What is your opener? Post screenshots if you can.

(07-24-2015 08:58 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  80% of my matches don't respond to my first message at all. 90% stop at the second.

What's up with that? It's almost impossible to start anything on tinder.

How do you get girls to reply to the first message and number close

Someone with more experience can chime in, but based on my experience, even here in Poland as an obvious foreigner, most of your matches will die this way, especially during the summer travel season. Here's a good example of why:

I remember going on a date with a 7 back in Atlanta who was traveling on business, obviously in her mid-30s (hey, I was starving for any sort of female attention back then and there). Met her through day game, not Tinder. At the first venue she proceeds to show me how many matches she has on Tinder. Being red-pill, I know why she did that. And if you're red-pill, now you probably know why girls are collecting but not responding to your matches with them: validation.

That being said, my current opener is a variation of one mentioned earlier on this thread: "Let me guess ..." + a tease related to one of her pictures, preferably her main one.

I'm mostly trolling the girls on Tinder at this point, at most using it to test some text game ideas.

This app continues to be complete feast or famine. After a mindblowing streak of over a dozen matches in about a week, there's been pretty much no movement this week. I'm going to try deleting my account and starting over.

I've realized how Tinder changed the profile display algorithm. Before, it was more useful in giving you the most recent at the top of the stack after a forced refresh, which was great because you could literally catch some girls in the act of swiping. Now, it displays by closest to farthest regardless of last active. It could be 0 minutes, it could be a week ago. Far less useful.

Matched with a late 30's woman. Cute but no more than about a 6. We moved to text and I was getting hints that she could be difficult. I said let's meet up for a glass of wine tonight and her reply was "Call me...you haven't passed my screening process yet"



I love it when these women save me the time and screen themselves out!

(07-24-2015 12:48 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I love it when these women save me the time and screen themselves out!

Similar thing happened to me with some Jewish girl a while ago.

When she reluctantly gave me her #, she said something to the effect of "I don't have much time for texting, so use this number wisely."

Great advice! I did just that.

(07-24-2015 01:05 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  

(07-24-2015 12:48 PM)OregonToSoCal Wrote:  I love it when these women save me the time and screen themselves out!

Similar thing happened to me with some Jewish girl a while ago.

When she reluctantly gave me her #, she said something to the effect of "I don't have much time for texting, so use this number wisely."

Great advice! I did just that.

I've had women say the same thing to me and in those situations I'm slightly more forgiving since the majority of men who hit them up on Tinder are thirsty, needy and blowing up their phone from the jump. Like anything in life it's not so much what you say but how you say it. In the case of the woman I posted about if she were to have said something like "hey, do you mind if we chat on the phone before meeting?" I would have been down for that without a second thought. But when she starts acting entitled and expecting me to jump through hoops I'll flush her number quicker than last night's dinner.

Since you've been killing it, OTSC, I probably could be a little more forgiving. It's just I am becoming ruthlessly protective of my time and trust, that I tend to next 'em if they give any whiff of attitude, particularly online. I've probably nexted some girls unfairly, and I'm okay with that... for now. Only when they're with me in person, I tend to give them more leeway since they actually came out to meet me.

When I become more experienced with women and screening out the true time wasters, I could start trusting myself to give them a little more benefit of the doubt.

(07-24-2015 02:39 PM)CleanSlate Wrote:  Since you've been killing it, OTSC, I probably could be a little more forgiving. It's just I am becoming ruthlessly protective of my time and trust, that I tend to next 'em if they give any whiff of attitude, particularly online. I've probably nexted some girls unfairly, and I'm okay with that... for now. Only when they're with me in person, I tend to give them more leeway since they actually came out to meet me.

When I become more experienced with women and screening out the true time wasters, I could start trusting myself to give them a little more benefit of the doubt.

I don't know about you but for me the second I ignore my intuition and go against my gut feeling is when I get into trouble. I've nexted girls for just the way they replied to a question over text or a their vibe in general. I'm with you 100% that our time is our most precious commodity. Bottom line, if your spidey sense is picking up a cuntish attitude your best course of action is to pull the rip cord and eject.

For some reason i think tinder has permanently limited my account, got three matches after a week. When I was first on there got like 15-20 matches per week. I think it was the months of me using auto likes, mass liker, etc. Oh well, better to game bitches in real life. Online whores are wayyyyy to entitled.

-CD

(07-24-2015 02:45 PM)coverdoc Wrote:  For some reason i think tinder has permanently limited my account, got three matches after a week. When I was first on there got like 15-20 matches per week. I think it was the months of me using auto likes, mass liker, etc. Oh well, better to game bitches in real life. Online whores are wayyyyy to entitled.

-CD

Try deleting your account and waiting a month or two. I was in your same situation and after an extended break I got back on last week and immediately got a lot of matches. It almost reminded me of the good old Tinder days.

I'm going to go through my match cue tonight and see who I can get offline. I haven't touched tinder in a while. I've mostly worked on leads offline and randomly send a couple of okc messages.

I am new to Tinder.

Are there any auto swipers that work? Or is it pretty much blocked by tinder at this point?

Hooray, I finally got on Tinder! I've been trying for 8 months but it would never accept my phone number for verification. Tried all sorts of complicated workarounds, nothing worked. Finally today I found a suggestion online to simply add an extra digit to the number. Cleared my Tinder and FB caches, typed in my number and repeated the last digit and voila!

So I'm on and finding local talent level is better than POF by far and comparable to Match. Now I need to read this whole thread.

Since this is GPS based it should be great for hitting up summer tourists.

Are Tinder girls more into quick hookups or is there no difference from other online sites?

(07-25-2015 01:14 AM)ComebackKid Wrote:  I am new to Tinder.

Are there any auto swipers that work? Or is it pretty much blocked by tinder at this point?

The fundamental rule of Tinder is not about how many profiles you can swipe at once, it's about how often you can refresh to get the most recent profiles and put yourself at the top.

Welcome to Tinder MrXY! My experience has been tinder girls are more straightforward and normal than other online girls. Most don't have giant laundry lists of what they're looking for. If you have great pics and tight text game you'll kill it on tinder. I lie about my age and shave 5 years off (43 to 38) and have done better with tinder than any other site

I am not getting laid off tinder every week but the last two lays started the same way.

The last two tinder women I've been with both got onto me and put my cock inside them. I had to get them off my and put a condom on but I had penetrated them already (or more precisely, they passive-aggressively caused my active penetration). The first one was a bit offended about my insistence on condom use and although she continued, she left rather abruptly an hour later with a sulk.

Just be careful with women who have been drinking and might be feeling broody and that depending on other factors largely out of a man's control, pre-cum male lubrication can be enough to get a woman pregnant.

How does the tinder clock work?

Does it start the count after your last swipe?

Does this mean it's more efficient to never finish all your swipes or finish them as fast as possible(so it refreshes quickly).

I notice that if I don't finish up all my swipes it refreshes quicker. I could be wrong.

Is Tinder Plus worth it? I'm not broke so money isnt that much of an issue. Are there any special benefits to Tinder Plus?

(07-26-2015 08:04 AM)Valhalla Wrote:  How does the tinder clock work?

Does it start the count after your last swipe?

Does this mean it's more efficient to never finish all your swipes or finish them as fast as possible(so it refreshes quickly).

I notice that if I don't finish up all my swipes it refreshes quicker. I could be wrong.

There is no point to using up all your swipes unless you have a really large age and distance bracket. The most important thing is to ensure that everyone you swipe has been active recently. The marginal benefit of using your last swipe on a girl who was last active 4 days ago is nil. Mass swiping for any reason is unproductive.

(07-25-2015 01:44 PM)swuglyfe Wrote:  

(07-25-2015 01:14 AM)ComebackKid Wrote:  I am new to Tinder.

Are there any auto swipers that work? Or is it pretty much blocked by tinder at this point?

The fundamental rule of Tinder is not about how many profiles you can swipe at once, it's about how often you can refresh to get the most recent profiles and put yourself at the top.

How does one 'refresh' oneself?

I want to know this too. Hard logout, force stop and clear cache?

Also, what is the best gps spoofing app for Android?

Change your search distance up one mile then back down. This will cause your profile to update and pull a new set of matches. Note that before the latest update this would pull the most recent matches, it no longer does this. It now pulls a variety of matches and sorts them by distance close to far, but they could be active hours ago and the next match 4 down could be 0 minutes ago.

Ok thanks.

It's been 24 hours and I've only gotten 4 matches but I was swiping without checking last login time so I probably wasted a bunch of swipes

What's the max last login time I should look for? 24 hours, 48 hours?

In the past I'd refresh every hour and only swipe girls that were active up to 1 hr ago. I'd compress that timeline to 15 minutes during peak times. Now, however, it's completely laissez faire, since that system is entirely out of play.

(07-26-2015 01:56 PM)swuglyfe Wrote:  Change your search distance up one mile then back down. This will cause your profile to update and pull a new set of matches. Note that before the latest update this would pull the most recent matches, it no longer does this. It now pulls a variety of matches and sorts them by distance close to far, but they could be active hours ago and the next match 4 down could be 0 minutes ago.

The 0 minutes ones always make me think that it's a sex bot. Any minute now, the message with the camgirl website could pop up.