(07-26-2015 01:56 PM)swuglyfe Wrote:  Change your search distance up one mile then back down. This will cause your profile to update and pull a new set of matches. Note that before the latest update this would pull the most recent matches, it no longer does this. It now pulls a variety of matches and sorts them by distance close to far, but they could be active hours ago and the next match 4 down could be 0 minutes ago.

The 0 minutes ones always make me think that it's a sex bot. Any minute now, the message with the camgirl website could pop up.

Got my first Tinder date! Afternoon coffee date which I hate and will likely go nowhere but she says she doesn't drink.

Says she's a yoga teacher and photographer, which in this town means "I divorce raped my rich husband." These loaded divorcees use the money to set themselves up in some pretentious, status seeking business and act like it's a real business and they have real talent when it's really just a way to show off to their rich friends. But whatever-her artsy photos of her in yoga poses show her to have a fine body. Definitely bangable.

I'm a total fish out of water on alcohol-free dates though; I never know what to do to move the date toward sex . My normal procedures are disrupted. I will just have to try to improvise and overcome and hope that she's horny.

Tinder girls seem to unmatch almost randomly and sometimes for no reason. Sent an opener to a girl and she replied with "match! " then just unmatched

I'm flirting with an ugly girl to practice my tinder game and she unmatched randomly too. Odd.

Two girls messaged me first then stopped responding after my reply.

this app doesn't make sense

(07-26-2015 10:58 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Tinder girls seem to unmatch almost randomly and sometimes for no reason. Sent an opener to a girl and she replied with "match! " then just unmatched

I'm flirting with an ugly girl to practice my tinder game and she unmatched randomly too. Odd.

Two girls messaged me first then stopped responding after my reply.

this app doesn't make sense

Happens to all of us man. The app is nonsensical and not worthy of attention, but guys stick with it because it's a nonsensical app attached to the intermittent reinforcement of occasionally willing vaginas. Try not to take it seriously, and think of anything you get off it is a bonus.

Tinder's marketing slogan should be, "Tinder: completely retarded, but you will get laid juuuust enough not to quit."

(07-26-2015 10:58 PM)Valhalla Wrote:  Tinder girls seem to unmatch almost randomly and sometimes for no reason. Sent an opener to a girl and she replied with "match! " then just unmatched

I'm flirting with an ugly girl to practice my tinder game and she unmatched randomly too. Odd.

Two girls messaged me first then stopped responding after my reply.

this app doesn't make sense

Had one do that a couple of days ago. I can't even tell if she was a bot or not.

Then there are these weird matches where it initially says they're a couple of miles from me, but when I check later, it says they're a 1K or so miles away. Wtf?

(07-27-2015 03:12 AM)Seboist Wrote:  Then there are these weird matches where it initially says they're a couple of miles from me, but when I check later, it says they're a 1K or so miles away. Wtf?

Lol that's nothing, I've had a few where I check later and they're more than 1000kms away. Girls will use it when they're bored and looking for validation, including at airports when they're leaving the country.

(07-27-2015 04:22 AM)Phoenix Wrote:  

(07-27-2015 03:12 AM)Seboist Wrote:  Then there are these weird matches where it initially says they're a couple of miles from me, but when I check later, it says they're a 1K or so miles away. Wtf?

Lol that's nothing, I've had a few where I check later and they're more than 1000kms away. Girls will use it when they're bored and looking for validation, including at airports when they're leaving the country.

This happened quite a bit when I lived in Atlanta (when I did get any matches anyway), home of the world's busiest airport. That's probably why my buddies set their search radii so the airport was excluded.

(07-27-2015 06:06 AM)262 Wrote:  This happened quite a bit when I lived in Atlanta (when I did get any matches anyway), home of the world's busiest airport. That's probably why my buddies set their search radii so the airport was excluded.

This tool takes all the manual work out of it:
http://www.freemaptools.com/radius-around-point.htm

Also handy when you want to get an idea where a semi-distant match is based.

Hey guys!
I've began to use Tinder recently, and the quality is normally good, there are many solid 7s, a few 8s, etc.
The problem is, when a match with a chick is confirmed, I receive an automated message from her after the match, that happened with many chicks, the message seems to be created automatically, in which she says things like I'm waiting for you in bed, I'm bored, etc.
And this message was literally the same from many girls.
Is this how Tinder works, or I'm only receiving matches from sluts?!

You know Tinder is bad when girls start using automated replies, like in Adult Friend Finder.

(07-27-2015 08:02 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  You know Tinder is bad when girls start using automated replies, like in Adult Friend Finder.

Yeah exactly like that, although some of them really looked great and have cool pictures and one would think they are just normal girls wanting to get to know you, even a ONS, but these seem to be doing paid ONS or such.

(07-27-2015 07:57 PM)Katdogbirdduck Wrote:  Hey guys!
I've began to use Tinder recently, and the quality is normally good, there are many solid 7s, a few 8s, etc.
The problem is, when a match with a chick is confirmed, I receive an automated message from her after the match, that happened with many chicks, the message seems to be created automatically, in which she says things like I'm waiting for you in bed, I'm bored, etc.
And this message was literally the same from many girls.
Is this how Tinder works, or I'm only receiving matches from sluts?!

These are probably bots that will eventually send you a link to some website.

Is the fake GPS app available for iPhone? Can't seem to get it working

Had my 8th and 9th tinder bang last week. All first meet bangs with the girls coming over to my place.

First chick i matched over a month ago on tinder. Long story short kept in contact with her over snapchat here and there. Ended up coming over late at night and pounded her out for a good 45 mins. 22 year old that looked younger (18-19), was quite easy. I'd say around an 8/10. Was def good times and she worked it quite good. One of my better lays then i threw her in a uber and she was on her way. Havnt heard from her since (besides texting on her way home). She was 30 mins away.

Last chick i banged was on Friday, chick ended up taking a taxi to my place. Chilled watched a movie for about 20 mins then made my move. No resistance and we were banging quite quick (probably in another 20 mins). Pounded her out for a good hour and a half or so. Probably about 5-6 diff positions. Everytime i hit it shes like "oh shit". Sucked a mean dick had juicy ass lips. fit body and nice face. My first girl really of non-white race lol But was quite impressed. The way she sucked my balls made my back arch i couldnt even take it. Literally had to tell her to stop after 2-3 secs each time. Ended up throwing her in an uber home. Best part is she paid both ways. Chick sent me a text following morning...



Then yesterday she asked me when we were going to chill again and to "let her know if i can this week or something". She's 20.

I also have plans with about 2-3 more girls for this week. Two seem quite keen. The other i think may flop. I had plans with about 4 chicks for Wednesday but going to a baseball game now.

I bet this was asked here before but I wonder if you are using any specific openers online?

Just got a confirmation text from a blonde, big tit, milf nurse that we're on for drinks tomorrow. She's coming off a long string of days and told me she's ready for some serious drinking. I better buckle my seatbelt!

My first foray into Tinder. Got a dozen matches in 24-hrs (ran out of fresh meat to swipe within an hour!).

Lets see what we can get out of this miserable lot! Will post updates.

I wish a lot of the successful or semi-successful Tinderers on here would post their profile photos, eyes or face blacked out, so us not so successful guys could know what works and what doesn't and act accordingly. It might be too much to ask, but after all this is an entirely visual medium, so that is the only useful data/advice.

@civpro its all in the quality of the photos. I don't have a 100+ matches but I've had a few quality ones. At the moment I'm thinking about starting over. I went through my match cue and deleted a few last night. I think the challenge for me is getting these girls out. Girls that are down are more likely to give their number out after 4/5 messages. The others are seeking attention.

(07-28-2015 03:18 PM)civpro Wrote:  I wish a lot of the successful or semi-successful Tinderers on here would post their profile photos, eyes or face blacked out, so us not so successful guys could know what works and what doesn't and act accordingly. It might be too much to ask, but after all this is an entirely visual medium, so that is the only useful data/advice.

In my research through the threads, I found that there seems to be a consensus of a a few necessary photos. At least a dappered photo in a suit, maybe one among friends showing social status, one with a cute girl to demonstrate high value, maybe fun photos showing you travel. I believe there is a thread that goes into this, which even suggests taking professional photos.

As for me, I don't have any professional photos. My main photo is me in a black three piece (red tie) for a vow renewal. My second is just standard me chilling with my pitbull/boxer mix (it's one of my more photogenic photos, shows my build and girls love dogs), third is a close up of me in Stockholm with the Nordic museum in the background, one of me next to my old motorcycle, and one of a Korean girl taking a selfie but me in the background kayaking down the Mekong river (it was a way to sneak in a shirtless photo).

I'm not sure if that helps. To be honest, I don't really consider myself a very photogenic guy but I do okay on Tinder. Tinder is about really good looks and I don't fit in the top percentile so I feel like I don't have as many matches as I should. However, I still get mine because I am a dark skinned black American living in Europe. I hate to fit into a niche but most of the girls I attract are typically only attracted to non-white guys. Which is okay, because I get to hook up with sexy, white European chicks. So the way I have seen it, Location, Location, Location. Through my travels, I have hardly changed my photos but my matches spike or fall depending on my location. I wouldn't even attract 1/10 of the quality I'm getting in Europe if I lived in say, the east coast of America (regardless of having professional photos or not).

Yeah, I mean I don't have the full complement (body shot, shot with a pet, exotic location, etc.), but I have alright photos in decent lighting - in a suit, with people, etc. I don't consider myself ugly though I'm not mr. rugged & masculine. I fail on the online dating across the board. Zilch. I think online dating is about 1. race, 2. face. With real life game dying out, I just don't know what to do now.

(07-28-2015 09:27 AM)Agreddor Wrote:  Is the fake GPS app available for iPhone? Can't seem to get it working

Yes, but jailbreak first.

(07-28-2015 03:18 PM)civpro Wrote:  I wish a lot of the successful or semi-successful Tinderers on here would post their profile photos, eyes or face blacked out, so us not so successful guys could know what works and what doesn't and act accordingly. It might be too much to ask, but after all this is an entirely visual medium, so that is the only useful data/advice.

Check out this thread: http://www.rooshvforum.com/thread-45167.html

First of all, I'm not really a 'pro'. At the moment I've got 127 matches and I've reset my account about 2 weeks ago. Needless to say but this matchcount doesn't mean anything. I've been unmatched a lot because of saying the wrong things or whatever other reason. I've unmatched quite a lot myself because of "nothing will happen / didn't pay enough attention and matched some ugly bitch / she went ghost on me or the other way around / we matched but didn't say shit".

Lately have been in kind of a depression so didn't actively use Tinder and persue prospects. So actually my account is pretty useless since I'm talking to only 10-15 girls because I didn't get their number yet.

Thinking about going to clean up and get rid of the "Nope" matches and try to restart some. After that, delete account and get myself a fresh one.

Anyway, the photo's part. I do not consider myself very attractive but I'm not ugly. Girls seem to dig my hair and having a 4 or 5 day 'beard' seems to help me a lot. My photo's are, as some would say, of the worst kind. 4 pics, 3 of those are selfies! The last pic is me racing my (long gone) supersport motorcyle at a race-track. Chicks usually ask if that is really me, could have just googled some image. So despite all of the "never, ever, use selfies!" And "get yourself pro pics, a pic with a nice girl, you at a party etc." I guess selfies aren't that bad at all. Most of those chicks use a selfie as their main photo..

Don't drive yourself crazy by thinking it's all about those "guideline (pro) pics" for getting matches. It's the internet, it's online 'dating'. It's not a big deal, relatively anonymous and most important, tremendously trivial.

Just my 2 cents.

(07-28-2015 07:09 PM)civpro Wrote:  Yeah, I mean I don't have the full complement (body shot, shot with a pet, exotic location, etc.), but I have alright photos in decent lighting - in a suit, with people, etc. I don't consider myself ugly though I'm not mr. rugged & masculine. I fail on the online dating across the board. Zilch. I think online dating is about 1. race, 2. face. With real life game dying out, I just don't know what to do now.

Race is a controversial topic. I'm in a minority group that's popularly said to be loserish but I do well; here are my views:

1) Vaginas are not racist. Girls will give up their vaginas to anyone who gives them the immediacy of tingles. It's like Dante Nero of Beige Philip, who is black, says: "I am no girl's preconceived notion of a sexy dude, but they fuck me." This happens because a girl will fuck any guy who gives her the primal immediacy of tingles, even if he is not what she thinks she likes. When I bring a girl home, trust me, there is no way that while getting ready a few hours before she visualized her clownface makeup splattered all over the pillows of a bizarre-looking ethnic weirdo like me.

2) If you are not white, you will do way, way, way better in real life than on any online avenue, not because girls are racists, but because the heuristics and unconscious biases of online dating works heavily against minorities.

The brain cannot handle too much information, so it uses cognitive shortcuts. When a girl is looking over a Tinder profile, there is not much information there, so what little information is present takes on heightened importance.

When a girl's brain is scanning your pics and your paragraph of text, it is over-judging the smallest things, and jumping to conclusions about you based on the scantest evidence:

Slight double chin --> fat as fuck.
Not top 20% looks --> ugly as hell.
All selfies --> no friends.
In a club --> no job.
Boring clothes --> boring.
Gym selfie --> boring gym dude.
Not smiling --> fucked up teeth.
Ugly friends --> loser.
You're DJing --> hot DJ.
You're playing guitar --> hot musician.
Tattoos --> hot tattoo guy
Beards --> trendy + fashionable
Pets --> caring and loving

And:
Minority --> not cool.

The lack of information of an online dating profile works against you if you're a minority. Since a girl's judgement of online dating profiles relies on heuristics and cognitive shortcuts, she most likely will unfairly cast you into the loser stereotype of whichever minority you are in. This happens subconsciously, so she won't even be aware of it, and it happens even if she's a minority herself.

So:
Indian --> smelly and shy
Black --> ghetto
Latin --> poor
Asian --> shy and quiet
White --> normal, let's see the rest of his photos.

Again, it's not only white girls that jump to these negative stereotypes about you, it's also ethnic girls. So even black girls who see the profiles of black dudes think they are ghetto, and even Indian girls who see profiles of Indian guys think they are dweebs. All minorities are pushed back except for white guys, who are "normal" by default.

In person you can easily overcome any negative stereotypes of your ethnic background and be a hot, dominant, tingle-worthy dude without even saying a word, just by your vibe and your presence, your dress and mannerisms. Online? Not so much, girls have an itchy trigger finger in judging you as a loser.

If you are a mack and you happen to be in a minority, the challenge is to not let your dismal online results (dismal compared to "normal" white guys) fuck up your IRL vibe.

(07-28-2015 01:35 PM)YoungArt Wrote:  I bet this was asked here before but I wonder if you are using any specific openers online?

Asked plenty.

My line used to be:

- Whats better, a match made in heaven or a match made on Tinder?