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(11-05-2015 10:02 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Met a 19 year old girl online. She was smitten by me and wanted to see me and drove over 100 miles to see me, made out touched her boobs and butt and she kept saying how she "wanted to be a lady" after the date she kept saying we didn't spend enough time together that the date was too short and made plans to see me the following week.

I had a very busy week so I didn't reply to a lot of her snaps or texts or it would be delayed. I'm not good at keeping in touch with people and I'm usually out doing things.

I texted her on snapchat about tmr and she told me she couldn't make it. Cool. I went to text her on her phone to chat and simply said "hey" The message delivered. Then the next message shows she blocked my number because the message wouldn't say "delivered" I don't understand why she would even block me. That's fucked up. I'm just so confused...why? Why would she do that?

I feel pretty rejected and broken over it. I'm not sure how I constantly fuck it up with girls who like me and are attracted to me.

Females gonna female. I'm not sure if you're a newbie or not, but this is something that happens to newbies pretty frequently; a girl seems to like them, but they fail some basic shit test. The best way to get around this is just to have multiple plates spinning. When you're texting multiple girls and have four dates stacked for a Friday afternoon, you're not really going to care if one of them flakes.
11-06-2015 12:38 AM
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One of my main spinning plates (I'm in the Netherlands) is a pleasant 19 year old blonde, very pretty girl. We met on tinder and have been "dating" for almost 2 months I think. She tried to define the relationship early and I told her I wasn't looking for anything serious or long term. She was looking for something serious but still continued to see me knowing what I didn't want.

She had deleted her tinder afterwards but just this morning I was swiping and came across her profile. Which means she probably saw mine, that doesn't bother me since I was quite clear in the beginning. My problem is that I may be in too deep. I even have her as a friend on Facebook. Normally in this situation I would just fall back. My instinct is to delete her from Facebook and text her less, go out on dates less. Just keep our relationship purely Fuck buddies. Anyone deal with something similar?
11-06-2015 04:13 AM
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I have a new female roommate who I actually happen to work with, she's a beautiful, fit Russian blond. We've become very friendly over the past week. I've teased/gamed the shit out of her, but have purposely avoided physically escalating, as I've regretted messing with co-workers in the past.

She tells me about the expensive dates she goes on and every single facet of her sex life. Masturbation habits. Everything you can imagine.

This isn't a "girl next door" kind of chick - she's super hot. When my other roommate isn't home, she walks around in thongs and bras. She gets in bed with me and cuddles wearing the same shit. Yesterday she wore a waaay too small towel after her shower and bent over in front of me to pick something up, briefly flashing what I'd see if I were to hit it from behind. I've been stressed with work and she has completely rejuvenated my interest in sex, maybe too much!

I've made a few playful, objectifying comments to her to diffuse the awkwardness/tension of me being hyper-aroused all day. I have high self control when it comes to women and their temptations - but this is testing the boundaries of what I'm capable of. We shall see what happens.
11-06-2015 07:37 AM
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(11-06-2015 07:37 AM)Eddie Winslow Wrote:  I have a new female roommate who I actually happen to work with, she's a beautiful, fit Russian blond. We've become very friendly over the past week. I've teased/gamed the shit out of her, but have purposely avoided physically escalating, as I've regretted messing with co-workers in the past.

She tells me about the expensive dates she goes on and every single facet of her sex life. Masturbation habits. Everything you can imagine.

This isn't a "girl next door" kind of chick - she's super hot. When my other roommate isn't home, she walks around in thongs and bras. She gets in bed with me and cuddles wearing the same shit. Yesterday she wore a waaay too small towel after her shower and bent over in front of me to pick something up, briefly flashing what I'd see if I were to hit it from behind. I've been stressed with work and she has completely rejuvenated my interest in sex, maybe too much!

I've made a few playful, objectifying comments to her to diffuse the awkwardness/tension of me being hyper-aroused all day. I have high self control when it comes to women and their temptations - but this is testing the boundaries of what I'm capable of. We shall see what happens.

I'll get in on this before the "don't shit where you eat or don't eat where you shit" or whatever it is they say cockblocks you.

Fuck the hell out of this broad...this is not one of those situations and she needs to be hammered regularly. Dominate her when alone and play it cool when others are around. You have the makings for a perfect nsa situation there you lucky bastard.
11-06-2015 08:54 AM
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^Agreed. I don't know if you own the home or are just renting a room but yes I would hit that like there's no tomorrow. Worse case scenario? She catches feelings for you and it gets awkward. So what? Just move.
11-06-2015 09:21 AM
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I'm more curious as to how and why you have female roommates?

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11-06-2015 09:26 AM
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The hot girl's family has been renting this spacious place in NYC for over 30 years. It's rent controlled - our TOTAL rent is $720, which is split 3 ways. I'd be lucky to find a shithole on Craigslist for 4x that price. I just moved in and I love the place.

I run a small business with her and another girl, who is our 3rd roommate. Me and roommate #3 already have a romantic history. Jealousy with even non-roommate females has put crazy distress on our friendship and partnership. We've since stopped hooking up and a year later, things are almost back to normal. If she caught me banging her friend (Russian) in her own apartment, it'd be really bad. It'd be very disrespectful of me. Not worth it.

Plus I'm sort of enjoying the sexual tension.
11-06-2015 03:22 PM
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(11-06-2015 03:22 PM)Eddie Winslow Wrote:  The hot girl's family has been renting this spacious place in NYC for over 30 years. It's rent controlled - our TOTAL rent is $720, which is split 3 ways. I'd be lucky to find a shithole on Craigslist for 4x that price. I just moved in and I love the place.

I run a small business with her and another girl, who is our 3rd roommate. Me and roommate #3 already have a romantic history. Jealousy with even non-roommate females has put crazy distress on our friendship and partnership. We've since stopped hooking up and a year later, things are almost back to normal. If she caught me banging her friend (Russian) in her own apartment, it'd be really bad. It'd be very disrespectful of me. Not worth it.

Plus I'm sort of enjoying the sexual tension.

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(11-06-2015 03:22 PM)Eddie Winslow Wrote:  The hot girl's family has been renting this spacious place in NYC for over 30 years. It's rent controlled - our TOTAL rent is $720, which is split 3 ways. I'd be lucky to find a shithole on Craigslist for 4x that price. I just moved in and I love the place.

I run a small business with her and another girl, who is our 3rd roommate. Me and roommate #3 already have a romantic history. Jealousy with even non-roommate females has put crazy distress on our friendship and partnership. We've since stopped hooking up and a year later, things are almost back to normal. If she caught me banging her friend (Russian) in her own apartment, it'd be really bad. It'd be very disrespectful of me. Not worth it.

Plus I'm sort of enjoying the sexual tension.

Don't fuck up your incredibly cheap living situation and don't fuck up your business. Now, if you were on the lease or the master lease-holder it'd be a different situation, but you'd be stupid to think that fucking one hot girl is worth likely throwing away the rest of it.

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(11-06-2015 06:52 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  
(11-06-2015 03:22 PM)Eddie Winslow Wrote:  The hot girl's family has been renting this spacious place in NYC for over 30 years. It's rent controlled - our TOTAL rent is $720, which is split 3 ways. I'd be lucky to find a shithole on Craigslist for 4x that price. I just moved in and I love the place.

I run a small business with her and another girl, who is our 3rd roommate. Me and roommate #3 already have a romantic history. Jealousy with even non-roommate females has put crazy distress on our friendship and partnership. We've since stopped hooking up and a year later, things are almost back to normal. If she caught me banging her friend (Russian) in her own apartment, it'd be really bad. It'd be very disrespectful of me. Not worth it.

Plus I'm sort of enjoying the sexual tension.

Don't fuck up your incredibly cheap living situation and don't fuck up your business. Now, if you were on the lease or the master lease-holder it'd be a different situation, but you'd be stupid to think that fucking one hot girl is worth likely throwing away the rest of it.

Absolutely cosign this.

You mention a former sex partner who is a roomate - how the hell are things normal with you both living in the same house ? Especially when you have a hottie russian walking around in thongs.

I can guarantee you your ex lover spills shit about you to this russian girl.

You've ramped up the tension and you're teasing her.

I disagree with Dino 100% (credit that he didn't know all 3 are business partners)


-Former sexy buddy roomate, very jealous
-Hot Russian roomate slut
-Apartment together
-All are business partners

What could go wrong ?

I know you want to bang her, but even you know the risks. Don't fuck this up, stay cool but distant to the russian.

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Should have banged her when she was in your bed or bending over in front of you. That's just being served up to you on a plate and you rejected it, good luck getting another chance.
11-07-2015 10:45 AM
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(11-06-2015 07:32 PM)kaotic Wrote:  
(11-06-2015 06:52 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  
(11-06-2015 03:22 PM)Eddie Winslow Wrote:  The hot girl's family has been renting this spacious place in NYC for over 30 years. It's rent controlled - our TOTAL rent is $720, which is split 3 ways. I'd be lucky to find a shithole on Craigslist for 4x that price. I just moved in and I love the place.

I run a small business with her and another girl, who is our 3rd roommate. Me and roommate #3 already have a romantic history. Jealousy with even non-roommate females has put crazy distress on our friendship and partnership. We've since stopped hooking up and a year later, things are almost back to normal. If she caught me banging her friend (Russian) in her own apartment, it'd be really bad. It'd be very disrespectful of me. Not worth it.

Plus I'm sort of enjoying the sexual tension.

Don't fuck up your incredibly cheap living situation and don't fuck up your business. Now, if you were on the lease or the master lease-holder it'd be a different situation, but you'd be stupid to think that fucking one hot girl is worth likely throwing away the rest of it.

Absolutely cosign this.

You mention a former sex partner who is a roomate - how the hell are things normal with you both living in the same house ? Especially when you have a hottie russian walking around in thongs.

I can guarantee you your ex lover spills shit about you to this russian girl.

You've ramped up the tension and you're teasing her.

I disagree with Dino 100% (credit that he didn't know all 3 are business partners)


-Former sexy buddy roomate, very jealous
-Hot Russian roomate slut
-Apartment together
-All are business partners

What could go wrong ?

I know you want to bang her, but even you know the risks. Don't fuck this up, stay cool but distant to the russian.


All of those supposed negatives make it sound like even more fun now. However as kaotic points out this is you in that situation. Now if Dino were there he would probably get them drunk and fuck them both...but he is a bastard who can do what he wants because his housing and business are not at risk. Get yourself to that point where you are the boss and these little romances cannot really affect life or business.

I still vote fuck them both.

Keep us posted!
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Last night I approached a 7, danced with her a bit, and got her number early in the interaction--despite a simmering orbiter. Then I took her to a booth and we 'connected' on spiritual matters for about 20 mins before she realized she forgot about her friends and had to leave the bar. That being said I was demonstrating value throughout and not giving too much away, but knew early on she wasn't down for SNL.
Do you guys have any thoughts on how 'connecting deeply' with a girl affects meetup/bang potential? Is it an additive function, can it override certain traditional game 'imperatives', or is it simply beta bait?
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(11-05-2015 10:02 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Met a 19 year old girl online. She was smitten by me and wanted to see me and drove over 100 miles to see me, made out touched her boobs and butt and she kept saying how she "wanted to be a lady" after the date she kept saying we didn't spend enough time together that the date was too short and made plans to see me the following week.

I had a very busy week so I didn't reply to a lot of her snaps or texts or it would be delayed. I'm not good at keeping in touch with people and I'm usually out doing things.

I texted her on snapchat about tmr and she told me she couldn't make it. Cool. I went to text her on her phone to chat and simply said "hey" The message delivered. Then the next message shows she blocked my number because the message wouldn't say "delivered" I don't understand why she would even block me. That's fucked up. I'm just so confused...why? Why would she do that?

I feel pretty rejected and broken over it. I'm not sure how I constantly fuck it up with girls who like me and are attracted to me.

There's another dude or you seriously rubbed her the wrong way on the first date

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11-08-2015 05:52 AM
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New milestone for me in the game.

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Indian milf checks me out hardcore in the club and I go straight in. We're both dancing and talking, and I lead her to the bar. It turns super sexual, to the point where I'm slapping her ass hard, and she's asking for harder!. I pull her by the hair and she's super turned on at the point, bambi eyes. I get her to buy me some vodka mixers. We bounce out the club, avoiding her friend in the process, and we walk back to mine.

Great sex, very rough and cum in her mouth. I'm trying to kick her out and here's where she mentions she's MARRIED and has kids!. It's not even surprising for me anymore since becoming game aware. I call and uber for her and off she goes.

Just wanted to share that, it's a wierd feeling knowing that you're balls deep in some poor guys wife.

Cheers
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(11-08-2015 10:45 AM)Silva Wrote:  New milestone for me in the game.

Backstory
Indian milf checks me out hardcore in the club and I go straight in. We're both dancing and talking, and I lead her to the bar. It turns super sexual, to the point where I'm slapping her ass hard, and she's asking for harder!. I pull her by the hair and she's super turned on at the point, bambi eyes. I get her to buy me some vodka mixers. We bounce out the club, avoiding her friend in the process, and we walk back to mine.

Great sex, very rough and cum in her mouth. I'm trying to kick her out and here's where she mentions she's MARRIED and has kids!. It's not even surprising for me anymore since becoming game aware. I call and uber for her and off she goes.

Just wanted to share that, it's a wierd feeling knowing that you're balls deep in some poor guys wife.

Cheers

That's a great time right there. Congrats. My favorite type of woman? Married.

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(11-05-2015 09:42 PM)redbeard Wrote:  
(11-05-2015 04:47 PM)Roardog Wrote:  
(11-05-2015 12:32 PM)RougeNoir Wrote:  I had a nice first date last night. I have high-sex drive and want to bang her. I progressed all the way to feeling pussy outside the pants. Does anyone just invite for Netflix and Chill for date 2 or for me to cook in luring her over to my place? If she rejects, do I counter-offer a spot close to my crib?

My go to Date 2 option is inviting a girl over to my place for a glass of wine and to watch a movie.
If she says no or makes an objection then step back to a venue close to your place so you can pull her back easily.

Another option is to make like you're going to go somewhere but tell her to meet you at your place and you'll walk/travel from there. Then when she arrives giver her a tour and end up never leaving.

Second dates, if you haven't banged, are a tough play call.

If you built up sexual tension, had some adventure, and made a connection, you should be able to say "hey come over and split a bottle of wine." Believe it or not, there are girls who don't want to be known as a girl who puts out on the first night, especially if they see you as boyfriend potential. These are the girls that will give you green lights all night, but dry out when you suggest going to a bedroom. After a formal first date, they will be more conducive to coming straight to your house.

Start the bidding low. If she is not being responsive, you might have to go on another date. This would be a good opportunity for "hey I'm at xyz bar yada yada come hang out." Because you've already been on a date, there isn't as much pressure, and she should be looking forward to seeing you.

Second dates where you've created sexual tension on the first date have been pretty easy for me. If you had good chemistry with her and made out with lots of kino, she knows what's in store for date 2 if she comes out.

You can definitely ask her to come right over for some wine, or meet at a bar. Once you re-start the gaming, just lead her back to your place - if you have the logistics on lock the bang is a near-certainty. Ask her to take her heels off is always a great start.

Lots of girls don't want to put out on first date as mentioned. Worst case she comes over, gets naked, you get a bj but no bang, assuming you've run some comfort game the LMR is usually non-existent.

I would never mention watching TV unless she specifically said something like 'I'd love to watch movie XYZ with you' and it's a guy's film, not a chick-flick. And that's just her IOI of wanting to go your place anyway.
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So here's the story: I'm a 50's guy in great shape, fairly active and successful dater, just had a big (35 guests) party a couple days ago at my house, old friends mostly (including my very cute ex GF from about a year ago who still holds a bit of a torch for me, and I still have a bit for her to be honest). So, about 2 hours into the party, up walks an absolutely adorable late arrival. We exchanged a few pleasantries throughout the evening, despite my ex GF not too subtle cock-blocking attempts like sequestering the new arrival away from everyone etc.

So I plan to ask the new girl out, but here's the problem - during her talk with my exGF it turns out that they had known each other slightly a few years ago, but lost track, and that they live only a couple of blocks apart from each other. And they set up a movie date for tomorrow at their nearby theater- just the two of them.

So my strategy question: should i ask her out today (I'm sure she would mention it to my ex GF), or wait until after their movie date? I can see advantages and disadvantages to both - I think my ex GF would say good things about me - we broke up on good terms and are still friends, but you never know. Suggestions?

PS for the sake of completeness I should also mention that my house has two separate apartments in it, plus the main part I live in. One of the separate apartments will be vacant soon and the ex GF wants to move in there. Fine by me since we get along great as friends - just not as lovers. The other apartment has a gal living in it who I banged a few times but now has a steady BF, very cool guy, no drama there.
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(11-09-2015 03:09 PM)Tim_S Wrote:  So here's the story: I'm a 50's guy in great shape, fairly active and successful dater, just had a big (35 guests) party a couple days ago at my house, old friends mostly (including my very cute ex GF from about a year ago who still holds a bit of a torch for me, and I still have a bit for her to be honest). So, about 2 hours into the party, up walks an absolutely adorable late arrival. We exchanged a few pleasantries throughout the evening, despite my ex GF not too subtle cock-blocking attempts like sequestering the new arrival away from everyone etc.

So I plan to ask the new girl out, but here's the problem - during her talk with my exGF it turns out that they had known each other slightly a few years ago, but lost track, and that they live only a couple of blocks apart from each other. And they set up a movie date for tomorrow at their nearby theater- just the two of them.

So my strategy question: should i ask her out today (I'm sure she would mention it to my ex GF), or wait until after their movie date? I can see advantages and disadvantages to both - I think my ex GF would say good things about me - we broke up on good terms and are still friends, but you never know. Suggestions?

PS for the sake of completeness I should also mention that my house has two separate apartments in it, plus the main part I live in. One of the separate apartments will be vacant soon and the ex GF wants to move in there. Fine by me since we get along great as friends - just not as lovers. The other apartment has a gal living in it who I banged a few times but now has a steady BF, very cool guy, no drama there.

Don't bring sand to the beach. Don't invite your ex-gf to your party unless she's bringing you girls to date and is not gonna be a cock-blocker. You also didn't do anything to isolate the girl you were into. As a man in his 50s in great shape and successful in dating (your description) you should have the confidence to pull this off without much effort. A quick tour of your place and the vacant apartment gives you the perfect opportunity to isolate.

What happened?

Also, why move the cock-blocker in with you? Sounds like a no-brainer.

EDIT: Meant to answer your question. You should ask her out immediately. Be a man of action, don't be passive.

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(11-09-2015 05:11 PM)AneroidOcean Wrote:  
(11-09-2015 03:09 PM)Tim_S Wrote:  So here's the story: I'm a 50's guy in great shape, fairly active and successful dater, just had a big (35 guests) party a couple days ago at my house, old friends mostly (including my very cute ex GF from about a year ago who still holds a bit of a torch for me, and I still have a bit for her to be honest). So, about 2 hours into the party, up walks an absolutely adorable late arrival. We exchanged a few pleasantries throughout the evening, despite my ex GF not too subtle cock-blocking attempts like sequestering the new arrival away from everyone etc.

So I plan to ask the new girl out, but here's the problem - during her talk with my exGF it turns out that they had known each other slightly a few years ago, but lost track, and that they live only a couple of blocks apart from each other. And they set up a movie date for tomorrow at their nearby theater- just the two of them.

So my strategy question: should i ask her out today (I'm sure she would mention it to my ex GF), or wait until after their movie date? I can see advantages and disadvantages to both - I think my ex GF would say good things about me - we broke up on good terms and are still friends, but you never know. Suggestions?

PS for the sake of completeness I should also mention that my house has two separate apartments in it, plus the main part I live in. One of the separate apartments will be vacant soon and the ex GF wants to move in there. Fine by me since we get along great as friends - just not as lovers. The other apartment has a gal living in it who I banged a few times but now has a steady BF, very cool guy, no drama there.

Don't bring sand to the beach. Don't invite your ex-gf to your party unless she's bringing you girls to date and is not gonna be a cock-blocker. You also didn't do anything to isolate the girl you were into. As a man in his 50s in great shape and successful in dating (your description) you should have the confidence to pull this off without much effort. A quick tour of your place and the vacant apartment gives you the perfect opportunity to isolate.

What happened?

Also, why move the cock-blocker in with you? Sounds like a no-brainer.

EDIT: Meant to answer your question. You should ask her out immediately. Be a man of action, don't be passive.

Thanks.

What happened? Easy - I was the host of a dinner & entertainment party with 35 guests vying for my attention. Isolation under those circumstances, not too practical. As to the ex GF, I invited her because she's a good friend and I wanted her there. I didn't expect the other gal to be so cute, having never met her. I will admit I was unprepared for the immediate CBing, figuring I'd have at least a few minutes at some point.

Passive has nothing to do with it. I'm just asking whether it's strategically better to ask her before, or after, she gets together with the ex GF at that movie tomorrow night.

Your other question, why have her move in, is fair, altho I hadn't seen the CB stuff in action before. I guess I kinda get off on the whole SisterWives thing that's developing here ;-) Besides I just enjoy hanging with her.

Tim
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11-09-2015 06:07 PM
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It sounds to me like you most definitely still have a thing for the ex. Why else would a man move her essential into his house unless to mate guard?

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11-10-2015 12:42 AM
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Had a little text thing back and forth with my LTR. Don't know why she continues to have to keep letting me know who the people are who tell her things. It must be so she won't make me "jealous" or prove to me she isn't interested in the guy or something. Second time she has done this so far. I don't care who says it to her either way. I'm not experienced with LTR's (one prior) so I don't know how these things work.

Her: Random question. Do you think I'm easy to talk to
Me: yea, why
Her: Just wondering. It has nothing to do with you. Someone told me that I was easy to talk to and I wanted to know if it would apply to you too
Me: yea sure
Her: Ok...
Me: what did you want me to say
Her: Idk that was good
Me: i was just agreeing with whoever said it
Her: I know. Btw it was one of the techs that I work with most often that said it
Me: haha why does that matter
Her: Just keeping you informed
Me: ha alright
Her: Alright bedtime cutie pie. Talk to ya in the morning.

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11-10-2015 03:38 PM
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(11-10-2015 03:38 PM)Remington Wrote:  Had a little text thing back and forth with my LTR. Don't know why she continues to have to keep letting me know who the people are who tell her things. It must be so she won't make me "jealous" or prove to me she isn't interested in the guy or something. Second time she has done this so far. I don't care who says it to her either way. I'm not experienced with LTR's (one prior) so I don't know how these things work.

Her: Random question. Do you think I'm easy to talk to
Me: yea, why
Her: Just wondering. It has nothing to do with you. Someone told me that I was easy to talk to and I wanted to know if it would apply to you too
Me: yea sure
Her: Ok...
Me: what did you want me to say
Her: Idk that was good
Me: i was just agreeing with whoever said it
Her: I know. Btw it was one of the techs that I work with most often that said it
Me: haha why does that matter
Her: Just keeping you informed
Me: ha alright
Her: Alright bedtime cutie pie. Talk to ya in the morning.

Remington (and to whomever this may apply),

I am curious about the dynamic of LTRs for red pill guys like ourselves. I don't really consider myself a player, I just know that I am not ready to settle down so I juggle 3-4 plates with a main plate and a secondary. I spend the most time with my main plate as she is the prettiest. Beautiful 19 year old Blonde girl. Pleasant personality, going to school, goes to the gym regularly and even models on the side. She once tried to define the relationship a few weeks into it but I shut it down and she was cool with continuing. The only knock on her is that she doesn't stimulate me intellectually (to be fair, she isn't dumb but maybe the near 10 year difference applies). So I enjoy hanging out with her, the sex is great and she is nice to look at but I don't see it progressing into anything serious since sometimes I get bored if we chill together for too long.

Now I see a few members here have gone into mini "LTRs", how would this be defined? Am I in one and don't even know it? Is there criteria or requirements that have to be met? I am quite inexperienced in relationships that go beyond friends with benefits since I have purposely avoided having a gf.

With the 19 year old, I do enjoy spending time with her here and there and having occasional text conversations (which I normally hate). We don't talk about exclusivity so I am still doing my thing and I don't really ask what she does when she isn't with me. Does that mean this qualifies for a mini LTR? This is new territory for me...

*EDIT: Forgot to describe myself. Late 20s Black American living in the Netherlands for university.
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11-10-2015 04:26 PM
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I had a case 2 days ago. I was chilling at my place with a girl, and my SNL girl from last week texted me "I am in a taxi to your home". I texted her to cancel her plan, she read the message but didn't reply. I tried to call her, and she didn't pick up, so she was obviously determinted to come to my place. I didn't want to, as I deemed her plain crazy and wanted to drop her long before.

While my new girl was upstairs, I get another text from the crazy chick, "I'll be here in 10 minutes, I'm very close now". I told my new girl that I had to pick something at 7-eleven, and instead, I went to warn the security guards to not allow her entry into the area (I live in a moo-ban, that's a grouping of 20-something individual houses into a common small village, where the only entry is through the main security gate)

I deemed this girl batshit crazy. 10 minutes later, she texted me, "tell the guards to open the gates", which I promptly ignored. It turns out that the guards did a fantastic job. My new girl never knew what happened. Bang.

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(11-11-2015 01:12 AM)Rawmeo Wrote:  I had a case 2 days ago. I was chilling at my place with a girl, and my SNL girl from last week texted me "I am in a taxi to your home". I texted her to cancel her plan, she read the message but didn't reply. I tried to call her, and she didn't pick up, so she was obviously determinted to come to my place. I didn't want to, as I deemed her plain crazy and wanted to drop her long before.

While my new girl was upstairs, I get another text from the crazy chick, "I'll be here in 10 minutes, I'm very close now". I told my new girl that I had to pick something at 7-eleven, and instead, I went to warn the security guards to not allow her entry into the area (I live in a moo-ban, that's a grouping of 20-something individual houses into a common small village, where the only entry is through the main security gate)

I deemed this girl batshit crazy. 10 minutes later, she texted me, "tell the guards to open the gates", which I promptly ignored. It turns out that the guards did a fantastic job. My new girl never knew what happened. Bang.

Those are some nerves of steel you've got there!

I'd have been in my car and off to get "something" with my chick and left it to the guards!

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