You have to work your cock if you aren't getting laid or it will shrink.

I'm getting into it with this girl in my group from a class at school. Wondering if it could cause problems work wise down the line. Also got back on my approaching rampage now my confidence is peaking.

I must be the worst "player" on the forum

"I must be the worst "player" on the forum"

I doubt it. At least you're ON the forum. Most people just lurk.

(05-09-2014 07:53 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  I must be the worst "player" on the forum

Man you sound really down lately, like in every post.

If you're not having any luck with pussy, don't worry about it. Think about pussy as the icing on the cake -- it's nice to have the icing, but if you don't you still have the cake and you can enjoy the hell out of it.

If you're healthy, intelligent and have enough money that you don't need to worry about basic necessities, you've got all you need to have a great life. So relax and enjoy it.

If you relax and enjoy your life and just think about the pussy as a bonus, your game will get better and you will actually start pulling more. Just think of "game" as what it is -- a game. You win, you get a nice prize, you lose, no big deal you still get to enjoy the rest of your life.

So don't feel down and don't get frustrated. If there are specific things you can do to improve your game, like style, fitness, text game, whatever, you can work on them -- but not in the spirit that it's some desperate do or die endeavor. Just as something that you'd like to get better at to enjoy its fruits, but it's not the end of the world if it doesn't work out.

Basically, kick back, relax, get into all sorts of other things in your life and focus on pussy intermittently as something that you're interested in but that isn't the be-all-end-all. And the pussy will probably come as a result -- and even if it doesn't or not as much as you'd like, you'll still get to enjoy all the other things instead of feeling down on yourself all the time.

(05-09-2014 07:53 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  I must be the worst "player" on the forum

Stick with it man.

Unfortunately you already know too much to go back to the bluepill.

It can be tough to get good at game.

Look at me- I don't consider myself to be that good, but last year I fucked a bunch of girls.

Now I'm in a dry spell.

That's probably what you are dealing with too. Feeling like shit is a big shit test. There's a firewall that exists between being alpha and beta. The world doesn't want you to get good at game.

Fuck the world. Do what you need to do. Ignore your feelings of inadequacy. Just do it. Keep plowing. Stay present, focussed, and pro active in this endeavor.

If you do that, the odds will be in your favor.

^ Start a newbie thread. Track your progress. Get tips. You will be kept accountable.

"Now I'm in a dry spell."

^Yep. Me too. Besides my harem girls, I've been striking out with ONS.

It happens. It's the Game. And I've been in it for a DECADE.

Life goes on and I'll bounce back. Probably this weekend.

Damn, and I thought it was just me with the dry streak...

After graduating from a huge university (one of the biggest in the nation) and being in a fraternity house I am now stuck in the suburbs...in DC!!

In terms of Game I've been trying the whole online dating thing and it's going alright, but not what I expected (i.e. Pussy raining from the sky). I'm going to get (back) into day gaming as not only does that lead to pussy, but it builds me as a person, which online dating does not. I don't want to give up entirely on online stuff, but I've been using it as a crutch lately.

I just totally melted down on this chick. Little short haired Mexican chick. I knew it wasn't going to happen so I said fuck it and let off some steam and essentially told her I didn't want to sit and listen to her talk anymore.

Good riddance.

I don't think I vibe well with these "girls" girls.

I usual conext better with much more sexy chicks.

I realize now that I shouldn't be wasting my time on any girl who isn't giving a confident vibe.

I think I'm a confident guy in general and can only match with a girl of equal or possibly more confidence.

The hottest girls I've been with this year gave me almost zero resistance. I just don't have the time anymore to waste on girls who stand in my way.

^ Now that's progress. Inner game dictating you need better and not taking no for an answer.

Also, I couldn't find a chin-up bar that fit the dimensions of my extra wide door frame, so I called up a local metal smith and had him put together a stainless steel bar with side brackets.

I love this piece of steel, and will use it to get pussy somehow.

@Seth_Rose

I've heard nightlife is horrendous in DC, but here's my suggestion to get you a flow of pussy:

There has to be at least ONE club in DC that's at least the poppin spot. Get that bitch On-Lock. Seriously. Go there every weekend, take care of the staff, get KNOWN. Make it your pussy paradise.

Guys really underestimate the power of even 1 club/bar that is On-Lock and is the gift that keeps giving.

Got punched in the face around four times by a drunk drugged up chick last night.

Buddy had picked her up and smacked her ass, spun her around, then set her down and ran off... I saw her looking pissed, so I went over to tease her and make it worse because obviously that's what drunk me wants to do there, then immediately started being punched as I said "Stop looking so grumpy hun".

Apparently she had been set down because halfway through their interaction she went from giggly to hitty.

Made my night though, caught both her wrists mid punch once I realized what was happening, told her she "really shouldn't try that again", then got to watch her run over and just drill my buddy while her friend was apologizing to him for her.

Girls get away with so much shit, carte blanche for unprovoked violence. Shit was funny though, she kept waiting for some white night to start a fight with us for it, and everyone she looked at just looked back at her like "What the fuck was that for?".
Faith in humanity slightly restored.

I'd like to hear your advice on the following situation that happened tonight: I went to a birthday party tonight in the city. A few chicks, a dime or two, drunkenly approached, talked a little bit. Nothing happened. From there, I went to hang with my buddy and chill and drink on his roof. Meanwhile, I'm on Tinder, and I get a message from this girl I've been talking to. We meet up. By now it's 2:00 am. She's an Ivy League girl, who seems classy, yet she didn't claim to be. We sat on a bench and walked around campus. There was no way in hell she was letting me in her dorm. This wasn't a SNL, but rather a chat-and-get-to-know-each-other. She told her friend where we were in case I decided to chop her up. I used the line I discovered on the Forum, "I'm going to add you to my white girl collection." She gained comfort in me, didn't mind me touching her thigh or patting her back. For a girl at one of the US's best schools, she was a solid 8. However, I drove her back to her place, she gave me a hug and left. You know how there's usually a moment to set up the initial make-out? I dug her but I didn't feel that moment and I hate to make excuses: but I don't think she had any intention to hook up with me despite the late-night meet-up and her obvious liking towards me. She too is a comedian and told me to hit her up to do an open mic. So this is what I'm thinking -- I'll text her Sunday asking if she wants to go to an open mic monday and after, show me around her campus, since she's no longer afraid I'm going to kill her.

I'm beating myself up for not logistically setting up a situation in which we would hook up. However, she by no means seemed DTF, but she's smoking and would like to get with her before she leaves in two weeks. Any thoughts? Is Monday too soon or can I try to go in for the kill then? Was tonight an opportunity missed out?

-Renberg

Can't nobody get no pussy around here. Lol.

I met a cute 20 yo at the club last weekend. Got her number and kept in touch. Saw her out last night at the club once again and we hung out. We danced and I eventually got the make out. The game gods were only toying with me though. Despite the good, the whole night was really a shit show. So many things kept me from getting the bang.

1. Female to male ratio was so shitty there was literally a new guy trying to dance my girl away every 5 minutes.

2. She came with a chubby friend. She has a pretty face and nice tits but she was a HUGE cockblock. So many dudes tried to dance with/talk to her and she wasn't having it. Towards the end of the night I kind of got the feeling she wanted to lez out with my girl.

3. My wingman is hit or miss. He's definitely the talker of the group but a lot of times he ends up shooting me in the foot. I'll be having a convo with a girl and he'll interrupt to tell some story or to show off or something dumb. He thinks he's just keeping things lively but he's really just fucking with my flow.

4. Logistics. This girl lives out in bumfuck nowhere. Why she drives all the way down here to go clubbing is beyond me. She also had to work this morning. I could not for the life of me work out a scenario where either of us ended up at the other's place. The red head cockblock didn't help either.

I'm thankful I got to feel up her ass and stunning legs and get a little make-out but damn last night was exhausting. I would have just moved on to another chick but believe me when I say this town is not very target rich. It's almost depressing. This is part of the reason I'm moving to Vegas in August.

Girl says she wants to see me, I'm about to go meet up with her. Sounds like she wants to fuck. Hmmm will report back.

Yah met up with her, just did some light kissing, I decided not to go further.

Talking with a cute 21 year old last night who has quit university with one year left. "I'm worried about my future". I wanted to imply she would be better off finding a man to raise a family with than worrying about her 'career' so I just said "You don't want to be a high-powered executive do you? You'll be fine." "Maybe I do!" This set her off into a flurry of hamster but I didn't back down. She then said "you get it" and wants to meet up this week.

Starting to get parranoid hooking up with chicks who have just come from being out late at the club or whatever.. One of my worst fears is kissing a chick who just swallowed someone else's load or going down or fucking on a girl that just got banged.

I banged a Turkish girl from Paris who is here in the US. What flag is that gonna be?

...

If anybody has been loosely following me this thread then you know I've had a fever for a broad and can't shake for about a month now. It's still fuking there. Like seriously can't get rid of it so I've been in courting mode trying to trap that broad since I might as well listen to my gut and run with it.

The one net positive of this though is that I am DESPERATE to shake this fever so I have been aggressively gaming like a animal. I wouldn't say I am going out more but when I do step out now, I swoop, or I get damn near fucking close. All it seems as I am trying to shake that broad out the head so I'm going in overdrive trying to turnover new women to try and get that broad bounces out. I've probably had more sex in the past 4-5 weeks then I did all last year it seems which is great but all and all some of it has been great some like whatever, but that is typical.

Last night was a good example as I swooped a girl at my gym, met up with another broad .. Tried to fuck her, she wasn't down, so set a date for the week... met some Pakastani girl whom was high as hell on coke, she did a line of my cock and I fucked her. All this in a span of likely less then 6 hours. All my swoop avenues used from the gym, regular bar, swingers club while aggressively trying to set dates in Tinder during down time of my night lol.

So it's getting to a point where again I still have to think of my game as evolving. I know slowly what works for me and what dosn't, but I also feel maybe I have gotten to comfy in where things do work. Plus I can't explain why I still sweat over one broad that I already fcked. Which is why I type the word to give me a deeper perspective when I read it back and also to see what other players might have to say.

Fucked up story for the Pakastani broad. That's a tough/rare flag and I ran corrupt game and flag chased 100% on that one Lol. I encourage drug use in females 1000% and act as a enabler even though I don't touch the stuff lol.

I feel you kosko. I really do. Have you slept with that chick you have a fever for?



relevant:

I currently have a 21 yo career model asleep next to me. We've been together for the past two weeks. I took her virginity. I taught her things about sex, and she listened and learned. She showed me her phone, I lost what little faith I had in the male race. Dude's blowing it up with series of 15-20 un-returned texts telling her how gorgeous she is and shit like that. She told me stories of pretty much getting everything in life handed to her by these simp betas. Those betas who got nothing in return. I used to have some sympathy for them, but no more.

She is a genuine good girl. I 100% believe she was a virgin. All signs I have seen tell me she is telling the truth.

I feel those feelings of affection coming on again. She is probably wife material.

I know I can't keep this girl on lock though. Our careers are completely incompatible. Once she leaves I probably won't see her again for 2-3 months, if ever.

Maybe a small case of oneitis coming on. I'm sure it will pass once shes gone and I starting banging other girls again.

I hear you. I assume at least 5 other dudes are simping on any broad I am going after. You loosely glance at a broads IPhone and you see her Tinder go off constantly lol. I just try to stick out by doing less. I don't try and talk to these broads all the time and try to be as spontaneous as possible. It works and sometimes it dosn't but it does help me stand out

And to answer your question... Yeah I fuked her the first night we really chilled. Some broads just feel and smell different, and I've noted that she fuked me up on a primal level. Like she nuked my hamster in bed, but it's not even like I'm just hooked on some bomb pussy.. I know that feeling, this is some different and weird shit all together that's just beyond some bomb pussy. It's because damn *barfs a little* I genuinely enjoy spending time with the broad. I'm a cold hearted monster at times so it's weird when a broad can warm me up like that.