(03-19-2014 11:59 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  speakeasy: Tell me something interesting about yourself...
girl: I work a lot...

At least she wrote more than 2 words lol

at least she spelt 'a lot' as 2 separate words

Went on Tinder date tonight. Girl is nice and all but there weren't any fireworks. A lot of awkward pauses and every time I'd start a new conversational thread, it would fizzle out quickly. Often she seemed aloof, maybe even bored. This is usually not a big problem for me but sometimes we get stuck in front of a girl we just aren't vibing with. I left the date after 2 hours with no intention of calling her again. On my way to the car she texts "I had a great time", which surprised the hell out of me.

Not sure if I should try her again for a date 2. The first one I didn't enjoy. Sometimes they get better though the next time. I can't sit through another 2 hours of awkward conversation though.

(03-20-2014 01:11 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  Went on Tinder date tonight. Girl is nice and all but there weren't any fireworks. A lot of awkward pauses and every time I'd start a new conversational thread, it would fizzle out quickly. Often she seemed aloof, maybe even bored. This is usually not a big problem for me but sometimes we get stuck in front of a girl we just aren't vibing with. I left the date after 2 hours with no intention of calling her again. On my way to the car she texts "I had a great time", which surprised the hell out of me.

Not sure if I should try her again for a date 2. The first one I didn't enjoy. Sometimes they get better though the next time. I can't sit through another 2 hours of awkward conversation though.

From my experience, these kinds of situations do NOT improve... and this does NOT sound promising, unless you add alcohol or drugs or something considerable that would change the vibe... like for example, if you realize that you both like some activity (such as dancing), and you had NOT realized it.

You must be considering the matter b/c you find that chica to be more than minimally bangable.. b/c otherwise, your description does NOT make it seem to be a good use of time and/or energies. And, also a weird sign, that she would have come to a different impression than you regarding the enjoyability of the time spent you already spent together.

(03-20-2014 01:11 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  Went on Tinder date tonight. Girl is nice and all but there weren't any fireworks. A lot of awkward pauses and every time I'd start a new conversational thread, it would fizzle out quickly. Often she seemed aloof, maybe even bored. This is usually not a big problem for me but sometimes we get stuck in front of a girl we just aren't vibing with. I left the date after 2 hours with no intention of calling her again. On my way to the car she texts "I had a great time", which surprised the hell out of me.

Not sure if I should try her again for a date 2. The first one I didn't enjoy. Sometimes they get better though the next time. I can't sit through another 2 hours of awkward conversation though.

The only thing that matters is whether she contacts you afterwards. If she's contacting you after date #1, you gave her the tingles.

Invite her to drop by for a bite at your place.

(03-20-2014 03:08 AM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(03-20-2014 01:11 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  Went on Tinder date tonight. Girl is nice and all but there weren't any fireworks. A lot of awkward pauses and every time I'd start a new conversational thread, it would fizzle out quickly. Often she seemed aloof, maybe even bored. This is usually not a big problem for me but sometimes we get stuck in front of a girl we just aren't vibing with. I left the date after 2 hours with no intention of calling her again. On my way to the car she texts "I had a great time", which surprised the hell out of me.

Not sure if I should try her again for a date 2. The first one I didn't enjoy. Sometimes they get better though the next time. I can't sit through another 2 hours of awkward conversation though.

From my experience, these kinds of situations do NOT improve... and this does NOT sound promising, unless you add alcohol or drugs or something considerable that would change the vibe... like for example, if you realize that you both like some activity (such as dancing), and you had NOT realized it.

You must be considering the matter b/c you find that chica to be more than minimally bangable.. b/c otherwise, your description does NOT make it seem to be a good use of time and/or energies. And, also a weird sign, that she would have come to a different impression than you regarding the enjoyability of the time spent you already spent together.

Yeah, the girl is definitely bangable.

(03-20-2014 01:11 AM)speakeasy Wrote:  Went on Tinder date tonight. Girl is nice and all but there weren't any fireworks. A lot of awkward pauses and every time I'd start a new conversational thread, it would fizzle out quickly. Often she seemed aloof, maybe even bored. This is usually not a big problem for me but sometimes we get stuck in front of a girl we just aren't vibing with. I left the date after 2 hours with no intention of calling her again. On my way to the car she texts "I had a great time", which surprised the hell out of me.

Not sure if I should try her again for a date 2. The first one I didn't enjoy. Sometimes they get better though the next time. I can't sit through another 2 hours of awkward conversation though.

1st date jitters? She was extremely shy or overcome?

This past week I've seen a couple of girls on Tinder listed as being age 17.

I figured Tinder was an 18+ app.

Wondering if this is a glitch, legit or undercover cops

Anyone else see anything like this?

I'm doing an interesting experiment right now. I'm using Tinder as reconnaissance tool to see what destinations I would get the best reception. We all know that in the game, location is half the battle, if not most the battle. Being in a place where there are a good number of women that are into guys of your look and race.

So I'm using the Bluestacks Android emulator for Windows to do this. I've also downloaded a fake GPS app and made a dummy Tinder account with 5 decent photos uploaded showing me doing different things. My experiment will be for each city click yes on the first 1000 females from 18-45. Doesn't matter the age or what they look like. I tried to find an automator script to do it but couldn't find one. So I just manually clicked yes rapid-fire with my mouse button. Took about 10-15 minutes or so to click yes on a thousand random women. I'll let it sit for a few days and see how many mutual likes I get. I also know that Tinder front loads whoever likes you, so I'll run through a few more clicks at the end of the experiment to see what random girls liked me first. I'll also record what girls messaged me first and what their age, race and quality was. I'll do this for a number of international cities and see if my results vary widely by location. Should be interesting! My first location is Mexico City. Next will be Monterrey Mexico then I'd like try Rio and Sao Paolo and some other Latin cities. Then I'll try different places in Europe. At the end of this experiment which could take a month or more, I'll have a good idea where I should go for my next vacation.

edit --

This probably isn't the most reliable method but it will give me a rough idea what I'm dealing with. Part of the problem with Tinder is that it's hard to know whether you're not hearing back from attractive girls because they aren't interested or because they are just so inundated with matches and messages that they simply never got to you.

TROLLOLZzzZOLZZZOLZ

(03-05-2014 07:46 PM)MrRoundtree Wrote:  I never had gotten laid of Tinder I had something like 100 matches in a month, I was pretty busy so only had 3 dates organised, only one will turn into second date, with the prettiest girl at least.

1. The get laid on first date trick never really worked as girls are driving most of the time to get close to where I live...and if they want to get more than one drink, they start drinking a little less because they know they have to drive back. The girls were working early next day though..
(BTW this trick did work but not from girls I met on Tinder..)

2. I get a lot of numbers easily, but i've actually managed only 3 girls that lived close enough and that had a similar work schedule as mine (for some reason I get matched with a lot of nurses but they are always working on weekend or night shifts which makes encounters super hard...). Other matches lived on south shore of Montreal and driving is always a chore (more than 20 minutes drive is a no-no for me during the week)

3. All girl I matched still live with their parents...back to point 1, need more than a date to make them feel comfortable to come to my place.

I had similar situation where girls came date by car. And they couldnt drink because of that. How do you solve this

Couple of emerging trends that I'm seeing:



Fatties now know about and use Tinder. This week, for the first time since I've been using the app, I had to swipe No more often than Yes. For a long time most of the girls were of high quality. Now it's going mainstream and I'm seeing more regular (fat) girls.

On the flipside, with Tinder seemingly becoming more mainstream, I'm getting more meetups/hookups. Before it was mostly just a game and an ego booster for girls. But now with Tinder entering the mainstream, more and more girls are open to meetups.

^ punish those bishes like this:

been on about a week. have a date Saturday and another Sunday.

the way these bitches play around can be quite annoying. hahahaha.. ahhh, the shit we deal with when it comes to women.

so vexing when they act a though the pussy isn't ready to be fuck.. why........

It starts from 13 onwards, but the 13-17 are seperate from the main pick. Could just be a glitch.

Can anyone explain why hot girls always discover trends first and the fatties follow after? Need a theory

(03-22-2014 01:59 AM)Abnormal Wrote:  ^ punish those bishes like this:

Amazing- this post tells the true Tinder story. End thread.

(03-22-2014 01:59 AM)Abnormal Wrote:  ^ punish those bishes like this:

Ha ha

I got a good chuckle

A lot of these chicks on Tinder couldn't carry a convo to save their life and expect you to be the dancing monkey. It's truly distributing how the millennial generation has no social savvy whatsoever the younger the more apparent especially in person

(03-22-2014 07:58 AM)Que enspastic Wrote:  Can anyone explain why hot girls always discover trends first and the fatties follow after? Need a theory

Hypothesis: Omitted variable bias. Intelligence and looks are probably correlated.

Tinder exploded today, had about 30 matches without doing anything special. A lot in the older age category though (aka 28-35).

After a short convo I've said to this girls "You seem legit to meet in real life, what's your number", she replied with "tell me something witty first" and then...



I have failed tinder.

I'm surprised many of you are taking these girls on actual dates. Most girls see this as a hookup app not a dating app. I just get their number and meet them out at bars/clubs like it "just happened" we were both in the same area. Banged another girl last night doing this.

(03-22-2014 11:02 AM)Thesoloist Wrote:  

(03-22-2014 01:59 AM)Abnormal Wrote:  ^ punish those bishes like this:

Ha ha

I got a good chuckle

A lot of these chicks on Tinder couldn't carry a convo to save their life and expect you to be the dancing monkey. It's truly distributing how the millennial generation has no social savvy whatsoever the younger the more apparent especially in person

Surely, each of us has our own decisions about how far we will go to make a point (or to punish someone who we perceive to have slighted us), and personally, I would NOT sink to such crudeness in dealing with anyone (even a fatty) - unless the girl provoked me in some way or gave me some reason to get back at her. For example, if I was burdened in some way b/c we met in person and she ended up being a SIF, then I may communicate a message similar to Abnormal's message. if she is a SIF, and it is merely a 10% misrepresentation, I may NOT be greatly irritated, and my level of irritation is a judgement call that in part may depend upon how much I was burdened by the whole situation.

On the other hand, if the fatty is straight up and straight forward, and NOT misrepresenting the fact that she is a fatty, then I have NO hatred for those kinds of girls - and it remains my belief that those kinds of girls are playing whatever cards that they have (even if they have been eating too many donuts... watching too many soap-operas and NOT getting enough exercise.. hehehe... ).

IN other words, I have to be slighted and/or burdened in some way first, before I lash out at anyone, and the mere fact that some girl is fuggly or fat or miscalculating her DHV, would NOT be sufficient to irritate me in order to cause me to be cruel to her.

(03-22-2014 03:11 PM)JayJuanGee Wrote:  

(03-22-2014 11:02 AM)Thesoloist Wrote:  

(03-22-2014 01:59 AM)Abnormal Wrote:  ^ punish those bishes like this:

Ha ha

I got a good chuckle

A lot of these chicks on Tinder couldn't carry a convo to save their life and expect you to be the dancing monkey. It's truly distributing how the millennial generation has no social savvy whatsoever the younger the more apparent especially in person

Surely, each of us has our own decisions about how far we will go to make a point (or to punish someone who we perceive to have slighted us), and personally, I would NOT sink to such crudeness in dealing with anyone (even a fatty) - unless the girl provoked me in some way or gave me some reason to get back at her. For example, if I was burdened in some way b/c we met in person and she ended up being a SIF, then I may communicate a message similar to Abnormal's message. if she is a SIF, and it is merely a 10% misrepresentation, I may NOT be greatly irritated, and my level of irritation is a judgement call that in part may depend upon how much I was burdened by the whole situation.

On the other hand, if the fatty is straight up and straight forward, and NOT misrepresenting the fact that she is a fatty, then I have NO hatred for those kinds of girls - and it remains my belief that those kinds of girls are playing whatever cards that they have (even if they have been eating too many donuts... watching too many soap-operas and NOT getting enough exercise.. hehehe... ).

IN other words, I have to be slighted and/or burdened in some way first, before I lash out at anyone, and the mere fact that some girl is fuggly or fat or miscalculating her DHV, would NOT be sufficient to irritate me in order to cause me to be cruel to her.

JJG, valid points! I wouldn't do that cruel stuff myself, it's just a pic I took off some "no hope for humanity"-like group on facebook.

I do find it extremely hilarious,though!

(03-22-2014 01:20 PM)Rootless Wrote:  After a short convo I've said to this girls "You seem legit to meet in real life, what's your number", she replied with "tell me something witty first" and then...

You should have typed "something witty first".

casio Wrote:Tinder exploded today, had about 30 matches without doing anything special. A lot in the older age category though (aka 28-35).

I'm curious, where would you place your looks, average, above average or modelesque? What part of the world do you reside?

I just did the first part of my experiment above where I put up a fake profile in another city and clicked on yes on 2000 women. Yes 2000 women. Responses? 3 messages from mediocre girls and about 20 mutual likes from girls who were mostly mediocre at best. And I'm not even a bad looking guy. Race is a factor for me certainly. But still. When I hear guys getting 30 matches with no effort, they must be models or live in a country with a severe shortage of men.