redbeard
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kaotic
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(11-06-2015 06:52 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote: (11-06-2015 03:22 PM)Eddie Winslow Wrote: The hot girl's family has been renting this spacious place in NYC for over 30 years. It's rent controlled - our TOTAL rent is $720, which is split 3 ways. I'd be lucky to find a shithole on Craigslist for 4x that price. I just moved in and I love the place.
I run a small business with her and another girl, who is our 3rd roommate. Me and roommate #3 already have a romantic history. Jealousy with even non-roommate females has put crazy distress on our friendship and partnership. We've since stopped hooking up and a year later, things are almost back to normal. If she caught me banging her friend (Russian) in her own apartment, it'd be really bad. It'd be very disrespectful of me. Not worth it.
Plus I'm sort of enjoying the sexual tension.
Don't fuck up your incredibly cheap living situation and don't fuck up your business. Now, if you were on the lease or the master lease-holder it'd be a different situation, but you'd be stupid to think that fucking one hot girl is worth likely throwing away the rest of it.
Absolutely cosign this.
You mention a former sex partner who is a roomate - how the hell are things normal with you both living in the same house ? Especially when you have a hottie russian walking around in thongs.
I can guarantee you your ex lover spills shit about you to this russian girl.
You've ramped up the tension and you're teasing her.
I disagree with Dino 100% (credit that he didn't know all 3 are business partners)
-Former sexy buddy roomate, very jealous
-Hot Russian roomate slut
-Apartment together
-All are business partners
What could go wrong ?
I know you want to bang her, but even you know the risks. Don't fuck this up, stay cool but distant to the russian.
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DonnyGately
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(11-05-2015 09:42 PM)redbeard Wrote: (11-05-2015 04:47 PM)Roardog Wrote: (11-05-2015 12:32 PM)RougeNoir Wrote: I had a nice first date last night. I have high-sex drive and want to bang her. I progressed all the way to feeling pussy outside the pants. Does anyone just invite for Netflix and Chill for date 2 or for me to cook in luring her over to my place? If she rejects, do I counter-offer a spot close to my crib?
My go to Date 2 option is inviting a girl over to my place for a glass of wine and to watch a movie.
If she says no or makes an objection then step back to a venue close to your place so you can pull her back easily.
Another option is to make like you're going to go somewhere but tell her to meet you at your place and you'll walk/travel from there. Then when she arrives giver her a tour and end up never leaving.
Second dates, if you haven't banged, are a tough play call.
If you built up sexual tension, had some adventure, and made a connection, you should be able to say "hey come over and split a bottle of wine." Believe it or not, there are girls who don't want to be known as a girl who puts out on the first night, especially if they see you as boyfriend potential. These are the girls that will give you green lights all night, but dry out when you suggest going to a bedroom. After a formal first date, they will be more conducive to coming straight to your house.
Start the bidding low. If she is not being responsive, you might have to go on another date. This would be a good opportunity for "hey I'm at xyz bar yada yada come hang out." Because you've already been on a date, there isn't as much pressure, and she should be looking forward to seeing you.
Second dates where you've created sexual tension on the first date have been pretty easy for me. If you had good chemistry with her and made out with lots of kino, she knows what's in store for date 2 if she comes out.
You can definitely ask her to come right over for some wine, or meet at a bar. Once you re-start the gaming, just lead her back to your place - if you have the logistics on lock the bang is a near-certainty. Ask her to take her heels off is always a great start.
Lots of girls don't want to put out on first date as mentioned. Worst case she comes over, gets naked, you get a bj but no bang, assuming you've run some comfort game the LMR is usually non-existent.
I would never mention watching TV unless she specifically said something like 'I'd love to watch movie XYZ with you' and it's a guy's film, not a chick-flick. And that's just her IOI of wanting to go your place anyway.
(This post was last modified: 11-09-2015 01:20 PM by DonnyGately.)
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Tim_S
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Strategy question - need advice asap
So here's the story: I'm a 50's guy in great shape, fairly active and successful dater, just had a big (35 guests) party a couple days ago at my house, old friends mostly (including my very cute ex GF from about a year ago who still holds a bit of a torch for me, and I still have a bit for her to be honest). So, about 2 hours into the party, up walks an absolutely adorable late arrival. We exchanged a few pleasantries throughout the evening, despite my ex GF not too subtle cock-blocking attempts like sequestering the new arrival away from everyone etc.
So I plan to ask the new girl out, but here's the problem - during her talk with my exGF it turns out that they had known each other slightly a few years ago, but lost track, and that they live only a couple of blocks apart from each other. And they set up a movie date for tomorrow at their nearby theater- just the two of them.
So my strategy question: should i ask her out today (I'm sure she would mention it to my ex GF), or wait until after their movie date? I can see advantages and disadvantages to both - I think my ex GF would say good things about me - we broke up on good terms and are still friends, but you never know. Suggestions?
PS for the sake of completeness I should also mention that my house has two separate apartments in it, plus the main part I live in. One of the separate apartments will be vacant soon and the ex GF wants to move in there. Fine by me since we get along great as friends - just not as lovers. The other apartment has a gal living in it who I banged a few times but now has a steady BF, very cool guy, no drama there.
(This post was last modified: 11-09-2015 04:02 PM by Tim_S.)
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AneroidOcean
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(11-09-2015 03:09 PM)Tim_S Wrote: So here's the story: I'm a 50's guy in great shape, fairly active and successful dater, just had a big (35 guests) party a couple days ago at my house, old friends mostly (including my very cute ex GF from about a year ago who still holds a bit of a torch for me, and I still have a bit for her to be honest). So, about 2 hours into the party, up walks an absolutely adorable late arrival. We exchanged a few pleasantries throughout the evening, despite my ex GF not too subtle cock-blocking attempts like sequestering the new arrival away from everyone etc.
So I plan to ask the new girl out, but here's the problem - during her talk with my exGF it turns out that they had known each other slightly a few years ago, but lost track, and that they live only a couple of blocks apart from each other. And they set up a movie date for tomorrow at their nearby theater- just the two of them.
So my strategy question: should i ask her out today (I'm sure she would mention it to my ex GF), or wait until after their movie date? I can see advantages and disadvantages to both - I think my ex GF would say good things about me - we broke up on good terms and are still friends, but you never know. Suggestions?
PS for the sake of completeness I should also mention that my house has two separate apartments in it, plus the main part I live in. One of the separate apartments will be vacant soon and the ex GF wants to move in there. Fine by me since we get along great as friends - just not as lovers. The other apartment has a gal living in it who I banged a few times but now has a steady BF, very cool guy, no drama there.
Don't bring sand to the beach. Don't invite your ex-gf to your party unless she's bringing you girls to date and is not gonna be a cock-blocker. You also didn't do anything to isolate the girl you were into. As a man in his 50s in great shape and successful in dating (your description) you should have the confidence to pull this off without much effort. A quick tour of your place and the vacant apartment gives you the perfect opportunity to isolate.
What happened?
Also, why move the cock-blocker in with you? Sounds like a no-brainer.
EDIT: Meant to answer your question. You should ask her out immediately. Be a man of action, don't be passive.
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(This post was last modified: 11-09-2015 05:21 PM by AneroidOcean.)
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Tim_S
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(11-09-2015 05:11 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote: (11-09-2015 03:09 PM)Tim_S Wrote: So here's the story: I'm a 50's guy in great shape, fairly active and successful dater, just had a big (35 guests) party a couple days ago at my house, old friends mostly (including my very cute ex GF from about a year ago who still holds a bit of a torch for me, and I still have a bit for her to be honest). So, about 2 hours into the party, up walks an absolutely adorable late arrival. We exchanged a few pleasantries throughout the evening, despite my ex GF not too subtle cock-blocking attempts like sequestering the new arrival away from everyone etc.
So I plan to ask the new girl out, but here's the problem - during her talk with my exGF it turns out that they had known each other slightly a few years ago, but lost track, and that they live only a couple of blocks apart from each other. And they set up a movie date for tomorrow at their nearby theater- just the two of them.
So my strategy question: should i ask her out today (I'm sure she would mention it to my ex GF), or wait until after their movie date? I can see advantages and disadvantages to both - I think my ex GF would say good things about me - we broke up on good terms and are still friends, but you never know. Suggestions?
PS for the sake of completeness I should also mention that my house has two separate apartments in it, plus the main part I live in. One of the separate apartments will be vacant soon and the ex GF wants to move in there. Fine by me since we get along great as friends - just not as lovers. The other apartment has a gal living in it who I banged a few times but now has a steady BF, very cool guy, no drama there.
Don't bring sand to the beach. Don't invite your ex-gf to your party unless she's bringing you girls to date and is not gonna be a cock-blocker. You also didn't do anything to isolate the girl you were into. As a man in his 50s in great shape and successful in dating (your description) you should have the confidence to pull this off without much effort. A quick tour of your place and the vacant apartment gives you the perfect opportunity to isolate.
What happened?
Also, why move the cock-blocker in with you? Sounds like a no-brainer.
EDIT: Meant to answer your question. You should ask her out immediately. Be a man of action, don't be passive.
Thanks.
What happened? Easy - I was the host of a dinner & entertainment party with 35 guests vying for my attention. Isolation under those circumstances, not too practical. As to the ex GF, I invited her because she's a good friend and I wanted her there. I didn't expect the other gal to be so cute, having never met her. I will admit I was unprepared for the immediate CBing, figuring I'd have at least a few minutes at some point.
Passive has nothing to do with it. I'm just asking whether it's strategically better to ask her before, or after, she gets together with the ex GF at that movie tomorrow night.
Your other question, why have her move in, is fair, altho I hadn't seen the CB stuff in action before. I guess I kinda get off on the whole SisterWives thing that's developing here ;-) Besides I just enjoy hanging with her.
Tim
(This post was last modified: 11-09-2015 06:34 PM by Tim_S.)
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Fury
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(11-10-2015 03:38 PM)Remington Wrote: Had a little text thing back and forth with my LTR. Don't know why she continues to have to keep letting me know who the people are who tell her things. It must be so she won't make me "jealous" or prove to me she isn't interested in the guy or something. Second time she has done this so far. I don't care who says it to her either way. I'm not experienced with LTR's (one prior) so I don't know how these things work.
Her: Random question. Do you think I'm easy to talk to
Me: yea, why
Her: Just wondering. It has nothing to do with you. Someone told me that I was easy to talk to and I wanted to know if it would apply to you too
Me: yea sure
Her: Ok...
Me: what did you want me to say
Her: Idk that was good
Me: i was just agreeing with whoever said it
Her: I know. Btw it was one of the techs that I work with most often that said it
Me: haha why does that matter
Her: Just keeping you informed
Me: ha alright
Her: Alright bedtime cutie pie. Talk to ya in the morning.
Remington (and to whomever this may apply),
I am curious about the dynamic of LTRs for red pill guys like ourselves. I don't really consider myself a player, I just know that I am not ready to settle down so I juggle 3-4 plates with a main plate and a secondary. I spend the most time with my main plate as she is the prettiest. Beautiful 19 year old Blonde girl. Pleasant personality, going to school, goes to the gym regularly and even models on the side. She once tried to define the relationship a few weeks into it but I shut it down and she was cool with continuing. The only knock on her is that she doesn't stimulate me intellectually (to be fair, she isn't dumb but maybe the near 10 year difference applies). So I enjoy hanging out with her, the sex is great and she is nice to look at but I don't see it progressing into anything serious since sometimes I get bored if we chill together for too long.
Now I see a few members here have gone into mini "LTRs", how would this be defined? Am I in one and don't even know it? Is there criteria or requirements that have to be met? I am quite inexperienced in relationships that go beyond friends with benefits since I have purposely avoided having a gf.
With the 19 year old, I do enjoy spending time with her here and there and having occasional text conversations (which I normally hate). We don't talk about exclusivity so I am still doing my thing and I don't really ask what she does when she isn't with me. Does that mean this qualifies for a mini LTR? This is new territory for me...
*EDIT: Forgot to describe myself. Late 20s Black American living in the Netherlands for university.
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Rawmeo
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
I had a case 2 days ago. I was chilling at my place with a girl, and my SNL girl from last week texted me "I am in a taxi to your home". I texted her to cancel her plan, she read the message but didn't reply. I tried to call her, and she didn't pick up, so she was obviously determinted to come to my place. I didn't want to, as I deemed her plain crazy and wanted to drop her long before.
While my new girl was upstairs, I get another text from the crazy chick, "I'll be here in 10 minutes, I'm very close now". I told my new girl that I had to pick something at 7-eleven, and instead, I went to warn the security guards to not allow her entry into the area (I live in a moo-ban, that's a grouping of 20-something individual houses into a common small village, where the only entry is through the main security gate)
I deemed this girl batshit crazy. 10 minutes later, she texted me, "tell the guards to open the gates", which I promptly ignored. It turns out that the guards did a fantastic job. My new girl never knew what happened. Bang.
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RE: Player's Log / Lounge
(11-11-2015 01:12 AM)Rawmeo Wrote: I had a case 2 days ago. I was chilling at my place with a girl, and my SNL girl from last week texted me "I am in a taxi to your home". I texted her to cancel her plan, she read the message but didn't reply. I tried to call her, and she didn't pick up, so she was obviously determinted to come to my place. I didn't want to, as I deemed her plain crazy and wanted to drop her long before.
While my new girl was upstairs, I get another text from the crazy chick, "I'll be here in 10 minutes, I'm very close now". I told my new girl that I had to pick something at 7-eleven, and instead, I went to warn the security guards to not allow her entry into the area (I live in a moo-ban, that's a grouping of 20-something individual houses into a common small village, where the only entry is through the main security gate)
I deemed this girl batshit crazy. 10 minutes later, she texted me, "tell the guards to open the gates", which I promptly ignored. It turns out that the guards did a fantastic job. My new girl never knew what happened. Bang.
Those are some nerves of steel you've got there!
I'd have been in my car and off to get "something" with my chick and left it to the guards!
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