Post: #426

This thread just got epic. I nearly shed a tear or two-the descriptions of such exquisite experiences (combined with the visuals provided, this one in particular) made it clear to me that I'm not even living yet. There's so much to look forward to...and here I am stuck in grim New England.

Great stuff Hencredible, please continue posting if you can. You're really enhancing the quality of the forum here.

Post: #427

(11-26-2011 08:18 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  First of all, I really disagree with all of this talk about race. It's not a matter of race, and to the extent that it is, it has more to do with money. I'm an American who happens to be black, and most men from my country who travel abroad for leisure, or business for that matter, happen to be white. I think that's true for Europeans as well. I have traveled all over South America and in a few Central American countries, North Africa, the Middle East, Europe, and North America. I didn't find my race and dark skin to be an impediment to getting laid at all.

In the case of Latin America, I think language is critical. If you can speak Spanish, or Portuguese in the case of Brazil, I can't even begin to tell you how much of a leap that is. You will do very well with your foreigner status and language ability. Language is power.

My favorite countries in Latin America, as far as women are concerned, were Panama, Colombia, Argentina and Brazil. With the exception of Brazil, which I have visited on two separate occasions, and Panama, my excursions in Latin America were as a backpacker. In the case of Colombia, I spent most of my time getting it in with the Swiss girl I had been traveling with, and I breezed through the whole country in a matter of three weeks. That's not nearly enough time to really explore what the locals are like, especially since I covered Medellin, Bogota, Cartagena, and Cali in that short time, so I can't speak on the hookup scene there. However, I was approached rather frequently in Cartagena for some p4p.

In the case of Ecuador, Peru and Chile, I'm personally not attracted to women from there and assumed that meant I would be hooking up with tourists from other parts of the world while taking in the sights there, which I did.

Argentinian chicks are HOT but they tend to be hard to get in bed with. I spent only a month though between five cities (Mendoza, Cordoba, Rosario, Buenos Aires, and Puerto Iguazu). I had plenty of lays with tourists (especially Aussies), but no flags with the locals (I didn't end up hooking up with an Argentine chick until I got to Florianopolis, Brazil). I came close in Rosario with a SEXY blond haired, green eyed Argentine but as I was walking out of the club hand-in-hand her friends came downstairs and pulled a major cockblocking move.

Anyway, I had fun. I think in most cases, people might have their initial assumptions about you, as they would with most gringos, but when they find out who you are and where you're from, you become interesting. I've found that being black, if anything, has worked to my favor.

I've known plenty of white blond-haired guys who DID NOT get laid in South America, or nearly to the extent I did, because they just were beta types or whatever. I also have great friends who were white with blue eyes and blond hair and got laid PLENTY, but they were alpha types who would do well in most places. They used their exoticism in SA to their advantage. It wasn't like they all of a sudden started getting pussy out of nowhere.

I think there are certain places where there's a novelty to being black. From my experiences with Aussie chicks, I would imagine Australia would be high on that list. Unlike Nordic women, they are very sociable, bubbly and love to party hard. Can't beat that.

I think most places with beautiful women are open for any man who has balls and knows what he wants. Individuality is key. One of the great gifts of traveling is that it brings us outside of our narrow-minded cultures to see a world that many of our brethren don't get to see. Embrace it and live up to it.

(11-28-2011 08:53 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  You know man, I've actually met several Algeria women from France before and they could pass for mulattas. They had a caramel skin tone and that wild frizzy hair. That's one of my favorite looks. Did most Algerian women look like that?

I totally agree. Women are mostly interested in how a man thinks, not as much how he looks. I think the idea of this thread is where can a black guy go and clean up with little effort. I want to know the same shit as a white guy. most countries it really doesn't matter - women want a man who goes for what he wants and enjoys himself.

I think if guys thought about their preconceived handicaps -being short, black/white/asian whatever, even ugly or overweight - and used that as a way to create a contrast effect where you straight flip the script on a girl and act in a way that goes against her stereotype, it actually ADDS to your appeal.

I was on another thread talking about I got more love from DRs in NYC than PRs and it's bc there's a cultural stereotype with PRs that white dudes are weak in bed. The PRs that I DID fuck in Florida, NY, Chicago etc all said the same thing "I didn't think white guys had swag/could fuck etc I gotta tell my girls to try a white guy."

My point is not to sound cool here, but the fact that when I had the chance to show them I was DIFFERENT than what they expected, I was successful. All the other times I went for a PR chick (which is a lot I fucking love that type) were situations where I got a number real fast, or I just couldn't interact with them much. And they flaked.

If you're a black dude and you think you're not getting enough love in a certain place, maybe think about how you can start conversations in a way that blow stereotypes out of the water right off the bat.

Post: #428

(11-29-2011 02:21 AM)Iceinthewater Wrote:  

(11-26-2011 08:18 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  First of all, I really disagree with all of this talk about race. It's not a matter of race, and to the extent that it is, it has more to do with money. I'm an American who happens to be black, and most men from my country who travel abroad for leisure, or business for that matter, happen to be white. I think that's true for Europeans as well. I have traveled all over South America and in a few Central American countries, North Africa, the Middle East, Europe, and North America. I didn't find my race and dark skin to be an impediment to getting laid at all.

In the case of Latin America, I think language is critical. If you can speak Spanish, or Portuguese in the case of Brazil, I can't even begin to tell you how much of a leap that is. You will do very well with your foreigner status and language ability. Language is power.

My favorite countries in Latin America, as far as women are concerned, were Panama, Colombia, Argentina and Brazil. With the exception of Brazil, which I have visited on two separate occasions, and Panama, my excursions in Latin America were as a backpacker. In the case of Colombia, I spent most of my time getting it in with the Swiss girl I had been traveling with, and I breezed through the whole country in a matter of three weeks. That's not nearly enough time to really explore what the locals are like, especially since I covered Medellin, Bogota, Cartagena, and Cali in that short time, so I can't speak on the hookup scene there. However, I was approached rather frequently in Cartagena for some p4p.

In the case of Ecuador, Peru and Chile, I'm personally not attracted to women from there and assumed that meant I would be hooking up with tourists from other parts of the world while taking in the sights there, which I did.

Argentinian chicks are HOT but they tend to be hard to get in bed with. I spent only a month though between five cities (Mendoza, Cordoba, Rosario, Buenos Aires, and Puerto Iguazu). I had plenty of lays with tourists (especially Aussies), but no flags with the locals (I didn't end up hooking up with an Argentine chick until I got to Florianopolis, Brazil). I came close in Rosario with a SEXY blond haired, green eyed Argentine but as I was walking out of the club hand-in-hand her friends came downstairs and pulled a major cockblocking move.

Anyway, I had fun. I think in most cases, people might have their initial assumptions about you, as they would with most gringos, but when they find out who you are and where you're from, you become interesting. I've found that being black, if anything, has worked to my favor.

I've known plenty of white blond-haired guys who DID NOT get laid in South America, or nearly to the extent I did, because they just were beta types or whatever. I also have great friends who were white with blue eyes and blond hair and got laid PLENTY, but they were alpha types who would do well in most places. They used their exoticism in SA to their advantage. It wasn't like they all of a sudden started getting pussy out of nowhere.

I think there are certain places where there's a novelty to being black. From my experiences with Aussie chicks, I would imagine Australia would be high on that list. Unlike Nordic women, they are very sociable, bubbly and love to party hard. Can't beat that.

I think most places with beautiful women are open for any man who has balls and knows what he wants. Individuality is key. One of the great gifts of traveling is that it brings us outside of our narrow-minded cultures to see a world that many of our brethren don't get to see. Embrace it and live up to it.

(11-28-2011 08:53 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  You know man, I've actually met several Algeria women from France before and they could pass for mulattas. They had a caramel skin tone and that wild frizzy hair. That's one of my favorite looks. Did most Algerian women look like that?

I totally agree. Women are mostly interested in how a man thinks, not as much how he looks. I think the idea of this thread is where can a black guy go and clean up with little effort. I want to know the same shit as a white guy. most countries it really doesn't matter - women want a man who goes for what he wants and enjoys himself.

I think if guys thought about their preconceived handicaps -being short, black/white/asian whatever, even ugly or overweight - and used that as a way to create a contrast effect where you straight flip the script on a girl and act in a way that goes against her stereotype, it actually ADDS to your appeal.

I was on another thread talking about I got more love from DRs in NYC than PRs and it's bc there's a cultural stereotype with PRs that white dudes are weak in bed. The PRs that I DID fuck in Florida, NY, Chicago etc all said the same thing "I didn't think white guys had swag/could fuck etc I gotta tell my girls to try a white guy."

My point is not to sound cool here, but the fact that when I had the chance to show them I was DIFFERENT than what they expected, I was successful. All the other times I went for a PR chick (which is a lot I fucking love that type) were situations where I got a number real fast, or I just couldn't interact with them much. And they flaked.

If you're a black dude and you think you're not getting enough love in a certain place, maybe think about how you can start conversations in a way that blow stereotypes out of the water right off the bat.

Exactly. Perhaps many women in South America or wherever have a white guy from abroad in mind when they think of a "dreamy guy" thanks to movies, media, and the simple exoticism compared to their home country. Trust me, I've dated and hooked up with many girls who have dream guys I don't resemble in the slightest way. My last girlfriend loved Javier Bardem. I am physically the polar opposite of him. I've hooked up with girls whose ideal is a Brad Pitt or Matthew Mcconaughey. Makes no difference to me. Same with men. Do many of the women we hookup with represent our imaginative ideals? A few features here and there perhaps, but rarely all the way, if ever. Game, intelligence, wit and personality is what any man needs to consistently bag quality talent. That's why I'm saying being black shouldn't and wouldn't stop you if you're a go-getter. It's like anywhere else.

Now, if the point of this thread is where black guys would get treated like rockstars just for their presence and minimal effort, I would imagine it would be in places where American culture is widely influential (not South America) and where most of the population is white (i.e. Scandinavia, Australia). Nordic people tend to be reserved and often aloof when they are not drunk, though. But I know a few brothers who did exceptionally well there. I actually have a cousin who lives in Stockholm and has been begging me forever to come visit. He said I would get raped. I'll have to make that trip soon.

Australia seems to be the closest thing to Disneyland from the many anecdotes I've heard, from both black and white men. I have many Australian friends and have banged many Aussie chicks; they all have told me I would clean up easy down there. I also have a homeboy who used to play in the NFL. He went down to Melbourne to visit a dope chick he had met online (pipelining). He said even when he was out with her in public, other chicks would openly hit on him. I really have to go down there. That's definitely my number one destination. I'm going to attempt a 2012 trip and I'll be sure to give the breakdown with what I'm sure will be epic photos.

Post: #429

(11-28-2011 08:53 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  You know man, I've actually met several Algeria women from France before and they could pass for mulattas. They had a caramel skin tone and that wild frizzy hair. That's one of my favorite looks. Did most Algerian women look like that?

Many North African women have that look, which I love. I mentioned in the earlier post how women from there, especially Morocco, bear a strong resemblance to women from Brazil and other Latin countries where there is a large "mulatta" presence.

Post: #430

hencredile do you mind if you breakdown about ethiopia, beirut and Marrakesh? Where are the easiest women out of these 3 places?

I met this morrocan chick in Belgium 3 years ago and she was hotttttttt..she had a perfect ass. I didnt get to fuck her but i know the women there are really hot and have phat asses but i heard they dont really fuck with brothers (im a light skin brother).

Post: #431

(11-29-2011 09:33 AM)pitt Wrote:  hencredile do you mind if you breakdown about ethiopia, beirut and Marrakesh? Where are the easiest women out of these 3 places?

I met this morrocan chick in Belgium 3 years ago and she was hotttttttt..she had a perfect ass. I didnt get to fuck her but i know the women there are really hot and have phat asses but i heard they dont really fuck with brothers (im a light skin brother).

I haven't been to Ethiopia, though I've been to Eritrea. The women are identical, but I'm not sure how feasible it would be for a foreigner to get a visa to travel there. Personally, I wouldn't recommend it. But if you insist on going to the source, definitely stay in Asmara Palace. It's really the only hotel I could recommend for accommodating a Western traveler in style. It's the only five-star hotel in the country and it's like a damn complex. You've bars, restaurants, shopping, and fitness facilities all right there. There's also nightlife events that take place there and in venues nearby. Avenue Harnet is the main street in the capital (lined with Palm trees) and, between those two spots, you're good to go. The best thing about Eritrea, and Ethiopia from what I hear, is the climate. Contrary to what many might imagine from an African country, it's actually got a cool (Cali-like) climate throughout the year.

If you are a light skin brother, you will probably blend in Morocco, especially in the southern areas of the country where many people are, in fact, black.

For Marrakesh, I recommend the "modern" area of the city, which locals refer to as "the modern quarter." The spots are concentrated on one small street, though the name escapes me. However, just mention "Mama Africa," a reggae club, and people will point you in the right direction. It's well known and there are several other spots on that street. I don't remember the name of one of the spots but it was a building or two down from Mama Africa. The women in there were top-tier. The respect I garnered from people in Morocco was on par with, if not superior to, Brazil, and I have dark skin. However, if sex is your main objective in Morocco, I would recommend Tangier.

Marrakesh's role in Morocco is equivalent to what Rio is to Brazil racially. What I mean is that Marrakesh, like Rio, is in the center of the country (the coast in Rio's case). It's a blend of dark and light people (like Rio) and politically, culturally, it's where Morocco meets (kind of like Rio). The more south you go, the more conservative it gets. The converse is also true, with the exception of Fes (the "knowledge and spiritual center" of the country).

Train service is actually quite impressive and affordable. It's the preferred way of traveling within Morocco, so one can hit up Marrakesh, Tangier, and Casablanca (a necessary transit point) with ease.

Out of the places you mentioned, Beirut has the easiest women, though they are not necessarily "easy." Lebanese people are the most well-assimilated Arabs internationally. Beirut is also extremely diverse religiously and culturally, and there are significant rifts between the different groups there. You might find that a Lebanese Christian would prefer talking to you over a Lebanese Muslim, for example. Also, Beirut is like the "Europe of the Middle East." They've got stores like Gucci, Louis Vuitton, H&M, etc. Almost every other car is some kind of BMW or Mercedes. Those cats ball purely on trade and banking. There's not even oil in Lebanon and because of its history of being a nexus point between empires and civilizations, they are totally used to and tolerant of different kinds of people. I spent a good part of my time there hanging out with an American chick who was half-Arab and half-American. We went out to restaurants, hookah lounges, and all of that. There was no hate or strange vibes from people whatsoever.

In a previous post, I mentioned how I linked up with my PUA homeboy from London who was there for a wedding for a relative of the Bush family. He actually invited me an outing in Gemmayze (one of the nightlife areas) with the sisters of the bride (Lebanese side). Their dad was instrumental in creating Abu Dhabi (the city in the Emirates which has overtaken Dubai as the richest city in the world; in fact, it bailed out Dubai during the global financial meltdown). Despite their pedigree, they were completely cool and westernized, having lived in London. They were more interested in me than my boy and his friends, who all happened to be white. They weren't sluts, apparently, so I didn't get to bang but I'm sure with more time I would have gotten one of them. We were flirting and laughing all night and they made sure to give me a warm hug before they dipped.

Beirut is a truly beautiful Mediterranean city. It has California-like weather, beautiful scenery, beaches, and excellent food. The nightlife scene is much more international than Morocco's (with current mainstream house and hip-hop being common). I recommend focusing on Hamra (http://wikitravel.org/en/Beirut/Hamra) for day game and for early evening moves. That's the center of Beirut's fashion scene so there are hella dope chicks out and about during the day. There's also coffee shops, hookah lounges, and, most importantly, The American University of Beirut, where all the students speak English. It's an awe-inspiring campus full of babes that speak English in American accents. You must go. Just make some day game approaches and find out what's going on locally. You can't lose.

At night, Hamra has a few choices (Hamra Street), but the Ashrafieh District, which is comprised of Gemayyez and Monot Street is where it's at (http://wikitravel.org/en/Beirut/Ashrafieh). There's one long narrow street in Gemmayyez with hella bars, clubs and pubs. It's called St. Bartolomeu or something like that. Enter "Gemmayze" on Youtube. You'll hear stuff like Drake or 2Pac emanating onto the street. Just walk around and see where it looks bumpin. Can't lose.

I hope this helps. Let me know if you have any other questions.

Post: #432

Do women in Beirut have phat/nice asses and do the women from Tangier have phat/nice asses too?

I am more interested in girls with nice asses, i am wondering what is the best city for me to visit. And is it possible to fuck a lot in Tangier without having to go to the p4p route? I wouldnt mind fucking semi pros (girls that look like normal girls) like some girls from DR or Cuba, but the real pro chicks aint my thing, they are just disgusting.

Post: #433

So glad to hear you speak well of Beirut. That's one of my dream destinations. I have heard some pretty bad things before regarding race and how they view and treat people of African descent. But your report is encouraging.

Post: #434

Hencredible,

I really want to pound out something from the Horn of Africa. Somalia (I love those small joints and bubble asses!!), Ethopia, Eritrea, I've come across lizards from those countries and the bodies are illogically delicious.

How receptive are those lizards to brothers? I get a strong tendency that our white cousins will slay in those regions (there's currently a circulating home made porn flick of some Euro cat with a sluggish accent rinsing off numerous delicacies in Africa). I observe him with a simmering envy.

I find a lot of African lizards like brothers to be dropping some paper on them to make it pop off. Am I right or wrong?

You discourage guys from getting a visa to Eritrea or Ethopia..why? Afronoob speaks often of Kenya, I want to hurt something from that country real soon.

Can a brotha have a fcuk fest in East Africa and if so, which countries? I don't really give a fcuk about her complexion..she can be as dark as 3am as long as her body (especially the ass!) is spilling over!
You guys can keep your white lizards, I want a monopoly on the black gold!

Post: #435

(11-29-2011 11:20 AM)pitt Wrote:  Do women in Beirut have phat/nice asses and do the women from Tangier have phat/nice asses too?

I am more interested in girls with nice asses, i am wondering what is the best city for me to visit. And is it possible to fuck a lot in Tangier without having to go to the p4p route? I wouldnt mind fucking semi pros (girls that look like normal girls) like some girls from DR or Cuba, but the real pro chicks aint my thing, they are just disgusting.

That's a subjective question because I know how some guys get carried away with their "phat ass" infatuations and find value in girls I find repulsively overweight. I definitely don't like girls that have flat asses or nositall (no ass), even if they have pretty faces. I would prefer getting head in that scenario. But girls in Lebanon and Morocco are generally very pretty with attractive proportional bodies. If your sole aim is going for the quick bang, though, you're better off in the DR or Cuba as those cultures are far less inhibited and less prohibitive.

Post: #436

(11-29-2011 01:01 PM)Moma Wrote:  Hencredible,

I really want to pound out something from the Horn of Africa. Somalia (I love those small joints and bubble asses!!), Ethopia, Eritrea, I've come across lizards from those countries and the bodies are illogically delicious.

How receptive are those lizards to brothers? I get a strong tendency that our white cousins will slay in those regions (there's currently a circulating home made porn flick of some Euro cat with a sluggish accent rinsing off numerous delicacies in Africa). I observe him with a simmering envy.

I find a lot of African lizards like brothers to be dropping some paper on them to make it pop off. Am I right or wrong?

You discourage guys from getting a visa to Eritrea or Ethopia..why? Afronoob speaks often of Kenya, I want to hurt something from that country real soon.

Can a brotha have a fcuk fest in East Africa and if so, which countries? I don't really give a fcuk about her complexion..she can be as dark as 3am as long as her body (especially the ass!) is spilling over!
You guys can keep your white lizards, I want a monopoly on the black gold!

African-American brothers who have an interest in girls from Ethiopia, Eritrea and, to a much lesser extent, Somalia (for religious reasons) are, in my view, better off pursuing ones who were raised in the US or Canada, as they are more likely to have a different (positive) view about African-Americans than their parents and the newly arrived immigrants from those countries. There are many examples, especially at American colleges and universities, of women of East African descent dating African-American men.

In the old country, the notions of dating etiquette are far different than what we have in the US. East African women who were raised in the US by their parents are often accustomed to a culture in which the man pays for everything. It is considered shameful in Eritrean culture for people to argue about money. It's often the case when going out with friends that they spend minutes arguing over who will pay the entire bill on behalf of the group. Growing up in multicultural DC, I found this to be a common characteristic shared among my friends who grew up in Middle Eastern households. Given Eritrea's location on the Red Sea, and a country where Arabic is one of the languages spoken, and where Islam is practiced by half of the population, there are many cross-cultural similarities with Middle Eastern culture.

So, yes, being a gentleman and old-fashioned when it comes to money will certainly please them, if that's what you care to do, but by no means is it necessary to get the bang.

As for your questions about how receptive East African women are to brothers, unfortunately, there is a negative connotation associated with African-Americans among the newly arrived immigrants and among those who immigrated into the US after their high school years, and even from some who grew up in the US (probably, in many cases, because of their parents). These negative perceptions and misconceptions are reinforced by the negative portrayals of African-Americans that are commonplace throughout US media, which are also shown and discussed about in Africa, sadly enough. I think if an African-American were to visit the "old country," however, the reception would be far different as you would be there in real-time disproving (hopefully) the misconceptions. Since many East Africans rarely, if ever, interact with actual African-Americans, I would suspect you to be well-treated and seen as intriguing.

I recommend against going to Eritrea because I was there this past spring and was truly shocked by its gross lack of a civil society. It's the closest thing I've seen to a totalitarian state. It's not even hyperbolic to refer to it as "the North Korea of Africa." It's an intellectual desert and open-air prison for 5 million people. Of all the countries I've been to in the world, it had the slowest internet speeds. It took nearly 20 minutes to access my Gmail account even though I chose to use "basic HTML" for slow connections. Also, only locals are allowed to purchase sim cards. It's simply not a country setup to receive the outside world. There are diplomatic staff workers from other countries, as well as foreign teachers and development contractors, but an utter lack of a civil society. There are no commercial banks or ATM machines in the country. It's almost similar to how Americans traveling to Cuba need to bring all the money they intend to spend in cash, because US credit card companies and banks are not allowed to do business there vis-a-vis the embargo. Of course, the exchange rate for USD in Cuba is far higher than currencies like the Euro or Canadian dollar, so you have to take the additional step of converting your USD into one of those currencies before going to Cuba unless you don't mind getting doubly raped.

Eritrea's legal exchange rate for foreign currencies is high. Thanks to my connections there, however, I was able to exchange funds via black market. This is an option unavailable to a foreigner, however.

Ethiopia, from what I hear, is much more open. It's the second largest country by population in Sub-Saharan Africa, so I would imagine it has much more to offer for a tourist.

However, it's important to keep in mind that the countries on the Horn of Africa are culturally conservative and generally lack a culture of promiscuity. Up until recently, female genital mutilation was common (up to 95% of the population in some areas, including Egypt), but is now, thankfully, banned.

Post: #437

hencredible,

Thanks for the intel, and a quick clarifier if I may.

You speak of the women back in these countries only being down for their kind does that mean only Eritrean, Ethopian for their own or can other blacks get a taste?

Because you mention African American brothers and they have a certain vibe and method in their movements.

What about brothers of Caribbean descent who grew up in Europe or Canada? What about Africans from other African countries?

For instance, does a cat from Uganda have a shot at an Eritrean lizard in Eritrea or Ethopia or does the same rules for African American bros apply?

Post: #438

(11-29-2011 02:38 PM)Moma Wrote:  hencredible,

Thanks for the intel, and a quick clarifier if I may.

You speak of the women back in these countries only being down for their kind does that mean only Eritrean, Ethopian for their own or can other blacks get a taste?

Because you mention African American brothers and they have a certain vibe and method in their movements.

What about brothers of Caribbean descent who grew up in Europe or Canada? What about Africans from other African countries?

For instance, does a cat from Uganda have a shot at an Eritrean lizard in Eritrea or Ethopia or does the same rules for African American bros apply?

You ask a fair and curious question. I guess the best way I can answer it is to say that Eritrean and Ethiopian culture, particularly the predominant "habesha" culture--http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Habesha_people--is exceedingly and uniquely insular within Africa, and even somewhat condescending. Some of it has to do, I suspect, with historical facts. Eritrean and Ethiopian culture is a semitic one, with their respective languages (Tigrinya and Amharic) being part of the same (semitic) language family as Arabic and Hebrew (which are not spoken in Sub-Saharan Africa). The countries also have important historical significance to the major Abrahamic faiths. King Solomon of Israel traveled to Ethiopia, allegedly, and married Queen Sheba. Ethiopia is also home to the lost Israelites, who are now all resettled as (black) Jews within Israel--http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Falasha--Abyssinia (modern day Eritrea and Ethiopia) was also the site of the first Muslim settlement in Africa. It's where the prophet Muhammad's followers were urged to move to in order to escape persecution in Arabia. There's also the fact that Ethiopia is the only country in all of Africa that was never colonized. Then there's the history of the Emperor Haile Selassie I, who was unique among African heads of state. He was the first to travel outside of the continent; the first to ban slavery; and he was seen as a regal and royal man who brought European respectability to the black race, not to mention his iconic status among Rastafarians that was conferred after he visited Jamaica during a severe drought, only for it to begin raining on the day of his arrival, and to cease on the day that he left (7 days in total). In spite of the overwhelming and stark levels of poverty between these two countries, these nuanced and unique cultural differences compounded over centuries to effect what many perceive as arrogant, culturally introverted, and excessively prideful peoples. I don't disagree.

Dating and marrying outside of the culture, especially for women, is often seen as a major faux pas, even among some families that raised their children in the US. I've heard of terribly tragic anecdotes where an Eritrean family refused to attend the wedding of a daughter simply because the bridegroom was of an African-American background.

As for Caribbeans and other Sub-Saharan Africans, it is generally frowned upon, though mainly for reasons of cultural ignorance. However, these relationships are starting to become common in the diaspora, especially at the college level. I suspect the reason to be that these cultures similarly value education and, as studies have shown--http://www.amren.com/mtnews/archives/201...e_fool.php--most of the black students at US colleges and universities, particularly the top ones, are actually from West African and Caribbean immigrant families, groups of people that affirmative action programs were not meant to target as they are not direct victims of American slavery and Jim Crow. Being the structurally color-coded and race-conscious country that the US is, regardless of origin, I think that helps explain the "cross-cultural" black dating between these peoples at the college level.

Generally speaking, I think this is uncharted territory. There's lots of fear and ignorance to overcome for many families. Your "success" with women from this part of the world will vary from person to person, no matter your background. I can't call it either way. I think the longer these peoples continue to live abroad, the more open and tolerant they will become with time. At least that's my hope, but I'm already beginning to see signs of it already, especially with the nation as a whole. After all, look who's in the White House now. Things are changing.

Post: #439

I'm new to the forum and looking for some gents who are in the DC Metro area to hang out and game with. Shoot me a PM!

Post: #440

AAAAHHH... you in DC... your screwed!!
LOL naw i just left DC about 6 months ago... it wasnt to bad for me.

Post: #441

(05-25-2010 11:34 PM)Caramel Communist Wrote:  LMao...at this thread...

to all the cats posting that Latin America is a no go have probably not even left the U.S. themselves...Blacks-mulato's are in all South-Central American countries and heavily repped in belize, brazil, columbia, venezuela even honduras and nicaragua we represent...

My visits
-Japan- You will be treated like a god...the older crowd will hate you though but fuck them...hit club harlem and don't act like a military dick head who the Japanese hate...couple people rolled up on me and asked me to rap..so out of pure comedy I did and they made me feel like I won american Idol....Japanese girls are pretty simple because their society doesn't have heavy taboo's about sex like here in the u.s. Just have your dress game up because the Japanese are real colorful about dressing up/appearance...no joke

-New Zealand/Australia - dated a girl from the Zee. I met her thru a friend that came over from NZ to work and go to school...her boyfriend was my friend who is black.... They love black guys in NZ..

-Brazil- in my opinion is the only place a brotha should ever visit...home of the largest population of africans outside of africa..yeah that's right more than the U.S. Just like in the u.s. they come in all shapes and shades so to say blacks can not pull or have a hard time is f-ing retarded ..Just beautiful women...the real key is being able to speak portuguese..Rio is good and definitely hit Sao Paulo...very cosmo and colorful..
I swear to god I will fucking marry a brazilain women. I cut my hand at a cafe. It was a friend, his gf and two other pauolistas. The gf gets up looks at my hand, walks over to a store, buys bandage and peroxide and cleans my hand/wound right there on the spot...This was the first day I met her...ask yourself how many sorry ass american women would do that shit?

-Canada-man please...they only hate Jamaicans in canada...Toronto is WAY UNDERESTIMATED...good times going up for the week of caribbana..

-Iceland-love brothas...don't sleep...I saw a ton of biracial kids walking around...I was told it's common for military cat's to knock these chicks up and roll..

-London - I had a ball...just I personally can't get down with the british culture outside of the music.european r/b music DESTROYS THE u.s...

-New Delhi India- very complicated-went for a job interview and stayed two weeks.. the educated ones just like the u.s. are fine but they believe euro = wealth/sucess/way of life to aspire too....but even India has Africans and I met cats who were even darker than me or any blacks I know in the u.s....You can pull, it's just a long process because of the culture and pressure..but India has some drop dead beautiful women....and alot of poverty..My hotel was a 4 star and I didn't know it until sunrise that a massive slum was a few yards away

-Don't sleep on africa..I know alot of euro mindset is on the board and dedicated to that type of women but ghana is f-ing nice. Stay the fck out of Nigeria, Somalia, Congo, and Zimbabwe...haven't been to South Africa...oh and strap up...aids is the official way of life unfortunately...

-Russia-look they got a skinny problem...stay out it ain't worth it in my opinion...not getting my head bashed the f-ck in for some russian/ukrainian brawd..just save your money and hit the northside of chicago...

Other brotha's I know have given thumbs up to spain/italy/ and especially germany and the netherlands...they were hgihly recommended..On my list to vist along with Lebanon...lebanese and brazilian women are fine as hell....hope this helps...peace

Man you did us a damn great service posting this useful information! Keep it up!

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(01-05-2013 08:01 PM)elabayarde Wrote:  AAAAHHH... you in DC... your screwed!!
LOL naw i just left DC about 6 months ago... it wasnt to bad for me.

@elabayarde....Man you're right kid! The DC Metro fukkin sucks! I mean I got some regular puss and all that but the women here are at the bottom of the totem pole and attractive non-black women don't give brother's the a second look at ANYTIME! LOL... Shit sucks but I'm making the $$$. Figure I'll start heading up to NYC on the weekends for some quality women and ass. hahahahaha

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(11-11-2011 05:49 AM)Iceinthewater Wrote:  

(04-29-2010 12:23 PM)Global Baller Wrote:  Reality is a Black guy will likely receive different (good or bad) treatment from women than a white guy worldwide. Where do Black guys get the best reception from ladies???

Lansing MI
Dayton OH
Las Vegas NV

As far as the US, anywhere that has a solid white and black population, and has been hurt by corporations outsourcing, or some sort of economic downturn. I grew up in Lansing, and I've been competing with bigger, tougher, more confident black and mexican dudes since day 1. White girls crane their necks to look at these guys.

Also, England and Netherlands. Only countries where I consistently saw HOT white women with black dudes.

Did you happen to MSU? I grew up in Troy but when to school elsewhere

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(02-17-2013 01:57 PM)CThunder86 Wrote:  Also, England and Netherlands. Only countries where I consistently saw HOT white women with black dudes.

Verified.
Although you should know that the hotties arent necessarily indigenous.

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England is a special case to say the least, I know a few Euro(Baltic & Central Euro)hotties who have moved to London to be closer to black men.

I would highly recommend the London Carnival in the first week of August as a destination, you will see all types of girls.

Alot of girls around the globe have a thing for Black American guys based on what they see in the media. Although I am Canadian I have had strangers come up to me and say "you are American right", I usually just smile.

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Its funny, we hung with one black canadian dude from TO, last time I was in MTL. There isn't a real discernible difference....lol

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Seems like Black men can do good anywhere in the world according to this thread.

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Keyword:CAN!! but thats conditional.

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can we get this thread going again? i was on a dating website(not actually looking to date) looking for where girls are most interested in black guys.

found this gem- a 9 or 10 in my book. 5'10 150lb. she's into black or mixed guys only. she's from naples so that might be another place to add to the list??

















doesn't she remind you of alessandra ambrosio?

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