully not texting much, spacing between texts, denying hang out.

She's hot but nothing I'm really pursuing...in fact, everything she says is true, I'm not really looking for a girlfriend, and definitely not looking for one who uses sex as a control device. Actually, if she wasn't trying to be so controlling ("when was the last time you had sex with someone else?"), I might be interested in her for a relationship. So I'm curious...

Do you guys ever troll with nice guy beta to meet up with a chic? Like I've thrown out the "Will I ever get to see you again, sigh" sorta text. She knows it's layered with hyperbole...really passive-aggressive and ambiguous, but she knows I want to hang out. Even to do this to just meet up for a drink.

Post: #6495

Why bother ? She gave you a polite exit.

I don't ever troll some needy nice guy thing to hook a girl. Fuck that man, you're better than that.

The last thing you need to be doing is chasing her, she isn't the prize, you are !

You're holding onto this because she's hot, I get it. But I'd go radio silent on her if she's trying to flip your game tactics.

Anytime I hear a girl say something along the lines of "we want different things" "we should take things slow" "i'm not sure what I want" red flags.

It means:
-I found another dick.
-I don't want to be a slut anymore.
-I'm dating around.
-I found a chump I want to lock down.

That's grounds for a simple reply, and/or radio silence.

If she then says "let's just be friends" "I need some time" "i need some space" "I hope to still talk to you/see you again". The writings on the wall.

That's grounds for an automatic next.


Just go silent on her, it won't be long till she starts probing for validation from you and tries to make you her Option B.

Post: #6496

(10-30-2015 01:32 PM)heavy Wrote:  I have a chic I've banged a couple times. It took me hanging out with her a few times first so she didn't feel easy (you know the lines). So we've hung out quite a bit and had sex a few times. Mind you, I have a couple other babes in the wheelhouse.

Anyway, she's thrown out the "we're looking for different things...we should probably keep our space...but I do hope to see you again" texts. I haven't really responded, and I'm not really into playing games...it's annoying when a girl is trying to play a game, and I'm pretty sure she is purposefully not texting much, spacing between texts, denying hang out.

She's hot but nothing I'm really pursuing...in fact, everything she says is true, I'm not really looking for a girlfriend, and definitely not looking for one who uses sex as a control device. Actually, if she wasn't trying to be so controlling ("when was the last time you had sex with someone else?"), I might be interested in her for a relationship. So I'm curious...

Do you guys ever troll with nice guy beta to meet up with a chic? Like I've thrown out the "Will I ever get to see you again, sigh" sorta text. She knows it's layered with hyperbole...really passive-aggressive and ambiguous, but she knows I want to hang out. Even to do this to just meet up for a drink.

I would never troll with nice guy beta stuff.

You guys are mistaking normal non-complete-slut female questioning for being controlling.

A simple agree and amplify "5 times today and once while I was helping this girl bag her groceries" or "it's all a blur, cathy, bethanie, frankie, sally, cindy, and bendy wendy, I can't keep track" and then chuckle and smirk.

Or you could go the other route and tell her, "Look, I don't just go around sleeping with random people, I think we have a connection and I want to see where that goes, but I've jumped into relationships too fast before and I learned that nothing good comes from that. We're having a great time getting to know each other so let's keep it simple."

It's subtle but you have to avoid the question or answer it indirectly without making it so obvious that she knows you're fucking other people. You need to hold frame. She needs to have that plausible deniability.

Post: #6497

(10-30-2015 06:21 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  

(10-30-2015 01:32 PM)heavy Wrote:  I have a chic I've banged a couple times. It took me hanging out with her a few times first so she didn't feel easy (you know the lines). So we've hung out quite a bit and had sex a few times. Mind you, I have a couple other babes in the wheelhouse.

Anyway, she's thrown out the "we're looking for different things...we should probably keep our space...but I do hope to see you again" texts. I haven't really responded, and I'm not really into playing games...it's annoying when a girl is trying to play a game, and I'm pretty sure she is purposefully not texting much, spacing between texts, denying hang out.

She's hot but nothing I'm really pursuing...in fact, everything she says is true, I'm not really looking for a girlfriend, and definitely not looking for one who uses sex as a control device. Actually, if she wasn't trying to be so controlling ("when was the last time you had sex with someone else?"), I might be interested in her for a relationship. So I'm curious...

Do you guys ever troll with nice guy beta to meet up with a chic? Like I've thrown out the "Will I ever get to see you again, sigh" sorta text. She knows it's layered with hyperbole...really passive-aggressive and ambiguous, but she knows I want to hang out. Even to do this to just meet up for a drink.

I would never troll with nice guy beta stuff.

You guys are mistaking normal non-complete-slut female questioning for being controlling.

A simple agree and amplify "5 times today and once while I was helping this girl bag her groceries" or "it's all a blur, cathy, bethanie, frankie, sally, cindy, and bendy wendy, I can't keep track" and then chuckle and smirk.

Or you could go the other route and tell her, "Look, I don't just go around sleeping with random people, I think we have a connection and I want to see where that goes, but I've jumped into relationships too fast before and I learned that nothing good comes from that. We're having a great time getting to know each other so let's keep it simple."

It's subtle but you have to avoid the question or answer it indirectly without making it so obvious that she knows you're fucking other people. You need to hold frame. She needs to have that plausible deniability.

The enlarged line above makes me believe otherwise, it sounds like she's soft nexting him.

However, the enlarged red line, shows probing for LTR potential OR maybe she just doesn't want him sleeping with anyone else.

The best way is to answer that with a smart ass funny response that does instill a bit of dread BUT end it with a direct response.

I know this isn't controlling but a woman possibly trying to mark her territory. Then again who knows what the hamster is really trying to do.

I've gotten the "what are we" "are you seeing anyone else" like other guys have on here.

Post: #6498

(10-29-2015 01:31 PM)Remington Wrote:  The other weekend, I was out with a girl (mini relationship) in a city where she got a text from a guy. She pretty much said, "hey, just wanted to let you know that we might run into a guy I hooked up with once." I asked her why she felt the need to let me know that. She replied saying that she didn't want to make it weird.

Guess it was her opportunity to let me know that she has a lot of gentleman callers. She claims that she is in the single digits for her notch count (not believing). That kind of stuff doesn't really bother me but I was wondering what you all would have said or done in that situation.

She's using it against you because she thinks you're weak. First she told you about the text, and second she is hoping to make it weird when you see him. Immediately eject this bitch. Just break it off with her completely and tell her to fuck off. No fighting, arguing, etc. Just swift, fast and cold hearted.

Nothing bugs me more when girls do this. Its not that I am jealous. Its that I dont want to be around or with anyone that try's to pull this on me. It just makes her look so petty and stupid, like a child. I kicked a serious LTR out into the street at 2am when she started pulling this. Guess what. She came back looking for me the next day and I was with another women. She stormed out and had a nervous breakdown(Latina). She came crawling back and never pulled this shit again.

Girls will do this when they think you are straying away from them, and that you are weak. Its a major shit test. If she gets away with it she'll do it more, then your no better than a married cuck. Stomp out that behavior quickly and she'll be groveling to come back to you.

Post: #6499

What up guys, I’m 5’7’’, decent good looking face, decent game, my two last pull and bang were last month with absolutely no objections but since then, I’ve had crazy resistance all the time when I tried to pull local girls (krakow) end of night, always the same scenario I always arrive on the front door of my location, she tells me she wants to join her friend, wants to go home after 1 hour of battle I’m done and I let her go.
Anyway, once she follows my lead it’s good, the issue is the front door location, what can I do to make her follow my lead inside the hostel? I missed an episode? Should have had built more comfort before?(I don’t think so, I built it pretty easily) should I spend more time building a connexion with her? Or more polarizing? I always struggle with the end.
I've read by browsing some old post, to completely *freeze out when she objectify, take the risk of losing anyway, but after a good moment of "no, I must go home, I work early tomorrow" it starts playing with my nerves.

I need some solid advices guys, thanks for taking your time,

S.

Post: #6500

Got head from an 18 year old black girl on Friday off of daygame, made out with a bunch of Latinas at a party. I really should expand my horizons a little, I think the last eight or nine girls I've hooked up with were black.

I'm also suddenly feeling an urge to get an LTR...the closest thing I've ever had to one was a fuckbuddy who stuck around for a year and a half. I really did enjoy just laying around and shooting the shit with her, in between periodically fucking. The girls I've hooked up with recently have been physically attractive, but they haven't been fun to simply hang around. What do you guys do to build stronger emotional connections with women? I fuck the shit out of these girls and they are definitely physically attracted to me, but I am trying to make the whole process a little less soulless.

Also, I'm starting to wonder whether or not I'm heading towards sex addiction...if I don't have sex at least twice a week, I feel like I'm going insane. This is problematic because it leads me to contact my main fuck buddy multiple times a week, which is probably more than I should.