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A serbian film destroyed my interest in Serbia sadly. Stupid I know, thats like me letting American Gangster ruin new york, but ehhh unless Im going with someone Im weary about going. Anyone been?

I am considering some place for a weekend trip, where would you go if you only had a weekend?
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(11-08-2011 10:56 AM)Black Quixote Wrote:  A serbian film destroyed my interest in Serbia sadly.

bahahahah
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You cannot judge a place by a movie or tv show. If I did that then I would think everyone in America is rich! lol

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(04-29-2010 12:23 PM)Global Baller Wrote:  Reality is a Black guy will likely receive different (good or bad) treatment from women than a white guy worldwide. Where do Black guys get the best reception from ladies???

Lansing MI
Dayton OH
Las Vegas NV

As far as the US, anywhere that has a solid white and black population, and has been hurt by corporations outsourcing, or some sort of economic downturn. I grew up in Lansing, and I've been competing with bigger, tougher, more confident black and mexican dudes since day 1. White girls crane their necks to look at these guys.

Also, England and Netherlands. Only countries where I consistently saw HOT white women with black dudes.
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I think West Virginia might have some potential. Never been there, but the girls I've met from WV have all been feelin' me. Gotta look into it.
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Paris and Stockholm are two places where I have seen black dudes doing very well. They passed the eyeball test with flying colors (ie. rolling with fine girls, which is not always the case).
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(11-08-2011 10:56 AM)Black Quixote Wrote:  A serbian film destroyed my interest in Serbia sadly. Stupid I know, thats like me letting American Gangster ruin new york, but ehhh unless Im going with someone Im weary about going. Anyone been?

I am considering some place for a weekend trip, where would you go if you only had a weekend?

I'm sure Serbia will get over it Smile
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First of all, I really disagree with all of this talk about race. It's not a matter of race, and to the extent that it is, it has more to do with money. I'm an American who happens to be black, and most men from my country who travel abroad for leisure, or business for that matter, happen to be white. I think that's true for Europeans as well. I have traveled all over South America and in a few Central American countries, North Africa, the Middle East, Europe, and North America. I didn't find my race and dark skin to be an impediment to getting laid at all.

In the case of Latin America, I think language is critical. If you can speak Spanish, or Portuguese in the case of Brazil, I can't even begin to tell you how much of a leap that is. You will do very well with your foreigner status and language ability. Language is power.

My favorite countries in Latin America, as far as women are concerned, were Panama, Colombia, Argentina and Brazil. With the exception of Brazil, which I have visited on two separate occasions, and Panama, my excursions in Latin America were as a backpacker. In the case of Colombia, I spent most of my time getting it in with the Swiss girl I had been traveling with, and I breezed through the whole country in a matter of three weeks. That's not nearly enough time to really explore what the locals are like, especially since I covered Medellin, Bogota, Cartagena, and Cali in that short time, so I can't speak on the hookup scene there. However, I was approached rather frequently in Cartagena for some p4p.

In the case of Ecuador, Peru and Chile, I'm personally not attracted to women from there and assumed that meant I would be hooking up with tourists from other parts of the world while taking in the sights there, which I did.

Argentinian chicks are HOT but they tend to be hard to get in bed with. I spent only a month though between five cities (Mendoza, Cordoba, Rosario, Buenos Aires, and Puerto Iguazu). I had plenty of lays with tourists (especially Aussies), but no flags with the locals (I didn't end up hooking up with an Argentine chick until I got to Florianopolis, Brazil). I came close in Rosario with a SEXY blond haired, green eyed Argentine but as I was walking out of the club hand-in-hand her friends came downstairs and pulled a major cockblocking move.

Anyway, I had fun. I think in most cases, people might have their initial assumptions about you, as they would with most gringos, but when they find out who you are and where you're from, you become interesting. I've found that being black, if anything, has worked to my favor.

I've known plenty of white blond-haired guys who DID NOT get laid in South America, or nearly to the extent I did, because they just were beta types or whatever. I also have great friends who were white with blue eyes and blond hair and got laid PLENTY, but they were alpha types who would do well in most places. They used their exoticism in SA to their advantage. It wasn't like they all of a sudden started getting pussy out of nowhere.

I think there are certain places where there's a novelty to being black. From my experiences with Aussie chicks, I would imagine Australia would be high on that list. Unlike Nordic women, they are very sociable, bubbly and love to party hard. Can't beat that.

I think most places with beautiful women are open for any man who has balls and knows what he wants. Individuality is key. One of the great gifts of traveling is that it brings us outside of our narrow-minded cultures to see a world that many of our brethren don't get to see. Embrace it and live up to it.
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(11-26-2011 08:18 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  First of all, I really disagree with all of this talk about race. It's not a matter of race, and to the extent that it is, it has more to do with money. I'm an American who happens to be black, and most men from my country who travel abroad for leisure, or business for that matter, happen to be white. I think that's true for Europeans as well. I have traveled all over South America and in a few Central American countries, North Africa, the Middle East, Europe, and North America. I didn't find my race and dark skin to be an impediment to getting laid at all.

In the case of Latin America, I think language is critical. If you can speak Spanish, or Portuguese in the case of Brazil, I can't even begin to tell you how much of a leap that is. You will do very well with your foreigner status and language ability. Language is power.

My favorite countries in Latin America, as far as women are concerned, were Panama, Colombia, Argentina and Brazil. With the exception of Brazil, which I have visited on two separate occasions, and Panama, my excursions in Latin America were as a backpacker. In the case of Colombia, I spent most of my time getting it in with the Swiss girl I had been traveling with, and I breezed through the whole country in a matter of three weeks. That's not nearly enough time to really explore what the locals are like, especially since I covered Medellin, Bogota, Cartagena, and Cali in that short time, so I can't speak on how that country is for black men.

In the case of Ecuador, Peru and Chile, I'm personally not attracted to women from there and assumed that meant I would be hooking up with tourists from other parts of the world while taking in the sights, which I did.

Argentinian chicks are HOT but they tend to be hard to get in bed with. I spent only a month though between five cities (Mendoza, Cordoba, Rosario, Buenos Aires, and Puerto Iguazu). I had plenty of lays with tourists (especially Aussies), but no flags with the locals (I didn't end up hooking up with an Argentine chick until I got to Florianopolis, Brazil). I came close in Rosario with a SEXY blond haired, green eyed Argentine but as I was walking out of the club hand-in-hand her friends came downstairs and pulled a major cockblocking move.

Anyway, I had fun. I think in most cases, people might have their initial assumptions about you, as they would with most gringos, but when they find out who you are and where you're from, you become interesting. I've found that being black, if anything, has worked to my favor.

I've known plenty of white blond-haired guys who DID NOT get laid in South America, or nearly to the extent I did, because they just were beta types or whatever. I also have great friends who were white with blue eyes and blond hair and got laid PLENTY, but they were alpha types who would do well in most places. They used their exoticism in SA to their advantage. It wasn't like they all of a sudden started getting pussy out of nowhere.

I think there are certain places where there's a novelty to being black. From my experiences with Aussie chicks, I would imagine Australia would be high on that list. Unlike Nordic women, they are very sociable, bubbly and love to party hard. Can't beat that.

I think most places with beautiful women are open for black men. Just the fact that you would have the balls to go wherever you want for the love of it is a big advantage. One of the great gifts of traveling is that it brings us outside of our narrow-minded cultures to see a world that many of our brethren don't get to see. Embrace it and live up to it.

Yes Australia.....but I find that many countries that were colonized and majority nonwhite have a preference for whites over blacks. This includes DR, Brazil, Parts of Africa .

Sure you can get laid but in my experience the darker you are the harder you will have to work or come up with something that can compensate for your color.

It's like height. Women love tall dudes, sure shorter men will get laid but tall men have the advantage.... Any tall guy will admit that all things being equal , height will usually give you the leg up. When it comes to race, different story, and the reason for that is because is it's based on bullshit and brainwashing.

There is no reason why someone should see a reflection of themselves and have self hate. It's gotta be imposed from the outside. It's an artificial contruct with very REAL ramifications. Cats that have the advantage want to keep it, dudes that don't want to get it or atleast have a level playing field. Talking about it truthfully is the first step toward bringing things into balance, which explains why some want to talk about it and other don't.
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(11-26-2011 08:55 PM)rhodey Wrote:  
(11-26-2011 08:18 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  First of all, I really disagree with all of this talk about race. It's not a matter of race, and to the extent that it is, it has more to do with money. I'm an American who happens to be black, and most men from my country who travel abroad for leisure, or business for that matter, happen to be white. I think that's true for Europeans as well. I have traveled all over South America and in a few Central American countries, North Africa, the Middle East, Europe, and North America. I didn't find my race and dark skin to be an impediment to getting laid at all.

In the case of Latin America, I think language is critical. If you can speak Spanish, or Portuguese in the case of Brazil, I can't even begin to tell you how much of a leap that is. You will do very well with your foreigner status and language ability. Language is power.

My favorite countries in Latin America, as far as women are concerned, were Panama, Colombia, Argentina and Brazil. With the exception of Brazil, which I have visited on two separate occasions, and Panama, my excursions in Latin America were as a backpacker. In the case of Colombia, I spent most of my time getting it in with the Swiss girl I had been traveling with, and I breezed through the whole country in a matter of three weeks. That's not nearly enough time to really explore what the locals are like, especially since I covered Medellin, Bogota, Cartagena, and Cali in that short time, so I can't speak on how that country is for black men.

In the case of Ecuador, Peru and Chile, I'm personally not attracted to women from there and assumed that meant I would be hooking up with tourists from other parts of the world while taking in the sights, which I did.

Argentinian chicks are HOT but they tend to be hard to get in bed with. I spent only a month though between five cities (Mendoza, Cordoba, Rosario, Buenos Aires, and Puerto Iguazu). I had plenty of lays with tourists (especially Aussies), but no flags with the locals (I didn't end up hooking up with an Argentine chick until I got to Florianopolis, Brazil). I came close in Rosario with a SEXY blond haired, green eyed Argentine but as I was walking out of the club hand-in-hand her friends came downstairs and pulled a major cockblocking move.

Anyway, I had fun. I think in most cases, people might have their initial assumptions about you, as they would with most gringos, but when they find out who you are and where you're from, you become interesting. I've found that being black, if anything, has worked to my favor.

I've known plenty of white blond-haired guys who DID NOT get laid in South America, or nearly to the extent I did, because they just were beta types or whatever. I also have great friends who were white with blue eyes and blond hair and got laid PLENTY, but they were alpha types who would do well in most places. They used their exoticism in SA to their advantage. It wasn't like they all of a sudden started getting pussy out of nowhere.

I think there are certain places where there's a novelty to being black. From my experiences with Aussie chicks, I would imagine Australia would be high on that list. Unlike Nordic women, they are very sociable, bubbly and love to party hard. Can't beat that.

I think most places with beautiful women are open for black men. Just the fact that you would have the balls to go wherever you want for the love of it is a big advantage. One of the great gifts of traveling is that it brings us outside of our narrow-minded cultures to see a world that many of our brethren don't get to see. Embrace it and live up to it.

Yes Australia.....but I find that many countries that were colonized and majority nonwhite have a preference for whites over blacks. This includes DR, Brazil, Parts of Africa .

Sure you can get laid but in my experience the darker you are the harder you will have to work or come up with something that can compensate for your color.

It's like height. Women love tall dudes, sure shorter men will get laid but tall men have the advantage.... Any tall guy will admit that all things being equal , height will usually give you the leg up. When it comes to race, different story, and the reason for that is because is it's based on bullshit and brainwashing.

There is no reason why someone should see a reflection of themselves and have self hate. It's gotta be imposed from the outside. It's an artificial contruct with very REAL ramifications. Cats that have the advantage want to keep it, dudes that don't want to get it or atleast have a level playing field. Talking about it truthfully is the first step toward bringing things into balance, which explains why some want to talk about it and other don't.

You know, I've never encountered anything of that sort. I've never been to the Dominican Republic, where I've heard brainwashing is endemic, but I have hooked up with a couple of Dominican chicks in the US and even a Dominican girl straight from DR while in Cairo! I have yet to experience anything traumatic, and the girls I go for tend to reflect what I think about women.
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(11-26-2011 08:18 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  First of all, I really disagree with all of this talk about race. It's not a matter of race, and to the extent that it is, it has more to do with money. I'm an American who happens to be black, and most men from my country who travel abroad for leisure, or business for that matter, happen to be white. I think that's true for Europeans as well. I have traveled all over South America and in a few Central American countries, North Africa, the Middle East, Europe, and North America. I didn't find my race and dark skin to be an impediment to getting laid at all.

In the case of Latin America, I think language is critical. If you can speak Spanish, or Portuguese in the case of Brazil, I can't even begin to tell you how much of a leap that is. You will do very well with your foreigner status and language ability. Language is power.

My favorite countries in Latin America, as far as women are concerned, were Panama, Colombia, Argentina and Brazil. With the exception of Brazil, which I have visited on two separate occasions, and Panama, my excursions in Latin America were as a backpacker. In the case of Colombia, I spent most of my time getting it in with the Swiss girl I had been traveling with, and I breezed through the whole country in a matter of three weeks. That's not nearly enough time to really explore what the locals are like, especially since I covered Medellin, Bogota, Cartagena, and Cali in that short time, so I can't speak on the hookup scene there. However, I was approached rather frequently in Cartagena for some p4p.

In the case of Ecuador, Peru and Chile, I'm personally not attracted to women from there and assumed that meant I would be hooking up with tourists from other parts of the world while taking in the sights there, which I did.

Argentinian chicks are HOT but they tend to be hard to get in bed with. I spent only a month though between five cities (Mendoza, Cordoba, Rosario, Buenos Aires, and Puerto Iguazu). I had plenty of lays with tourists (especially Aussies), but no flags with the locals (I didn't end up hooking up with an Argentine chick until I got to Florianopolis, Brazil). I came close in Rosario with a SEXY blond haired, green eyed Argentine but as I was walking out of the club hand-in-hand her friends came downstairs and pulled a major cockblocking move.

Anyway, I had fun. I think in most cases, people might have their initial assumptions about you, as they would with most gringos, but when they find out who you are and where you're from, you become interesting. I've found that being black, if anything, has worked to my favor.

I've known plenty of white blond-haired guys who DID NOT get laid in South America, or nearly to the extent I did, because they just were beta types or whatever. I also have great friends who were white with blue eyes and blond hair and got laid PLENTY, but they were alpha types who would do well in most places. They used their exoticism in SA to their advantage. It wasn't like they all of a sudden started getting pussy out of nowhere.

I think there are certain places where there's a novelty to being black. From my experiences with Aussie chicks, I would imagine Australia would be high on that list. Unlike Nordic women, they are very sociable, bubbly and love to party hard. Can't beat that.

I think most places with beautiful women are open for any man who has balls and knows what he wants. Individuality is key. One of the great gifts of traveling is that it brings us outside of our narrow-minded cultures to see a world that many of our brethren don't get to see. Embrace it and live up to it.

Trust me the fact that you are American carries alot of weight in alot of places. If you were from Africa you would not be saying the same thing and trust me people can tell you are American a mile away.

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Germany is another great place (at this point the post is too long for me to read through entirely). When I first moved to Germany, I'm white he's black, he took me out to a club. He had been living in Germany for a year. So we found us a spot on the edge of the dancefloor and stood there. I asked what we were going to do now and he said 'Just stand here.' I thought he was crazy because I was used to circulating but I thought I would give it a shot. Sure enough, 30 minutes later we had a group of 8 girls dancing in front of us and all we had to do was start dancing with them. I thought it was just luck but I have gone out with him a few times and he does the same thing every time, absolutely nothing, and the girls just come to him. Talk to black guys in the Army who have been stationed in Germany and they will tell you Germany is a black mans heaven and Korea is the white mans heaven.

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(11-26-2011 11:16 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  
(11-26-2011 08:18 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  First of all, I really disagree with all of this talk about race. It's not a matter of race, and to the extent that it is, it has more to do with money. I'm an American who happens to be black, and most men from my country who travel abroad for leisure, or business for that matter, happen to be white. I think that's true for Europeans as well. I have traveled all over South America and in a few Central American countries, North Africa, the Middle East, Europe, and North America. I didn't find my race and dark skin to be an impediment to getting laid at all.

In the case of Latin America, I think language is critical. If you can speak Spanish, or Portuguese in the case of Brazil, I can't even begin to tell you how much of a leap that is. You will do very well with your foreigner status and language ability. Language is power.

My favorite countries in Latin America, as far as women are concerned, were Panama, Colombia, Argentina and Brazil. With the exception of Brazil, which I have visited on two separate occasions, and Panama, my excursions in Latin America were as a backpacker. In the case of Colombia, I spent most of my time getting it in with the Swiss girl I had been traveling with, and I breezed through the whole country in a matter of three weeks. That's not nearly enough time to really explore what the locals are like, especially since I covered Medellin, Bogota, Cartagena, and Cali in that short time, so I can't speak on the hookup scene there. However, I was approached rather frequently in Cartagena for some p4p.

In the case of Ecuador, Peru and Chile, I'm personally not attracted to women from there and assumed that meant I would be hooking up with tourists from other parts of the world while taking in the sights there, which I did.

Argentinian chicks are HOT but they tend to be hard to get in bed with. I spent only a month though between five cities (Mendoza, Cordoba, Rosario, Buenos Aires, and Puerto Iguazu). I had plenty of lays with tourists (especially Aussies), but no flags with the locals (I didn't end up hooking up with an Argentine chick until I got to Florianopolis, Brazil). I came close in Rosario with a SEXY blond haired, green eyed Argentine but as I was walking out of the club hand-in-hand her friends came downstairs and pulled a major cockblocking move.

Anyway, I had fun. I think in most cases, people might have their initial assumptions about you, as they would with most gringos, but when they find out who you are and where you're from, you become interesting. I've found that being black, if anything, has worked to my favor.

I've known plenty of white blond-haired guys who DID NOT get laid in South America, or nearly to the extent I did, because they just were beta types or whatever. I also have great friends who were white with blue eyes and blond hair and got laid PLENTY, but they were alpha types who would do well in most places. They used their exoticism in SA to their advantage. It wasn't like they all of a sudden started getting pussy out of nowhere.

I think there are certain places where there's a novelty to being black. From my experiences with Aussie chicks, I would imagine Australia would be high on that list. Unlike Nordic women, they are very sociable, bubbly and love to party hard. Can't beat that.

I think most places with beautiful women are open for any man who has balls and knows what he wants. Individuality is key. One of the great gifts of traveling is that it brings us outside of our narrow-minded cultures to see a world that many of our brethren don't get to see. Embrace it and live up to it.

Trust me the fact that you are American carries alot of weight in alot of places. If you were from Africa you would not be saying the same thing and trust me people can tell you are American a mile away.

Perhaps in some places, being an American may signal some positive attention, but the opposite may be true in some instances as well. I think the best way to contribute to this thread is to speak from your own experience and allow others to draw their own conclusions. I can't imagine what it would be like for a traveler from Africa in certain countries. I have many friends who have a father from Africa and a mother from (you name it), so that implies that the father was successful in that particular country. How can one speak with such certitude about these matters? There are so many real-life examples that defy convention and stereotypes. I think being an "outsider" can appeal to many women, no matter the country, and that much of the outcomes depend on other factors within the individual's control. That's been true in my experiences.
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(11-26-2011 08:55 PM)rhodey Wrote:  
(11-26-2011 08:18 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  First of all, I really disagree with all of this talk about race. It's not a matter of race, and to the extent that it is, it has more to do with money. I'm an American who happens to be black, and most men from my country who travel abroad for leisure, or business for that matter, happen to be white. I think that's true for Europeans as well. I have traveled all over South America and in a few Central American countries, North Africa, the Middle East, Europe, and North America. I didn't find my race and dark skin to be an impediment to getting laid at all.

In the case of Latin America, I think language is critical. If you can speak Spanish, or Portuguese in the case of Brazil, I can't even begin to tell you how much of a leap that is. You will do very well with your foreigner status and language ability. Language is power.

My favorite countries in Latin America, as far as women are concerned, were Panama, Colombia, Argentina and Brazil. With the exception of Brazil, which I have visited on two separate occasions, and Panama, my excursions in Latin America were as a backpacker. In the case of Colombia, I spent most of my time getting it in with the Swiss girl I had been traveling with, and I breezed through the whole country in a matter of three weeks. That's not nearly enough time to really explore what the locals are like, especially since I covered Medellin, Bogota, Cartagena, and Cali in that short time, so I can't speak on how that country is for black men.

In the case of Ecuador, Peru and Chile, I'm personally not attracted to women from there and assumed that meant I would be hooking up with tourists from other parts of the world while taking in the sights, which I did.

Argentinian chicks are HOT but they tend to be hard to get in bed with. I spent only a month though between five cities (Mendoza, Cordoba, Rosario, Buenos Aires, and Puerto Iguazu). I had plenty of lays with tourists (especially Aussies), but no flags with the locals (I didn't end up hooking up with an Argentine chick until I got to Florianopolis, Brazil). I came close in Rosario with a SEXY blond haired, green eyed Argentine but as I was walking out of the club hand-in-hand her friends came downstairs and pulled a major cockblocking move.

Anyway, I had fun. I think in most cases, people might have their initial assumptions about you, as they would with most gringos, but when they find out who you are and where you're from, you become interesting. I've found that being black, if anything, has worked to my favor.

I've known plenty of white blond-haired guys who DID NOT get laid in South America, or nearly to the extent I did, because they just were beta types or whatever. I also have great friends who were white with blue eyes and blond hair and got laid PLENTY, but they were alpha types who would do well in most places. They used their exoticism in SA to their advantage. It wasn't like they all of a sudden started getting pussy out of nowhere.

I think there are certain places where there's a novelty to being black. From my experiences with Aussie chicks, I would imagine Australia would be high on that list. Unlike Nordic women, they are very sociable, bubbly and love to party hard. Can't beat that.

I think most places with beautiful women are open for black men. Just the fact that you would have the balls to go wherever you want for the love of it is a big advantage. One of the great gifts of traveling is that it brings us outside of our narrow-minded cultures to see a world that many of our brethren don't get to see. Embrace it and live up to it.

Yes Australia.....but I find that many countries that were colonized and majority nonwhite have a preference for whites over blacks. This includes DR, Brazil, Parts of Africa .

Sure you can get laid but in my experience the darker you are the harder you will have to work or come up with something that can compensate for your color.

It's like height. Women love tall dudes, sure shorter men will get laid but tall men have the advantage.... Any tall guy will admit that all things being equal , height will usually give you the leg up. When it comes to race, different story, and the reason for that is because is it's based on bullshit and brainwashing.

There is no reason why someone should see a reflection of themselves and have self hate. It's gotta be imposed from the outside. It's an artificial contruct with very REAL ramifications. Cats that have the advantage want to keep it, dudes that don't want to get it or atleast have a level playing field. Talking about it truthfully is the first step toward bringing things into balance, which explains why some want to talk about it and other don't.

I am Afro-latin(dark skinned) and speak fluent Spanish and I agree 100% with rhodey. Being fluent in Spanish(Portuguese is a different story) is not that big of an advantage in Latin America at least not for me. In fact most of my bangs happened when I pretended I spoke very little Spanish. Race is a huge deal in Latin America. Money and being American can mitigate some of this but a lot of girls will still not want nothing to do with you. If you are a Black expat then you might do a much better regardless of country because of social circle reasons.

@Cass, correct if I am wrong but from your report it sounds like most of the girls you were banging were Gringas. A bang is a bang, however, fucking hostel sluts is not difficult at all. Some of them will fuck anything with a pulse regardless of race. Therefore, that's not a good barometer of race relations. How well did you do with the local girls? That's the only stat that really matters.

But enough about traveling while Black in Latin America, this has been discussed to death here. Tells us about your expires in the Middle East and North Africa. Can you whip out a quick data sheet on them, those are places we don't hear too much about in the forum.
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(04-29-2010 12:23 PM)Global Baller Wrote:  Reality is a Black guy will likely receive different (good or bad) treatment from women than a white guy worldwide. Where do Black guys get the best reception from ladies???

I had a wonderful time in Brazil, and just about any other place I've been where I found the women attractive. I have so many good experiences.

Aside from pipelining, standard approaches in clubs, day game, etc, it really helps to have a local friend in Latin America, especially countries like Brazil and Colombia. I can't overstate that. Friendship in those countries has an entirely different notion. Once you've been introduced to someone in Brazil, you automatically become that person's "friend." They don't have that separation of association that we in the north commonly employ (i.e. work colleague, gym friend, etc).

I'm a brother (of Eritrean parentage) raised in the US, and my first trip to South America was in 2008, at the ripe old age of 25. I took a week off from my work vacay time and flew from DC to Rio, which is the only city I visited on that trip. My travel companion, Jon, was one of my best friends, a cool half Japanese/Italian cat from Cali. We stayed with a friend, Craig, in Rio, who was in his mid-thirties. Craig was a brotha from Cali who had paid his dues by working corporate at Jetblue's HQ in Long Beach, and making a killing by selling wholesale antiques on E-Bay at the time the website was beginning to gain traction among the public. His online business took off and he was able to quit his day job and eventually reach a point to where he could work remotely from wherever he wished. He decided to spend most of the year in Rio, only flying back every six months to renew his visa and attend to business matters stateside. Craig lived in a choice secured apartment building just three blocks inland from Ipanema Beach. It was so clutch. The best thing about it, though, was the number of hot chicks who lived in his building. Being sociable as Cariocas are, he knew all of them. So when me and Jon got to Rio we already had cute babes lined up to hang out and have sex with. By the first night, we were already making out with them, and over the course of the next couple of days, we hooked up and took turns with them. It was great because, despite being November, Rio was almost like a ghost town, believe it or not. I had visions on my way down there of a scene akin to that Snoop Dogg and Pharrell video, but it was nothing like that. The beach was deserted and it was overcast and somewhat chilly outside. I did make it to Club Help, but the only chicks there were p4p, which I did indulge in at an EPIC gentleman's club called Centaurus. I'll describe that place at some other time, but below are some photos of the chicks I mentioned.

Brazilians are super friendly and hospitable, and once you have an "in" by way of a friend, you are good as gold. That's the best way to get laid in Brazil, particularly with hot girls. Didn't cost us anything. These girls also worked as event caterers for Rio's soap opera elites in Leblon. They looked good and knew how to have a good time.

If you want an idea of how great a place for brothers Rio is, enter "Lorenzo Ramos" on youtube. A Brazilian chick I used to date LOVED him and the telenovela (soap opera) show he was on. There's a couple of youtube clips of him making out with some SMOKING babes of the "opposite race." You don't really see that with black actors in the States.

I've been to other Latin American countries, namely Colombia and Argentina, but I was moving fast in Colombia and was traveling with a Swiss chick, which had me seriously distracted. I'll post her pics below, so you can judge whether I had good cause, but I can't really speak on Colombia. I have met Colombian expats in Canada and the US, though, and they are amazing. Warm and friendly just like Brazilians. I think having an "in" gives you much better options.

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(11-27-2011 07:48 AM)playa_with_a_passport Wrote:  
(11-26-2011 08:55 PM)rhodey Wrote:  
(11-26-2011 08:18 PM)Hencredible Casanova Wrote:  First of all, I really disagree with all of this talk about race. It's not a matter of race, and to the extent that it is, it has more to do with money. I'm an American who happens to be black, and most men from my country who travel abroad for leisure, or business for that matter, happen to be white. I think that's true for Europeans as well. I have traveled all over South America and in a few Central American countries, North Africa, the Middle East, Europe, and North America. I didn't find my race and dark skin to be an impediment to getting laid at all.

In the case of Latin America, I think language is critical. If you can speak Spanish, or Portuguese in the case of Brazil, I can't even begin to tell you how much of a leap that is. You will do very well with your foreigner status and language ability. Language is power.

My favorite countries in Latin America, as far as women are concerned, were Panama, Colombia, Argentina and Brazil. With the exception of Brazil, which I have visited on two separate occasions, and Panama, my excursions in Latin America were as a backpacker. In the case of Colombia, I spent most of my time getting it in with the Swiss girl I had been traveling with, and I breezed through the whole country in a matter of three weeks. That's not nearly enough time to really explore what the locals are like, especially since I covered Medellin, Bogota, Cartagena, and Cali in that short time, so I can't speak on how that country is for black men.

In the case of Ecuador, Peru and Chile, I'm personally not attracted to women from there and assumed that meant I would be hooking up with tourists from other parts of the world while taking in the sights, which I did.

Argentinian chicks are HOT but they tend to be hard to get in bed with. I spent only a month though between five cities (Mendoza, Cordoba, Rosario, Buenos Aires, and Puerto Iguazu). I had plenty of lays with tourists (especially Aussies), but no flags with the locals (I didn't end up hooking up with an Argentine chick until I got to Florianopolis, Brazil). I came close in Rosario with a SEXY blond haired, green eyed Argentine but as I was walking out of the club hand-in-hand her friends came downstairs and pulled a major cockblocking move.

Anyway, I had fun. I think in most cases, people might have their initial assumptions about you, as they would with most gringos, but when they find out who you are and where you're from, you become interesting. I've found that being black, if anything, has worked to my favor.

I've known plenty of white blond-haired guys who DID NOT get laid in South America, or nearly to the extent I did, because they just were beta types or whatever. I also have great friends who were white with blue eyes and blond hair and got laid PLENTY, but they were alpha types who would do well in most places. They used their exoticism in SA to their advantage. It wasn't like they all of a sudden started getting pussy out of nowhere.

I think there are certain places where there's a novelty to being black. From my experiences with Aussie chicks, I would imagine Australia would be high on that list. Unlike Nordic women, they are very sociable, bubbly and love to party hard. Can't beat that.

I think most places with beautiful women are open for black men. Just the fact that you would have the balls to go wherever you want for the love of it is a big advantage. One of the great gifts of traveling is that it brings us outside of our narrow-minded cultures to see a world that many of our brethren don't get to see. Embrace it and live up to it.

Yes Australia.....but I find that many countries that were colonized and majority nonwhite have a preference for whites over blacks. This includes DR, Brazil, Parts of Africa .

Sure you can get laid but in my experience the darker you are the harder you will have to work or come up with something that can compensate for your color.

It's like height. Women love tall dudes, sure shorter men will get laid but tall men have the advantage.... Any tall guy will admit that all things being equal , height will usually give you the leg up. When it comes to race, different story, and the reason for that is because is it's based on bullshit and brainwashing.

There is no reason why someone should see a reflection of themselves and have self hate. It's gotta be imposed from the outside. It's an artificial contruct with very REAL ramifications. Cats that have the advantage want to keep it, dudes that don't want to get it or atleast have a level playing field. Talking about it truthfully is the first step toward bringing things into balance, which explains why some want to talk about it and other don't.

I am Afro-latin(dark skinned) and speak fluent Spanish and I agree 100% with rhodey. Being fluent in Spanish(Portuguese is a different story) is not that big of an advantage in Latin America at least not for me. In fact most of my bangs happened when I pretended I spoke very little Spanish. Race is a huge deal in Latin America. Money and being American can mitigate some of this but a lot of girls will still not want nothing to do with you. If you are a Black expat then you might do a much better regardless of country because of social circle reasons.

@Cass, correct if I am wrong but from your report it sounds like most of the girls you were banging were Gringas. A bang is a bang, however, fucking hostel sluts is not difficult at all. Some of them will fuck anything with a pulse regardless of race. Therefore, that's not a good barometer of race relations. How well did you do with the local girls? That's the only stat that really matters.

But enough about traveling while Black in Latin America, this has been discussed to death here. Tells us about your expires in the Middle East and North Africa. Can you whip out a quick data sheet on them, those are places we don't hear too much about in the forum.

Yeah, in most Spanish-speaking countries, save for Panama, I banged gringas. The main reason was time and efficiency. Also, I had no interest in locals from Peru, Ecuador, or Chile, as I don't find women there attractive. I only spent a week in Ecuador and a week in Chile, so that's why I was banging gringas, mostly Aussies.

I spent two and half weeks in Peru, but much of that was sightseeing and traveling the country by bus, staying in hostels. I had no interest in the local chicks so I didn't bother pursuing them.

I spent a month in Argentina between five cities, and I found the locals very attractive, but chicks there are difficult regardless. I found I had the same problems as any other man. I came close to banging a local in Rosario. We were both hella drunk, and she was hot, but as we were heading for the door, hand in hand, her friends randomly came down the stairs in front of us and prevented me from meeting success.

I would really need a proper amount of time to gain better insights about race and how my race would affect my chances with locals. I found that race in my experience was seldom an issue because, for the most part, there is no tradition of black men going to South America, save for Rio de Janeiro. In the six months I spent backpacking across the continent, I never saw a black guy (even in touristy places like Machu Picchu, etc) until I went to Rio. Those dudes were not travelers like me. They all seemed to be there for one thing. My experience was like that of any similarly situated traveler.

In Panama and Brazil, I banged locals. I have a post in the Florianopolis thread with a pic of me and some local talent. I felt race was not an issue at all in Brazil, even in the predominately white South. I just introduced myself, talked about my adventures, and it was all good. Girls were really floored and impressed by my story. Not everyday you meet a dark man who's been traveling the world and gaining amazing experiences. They loved it and usually had many questions about what I saw and which place was my favorite. The conversation starters I had were endless. In Brazil, I had some friends who lived down there from the US too, and unlike the other countries in South America, I did not stay in hostels in Brazil (or Panama). I spent all my time with friends who lived there or Couchsurfing (in places like Curitiba, and Bahia for Carnaval). Though I went to Colombia, where the women are attractive, I was only there for three weeks and passed through 5 cities, so that wasn't really any time to delve into the local culture. Staying in a place for more than two weeks is practically necessary for most South American cities. The longer the time, the better. I had just been introduced to backpacking for the first time when I went to Colombia in October 2009, having traveled there with a girl I met in Panama.

As for Brazil and Panama, they were both just normal places. I spent nearly two months in Panama, and all of that time was split between Bocas Del Toro and Panama City. I stayed in my own beach house in Bocas, which was baller. It was on an island with no roads. Of course that made it super easy to bang locals. I was living large down there. Panama City was so familiar in that it's been shaped by US culture in so many ways. The typical girl has some level of African ancestry and it's a city that's ripe for pickup game. I didn't find that my race was a detriment to my chances of success at all. Panama is so open for gringos, especially Americans, and it's a multi-colored nation.

Brazil is unique in that it's probably the country where I've felt the least stigma about race of any place in the world. I felt money was much more of an issue down there.
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@Cass, you have my full attention now.

What part of Panama were you chilling at? Panama city or Colon? I agree with you on Ecuador, most chicks there were just not doing it for me. However, there was still some pockets of cute girls in Cuenca and Guayaquil and in Peru I was actually pleasantly surprised by the talent that I saw in Peru and Mancora. In all the above places, I consistently saw even White guys way past their prime getting dimes with little to no effort. Can't even hate even if I wanted to.

Can you drop some knowledge on North Africa and Middle East?
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(11-27-2011 09:44 AM)playa_with_a_passport Wrote:  @Cass, you have my full attention now.

What part of Panama were you chilling at? Panama city or Colon? I agree with you on Ecuador, most chicks there were just not doing it for me. However, there was still some pockets of cute girls in Cuenca and Guayaquil and in Peru I was actually pleasantly surprised by the talent that I saw in Peru and Mancora. In all the above places, I consistently saw even White guys way past their prime getting dimes with little to no effort. Can't even hate even if I wanted to.

Can you drop some knowledge on North Africa and Middle East?

My time in Panama was split exclusively between Bocas del Toro (a paradisaical island archipelago near the Costa Rican border) and la ciudad de Panama (the capital). Colon has a very dangerous reputation, with one of the highest crime rates in Latin America. I've never heard of anyone going there, and its unemployment rate is scarily high (I've heard over 60%). I can't imagine it being a place worthwhile for picking up chicks.

As for P-City, it was really developed, which surprised me coming from Bocas. There are many great spots to pickup chicks. Via Argentina is a long street that is chockful of restaurants and coffee shops (ideal for day game). Though it is said that P-City is the "Miami of the South" and that English is fairly common, speaking at least some Spanish is recommended. It will definitely help with the hotter chicks. There's a coffee shop called New York Bagel Cafe that, despite the name, really goes off. On weekends they have a DJ (a friend of mine) who plays chill lounge music. Lots of chicks and expats patronize that spot.

I also recommend visiting the University of Panama, a place where I would go to workout. There were lots of chicks in plain view exercising in aerobics type classes, etc. It's a great place to find a chick who's not a slut, but not a virgin, as my friend would always say. Plenty of game opportunities and a higher likelihood of finding English-speaking girls.

Via Espana has a big club close to the intersection with Via Argentina. The name escapes me but you can't miss it. There are Colombian hookers there that are cheap if p4p is your kind of thing.

Calle Uruguay is one of the main nightlife areas of Panama City. Loads of girls. It has dressy kind of venues, similar to going to good clubs in Miami or NYC, it's best to do it up peacock style. Anyone who is good at standing out and playing that club role should do well. Knowing at least some conversational Spanish is quite helpful.

There are also good hotel bars, Intercontinental was popular when I was there, as well as Casino hotels downtown. There's now a recently opened Trump property that's probably worth checking out.

Then there's the area called causeway, which is literally a causeway that goes into a newer and more posh area of Panama City that is virtually a twin of South Beach. It's indistinguishable from the wealthy areas of Miami or Los Angeles. There's a great clubbing area there called Zona Viva (http://zonavivapanamacity.com/).

Panama City is one of my favorite cities in Latin America. It's probably the city I could actually see myself living in long-term. There's plenty of info about this, especially how P-City is becoming a retirement haven.

As for Ecuador, I was only in Quito and this recreational city known for thermal springs called Banos. I did hear about the Afro-Ecuadorian presence on the coast, especially in Esmeraldas. I didn't peep Cuenca or Guayaquil, but Ecuador was where I made the decision to attempt to backpack across South America, all the way the to Brazil (with fingers crossed). It was a spontaneous decision after I had went to Colombia on a whim and decided to abandon my return flight to Panama. As I was trying to conserve my budget, I wanted to make sure I had more than enough to really enjoy the countries with hot chicks, namely Argentina and Brazil, so I just breezed through the countries overland on the way because 1) it was cheaper and 2) I genuinely wanted to visit those countries for cultural and personal reasons, as I have many friends from all over South America back in the US.

In Peru, I actually did visit Mancora, but my whole time was spent exclusively in a gringo enclave called Loki Hostel. It was actually really nice and modeled after a resort, with white stucco architecture reminiscent of something out of Greece. I ran through hella gringas there, and the hostel was all-inclusive. Despite being like $10 a night, it was beachfront property with a swimming pool w/ volleyball nets, table tennis, a bar, etc. I would have never known there were locals. The road in front of the hostel was the Pan-American Highway, but I only ventured out to a few nearby restaurants. I couldn't tell you anything about locals.

The most contact I had with locals in Peru was Cusco, but the women looked very indigenous, which isn't my thing personally.

I wish I knew about Couchsurfing earlier so that I may have tried to get to know locals in Ecuador and Peru, as well as Colombia, instead of staying in hostels. My first CS experience was in Santiago, Chile and it was incredible.

As for North Africa and the Middle East, the girls in Tunisia are quite pretty, but there's no culture of promiscuity and North Africa is predominately Muslim and, as a result, quite conservative. There's also a cult of virginity and most people, I suspect, don't have sex until they get married. There also isn't an abundance of bars or social meeting points to hookup with women (the extent varies from country to country). The caveat to this are the countries of Lebanon, Turkey, and Israel. I found Lebanese women to be the most beautiful. At least 40% of the population there is Christian and there are loads of bars full of hot chicks. They tend to be materialistic, but they do have interest in brothers. I actually know a brother in DC who married one and she was one of the most beautiful women most men have ever seen. She actually had some Sierra Leonan (West African) lineage because her father's father had married a woman there (lots of Lebanese folks in West Africa). Mixing with other races and people is very common among Lebanese. The one night stand hookup culture seems to be nonexistent, though, and I was only in Beirut for five days, but it's a place I recommend visiting. I got the sense that girls there would be great girlfriend material and would like to get to know you a bit before they give it up. I also heard from a chick there who attended American University of Beirut that the girls at her school were faithful in their relationships. At any rate, the best neighborhoods for seeing these sexy chicks are Hamra and Gemayyez.

Tel Aviv has lots of hot chicks. Israelis are generally aloof, however, and less personable than Arabs. Despite that, it is the only real democracy and the most open country in the Middle East, security measures notwithstanding. The few black men around are typically basketball players, and they do very well. I had an American Jewish friend studying there and I was lucky to be there for Israel's Independence Day celebrations because there was obviously lots of drinking and partying going down. I went to an epic party and, like South America, was good to go after my boy introduced me to people there. I got a flag on my third night in the country, though I wasn't even there for pickup purposes. I was actually there to do work, which was why I was in North Africa and the Middle East.

Istanbul is ridiculous! That's one of my favorite cities in the world. I was only there for a weekend, but I had a great time. I hooked up with a decent blond American chick who was living there, so I can't speak on the local culture, but there are tons of women in Turkey. All the nightlife is centered in the Taksim area. It's huge and overwhelming. Lots of bars and clubs. Just go there. That's all I can say. Aside from that, Istanbul is just amazing for many other reasons. Lots of culture, history, great food, and architecture. It's an incredible place for romance if that's your thing.

Below is a pic of me with one of my most successful pua comrades, Kent, when we were both in Beirut. I met him at a hostel in Valparaiso, Chile and we continued traveling together, on and off, in Argentina and Brazil. He was ALWAYS with a different girl, but they were all over the spectrum, from bodyless chicks with braces to legitimate 7s and 8s. He actually created a "love-child" in Chile, inadvertently, who he now supports. Crazy dude. We hung out again when I was in his hometown of London visiting, and again when, coincidentally, we were both in Beirut at the same time (me for work, him for a wedding for relatives of George W. Bush--American groom, Lebanese bride). He was flagless there, as was I, but Beirut still undoubtedly warrants a visit.

I wasn't there during the summer, but apparently there are women from all over the Lebanese diaspora that return to visit then. There are more Lebanese people outside of Lebanon than inside the country. There are many in places like Brazil, USA, France, UK, etc. Those chicks, presumably, are relatively much more liberal and just as hot. I would recommend going during the summer.

I always think about Kent when I read these threads about how white guys do well in South America or wherever. He does well because he's just a savage with his. He's smashed chicks from so many countries and races. He goes out and makes approaches and has an innate wit that helps him tremendously. I believe most people are fundamentally the same and it's important to go out there and make things happen instead of excuses. Confidence and persistence is key, and fortune favors the bold.
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(04-29-2010 12:23 PM)Global Baller Wrote:  Reality is a Black guy will likely receive different (good or bad) treatment from women than a white guy worldwide. Where do Black guys get the best reception from ladies???

I had a wonderful time in Brazil, and just about any other place I've been where I found the women attractive. I have so many good experiences.

Aside from pipelining, standard approaches in clubs, day game, etc, it really helps to have a local friend in Latin America, especially countries like Brazil and Colombia. I can't overstate that. Friendship in those countries has an entirely different notion. Once you've been introduced to someone in Brazil, you automatically become that person's "friend." They don't have that separation of association that we in the north commonly employ (i.e. work colleague, gym friend, etc).

I'm a brother (of Eritrean parentage) raised in the US, and my first trip to South America was in 2008, at the ripe old age of 25. I took a week off from my work vacay time and flew from DC to Rio, which is the only city I visited on that trip. My travel companion, Jon, was one of my best friends, a cool half Japanese/Italian cat from Cali. We stayed with a friend, Craig, in Rio, who was in his mid-thirties. Craig was a brotha from Cali who had paid his dues by working corporate at Jetblue's HQ in Long Beach, and making a killing by selling wholesale antiques on E-Bay at the time the website was beginning to gain traction among the public. His online business took off and he was able to quit his day job and eventually reach a point to where he could work remotely from wherever he wished. He decided to spend most of the year in Rio, only flying back every six months to renew his visa and attend to business matters stateside. Craig lived in a choice secured apartment building just three blocks inland from Ipanema Beach. It was so clutch. The best thing about it, though, was the number of hot chicks who lived in his building. Being sociable as Cariocas are, he knew all of them. So when me and Jon got to Rio we already had cute babes lined up to hang out and have sex with. By the first night, we were already making out with them, and over the course of the next couple of days, we hooked up and took turns with them. It was great because, despite being November, Rio was almost like a ghost town, believe it or not. I had visions on my way down there of a scene akin to that Snoop Dogg and Pharrell video, but it was nothing like that. The beach was deserted and it was overcast and somewhat chilly outside. I did make it to Club Help, but the only chicks there were p4p, which I did indulge in at an EPIC gentleman's club called Centaurus. I'll describe that place at some other time, but below are some photos of the chicks I mentioned.

Brazilians are super friendly and hospitable, and once you have an "in" by way of a friend, you are good as gold. That's the best way to get laid in Brazil, particularly with hot girls. Didn't cost us anything. These girls also worked as event caterers for Rio's soap opera elites in Leblon. They looked good and knew how to have a good time.

If you want an idea of how great a place for brothers Rio is, enter "Lorenzo Ramos" on youtube. A Brazilian chick I used to date LOVED him and the telenovela (soap opera) show he was on. There's a couple of youtube clips of him making out with some SMOKING babes of the "opposite race." You don't really see that with black actors in the States.

I've been to other Latin American countries, namely Colombia and Argentina, but I was moving fast in Colombia and was traveling with a Swiss chick, which had me seriously distracted. I'll post her pics below, so you can judge whether I had good cause, but I can't really speak on Colombia. I have met Colombian expats in Canada and the US, though, and they are amazing. Warm and friendly just like Brazilians. I think having an "in" gives you much better options.

I'm sorry for getting the name wrong, but the Afro-Brazilian telenovela star I was alluding to isn't "Lorenzo Ramos" but "Lazaro Ramos." Now that I have over 10 posts, I can submit links, so here it is: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfegyzbm2...re=related
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(11-27-2011 12:18 PM)rudebwoy Wrote:  H Cassanova - welcome to the board and you have come hard with some nice intel. You have highlighted how social circle and known the local language can make your travel experience alot different.

Thanks for welcoming me into the group, and many thanks for the positive reputation ratings. I'll try to be as thorough as possible on here.

One country I forgot to mention was Morocco. I was there really fast, just a week between four cities, but there are lots of p4p opportunities and possibly some hookup potential. The cities that you want to focus on are Tangier, Casablanca, and Marrakesh.

The women, first of all, are quite attractive. They bear an uncanny resemblance to many women from countries such as Puerto Rico, Dominican Republic, and Brazil. They have a naturally mixed look as well, with curly hair being prevalent. Also, similar to Tunisia and Lebanon, many women choose to go uncovered by not wearing the "hijab" or "burqa." That's really refreshing from a western male perspective.

Tangier is, by far, the most liberal of Moroccan cities. It's on the Mediterranean coast, just 20 minutes south of Spain by ferry, near the island and UK territory of Gibraltar. Tangier was long an outpost for American Navymen during WWII, so it's developed a seedy reputation. It's also a crossroads of West and East, North and South, much like Istanbul and Beirut in a sense. I only had a short stay there while awaiting a flight to Tunisia, but within an hour I was approached by a hooker at a bar who was reasonably attractive. I wish I got to see the city during the day, but even in my very brief visit, the city's liberal feel was palpable. There are also many casinos and bars throughout the city. Being close to Spain, many people, including most cab drivers, speak Spanish, as well as Arabic and French, if not English. The rest of Morocco speaks, by default, Arabic and French, with Spanish and English being less common. Tangier is a place I would visit again and spend more time if given the opportunity.

Casablanca is the biggest city in Morocco and in the Maghreb region of North Africa. The Maghreb refers to all of North Africa, except Egypt (Libya, Morocco, Algeria, Tunisia, and, in some definitions, Mauritania).

Casablanca is very liberal and cosmopolitan. It feels like an outpost of France instead of an Arab city (signs in French throughout the city and broad boulevards ubiquitous with cafes). I didn't spend more than a couple of days there. There's not a whole lot to do for a tourist, and many people just use it as a transit point to get to other areas, but there are bars and clubs where you can find girls, and probably success.

Moroccans are among the least nationalistic people in all of Africa. They are very open to the rest of the world. This has long been a key characteristic of the country, owing to its geographical location on the Atlantic and Mediterranean, and proximity to Europe. Morocco was actually the first country in the world to recognize the independence of the United States, and both countries have enjoyed warm relations ever since. It's a very safe country for travel, and they really do respect brothers there. In the Muslim world, generally, there's something about the religion that sees all men as being brothers, in a sense, especially in North Africa. There are many black Muslims from Sub-Saharan Africa that live and travel all throughout the region, so being black isn't an uninviting experience at all.

Marrakesh is a city well-known for its main square, the largest of its kind in Africa, and possibly the world. For those who are adventurous types and want a city with the feel of Aladdin, Marrakesh is your place. Full of snake charmers, donkey carts, bewildering sounds and colors, hectic pace, and maze-like streets, it is a famous world travel destination.

The city is divided into two parts, the old quarters and the modern city. The modern city is full of American-style fast food restaurants and nightlife. There's a reggae club called Mama Africa and, next to it, there's this great live music venue, though I can't recall the name. Anyway, the chicks there were BAD. I couldn't believe I was in a Muslim country. They were dressed like chicks in Brazil, and they looked sexy. However, it was crowded and loungy and it wasn't a pickup type of place. However, for those with the curiosity to explore, I recommend it as the women are definitely legit.

Going back to my last post, I want to drop some info on Beirut again. The New York Times said it was the best place in the world to visit in 2009. Marrakesh also featured on their list for 2010 somewhere in the top ten.

Lonely Planet mentioned Beirut as being one of the ten liveliest cities in the world in 2009.

Back to South America, yes, language and social circle helps exponentially. But don't let the lack of language ability deter you from trying. I didn't speak ANY Portuguese during my first trip to Brazil, but I made an attempt to learn, and that was appreciated by the local chicks there. Cats gotta start somewhere. The key is effort.

I want to post a couple of links about Brazil, one of which I already posted, but cats may have missed it. Again, here is Lazaro (not Lorenzo) Ramos of Brazilian soap opera fame demonstrating the more liberal attitudes about interracial mixing that Brazil is famous for: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=sfegyzbm2...re=related

Also, here is some footage from Florianopolis, the most ideal city in Brazil to find white girls with BAD bodies: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jx0kCrD7QRA

One last thing I want to mention is Centaurus, an elite gentleman's club in Rio de Janeiro. Prior to Centauraus, I had never paid for sex in my life, vowing I never would. Apparently though, as I would come to find out years later, paying for sex is pretty common in Latin America, I suppose, due to the poverty and extreme social inequality.

Centaurus, though, was visited during my first trip to Rio in 2008. A good friend of mine from Atlanta told me about it and said he didn't even want to hear about my trip unless I went. He's been around the world and travels plush, plus I respected his judgment and taste, having learned about some of his exploits. It also turned out that Askmen.com or some similar source rated it as the number 2. brothel in the world, only behind one in Frankfurt, Germany.

At any rate, after smashing some locals and wanting to get at something new during my 10-day trip, I decided to finally venture out to Centaurus. I almost wasn't going to go in spite of my boy's recommendation, but the beach scene was absolutely dead and the weather in Rio was atypical. So as luck would have it, I made the trip. Centaurus was actually conveniently located in the same Ipanema neighborhood by my host's place, so it was just a short cab ride away. Upon entering the building, I paid the cover fee to enter, which I have trouble remembering, but I want to say it was somewhere around $200. They actually accepted credit cards (the first and last time I paid for pussy with a credit card), which I found hilarious, and the date I was actually billed turned out to be a day when the exchange rate was more favorable to me, so I paid less than I would have if I paid in cash that day. I think it was somewhere around $175 for the entrance fee. Afterwards, they handed me a plastic bag that included a fresh robe and sandals, a locker key, and handed me a card which I would use to purchase drinks if I wanted to. The drinks would be rung up on the card, and when I was ready to exit they would add on the charges to my bill (on top of the entrance fee).

I then proceeded to the locker room to change into the robe and store my clothes and valuables away. Now my boy hyped me up by saying there would be women accosting me and stripping me down like the scene from Rush Hour, but it was nothing like that. Maybe it was that way for him, but I went into the locker room only to find two women sitting a few feet away watching me undress. I changed into my robe and sandals, and had the choice of walking upstairs into either of the two bars (one main bar where all the chicks were or a "sports bar" where I could relax and watch TV and order drinks) or I could proceed into the steam room, swimming pool, shower room or sauna on the main level. I chose to take a cold shower to mentally prepare myself and then just sat in the steam room among several other men. No one spoke to each other. We were just sitting there anonymous in our identical white robes and white sandals. After a good 30 minutes, I felt ready to go upstairs. I first lounged in the sports bar for a few minutes and then walked into the main bar.

Immediately after entering the main bar, I couldn't believe what my eyes were seeing. I was in the company of the most beautiful women I had ever seen in one place. It was life changing. There were blonds, brunettes, morenas, blancas, negras, and everything in between. It was really a full display of the striking diversity represented in Brazil. Immediately, two blond Brazilian women approached me and asked me where I was from. Before I could answer, they said "Washington or Atlanta?" I thought that was funny. The music that was playing was straight hip-hop and occasional house. Jay-Z was playing as I walked in. The men there were all wearing the same robes and sandals, and I soon learned they were jetsetters and execs from Russia, France, Mexico, all over. I decided to have a seat because I definitely needed one. The entry fee I paid meant that I could have any girl in the room for 45 minutes in a room. I looked around and immediately knew the one I wanted to move on. She was a long-haired brunette with a smoking body and gorgeous face. She was actually a law student from the nearby Jesuit private law school, and spoke conversational English. She was well versed in a lot of topics, and I actually liked her. I decided to get us some drinks and she proceeded to tell me about herself and about the women there. Looking around, I had doubts about whether I had made the "best" choice. There were so many women that could get it! Actually, one could arrange for a threesome, but that would require a doubling of the entrance fee, and I wasn't prepared to pay that much more for pussy, though I wouldn't knock anyone for doing it considering the quality of women all throughout. I was on a budget, though. I ordered her some vodka and soda, while I had a few Red Bull Vodkas. After about an hour of just chillin out and listening to cool music, I felt like I was living like a king in Ancient Rome. It was so surreal. I really wished I had all of my boys from home with me, but, alas, it's never ideal like that huh?

I eventually was ready to seal the deal and let the girl know. She escorted me out of the room, down a hallway and into an immaculate room with intriguing lighting and furniture. It was so clean and aesthetically appealing. She told me to lie down on the bed and relax. She brought out a condom and sucked it onto my dick! I've never been with a girl so talented with her mouth. After a few minutes of getting head with the rubber on, of course, I proceeded to have sex with her. I used up all the time and finished, and returned to the bar afterwards to have another drink before I left. I went downstairs, changed into my clothes and settled the final bill with the folks at the desk. It was easily one of the best experiences of my life.

What's funny is that after my experience, I returned to my host's place and he had some company, local Cariocas. When they learned about where I was just at, they all clapped and dapped me up. Most of them had always wanted to go or had gone at some point. It's the most sought after experience among many men in Rio. Also, the local girls me and my friend were hanging out with met up with us again that night to go clubbing, and they playfully teased me about it, but not in that "you're creepy or gross" kind of way how I would imagine many American chicks would react. That was pretty refreshing to hear considering it was my first time doing such a thing.

Interestingly enough, in spite of my high praise for Centaurus, I didn't go during my second trip to Brazil in 2010, which came at the tail end of that months-long backpacking adventure across South America. I guess my outlook and values were different at that time, not to mention my budget.

Nonetheless, I encourage anyone with the means and interest to go as it's totally worth it for the experience.
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Dude, I'm not a P4P type of guy at all, but after reading your Centaurus story I just may have to swing through for the experience next time I'm in Rio. The reality is, I'll probably never bang a perfect 10 of model quality in my life unless I pay for it. And it would be sad to die one day knowing I never did. I also think it's awesome how the girls in Latin America(and most places outside the Anglosphere) have a more relaxed attitude about this stuff. I've had American girls tell me that if they knew a guy had ever P4Ped, it would be a deal-breaker, even if it was a long time ago and he was a decent guy.

Also, never heard of the brotha in the novelas. I saw a few of his clips, they would never put a black man in racy scenes on American network TV, and even then only if it was with a black woman. This would NOT happen here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4dv9qj6J...re=related
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Im new to this site, my flags are Brasil, Hungary and Hungarian gypises, Colombia, DR, PR, Japan, Thai, Aussie, Mexican, ethiopian and Brit...my exerances you need to find the niche...me Im the life of the party type. latin america= I slide the bouncer and DJ some money..I can dance so the DJ needs to be on track with me some (american R&B and Hip hop). you need to out dress the best dressed there(nice slacks button ups no chains ect..)...smile be aprochable....if you know spanish fluntly...hold back, look some what puzzled mess up. let them help you with your spanish ,dont over drink also buzzed does it. you'll pull em left and right....Japan and Thai= dress down, a polo or tee shirt depening on the club,some are looking for hip hop style but that is slowly going away out there. they smile you got them...10 min your out to ez. hungary was harder didnt know the language to well hello is about it. they stare at you dancing help me land 2 from there...personaly I like the Gypises better not much into blondes. but wont pass em up at the same time..lol hope this helps....
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(11-27-2011 05:15 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  Dude, I'm not a P4P type of guy at all, but after reading your Centaurus story I just may have to swing through for the experience next time I'm in Rio. The reality is, I'll probably never bang a perfect 10 of model quality in my life unless I pay for it. And it would be sad to die one day knowing I never did. I also think it's awesome how the girls in Latin America(and most places outside the Anglosphere) have a more relaxed attitude about this stuff. I've had American girls tell me that if they knew a guy had ever P4Ped, it would be a deal-breaker, even if it was a long time ago and he was a decent guy.

Also, never heard of the brotha in the novelas. I saw a few of his clips, they would never put a black man in racy scenes on American network TV, and even then only if it was with a black woman. This would NOT happen here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h4dv9qj6J...re=related

Yeah, that's a good point about banging a perfect chick. That's precisely why I recommend Centaurus at least once.

Latin America is definitely open to brothers, as my experiences and that of other men I know confirm.

Beirut (Lebanon) is also a winner. The women are simply beautiful. Like Venezuela, they have had a quite a few ladies rank high in the Miss Universe contests, sometimes winning them altogether.

Some of you may be familiar with the African-American writer and TV host, Toure, most notably of Vibe Magazine fame. He married a Lebanese woman, in a wedding ceremony that was covered by The New York Times: http://www.nytimes.com/2005/03/27/fashio...7vows.html

Elsewhere in the Arab world, as I've said, there are fine women, but the cultures there tend to be "game killers." It definitely helps to post up for a while if you want to move forward with a chick. Also, the university crowd is key. Depending on how you work it plus a bit of luck, you could find success quickly. University chicks tend to be far more liberal and westernized, often having studied and/or lived in the West. However, the group of them that are truly living like their counterparts in Europe and the US tend to be niche, so it might take some detective work (time) to find your gems. I saw an Algerian girl (see pics below) when I was in London who had spent her whole life in Algeria (all through graduate school). She didn't move to Europe until her late 20s, but she showed me the pics of her and her friends back in Algeria, and they got it IN. They would have wild parties full of alcohol and chicks dressed like they were in South America (and they actually looked Latin). Her parents happened to be academics so they had a much more liberal take on life than the average Algerian. Much of North Africa is full of similar people. Though I was in Morocco for just a week, I met a university chick there who was a virgin (supposedly) and sincerely said she wanted to wait until marriage and would marry me if I converted to Islam lol. I'll post her pic below the one with me and my Algerian gf. She's cute, but not THAT cute...

One of my favorite Arab "habibtis" in the game is Jordan's Queen Rania, which I had heard much about prior to visiting Jordan. Now, if she had made the same offer as Moroccan girl, then maybe I'd have to consider Smile She's so wifeable: https://www.google.com/search?q=Queen+Ra...80&bih=671

Her fluency in English is impeccable. You can find plenty of her interviews on YouTube.

The pics of me and my Algerian chick are kinda blurry, so I have one with her solo to get you an idea. She's got some nice ta ta's, eh? The Moroccan girl is on the skinny side, though a total sweetheart.
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You know man, I've actually met several Algeria women from France before and they could pass for mulattas. They had a caramel skin tone and that wild frizzy hair. That's one of my favorite looks. Did most Algerian women look like that?
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