Tinder game on Heartiste.

I think with tinder its a matter of just having a few good lines that progress towards a number and the idea you will hang out in the near future.

I have been using the EXACT same dialogue and am consistently getting numbers/fb details in over 70% of my matches. I use it so much my phone starts trying to auto complete each sentence haha.

+1 from Tinder last night. Props to Dagonet for the opener and DeliciousTacos for the follow-up.

Blurred face because it shows up on image search, not because I am embarassed.

   
   
   

I don't know if it's a direct result of the warmer weather (I'm in the NYC/LI area), but Tinder has been blowing up for me. I've been getting a larger percentage of matches and replies to my messages the last few days. One chick even sent me her number unprovoked. Has anyone else been experiencing this trend?

(03-12-2014 06:55 PM)Player_1337 Wrote:  I don't know if it's a direct result of the warmer weather (I'm in the NYC/LI area), but Tinder has been blowing up for me. I've been getting a larger percentage of matches and replies to my messages the last few days. One chick even sent me her number unprovoked. Has anyone else been experiencing this trend?

Spring Thaw, I went from maybe 2 weeks where no one would pop up to every right i'm swiping becoming a match.

Agreed about the weather analysis, I got 10-12 matches a week pre-valentines, not I can get that in a night.


Turns out Thursday worked out best for both of us...

   
   

Haha @Nolecbo it's great seeing your avatar with this text thread

I used the line "do you have a few minutes to talk about jesus? You look possesed" for shits and giggles.

Her: hmm I've been told I make a pretty sexy demon.

Me: looks like you need an angel by your side though which means it's your lucky day. I've been told I look heavenly.

Her: laughing so hard right now. You're funny.

Me: Thanks. Number?

Her: gives number.

set up date for next week. It's a stupid line but I managed to pull a few more numbers and dates with it

(03-15-2014 11:41 PM)redbeard Wrote:  Haha @Nolecbo it's great seeing your avatar with this text thread

Thanks man! I try to live what you said on another thread - "One of the worst things about guys these days is that they equate attention as the reward from women, instead of sex being the reward."

My tinder meetup last night was a bust, so this one stays up another day.

(03-16-2014 11:05 AM)Nolecbo Wrote:  

(03-15-2014 11:41 PM)redbeard Wrote:  Haha @Nolecbo it's great seeing your avatar with this text thread

Thanks man! I try to live what you said on another thread - "One of the worst things about guys these days is that they equate attention as the reward from women, instead of sex being the reward."

My tinder meetup last night was a bust, so this one stays up another day.

Hey thanks that means a lot. I've only been around the forum a few months and it's good to see I'm getting heard.

But really it's true. I have friends all the time who try to brag about all the numbers they got or the girls they're texting or stupid petty shit like getting coffee with chicks. It doesn't matter. What matters at the end of the day is if you're fucking her or if someone else is.

(03-16-2014 12:20 PM)redbeard Wrote:  

(03-16-2014 11:05 AM)Nolecbo Wrote:  

(03-15-2014 11:41 PM)redbeard Wrote:  Haha @Nolecbo it's great seeing your avatar with this text thread

Thanks man! I try to live what you said on another thread - "One of the worst things about guys these days is that they equate attention as the reward from women, instead of sex being the reward."

My tinder meetup last night was a bust, so this one stays up another day.

Hey thanks that means a lot. I've only been around the forum a few months and it's good to see I'm getting heard.

But really it's true. I have friends all the time who try to brag about all the numbers they got or the girls they're texting or stupid petty shit like getting coffee with chicks. It doesn't matter. What matters at the end of the day is if you're fucking her or if someone else is.

Each of us is entitled to his opinion.

I DON'T subscribe to some narrow view of my own world that all that matters is whether a guy is fucking various girls as my only set of values. There are many enjoyable and/or necessary activities in the world besides fucking... believe it or NOT.... We each have various opinions about this, and frequently our opinions will vary based on our own circumstances and attributes that we may bring to bear.

IN this regard, there are a variety of factors, and the circumstances of guys are NOT equal. Some guys could fuck nearly any girl that he wants, without game or strategy b/c he has certain attributes, such as cash and looks and social circle, and other guys have to employ a lot of game just to get girls to acknowledge that he exists.

Ultimately, I try NOT to be judgmental of others b/c some circumstances are beyond the control of the guy.

My measurement is what I want for myself and how I want to approach any given matter and how much time I want to spend to game in any given situation. To the extent that I am judging of others though, I would likely applaud the ugly as fuck and financially strapped guy who is banging the 7 rather than applauding the handsome rich kid who is banging the 8.5....

Ive been meaning to post this for a while but so busy with work. Anyways ive been on tinder for about 3 weeks or so. Prolly right swiped on about 200 chicks and got 90 matches. Lots of hotties im quite picky which is usually my down fall. Anyways out of those 90 i prolly hit up about 20. Around 14 responded which i gamed and asked about 10 for their numbers which i probably got about 7. Theres some weird chicks on there, one messaged me saying i was cute but in her bio said "dont ask for my number i dont give it out" haha like wtf?

Anyways i havnt chilled with any because of work, i work afternoons which is liek the worst time but theres about 3 chicks that i could bang for sure if i drive to them. One chick was gonna come here but we kept floping on each other. Ive been lazy lately and basically just pipelining for my trip to California. All these chicks are rly flirty, borderline sexting so i can usually tell if theyd be down. For me it doesnt rly matter what opener u use, u can just say "hey" and if chick thinks your good looking shell respond. Like others have said tinder is about 90% pictures, just dont fuck it up after that! I do go for the younger chicks 18-22 so probably a bit harder. Lots of these chicks are addicted to insta, twitter, tumblr, snapchat so u really have to keep theyre attention.

All in all tinder is good, definatly hotter then typical online gaming (which i never use due to the uglies), and hot young chicks. But it seems like u rly have to chill asap. As in a couple days-week after first contact. If u loaft then the chances of them chilling will go down. Got to strike while the lust is high so to speak. Ive learned this with a couple chicks that were all over me then went radio silence after a week or so.

@JayJuanGee I definitely agree and understand where you're coming from, but the context of the guys I'm talking about are thirsty guys who are trying to get laid. If you're trying to bang a girl, and it flairs out after a number close, it was a bust. That's it.

However, if you're just trying to improve social circle, make some new friends, or increase your network, then hell do whatever you want with the number. But I've seen far too many guys who try to get laid, chat up a girl, get a number, and then spend months being strung out by texts, snapchats, small dates/interactions, and get nothing in return. And that's what I'm specifically talking about here.

"Ultimately, I try NOT to be judgmental of others b/c some circumstances are beyond the control of the guy."

Okay, I see what you're saying, but when these are my close friends who are not getting laid at all, I'm going to try to help them. And sometimes my friends are so used to defeat that any shred of attention from a girl will give them a bump of satisfaction that will keep them content in their sexless lives. And that's what I'm trying to talk about. Game-aware guys like yourself have the power to choose the outcomes of interactions, these guys don't.

Anyways this is a thread about Tinder. If any of y'all wanna discuss this with me, shoot me a PM.

I stayed with my friend in another city this weekend with higher quality women than where I live. I matched 20/20 girls after 24 hours and sent them all a spam message inviting them to a party at his place but none showed. Maybe too direct but I'll be hitting this app hard when I move to a bigger city in July.

Question, if you start seeing a girl on there and then she starts checking to see if you're still active on there by looking at your last login time, can you stop that by blocking her? I take it that if you block a girl, she can no longer see your profile even if you have messages back and forth. And if she asks if you blocked her you can say that you deleted your profile and still be able to game girls on there without her knowing what you're doing. Would this work on the Tinder system?

(03-16-2014 06:08 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  Question, if you start seeing a girl on there and then she starts checking to see if you're still active on there by looking at your last login time, can you stop that by blocking her? I take it that if you block a girl, she can no longer see your profile even if you have messages back and forth. And if she asks if you blocked her you can say that you deleted your profile and still be able to game girls on there without her knowing what you're doing. Would this work on the Tinder system?

It works, I've done this before. Actually I didn't wait for the girl to question me, I just mentioned in passing, "I got bored of Tinder, just deleted it." Just be careful she doesn't see the app icon still on your phone when you're out with her. I've put it under a group of apps on my iPhone. I also don't want to be at a meeting or lunch with people at work, and put my phone on the table with the Tinder icon appearing there.

^ Also be aware that girls will usually join Tinder with their friends, I've had groups of girls I know all pop up one after the other because they must've all signed up at the same time. So if you match with one of her friends she might let it slip.

Does anyone have the tinder auto liker app?

(03-16-2014 02:51 PM)redbeard Wrote:  @JayJuanGee I definitely agree and understand where you're coming from, but the context of the guys I'm talking about are thirsty guys who are trying to get laid. If you're trying to bang a girl, and it flairs out after a number close, it was a bust. That's it.

However, if you're just trying to improve social circle, make some new friends, or increase your network, then hell do whatever you want with the number. But I've seen far too many guys who try to get laid, chat up a girl, get a number, and then spend months being strung out by texts, snapchats, small dates/interactions, and get nothing in return. And that's what I'm specifically talking about here.

Yes, I figured that there was more context, and your explanation does help my perspective regarding your earlier comments.

(03-16-2014 02:51 PM)redbeard Wrote:  "Ultimately, I try NOT to be judgmental of others b/c some circumstances are beyond the control of the guy."

Okay, I see what you're saying, but when these are my close friends who are not getting laid at all, I'm going to try to help them. And sometimes my friends are so used to defeat that any shred of attention from a girl will give them a bump of satisfaction that will keep them content in their sexless lives. And that's what I'm trying to talk about.

Yes. Sometimes guys may be receptive to your input, and other times, they may go along fumbling b/c either they are NOT ready or able to accept your input. Sometimes, guys may NOT be in the right state of mind for self-improvement.

Your description of these guys reminds me of a recent situation with my female cousin, who has been temporarily staying in my place for nearly a week. She came to California to make it big, and she told me that she had a job interview at a film production company. She said that she was a little bit confused b/c they were asking her about her money situation. Also, she told me that she did NOT feel badly about going to the interview in jeans b/c everyone else in that interview was dressed casually. I tried to drop her a few hints about LA in that people care about looks and money here, and that you gotta be prepared for that. Right from the start, I could tell that she had her own narrative, and she was NOT too receptive to my comments. Accordingly, I left the subject for her to figure out b/c she was NOT ready, willing or able to accept my input.... even though I have been in LA for more than 13 years, and she is more or less fresh off the boat.

(03-16-2014 02:51 PM)redbeard Wrote:  Game-aware guys like yourself have the power to choose the outcomes of interactions, these guys don't.

I continue to fuck up quite a bit, but I have learned quite a few angles, strategies and even considerations of my own game and self through this forum. I have also had some guys, in this forum, suggest that I try things that I considered were beyond my willingness, and I even learned from that, to consider to what lengths I would be willing go to achieve various objectives (including whether I should go for the bang within a certain scenario) and what are my priorities.

Glad we're seeing eye to eye.



The situation with your cousin sucks, but yes, sometimes people need to learn from failure.

I met a SIF that had a bunch of pics that must have been 5 or more years old, after we went out she texted I'm sorry if you don't like the way I look... wtf

I heard Tinder spams your contacts? I want to download it but not if its going to tell everyone on my contacts that I have a tinder.

I also don't have a facebook account

(03-11-2014 04:20 AM)mbare Wrote:  Rootless,

Yes, that's a beta thing to say. Never ask. Tell them what to do/take the lead.

"Hey what up, so drinks Tuesday (xxx place) at 8...lmk"

This is golden, I've tried it several time and it's great.
Thanks.

(02-15-2014 11:54 PM)speakeasy Wrote:  Pretty good study that was done with Tinder. They made fake profiles and wrote a script that automated the process of right-swiping girls. They used both white and Asian photos, some of the guys models. What they found is that even the male models had pretty low conversion ratios:

http://www.puavault.net/pua/blogvote.cfm?entryid=11919

Don't feel too bad if you aren't killing it on Tinder. A cute girl on there still gets like 10x as much attention as a male model. Just like any dating site, women are simply swamped with attention and wouldn't have the time to date all the guys hitting them even if they wanted to. Just another seller's market. They have the concrete numbers to show for it.

"Yes, Tinder is racist."

I just learned this the hard way. Got matched with a 8.5 and her bio said she liked cooking. We hit it off and she says she will cook for me. She mentions hummus and I tell her I make it really well because I'm arab. Complete radio silence after that.

Honestly, my name is pretty arab but I look white/jewish. I should of known better. She's from georgia.

Also, I go to a school with a really attractive student population. Im not muscular but most guys here are, most of my value comes from my stories/personality. I extended my range which got me to pick up a small school in georgia. Untapped goldmine.

speakeasy: Tell me something interesting about yourself...
girl: I work a lot...